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The Silent "E" Part of Me - Allowing the Hidden Parts to be Seen
02/19/2026
The Silent "E" Part of Me - Allowing the Hidden Parts to be Seen
What if the most vibrant, powerful part of you has been hiding in the background for years, quietly waiting for permission to lead? In this episode, I share the story of my “Silent E” part, how she was shamed into silence as a child, and how I intentionally brought her back to life as an adult through a very specific experiment. In the video, I walk you through: • How different parts of us form in response to stress, expectations, and survival needs • Why some parts get loud and overactive while others go quiet in order to keep us safe • The second grade story of playing the villainous Silent E in a classroom skit and how that moment shaped my sense of being “too much” • What changed when I revisited that memory decades later and finally honored the bold, expressive part that showed up that day • How belly dance, goddess archetypes, and a planned photo shoot became the perfect container for my experiment with letting Silent E lead You will also hear the exact process I used so you can design your own version of this experiment: 1. Identify a part of you that wants more space, such as the confident one, the playful one, the honest one, the sensual one, the creative one. 2. Get very clear on how that part feels, moves, dresses, speaks, and shows up in the world. 3. Choose a few archetypes, symbols, or figures that help you connect with this part of you, such as goddesses, characters, people you admire, or elements in nature. 4. Pick a specific event in the future and intentionally prepare for it as a chance for that part to lead. 5. Notice the other parts that feel scared or hesitant, listen to what they need, and create enough safety for all of you to show up. This is not about performance or pretending to be someone you are not. It is about returning to the parts of you that have been locked away by shame, criticism, or fear, and giving them a structured, supported opportunity to come forward again. See Silent E in action To see what my Silent E looks like when she is fully in charge, you can view a few of my favorite photos from the shoot here: Go deeper with the book I discuss our inner parts, survival adaptations, and how to work with them in greater detail in my upcoming book, You Are Not the Problem, releasing in April 2026. You can start exploring this work right now by downloading the full Introduction for free here:
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