Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow
Human sexuality is the dance of education with pleasure. One cannot exist without the other for full expression. I strive to attend to both realms on this podcast. Oral Stimulation and all the sexy sex-positive stuff! My goals with this podcast are twofold: to provide you an escape to enjoy your sexuality and to improve it with the help of experts. Hi! Welcome to my podcast! I'm a podcaster, spicy romance author of multiple subgenres, and an audiobook narrator. My pen name is Ruan Willow. Listen and enjoy as I narrate sexy titillating yummy and spicy erotic romance stories. I talk about sex and relationships with experts and sexperts. Chats focus on things to improve your sex life, including advice, tips, and lots of hot spicy fiction. I'm sharing ideas to empower you, enhance your relationships and intimacy, your love life, and ideas for making romance bloom in your life. I also interview authors to celebrate them and introduce you to new writers in the spicy/erotic fiction genre. This podcast is about celebrating sexuality and all things sex-positive, I care about your sexual health, both solo and with a partner(s)! Are you ready? Get ready. Let's do it ...Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow...let's go! 18+only. NSFW. Copyright 2021-2025 All Rights Reserved Pink Infinity Publishing LLC Ruan Willow Music Heatseeker JB Good. This podcast show is not responsible for any violations of laws in states or countries where listeners of this podcast live where this content is prohibited.
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On the Cusp of the Third Sexual Revolution Plus Adult Sex Ed with Educator Sabrina Baldini
03/28/2026
On the Cusp of the Third Sexual Revolution Plus Adult Sex Ed with Educator Sabrina Baldini
Video version. The Audio version originally aired on August 1st of 2025. Season 6, Episode 729. The Third Sexual Revolution, & Sex Ed for Adults with Sabrina Baldini. Did you know we might be on the cusp of a third sexual revolution? Sex educator Sabrina Baldini shares fascinating insights from her journey transitioning from teaching sex education to kids to launching After Sex Ed, a company focused on adult sexual wellness. Through candid discussion, Sabrina explores: - The challenges of promoting sex positivity in today's censorship climate - How inadequate early sex education impacts adult relationships - The pandemic's role in catalyzing sexual awakening, self discovery, personal growth, and exploration - The growing demand for authentic, relatable content in adult spaces - Historical parallels with previous sexual revolutions (1920s and 1960s) Despite social media bans and societal stigma, Sabrina remains committed to fostering open conversations about sexuality, consent, and pleasure. Her work bridges the gap between traditional sex education and the real-world challenges adults face in their intimate lives. Ready to challenge your perspectives on sexual wellness and education? Tune in to this thought-provoking episode that's reshaping how we think and talk about sexuality. Estimated Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sex Education for Adults 00:01:43 - Challenges of Discussing Sex Education 00:04:20 - Challenges of Sex Positivity 00:08:04 - Talking to Kids About Consent 00:10:00 - Understanding Healthy Sexual Feelings 00:16:16 - The Rise of the Third Sexual Revolution 00:22:30 - Impact of Taboo on Sexual Behavior 00:23:41 - Trends in Authenticity and Romance 00:26:23 - Exploring Age and Sexuality 00:30:29 - Impact of Technology on Sexuality 00:34:18 - Trends in Modern Relationships 00:37:19 - Online Safety and Dating Apps 00:38:40 - Concerns About AI in Art 00:48:54 - Addressing Sexuality and Porn Education 00:54:47 - Exploring Cultural Perspectives on Sexuality 00:59:46 - Understanding Fantasy and Sexuality 01:01:51 - Understanding Emotional Connections in Sex Key Takeaways: • Adult sexual education is often overlooked, despite the urgent need for discussions on pleasure and consent. • The pandemic highlighted and intensified the challenges of censorship in sexual education, affecting adult learners. • There is a growing movement, referred to as a third sexual revolution, that emphasizes open dialogue and authenticity in exploring sexuality. Sabrina Baldini | Sex Educator, TEDx Speaker & Founder of After Sex Ed Newsletters Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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Oral On Vacation, Around Her World
03/27/2026
Oral On Vacation, Around Her World
Season 6, Episode 728: This is a replay story. A delectable heterosexual spicy short romance story with teasing oral fun! Perfect for his and for her pleasure! It's another erotica fiction episode for your saucy entertainment pleasure! Listen for indulging in your well-deserved, and much needed self care time! It's your sexuality and it matters! Sexual health is a part of your mental health! The story: Around Her World: Marlayna and Jason are headed to their favorite hidden away resort for a long weekend of hotel intimacy and reconnection in their relationship. The teasing fun begins when Jason drops hints about a new oral technique he plans to pleasure Marlayna with once they are in the hotel room. Her anticipation runs wild as their flirting reaches inferno levels on the road trip up north. The culmination of their saucy conversation leaves both members of the couple panting heavy with satiated smiles. The resort holds repeat magic for them! It's sexual magic! Get Ruan's new Thriller Dark Romance book: Beach House Views Affiliate Kiiroo Ineractive Sex toys: Vibrators... try out my favorite the Pearls! Ruan's links: Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Rewind Book Fair: Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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From Crime Scenes to Supernatural Worlds: Alexandria Swanson on Dark Romance and Character-Driven Writing
03/20/2026
From Crime Scenes to Supernatural Worlds: Alexandria Swanson on Dark Romance and Character-Driven Writing
Season 6, Episode 727: The episode starts off with Ruan narrating excerpts from Alexandria Swanson's Dark Romance books, Defiance (affiliate link ) and Balance (affiliate link , then we chat about writing, crazy sex related stories Alexandria has dealt with in her job, and the lovely parts of publishing as an indie author, but dealing with the crap in a world full of censorship. Ruan's book mentioned, Beach House Views: Dark Romance Fantasy Author Alexandria Swanson bio: Alexandria has been writing short stories and poems her entire life in journals and had a great idea for a novel. Defiance was the first book she finished, with more to come! Alexandria has her B.A.s in criminology, sociology, and criminal justice with a minor in forensic science. She works as a 911 dispatcher and lives in the Minnesota metro area with her dog and cat, who keep her busy. In her free time, she enjoys rock climbing, hiking, travel and of course, writing. Alexandria is passionate about herbalism and is really bad at surfing, but she considers herself a masochist. Episode Summary: Author Alexandria Swanson shared she draws inspiration from real experiences when writing (though her writing is fantasy, not memoir), including working as a 911 dispatcher, plus with her background in her studies impacting her characters, her supernatural tales feature werewolves, witches, and vampires who have real psychological disorders, and this plays out as fully fleshed out and named in the storyline. We also discussed the crazy stuff...like the bizarre emergency calls Alexandria has handled: sex toys left in ovens, swallowed handcuff keys, and patients making dangerous decisions with household appliances. These real-life incidents are both interesting and intriguing, and a bit comical and shocking! Alexandria's books *Defiance* and *Balance* explore something rarely addressed in fantasy: how centuries-old supernatural beings experience PTSD and mental health challenges. Her pack therapist character Naya treats werewolves dealing with multi-lifetime trauma, while her protagonist Chloe struggles with night terrors based on Alexandria's own experiences. Listen to hear about the cover designer who hand-draws everything, why Alexandria loves editing (yes, really), and the book fair she will attend that podcast host Ruan Willow is hosting in Minnesota, The Honey and Jalapeno Book Fair, My 17, 2026. Topic timeline: Ruan narrates excerpts from Alexandria Swanson's books Meeting an Author at a Book Fair From Journals to Published Author Fiction vs. Reality: Blurring Personal Stories Emergency Room Stories: Handcuffs and Bad Decisions Mental Health in Fantasy and Paranormal Romance The Value of In-Person Book Fairs Censorship, Leaving TikTok Over Algorithm and Ownership Social Media Double Standards and MORE Censorship Finding a Sustainable Writing Routine Pet-Friendly Work Schedule and Writing Rituals Finding Creative Space Away From Home Loving Editing vs. Hating First Drafts Authors Must Review Every Editorial Change Designing Dual Book Covers with Human Artistry AI in Book Covers: Avoiding Hidden Technology Amazon Lost My Book and Pre-Orders! Book Printing Struggles and Independent Solutions Wrapping Up with Alexandria: Books and Social Media Instagram alexandria_swanson_author Affiliate links and Ruan's links: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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Creating Safe Spaces for Women to Explore Desire: The Story of Skirt Club
