Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW. Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.

Using Erotic Jealousy as a Powerful Tool in Sex, Trust, & Intimacy featuring Coach Ally Iseman 08/14/2026

Using Erotic Jealousy as a Powerful Tool in Sex, Trust, & Intimacy featuring Coach Ally Iseman Season 6, Episode 774: Using Erotic Jealousy, and Jealousy, as a Powerful Tool in Sex, Trust, and Intimacy, Featuring Coach Ally Iseman. Did you know that although jealousy is touted as bad by our culture, and in truth it feels bad, it's just information, and can be used as a tool to improve relationships, trust, intimacy, and even give people ways to role play in their sex lives? It's true! Jealousy can be beneficial! Also, learn the differences between jealousy and envy, plus the types of jealousy. Stay tuned to find out more from this week's podcast guest Ally Iseman! Bio: Ally Iseman, CRC is an award-winning creator, author, internationally Certified Relationship Coach and NCSF-registered Kink Aware Professional who specializes in modern relationship design, unlocking erotic jealousy, and consent and communication. She speaks on stages and screens of all sizes, and is a featured culture commentator and subject matter expert who has been featured in The New York Times, LADbible, Cosmopolitan, AskMen, and more. Ally works with couples and individuals all over the world who are at transition points in their dating and relation-trips. Whether they want to open their relationship to include more people, explore play parties together, or just open up more authentically to each other about their kinks and curiosities, Ally helps them open up without breaking up. She is based in Los Angeles and London. Passport2Pleasure.com: Instagram: Take the Jealousy Quiz From the podcast host, Ruan Willow: Ruan's books and audiobooks (affiliate links are in this post): Shameless Summit, Season 3: Neighborhood Secrets: Wicked & Spicy Tales: Four short stories of erotic paranormal magic and erotic horror, eerie Twilight Zone-ish... not your typical Ruan Willow book as these stories are mystical, devious, and explore the darker side. These stories are not HEA, but instead are wicked and spicy. Audiobook: in Ebook and paperback: Hotwife book: An alternative lifestyle book of wife sharing called Servicing the Dryer Repairman, Laney Gives a Tip Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Newsletters /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/42414750

Head in the Woods, The Strangers Hookup 08/12/2026

Head in the Woods, The Strangers Hookup Season 6, Episode 773: Replay to get the video version of this episode on Podcast apps. Head in the Woods, Forest Magic, The Strangers Hookup, an erotic romance fiction short story for entertainment, erotic arts purposes, celebrating and enjoying sexuality, and relationships, plus taking self care time. Take it baby, it's yours! Make sure you come today! The story in a nutshell: A common male fantasy of primal horny sex in the woods, complete with a surprise hookup with a female cock worshiping partner. Logan gets his ultimate fantasy of bumping into a sexy stranger, Meredith, in the woods who is an athletic friendly woman who loves sex. He is elated when she comes on to him. She steps up her game even more when she drops to the forest floor for some sensual cock worshipping. All this hotness explodes before they both launch into juicy big O's from their spicy spontaneous union. How does this stranger meetup start? Meredith has spent the afternoon playing tennis and was walking home on the walking path. She spied something in the woods--someone moving in an odd way. She entered the forest with trepidation, but her curiosity propelled her on and came upon Logan. They met face to face and found each other intriguing. They decide to hike together. Things turn spicy when Meredith's libido erupts, and she gets bold. Ruan's books and audiobooks (affiliate links are in this post): Shamelss Summit, Season 3: Neighborhood Secrets: Wicked & Spicy Tales: Four short stories of erotic paranormal magic and erotic horror, eerie Twilight Zone-ish... not your typical Ruan Willow book as these stories are mystical, devious, and explore the darker side. These stories are not HEA, but instead are wicked and spicy. Audiobook: in Ebook and paperback: Hotwife book: An alternative lifestyle book of wife sharing called Servicing the Dryer Repairman, Laney Gives a Tip Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Newsletters /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/42414610

Sex Tech: A Comfortable Cock Ring for Better Erections, Sex, and Orgasms 08/07/2026

Sex Tech: A Comfortable Cock Ring for Better Erections, Sex, and Orgasms Season 6, Episode 772: Replay of this interview to get the episode published to podcast apps in video form to improve listener satisfation. Sex Tech: A Comfortable Cock Ring that Helps Men Have Better Erections, Sex, & Orgasms with Dr. Elliot Justin. Can you imagine a cock ring that will not only help you maintain an erection, but will feel comfortable, give you better orgasms, and collect helpful information about your erections so doctors can help you have better sexual health and better overall health? It's not a pipe dream! It's real! And it already exists! I chatted with the CEO & Founder of FirmTech, Dr. Elliot Justin, MD, FACEP, and found out the amazing product his company has created that will not only improve men's quality of life (by paying full attention to their sexual health and not disregarding it) but also has the potential to improve their overall health. How? Men have about three erections during the night. How would you know? You are asleep. You can't! Unless you wake up. But this product can measure it for you and tell you after the fact. Other than for curiosity, Why is that important? Because it can point to other health problems, could help a doctor titrate a dosage for the optimal level for sexual and physical health, plus, help a person learn about their body and how to make the most of the penis (& body) they've got. It can also assess erection health during sex, meanwhile also keeping more blood in the penis (comfortably, not like stiff cock rings), and therefore lead to not only longer lasting erections, but also more intense, and heightened orgasms. They are also developing a similar product for women to assess nighttime/& during sex clitoral erections and collect helpful guiding data for women to have better overall health & sexual health/orgasms. This is epic and brilliant! This is basically a sex toy that also collects beneficial data about your own body for better sex and better health. App too... search FirmTech. Also, use it or lose it! Frequent masturbation & orgasms are essential for better sex and orgasms. I say this all the time on my podcast! Don't forget to come today! Learn more: Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 RUAN'S recent BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: (affiliate links, may receive small commission on sales): Ruan's Books/Audiobooks Newsletters Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 FREE Trial!Audible free trial (affiliate) Get 3 months Audible for $0.99 (affiliate link) Copyright 2023, 2026, Pink Infinity Publishing, All Rights Reserved/ /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/42331340

Spring Break & Stranded with Her BFF's Brothers, Plus 6 Men, On the Court, Multiple Partners Excerpt 08/05/2026

