Outsmart Overeating Podcast
Have you ever received a piece of advice that dramatically changed your life? What if someone gave you the same kind of advice that completely transformed the way you think, feel, and interact with food? Would it be worth 20 minutes of your time? Now's your chance... Every Tuesday, join Leslie Hooper as she expose the dirty little secrets of the diet industry and discuss how to get into the best shape of your life without ever having to diet again.
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EPISODE 96: No More Broken Resolutions: How to Set Goals You Won’t Quit by February
12/30/2025
EPISODE 96: No More Broken Resolutions: How to Set Goals You Won’t Quit by February
In this week’s episode of Outsmart Overeating, we're talking about that weird week between Christmas and New Year’s—leftovers everywhere, days blending together, and the “New Year, New Me!” messaging all over the internet. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with resolutions that fizzle out by February, this episode is for you. We’re breaking down why traditional goal-setting fails and showing you how to create goals that actually fit your life, your habits, and your brain. No extreme detoxes. No overnight transformations. No perfection. Just realistic, actionable steps you can implement today. Here’s what we cover: Why resolutions fail: Most goals are based on wishful thinking or past patterns, not the realities of life, stress, and cravings. Reflect before you set a goal: Identify your real motivations, obstacles, and the habits that have tripped you up in the past. Mindset matters: Learn how to bounce back after slips without spiraling into guilt or shame. Sustainable, repeatable goals: Simple habits you can do even on your worst day—not just your perfect day. Accountability is key: Use accountability to prioritize your goals and stay on track when life gets messy. Plan for your life, not a fantasy version of yourself: From workouts to meal planning, create goals that match your real-life schedule and responsibilities. Habit stacking for long-term change: Small, consistent actions over time lead to transformation and freedom from food obsession. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a framework for setting goals that actually stick, a plan that works with your life, and a mindset shift that helps you feel in control around food... without extreme dieting. If you’re tired of resolutions that fizzle, binge-restrict cycles, and want this new year's resolution to be a success, this episode is your starting point. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 95: The Overeating Cycle No One Is Talking About: Lack of Rest
12/23/2025
EPISODE 95: The Overeating Cycle No One Is Talking About: Lack of Rest
If the holidays leave you feeling exhausted, out of control around food, and wondering why you can’t just stop, this episode is for you. In this week’s Outsmart Overeating Podcast, Coach Steph Miramontes and I unpack a pattern I see constantly in chronic dieters: overeating isn’t a willpower problem, it’s a rest problem. When your life is nonstop go-go-go and food becomes the only way you pause, overeating becomes predictable. We talk about why burned-out dieters struggle most during the holidays, how hustle culture and perfectionism fuel emotional eating, and the key difference between collapsing from exhaustion and becoming a steady rester... someone who rests on purpose before cravings take over. You’ll walk away with simple, actionable ways to slow down, reduce urges, and enjoy holiday food without guilt or starting over in January. Plus, I’m sharing a with a clear, doable strategy to prevent overeating at holiday parties, so you can enjoy the food and the season. Press play if you’re ready to stop relying on food for relief and start feeling in control of what and how much you eat, at all times. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 94: "I have a snacking addiction and I always tell myself, 'Today I’m going to stop' but I just repeat the cycle."
12/16/2025
EPISODE 94: "I have a snacking addiction and I always tell myself, 'Today I’m going to stop' but I just repeat the cycle."
If you feel “addicted” to snacking, pulled to food even when you’re full, or stuck in a nightly cycle of overeating and guilt, this episode is for you. In this episode of the Outsmart Overeating Podcast, Coach Steph Miramontes and I break down a that perfectly captures what so many chronic dieters experience, especially during the holidays: constant food noise, autopilot snacking, and the belief that willpower is the problem. Spoiler: it’s not. We unpack what’s actually driving these urges -- habit loops, restriction, and sneaky thoughts that keep you stuck -- and show you how to interrupt them without cutting out foods or relying on discipline. You’ll also get access to my : “25 Mic-Drop Scripts to Clap Back at ‘One Bite Won’t Hurt’ and 24 Other Sneaky Thoughts That Sabotage Weight Loss,” so you’re not trying to fight urges in the moment without a plan. You’re not broken. You’re not addicted. You’ve just been solving the wrong problem, and this episode shows you a better way.