03/13/2026
Creating Safe Spaces for Women to Explore Desire: The Story of Skirt Club
Season 6, Episode 726: Surprisingly, Genevieve LeJeune founded Skirt Club to address a need she felt in her own life, only to discover 25,000 other women felt the same way. The private members club creates women-only spaces where nervous systems can relax, and genuine connection happens without performance or fear of judgment. After spending 15 years in finance enduring workplace harassment that was simply normalized, Gen witnessed how women of her generation were conditioned to survive in male-dominated environments. She started hosting champagne parties that grew from 15 to 150 attendees within a year, revealing just how many women needed a supportive environment to explore their sexuality without shame. (The demand was staggering.) Through building communities across 36 cities worldwide with 27,200 members, Gen discovered that women's fundamental needs are surprisingly universal across cultures. Her events have evolved beyond sexuality into something broader to include embodiment, connection, and authentic self-expression. When women abandon people-pleasing patterns and reconnect with their bodies, they experience profound personal liberation. Lejeune emphasizes that sisterhood and reduced judgment among women could genuinely transform society. By helping each other ask for support and building confidence through collaboration rather than competition, women create the foundation for lasting peace. Find out more: , , , , and the website Founding Skirt Club for Women's Sexual Empowerment Women's Only Spaces Create Safety and Intimacy Creating Safe Spaces for Women to Thrive Women Supporting Women Across the World Women's Sexual Pleasure and Empowerment Learning to Say No Without Guilt Generational Views on Internet and Sexual Exploration Women Fear Risk, Men Just Try It Ethical Non-Monogamy and Relationship Transparency Breaking Sexual Taboos for Women's Pleasure Women Owning Their Sexuality and Independence Women's Activism and Social Movements Community Care and Sexual Exploration Events Women's Empowerment Through Connection and Embodiment Where to Find Skirt Club Online Ruan's novella: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved. Key Takeaways: • **Women's behavior and openness fundamentally changes in all-female spaces** — nervous systems relax and genuine vulnerability emerges without male presence, creating conditions for authentic connection that mixed-gender environments cannot replicate. • **Bisexual and bi-curious women represent an underserved market hungry for community** — the jump from 15 to 150 members in one year demonstrates massive unmet demand for judgment-free spaces where women can explore sexuality openly. • **Overcoming shame requires both safe spaces and exposure to diverse perspectives** — cultural conditioning around female desire is universal across cultures, but can be collectively unlearned through supportive communities and exposure to how other women authentically live. GENEVIEVE LEJEUNE is the founder of Skirt Club, a private members club for bi-curious & bisexual women. With more than 25,000 members globally, women are more interested in each other than ever. She was the first to curate luxurious global events where women can put their own desires first, and gain confidence from the bedroom to the boardroom. A leading figure in the movement for women’s sexual empowerment, Genevieve has been interviewed for high-profile publications such as Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, Cosmo, Bloomberg, Rolling Stone and the Sunday Times.
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He Spanked Me In Front of the Window Excerpt
03/10/2026
He Spanked Me In Front of the Window Excerpt
Season 6, Episode 725: He Spanked Me In Front of the Window, spicy erotic short story excerpt. Get the full story: Story Blurb: Alexa, whom Henry often called Kitten, was horny. Henry was asleep. He'd been up working during the night so was sleeping in while a morning snowstorm raged outside. Alexa sipped her coffee as her horniness blossomed and her inner brat blinked, smiled, and then she stripped. She had a perfectly evil idea. She was going to poke the bear and trigger Henry's aggressive Dom mode. She stalked up the stairs naked and with a running leap pounced on top of Henry. He woke and indeed his inner Dom bear roared. What she received shocked her, but it was most definitely one of the top wants on her sexual bucket list. Award winning author First place winner! RUAN WON FIRST PLACE IN A CATEGORY IN THE GOLDEN PIGTAILS SMUT AWARDS for her book John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures! Learn more here: Honey and Jalapeno Book Fair: Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: Make the SWTICH to a new audiobook platform: Libro FM! Get indie author's books like mine! (affiliate link): get two free audiobooks when you start a new one-credit per month membership using promo code SWITCH. PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my Pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books:
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Two Sexuailty Podcasters on How Podcasting Changed Our Perspectives on Sexuality and Connection
03/06/2026
Two Sexuailty Podcasters on How Podcasting Changed Our Perspectives on Sexuality and Connection
Season 6, Episode 724 with podcaster Leigh Ann Steele from the Hustlers 2 Housewives Podcast, an Adult Industry Podcast. Two Sexuality Podcasters on How Podcasting Changed Our Perspectives on Sexuality and Connection, plus we talk about sex, life, being powerful women in midlife, and dogs! NOTE: video version coming soon to Ruan Willow Podcaster on YouTube, and also on Substack, Spotify, and PodNation Media on Roku TV/Fire TV devices, and Full Swap Radio (app and internet radio station). Discussion Topics: Introducing Hustler's 2 Housewives Podcast Connecting With Hundreds of Guests Worldwide Shopping for the Right Sex Toy Being Open About Sex and Sexuality Elderly People Deserve Sexual Freedom Pets Give Life Energy and Purpose Unexpected Dog Rescue Changed Everything Favorite Podcast Guests and Surprising Conversations Why Podcasting Feels Like the Perfect Job Everyone's a Whole Person Humanizing People Beyond Their Industry Podcast Guest Selection and Interview Approach Women's Sexual Pleasure and Menopause Ignored Women's Sexual Health and Cannabis Strains The Power of Not Giving a Fuck Genuine Conversations and Not Taking Things Personal Summary: In a conversation with my podcast guest, Leigh Ann Steele from "Hustlers 2 Housewives”, (where she interviews adult industry performers), she articulated something I've felt deeply: hosting a podcast fundamentally rewires how you see people. You stop seeing people as one-dimensional characters. Instead of categorizing someone by their profession or background, you discover they're complex humans with unexpected perspectives, humor, and intelligence. And what a beautiful thing it is to see humans as human beings rather than labels! We talked about how podcasting has transformed our views on sexuality and connection and made us less judgmental, and more open, people who are more supportive of others rather than resorting to tearing them down. Talking genuinely with hundreds of diverse people fosters deep growth in empathy and grace. Undoubtedly interviewing people from a wide variety of lived experiences reduces the tendency to judge others. We also chatted about previous guests, some of them mutual, and how they shattered our expectations and bloomed with the beauty of their individual truths. People are amazing, if you let them show you! We also chatted about how sex is ageless (another area to curb your judgements in) and how frustrating and insulting it is that the world has so horrendously neglected women’s sexual health and pleasure research, including lying for decades that hormone replacement therapy was harmful to women (spoiler: it’s NOT harmful, it’s very, very helpful for women to be on HRT, especially around and after menopause. Research it!) Maybe we'll share if we liked the lemon!!!!! Connect with Leigh Ann on Instagram at hustlers2wives and find her podcast Hustlers 2 Housewives on podcast apps and the Full Swap Radio internet radio station and app. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: Make the SWTICH to a new audiobook platform: Libro FM! Get indie author's books like mine! (affiliate link): get two free audiobooks when you start a new one-credit per month membership using promo code SWITCH. PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my Pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books:
