Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW. Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.

Beach House Views Excerpt Home Tour Sex 05/12/2026

Kaela Luna: From Corporate Editor to Award-Winning Trans Niche Content Creator, Giantess Videos 05/10/2026

Kaela Luna: From Corporate Editor to Award-Winning Trans Niche Content Creator, Giantess Videos Season 6, Episode 742: Kaela Luna, From Corporate Editor to Award-Winning Trans Creator, adult performer. Winning an award for your passion project instead of your mainstream work can completely change how you see your career. That's exactly what happened to Kaela Luna, trans adult performer and content creator, when she took home Best Content Creator at the 2026 Trans Erotica Awards. #trans #sexuality #sexualitypower #sexualhealth #mentalhealth #adultindustry Before building her creative empire, Kaela spent years in a soulless corporate video editing job. Transitioning into sex work gave her the freedom to channel those technical skills into projects that actually matter to her, including niche giantess content that demands clever work with angles, sound design, and visual effects. As one of very few trans women creating giantess material, she's found it both personally rewarding and nicely profitable. Kaela connects creative fantasy to psychological healing, arguing that kinks like giantess content offer real therapeutic value by reversing power dynamics in safe, consensual ways. She is in New York rather than chasing industry pressure elsewhere, and the decision paid off. Discussion topics: Adult Performer Kaela Luna Wins Content Creator Award Winning Best Content Creator Award Exploring Giantess Content and Size Fetish Community Creating Custom Content That Resonates Personally From Fantasy to Content Creation Balancing Mainstream Success with Passion Projects Platform Struggles and Content Creation Challenges Repressed Shame and External Judgment Control Backfires: Why Restrictions Create Resistance Human Kindness Overcoming Fear and Prejudice Why Judge Others' Life Choices? Patriarchy's Pushback Against Female Empowerment Art, Sexuality, and Human Nature Balancing Content Creation and Platform Restrictions Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link https://mybook.to/beachhouseviews⁠https://pinkinfinitypublishing.com/honey-and-jalapeno-book-fair-a-minnesota-book-fair/ Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41236175

Spicy to Non Spicy Character-Driven Romance and the Freedom of Indie Publishing with Author Starr Z. Davies 05/05/2026

Spicy to Non Spicy Character-Driven Romance and the Freedom of Indie Publishing with Author Starr Z. Davies Season 6, Episode 741: Spicy to Non Spicy Romance: Character-Driven Romance and the Freedom of Indie Publishing with Author Starr Z. Davies. We chatted about the Honey and Jalapeno Romance Bookfair that I am hosting in Minnesota May 17th, 2026, and that both of us will be attending as authors at the Big Wood Brewery in Vadnais Heights, MN, learn more: Author Bio: STARR Z. DAVIES is an award-winning author of over 20 tales that span dystopian realms, epic fantasies, and echoes of forgotten histories. Dubbed the "Character Assassin," she weaves stories where heroes are tested by fire—both emotional and physical. From her woodland home in northern Wisconsin, she crafts worlds while surrounded by her greatest allies: a supportive husband, two imaginative children, and a curious menagerie of robotic pets. When not conjuring new adventures, she dabbles in home enchantments, swims like a siren, battles through video game quests, and devours books like ancient tomes of power. Connect with Starr: Kickstarter for Stormcrown (launches on Tuesday): Website: Instagram: Books (affiliate links): Stormvalor Fractured Empire Series: Topics of Discussion: Writing Across Romance Spectrum Writing Age-Appropriate Content as Authors Writing Sex Scenes Into Your Story Cutting Scenes That Don't Feel Genuine Navigating Genre Labels and Reader Expectations Amazon's Censorship of Sexual Content Amazon's Unfair Author Review Policies Dealing with AI Accusations and Online Bullying Creating Characters Over Twenty Years Ago How Language and Fantasy Changed My Writing Path Writing Fast and Managing Multiple Projects Social Media Presence and Book Fair Preparations Key Takeaways: • Intimate scenes should emerge organically from character authenticity rather than being added to meet genre expectations. Both authors write what feels true to their stories, not what readers demand. • Indie publishing offers creative freedom that traditional publishing restricts, allowing authors to explore mature themes without censorship or pressure to fit commercial standards and limitiations. • Genre classification for romance blended with fantasy is different for Romantasy, romantic fantasy, and fantasy romance. Each of the blends is inherently subjective, making marketing challenging because readers interpret the same work differently regardless of authors' content descriptions. Podcast Host Ruan Willow: Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Ruan's book Beach House Views directly from Ruan Credit bundles are an easy, thoughtful gift and can be purchased at the last minute! Try out Libro FM (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41169105

Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with Guide Elana Auerbach 05/01/2026

Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with Guide Elana Auerbach Season 6, Episode 740: Reigniting Passion: "The Sure Thing" Practice for an Optimal Sex Life with sensuality guide and educator Elana Auerbach. Guest Bio: Elana is a lover, mother, author, mentor, activator, and priestess. While Elana has a wealth of professional experience guiding people deeper into their bodies and their pleasure, The Sure Thing comes directly from her personal life. After years of frustration and failed gimmicks to try to re-spark the passion in her 20-year marriage, Elana created The Sure Thing. She wrote this book because she wants everyone to have access to this life altering practice. Website: FB: IG: A guided journey to connect with your wild, sensual self, your passion, and desire! Get the book "The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark" (affiliate link): Get Ruan Willow's new dark romance suspense thriller fiction novel "Beach House Views" for only $0.99 (for a limited time only) universal link Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Ruan's book Beach House Views directly from Ruan Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC. All Rights Reserved. Discussion Topics: From Passion to Purpose: Reclaiming Intimacy Rekindling Intimacy Through Shabbat Rituals Reviving Intimacy Through Weekly Commitment Writing a Book About Reviving Intimacy Addressing Jealousy in Long-Distance Relationships Understanding Your Inner Pantheon and Self-Awareness Building a Weekly Pleasure Practice Habit Menopause, Body Changes, and Reclaiming Pleasure Sexuality and Confidence Growing With Age Scheduling Intimacy: Building Connection Together Building Your "I Know What I Want" Muscle Sex as Duty vs. Personal Pleasure Unlocking Creative Flow Through Sensuality Exploring Your Body and Sexual Pleasure Exploring Diverse Gemstone Toys and Designs Vivacious Viv: Reclaiming My Wild Self Women Breaking Free from Societal Roles The Sure Thing Love Experiment Connect Through Events and Online Community Key Takeaways: Responsive desire, which develops through safe and present connection, is completely valid. • A scheduled "sure thing" can dissolve years of emotional buildup in weeks, consistency matters more than spontaneity for reconnecting in long-term relationships. • Intimacy is a learnable skill requiring regular practice, not something that should be left to chance or assumed to naturally flourish after decades together. • Menopause marks a transition to continued vitality, not decline, reframing aging as an opportunity rather than loss is key to maintaining desire and self-worth. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41123370

Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life as a Mom, and Pet Owner 04/30/2026

Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life as a Mom, and Pet Owner Season 6, Episode 739: Replay to bring the video version to podcast audiences. Bisexual MILF and Model LaLa Tada Mattress Actress, Swinging, and Life, career, her Psychology and Healthcare Degree, Lactation consulting, family, and pets. She has a hairless cat! Listen to the fun and intriguing conversation with LaLa Tada as she shares her unique journey into the adult film industry and the swinger lifestyle. Discover how LaLa's path, filled with twists and turns, led her to embrace her true self and find empowerment in her career and personal life. LaLa Tada opens up about her beginnings in the adult industry, her experiences with OnlyFans, and how she balances her professional life with her family. She candidly discusses the acceptance of her work in Las Vegas versus other parts of the country, and how her psychology degree influences her parenting style. Explore the dynamics of Lala's relationships, her adventures in the swinger lifestyle, and the importance of setting boundaries. Learn about the various fetishes she's explored, including pee and fart fetishes, and how she navigates the challenges and joys of her career in the adult film industry. Don't miss this enlightening and empowering conversation that celebrates sexuality, personal freedom, and the journey to self-discovery. Video version - 02:07 - How did you end up where you are today? - 07:11 - I am a Board Certified Lactation Consultant - 09:00 - Do you like what you're doing? - 09:53 - Do you feel like living in Vegas it's a little bit more acceptable - 13:44 - Do your kids know what you do or do you hide it - 17:54 - Your psychology degree colors how you interact - 18:29 - So does your husband still like to shoot stuff with you - 22:09 - Do you like the label of milf? - 26:11 - Where do you see yourself going in the future - 29:36 - Do you have certain people that you frequently work - 34:05 - Pee is sterile, right? If it wasn't, you'd have bladder infection - 35:52 - What other fetishes have you done - 40:13 - You've done photo shoots with rope - 40:39 - Would you be willing to talk about your experiences in the lifestyle - 43:48 - How do you generally find people? - 46:35 - Do you really have a hairless cat? Yes, I do and other pets - 52:57 - The rabbits have modified their burrow to stay warm in all weather LaLa Tada's website at Quotes from Lala Tad Da: "My journey, like I always say, was not linear by any means. There's all kinds of twists and turns and ups and downs." "I get to express myself in ways that I feel like I wasn't able to prior to, like, you know, deciding to go all out with this." "I'm 41. I don't mind sharing my age. I celebrate it." Quote from Ruan Willow: "I bet your kids are growing up without shame about sexuality and I think that is just huge." Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books: Holiday Smut Audiobook: /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41076110

Dani Synclair, Adult Performer, on BDSM, Fetishes, and the Freedom of Self Expression 04/28/2026

Dani Synclair, Adult Performer, on BDSM, Fetishes, and the Freedom of Self Expression This video was previously aired as an audio, it is being replayed to broadcast the video version. Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow podcast, season 6, Episode 738: A deep dive into the alluring world of BDSM relationships, impact play, and adult content creation with the enchanting Dani Synclair. Standing tall at 5'9", this ebony pro switch and OnlyFans siren shares her journey from personal exploration to professional success in the realm of kink. Discover how a simple foot fetish led Dani to embrace her desires and transform them into a fulfilling career. Connect with Dani: Instagram at danisynclair.xo Twitter/X at DaniSynclair In this episode, Dani opens up about her experiences in the dungeon, the connections she forms with clients, and the fascinating stories behind their fetishes. From the psychological aspects of kink to the importance of communication and consent, Dani reveals the intricate dynamics that make up her world. Learn about the various kinks she enjoys, her creative process for content creation, and how she navigates the complexities of being a public figure in the adult industry. With a focus on self-care, mental well-being, mental health, and sexual health, Dani emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own boundaries and desires. Whether you're curious about BDSM, an aspiring content creator, or simply interested in the stories that shape our intimate lives, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. Tune in for an unforgettable conversation that celebrates the beauty of self-expression and connection. Quotes from Dani from the interview: "The most enjoyable part is meeting people, whether it's clients or other creators in the industry." "It's like a whole mental thing where it's not just the feeling of getting spanked." "Once your face is out there, you can't get rid of it. It is there forever." Timeline: 00:00 - Ruan Willow introduces Dani Synclair, a professional BDSM switch 02:55 - Do you find most people have like, a story that led to the fetish? 06:32 - Talk a little bit about the dungeon that you go to 10:04 - Now what kind of kinks do you engage in there 15:56 - If someone asked you what you like about spanking, what would you say 21:45 - How did you become involved in Impact play at such a young age 27:48 - I'm very claustrophobic, so that sounds very terrifying to me 31:00 - Do you do filming too? Yes. So I do the whole content creation 36:00 - Now is this when you first started doing this kind of thing 37:58 - Do you prefer one over the other? Doing the videos versus the live events 41:42 - Do you get a lot of piracy or do you just have no idea 44:07 - Do you have any regrets of what you've done so far 46:48 - Do you do a lot of editing yourself? Yeah, I do 48:42 - The future 50:07 - When you're traveling it's literally just for work 52:56 - How do you get your brain ready for a scene before you do it Clip from the end of the episode: Servicing the Workmen audiobook at https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/servicingtheworkmenherfilthyhotwifeadventuresaudiobook In ebook and paperback New book, dark romance, thriller, suspense, stalker, lots of sex and erotic spicy storytelling, Beach House Views, now only $0.99 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41052725

How to be Shamelessly Sexy with Miss Educated, Tash Doherty, Author and Sexuality Advocate 04/27/2026

How to be Shamelessly Sexy with Miss Educated, Tash Doherty, Author and Sexuality Advocate This is a replay to publish the video version of the interview episode. Season 6, Episode 737. Ever wondered how childhood experiences secretly shape your sexual desires and why most women struggle to ask for what they want in bed? In this eye-opening episode, Ruan Willow sits down with Tash Doherty (Miss Educated), a London-born writer, author, and sexuality advocate now based in Mexico who's on a mission to make the world "shamelessly sexy." Tash breaks down her three-pillar approach to sexual empowerment: discover what you want, believe you deserve it, and ask for it. The conversation dives deep into how family and cultural shame impact our sexuality, with Tash sharing insights from her upcoming **Sex Journal** launching on Kickstarter. This beautifully designed journal features 20 poems and themed prompts exploring ecstasy, obsession, longing, and desire—all designed to help women reduce shame and align their sex lives with their values. From discussing how childhood associations create unexpected fetishes to exploring the healing power of erotic writing, Tash traces sexuality's role throughout history—from Sappho to the Song Dynasty. She shares her journey from teen romance novelist to sex blogger, including viral pieces like "Get a Man Who Loves Your Bush." The duo also tackles the complex role of pornography in sexual education, highlighting ethical alternatives, and emphasizing the importance of self-exploration through masturbation and quality toys. Ready to explore your own sexual narrative without shame? Tune in for this transformative conversation about reclaiming pleasure and rewriting your story, thereby also improving your relationships. Key Takeaways: • A simple three-pillars formula—know what you want, believe you deserve it, ask for it—reframes sexual confidence as a learnable practice. • Erotic journaling can dismantle familial shame and scaled into a mainstream coffee-table Sex Journal launched on Kickstarter. • Stigmatized practices (masturbation, toys, "healthier" porn, open communication) are portrayed as deliberate tools to build self-knowledge, pleasure, and agency. Chapters Timeline: 00:00:02 - Shamelessly Sexy 00:04:23 - Writing a Sex Journal for Women 00:07:23 - Shame and Sexuality 00:12:37 - Exploring Female Sexuality and History 00:16:09 - Exploring Sexuality Through Design 00:18:12 - Achieving Orgasm Equality 00:28:16 - Consent, communication, and sexual exploration 00:30:56 - Orgasm Equality and Sexual Empowerment 00:38:50 - Sex Tech and Favorite Toys 00:39:38 - Sex Toys: Tools Not Replacements 00:43:32 - Sex Toys Changed My Life, sexual health 00:48:09 - Clitoris Shapes, Stimulation, and Orgasm, libido 00:52:17 - Vulva vs Vagina, female anatomy Connect with Miss Educated, Tash Newsletters Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Ruan Willow Spicy and dark romance fiction books: Current ebooks on sale for only $0.99 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41032220