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EPISODE 93: What to Do Right After You Overeat (So It Doesn’t Snowball)
12/09/2025
EPISODE 93: What to Do Right After You Overeat (So It Doesn’t Snowball)
If you’ve ever woken up after an overeat already planning how to “fix it,” this episode will feel like a relief. I’m Leslie Hooper, and today Coach Steph Miramontes and I break down exactly what to do after an overeat so you can stop the shame spiral, stop the compensating, and stop letting one slip turn into a full-on derailment. Most dieters think the overeat is the problem, but it’s really the guilt, judgment, and “I blew it” thinking that keeps you stuck in binge/restrict cycles. In this episode, we’ll show you the simple, grounded strategy our clients use to recover quickly, rebuild trust with their bodies, and make their next decision the one that moves them forward. You’ll learn: What naturally thin eaters do after an overeat (it’s not what you think) The surprisingly simple step that stops the spiral instantly How to look at overeats without shame so you can learn from them Why one overeat does not ruin your progress How to shorten the gap between overeating and getting back on track... without punishment or restriction If you’re tired of letting overeats snowball into all-day (or all-week) chaos, this episode will show you how to bounce back with confidence and clarity. Press play and learn how to recover from an overeat without allowing it to ruin your day. You can start by purchasing mini-course today! You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 92: How to Survive Holiday Gatherings When You’re Not Loving Your Current Body
12/02/2025
EPISODE 92: How to Survive Holiday Gatherings When You’re Not Loving Your Current Body
If the holidays already have you stressing about seeing people you haven’t seen in a while—especially if your body has changed—you’re definitely not the only one. Coach Steph and I get into all of that in this episode: why these moments bring up old insecurities, and how you can show up confidently in the body you have today. No waiting on the weight. No hiding in photos. No shrinking yourself to make everyone else comfortable. In this episode you’ll learn: Why holiday gatherings trigger old body insecurities How your brain interprets weight changes (and why it feels so intense) What to say or do when someone comments on your body or your plate Simple mindset shifts to stop spiraling How to enjoy the holidays without obsessing over food or “making up for it” If you’re tired of sitting on the sidelines or feeling like you need to “fix” yourself before you can enjoy your life, this episode will feel like a deep exhale—and give you tools you can use immediately. Press play and let’s make this holiday season about memories, not macros. You can start by purchasing mini-course today! You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 91: Your Thanksgiving Overeating Prevention Plan (That Actually Works)
11/25/2025
EPISODE 91: Your Thanksgiving Overeating Prevention Plan (That Actually Works)
If Thanksgiving has you feeling excited and secretly anxious about losing control around food, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air. This week, Coach Steph and I break down four real Reddit posts from people navigating the same holiday struggles you are: multiple Thanksgiving meals, pressure to “live a little,” panic over leftovers, and the urge to skip meals to “save up” for dinner. Instead of tired dieting tips, we’re giving you psychology-based, binge-free strategies to help you: Handle double (or triple) Thanksgiving meals without spiraling Stop the “skip breakfast so you don’t overdo it later” cycle Keep leftovers from triggering binges Set boundaries with food-pushy family members If years of dieting have made holidays feel like all-or-nothing eating events, this conversation will show you the calmer, saner middle ground. Press play and let’s make this holiday season the most intentional, enjoyable one you’ve ever had... and you can start by purchasing mini-course today! You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 90: How to Balance Alcohol and Weight Loss Over the Holidays
11/18/2025
EPISODE 90: How to Balance Alcohol and Weight Loss Over the Holidays
If the holidays always leave you feeling like you’ve completely blown your progress — between the cocktails, the parties, the endless trays of “only come around once a year” foods — this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale. In today’s conversation, Coach Steph and I tackle one of the most frustrating holiday triggers for overeaters: alcohol. Not from the old diet-culture angle of “just limit yourself to two drinks” or “choose the lowest-calorie option”… because if that actually worked, you wouldn’t be here. Instead, we’re breaking down the real psychology behind why drinking often leads to overeating, especially for chronic dieters, and how to interrupt that pattern without relying on willpower, restriction, or swearing off alcohol altogether. Inside the episode, we walk you through: How to find your "peak pleasure point"... the sweet spot where drinking feels fun and relaxing… before it turns into regret, overeating, or waking up wondering what happened. Why your brain is more vulnerable to overeating when you’ve been dieting