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Finally Got My Neighbor's Cock
03/04/2026
Finally Got My Neighbor's Cock
Season 6, Episode 723: Next Door Temptations, Excerpts from Book 1, Finally Got My Neighbor's Cock. Melissa had lusted for Cal for years, both of them had interacted as neighbors exchanging social pleasantries at neighborhood parties, bumping into each other while out walking dogs, at school events, and at the local grocery stores. Melissa had always surmised there was something more beneath the cordial surface of their interactions, and it was not just merely as neighborly friends. She had seen the spark in his eyes and returned it on multiple occasions. One day Melissa spied Cal working hard in his yard on a hot summer day and pulled her car to the curb to chat with him during his mundane task. She was delighted to find out Cal was now separated from his wife and clearly was now free because she had left him for another man. This was her chance. Their conversation was brought in the house for iced tea to get out of the hot sun. Things heated up way more than either of them expected when they both realized they had each harbored the serious hots for each other for literally years. Hooking up after their lust had boiled and baked for years was just the beginning stepstone to something that would blow both their minds, and their sex lives, to the moon! Book 1. Get the full ebook: Get the full audiboook: Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: Make the SWTICH to a new audiobook platform: Libro FM! Get indie author's books like mine! (affiliate link): get two free audiobooks when you start a new one-credit per month membership using promo code SWITCH. PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my Pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books:
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Brandi Swan, from Ballerina to On Stage Actress to Film
02/27/2026
Brandi Swan, from Ballerina to On Stage Actress to Film
Brandi Swan... This is a partial episode to present some of the interivew in Video Form, it is also available in full on my podcast channel in audio. Get the FULL video interview on YouTube or on Spotify Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast Hosts Actress Brandi Swan in an interview! Season 6, Episode 719: From Stage to screen: Brandi Swan's Path into Professional Adult Entertainment. Brandi Swan's journey from theater stages to adult film sets is anything but ordinary. After years as a dancer, she discovered pole dancing, which eventually led her into adult entertainment—though not before she learned what "making it wink" meant during her very first audition (talk about a learning curve, yikes!). Now working with major studios, she's finding her preferences through experience, crediting co-star Jay Romero for making her comfortable during a successful first anal scene. Brandi has a Master's Degree in Theater and she loves dancing exotically and doing adult entertainment because 'she loves the thrill, the art of seduction, and the people she meets along the way." Beyond the bedroom, Brandi's navigating the demanding business side of adult entertainment. She recently graced the red carpet at both AVN and XBIZ events. At XBIZ in Los Angeles, she spent a week networking through panels and speed-dating events with agencies and directors—exhausting work that contrasts sharply with her previous theater career. She's setting boundaries (no hard hits to the face), embracing her submissive side, and planning to eventually transition from performing into directing and producing, bringing her film background to create more sophisticated adult content. Connect with Brandi Swan: PLEASE VOTE FOR ME: I've been nominated for books in the Golden Pigtails Awards and my books ALL made it to the finals! I'm super honored to have been nominated and thank you for voting for me! Please vote again for my books before February ends so I can win. My books are John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, The Drink Master, and The Arousal Package, plus the anthology I’m in Summer Teases 2. Please vote for me Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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From Shame to Liberation: Writing Sex-Positive Fiction with Author Misty O'Hara
02/27/2026
From Shame to Liberation: Writing Sex-Positive Fiction with Author Misty O'Hara
Season 6, Episode 721: From Shame to Liberation: Writing Sex-Positive Fiction with Author Misty O'Hara **Breaking Free from Sexual Shame Through Fiction** After her mother died, author Misty O'Hara made a radical decision. She would channel her conservative upbringing and nineteen-year monogamous marriage into something transformative for herself by sleeping with 100 men, but then switched gears to a novel exploring female sexual agency instead. The result? *The Hundred Man Plan*—over one hundred chapters written across seven years while juggling motherhood, work, and school, all while exploring her sexuality in midlife through writing and polyamory. What makes Misty's approach so refreshing is her unapologetic stance on double standards. Men with multiple partners get celebrated as "studs," while women face judgment and shame. She reclaims provocative language in her writing, arguing that authors don't need personal experience with everything they write about (just like science fiction writers don't need real life adventures in spaceships!). Her characters find glorious self-empowerment and conscious choice. The book features witty, sassy, flawed heroines—never passive or perfect. Misty carefully crafts intimate scenes using conversational adult language while avoiding clinical terminology. She emphasizes that sexual health connects directly to mental health, rejecting shame-based messaging entirely. Now touring with Barnes & Noble across Utah and planning book signings nationwide, Misty discovered an untapped market of women seeking escapism through romance. Her short chapters work perfectly for couples to read together as well. Ready to explore fiction as a healing tool? Find "The Hundred Man Plan" at or major retailers like Amazon (affiliate link) and Barnes & Noble. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my Pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: The Arousal Package: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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Servicing the College Fence Builders Excerpt, An Age Gap Hotwife Novella
02/25/2026
Servicing the College Fence Builders Excerpt, An Age Gap Hotwife Novella
Season 6, Episode 720: Servicing the College Fence Builders Excerpt, An Age Gap Hotwife Novella, written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Blurb: In this MMMMMF, John continues to lead his wife through sharing events with work men who come to the house, and the big surprise of the day is she's helping the work men work this time! She gets a special 'uniform', which is skimpier than one would expect anyone to do work in, but that's not the biggest shocker of the day. When the workers arrive, Laney's jaw drops as she had expected one man, but it's a crew! Not just any crew, this is a band of five sexy strong male college students who build, repair, and paint fences. As John dictates the rules for the day, and for the spicy event that will be the hot delicious finale, all the men and Laney are ready to tear into the day with lusty excited hopes. They are all ecstatic about all the potential dreamy flirty pitstops along the way as they do their duty to get the fence job done, but with much more salacious edging than any of them had expected. Being the female in the group, Laney is looking forward to so many high riding peaks, her highest count ever will surely be achieved with a full beefy crew like this. John's certainly not left out of the fun though! He has outdone himself this time in delivering a scheme for one of Laney's topmost unmet fantasies, and his beaming smile tells all. He's not only overindulgent with his wife, but he's going to reap all the steamy benefits once the guys head home, and for years and years to come thereafter. He's no dummy! Novella 5 in the Servicing the Work Men, My Filthy Hotwife Adventures Series. This contains affiliate links. Get the novella: Get the FULL book: Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at Strokers for men: "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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From Stage to Screen: Brandi Swan's Path into Professional Adult Entertainment
02/20/2026
From Stage to Screen: Brandi Swan's Path into Professional Adult Entertainment