The Empowerment of Sensual Intimate Erotic Massage 07/31/2026

The Empowerment of Sensual Intimate Erotic Massage Season 6, Episode 770: A replay of this conversation is being published to get the video version onto podcast apps for a more genuine expereince for listeners and watchers. In this tantalizing episode, Ruan welcomes sex coach extraordinaire Lee Jagger, CEO and founder of Rock the Bedroom. Lee has transformed the lives of thousands of women by empowering them with her signature erotic massage techniques, helping them to forge deeper connections with their partners and ignite confidence in the bedroom. Preorder Ruan Willow's new dark romance novel Spring Break & Stranded at a Cabin with 7 Chosen Men, a Why Choose romance, a dark romance, new adult: Episode summary: Lee and Ruan explore the misconceptions surrounding erotic massage, revealing that it's so much more than a mere hand job. It's a journey of slow, sensual exploration that can include the entire body, with over 69 techniques that a man simply can't perform on himself. Lee shares her personal story of transformation from being homeless to becoming a beacon of sensual empowerment for women everywhere. The discussion delves into the importance of playtime (not just foreplay), the art of communication, and the power of treating your partner like royalty. Lee emphasizes that when it comes to touching, men crave the sensation of being desired, and she challenges women to touch their partners like they love it, transforming obligatory acts into moments of genuine pleasure. Lee also shares valuable insights on how these techniques can enhance sexual experiences for men with erection challenges, offering alternatives to intercourse that still provide deep satisfaction. And for the singles out there, Lee discusses how these skills can boost confidence in the dating world, attracting partners who will cherish and respect them. Don't miss this episode that's as informative as it is steamy, it could save your relationship. Lee Jagger's advice is life changing. Website: Podcast: IG: YouTube: Episode topics The journey from homelessness to empowering women in the bedroom Understanding the true essence of erotic massage The power of confidence in the bedroom and its ripple effect on relationships Is that why you became a sex coach for women? Lee: When I started erotic massage, my boyfriend couldn't even get an erection Our sex ed in America is so focused on reproduction and ignores pleasure, intimacy, female anatomy, and enthusiastic consent The importance of intimacy and connection beyond intercourse Addressing the challenges of single women and the importance of self-worth in dating Communication in the bedroom Importance of touching your partner with genuine desire and love Prefer the term playtime over foreplay Women often assume that flaccid penis doesn't do anything One thing men really wish that women knew about touching a man's body When you have control in the bedroom, you have the best sex Ruan's books: Lacey Cross Hotwife books, narrated by podcast host and narrrator Ruan Willow: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Neighborhood Secrets (discreet title cover version): Newsletters /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/42271205

MMF Threesome, Her Body Worship and His Reclaim, an Erotic Improv Experience 07/28/2026

MMF Threesome, Her Body Worship and His Reclaim, an Erotic Improv Experience Season 6, Episode 769: replay in video version. MMF Threesome Her Body Worship and His Reclaim Erotic Scene, an erotic improv experience created for you by Ruan as she spun the story right off the top of her head as she recorded. Very little editing happened afterwards, this is basically raw right off the top of her head, spinning a tale, a sexy fantasy live as she recorded. This scene is about a married couple named Molly and Brad who want to expand their marriage to include a threesome, with their very willing friend Greg. It's very planned out and they enjoy enacting out their plans, which involve body worshipping Molly and bringing her to multiple orgasms before they enjoy theirs, then Brad reclaims Molly in a scene of domination and submission they both agreed to beforehand. Who said planning isn't fun? They've never done this! They had a blast and allowed for spontaneity in the sexual foray into multiple partner sex. Being sexually spoiled is pure bliss! They are devoted as ever as they know that they are committed to one another, and one another's pleasure. Mutual pleasure is mutual bliss! Enjoy the spicy romance! RUAN'S BOOKS/AUDIOBOOKS: Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Buy links (affiliate links, podcast may receive a small commission on sales): Audible free trial (affiliate) Get 3 months Audible for $0.99 (affiliate link) Decadent Erotica: The Limo Sex Challenge novella book 5 of 6, get it on Amazon Kindle Unlimited: Ruan's Books, Audiobooks: The Hide and Seek Sex Challenge Listen to my podcast on the Full Swap Radio Network app and online, airing approximately 6 pm CST on Tuesdays, and 8:00 am Wednesdays. Catch my podcast on tv! The PodNation Media channel on Roku TV/Fire TV devices. The podcast is also on the Full Swap Radio internet radio station and app Tuesdays at 6 pm and Wednesdays at 8 am CST. On YouTube as Ruan Willow Podcaster (no fiction stories there, however, just interviews. The spicy fiction is not allowed so get those on podcast apps). Newsletters All Ruan's links: Copyright 2023, 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing, All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/42243935

Monday Jones, A Dominant BDSM Shamanatrix, Sex Goddess & Worker, Holistic Somatic Practitioner, Coach, Writer and the Culture of Sexual Health 07/22/2026

The Art of Intimate Connection: Beyond Physical Touch to Transform Intimate Relationships with Coach Jake 07/17/2026

The Art of Intimate Connection: Beyond Physical Touch to Transform Intimate Relationships with Coach Jake Season 5, Episode 767. Replay to get the video version of this discussion on podcast apps. The Art of Intimate Connection: Beyond Physical Touch with Jake (Jakub Tyl) #relationshipcoach #relationship #intimacy #intimacycoach #intimacyinsights Discover how synchronized breathing and emotional presence can transform intimate relationships in ways you never imagined. In this fascinating episode, professional bodyworker Jake shares his unique perspective on the intersection of touch, emotion, and healing, particularly in women's experiences. Through his four years of specialized practice in erotic, tantric, and BDSM massage, Jake reveals how authentic intimacy transcends technical expertise. He emphasizes that true connection happens when partners are fully present and attuned to each other's emotional states. Key highlights: - The transformative power of therapeutic touch - How body awareness leads to better relationship choices - Breaking through emotional barriers from past relationships - The importance of presence and trust in intimate connections - Using synchronized breathing to deepen emotional bonds Ready to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy and emotional connection? Listen to this eye-opening episode that challenges conventional wisdom about relationships and personal growth. Tune in now to explore how deep emotional presence can transform your approach to intimacy and relationships. Find out more about Jake: dotekerota dot com backslash hole On Instagram @dotek.erota Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introduction to Jake's Unique Profession 00:02:06 - Understanding Female Sexuality and Connection 00:10:21 - Connecting with Your Body and Emotions 00:24:38 - Challenges of Intimacy in Relationships 00:26:58 - Emotional Connection in Intimacy 00:52:28 - Understanding Touch and Connection 00:58:14 - Overcoming Intimacy Expectations 01:03:55 - Intimacy Beyond Technique 01:14:26 - Enjoying the Present Moment in Intimacy 01:18:02 - Understanding Sensual BDSM Dynamics 01:22:52 - Balancing Aggression and Tenderness in BDSM 01:25:27 - Building Trust in Dominance 01:32:08 - Embracing Dominance and Learning Key Takeaways: • The emphasis on synchronized breathing as a tool for fostering deeper intimacy is often overlooked in traditional relationship discussions. • Jake highlights that emotional breakthroughs through intimacy can redefine women's boundaries and desires, showcasing a transformative aspect of touch. • The podcast advocates for emotional engagement over mechanical techniques, suggesting that true connection requires presence and trust rather than just physical actions. Sexual health is a part of mental health, don't ignore it. From the Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Ruan's latest erotic storytelling, dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views": Shop Podcast Merchandise! Universal link to Beach House Views: Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Ryze coffee use code podna15 to get 15% OFF at (affiliate) Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with affiliate code ruan15 Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing, All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/42066270