for years (it’s not a lack of discipline, it’s biology + psychology). How to stop mirroring other people’s drinking habits and instead stay aligned with your goals, values, and next-morning priorities. How to make intentional choices before the night begins so you never feel out of control around food later. Why alcohol doesn’t magically “make” you overeat... and the mindset shift that finally breaks this cycle for good. The exact questions we have clients ask themselves so they can enjoy the holidays and wake up feeling proud of their decisions. If you want to enjoy the season without the food guilt, without the holiday hangover, and without that yearly “I’ll start over in January” spiral, this episode will show you how to finally break that pattern. Press play and let’s make this holiday season the most intentional, enjoyable one you’ve ever had... and you can start by purchasing mini-course today! You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 89: Motivation Made Simple: How to Stay Consistent When Life Gets Chaotic
11/11/2025
EPISODE 89: Motivation Made Simple: How to Stay Consistent When Life Gets Chaotic
If you’ve ever thought, “Where the hell did my motivation go?” around the holidays, this episode is for you. Because it’s not gone… it’s just buried under a pile of stress, sugar, and social pressure. In this week’s episode, Coach Steph and I are showing you exactly how to get your mojo back without cutting carbs, skipping dessert, or pretending you don’t care about your goals. You’ll learn: Why motivation isn’t something you lose (and the sneaky reason it fades this time of year) How to spot all-or-nothing thinking before it sends you into a “screw it” spiral The #1 mindset shift that keeps you consistent even when life feels chaotic What to focus on when your routine falls apart (hint: it’s not willpower) How to use the holidays as practice, not punishment — so staying on track feels easy year-round No more starting over in January. No more “I’ll be good after the holidays.” Listen now and let’s make this the year you actually enjoy the holidays and feel in control around food. to get first access to the “Season’s Eatings” Mini Course. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 88: Why Your ‘Back on Track’ Plan Never Lasts and What Will
11/04/2025
EPISODE 88: Why Your ‘Back on Track’ Plan Never Lasts and What Will
If you’ve already caught yourself thinking, “I need to get back on track after Halloween…” — this episode is your cue to pause before the holiday overeating spiral begins. Every year, it starts the same way: a few fun-sized candies turn into “I’ll start fresh in January.” But what if this year could actually be different? In this episode, Coach Steph and I unpack the early warning signs that the holiday overeating cycle is beginning — and share how to stop it before it snowballs. You’ll learn how to: Shift out of the all-or-nothing “holiday free-for-all” mindset. Create a simple plan that lets you enjoy your favorite foods without guilt or restriction. Reframe your thoughts so you feel peaceful and in control around food. Practice the habits of naturally thin people — even during the most tempting time of year. We’re also putting the finishing touches on our brand-new “Season’s Eatings” Mini Course: Your Holiday Plate Playbook, which will be available soon. It’s designed to help you head into the holidays with confidence, enjoy your favorite foods, and ditch the stress of “getting back on track.” If you’re tired of ending every holiday season bloated, frustrated, and starting over from scratch, this episode will show you exactly how to break that pattern — and finally enjoy the holidays like a naturally thin person. Listen now and learn how to Outsmart Overeating before it even begins. to get first access to the “Season’s Eatings” Mini Course. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 87: Why “Just One Piece” of Halloween Candy Always Turns Into Ten
10/28/2025
EPISODE 87: Why “Just One Piece” of Halloween Candy Always Turns Into Ten
If you’ve ever promised yourself you’d “just have one” piece of Halloween candy—only to find yourself knee-deep in wrappers an hour later—this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, Steph and I are diving into why Halloween candy (and all “off-limits” foods) can feel so irresistible for chronic dieters—and what you can actually do to change that. Spoiler: it’s not about sugar addiction, it’s about the scarcity mindset diet culture trained into your brain. You’ll learn how to: Break the all-or-nothing cycle that turns one bite into a binge Neutralize your relationship with “forbidden” foods so they lose their power Eat candy (or any food) with confidence, not guilt Practice self-trust instead of relying on willpower Reflect instead of spiral when you overeat If you’re tired of feeling out of control around sweets and want a calm, drama-free relationship with food—not just on Halloween, but year-round—this episode will show you exactly how to get there. 🎧 Tune in and learn how to enjoy the candy and keep your goals intact. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 86: Your Binges Aren’t Random—They’re a Response. Here's What They're Trying to Tell You.
10/21/2025
EPISODE 86: Your Binges Aren’t Random—They’re a Response. Here's What They're Trying to Tell You.