Season 6, Episode 719: From Stage to screen: Brandi Swan's Path into Professional Adult Entertainment. Brandi Swan's journey from theater stages to adult film sets is anything but ordinary. After years as a dancer, she discovered pole dancing, which eventually led her into adult entertainment—though not before she learned what "making it wink" meant during her very first audition (talk about a learning curve, yikes!). Now working with major studios, she's finding her preferences through experience, crediting co-star Jay Romero for making her comfortable during a successful first anal scene. Brandi has a Master's Degree in Theater and she loves dancing exotically and doing adult entertainment because 'she loves the thrill, the art of seduction, and the people she meets along the way." Is genuine arousal on camera even possible for someone new to the industry? Brandi surprised herself and her director during her first girl-girl scene, experiencing authentic attraction despite never having been intimate with women before. She lost her virginity at 24 and views her current work as an exciting exploration of sexuality rather than just a job. Beyond the bedroom, Brandi's navigating the demanding business side of adult entertainment. She recently graced the red carpet at both AVN and XBIZ events. At XBIZ in Los Angeles, she spent a week networking through panels and speed-dating events with agencies and directors—exhausting work that contrasts sharply with her previous theater career. She's setting boundaries (no hard hits to the face), embracing her submissive side, and planning to eventually transition from performing into directing and producing, bringing her film background to create more sophisticated adult content. Tune in to hear Brandi's unfiltered take on the industry's realities. Watch the video version on YouTube , Spotify, Substack, and PodNation Media Channel on Roku TV/Fire TV devices. Connect with Brandi Swan: PLEASE VOTE FOR ME: I've been nominated for books in the Golden Pigtails Awards and my books ALL made it to the finals! I'm super honored to have been nominated and thank you for voting for me! Please vote again for my books before February ends so I can win. My books are John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, The Drink Master, and The Arousal Package, plus the anthology I’m in Summer Teases 2. Please vote for me Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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Passionate Love Bite Scene Fiction Excerpt, Making His Mark
02/17/2026
Passionate Love Bite Scene Fiction Excerpt, Making His Mark
Season 6, Episode 718: Passionate Love Bite Scene Fiction Excerpt, Making His Mark. Fiction excerpt from the spicy open door romantasy book Deception's Snare, coming soon in audiobook! Get the book: Get the book directly from Ruan, signed with swag (US shipping only): PLEASE VOTE FOR ME: I've been nominated for books in the Golden Pigtails Awards and my books ALL made it to the finals! I'm super honored to have been nominated and thank you for voting for me! Please vote again for my books before February ends so I can win. My books are John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, The Drink Master, and The Arousal Package, plus the anthology I’m in Summer Teases 2. Please vote for me Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at https://www.kiiroo.com/ "I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo!"says RUAN. Toys with responsive touch are best! See them here: https://www.kiiroo.com/products/pearl3-for-performers All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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Couples Healing Beats Pills with a 97.2% Solution for Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Regeneration with REGENmax
02/13/2026
Couples Healing Beats Pills with a 97.2% Solution for Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Regeneration with REGENmax
Season 6, Episode 717: Discovering the Real Cure for Erectile Dysfunction with Jeffrey Nuziard of REGENmax, The 97.2% Solution to Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Regeneration Blood flow isn't the problem—it's just a symptom. Jeffrey Nuziard, founder of Sexual Wellness Centers of America, reveals how his personal struggle with ED led him to develop REGENmax, the only patented cure for erectile dysfunction. His innovative approach actually regenerates tissue back to its prime (unlike pills that just mask symptoms temporarily). Want the video version? Coming today to YouTube, Spotify, and Substack in video. Learn more: Website: Instagram: Facebook: LinkedIn: The results speak volumes: a 97.2% success rate across over 3,200 patients. This comprehensive one-year protocol combines hormone optimization, regenerative injections, shockwave therapy, and laser treatments. What's remarkable is how the treatment addresses both men and women, since both genders have erectile tissue. Women experiencing clitoral atrophy or vaginal relaxation can benefit from similar therapies, essentially the same regenerative process. Jeffrey explains how modern sedentary lifestyles have created unprecedented hormone deficiencies, with thirty-year-olds now showing testosterone levels of seventy-year-olds. Yet he emphasizes that aging doesn't have to mean giving up on sexual health—some patients maintain benefits over a decade later. At 60, Jeffrey himself is healthier than he was in his forties through hormone optimization. Could restoring sexual function actually improve your overall health, energy, and mental clarity? Ready to reclaim what you thought was lost forever? Listen now to discover the science behind regenerating your body's natural function. Sex is for you and you can have it your whole life long! Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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The Pool Man Turned Bull Fiction Excerpt. Laney Comes
02/11/2026
The Pool Man Turned Bull Fiction Excerpt. Laney Comes
Season 6, Episode 716: This excerpt is from the novella Anderson, The Pool Service Man Turned Bull and is a part of the longer book Servicing the Work Men, Her Filthy Hotwife Adventures I've been nominated for books in the Golden Pigtails Awards! I'm super honored to have been nominated! Please vote for my books before February 14 to get me through to the next round. My books are John Gives His Wife Hot Adventures, The Drink Master, and The Arousal Package, plus the anthology I’m in Summer Teases 2. Please vote for me Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: Happy Valentine's Day! Get 10% OFF ENTIRE ORDER (min. purchase $69, no usage limits) with code RUANWILLOW10 on pleasure sex toys at I especially love my pearl toys from Kiiroo! Toys with responsive touch. See them here: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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From Marines to OnlyFans: Conzo's Unconventional Path to Healing and Advocacy
02/06/2026
From Marines to OnlyFans: Conzo's Unconventional Path to Healing and Advocacy
Season 6, Episode 715: **A Marine's Unconventional Path to Charity Work** When Conzo left the U.S. Marines, he never imagined his next chapter would involve OnlyFans, a UK dating show appearance, and becoming an accidental meme. (Ladbible apparently loves using his image as clickbait for completely unrelated stories.) This former Marine now uses adult content creation to fund animal rescue, LGBTQ youth support, and domestic abuse survivor assistance—all while challenging society's discomfort with sexuality and nudity. Links: Instagram: LADbible: Daily Star: After discovering financial mismanagement at a horse rehabilitation charity in Scotland where he served as vice chairperson, Conzo faced a moral crossroads. The animals needed immediate help. His solution? **OnlyFans became his fundraising platform**, despite initial hesitation about the unconventional approach. Beyond the fundraising aspect, he found the work personally transformative and healing, helping him process past trauma and discover his sexuality. Why does sex work carry such stigma when it's simply labor performed by people—often parents with special needs children, disabled individuals, or neurodivergent people—who struggle in traditional employment without adequate state support? Conzo argues that opposition stems from control rather than genuine welfare concerns, noting how society suddenly found moral outrage when women started controlling their own earnings on platforms like OnlyFans. Ready to hear more about redefining masculinity, navigating stigma, and finding purpose through unconventional means? This conversation goes deep. Key Takeaways: • **Sex work as trauma healing**: Conzo describes his OnlyFans work as genuinely transformative for processing military trauma, challenging the assumption that sex work is inherently exploitative or damaging to the performer. • **Diverse sex worker demographics**: A significant portion of sex workers are parents, disabled individuals, and neurodivergent people using it out of economic necessity due to inadequate state support—not a fringe phenomenon. • **Decriminalization as harm reduction**: Conzo argues that criminalizing sex work increases danger and exploitation, suggesting legalization protects workers better than moral crusades framed around "rescue" narratives. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link) Opus Clip Copyright 2026 Pink Infinity Publishing. All Rights Reserved.