Rethinking Relationships Brett Chamberlin of OPEN on Polyamory, Advocacy, and Building Community 04/24/2026

Rethinking Relationships Brett Chamberlin of OPEN on Polyamory, Advocacy, and Building Community Season 6, Episode 736: Beyond the Nuclear Family: Polyamory, Justice, and Building Connected Communities. Quietly, one of the most overlooked facts in American life is this, the traditional nuclear family now makes up only nineteen percent of U.S. households. Yet our laws, workplaces, and culture still treat it as the default, leaving millions of people in non-traditional arrangements facing real discrimination. Brett Chamberlin, founder of OPEN (an advocacy nonprofit for polyamory and ethical non-monogamy), joins for a conversation that is genuinely hard to stop thinking about. Brett traces his path from environmental nonprofit work, including student-led zero-waste initiatives and plastic pollution advocacy through The Story of Stuff, to building a movement around relationship diversity. His argument is compelling and wide-ranging, taking a hard look at our loneliness crisis, our fragmented communities, our consumption-focused economy are all connected problems. (He even brings in family abolition theory.) What does it actually look like to fight for legal protections when anti-adultery laws still exist in fifteen U.S. states? Eight cities, including West Hollywood, Berkeley, and Portland, have already passed non-discrimination protections, and OPEN is pushing for more. When diverse relationship structures become normalized without needing explanation, something real has shifted in the culture. This episode will make you think harder about what family, community, and connection can mean. More about Brett Chamberlin: Brett Chamberlin (he/him) is the Founder & Executive Director of OPEN, a grassroots nonprofit advancing legal rights and cultural acceptance for non-monogamous families and relationships. Under his leadership, OPEN has passed landmark non-discrimination protections in multiple cities and established itself as a leading voice in the rapidly growing movement for relationship freedom. A repeat nonprofit founder with over a decade of movement-building experience, Brett has led global grassroots campaigns reaching millions, including for the Emmy-winning documentary "The Story of Plastic." His work has been featured in The New York Times, NPR, CNN, and NBC. Find out more: Affiliate links and deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Ruan's book Beach House Views directly from Ruan Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC. All Rights Reserved. Topics: Introducing Brett Chamberlin, Polyamory Advocate Building Community Through Non-Monogamy Nuclear Family as a Tool of Control Grassroots Advocacy for Non-Discrimination Protections Local Agency and Cooperative Living Solutions Privacy vs. Protection from Discrimination The Prevalence and Diversity of Non-Monogamy Building Coalitions Against Traditional Family Norms Progress Through Intersecting Social Movements Non-Monogamy Representation in Media and Indie Authors Supporting Independent Bookstores Through Bookshop.org Building Relationship Skills for Non-Monogamy Consent, Communication, and Healthy Sexuality Christo-Fascism and Resistance in America Survival, Joy, and Resistance Through Community Three Main Program Arms for Non-Monogamy Support Supporting Open Love Through Community Donations /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/41010495

Finding Your Joy and Sexual Authenticity for Better Sex, Advice from Coach Andre Lazarus 04/17/2026

Finding Your Joy and Sexual Authenticity for Better Sex, Advice from Coach Andre Lazarus Season 6, Episode 735: A Genuine Discussion of Intimacy and Sex. From Marine to Intimacy Guide: Andre Lazarus discusses topics on Pleasure, Vulnerability, Shedding Shame, and Connection with podcast host Ruan Willow. Rarely does a career pivot feel this surprising and this necessary. Andre Lazarus went from U.S. Marine to somatic intimacy guide, and the journey took a full decade of witnessing profound healing breakthroughs before he truly found his calling. Andre shares how his work (grounded in the Somatic method) helps everyone from trauma survivors to couples navigating alternative relationships. He's perhaps best known for appearing on the U.K. television series Virgin Island as a professional surrogate partner, bringing these conversations into public view in a way that actually matters. What does it really mean to feel safe enough for genuine pleasure? How can we be more authentic in our intimacy? Andre argues that safety isn't something a partner provides for you. It's your own responsibility, built through boundaries that are dynamic and require constant, intentional practice. Andre addresses male vulnerability, which is less commonly discussed. Men, he explains, often struggle deeply with reconnecting to vulnerability, and that disconnection blocks pleasure entirely. He also breaks down his three-pillar framework: open community conversation about sex, attunement to a partner, and aftercare. He also talks about how men have tradtionally talked about sex from their own perspective, leaving women, women's bodies, sensations, and women's pleasure out of the conversation, which has collectively skewed our culture's view of sexuality to the male experience and perspective, and erroneously perpetuated that this also applies to women. This is total lie and a very common, and toxically pervasive, misconception. Humans are finally looking at women's pleasure and experiences with sex, but it will take time to permeate the general populus to break the male centered myths. The more we talk about this the better! Topics discussed: Sexuality as Our Birthright and Vulnerability Safety is Your Personal Responsibility Setting Boundaries and Saying No Listening to Your Body's Signals Beyond Penetration: BDSM Exploration and Sensation Slowing Down and Redefining Sexual Pleasure Understanding How Our Desires Develop Breaking Free from Sexual Shame Sexual Performance Issues in Male and Female Bodies Self-Pleasure and Sexual Shame in Childhood Taking Responsibility for Your Own Pleasure Why We Shame Sexual Tools Helping People Find Intimate Connection on Television Finding Your Joy and Sexual Authenticity Exploring Different Experiences With One Toy Connect with Andre: Today, Andre balances private coaching, workshops, and a men’s online course on sexual communication with growing media visibility, including the upcoming second season of Virgin Island. Website: Linkedin: Instagram: YouTube: Facebook: Media profile: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Ruan's book in order: directly from Ruan Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC. All Rights Reserved. Andre's Bio: Andre Lazarus is a Somatic Intimacy Guide and media-recognised voice on relationships, sexuality, and embodied connection. His career has followed an unconventional path: from serving in the U.S. Marines to guiding people through the complexities of intimacy and desire. That breadth of experience gives him a distinctive perspective on courage, vulnerability, and human connection. He is best known for his role on the UK television series Virgin Island, where he appeared as a professional surrogate partner helping participants confront intimacy challenges alongside licensed therapists. The program drew national attention, and Andre’s presence on screen highlighted how intimacy work is not about performance but about safety, consent, and the courage to connect. Through his practice, Coming Closer, Andre supports individuals and couples across a wide range of needs: men facing midlife performance concerns, survivors of trauma seeking safety, long-term partners wanting to revive passion, and those exploring alternatives such as ethical non-monogamy. Equally, he works with couples committed to monogamy who want to strengthen trust and rediscover each other. His approach, rooted in the Somatica® Method of sex and intimacy coaching, emphasises learning through the body and replacing shame with curiosity. While Andre has also taught workshops introducing kink and alternative practices, he situates them within a broader conversation: how people of all backgrounds can embrace intimacy as part of their wellbeing. His message consistently comes back to honesty, communication, and self-awareness as the foundations for connection. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40910455