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why am I suddenly binge eating when I’ve been doing everything right?” — this episode is for you. This week, Coach Steph and I break down a from a woman who sounds like so many of our clients — and our former selves: she’s tracking her calories, eating “clean,” exercising five days a week… yet somehow finds herself bingeing and feeling completely out of control around food. Here’s the truth: binge eating never starts “out of nowhere.” It’s not a willpower problem — it’s a restriction problem. In this episode, we dig into: The hidden ways mental, emotional, and physical restriction fuel binge eating Why counting calories and labeling foods as “good” or “bad” keeps you stuck in the binge–restrict cycle How dieting actually creates the very loss of control you’re trying to avoid What your binges are trying to tell you — and how to respond without guilt, shame, or more food rules If you’re tired of feeling like you can’t trust yourself around food — and you’ve tried everything from journaling to “just eating carrots instead” — this episode will help you understand what’s really driving your binges and how to finally break free from them. 🎧 Plus, we share a free tool — the — to help you uncover your emotional triggers and reframe your thoughts so you can respond instead of react. Because you don’t need more control around food — you need a safer, calmer relationship with it. Tune in to learn how to stop binge eating without relying on willpower or restriction. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 85: Emotional Eating Isn’t Always Obvious — Here’s the Kind No One Talks About
10/14/2025
EPISODE 85: Emotional Eating Isn’t Always Obvious — Here’s the Kind No One Talks About
Ever notice how you can power through a stressful week without turning to food — but the second you finally relax, you find yourself in the pantry “treating yourself”? In this episode, Coach Steph and I unpack a that perfectly captures one of the sneakiest forms of emotional eating — the kind that hides behind happy moments, nostalgia, and self-care rituals. We’ll explore: 🍫 Why emotional eating isn’t always about sadness (and how joy can trigger overeating, too) 💭 How to recognize when “rewarding yourself” with food is really a substitute for something deeper 🧠 How to honor food memories that connect you to loved ones — without using them as a reason to overeat 💖 Simple ways to make yourself feel special that actually move you closer to your goals, not further from them If you’ve ever thought, “I just love food too much,” or struggled to stop eating once you start, this conversation will help you see your habits through a completely different lens — one that doesn’t rely on restriction, guilt, or willpower. Press play to discover how to keep the comfort, connection, and pleasure of food… without letting it control you. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 84: Why “I’ll Just Eat One” Never Works—And What To Do Instead
10/07/2025
EPISODE 84: Why “I’ll Just Eat One” Never Works—And What To Do Instead
On this episode of the Outsmart Overeating Podcast, we’re diving into one of the biggest challenges for anyone who’s battled dieting: instant gratification. That little voice telling you to “just eat the cookie now and worry about the diet later”? Yeah—it’s not about weakness, laziness, or lack of willpower. It’s your brain, wired for quick hits of pleasure—made even harder to resist when you’ve spent years restricting and denying yourself the foods you crave. Join us as Coach Steph and I break down why dieters are especially vulnerable to this cycle of craving, guilt, and bingeing—and why naturally thin people experience food so differently. We’ll reveal how scarcity thinking, diet history, and emotional triggers amplify urges, and why doubling down on willpower or stricter rules only makes it worse. But here’s the good news: there is a way out. In this episode, you’ll learn actionable strategies to shift from chasing instant gratification to building self-trust, think like a naturally thin person, and stop letting urges control your life. You’ll hear practical tips you can try this week to delay gratification, calm your brain, and meet the real needs behind your cravings—without having to sit on your hands. If you’re done with the cycle of bingeing, restriction, and “I blew it, might as well keep going,” this episode is for you. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 83: The Illusion of Control: How Diet Rules Sabotage Weight Loss
09/30/2025
EPISODE 83: The Illusion of Control: How Diet Rules Sabotage Weight Loss
If you’ve ever sworn off carbs, skipped meals after 8 p.m., or lived by a long list of “shoulds” about food—only to end up overeating the very things you tried to avoid—you’re not alone. In this episode of Outsmart Overeating, Coach Steph and I dig into the hidden trap of food rules: why they feel safe at first, but ultimately create more guilt, shame, and out-of-control eating. We’ll show you how dieting trains you to cling to rigid rules instead of learning to trust yourself—keeping you stuck in a cycle of restriction and bingeing. You’ll hear: Why rules give the illusion of control (and why your brain loves them) How food rules actually increase food obsession and overeating A powerful metaphor that will change how you think about eating forever The difference between control and trust—and how to start building self-trust today Practical ways to eat with confidence without counting calories, weighing food, or white-knuckling your way through cravings If you’re tired of feeling like the only way to “stay on track” is through extreme rules and constant willpower, this conversation will help you see a new way forward—one where food feels simple, peaceful, and enjoyable again. 👉 Listen now to learn how to break free from restrictive dieting, feel in control around all foods, all the time, so you can lose weight for good. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 82: There's 100 Days Left in 2025. What Will You Do With Them?
09/23/2025
EPISODE 82: There's 100 Days Left in 2025. What Will You Do With Them?