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Beyond the Performance: Ms. Amanda on Authenticity, Community, and Building an Adult Empire Promoting Sex Positivity
02/01/2026
Beyond the Performance: Ms. Amanda on Authenticity, Community, and Building an Adult Empire Promoting Sex Positivity
Season 6, Episode 714: Building a Sex-Positive Community Through Multiple Ventures with guest Ms. Amanda Websites Studio Main swinger page When Ms. Amanda describes her journey from camming to running Full Swap Radio and Kasbh Studio, she reveals something unexpected: excitement, not fear, fuels her work. This multifaceted creator has built an empire around authenticity in an industry often criticized for being artificial. Throughout the conversation, Ms. Amanda explains her approach to filming adult content with remarkable honesty. She manages her hormones strategically, rarely fakes scenes, and believes genuine reactions matter to audiences. (Her husband films most of her work, creating what she calls the ideal partnership.) She shares what makes someone truly successful in this unconventional career path. With a swinger event planned for Kansas City in January and legal brothel tours at the Love Ranch scheduled for summer, Amanda's calendar stays packed. Her podcast "Crazy Truth About Swinging" focuses on educational content about navigating the lifestyle community, emphasizing that practices from a decade ago no longer apply today. She's received an ASN award nomination, viewing recognition itself as meaningful regardless of winning. Despite elaborate consent forms varying across platforms like XHamster, Faphouse, and OnlyFans, Amanda operates her studio to guide aspiring performers through entering the industry. She stresses that chemistry and personality compatibility matter more than follower count or reputation, everyone starts somewhere. **Listen to discover how Amanda balances multiple business ventures while maintaining authenticity in every performance.** Topics: From Camming to Building a Swinger Empire Discussing Favorite Music and Film Acting Body Image and Self-Consciousness Editing Your Own Content and Self-Perception Communication and Preferences in Adult Content Career Longevity and Collaboration in Adult Content Husband Films and Performs in Collaborations Navigating Consent Forms and Platform Requirements Giving People a Chance to Grow Choosing Practical Outfits for Filming Breathing, Sounds, and Multiple Orgasms Sexuality Changes Throughout Our Lives Key takeaways: • **Authenticity and genuine connection outperform polished production** – Success in adult content creation depends on real human interaction and honest communication rather than technical perfection or unrealistic portrayals. • **The swinging community is growing in awareness but faces persistent social stigma** – Despite increased visibility, participants still encounter significant judgment, making privacy and discretion critical considerations for those involved. • **Excitement and live audience engagement drive motivation more than fear or taboo** – Content creators in this space are primarily motivated by the thrill of real-time interaction and genuine connection with audiences, not by transgressive appeal alone. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 BeeDee app. Enter the code ohfuckyeah on the Whips ('superlikes') page to get 1 free Whip, use my affiliate link to check out this app at The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! (affiliate link)
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Reclamation, Delicious Sex After a Work Trip
01/27/2026
Reclamation, Delicious Sex After a Work Trip
Season 6, Episode 713, A Replay: The Coming Home Reclamation, Delicious Sex After Being Gone. An erotic story written and narrated by Ruan Willow. Kevin had been on a work trip, and Jenna was lusting heartily for his return. He'd shown his desire and excitement to return home to her, and his strong passion, by texting her steamy sexts during his travel. He had her on the verge of climaxing just by using his phone, but once he arrived, their foreplay skyrocketed into an intense fiery blaze, and they had the most delicious sex ever. Kevin had made plans to re-establish his leadership in the bedroom, much to Jenna's shock, surprise, and delight. The result was maximal gratification for them both, and a reaffirmation of their love. This is a later in life second marriage spicy romantic story. **Erotica / erotic romance fiction about relationships and sexuality that contains light Dom/sub elements of leadership and dominance/submission as well as playful, and flirty, fully consensual impact play. It's time to think about gifts for your lover for Valentine's Day! Ruan's Top Picks for Sex Toys for women: The Zumo (affiliate link, podcast may receive a commission on purchases, which support the podcast, thank you!) Rose Clit Sucker: Pearl vibrators are my fave for internal! Use my code RUANWILLOW10 for 10% off. It makes a fabulous Valentine's Day gift! They have toys for men too, check them all out on the site. Ruan's latest books: Power Plays, Releasing February 1, 2026, Book 2 in the Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties Series PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Newsletters
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Dean Robert Holmes on Creativity, Identity, and Queer Romance
01/23/2026
Dean Robert Holmes on Creativity, Identity, and Queer Romance
Season 5, Episode 712: What happens when creativity becomes both escape and healing? Dean Robert Holmes, a transmasculine author from St. Paul, Minnesota, uses writing to manage schizoaffective disorder and explore identity through fiction. Since 2020, he's written over 350 fanfics and 2.5 million words (that's equivalent to five copies of Stephen King's "It") before publishing his collection "Unlocked: Seven Titillating Tales of Gay Trans Love and Lust." Dean identifies as aegosexual, experiencing attraction only through third-person perspectives, and thrives in a relationship with his fiancée May through roleplay where he never portrays himself. In this conversation, Dean dives into his writing processes as a pantser who daydreams his way through stories. They discuss maladaptive daydreaming as a coping mechanism, the challenges of balancing creativity with social media, and how indie publishing has shattered traditional word count constraints (finally!). Both Dean and Ruan share experiences of losing mothers to suicide, which fuels an urgency in their writing careers. Dean's upcoming May release, "Treading Water," features a gender-fluid bi man and a plus-size woman with chronic pain navigating romance amid poverty and trauma. The book tackles serious themes while celebrating connection and joy, representation that's desperately needed in romance literature. Tune in to hear Dean read an excerpt from "Treading Water", his upcoming novel, and learn how writing serves as healing for both author and reader. Excerpt triggers: poverty, homelessness, explicit scene and language, chronic pain, body image issues, panic attacks, and mention of religion. Author Bio: Dean Robert Holmes (he/him) is an aegosexual, transmasculine author and artist who uses creativity to manage schizoaffective disorder. Like many alphabet porn purveyors, he got his start in the wonderful world of fan fiction. Through his saucy stories, he often explores psychological themes and the power of queer love. As someone who is autistic, fat, and disabled, he makes a point to represent those communities and possesses a strong belief in the healing potential of kink. After writing over 350 fan fics, including almost 200 requests and a feature on the celebrated podcast Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend, he recently self-published his first collection of short stories, “Unlocked: Seven Titillating Tales of Gay Trans Love and Lust,” which is available at four bookstores throughout the Midwest. His debut novel, “Treading Water” will be released soon. Currently, he lives on stolen Dakota/Anishinaabe land, also known as St. Paul, MN, and enjoys spending time with his lovely partner, Mae. Dean Robert Holmes's Book: Unlocked: Seven Titillating Tales of Gay Trans Love and Lust (affiliate link) Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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Treading Water Spicy and Caring Sex Scene Excerpt by Dean Robert Holmes