When Taboo Becomes Art: Exploring Erotica, Horror and Creative Freedom with Author Dixon Ahl-Knight 04/10/2026

When Taboo Becomes Art: Exploring Erotica, Horror and Creative Freedom with Author Dixon Ahl-Knight Season 6, Episode 734: Erotica fiction excerpts from books written by author Dixon Ahl-Knight, and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, plus an Author Interview touching on the following topics, When Taboo Becomes Art: Exploring Erotica, Horror, and Creative Freedom and Algorithmic Censorship forcing Coded Language: Inside Erotica writing and publishing. A conversation about erotica can lead naturally into a discussion about horror writing, because they are similar in some ways. Dixon Ahl-Knight, a small-town Iowa author who has been happily married for over twenty years...more about the author: Dixon Ahl-Knight is a small-town, Iowa-born author who loves the idea of passion and excitement in fiction and reality! Well-versed in the music/audio production industry, D.A-K decided to enter the book industry and bring the stories and fantasies of his imagination to print. When not working in the media industries, D.A-K can be found devouring the books of others, running, listening to underground music, and embarrassing his wife and kids with his silly antics and juvenile sense of humor! Find Dixon online at: @DixonAhlKnight on X Dixon_ahlknight on Instagram Dixon Ahl-Knight on Facebook dixonahlknight on TikTok Feel free to email Dixon at FInd Dixon Ahl-Knight's books at: More about the discussion: What does it actually mean to write authentically when every platform is working against you? Frankly, the conversation goes places you might not expect. Dixon explains that erotica and horror share more than you'd think (both build tension toward a climax, and the writer simply chooses where to direct the payoff). He also makes a surprisingly compelling case that writing explicit fiction is not so different from writing about being a ninja. You do not have to live something to write it. The episode digs into real tensions: AI narration disrupting the audiobook industry, Amazon's tightening content classifications, and why indie authors may be the last line of defense for creative freedom. The discussion around female empowerment in fiction, coded language on TikTok, and the Golden Pigtails award (that Ruan's book won) adds even more texture to an already layered conversation. Listen to this episode to hear a genuinely thoughtful conversation about storytelling, stigma, and staying true to your creative vision. PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Ruan's book in preorder: directly from Ruan At The Well Read Damsel indie bookstore: Key Takeaways: • **Algorithmic censorship forces coded language**: Social media platforms suppress sexual content through algorithms, pushing creators to use euphemisms like "spicy" instead of explicit terminology—a form of censorship that doesn't apply equally to violent content. • **Erotica enables value-neutral exploration**: Writing sexually explicit fiction allows authors to explore scenarios divorced from their personal beliefs and values, similar to how horror writers explore violence without endorsing it. • **Double standard in content judgment**: Literature faces stricter scrutiny and editorial pressure around sexual content than violent content, despite both being fictional explorations separated from authors' real-world positions. Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40807845

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Oral, Doggy, Female Pleasure Focused 04/07/2026

Romance with Spice, Adventure, & Fireballs: The Stories We Deserve to Read with Author Melissa Lam 04/03/2026

Romance with Spice, Adventure, & Fireballs: The Stories We Deserve to Read with Author Melissa Lam Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, Season 6, Episode 731: Romance, Fireballs, and the Stories We Deserve to Read with Indie Author Melissa Lam! Official Bio: Melissa Lam loves reading and writing romance books that take the reader on an emotional roller coaster full of mystery, suspense, and heartache. As an extroverted introvert who doesn’t like to leave the house (because it requires wearing pants), Melissa enjoys playing strategic board games and taking long showers. When she does find the will to put pants on, she can be found traveling, enjoying bubble tea, or experiencing the world through food. TL;DR I like to eat and write about heartbreaking shit. Summary: Rarely does a guest arrive with both a fireball-throwing biker and a passionate defense of honest storytelling, but Melissa Lam brings exactly that energy to this conversation. Melissa's contemporary fantasy romance series, set in modern-day Los Angeles, centers on a powerful biker who can throw fireballs trying to understand a woman immune to all powers Her trilogy, including “Ordinary Secrets”, “Captured Immune”, and “Scrubbed Mind”, grew out of a first draft that ballooned to 225,000 words before becoming three separate books. On writing: What does it actually mean to write romance that feels real and complete? Melissa argues that including explicit scenes reflects genuine relationships rather than being gratuitous, and she pushes back hard against the "clean versus dirty" labels that unfairly judge authors who write open-door content. Relationships in the real world often have sex, so should fiction. It’s authentic! She also opens up about publishing four books within ten months, managing every aspect of indie publishing while navigating postpartum exhaustion, and why she rejects AI shortcuts in favor of real human editors, cover artists, and beta readers. Find Melissa at http://authormelissalam.com/ and on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/authormelissalam/ where she is most active. Topic timeline: From Reader to Romance Author The Versatility and Power of Profanity Understanding Romance Book Spice Levels Cutting Scenes and Managing Word Count Writing Dual POV with Male Perspective Focus Male Perspective Storytelling in Romance Books Reading Habits and Book Preferences Debate Books That Tear Your Heart Apart Motherhood and Writing: The Postpartum Challenge Balancing Social Media Pressure and Creative Writing Building a Loyal Fanbase Through Consistent Writing Why Human Editors Beat AI Tools Why Human Feedback Beats AI for Creative Work The Value of Human-Made Creative Work Authenticity in Writing vs AI-Generated Books Key Takeaways: • "Open door" spice levels aren't about purity—Melissa's first drafts contained five intimate scenes per book, but were edited down to one to meet publishing standards. • Melissa chooses a male perspective during action sequences as a deliberate narrative choice, rather than defaulting to female POV as many contemporary romance series do, creating a distinct storytelling approach in her supernatural biker romance. • A 225,000-word manuscript becoming a trilogy required cutting plot, not just romance scenes, revealing that contemporary fantasy romance often demands aggressive editing beyond just adjusting spice levels to meet market expectations. Melissa's Book Ordinary Secrets: (affiliate link) Ruan's Book Beach House Views: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40728975

Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett 03/31/2026

Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett Season 6, Episode 730: This is a replay of an episode that aired on 4/25/25, but being reposted to provide the video version for the podcast audience. Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett. Guest Bio: Lucy Rowett, CSC, is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She is the host of the Naked and Unashamed Life podcast, and the resident sex coach at UK contraception platform, The Lowdown. She is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including iNews, Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, GQ, The Sun, Insider, and Glamour. In 2023, she was nominated for somatic sexologist of the year at the sexual freedom awards. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for women and vulva havers to explore their full erotic potential. Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again. Summary: Breaking Free from Sexual Shame: A Revolutionary Conversation Dive into a transformative discussion between Ruan Willow and sexologist Lucy Rowett as they tackle the often-silenced topic of women's sexual pleasure. This eye-opening episode challenges the deeply rooted shame surrounding female sexuality and offers a fresh perspective on embracing our natural desires. Lucy, a specialist in supporting women and non-binary individuals, shares powerful insights about: - The universal impact of sexual shame across all backgrounds - Dismantling harmful cultural narratives that suppress pleasure - The importance of comprehensive sexual education - Understanding female arousal and the physiology of pleasure - Creating safe spaces for sexual exploration and expression The conversation navigates through the evolution of female sexuality in modern culture, from the mainstreaming of erotic literature to the vital role of sex-positive communities in fostering acceptance and growth. Ready to transform your relationship with pleasure and embrace a shame-free approach to sexuality? This episode is your gateway to understanding and celebrating your sexual wellbeing. Tune in now for an empowering journey towards sexual liberation. Sexual health is mental health, and your sexual wellness matters! Links: Learn more: Free guide to confident sexual communication: Free meditation to connect to your vulva: Instagram: Podcast: The Naked and Unashamed Life Spotify: Get Ruan's new spicy dark romance book Beach House Views: Newsletters Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40681825

On the Cusp of the Third Sexual Revolution Plus Adult Sex Ed with Educator Sabrina Baldini 03/28/2026

On the Cusp of the Third Sexual Revolution Plus Adult Sex Ed with Educator Sabrina Baldini Video version. The Audio version originally aired on August 1st of 2025. Season 6, Episode 729. The Third Sexual Revolution, & Sex Ed for Adults with Sabrina Baldini. Did you know we might be on the cusp of a third sexual revolution? Sex educator Sabrina Baldini shares fascinating insights from her journey transitioning from teaching sex education to kids to launching After Sex Ed, a company focused on adult sexual wellness. Through candid discussion, Sabrina explores: - The challenges of promoting sex positivity in today's censorship climate - How inadequate early sex education impacts adult relationships - The pandemic's role in catalyzing sexual awakening, self discovery, personal growth, and exploration - The growing demand for authentic, relatable content in adult spaces - Historical parallels with previous sexual revolutions (1920s and 1960s) Despite social media bans and societal stigma, Sabrina remains committed to fostering open conversations about sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Her work bridges the gap between traditional sex education and the real-world challenges adults face in their intimate lives. Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual wellness and education? Tune in to this thought-provoking episode that's reshaping how we think and talk about sexuality. Estimated Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sex Education for Adults 00:01:43 - Challenges of Discussing Sex Education 00:04:20 - Challenges of Sex Positivity 00:08:04 - Talking to Kids About Consent 00:10:00 - Understanding Healthy Sexual Feelings 00:16:16 - The Rise of the Third Sexual Revolution 00:22:30 - Impact of Taboo on Sexual Behavior 00:23:41 - Trends in Authenticity and Romance 00:26:23 - Exploring Age and Sexuality 00:30:29 - Impact of Technology on Sexuality 00:34:18 - Trends in Modern Relationships 00:37:19 - Online Safety and Dating Apps 00:38:40 - Concerns About AI in Art 00:48:54 - Addressing Sexuality and Porn Education 00:54:47 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality 00:59:46 - Understanding Fantasy and Sexuality 01:01:51 - Understanding Emotional Connections in Sex Key Takeaways: • Adult sexual education is often overlooked, despite the urgent need for discussions on pleasure and consent. • The pandemic highlighted and intensified the challenges of censorship in sexual education, affecting adult learners. • There is a growing movement, referred to as a third sexual revolution, that emphasizes open dialogue and authenticity in exploring sexuality. Sabrina Baldini | Sex Educator, TEDx Speaker & Founder of After Sex Ed Newsletters Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40653715

Oral On Vacation, Around Her World 03/27/2026

From Crime Scenes to Supernatural Worlds: Alexandria Swanson on Dark Romance and Character-Driven Writing 03/20/2026

From Crime Scenes to Supernatural Worlds: Alexandria Swanson on Dark Romance and Character-Driven Writing Season 6, Episode 727: The episode starts off with Ruan narrating excerpts from Alexandria Swanson's Dark Romance books, Defiance (affiliate link ) and Balance (affiliate link , then we chat about writing, crazy sex related stories Alexandria has dealt with in her job, and the lovely parts of publishing as an indie author, but dealing with the crap in a world full of censorship. Ruan's book mentioned, Beach House Views: Dark Romance Fantasy Author Alexandria Swanson bio: Alexandria has been writing short stories and poems her entire life in journals and had a great idea for a novel. Defiance was the first book she finished, with more to come! Alexandria has her B.A.s in criminology, sociology, and criminal justice with a minor in forensic science. She works as a 911 dispatcher and lives in the Minnesota metro area with her dog and cat, who keep her busy. In her free time, she enjoys rock climbing, hiking, travel and of course, writing. Alexandria is passionate about herbalism and is really bad at surfing, but she considers herself a masochist. Episode Summary: Author Alexandria Swanson shared she draws inspiration from real experiences when writing (though her writing is fantasy, not memoir), including working as a 911 dispatcher, plus with her background in her studies impacting her characters, her supernatural tales feature werewolves, witches, and vampires who have real psychological disorders, and this plays out as fully fleshed out and named in the storyline. We also discussed the crazy stuff...like the bizarre emergency calls Alexandria has handled: sex toys left in ovens, swallowed handcuff keys, and patients making dangerous decisions with household appliances. These real-life incidents are both interesting and intriguing, and a bit comical and shocking! Alexandria's books *Defiance* and *Balance* explore something rarely addressed in fantasy: how centuries-old supernatural beings experience PTSD and mental health challenges. Her pack therapist character Naya treats werewolves dealing with multi-lifetime trauma, while her protagonist Chloe struggles with night terrors based on Alexandria's own experiences. Listen to hear about the cover designer who hand-draws everything, why Alexandria loves editing (yes, really), and the book fair she will attend that podcast host Ruan Willow is hosting in Minnesota, The Honey and Jalapeno Book Fair, My 17, 2026. Topic timeline: Ruan narrates excerpts from Alexandria Swanson's books Meeting an Author at a Book Fair From Journals to Published Author Fiction vs. Reality: Blurring Personal Stories Emergency Room Stories: Handcuffs and Bad Decisions Mental Health in Fantasy and Paranormal Romance The Value of In-Person Book Fairs Censorship, Leaving TikTok Over Algorithm and Ownership Social Media Double Standards and MORE Censorship Finding a Sustainable Writing Routine Pet-Friendly Work Schedule and Writing Rituals Finding Creative Space Away From Home Loving Editing vs. Hating First Drafts Authors Must Review Every Editorial Change Designing Dual Book Covers with Human Artistry AI in Book Covers: Avoiding Hidden Technology Amazon Lost My Book and Pre-Orders! Book Printing Struggles and Independent Solutions Wrapping Up with Alexandria: Books and Social Media Instagram alexandria_swanson_author Affiliate links and Ruan's links: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters ⁠ Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40563505

