Fit Girl Magic | Healthy Living For Women Over 40
The Fit Girl Magic podcast is dedicated to helping women over 40 create simple healthy habits and sustainable routines that you can fit into your busy lifestyle. As well as the steps needed to build a rocksteady mindset so that you can stop feeling like working out is a punishment to feeling like the strong and confident woman who just knows what to do. Each week, with a sprinkle of humor and real talk, Kim Barnes Jefferson shares resources, tips, and interviews with experts helping women over 40 how to master weight loss, balance hormones and finally get healthy on your own terms. Do yourself a favor and hit the subscribe button. If you are ready to stop defining yourself by the scale, jumping from plan to plan and ready to finally ditch the comparison game and all or nothing mindset. You have found the podcast that will help you to tap into your strength, inner confidence and give you a new appreciation for your health with a splash of salty real talk.
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Sneezing Without Fear: Pelvic Floor Secrets Every Woman Over 40 Needs|330
11/20/2025
Sneezing Without Fear: Pelvic Floor Secrets Every Woman Over 40 Needs|330
No one warned us that sneezing after 40 would turn into a full-body event. You brace, you clench, and you pray you don’t pee yourself. But guess what? That’s not normal and today we’re getting into all things below the belt. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, physical therapist and researcher Christina Walsh, co-founder of Tighten Your Tinkler, breaks down what’s really going on with your pelvic floor and how to fix it without weird gadgets, painful Kegels, or surgery. You’ll learn the truth about why your hips, back, and bladder are all connected, the 3 everyday habits secretly wrecking your pelvic health (hello, tight leggings), and the simple daily moves that can change everything. If you’ve ever thought “this is just how it is now,” hit play because it’s not. You don’t have to live with leaks, pain, or embarrassment. This episode is your permission slip to start feeling strong, confident, and totally in control again. Links Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tighten.your.tinkler/ Squatty Potty Free Quiz Tighten your Tinkler Youtube Facebook At Home Relief Finally Free program Facebook group Free Resources: Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com 5 Days To Slay The Holidays https://kimbarnesjefferson.lpages.co/5-days-slay-holiday
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How to Stay Consistent Through the Holidays (Without Burning Out)|329
11/12/2025
How to Stay Consistent Through the Holidays (Without Burning Out)|329
You know that “I’ll start fresh in January” energy? Yeah… I’m calling BS on that. In this episode, it's time to break up with that New Year hype and showing you how to start your comeback now, right in the middle of the messy, cookie-filled, pre-holiday chaos. Because here’s the truth: dates don’t create change—reflection does. Here’s What I Talk About: Why waiting for January 1st keeps us stuck in the same “start-over” cycle The 3-step year-end reset I use with my clients: Review. Reset. Reimagine. How to build boring but bulletproof consistency that actually lasts past February The real difference between “motivation” and “momentum” (and why one’s a trap) My REPS method—Realistic, Excited, Planned, Sustainable—for creating habits that fit your actual life Why chasing six-week miracles never works and what to do instead Real Talk: If your workouts feel like punishment, your meal plan feels like a spreadsheet, and your “New Year, New Me” energy always crashes by President’s Day, this episode is your wake-up call. I’m keeping it real, funny, and relatable while showing you how to ditch the pressure, stop waiting for perfect, and start stacking small wins right now. My Challenge for You: Take a real look at what worked this year and what didn’t. Celebrate your small wins (yes, they count), then pick one to three boring-but-doable habits to carry through the holidays. This is how you stop being the women who disappears by February and become the woman who’s still showing up strong in May. Ready to Go Deeper? Check out my free “Slay the Season Without Losing Your Sh*t” 5-day audio series, it’s bite-sized coaching to help you enjoy the holidays without starting over. And don’t miss my free Live Q&A on November 19th, no scripts, no fluff, just real talk about what’s actually holding you back. You don’t need a new year. You just need new reps. Tune in now, reflect on your wins, and let’s start building your next chapter—no waiting required.