Hooking Up with the Horny Gamer Next Door Fiction Short Story by Ruan Willow 07/14/2026

Living the Kink Life and Writing It with All These Roadworks 07/10/2026

Living the Kink Life and Writing It with All These Roadworks Season 6, Episode 765: Living the Kink Life and Writing It with Author All These Roadworks, Audio version. Discussion Topics: Discovering Kink Later in Life Fantasy vs Reality in BDSM Dynamics Consent and Safety in Dark Fantasy Exploration Understanding Kink Beyond Surface-Level Fantasies Breaking Shame: Kink, Consent, and Sexual Education Fiction Isn't Responsible to Reality Fiction as Safe Space for Processing Media Responsibility and Consensual Adult Desires Confidence and Communication in Relationships Age Brings Acceptance of Different Desires Understanding Kinks and Writing Submissive Characters Navigating Kink Clubs and Community Spaces Benefits and Safety of Kink Clubs Are Kinks Born or Developed? Why Rope Isn't For Me Finding Resources and Where to Find My Work Learn more about the author All These Roadworks: Key Takeaways: • Fantasy and reality diverge significantly in kink practice. Scenarios that are arousing to read or imagine can be mentally exhausting or unsafe to actually pursue, requiring careful discernment between what excites us conceptually versus what works practically. • Shame is the primary barrier to understanding human sexuality. Darker fantasies are far more common than people admit, but widespread judgment prevents honest conversations about desires that don't reflect actual values or intentions. • The kink community's framework of consent and safety transforms mental health. Reframing desires through explicit communication and negotiation rather than moral judgment creates psychological freedom and reduces internalized shame around sexuality. From the Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Ruan's latest erotic storytelling, dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views": Shop Podcast Merchandise! Universal link to Beach House Views: Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Ryze coffee use code podna15 to get 15% OFF at (affiliate) Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with affiliate code ruan15 Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing, All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/42035665

Erotic Improv Story 07/06/2026

What the Architects of Taboo Can Teach Us About Consent, Intimacy, and Trust with The Kink Consultant Amanda Dames 07/03/2026

What the Architects of Taboo Can Teach Us About Consent, Intimacy, and Trust with The Kink Consultant Amanda Dames Season 6, Episode 763: What the Architects of Taboo Can Teach Us About Consent, Intimacy, and Trust with the Kink Consultant Amanda Dames. Listen to an interview with The Kink Consultant: On Shame, Desire, and Honest Communication. Guest Bio: AMANDA DAMES, aka The Kink Consultant, is a sexologist, Somatica® Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, podcast host, and former NYC Dominatrix specializing in kink, intimacy, and communication. Through coaching, education, media appearances, and her podcast The Kink Consultant, Amanda helps people explore desire without shame while making kink feel approachable, empowering, and rooted in consent, confidence, and connection. Known for her honest, playful, and accessible teaching style, Amanda has built an online audience of more than 300,000 followers across social media and has been featured in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, Women’s Health, POPSUGAR, and Court TV for her expertise in kink and modern relationships. Her work focuses on helping individuals and couples communicate openly about fantasies, power dynamics, and emotional intimacy so they can create relationships that feel more authentic, exciting, and fulfilling both inside and outside the bedroom. MORE ONLINE: Discussion Topics: The Kink Consultant: On Shame, Desire, and Honest Communication Meeting Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant Sex Education Ignores Female Pleasure and that needs to change, everyone on the planet has been gaslit by culture, society, education, and religion Shame and Communication in Intimate Relationships Sexual Health as Mental Health, we can't ignore sexual health because it's a component of mental health Communication is the Foundation of Kink Origins and Evolution of Kinks and Fetishes, where do these come from? Sex Research Deserves Equal Funding and Attention for BOTH sexes and that has not been done well in the past Instagram Censorship and Women's Health Content,, the social media platforms are unfairly guiding discussions on sexual health, favoring and allowing men's topics, but not women's. They need to stop treating actual body parts as taboo words, especially women's body parts. We need to quit the old Puritanical influence! Breaking Judgment to Build Better Relationships Anatomy Matters! Clitoral Sensitivity and Hood Anatomy Explained, we need real teaching and discussions on real anatomy, not hidden blackballed teaching on women’s anatomy Body Modification, the ramifications, and Personal Autonomy Risky Decisions and Living to Tell Tales Where to Find Amanda and Resources Past episode clips, book blurb, FirmTech information From the Podcast Host Ruan Willow: One of Ruan's fave brands of adult pleasure toys: Affiliate link Pearl Toys from Kiiroo: Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Neighborhood Sex Secrets novel: Discreet cover and title for Neighborhood Secrets: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with affiliate code ruan15 Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. Newsletters /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41954405

Age Gap Erotic Fiction, John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, A Hotwife Spicy Romance Excerpt 06/29/2026

Embracing the Forbidden, Dark Desires, & Creative Freedom with Author A.A. Powers 06/26/2026

Embracing the Forbidden, Dark Desires, & Creative Freedom with Author A.A. Powers Season 6, Episode 761: Embracing the Forbidden, Dark Desires, & Creative Freedom with Author A.A. Powers with a dark spicy romance book excerpt at the end of the author interview! Discussion Topics: Dark Romance, Paranormal Romance, Spicy Romance, Author Interview, Book Series, The Devious Bonds Series, Character Development, Writing Process, Fantasy Fiction, Self-Acceptance, Emotional Healing, Storytelling, Indie Authors, Reader Engagement, Sex Positivity, Creative Writing, Women authors who write romance, spice, and smutty fiction, Minnesota Authors, Book Marketing, Writing Community, Self-Publishing Be sure to listen to Season 6, Episode 760 to get right into the excerpt: A Devious Awakening, A Dark Paranormal Demon Romance Excerpt from a spicy fiction novel written by A.A. Powers, book excerpt narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Listen to the author interview with A.A. Powers coming Friday, June 26, 26. A Devious Awakening, get the book (affiliate link) Author bio: A.A. Powers is the author of The Devious Bonds series, a dark paranormal romance series that explores love, obsession, power, redemption, and the complexities of human desire through fantasy. By day, she works as a procurement analyst and lives in rural Minnesota with her family. By night, she writes stories filled with demons, fated mates, found family, and morally complicated characters. As both a reader and author of dark romance, Ashley is fascinated by the intersection of fantasy, shame, self-acceptance, and the ways fiction allows readers to safely explore parts of themselves that are often misunderstood or judged. Learn more about Author A.A. Powers: Ruan's New Release, a Dark Romance Suspense Thriller with erotic storytelling: One of Ruan's fave brands of adult pleasure toys: Affiliate link Pearl Toys from Kiiroo: Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Newsletters Minnesota Book Fair for Grownups hosted by Inbound Brewing, Minnesota State Fair Grand Stand July 11, 2026. Use discount code RUAN202 for 50% off. Get tickets: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Neighborhood Sex Secrets novel: Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41833815