Creating Safe Spaces for Women to Explore Desire: The Story of Skirt Club 03/13/2026

Creating Safe Spaces for Women to Explore Desire: The Story of Skirt Club Season 6, Episode 726: Surprisingly, Genevieve LeJeune founded Skirt Club to address a need she felt in her own life, only to discover 25,000 other women felt the same way. The private members club creates women-only spaces where nervous systems can relax, and genuine connection happens without performance or fear of judgment. After spending 15 years in finance enduring workplace harassment that was simply normalized, Gen witnessed how women of her generation were conditioned to survive in male-dominated environments. She started hosting champagne parties that grew from 15 to 150 attendees within a year, revealing just how many women needed a supportive environment to explore their sexuality without shame. (The demand was staggering.) Through building communities across 36 cities worldwide with 27,200 members, Gen discovered that women's fundamental needs are surprisingly universal across cultures. Her events have evolved beyond sexuality into something broader to include embodiment, connection, and authentic self-expression. When women abandon people-pleasing patterns and reconnect with their bodies, they experience profound personal liberation. Lejeune emphasizes that sisterhood and reduced judgment among women could genuinely transform society. By helping each other ask for support and building confidence through collaboration rather than competition, women create the foundation for lasting peace. Find out more: , , , , and the website Founding Skirt Club for Women's Sexual Empowerment Women's Only Spaces Create Safety and Intimacy Creating Safe Spaces for Women to Thrive Women Supporting Women Across the World Women's Sexual Pleasure and Empowerment Learning to Say No Without Guilt Generational Views on Internet and Sexual Exploration Women Fear Risk, Men Just Try It Ethical Non-Monogamy and Relationship Transparency Breaking Sexual Taboos for Women's Pleasure Women Owning Their Sexuality and Independence Women's Activism and Social Movements Community Care and Sexual Exploration Events Women's Empowerment Through Connection and Embodiment Where to Find Skirt Club Online Ruan's novella: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. Key Takeaways: • **Women's behavior and openness fundamentally changes in all-female spaces** — nervous systems relax and genuine vulnerability emerges without male presence, creating conditions for authentic connection that mixed-gender environments cannot replicate. • **Bisexual and bi-curious women represent an underserved market hungry for community** — the jump from 15 to 150 members in one year demonstrates massive unmet demand for judgment-free spaces where women can explore sexuality openly. • **Overcoming shame requires both safe spaces and exposure to diverse perspectives** — cultural conditioning around female desire is universal across cultures, but can be collectively unlearned through supportive communities and exposure to how other women authentically live. GENEVIEVE LEJEUNE is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 25,000 members globally, women are more interested in each other than ever. She was the first to curate luxurious global events where women can put their own desires first, and gain confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. A leading figure in the movement for women’s sexual empowerment, Genevieve has been interviewed for high-profile publications such as Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Cosmo, Bloomberg, Rolling Stone and the Sunday Times. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40453160

He Spanked Me In Front of the Window Excerpt 03/10/2026

Two Sexuailty Podcasters on How Podcasting Changed Our Perspectives on Sexuality and Connection 03/06/2026

Two Sexuailty Podcasters on How Podcasting Changed Our Perspectives on Sexuality and Connection Season 6, Episode 724 with podcaster Leigh Ann Steele from the Hustlers 2 Housewives Podcast, an Adult Industry Podcast. Two Sexuality Podcasters on How Podcasting Changed Our Perspectives on Sexuality and Connection, plus we talk about sex, life, being powerful women in midlife, and dogs! NOTE: video version coming soon to Ruan Willow Podcaster on YouTube, and also on Substack, Spotify, and PodNation Media on Roku TV/Fire TV devices, and Full Swap Radio (app and internet radio station). Discussion Topics: Introducing Hustler's 2 Housewives Podcast Connecting With Hundreds of Guests Worldwide Shopping for the Right Sex Toy Being Open About Sex and Sexuality Elderly People Deserve Sexual Freedom Pets Give Life Energy and Purpose Unexpected Dog Rescue Changed Everything Favorite Podcast Guests and Surprising Conversations Why Podcasting Feels Like the Perfect Job Everyone's a Whole Person Humanizing People Beyond Their Industry Podcast Guest Selection and Interview Approach Women's Sexual Pleasure and Menopause Ignored Women's Sexual Health and Cannabis Strains The Power of Not Giving a Fuck Genuine Conversations and Not Taking Things Personal Summary: In a conversation with my podcast guest, Leigh Ann Steele from "Hustlers 2 Housewives”, (where she interviews adult industry performers), she articulated something I've felt deeply: hosting a podcast fundamentally rewires how you see people. You stop seeing people as one-dimensional characters. Instead of categorizing someone by their profession or background, you discover they're complex humans with unexpected perspectives, humor, and intelligence. And what a beautiful thing it is to see humans as human beings rather than labels! We talked about how podcasting has transformed our views on sexuality and connection and made us less judgmental, and more open, people who are more supportive of others rather than resorting to tearing them down. Talking genuinely with hundreds of diverse people fosters deep growth in empathy and grace. Undoubtedly interviewing people from a wide variety of lived experiences reduces the tendency to judge others. We also chatted about previous guests, some of them mutual, and how they shattered our expectations and bloomed with the beauty of their individual truths. People are amazing, if you let them show you! We also chatted about how sex is ageless (another area to curb your judgements in) and how frustrating and insulting it is that the world has so horrendously neglected women’s sexual health and pleasure research, including lying for decades that hormone replacement therapy was harmful to women (spoiler: it’s NOT harmful, it’s very, very helpful for women to be on HRT, especially around and after menopause. Research it!) Maybe we'll share if we liked the lemon!!!!! Connect with Leigh Ann on Instagram at hustlers2wives and find her podcast Hustlers 2 Housewives on podcast apps and the Full Swap Radio internet radio station and app. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: Make the SWTICH to a new audiobook platform: Libro FM! Get indie author's books like mine! (affiliate link): get two free audiobooks when you start a new one-credit per month membership using promo code SWITCH. PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my Pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40343535

Finally Got My Neighbor's Cock 03/04/2026

Finally Got My Neighbor's Cock Season 6, Episode 723: Next Door Temptations, Excerpts from Book 1, Finally Got My Neighbor's Cock. Melissa had lusted for Cal for years, both of them had interacted as neighbors exchanging social pleasantries at neighborhood parties, bumping into each other while out walking dogs, at school events, and at the local grocery stores. Melissa had always surmised there was something more beneath the cordial surface of their interactions, and it was not just merely as neighborly friends. She had seen the spark in his eyes and returned it on multiple occasions. One day Melissa spied Cal working hard in his yard on a hot summer day and pulled her car to the curb to chat with him during his mundane task. She was delighted to find out Cal was now separated from his wife and clearly was now free because she had left him for another man. This was her chance. Their conversation was brought in the house for iced tea to get out of the hot sun. Things heated up way more than either of them expected when they both realized they had each harbored the serious hots for each other for literally years. Hooking up after their lust had boiled and baked for years was just the beginning stepstone to something that would blow both their minds, and their sex lives, to the moon! Book 1. Get the full ebook: Get the full audiboook: Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: Make the SWTICH to a new audiobook platform: Libro FM! Get indie author's books like mine! (affiliate link): get two free audiobooks when you start a new one-credit per month membership using promo code SWITCH. PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my Pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40317795