Most dieters start the year strong, but by February, the excitement has fizzled out—and so has the plan. Sound familiar? In this episode, Coach Steph and I flip the script on waiting until January 1st to “start fresh” and challenge you to make the last 100 days of 2025 the turning point you’ve been waiting for. Instead of another round of extreme diets, food rules, and “no sugar, no carbs” resolutions that always backfire, we’ll show you how to: Shift from all-or-nothing, results-based goals to simple, doable process goals that actually last Break free from the guilt-shame cycle that fuels binge eating Build trust in yourself with one small decision at a time—no more starting over tomorrow Use the holidays as a training ground to feel in control around food instead of terrified of it If you’ve ever wondered why you can lose weight temporarily but struggle to keep it off without losing your mind, this episode is going to connect the dots. By the end, you’ll see exactly how a single, sustainable habit can change not just the next 100 days—but the next 10 years. 🎧 Tune in now and let’s make 2025 the year you stop dieting and lose weight for the very last time. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 81: Mind Hunger vs. Physical Hunger: Understanding the Differences
09/16/2025
EPISODE 81: Mind Hunger vs. Physical Hunger: Understanding the Differences
Have you ever had a single sentence completely shift the way you think about food—and your body? On this episode of Outsmart Overeating, I share a powerful story from Reddit that perfectly captures why so many of us struggle with dieting, bingeing, and feeling out of control around food. For years, this woman tried extreme diets—OMAD, intermittent fasting, under 1,000 calories a day—only to get stuck in the cycle of restriction, bingeing, guilt, and shame. It wasn’t until she stumbled upon one simple idea—“I relearned my hunger cues”—that everything changed. Suddenly, she realized hunger wasn’t the enemy, and food didn’t have to feel like a battleground. In this episode, Coach Steph and I break down: How to reconnect with your body’s natural hunger and fullness signals The critical difference between hunger, cravings, and emotionally-driven urges Why dieting and willpower aren’t the solution—and what actually is How to stop letting food control your emotions, your thoughts, and your life Step-by-step ways to experiment with hunger so you can finally feel in control If you’ve spent decades dieting, restricting, and feeling guilty every time you “slip,” this episode will give you practical tools to stop the cycle and start trusting your body again. We also explain why our approach is different from intuitive eating and how it actually helps you lose weight without obsession, extreme restriction, or chaos. Tune in and discover how one simple shift in thinking can transform your eating, your habits, and your relationship with food—for good. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the . Spots limited.
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BONUS Q&A (Part 2): Your Questions, Answered!
09/09/2025
BONUS Q&A (Part 2): Your Questions, Answered!
Did you catch our Virtual Live Event Unlock Your Brain to Stop Binge & Emotional Overeating last week? 🎉 If not, don’t worry—you didn’t miss it! In this special two-part bonus series, Coach Steph Miramontes and I are answering the powerful questions we didn’t have time for during the live training. This is Part 2, and we’re diving into your biggest struggles with emotional, binge, and compulsive eating—plus giving you the practical tools to start creating lasting change. 👉 If you’re ready to stop feeling out of control around food and lose weight for the very last time without restriction or willpower battles, check out the Outsmart Overeating program .
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BONUS Q&A (Part 1): Your Questions, Answered!
09/08/2025
BONUS Q&A (Part 1): Your Questions, Answered!
Did you catch our Virtual Live Event Unlock Your Brain to Stop Binge & Emotional Overeating last week? 🎉 If not, don’t worry—you didn’t miss it! In this special two-part bonus series, Coach Steph Miramontes and I are answering the powerful questions we didn’t have time for during the live training. This is Part 1, and we’re diving into your biggest struggles with emotional, binge, and compulsive eating—plus giving you the practical tools to start creating lasting change. 👉 If you’re ready to stop feeling out of control around food and lose weight for the very last time without restriction or willpower battles, check out the Outsmart Overeating program .
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EPISODE 80: "I'll Get Back on Track Tomorrow" Isn't a Strategy. Do This Instead.
09/02/2025
EPISODE 80: "I'll Get Back on Track Tomorrow" Isn't a Strategy. Do This Instead.