A Devious Awakening, A Dark Paranormal Demon Romance Excerpt by A.A. Powers, Narrated by Ruan Willow 06/23/2026

From Pastor to Spicy Author, Amy W. Vogel's Empowerment Journey Writing Romance, Sex, and Age Gap 06/20/2026

From Pastor to Spicy Author, Amy W. Vogel's Empowerment Journey Writing Romance, Sex, and Age Gap Season 6, Episode 759: The Healing Power of Smut: Part 7, From Pastor to Spicy Pen, Amy W. Vogel's Empowerment Journey. This is the video version of the episode. Guest Bio: Amy W. Vogel is an author who writes about feminine empowerment, spicy reverse age gap romance, historical fantasy with romance, urban fantasy with romance, and she's a coach for women authors. She's a former pastor and shares her transformative journey from being a pastor to writing spicy romance. She shares about her venture into spicy storytelling and writing books. Find more about Amy here: Books: Feminine Rising (affiliate links) The Assist: A Spicy Soccer Romance Teleosis Summary: Join Ruan Willow as she dives deep into a spicy conversation with writer Amy W. Vogel, a former pastor turned author, about the transformative journey of embracing sexuality and the healing power of smut in literature. Amy shares her unique experiences navigating the complexities of faith, femininity, and freedom, all while exploring the world of romance and erotic fiction. Together, they discuss the importance of female voices in writing, the liberation that comes from owning one's sexuality, and how the act of reading and writing can serve as a powerful tool for healing and empowerment. Get ready for a candid discussion filled with laughter, insights, and plenty of spicy revelations! Timeline: 00:00 - Amy W. Vogel used to be a pastor 04:06 - Do you do more non fiction or do you do some fiction 06:31 - Sport themed book 07:06 - So what is it do you think that is healing about either reading or writing 12:58 - People are trying to censor the spicy romance that people want to read 17:16 - When I first started this podcast, I wasn't very judgmental, but now I'm even less so 20:27 - What do you think about the fact that there are no female voices in the Bible 26:56 - 67% of self published authors are female and most are romance writers 32:00 - So I'm working on my sixth book and it's actually speaking of the Bible 36:59 - Part of being a human is her sexuality and having sex 41:21 - Romance bookstores are popping up all over the place owned by women 45:11 - You don't immediately have to dive into dark erotica 49:04 - A woman wrote a book about how to strengthen your vagina during sex Bel Di Lorenzo wrote The Goh!dess Method Quotes from Amy: "The healing for me is... whatever you decide to choose to do with that history allows you to either stay stuck or move forward." "Pleasure is our birthright. We have been given that gift as women." "If you want to explore, start slow and just have fun." Newsletters Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41709590

When Technology Meets Intimacy: Tracy Daly on Revolutionizing the Sex & Relationship Connection 06/19/2026

When Technology Meets Intimacy: Tracy Daly on Revolutionizing the Sex & Relationship Connection Season 6, Episode 758: Video Version. When Technology Meets Intimacy: Tracy Daly of Moanr app on Revolutionizing the Sex & Relationship Connection. The essential humanity piece is so important to sexuality, sensuality, individualism, communication, and connection, while focusing on a goal of making relationships, sex, kink, and love better! Your specific variables, moods, feelings, and physiology can make a difference in the ability to improve your relationship and enhance intimacy. Listen to find out how! Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow is a member of PodNation Media and the Full Swap Radio network. All Ruan's links and books: Guest Bio: Tracy Daly is the Co-Founder & CEO of Moanr™, a groundbreaking digital platform designed to revolutionize how we experience modern intimacy and human connection. Powered by the sophisticated, secure engineering of MedEnc Technologies, Tracy leverages cutting-edge sextech to create safe, authentic, and liberating spaces for adult exploration online. Their visionary approach to digital pleasure is deeply informed by their work in the physical lifestyle community, where they also serve as the Socials and Events Manager for Club M4—Ontario's largest premier adult alternative lifestyle venue. They work particularly within the LGBTQIA+ community and those exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics such as CNM and ENM. She helps individuals and partners navigate intimacy with more clarity, confidence, and honesty. By bridging high-tech security with hands-on community curation, Tracy is uniquely pioneering the future of pleasure-positive wellness. Relationship and sexuality articles: Website: Facebook: IG: LinkedIn: About Moanr: Moanr is a next-generation intimacy and sexual wellness app that turns private health and relationship data into insights that help people connect better, communicate openly, and navigate modern relationships without stigma Discussion Topics: Revolutionizing Intimacy Through Sex Tech Building Relationships Beyond the First Date Tracking Libido Patterns and Intimacy Tracking Intimacy and Connection in Relationships Breaking Free from Shame and Embracing Authenticity LGBTQ+ Safety Varies Across States Enthusiastic Consent and the Orgasm Gap is really a cultural, knowledge, and attention gap Owning Your Body and Breaking Sexual Shame 500 Years of Hidden Clitoral Anatomy, Very cruel actions taken by those in power to hide this female anatomy from the world Removing Shame From Female Body Language Social Media Censorship of Body Part Language Embracing Pleasure as Our Natural Gift Using Rage Constructively to Empower Change AI in Publishing: Protecting Human Creativity and not using AI in creative endeavors Bridging Health Tech and Human Connection Ruan Willow Podcast host, affiliate links and discounts: Newsletters Affiliate link Pearl Toys from Kiiroo: Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Neighborhood Sex Secrets novel: Discreet title version: Neighborhood Secrets: Get the first two novellas in my hotwife series on Kobo for only $0.99 Search on Kobo, Smashwords, and Apple for the other books and get them for only $0.99 now through June 30! Hot Summer Sale $0.99 Decadent Erotica on Smashwords: Friends with Benefits Never Say Never Swing Minnesota Book Fair for Grownups hosted by Inbound Brewing, Minnesota State Fair Grand Stand July 11, 2026. Use discount code RUAN202 for 50% off. Get tickets: Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41705250