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How To Lift Harder Not Smarter Over 40| 328
11/06/2025
How To Lift Harder Not Smarter Over 40| 328
Back in my competition days, rest days weren’t a thing. My “recovery” was half-assed yoga followed by guilt because I wasn’t drenched in sweat. If I wasn’t training six days a week with a side of cardio, I thought my gains would evaporate. Sound familiar? Fast-forward to today, I’ve softened my stance. Most women I coach are juggling work, kids, parents, and a full-on life. 90 minute workouts just aren’t it anymore. So let’s talk about how to get strong without burning out. This week, I’m sharing my takeaways from Dr. Bret Contreras’ conversation on the Huberman Lab Podcast, all about how much you really need to lift, how often, and when it’s okay to sit your butt down and rest. We’re diving into: The myth of “more is better” and how recovery is actually where growth happens Bret’s take on Maximum Recoverable Volume (and what that really means in human speak) How to design 2–3 effective full-body workouts a week that build strength and confidence Why progressive overload beats random workouts every time How to stop chasing soreness and start chasing results And the truth about lifting after 40, it’s not too late, but it does look different Because your body isn’t built by burnout — it’s built by showing up consistently, training smart, and recovering like you mean it. If you only have time for one thing, make it lifting. Join the Fit Girl Magic Society If you’re tired of guessing how to make it all work, come join us inside the Fit Girl Magic Society, monthly workouts under 60 minutes, built for real life. You’ll lift and actually see results without the burnout. Connect with Me IG: Website:
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What Every Woman Over 40 Needs to Know About Good Fats with Udo Erasmus|327
10/30/2025
What Every Woman Over 40 Needs to Know About Good Fats with Udo Erasmus|327
You’ve heard me preach about the power of good fats, and this week, I finally sat down with the man who literally started the good‑oil movement: Udo Erasmus, creator of the legendary Udo’s 3‑6‑9 Blend and author of Fats That Heal, Fats That Kill. We’re busting myths left and right in this one. Remember when we thought fat‑free was the holy grail? Yeah… about that. Udo and I dig into: · Why your “healthy” oils might secretly be wrecking your hormones, joints, and mood · The truth about “cold‑pressed” labels (spoiler: it’s mostly marketing fluff) · Which oils actually belong in your kitchen, and which should head straight for the trash · The connection between good fats, glowing skin, and better brain function How slowing down, eating closer to nature, and giving your body what it actually needs can change everything Udo also shares a story that’ll blow your mind, how getting poisoned by pesticides made him realize our health is completely our responsibility… and how the oil industry has it all backward when it comes to what’s “healthy.” And of course, we end on my favorite note: why the right mindset matters just as much as what’s on your plate. Key Takeaway: If your skin’s dry, your energy’s low, or your mood’s funky, it might not be age, it might be your oils. Hit play, grab your notebook, and maybe a spoonful of good fat. Your body’s ready for an upgrade, and this conversation will make you look at your pantry (and your frying pan) in a whole new way. Ready to feel amazing this season without overcomplicating your health? Take my free quiz “Is Your Metabolism Tired AF?” and find out what your body actually needs to thrive. Take the quiz now → Links Your body needs an oil change Facebook: Instagram: Instagram: Facebook group Free Resources: Website:
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2 Diet Lies Midlife Women Needs To Stop Believing|326
10/23/2025
2 Diet Lies Midlife Women Needs To Stop Believing|326
Alright, Magic Makers—today I’m getting a little spicy. I’m calling out the two lies I used to tell myself all the damn time, and if you’ve ever said, “I’ll start when things calm down” or “I just need 30 days to get my sh*t together,” this one’s gonna sting (in a good way). Lie #1: “I’ll start when life calms down.” Let’s be real—when has that ever happened? If you’re waiting for your schedule to magically open up, you might be waiting till retirement. I’ll tell you how I learned to show up even when life feels like a circus (and yes, sometimes it totally is). Lie #2: “I just need 30 days to get back on track.” Oh, I used to love this one. I’d go all-in, white-knuckle my way through, and then crash hard. Turns out, short bursts don’t build lasting change consistency does. I’ll show you what finally worked for me (and my clients) once