Brandi Swan, from Ballerina to On Stage Actress to Film 02/27/2026

Brandi Swan, from Ballerina to On Stage Actress to Film Brandi Swan... This is a partial episode to present some of the interivew in Video Form, it is also available in full on my podcast channel in audio. Get the FULL video interview on YouTube or on Spotify Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast Hosts Actress Brandi Swan in an interview! Season 6, Episode 719: From Stage to screen: Brandi Swan's Path into Professional Adult Entertainment. Brandi Swan's journey from theater stages to adult film sets is anything but ordinary. After years as a dancer, she discovered pole dancing, which eventually led her into adult entertainment—though not before she learned what "making it wink" meant during her very first audition (talk about a learning curve, yikes!). Now working with major studios, she's finding her preferences through experience, crediting co-star Jay Romero for making her comfortable during a successful first anal scene. Brandi has a Master's Degree in Theater and she loves dancing exotically and doing adult entertainment because 'she loves the thrill, the art of seduction, and the people she meets along the way." Beyond the bedroom, Brandi's navigating the demanding business side of adult entertainment. She recently graced the red carpet at both AVN and XBIZ events. At XBIZ in Los Angeles, she spent a week networking through panels and speed-dating events with agencies and directors—exhausting work that contrasts sharply with her previous theater career. She's setting boundaries (no hard hits to the face), embracing her submissive side, and planning to eventually transition from performing into directing and producing, bringing her film background to create more sophisticated adult content. Connect with Brandi Swan: PLEASE VOTE FOR ME: I've been nominated for books in the Golden Pigtails Awards and my books ALL made it to the finals! I'm super honored to have been nominated and thank you for voting for me! Please vote again for my books before February ends so I can win. My books are John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, The Drink Master, and The Arousal Package, plus the anthology I’m in Summer Teases 2. Please vote for me Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40259980

From Shame to Liberation: Writing Sex-Positive Fiction with Author Misty O'Hara 02/27/2026

From Shame to Liberation: Writing Sex-Positive Fiction with Author Misty O'Hara Season 6, Episode 721: From Shame to Liberation: Writing Sex-Positive Fiction with Author Misty O'Hara **Breaking Free from Sexual Shame Through Fiction** After her mother died, author Misty O'Hara made a radical decision. She would channel her conservative upbringing and nineteen-year monogamous marriage into something transformative for herself by sleeping with 100 men, but then switched gears to a novel exploring female sexual agency instead. The result? *The Hundred Man Plan*—over one hundred chapters written across seven years while juggling motherhood, work, and school, all while exploring her sexuality in midlife through writing and polyamory. What makes Misty's approach so refreshing is her unapologetic stance on double standards. Men with multiple partners get celebrated as "studs," while women face judgment and shame. She reclaims provocative language in her writing, arguing that authors don't need personal experience with everything they write about (just like science fiction writers don't need real life adventures in spaceships!). Her characters find glorious self-empowerment and conscious choice. The book features witty, sassy, flawed heroines—never passive or perfect. Misty carefully crafts intimate scenes using conversational adult language while avoiding clinical terminology. She emphasizes that sexual health connects directly to mental health, rejecting shame-based messaging entirely. Now touring with Barnes & Noble across Utah and planning book signings nationwide, Misty discovered an untapped market of women seeking escapism through romance. Her short chapters work perfectly for couples to read together as well. Ready to explore fiction as a healing tool? Find "The Hundred Man Plan" at or major retailers like Amazon (affiliate link) and Barnes & Noble. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my Pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: The Arousal Package: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40258040

Servicing the College Fence Builders Excerpt, An Age Gap Hotwife Novella 02/25/2026

Servicing the College Fence Builders Excerpt, An Age Gap Hotwife Novella Season 6, Episode 720: Servicing the College Fence Builders Excerpt, An Age Gap Hotwife Novella, written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Blurb: In this MMMMMF, John continues to lead his wife through sharing events with work men who come to the house, and the big surprise of the day is she's helping the work men work this time! She gets a special 'uniform', which is skimpier than one would expect anyone to do work in, but that's not the biggest shocker of the day. When the workers arrive, Laney's jaw drops as she had expected one man, but it's a crew! Not just any crew, this is a band of five sexy strong male college students who build, repair, and paint fences. As John dictates the rules for the day, and for the spicy event that will be the hot delicious finale, all the men and Laney are ready to tear into the day with lusty excited hopes. They are all ecstatic about all the potential dreamy flirty pitstops along the way as they do their duty to get the fence job done, but with much more salacious edging than any of them had expected. Being the female in the group, Laney is looking forward to so many high riding peaks, her highest count ever will surely be achieved with a full beefy crew like this. John's certainly not left out of the fun though! He has outdone himself this time in delivering a scheme for one of Laney's topmost unmet fantasies, and his beaming smile tells all. He's not only overindulgent with his wife, but he's going to reap all the steamy benefits once the guys head home, and for years and years to come thereafter. He's no dummy! Novella 5 in the Servicing the Work Men, My Filthy Hotwife Adventures Series. This contains affiliate links. Get the novella: Get the FULL book: Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40233180

From Stage to Screen: Brandi Swan's Path into Professional Adult Entertainment 02/20/2026

From Stage to Screen: Brandi Swan's Path into Professional Adult Entertainment Season 6, Episode 719: From Stage to screen: Brandi Swan's Path into Professional Adult Entertainment. Brandi Swan's journey from theater stages to adult film sets is anything but ordinary. After years as a dancer, she discovered pole dancing, which eventually led her into adult entertainment—though not before she learned what "making it wink" meant during her very first audition (talk about a learning curve, yikes!). Now working with major studios, she's finding her preferences through experience, crediting co-star Jay Romero for making her comfortable during a successful first anal scene. Brandi has a Master's Degree in Theater and she loves dancing exotically and doing adult entertainment because 'she loves the thrill, the art of seduction, and the people she meets along the way." Is genuine arousal on camera even possible for someone new to the industry? Brandi surprised herself and her director during her first girl-girl scene, experiencing authentic attraction despite never having been intimate with women before. She lost her virginity at 24 and views her current work as an exciting exploration of sexuality rather than just a job. Beyond the bedroom, Brandi's navigating the demanding business side of adult entertainment. She recently graced the red carpet at both AVN and XBIZ events. At XBIZ in Los Angeles, she spent a week networking through panels and speed-dating events with agencies and directors—exhausting work that contrasts sharply with her previous theater career. She's setting boundaries (no hard hits to the face), embracing her submissive side, and planning to eventually transition from performing into directing and producing, bringing her film background to create more sophisticated adult content. Tune in to hear Brandi's unfiltered take on the industry's realities. Watch the video version on YouTube , Spotify, Substack, and PodNation Media Channel on Roku TV/Fire TV devices. Connect with Brandi Swan: PLEASE VOTE FOR ME: I've been nominated for books in the Golden Pigtails Awards and my books ALL made it to the finals! I'm super honored to have been nominated and thank you for voting for me! Please vote again for my books before February ends so I can win. My books are John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, The Drink Master, and The Arousal Package, plus the anthology I’m in Summer Teases 2. Please vote for me Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40176870