Tea bagging and oral spicy romance fiction excerpt 06/16/2026

Tea bagging and oral spicy romance fiction excerpt Season 6, Episode 757: Video version. Age Gap Tea Bagging and Oral, Erotic Spicy Romance Fiction Book Excerpt from Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties, written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Get the full audiobook Book blurb: Mallory and Derek are a young mutually dedicated bisexual couple. They both love adventure and new experiences. It's what drew them to each other in the first place. They desire to explore more together, so they decide to join a swinger's alternative lifestyle club. Once the initial overwhelm wears off, they dive in to the insatiable group fun at the private parties, and don't look back. Their world opens up and they can't get enough. They have so much fun, their minds, and their climaxes, are blown to new heights. Life can't get any better. They make new friendships, and cultivate deeper ones that enrich their lives, while they work hard at being diligently respectful of their mutual boundaries. And all the party games, oh, that's mind-blowing and not stopping in its ever-expanding ecstasy! The couple is hooked! When a photographer is hired for one of the private parties and takes sexy pictures of Mallory with an older man who had become one of her regular play partners, Mallory's life, and career, take a turn for the unexpected. She finds herself lucky to be a huge overnight success as a content creator when she begins to post nude pics and spicy videos online. As she finds herself further entrenched in her life with her devoted partner Derek, her new older millionaire gentleman friend wants to be a permanent person in her life, too. Mallory is lucky, she's got two very supportive partners in her life! Who comes along for the full entrepreneurial ride she's on remains to be seen. However, one thing is for sure, she's taking this pleasure train for life. And whoever is by her side better hold tight because it's promising to be a wild trip! Tropes: erotic romance, Polyamory love triangle, swinging, BDSM, D/s, multiple partner intimacy and relationships, impact play, intimate scenes, bisexuality, experimentation, and empowerment. Get the ebook and paperback versions (released July 1, 2025): Learn more about book 1 and book 2: Newsletters Half off a first in series ebook coupon for 50% off the first ebook in the series with code HALFOFF Browse all book at this link: Use code HALFOFF at checkout and start reading today! The best part? This promo is exclusive to authors’ direct stores! Bypass the big retailers and SAVE today!💃 🌟Browse here for ALL the discounted series starters: My book: Get the first two novellas in my hotwife series on Kobo for only $0.99 Search on Kobo, Smashwords, and Apple for the other books and get them for only $0.99 now through June 30! Hot Summer Sale $0.99 Decadent Erotica , on Smashwords: Friends with Benefits , Never Say Never Swing , Minnesota Book Fair for Grownups hosted by Inbound Brewing, Minnesota State Fair Grand Stand July 11, 2026. Use discount code RUAN202 for 50% off. Get tickets: /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41670945

Shoshanna Blanca, Jesus Christ Pornstar, Reclaiming Sexuality as Sacred: Spirituality, Psychedelics, and Breaking Religious Taboos, Video Version 06/13/2026

Shoshanna Blanca, Jesus Christ Pornstar, Reclaiming Sexuality as Sacred: Spirituality, Psychedelics, and Breaking Religious Taboos, Video Version Season 6, Episode 756: Video Version. Featuring Shoshanna Blanca, aka Jesus Christ Pornstar, Reclaiming Sexuality as Sacred: Spirituality, Psychedelics, and Breaking Religious Taboos. When Mary Magdalene Became a Mirror for Sacred Sexuality Affiliate link Pearl Toys from Kiiroo: Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Discission Topics/Chapters: Shoshanna Blanca, From Feminist Writer to Erotic Artist Bridging Sexuality and Spirituality Through Psychedelics Divine Creativity and Sexual Shame Culture Reframing Sex Work as Spiritual Art Jesus Would Listen to Sex Workers Biblical Interpretation and Religious Judgment Reinterpreting Genesis: Beyond the Eve Curse God's Gender and Universal Consciousness Orgasmic Prayers and Reclaiming Pleasure Modern Dating Culture and the Whores Revolution Bridging Porn and Social Media Culture Men's Misconceptions about and the Perpetuating Falsehoods About Biological Clocks Preparing for Psychedelic Ceremonies and Intentions Teshuva: Returning to Original Virtue Women's Suffering and the Need for Reverence Finding Freedom Through Breath and Spirit Body Innocence and Pleasure as Birthright Takeaways: • Psychedelic experiences can fundamentally reshape views on sexuality and spirituality. Shoshana's ceremony-induced rebirth experiences directly motivated her to reframe sex work and erotic expression as spiritual practices rather than taboo activities. • Religious symbolism in sexual content triggers deeper cultural anxiety than the sexuality itself. The backlash against her work centered more on the use of Jesus and Mary Magdalene imagery than the explicit content, revealing how religious institutions weaponize shame around sexuality. • Sex workers and erotic performers position themselves as spiritual healers, not moral transgressors. Let’s curb our judgement! By redefining their work through a sacred lens, they challenge the foundational shame narratives that justify social stigma and argue this reframing could revolutionize how society treats sex workers, and sexuality. Guest Bio: Shoshanna Blanca, also known as Jesus Christ Pornstar, is an erotic performance artist and adult star best known for Christian and Jewish-inspired content including The Second Cumming—a series of vlogs and performances telling the story of Jesus and Mary Magdalene through a psychedelic lens—and Uncovering Eve, a collection of images, videos, and verses exploring women and womanhood in the Bible. After a decade as a feminist writer and sex educator, she made OnlyFans her art gallery to provide a visual companion to her award-winning book Eve's Blessing: Uncovering the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain. Since then, she's released a variety of female-friendly solo content for Ersties, MakeLoveNotPorn, and Pornhub, including an "ADHD Masturbation" series where she describes her fantasies and tangential thoughts while self-pleasuring and "Hysterical Literature Bible Readings," where she reads from the Bible and other sacred texts while using a Hitachi Magic Wand. She's also a model with photographs published in many magazines and an advocate for body positivity. As one of those people who looks "overweight" and "plus-size" on paper but skinny in person, she aims to dismantle the ridiculous sizing and BMI charts that have become false gods. Through her thought-provoking pornography and social media presence, she's starting a whores revolution, encouraging whores of all sorts to rise up, remember Jesus already saved a spot for them in heaven, and get too loud and proud for people to label them damaged goods—or for whorephobic fuckboys to label them hookup material but not marriage material. She popularized and advocates radical Christianity, a belief system that preaches zero divine laws except: Be who you are. Links for Shoshanna Blanca: Ruan Willow, Podcast host and author, join to get her newsletters All Ruan's LInks: /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41629650

Reclaiming Sexuality as Sacred: Spirituality, Psychedelics, and Breaking Religious Taboos, Featuring Shoshanna Blanca, aka Jesus Christ Pornstar 06/12/2026