I ditched the “perfect plan” fantasy. Messy action beats perfect planning every single time. I’ll walk you through how I picked my 1–3 non-negotiables, those boring basics that actually make progress stick. Spoiler: they’re not sexy, but they work. Expect a few laughs, a few “ugh, she’s right” moments, and a whole lot of permission to stop waiting for the perfect time and just start now. Your challenge this week: Pick your 1–3 non-negotiables. Write them down. Stick ‘em on your mirror. Then do them, even if it’s messy. Especially if it’s messy. Mentioned in this episode: – by Gary Keller – My two previous episodes on “” Let’s keep the convo going: Come hang out with me in the or tag me on Instagram and tell me your 3 non-negotiables. I love cheering on messy progress—because that’s where the real transformation happens. Links FREE Challenge -- 5 Days To Slay The Holidays (without losing your shit) Facebook group Free Resources: Website:
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5 Must-Have Supplements Every Woman Over 40 Should Know About (and the Ones to Avoid)| 325
10/16/2025
5 Must-Have Supplements Every Woman Over 40 Should Know About (and the Ones to Avoid)| 325
If you’ve ever stared at your supplement stash wondering if any of it’s actually doing something, this Fit Girl Magic episode is your wake-up call. Kim sits down with Jared St. Clair, herbalist, supplement expert, and host of Vitality Radio, to break down the real truth about supplements for women over 40. You’ll learn: The 5 Vital Supplements that actually move the needle (and why they matter) Why Amazon isn’t your friend when it comes to buying vitamins How to tell if your collagen, magnesium, or probiotics are worth the hype What “third-party tested” really means — and why labels can lie How to stop wasting money on supplements that don’t work If you want to stop guessing, save cash, and feel confident about what you’re taking, this episode gives you the clarity (and sass) you’ve been missing. Listen now and learn which supplements your midlife body actually needs and which belong in the trash. Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com IG: @ FB: MyVitality
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Am I the A 🤬hole to My Body|324
10/09/2025
Am I the A 🤬hole to My Body|324
Okay, real talk — I had to ask myself the question I’d been obsessed with the Reddit forum: Am I the A🤬 hole? And when it came to my fitness journey… yeah, I was. In this Fit Girl Magic episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how I spent years bullying my body, pushing harder, eating less, stressing more, and wondering why nothing was working. A🤬hole alert: my body wasn’t broken. It was burned out. So, I got curious. I stopped chasing quick fixes and started asking better questions. I hired a coach, committed to a maintenance phase, and watched the scale go up seven pounds… before it finally started working for me instead of against me. Here’s what I’m sharing inside this episode: ✅ Why gaining weight was actually the best thing I could’ve done ✅ How maintenance became the secret to fat loss (and sanity) after 40 ✅ The truth about protein shakes, bars, and why knife and fork food matter ✅ Why curiosity beats control every single time ✅ How I finally made peace with the process If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right and your body still isn’t cooperating, this one’s for you. Take a breath, listen in, and maybe ask yourself the same question I did: Am I the a**hole to my body? Because once I owned it, everything changed. Tune in now and let’s talk about what it really means to stop fighting your body and start working with it. ✨ Take my free quiz: Find out what phase your metabolism is really in 📲 Tag me on Instagram: and tell me your biggest aha moment
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The Truth About Stress & Midlife Weight| 323
10/02/2025
The Truth About Stress & Midlife Weight| 323
Ever feel like your body is straight-up rebelling? You’re eating clean, working out, doing all the “right” things, but the scale won’t budge, your moods are a rollercoaster, and you’re ready to scream into a pillow every time someone asks, “What’s for dinner?” Yep, that’s not “just life”, that’s stress overload. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I’m joined by the powerhouse herself, Stephanie Crassweller, to break down what stress really looks like (spoiler: it’s not just deadlines and drama). We’re unpacking how stress messes with your hormones, metabolism, sleep, cravings, basically everything, and what to actually do about it. We talk about: · 👉 Why “eat less, move more” is not the fix 👉 How your stress plate is overflowing, and what to take off 👉 The sneaky ways cortisol keeps your belly fat stuck 👉 Why doing less might finally get you results 👉 How to turn stress into a boundary, not a burnout badge If you’ve ever said, “This is just how my life is,” or doubled down on harder workouts when you’re already fried, this one’s your wake-up call. It’s time to stop fighting your body and start listening to it. 