Unlock Your Brain to Stop Binge & Emotional Overeating by attending our upcoming FREE LIVE VIRTUAL EVENT for women who have a history of all-or-nothing eating and want to who want to Discover THE Science-Backed Method to Stop Bingeing and *Finally* Lose Weight for Good STARTING TODAY... Without Food Noise, Restrictive Dieting, or Relying on Willpower ==> No matter how many diets you try, if you keep thinking like a dieter, you’ll always end up in the same place: stuck in the binge–restrict cycle. Why? Because your thoughts are like your brain’s GPS. If the destination programmed in is scarcity, rules, and willpower,that’s exactly where you’ll land—again and again. But when you learn to think like a naturally thin person—someone with an abundance mindset around food—you set your GPS to a completely different destination: freedom, peace, and control. In this episode, Coach Steph Miramontes and I break down the Mindshift Method—a simple way to retrain your thoughts so you stop relying on willpower and finally re-route your brain toward balance. You’ll discover: Why “dieter thoughts” keep you spinning your wheels How to update your mental GPS so your choices feel effortless What life looks like when food no longer controls you 🎧 Press play to start shifting your thoughts—and your destination. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the . Spots limited.
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EPISODE 79: From "1 Cookie Always Turns Into 10" to "Now I Bake for Fun"
08/26/2025
EPISODE 79: From "1 Cookie Always Turns Into 10" to "Now I Bake for Fun"
Unlock Your Brain to Stop Binge & Emotional Overeating by attending our upcoming FREE LIVE VIRTUAL EVENT for women who have a history of all-or-nothing eating and want to who want to Discover THE Science-Backed Method to Stop Bingeing and *Finally* Lose Weight for Good STARTING TODAY... Without Food Noise, Restrictive Dieting, or Relying on Willpower ==> In this episode, I sit down with a former client, Nesmah ElDesouky, whose story will feel all too familiar if you’ve ever lived through the exhausting cycle of dieting, restriction, and binge eating. She shares how what started as a simple fitness routine in college spiraled into 800-calorie meal plans, food fear (yes—even of tomatoes and bananas), secret late-night binges, and hiding wrappers so no one would know. Like so many of us, she thought the solution was just to “try harder” with dieting—but the harder she tried, the worse things became. Together, we talk about: Why restriction and “fear foods” only fuel binge eating (and what to do instead) The surprising role emotional connection plays in healing your relationship with food How she went from secretly bingeing in her room to running her own cookie business—without obsessing, overeating, or fearing weight gain The exact first steps that helped her stop binge eating and finally feel in control around food If you’ve ever worried that “eating what you want” will only lead to more weight gain—or if you’ve tried every diet under the sun and still feel broken around food—this conversation will show you what’s actually possible. 👉 Listen now and discover how freedom with food can finally become your reality. You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the . Spots limited.
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EPISODE 78: When Therapy Uncovers WHY You Binge, But You Still Need the HOW
08/19/2025
EPISODE 78: When Therapy Uncovers WHY You Binge, But You Still Need the HOW
Maybe you’ve tried therapy. Maybe you’ve healed pieces of your past. But when it comes to food, you’re still stuck in the same binge–restrict cycle. You know better, but you don’t do better—and that’s the missing piece most therapy never addresses. In this episode of Outsmart Overeating, my former client (and now therapist) Nicolette shares why therapy helped her understand why she used food… but still left her obsessing over calories, macros, and “good” vs. “bad” foods. What finally set her free wasn’t more analyzing—it was learning how to replace dieting rules with a new, sustainable framework for eating. You’ll discover: Why therapy alone didn’t break Nicolette’s food obsession How macro tracking kept her stuck in “eating disorder light” The missing bridge between understanding your past and actually changing your patterns The mindset shift that finally gave her peace with food and her body If therapy has helped you heal but food still feels like the unsolvable problem—this episode will show you the missing piece keeping you stuck. And if you'd like to follow Nicolette's journey while getting some useful tips on managing trauma, you can find her on Instagram at . You can also connect with & on Instagram. If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the . Spots limited.
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EPISODE 77: How Maddy Ditched Dieting and Has Kept the Weight Off for 3 Years
08/12/2025
EPISODE 77: How Maddy Ditched Dieting and Has Kept the Weight Off for 3 Years
Maddy grew up in the perfect storm for developing an unhealthy relationship with food—a fitness instructor mom who equated health with eating only whole foods, a competitive dance culture obsessed with body size, and two households with completely opposite food rules. By 16, dieting felt like the obvious solution when her body changed. A six-week CrossFit challenge gave her abs and praise—but also set off years of binge-restrict cycles, chronic scale-stepping, body dysmorphia, and obsessive food thoughts. She couldn’t stop checking her body in the mirror or thinking about what she’d eaten, what she “should” eat next, or how to undo the damage after a binge. In this episode, Maddy shares how she finally broke free from food obsession, stopped the constant body checking, and learned to feel in control around all foods—without relying on rigid meal plans or restriction. By adopting the mindset and eating habits of a “naturally thin” person, she not only lost weight but has maintained her results for over 3 years. If you’ve ever thought, I just want to be normal around food, Maddy’s story will show you it’s possible. Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the . Spots limited.