Reclaiming Sexuality as Sacred: Spirituality, Psychedelics, and Breaking Religious Taboos, Featuring Shoshanna Blanca, aka Jesus Christ Pornstar Season 6, Episode 755: audio version. Reclaiming Sexuality as Sacred: Spirituality, Psychedelics, and Breaking Religious Taboos, Featuring Shoshanna Blanca, aka Jesus Christ Pornstar, affiliate book link "Eve's Blessing: Uncovering the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain" When Mary Magdalene Became a Mirror for Sacred Sexuality Affiliate link Pearl Toys from Kiiroo: Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Episode Discission topics: Shoshanna Blanca, From Feminist Writer to Erotic Artist Bridging Sexuality and Spirituality Through Psychedelics Divine Creativity and Sexual Shame Culture Reframing Sex Work as Spiritual Art Jesus Would Listen to Sex Workers Biblical Interpretation and Religious Judgment Reinterpreting Genesis: Beyond the Eve Curse God's Gender and Universal Consciousness Orgasmic Prayers and Reclaiming Pleasure Modern Dating Culture and the Whores Revolution Bridging Porn and Social Media Culture Men's Misconceptions about and the Perpetuating Falsehoods About Biological Clocks Preparing for Psychedelic Ceremonies and Intentions Teshuva: Returning to Original Virtue Women's Suffering and the Need for Reverence Finding Freedom Through Breath and Spirit Body Innocence and Pleasure as Birthright Takeaways: • Psychedelic experiences can fundamentally reshape views on sexuality and spirituality. Shoshana's ceremony-induced rebirth experiences directly motivated her to reframe sex work and erotic expression as spiritual practices rather than taboo activities. • Religious symbolism in sexual content triggers deeper cultural anxiety than the sexuality itself. The backlash against her work centered more on the use of Jesus and Mary Magdalene imagery than the explicit content, revealing how religious institutions weaponize shame around sexuality. • Sex workers and erotic performers position themselves as spiritual healers, not moral transgressors. Let’s curb our judgement! By redefining their work through a sacred lens, they challenge the foundational shame narratives that justify social stigma and argue this reframing could revolutionize how society treats sex workers, and sexuality. Guest Bio: Shoshanna Blanca, also known as Jesus Christ Pornstar, is an erotic performance artist and adult star best known for Christian and Jewish-inspired content including The Second Cumming—a series of vlogs and performances telling the story of Jesus and Mary Magdalene through a psychedelic lens—and Uncovering Eve, a collection of images, videos, and verses exploring women and womanhood in the Bible. After a decade as a feminist writer and sex educator, she made OnlyFans her art gallery to provide a visual companion to her award-winning book Eve's Blessing: Uncovering the Lost Pleasure Behind Female Pain. Since then, she's released a variety of female-friendly solo content for Ersties, MakeLoveNotPorn, and Pornhub, including an "ADHD Masturbation" series where she describes her fantasies and tangential thoughts while self-pleasuring and "Hysterical Literature Bible Readings," where she reads from the Bible and other sacred texts while using a Hitachi Magic Wand. She's also a model with photographs published in many magazines and an advocate for body positivity. As one of those people who looks "overweight" and "plus-size" on paper but skinny in person, she aims to dismantle the ridiculous sizing and BMI charts that have become false gods. Through her thought-provoking pornography and social media presence, she's starting a whores revolution, encouraging whores of all sorts to rise up, remember Jesus already saved a spot for them in heaven, and get too loud and proud for people to label them damaged goods—or for whorephobic fuckboys to label them hookup material but not marriage material. She popularized and advocates radical Christianity, a belief system that preaches zero divine laws except: Be who you are. Shoshanna's Links: Ruan Willow, Podcast host and author, join to get her newsletters All Ruan's LInks: /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41628850

Kara Gets a Spanking from several men 06/11/2026

Breaking Taboos, Busting Shame, and Embracing Kink and Pleasure as the True Way to Live with Dr. Naz 06/11/2026

Breaking Taboos, Busting Shame, and Embracing Kink and Pleasure as the True Way to Live with Dr. Naz Season 6, Episode 753: Video version of Breaking Taboos, Embracing Kink, and Pleasure with Dr. Nazanin Moali, aka Dr. Naz of the Sexology Podcast. Plus clips from other podcast episodes. Be sure to visit the Inbound Brewery's BookFair for Grownups on July 11, 2026 at the State Fair Grandstand. Ruan will be there signing and selling her books! Navigating Intimacy and Embracing Desire with Dr. Nazanin Moali. Join Ruan Willow as she engages in a captivating discussion with Dr. Naz, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist, who is dedicated to helping individuals and couples achieve fulfilling sex lives. Dr. Naz shares her unique journey from post-revolution Iran to becoming a trusted expert in intimacy and relationships in Los Angeles. In this episode, they explore the complexities of kinks and fantasies, the challenges of sexless marriages, and the importance of communication in relationships. Dr. Naz emphasizes the significance of breaking down societal taboos surrounding sexuality, and how understanding our own desires can lead to deeper connections. Tune in for insights on fostering a more authentic love life and the transformative power of sexual self-discovery. Quotes from Dr. Naz "There's nothing wrong with that. But you definitely need to cherish your desires." "Whatever you like, you're not defective. There’s a galaxy of people out there that are interested in that." Find out more: Nazanin Moali, Ph.D., CST (she/her/hers) Psychologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Creator and Host of Sexology Podcast Facebook @oasis2carke IG @sexologypodcast Podcast host Ruan Willow's book Neighborhood Sex Secrets: Ruan's audiobook: Never Say, Never Swing, Friends to Lovers Protectors: A Warrior's Requiem, Chronicles of Protectors, Superheroes, music themes, time travel, sexy intimate relations Newsletters Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41607815

Beyond "The One": Redefining Relationships as Growth and Authentic Choice with Relationship Facilitator Simone Milasas 06/05/2026

Beyond "The One": Redefining Relationships as Growth and Authentic Choice with Relationship Facilitator Simone Milasas Season 6, Episode 752: Beyond "The One": Redefining Relationships as Growth and Authentic Choice with author, business woman, and relationship facilitator Simone Milasas. Get her Book Guest Bio: Simone Milasas is a best-selling author, international speaker, and relationship innovator known for her refreshingly honest and unconventional approach to love, intimacy, and life. For over two decades, she has facilitated classes around the world, empowering people to move beyond expectations, judgment, and dependency to create relationships based on choice, freedom, and true connection. She is the author of Relationship: Are You Sure That You Want One?, Joy of Business, and Getting Out of Debt Joyfully, and the creator of the card deck. Simone’s work has been featured in international media including Body and Soul, The Sunday Telegraph, Bloom TV, Thrive Global, Body+Soul, Mamamia, Sydney Morning Herald, and she brings a unique, nonjudgmental perspective that leaves listeners and readers feeling both empowered and deeply seen. To learn more, visit Topics of Discussion: Beyond the Myth of "The One" Receiving True Kindness and Vulnerability Choose Joy and Stop Seeking Others' Approval Less Judgmental Through Listening to Others Creating Space and Asking for What You Need Relationships as Choice, Not Necessity Choosing Different in Relationships Five Elements of Intimacy in Relationships, applies to sex too Choose What Works for You, Not Society's Rules Money Shouldn't Define Your Relationships Living Without Regrets and Shame Sarah's New Books and Merchandise Projects, Relationship Sex Card Game Travel and Cultural Perspectives Across Continents Creating Intimate Play Cards for Connection Choose Your Own Life Path Being Fearless in Your Living Choices Key points: • The "one" narrative is a myth, relationships should be viewed as growth opportunities rather than fated soul mate connections, freeing people to make conscious, authentic choices instead of searching for a predetermined destiny. • Vulnerability is an act of bravery, not weakness, requiring people to reject societal judgment and cultivate intimacy elements (gratitude, trust, allowance, vulnerability, honor) first within themselves before sharing them. • Personal space and open communication about needs are essential to healthy relationships, including releasing limiting beliefs around jealousy and possession. You must also practice asking for what you want without shame. Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Shop Podcast Merchandise! Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Ryze coffee use code podna15 to get 15% OFF at (affiliate) Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with affiliate code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with affiliate code ruan15 Ruan's Book: Beach House Views: All Ruan's books: Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41550960