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Couples Healing Beats Pills with a 97.2% Solution for Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Regeneration with REGENmax 02/13/2026

Couples Healing Beats Pills with a 97.2% Solution for Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Regeneration with REGENmax Season 6, Episode 717: Discovering the Real Cure for Erectile Dysfunction with Jeffrey Nuziard of REGENmax, The 97.2% Solution to Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Regeneration Blood flow isn't the problem—it's just a symptom. Jeffrey Nuziard, founder of Sexual Wellness Centers of America, reveals how his personal struggle with ED led him to develop REGENmax, the only patented cure for erectile dysfunction. His innovative approach actually regenerates tissue back to its prime (unlike pills that just mask symptoms temporarily). Want the video version? Coming today to YouTube, Spotify, and Substack in video. Learn more: Website: Instagram: Facebook: LinkedIn: The results speak volumes: a 97.2% success rate across over 3,200 patients. This comprehensive one-year protocol combines hormone optimization, regenerative injections, shockwave therapy, and laser treatments. What's remarkable is how the treatment addresses both men and women, since both genders have erectile tissue. Women experiencing clitoral atrophy or vaginal relaxation can benefit from similar therapies, essentially the same regenerative process. Jeffrey explains how modern sedentary lifestyles have created unprecedented hormone deficiencies, with thirty-year-olds now showing testosterone levels of seventy-year-olds. Yet he emphasizes that aging doesn't have to mean giving up on sexual health—some patients maintain benefits over a decade later. At 60, Jeffrey himself is healthier than he was in his forties through hormone optimization. Could restoring sexual function actually improve your overall health, energy, and mental clarity? Ready to reclaim what you thought was lost forever? Listen now to discover the science behind regenerating your body's natural function. Sex is for you and you can have it your whole life long! Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40103540

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From Marines to OnlyFans: Conzo's Unconventional Path to Healing and Advocacy 02/06/2026

From Marines to OnlyFans: Conzo's Unconventional Path to Healing and Advocacy Season 6, Episode 715: **A Marine's Unconventional Path to Charity Work** When Conzo left the U.S. Marines, he never imagined his next chapter would involve OnlyFans, a UK dating show appearance, and becoming an accidental meme. (Ladbible apparently loves using his image as clickbait for completely unrelated stories.) This former Marine now uses adult content creation to fund animal rescue, LGBTQ youth support, and domestic abuse survivor assistance—all while challenging society's discomfort with sexuality and nudity. Links: Instagram: LADbible: Daily Star: After discovering financial mismanagement at a horse rehabilitation charity in Scotland where he served as vice chairperson, Conzo faced a moral crossroads. The animals needed immediate help. His solution? **OnlyFans became his fundraising platform**, despite initial hesitation about the unconventional approach. Beyond the fundraising aspect, he found the work personally transformative and healing, helping him process past trauma and discover his sexuality. Why does sex work carry such stigma when it's simply labor performed by people—often parents with special needs children, disabled individuals, or neurodivergent people—who struggle in traditional employment without adequate state support? Conzo argues that opposition stems from control rather than genuine welfare concerns, noting how society suddenly found moral outrage when women started controlling their own earnings on platforms like OnlyFans. Ready to hear more about redefining masculinity, navigating stigma, and finding purpose through unconventional means? This conversation goes deep. Key Takeaways: • **Sex work as trauma healing**: Conzo describes his OnlyFans work as genuinely transformative for processing military trauma, challenging the assumption that sex work is inherently exploitative or damaging to the performer. • **Diverse sex worker demographics**: A significant portion of sex workers are parents, disabled individuals, and neurodivergent people using it out of economic necessity due to inadequate state support—not a fringe phenomenon. • **Decriminalization as harm reduction**: Conzo argues that criminalizing sex work increases danger and exploitation, suggesting legalization protects workers better than moral crusades framed around "rescue" narratives. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Opus Clip Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/40022010

Beyond the Performance: Ms. Amanda on Authenticity, Community, and Building an Adult Empire Promoting Sex Positivity 02/01/2026

Beyond the Performance: Ms. Amanda on Authenticity, Community, and Building an Adult Empire Promoting Sex Positivity Season 6, Episode 714: Building a Sex-Positive Community Through Multiple Ventures with guest Ms. Amanda Websites Studio Main swinger page When Ms. Amanda describes her journey from camming to running Full Swap Radio and Kasbh Studio, she reveals something unexpected: excitement, not fear, fuels her work. This multifaceted creator has built an empire around authenticity in an industry often criticized for being artificial. Throughout the conversation, Ms. Amanda explains her approach to filming adult content with remarkable honesty. She manages her hormones strategically, rarely fakes scenes, and believes genuine reactions matter to audiences. (Her husband films most of her work, creating what she calls the ideal partnership.) She shares what makes someone truly successful in this unconventional career path. With a swinger event planned for Kansas City in January and legal brothel tours at the Love Ranch scheduled for summer, Amanda's calendar stays packed. Her podcast "Crazy Truth About Swinging" focuses on educational content about navigating the lifestyle community, emphasizing that practices from a decade ago no longer apply today. She's received an ASN award nomination, viewing recognition itself as meaningful regardless of winning. Despite elaborate consent forms varying across platforms like XHamster, Faphouse, and OnlyFans, Amanda operates her studio to guide aspiring performers through entering the industry. She stresses that chemistry and personality compatibility matter more than follower count or reputation, everyone starts somewhere. **Listen to discover how Amanda balances multiple business ventures while maintaining authenticity in every performance.** Topics: From Camming to Building a Swinger Empire Discussing Favorite Music and Film Acting Body Image and Self-Consciousness Editing Your Own Content and Self-Perception Communication and Preferences in Adult Content Career Longevity and Collaboration in Adult Content Husband Films and Performs in Collaborations Navigating Consent Forms and Platform Requirements Giving People a Chance to Grow Choosing Practical Outfits for Filming Breathing, Sounds, and Multiple Orgasms Sexuality Changes Throughout Our Lives Key takeaways: • **Authenticity and genuine connection outperform polished production** – Success in adult content creation depends on real human interaction and honest communication rather than technical perfection or unrealistic portrayals. • **The swinging community is growing in awareness but faces persistent social stigma** – Despite increased visibility, participants still encounter significant judgment, making privacy and discretion critical considerations for those involved. • **Excitement and live audience engagement drive motivation more than fear or taboo** – Content creators in this space are primarily motivated by the thrill of real-time interaction and genuine connection with audiences, not by transgressive appeal alone. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) /episode/index/show/f08823e0-0d4f-49e9-89ba-59fa2d305d3a/id/39949165

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