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What Will Your Grandchildren Remember?
08/07/2026
What Will Your Grandchildren Remember?
What Will You Leave in Your Grandchildren? Linda Eyre on Love, Legacy & Lasting Memories What if the greatest legacy you can leave your grandchildren isn't money, property, or possessions—but something they carry with them for the rest of their lives? In this episode of The Grand Tribe Podcast, Greg Payne sits down with renowned author and grandmother Linda Eyre for a warm, personal conversation about what it really means to build deep, lasting relationships with grandchildren. Linda and her husband, Richard Eyre, have raised nine children and now have 34 grandchildren. Their approach to grandparenting is anything but passive. Linda has spent decades intentionally creating experiences, traditions, stories, and relationships that help her grandchildren know where they came from—and know that they are deeply loved. From her famous Grammie Camps to multi-day adventures with small groups of grandchildren, Linda believes that the best way to build a relationship is to spend meaningful time together. And sometimes, that means taking four teenage granddaughters on a cruise. In this episode, Linda shares: Why she divides her grandchildren into small groups to give them focused, one-on-one attention. How a three-night cruise with four teenage granddaughters allowed her to really get to know them. What Grammie Camps are and why they've become such an important family tradition. How Linda uses music and art to introduce grandchildren to things she loves. Why family history can become a powerful source of identity and resilience. How she created a family tree that connects grandchildren to four generations of ancestors. Why stories about grandparents and great-grandparents can help children face their own difficult moments. How she and Richard approach their relationships with grandsons and granddaughters. Why she sees herself as the "land person" while Richard is the "lake person." How grandparents can support adult children when grandchildren have additional challenges. Why grandparents should keep loving grandchildren—even when they're going through difficult phases. How Linda approaches gifts and money without creating entitlement. Why she believes grandchildren should have "skin in the game." How grandparents can maintain meaningful relationships when grandchildren live across the country—or across the world. Why technology such as WhatsApp can actually strengthen long-distance grandparenting. The Legacy That Lives in Us One of the most powerful moments in the conversation comes when Linda talks about the legacy she wants to leave her grandchildren. Rather than focusing primarily on what they will inherit financially, Linda wants them to inherit the things that mattered most to her: family stories, values, resilience, love, music, art, and a sense of connection to the people who came before them. She shares a story from her mother's life with a simple lesson: When you accomplish the impossible, it makes the next impossible thing easier. Richard's father had another family message that has become part of the Eyre family vocabulary: Love more. Linda says those messages become part of the grandchildren's "fiber." Grammie Camp: More Than an Activity Linda's Grammie Camps aren't really about keeping grandchildren entertained. They're about creating shared experiences that become part of family identity. She introduces grandchildren to classical music and great works of art, shares family stories, teaches them about their ancestors, and gives them opportunities to work together. The experiences don't have to be elaborate. The principle is simple: Spend enough meaningful time together that your grandchildren get to know you and you get to know them. Grandparents as a Different Kind of Adult Linda also talks about the unique role grandparents can play. Grandparents aren't parents. They don't have to manage every behavior or solve every problem. But they can be a safe place. Linda describes herself as someone grandchildren can come to when they're troubled. Her role isn't necessarily to fix everything. Sometimes it's simply to keep loving them. That becomes particularly important when grandchildren have challenges. Linda shares the story of a granddaughter with a rare genetic syndrome who has significant vision loss and other challenges. Her message to that granddaughter is simple: We're proud of you. We're thinking about you. We love you. Love More Perhaps the most fitting message to close this conversation is one Linda borrowed from Richard's father: Love more. When grandchildren struggle. When they disappoint us. When they are going through a difficult phase. When the relationship isn't easy. Love more. Because, as Linda puts it, that love can help a child's "little soul blossom." Resources & Further Reading Linda and Richard Eyre Their work encompasses parenting, family relationships, and intentional grandparenting. Their books include Teaching Your Children Values, Grandmothering, and other resources focused on family and grandparenting. () GRAND Magazine GRAND Magazine has published extensive work by Linda and Richard Eyre, including their article "Grandparenting 101: The New Frontier" and a collection of their grandparenting articles. () Grammie Camps Linda's article about Grammie Camps describes the experience as one of her favorite ways to create lasting relationships and treasured memories with grandchildren. () Eyres on the Road Linda and Richard's long-running podcast includes episodes on long-distance grandparenting, three-generation families, responsibility, and their broader grandparenting philosophy. ()
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