Hot Summer Seductions, Storm Sex Erotic Improv Video 06/02/2026

When was the last time you talked about sex with your partner? How to Break the Silence with Relationship Coach Monica Tanner 05/29/2026

When was the last time you talked about sex with your partner? How to Break the Silence with Relationship Coach Monica Tanner Season 6, Episode 750: When was the last time you talked about sex with your partner? In this episode, you will learn how to break the silence with tips and insights from relationship coach Monica Tanner. It's hard to talk about sex, our culture has made sure of that for us! And has done us ZERO favors in the process! Some truths from our chat include the following: the brain is your primary sexual organ (sexual satisfaction and intimacy depend more on mental engagement and psychological connection than physical mechanics), most people are unprepared for sexual communication (we are NOT taught or encouraged to do this), and self-pleasure is essential for partnered intimacy (we must LEARN about our bodies and pleasure pathways in order to communicate them to our partner). Come listen with an open mind, and leave with a plan to have better sex and intimacy with your partner! Guest Bio: Monica Tanner, Relational Life Therapy Certified, Relationship Coach and host of the , transforms marriages with simple communication, connection, conflict resolution and commitment strategies. Her mission is to lower the divorce rate and improve marital satisfaction. Through her engaging podcast, new Amazon Best-Selling book, , vibrant social media community, and couple’s coaching practice, Monica's expert guidance has impacted thousands of couples, by helping them ditch resentment and roommate syndrome and get back to living their happily ever after love story. Get the book Bad Marriage Advice (affiliate on Amazon): website: Instagram: YouTube: RUAN'S NEW BOOK RELEASE! Get PODCAST HOST Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠ Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41471190

Adult Performer Pixxxie LaRue on Extreme Fetish Work and Industry Safety, and Why Anal is Her Fave 05/27/2026

Adult Performer Pixxxie LaRue on Extreme Fetish Work and Industry Safety, and Why Anal is Her Fave Season 6, Episode 749: Adult Performer Pixxxie LaRue on Extreme Fetish Work, Industry Standards, and why she loves anal. This is a replay episode to get the video version onto podcast apps. What happens when a 4’10” performer becomes one of the industry’s most sought-after extreme fetish specialists? In this candid interview, adult performer Pixxxie LaRue opens up about her blossoming career, releasing nine DVDs in just one year and specializing in controversial scenes like waterboarding. LaRue discusses the dual mindset required for extreme performances - maintaining professional awareness while sometimes becoming genuinely immersed in the experience. She emphasizes that **safety measures and consent are always paramount**, crediting Red Bottom Productions Studio for creating secure working environments. The conversation explores LaRue’s journey of sexual exploration and how her work helps others discover new interests safely. She shares insights about her business-minded approach to the industry, leveraging her marketing background to create a unique niche rather than working through traditional agencies. LaRue also touches on important topics like women’s sexual health, the role of self-exploration, and defending adult entertainment as both entertainment and educational content that promotes consent education. She discusses her recent AVN nomination and various platforms where fans can find her content, particularly recommending MintStars, a new sex worker-owned platform. Ready to hear more about navigating extreme fetish work safely and professionally? Listen to the full episode for LaRue’s unfiltered insights into the adult entertainment industry. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Introducing Pixxxie LaRue Adult Star 00:02:08 - Exploring Extreme Kinks and Boundaries 00:06:12 - Finding Pixie Larue Online 00:25:03 - Consent and Communication in Adult Films 00:27:15 - Extreme Adult Film Scene Discussion 00:30:46 - Performing with Creativity and Authenticity 00:35:58 - Choosing Authenticity Over Masking 00:45:38 - Consent Makes Everything Better 00:48:10 - Family Support in Adult Entertainment 00:51:05 - Online Trolls Boost My Views 01:03:15 - Positive Fan Impact and Representation Key takeaways: • LaRue maintains a complex dual mindset during extreme scenes, balancing professional awareness with genuine psychological immersion while filming • The adult industry has developed sophisticated safety protocols for extreme content, with studios like Red Bottom Productions prioritizing secure working environments • Sex workers are pioneering cryptocurrency-based platforms like MintStars to circumvent traditional financial restrictions and maintain greater control over their businesses Connect with Pixxxie: Spicy Social Media Twitter/X - @wee_pixxxie Social Media Tiktok - @wee.pixxxie.larue Podcast info: Newsletters for podcast and books: Connect with Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Affiliate Discounts Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Books Mentioned in the Episode: Award wining novel that won first place in the 2026 Golden Pigtail Awards: John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures Fancy Gets Spanked on the Beach Copyright 2025 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC, All rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41438735

Female Female Sex Scene Rekindling Their College Hookup Days 05/26/2026

The Raw Truth about Sex Work, Shame, and Autonomy with Ex-Webcam Girl and Author Breezie Axelrod 05/22/2026

The Raw Truth about Sex Work, Shame, and Autonomy with Ex-Webcam Girl and Author Breezie Axelrod Season 6, Episode 747: The Raw Truth about Sex Work, Shame, and Autonomy with Ex-Webcam Girl and Author Breezie Axelrod. What happens when a woman loses everything — her financial stability, her family support, even access to her own bank accounts — and the only thing left is her body and her will to survive? The Webcam Girl Next-Door is Breezie Axelrod’s raw, unapologetic memoir detailing how she went from full-time caregiver to webcam performer after her father’s sudden abduction and a devastating family betrayal left her financially stranded. No ID. No recent work history. No safety net. What followed wasn’t fantasy — it was survival. Told through her real, unfiltered journal entries, Breezie documents the emotional, sexual, and psychological realities of entering the webcam world out of desperation. The book pulls back the curtain on digital intimacy, power dynamics, shame, empowerment, and the complicated truth behind subscription-based adult platforms. This isn’t a glamorized “sex work success” story. It’s messy. Vulnerable. Sometimes dark. Sometimes funny. And fiercely honest about what it means to monetize desire when the alternative is losing everything. Get the book "The Webcam Girl Next-Door" (affiliate link): Topics: – The raw realities of webcam performance – What people get wrong about online sex work – Survival sex vs. empowerment narratives – Digital intimacy and the illusion of control – Family betrayal and rebuilding from nothing Emotional connection is often more valuable than explicit content, men who wanted to participate often just wanted a genuine human connection. From Caregiver to Webcam Performer Memoir Independence and Platform Evolution Connecting with Regulars Beyond the Sexual Respecting Different Sexual Preferences Setting Boundaries in Sex Work Business Struggling Without Resources and Support Pioneering Women's Advertising Network Online Long Distance Connection and Heartbreak Cultural Shame Around Sexuality Why Women Cheat, Men Cheat, and Repression of Desires and the real harm of denying our human sexuality Fighting for Sexual Empowerment and Independence Powerful Men Protected by Wealth and Influence want to control women who are making money off themselves as entrepreneurs Society's Unsustainable System Will Collapse Women's Rights and Respect in Relationships Why Women Leave and Men Need to Evolve Projection? Perceptions? Insights. Shame, and Sexual Repression in Society Women Are Giving Up on Men Women do not mutilate yourself and cripple your pleasure! Keep all those genital parts for maximal pleasure. Don't steal your own enjoyment by doing harmful alterations to your genitals. Beach House Views, Dark Romance Stalker Suspense Thriller by Ruan Willow: Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters The Arousal Package Novella witch story: Universal link: Ryze coffee use code podna15 to get 15% OFF at (affiliate) Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Ruan's Book: Beach House Views: Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41398105