01/20/2026
Treading Water Spicy and Caring Sex Scene Excerpt by Dean Robert Holmes
Season 5, Episode 711: Treading Water Spicy and Caring Sex Scene Excerpt written and narrated by Dean Robert Holmes. The characters are Susie and Westie. This is an excerpt from Dean Robert Holmes's upcoming book "Treading Water". Triggers with this excerpt include poverty, homelessness, explicit sex scene and language, chronic pain, body image issues, panic attacks, and mention of religion. Author Bio: Dean Robert Holmes (he/him) is an aegosexual, transmasculine author and artist who uses creativity to manage schizoaffective disorder. Like many alphabet porn purveyors, he got his start in the wonderful world of fan fiction. Through his saucy stories, he often explores psychological themes and the power of queer love. As someone who is autistic, fat, and disabled, he makes a point to represent those communities and possesses a strong belief in the healing potential of kink. After writing over 350 fan fics, including almost 200 requests and a feature on the celebrated podcast Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend, he recently self-published his first collection of short stories, “Unlocked: Seven Titillating Tales of Gay Trans Love and Lust,” which is available at four bookstores throughout the Midwest. His debut novel, “Treading Water” will be released soon. Currently, he lives on stolen Dakota/Anishinaabe land, also known as St. Paul, MN, and enjoys spending time with his lovely partner, Mae. Dean Robert Holmes's Book: Unlocked (affiliate link) Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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Breaking Sexual Shame: Women's Bodies, Pleasure, and Self-Discovery with Dr. Stacy Friedman
01/16/2026
Breaking Sexual Shame: Women's Bodies, Pleasure, and Self-Discovery with Dr. Stacy Friedman
When was the last time you truly prioritized your own pleasure? For over two decades, Dr. Stacy Friedman has been helping women understand what many were never taught: basic knowledge about their own bodies. With 26 years in medical practice and 20 years specializing in sexuality, she's witnessed how inadequate sex education and cultural shame leave women disconnected from their anatomy (even something as fundamental as the body organ called the clitoris). The conversation reveals a surprising statistic, only a small percentage of women achieve orgasm through penetration alone, yet this misconception persists. Dr. Friedman shares her personal transformation from ignorance about her own anatomy to owning an extensive collection of high-quality sex toys, emphasizing that modern toys have become empowering tools rather than sources of shame. Fact: The clitoris contains over 10,400 nerve endings, double that of the penis, underscoring women's significant sexual potential when they explore without limitation. After experiencing painful sex for six years following childbirth, Dr. Friedman found her purpose: helping others redefine intimacy beyond traditional intercourse. She recently launched The Purple Passion Project podcast and previously authored "Confessions and Lessons of a Sexpert." Affiliate link to the book Listen to discover how prioritizing pleasure can transform your relationship and break generational cycles of shame and lack of female pleasure with sex. Bio: Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified sex & intimacy coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project. With 26+ years in the medical field and 20+ years working in the sexuality field, Dr. Stacy helps people break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy—without shame. She works with all aspects of sexuality but specializes in mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, low libido, and the LGBTQ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel safe, real, and seriously empowering. Her motto: “My passion is to help you create yours.” Because at the end of the day, you deserve connection that’s honest, exciting, and hot as hell. Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Key Takeaways: • **The clitoris contains over 10,000 nerve endings** – far more sensory receptors than commonly understood. Direct clitoral stimulation is essential for most women's pleasure rather than penetration alone. • **Most women don't orgasm through penetration alone** – challenging the widespread myth that vaginal intercourse is the primary or sufficient path to female orgasm, revealing a fundamental gap in sexual education and cultural bias. • **Sex toys are normalized tools for exploration, not replacements** – reframing vibrators and similar devices as legitimate aids for self-discovery and pleasure, equivalent to using any other tool, rather than signs of relationship inadequacy or dysfunction.
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Sex with the King Scene Excerpt from Rejecting Queendom, & Presenting Myself
01/13/2026
Sex with the King Scene Excerpt from Rejecting Queendom, & Presenting Myself
Season 5, Episode 709: Excerpt from Rejecting Queendom, a spicy Romantasy now in ebook, paperback, and audiobook. Book Blurb: A love too good. Power and intrigue can't fill a void in any heart but set it searching for something more. Gabriella and Nocter fell in love as most do, but the difference was theirs bloomed in the sea. Their world was surrounded by the magical realm of the ocean, so their hearts were easily lulled into pristine moments that promised to be shining collections of the most amazing golden memories. They couldn't get enough of each other, nor could they steal enough moments to be satiated. Nothing could separate them, nothing but what did. When things seemed too good to be true, the truth shattered their hunger for love and splintered it into a billion cells of heartache that not even the vastness of the sea could hold. Tropes & Triggers: - explicit language and spicy scenes - daring to love - their kingdom at risk - sudden royalty -kinky king - an impossible choice -shrinking woman -kidnapping -betrayal Rejecting Queendom is an HEA Open Door Romantasy, where the romance is first and foremost. Plus, bonus story replay Presenting Myself. Affiliate offers: Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links and books: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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From Challenge to Bestseller: Mallory Glass on Writing Sensual Fiction, Plus Spicy Romance Book Excerpt
01/09/2026
From Challenge to Bestseller: Mallory Glass on Writing Sensual Fiction, Plus Spicy Romance Book Excerpt