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EPISODE 76: What to Do When You've "Tried Everything and Nothing Works"
08/05/2025
EPISODE 76: What to Do When You've "Tried Everything and Nothing Works"
Feel like you've tried every diet, detox, and wellness hack out there—and still can’t figure out why eating and weight loss feels so damn hard? In this episode, Coach Steph and I unpack the soul-crushing frustration of doing everything right… and still ending up back at square one (or worse). You’ll hear exactly why this exhausting cycle of "start strong, fall off, repeat" isn't your fault—and more importantly, how to break it for the last time. Together, we peel back the real reasons traditional diets don’t work long-term, and show you how to rebuild self-trust, ditch all-or-nothing thinking, and finally stop treating food like a mathematical equation or moral test. This isn’t about having more willpower. It’s not about tracking. It’s about retraining your brain so that your healthy eating habits start to feel natural and sustainable. Inside this episode: Why “just try harder” backfires—and what to do instead The one mindset shift that unlocks consistency How to rebuild self-trust after years of failed promises to yourself The real reason you keep bingeing (it’s not about sugar) What to focus on before weight loss to make it last If you're tired of starting over and ready to explore a completely different (and actually effective) approach, this episode will help you understand why nothing has worked—yet—and what you need to turn your goal into a reality. Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get exclusive access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the . Spots limited.
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EPISODE 75: If You're Always "Getting Back on Track," It's Not a Willpower Problem
07/29/2025
EPISODE 75: If You're Always "Getting Back on Track," It's Not a Willpower Problem
If you’ve ever ended the night face-first in a pint of ice cream thinking, “I just need more willpower,” this episode is a must-listen. In today’s episode of the Outsmart Overeating podcast, Coach Steph and I dismantle the myth that self-control is your missing ingredient. Spoiler: You don’t have a willpower problem. You have a thinking problem—and it's not your fault. We’ll show you: Why willpower works in short bursts but always fails long term How decision fatigue is silently sabotaging your food choices The surprising reason your most disciplined efforts are making you feel more out of control Why emotional needs—not food—are the real root of overeating And how changing your inner psychology creates lasting change without food rules or obsession We’re pulling back the curtain on the real drivers behind compulsive eating—like perfectionism, scarcity thinking, and deeply rooted beliefs around weight and worth—and showing you how to break the cycle for good. If you’re tired of being stuck in the binge-restrict loop, this episode will leave you feeling seen, validated, and most importantly—equipped with actionable insights you can use today. 👀 Curious? You should be. 🎧 Hit play now—because eating shouldn’t feel this hard. Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 74: Weight Loss Won’t Fix Your Food Issues. Here’s What Will.
07/22/2025
EPISODE 74: Weight Loss Won’t Fix Your Food Issues. Here’s What Will.
After losing 100 pounds, a admitted something heartbreaking: “I thought eventually I’d feel normal around food… but it’s dawning on me that this is forever. And that’s depressing.” In this episode, Coach Steph and I unpack why so many dieters end up feeling hopeless—even after massive weight loss—and how diet culture traps us in an exhausting cycle of restriction, obsession, and fear of regaining it all. You'll learn: Why weight loss alone doesn’t heal your relationship with food The real reason calorie counting and food rules aren’t sustainable What it actually looks like to eat like a “normal” healthy person—and keep the weight off Why you must lose it the way you want to live it If the idea of spending the rest of your life obsessing over every bite makes you want to scream, this episode is for you. Listen now to find a new way forward—one that doesn’t suck the joy out of your life. Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 73: Emotional Eating Triggers: Identifying and Rewriting Your Patterns
07/15/2025
EPISODE 73: Emotional Eating Triggers: Identifying and Rewriting Your Patterns
Struggling with late-night pantry raids or grabbing snacks when stress hits? In this episode of Outsmart Overeating, Coach Steph and I dive deep into your emotional eating triggers—why it happens, how to spot it, and actionable steps to break the cycle. You'll learn how to identify the difference between binge eating and emotional eating, uncover subconscious habits driving your overeating, and learn how to break the cycle using the powerful SLIP protocol we teach our clients. With practical tools like trigger tracking and compassionate accountability, this episode will show you EXACTLY how to process your emotions without food so you can lose weight and master self-control at every bite. Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 72: 5 Sneaky Lies That Sabotage Your Weight Loss
07/08/2025
EPISODE 72: 5 Sneaky Lies That Sabotage Your Weight Loss