Adam Darrow, From Threesomes to Ethical Non-Monogamy, One Man's Journey Beyond Jealousy and Societal Induced Shame 05/19/2026

Adam Darrow, From Threesomes to Ethical Non-Monogamy, One Man's Journey Beyond Jealousy and Societal Induced Shame This is a replay to get the video version of the episode onto podcast apps that previously only had the audio version. Season 6, Episode 746: From Threesomes to Non-Monogamy: One Man's Journey Beyond Jealousy and Shame with author Adam Darrow about his edgy, honest, and raw memoir "Seek the Risk" (affiliate link) This was an enlightening conversation and one many should listen to. Expanding our boundaries may seem difficult, and it doesn't pan out for everyone, but either way, valuble lessons are learned about oneself, one's limitations become clearer when faced with new challenges, and what we are willing to do for love becomes obvious. A question to ask yourself, well, more than one, what cultural shame is holding you back? Why should we allow culture to decide what is acceptable and what isn't? Would you ever stare normalcy in the face and give it the finger and do what you want? Even if it cost you relationships? Can you withstand the heat of a cultural assault from a judgmental mob of societal norm enforcers? (even if they are your friends and family?) Or would you just stand up tall, point your chin up, and say FU and just do it? When Adam Darrow met Jane at forty, he thought he was the adventurous one. After all, he'd spent his twenties competing in extreme sports and had explored threesomes—that made him pretty edgy, right? Then Jane, a PhD psychologist who spoke five languages, told him she didn't do boyfriends (and she meant it). Drawing from his background in extreme sports, Darrow spent two and a half years transitioning into non-monogamy, followed by three challenging years of emotional work before finding equilibrium. The journey wasn't easy. He didn't think he could do it. When his partner Jane publicly announced their arrangement on Facebook in 2009, Darrow watched his life wildly transform. His best friend called him derogatory names. But over time, he discovered something unexpected: jealousy could be channeled into motivation to become a better partner. What initially felt emasculating became an opportunity to overcome deep-seated insecurities like imposter syndrome and validation-seeking. His memoir chronicles this transformative experience through vulnerable storytelling that includes explicit extreme sexual details and uncomfortable emotional truths, as well as healing and growth. How did keeping emotions bottled up nearly break him? The book explores that question while advocating for moving beyond societal shame around sexuality, relationship conformity, and focusing on personal authenticity rather than rigid beliefs about relationships. Estimated Timeline: Adam Darrow's Journey Into Non-Monogamy 00:03:40 - PhD Psychologist with Unconventional Past 00:06:43 - Extreme Sports Skills Applied to Non-Monogamy 00:09:13 - Separating Sex from Emotion in Relationships 00:19:57 - Managing Jealousy Through Don't Ask, Don't Tell 00:22:26 - From Jealousy to Compersion in Open Relationships 00:25:11 - Breaking Through Shame and Choosing Each Other 00:28:42 - Walking the Beach: Questioning My Limits, book excerpt 00:33:17 - Understanding Nesting Couples and Non-Monogamy 00:39:43 - Letting Go of Control in Relationships 00:46:22 - Vulnerability and Authenticity in Memoir Writing 00:51:51 - Writing the Book and Her Reaction 00:58:17 - Identity Beyond Sexual Acts, sexuality 01:06:44 - Overcoming Jealousy Through Personal Growth 01:11:27 - Healthy vs Unhealthy Jealousy in Relationships Connect with Adam Darrow: Link to the books website Substack Email for folks to contact Adam at adam@seektherisk.net insta: @seektherisk Newsletters Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41351555

Fated Mates and Spicy Scenes: A Deep Dive into Paranormal Shifter Romance Writing with Author Adeline Bryant 05/15/2026

Fated Mates and Spicy Scenes: A Deep Dive into Paranormal Shifter Romance Writing with Author Adeline Bryant Season 6, Episode 745: Fated Mates and Spicy Scenes: A Deep Dive into Paranormal Shifter Romance Writing with Author Adeline Bryant, plus excerpt from Adeline's Book "Fated", narrated by podcast host and narrator Ruan Willow. The excerpt is at the end, but also it is its own episode on the podcast in episode 744. Author Bio: Author's website. Get the book "Fated" (affiliate link) Adeline Bryant is an award-winning indie author of emotionally raw stories that explore identity, belonging, and the cost of choice. Armed with a doctorate in education and an endless supply of imagination, she's always been fascinated by the transformative power of stories and the bonds they create. Adeline lives in Minneapolis, MN, with her husband and their two feline overlords. When she's not writing, she can usually be found devouring books, rocking her signature red lipstick, and shamelessly belting out Taylor Swift songs. She firmly believes that every great story deserves a bottle of wine and a healthy dose of magic (and smut) Discussion Topics: Romance Author, Indie Author, Honey And Jalapeno Book Fair, Minneapolis, Paranormal Romance, Fated Mates, Male-Male Romance, Book Excerpt, Character Development, World Building, Writing Process, Emotional Storytelling, Indie Publishing, Book Events, Creative Writing, Author Interviews, Writing Community, Smut In Romance, Character Arcs, Storytelling Techniques Quotes from Adeline Bryant "I think it’s really healing for especially women to read these kinds of things." "Just do things. Keep reading. Keep reading smutty books." Summary: Adeline discusses her debut novel, "Fated", a paranormal romance featuring wolf shifters and a spicy male-male love story between an alpha wolf and a beta. Discover what inspired her to transition from reading thrillers to writing romance, the importance of including sensuality in storytelling, and the challenges of indie publishing. Adeline also reveals her unique approach to world-building and how her characters came to life. She wrote a bible for the world the wolves live in! As we prepare for the upcoming Honey and Jalapeno Book Fair in Minnesota, Adeline shares exciting details about her character-inspired candle collaboration and the immersive experience she aims to create for her readers. Enjoy the chat about the transformative power of stories, the joy of indie publishing, and the importance of embracing creativity. Just gotta dive in and write that book! Ruan's Book: Beach House Views: Copyright Pink Infinity Publishing 2026. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41312570

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