Season 5, Episode 708: "Why are men so sexy in gray sweatpants?" she asked. (from the excerpt at the end of the episode from the book "Me + You" by Mallory Glass, coming soon! Narrated by Ruan Wilow.) What happens when an old friend's challenge sparks a secret writing career that garners thousands of views overnight? Mallory Glass found out! Twin Cities romance author Mallory Glass didn't expect her foray into sensual fiction to take off so quickly. After initially writing in secret, she published a 75,000-word story on Literotica that consistently earned ratings around 4.7 to 4.8 stars. Her debut novella "Stone Heart" and award-winning flash rom-com showcase her commitment to portraying positive communication and consent in romance, deliberately avoiding the tired miscommunication trope common in the genre, plus adding in humor. Beyond the page, Mallory shares her home with a surprisingly hostile New Zealand rabbit that roams freely while she works. (The rabbit's personality definitely keeps things interesting.) After medically retiring in 2015, she returned to writing as therapeutic practice, discovering an unexpected passion for revision and editing. Through her work and upcoming micro press Sloth and Envy, Mallory champions sex positivity and bodily autonomy, transforming once-taboo vocabulary into celebrations of consensual human experience. She believes authenticity and fun should coexist in storytelling, and her writing reflects exactly that philosophy. Listen to hear more about writing sensual fiction without shame. Mallory Glass enjoys creating worlds within worlds for her characters to explore. She writes for those who love to embrace a temporary escape from reality. When she’s not engaged in vicarious angst over the antics of fictional characters, she digests too much media and suffers the antics of her hostile pet rabbit. Her debut novella, Stone Heart, was released March 2025 from Sloth & Envy Press. Mallory’s flash rom-com recently won first place in Writing Battle’s professionally judged Heart contest. In October 2025, her short story “Wade vs. Roe” was published in Dread Mondays, a workplace horror anthology from . Mallory’s college romance, Me + You, will be released in spring 2026. She live in the Twin Cities, MN. Find her on Bluesky as or email Get Mallory's book Stone Heart (affiliate link) Coming soon to preorder Me + You (book this episode's excerpt is from) Stone and Flame in preorder Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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Older Woman, Virgin Younger Man First Time Scene from the Book Me and You by Mallory Glass
01/09/2026
Older Woman, Virgin Younger Man First Time Scene from the Book Me and You by Mallory Glass
Season 5, Episode 707: Romance Book, Fiction Excerpt with an Older Woman and Virgin Younger Man, First Time Scene from the Book Me and You by Mallory Glass, narrated by podcast host and narrator Ruan Willow. In this scene, the two MCs run into each other in the library on a Saturday night and adjourn to a basement office where they’ve been fooling around together for the past few weeks. They had planned to have sex for the first time earlier that week but were interrupted. That was followed by tension between the MMC crossed the boundary they had set on the limits of their relationship by inviting her to his apartment. This scene ends up being more spontaneous and unexpected for both of them. Because it’s intended to be the MMC’s first time, we are in his POV. About the author Mallory Glass: Come back for the author interview episode! Mallory Glass enjoys creating worlds within worlds for her characters to explore. She writes for those who love to embrace a temporary escape from reality. When she’s not engaged in vicarious angst over the antics of fictional characters, she digests too much media and suffers the antics of her hostile pet rabbit. Her debut novella, Stone Heart, was released March 2025 from Sloth & Envy Press. Mallory’s flash rom-com recently won first place in Writing Battle’s professionally judged Heart contest. In October 2025, her short story “Wade vs. Roe” was published in Dread Mondays, a workplace horror anthology from . Mallory’s college romance, Me + You, will be released in spring 2026. She live in the Twin Cities, MN. Find her on Bluesky as or email Get Mallory's book Stone Heart (affiliate link) Coming soon to preorder Me + You (book this episode's excerpt is from) Stone and Flame in preorder Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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Spicy Queer Romance, Authentic Voices, and Writing What Matters with Author Cozy DuBois
01/02/2026
Spicy Queer Romance, Authentic Voices, and Writing What Matters with Author Cozy DuBois
Season 5, Episode 706: When Cozy Dubois started writing fiction in 2022, it wasn't about chasing publishing deals or awards. This queer, trans, and neurodivergent author from Minneapolis simply wanted connection during pandemic isolation, and what emerged was something far more powerful: the Confession series, an ensemble romance celebrating chosen family and authentic queer experiences. Here's what makes Cozy's approach refreshing. They write across the entire spice spectrum, from closed-door romance to books with up to ten intimate scenes, but always with consent and emotional connection at the core (because that's what really matters). Their upcoming 2027 character Esmer, a non-binary queer sex toy designer with OCD, exemplifies their commitment to representing diverse experiences without shame or stereotype. Cozy approaches storytelling with precision, outlining the entire book series before writing a single word. They batch their drafting, writing three thousand words daily for weeks, then spend considerably more time editing. They emphasize that writing advice is highly individual, and what works for their neurodivergent brain might not work for yours. Writers are all different. Their Confession books feature vibrant purple branding, and prove that love doesn't cure trauma, it simply walks alongside healing. Characters continue evolving beyond their happy endings through friendship and community support. Find Cozy's books on Amazon, Kobo Plus, and indie bookstores, or grab signed copies through Scribbles Bookshop. Enjoy an excerpt from the book "Tempting Tara", written by Cozy DuBois, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Tempting Tara (affiliate link) Connect with Cozy DuBois Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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Tempting Tara Excerpt by Cozy DuBois, Waking Hot and Horny Scene
01/02/2026
Tempting Tara Excerpt by Cozy DuBois, Waking Hot and Horny Scene
Season 5, Episode 705: Enjoy an excerpt from the book "Tempting Tara", written by Cozy DuBois, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, then come back and watch the full interview episode featuring Cozy DuBois! Tempting Tara (affiliate link) Book Blurb published online: With a former fling now a cherished friendship, Tara secretly longs for more. But is desire enough to bridge two damaged souls? Tara Sanderson is determined to be a good friend when Lee and Antonio's upcoming wedding means countless hours in close company with Gabe Cooper, the best man and her secret ex-flame. Armed with her many rules and meager emotional resilience, she hides her feelings to protect herself. Friendship is more than enough; the man who unknowingly broke her heart has become a beloved friend. After years of therapy and seclusion to recover from a string of abusive relationships, Gabe feels whole enough to love again. His obsessive infatuation with the stranger who stole his shattered heart has healed into manageable yearning for the Tara he’s come to know. Instead of pining after yet another person who will never love him back—or worse, pursuing her and losing their friendship—he reluctantly agrees to the blind dates his mom sets up for him. Tara’s self-control slips after learning he’s looking for love with anyone but her, revealing she's not as content to be “just friends” as she pretends. Ever the hopeless romantic, Gabe tries to show Tara how good they could be together. Tara must break all her rules to accept the happiness she longs for, but her habit of running from her feelings may be more than Gabe’s still-fragile heart can bear. Cozy Dubois (they/them) thought writing fiction was a long-lost hobby. A longtime lover of romance novels, Cozy has renewed their love for writing by telling stories for and about LGBTQ+ people. They hope to bring more books into the world that represent the complex and entangled relationships between friends, lovers, and chosen family found in the queer community they love. Based in Minneapolis, they enjoy life with their partner, two hound dogs, a regal queen of a cat, dozens of houseplants, and a garden that has seen better days. Find them with a beverage in hand on a patio anytime the temp is above freezing or planning their next vacation when it's not.