Struggling to stick to your diet? In this week's episode of the Outsmart Overeating Podcast, Coach Steph and I reveal the sneaky little lies you tell yourself that sabotage your weight loss goals. We dive into the top five most common lies you tell yourself—like “I’ll start tomorrow” or “I deserve it”—that keep you trapped in a cycle of overeating. With actionable strategies and our proven Mindshift Method, you’ll learn how to reframe these thoughts, take control of your mind, and finally break free from the excuses holding you back. Tune in to discover how different thoughts lead to different outcomes and how developing this valuable skillset can transform your relationship with food and propel you towards permanent weight loss. Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 71: Beat the BBQ Binge this 4th of July Using this Simple Strategy
07/01/2025
EPISODE 71: Beat the BBQ Binge this 4th of July Using this Simple Strategy
for an EXCLUSIVE DISCOUNT to Your Summer Grill & Chill Playbook mini-course. Offer expires Friday, July 4th. 🌭🇺🇸 Struggling to navigate tempting family BBQs without derailing your weight loss goal? In this episode of the Outsmart Overeating Podcast, Coach Steph Miramontes and I dive into a relatable from a woman facing a calorie-busting 4th of July barbecue. We break down her four options—cheat day, starving all day, bringing her own food, or attempting moderation—and reveal why these common strategies often backfire, fueling food noise, guilt, and overeating. Discover actionable solutions to enjoy burgers, sides, and desserts without the stress or self-sabotage. Tune in to learn how to approach social gatherings with confidence, trust yourself around any menu, and break free from the restrictive dieting trap. Plus, get exclusive access to Your Summer Grill and Chill Playbook mini-course for a step-by-step guide to mastering moderation this holiday weekend! Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and want to master self-control at every bite while turning the volume down on food noise, and download the accompanying workbook. Or, if you want to be the first to know when we're opening the doors to our signature psychology-based weight loss program, Outsmart Overeating (and get access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses), join the .
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EPISODE 70: Unpacking Food Noise: How It Develops and How to Quiet It
06/24/2025
EPISODE 70: Unpacking Food Noise: How It Develops and How to Quiet It
As a professional dieter, you've probably read a lot about compulsive overeating and the uncontrollable urges that drive food obsession. So much so, that you may even feel like you're addicted to food. And chances are, what you're experiencing feels like what you're battling is far beyond willpower and personal discipline. But here's the thing. If this was a true deficit in your character, you would not be where you are in terms of career, education, regular workouts and adherence to other things in life. So what the F*#% is going on here!? Today, we discuss how you can dump the constant raging voice that tells you to eat just for the sake of eating. I know. I've been there. It doesn't just yell, it screams, "EAT THIS; EAT THIS; EAT THIS NEXT; WHAT ARE WE EATING NEXT?" regardless of what is going on. In fact, you could literally be finishing a satisfying meal and the voice will yell to eat something else, even though I am hungry and genuinely do not need anymore. Don't miss today's episode as Coach Steph and I breakdown HOW this happens and WHAT you can do, starting immediately, to silence this voice forever. Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and you’re interested in personalized coaching, . Or, if you want to be the first to know when we'll be opening the doors to Outsmart Overeating and get access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses, you can join the . If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the
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EPISODE 69: 8 Signs That What You're Doing to Stop Binge Eating Isn't Working
06/17/2025
EPISODE 69: 8 Signs That What You're Doing to Stop Binge Eating Isn't Working
In this week's episode of the Outsmart Overeating Podcast, I dive deep into the 8 biggest mistakes that keep binge eaters trapped in a cycle of feeling out of control around food. If you're like the old me and are currently struggling to break free from binge eating, this episode will help you identify the hidden pitfalls that might be sabotaging your progress. In this episode, Coach Steph Miramontes and I uncover the common approaches that seem helpful but often perpetuate the cycle of overeating. However, good news! We also offer clear insights and practical guidance to shift your strategy for more consistent success. Tune in to learn what’s *not* working, but more importantly we reveal the first steps you can begin implementing at your very next meal. Connect with Leslie: • • • If you’re struggling with emotional, binge, or compulsive eating and you’re interested in personalized coaching, . Or, if you want to be the first to know when we'll be opening the doors to Outsmart Overeating and get access to early bird discounts and fast action bonuses, you can join the . If you want to learn how to not-only lose weight, but lose the struggle along side it, you can get started by taking the
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