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2025 Podcast Interviews Wrapped Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, Year in Full
12/29/2025
2025 Podcast Interviews Wrapped Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow, Year in Full
A full amazing year of fantastic incredible interviews and people! Thank you so much to all my fabulous amazing guests all year long and thanks to all of you wonderful stellar outstanding lovely listeners, too! We had a great year! Time to celebrate! Happy New Year and cheers to another amazing year of interviews on the podcast! This is a collection of all the images for the guest episodes, so if you only hear music, go to an app that has the video to see all the images like Apple podcasts or Spotify Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links:
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Reagan Foxx on Acting, Kinks, Awards, and Life Beyond the Camera
12/26/2025
Reagan Foxx on Acting, Kinks, Awards, and Life Beyond the Camera
Season 5, Episode 703: Dive into an exhilarating conversation with the multi-talented Reagan Foxx, an award-nominated actress and passionate advocate for mental health in the adult industry. In this episode, we explore Reagan's journey from a shy individual to a celebrated performer, discussing her impressive nominations for Best Actress and her role as an ambassador for Pineapple Support, an organization dedicated to providing mental health resources for adult performers. Reagan shares her experiences navigating the complexities of the adult film industry, including the challenges of being shadow banned and the importance of authenticity in her performances. We delve into her thoughts on ageism in the industry, her personal growth, and how she balances her career with her role as a mother. With candid discussions about the stigma surrounding sexuality and the role of sex toys in personal empowerment, this episode is packed with insight and inspiration. Join us as we celebrate Reagan's achievements, her passion for acting, and her commitment to supporting fellow performers. This is a conversation you won’t want to miss! Highlights: You're the fourth performer to ever get two best actress nominations The award season for both XMA and AVN starts in January How did you get into camming? Was it a surprise to you Started at such a later age You want that genuine feel when you're acting, right What are your favorite scenes to film? You know, it's kind of interesting Do you feel like you putting your content out there is a challenge You are an ambassador for Pineapple Support, an anti-suicide and mental health organization X Biz Business Executive Award Is there anything you've done that you kind of regret? Do you enjoy doing the scenes or does it feel more like work? So are you a sex toy fan and do you have a favorite? People who are disabled can use sex toys, right? Yes. People, no people, should not feel ashamed of buying them, they are simply tools Do you have anything coming up beyond the awards season? Do you find where you have to work a ton or you can be selective? Do you feel like you've got a good base of content? Do you do a workout plan to keep yourself the way you want to be? What are some hobbies that you have that people may not know? We've just had a cold snap here. Yeah, it's cold. So we like, we're below zero... Do you have anything fun you do for Christmas that you'd like to share? Do you get recognized a lot when you're out and about? Where can people find you if they want to find your content? Instagram Reaganfoxx, on X The Reagan Foxx? Are you going to completely be done doing this and retire? Key takeaways: • Reagan entered adult entertainment through camming after her family's appraisal business collapsed during the 2008 housing crisis—a career pivot driven by economic necessity rather than long-term ambition. • She intentionally avoids rewatching her own performances to preserve authenticity in acting and maintain psychological distance from her work. • Social media platforms selectively censor sexual education content from adult performers and other educators while permitting other provocative material in ads for businesses, creating inconsistent standards that Reagan and Ruan both view as highly hypocritical, biased, and unfair, and violating the First Amendment right to free speech in the US. Other Holiday Erotic Fiction Stories: Holiday Smut: Santa Gives 12 Orgasms The Smutty Little Holiday Audiobook Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links: Affiliate link, collect your body's health and sexual health info with a wearable device for men from Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! Thanks for listening!
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Two Hot Santa Stories, Excerpt Santa Gives An Erotic Gift, and Unwrap Me The Full Story
12/23/2025
Two Hot Santa Stories, Excerpt Santa Gives An Erotic Gift, and Unwrap Me The Full Story
Season 5, Episode 702: Two Hot Santa Stories, An Excerpt from Santa Gives An Erotic Gift (get the full story on Patreon and Unwrap Me (The Full Story is in the episode). Santa Gives An Erotic Gift: Join a woman, let's call her Mrs. Claus, on a sensual erotic journey in this sexy story where her lover dresses up as Santa. He intends to give her what she's always wanted because she's been a good girl. She's waiting for her lover to return home for their annual Santa-spanking intimate holiday date. He instructs her to dress up in Mrs.Claus lingerie and put on a blindfold. She is to sit on the couch to wait for her sexy surprise. She's so horny and excited that she can hardly contain herself. Her holiday joy explodes when she realizes the erotic gift her lover has gifted her; she gets just what she wants for Christmas. The story is told in first person from the woman's perspective in mostly internal monologue style. Unwrap me by the tree: A fun loving spicy Christmas tale of an at home HOT date where she gets unwrapped by the tree, and she's wearing the paper! Told in 2nd person. Other Holiday Erotic Fiction Stories: Holiday Smut: Santa Gives 12 Orgasms The Smutty Little Holiday Audiobook Ruan's Links, Newsletter Signup, Affiliate links and Deals: PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links: Affiliate link Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! Thanks for listening!
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From Compulsion to Connection, One Man's Recovery from Sex Addiction
12/19/2025
From Compulsion to Connection, One Man's Recovery from Sex Addiction
Season 5, Episode 701: Topics include Relationships, Confessions, Personal story, sexuality and intimacy. Guest: Gallo Chingon Instagram Reddit Have you ever wondered where the line falls between enjoying sex and using it as an escape? Gallo Chingon sat through Celebrate Recovery meetings out of boredom, supporting a friend, when someone else's addiction story struck him with unexpected force. By mentally replacing "drugs" with "sex" in the speaker's words, he suddenly recognized his own patterns—nineteen out of twenty behaviors driven purely by pursuit. For nearly twenty years, he'd measured his masculinity by numbers, treating women disposably and manipulating without remorse (behavior that eventually contributed to homelessness). When his ex-wife revealed his betrayals to their daughter at age twelve, it severed their relationship for over twenty years. Through therapy and programs like Celebrate Recovery, Gallo learned the crucial distinction between sex and intimacy. "They're fundamentally different experiences," he explains. While he now maintains a polyamorous relationship and works actively with therapists to build emotional connection, he still struggles to link physical intimacy with genuine feelings. His damaged dopamine and oxytocin systems leave him emotionally numb during sex, even as he pursues healthier long-term partnerships. By understanding the difference between using sex as stress relief and creating meaningful connection, it transformed everything. Listen how recognizing addiction patterns can open pathways to genuine intimacy and personal growth. Key Takeaways: • **Sex addiction operates identically to substance addiction, though are not the same because no substance is involved** — Gallo's compulsive sexual behavior triggered the same dopamine-seeking cycle as drugs, revealing that behavioral addictions can be neurologically equivalent to chemical dependencies rather than mere moral failings. • **Chronic sexual compulsion creates emotional numbness** — Rather than seeking pleasure, his addictive patterns actually dulled his capacity to feel, making genuine intimacy impossible and trapping him in a paradoxical cycle where more sexual activity meant less actual sensation. • **Recovery doesn't eliminate the struggle** — Even within a polyamorous relationship with therapeutic support, Gallo continues wrestling with integrating physical and emotional connection, demonstrating that healing is ongoing rather than a destination, and structured recovery alone cannot solve the deeper relational work required. PodNation Podcast Affiliate link, Get 15% OFF with code podna15 on Ryze Coffee at Sign up for Ruan's Newsletters All Ruan's links: Affiliate link Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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By the Bonfire Sex Game Excerpt
12/16/2025
By the Bonfire Sex Game Excerpt
Season 5, Episode 700: By the Bonfire Sex Game Excerpt. We are by the bonfire one steamy night and things get extra hot. Enjoy this sexy bonfire sex game told in the second person, so "you" participate in this sexy scene where pretending to be horny fireflies turns into kinky intense hide and seek. This story is a yummy display of consensual desires and a rendering of delicious exciting masculine dominance and alluring lush feminine submission. Contains light BDSM elements, language, and rich moaning. Get the full audio on Ruan's Patreon: Ruan's books: FREE erotica and erotic romance books through 12/17/25 Newsletters Affiliate deal: Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15
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