👉 Hit play now and learn how to turn stress from your enemy into your guide. Then come tell share your biggest “aha” moment over on Instagram @kimjeffersoncoach and @vitalityoet.stephanie We want to know what landed for you! Links Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com Instagram IG @vitalityoet.stephanie Facebook Group Vitality The Metabolism and Menopause Podcast Fat Loss Quiz
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The Truth About Stress & Midlife Weight| 323
10/02/2025
The Truth About Stress & Midlife Weight| 323
Ever feel like your body is straight-up rebelling? You’re eating clean, working out, doing all the “right” things, but the scale won’t budge, your moods are a rollercoaster, and you’re ready to scream into a pillow every time someone asks, “What’s for dinner?” Yep, that’s not “just life”, that’s stress overload. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I’m joined by the powerhouse herself, Stephanie Crassweller, to break down what stress really looks like (spoiler: it’s not just deadlines and drama). We’re unpacking how stress messes with your hormones, metabolism, sleep, cravings, basically everything, and what to actually do about it. We talk about: · 👉 Why “eat less, move more” is not the fix 👉 How your stress plate is overflowing, and what to take off 👉 The sneaky ways cortisol keeps your belly fat stuck 👉 Why doing less might finally get you results 👉 How to turn stress into a boundary, not a burnout badge If you’ve ever said, “This is just how my life is,” or doubled down on harder workouts when you’re already fried, this one’s your wake-up call. It’s time to stop fighting your body and start listening to it. 👉 Hit play now and learn how to turn stress from your enemy into your guide. Then come tell share your biggest “aha” moment over on Instagram @kimjeffersoncoach and @vitalityoet.stephanie We want to know what landed for you! Links Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com Instagram IG @vitalityoet.stephanie Facebook Group Vitality The Metabolism and Menopause Podcast Fat Loss Quiz
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The Truth About Stress & Midlife Weight| 323
10/02/2025
The Truth About Stress & Midlife Weight| 323
Ever feel like your body is straight-up rebelling? You’re eating clean, working out, doing all the “right” things, but the scale won’t budge, your moods are a rollercoaster, and you’re ready to scream into a pillow every time someone asks, “What’s for dinner?” Yep, that’s not “just life”, that’s stress overload. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I’m joined by the powerhouse herself, Stephanie Crassweller, to break down what stress really looks like (spoiler: it’s not just deadlines and drama). We’re unpacking how stress messes with your hormones, metabolism, sleep, cravings, basically everything, and what to actually do about it. We talk about: · 👉 Why “eat less, move more” is not the fix 👉 How your stress plate is overflowing, and what to take off 👉 The sneaky ways cortisol keeps your belly fat stuck 👉 Why doing less might finally get you results 👉 How to turn stress into a boundary, not a burnout badge If you’ve ever said, “This is just how my life is,” or doubled down on harder workouts when you’re already fried, this one’s your wake-up call. It’s time to stop fighting your body and start listening to it. 👉 Hit play now and learn how to turn stress from your enemy into your guide. Then come tell share your biggest “aha” moment over on Instagram @kimjeffersoncoach and @vitalityoet.stephanie We want to know what landed for you! Links Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com Instagram IG @vitalityoet.stephanie Facebook Group Vitality The Metabolism and Menopause Podcast Fat Loss Quiz
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Midlife Weight Loss Without the Hustle|322
09/25/2025
Midlife Weight Loss Without the Hustle|322
What if the harder you try, the more stuck you actually get? I know, sounds backwards, but I learned this lesson the hard way. Picture this: I’m in Hawaii, surrounded by paradise, and instead of enjoying the damn beach, I’m in full-blown meltdown mode over whether I earned my Mai Tai. That was the moment I realized… something had to change. Enter: The Flip Flop Life, my “napkin manifesto” that sat on my hard drive for six years before I finally brought it to life. In this episode, we’re diving into: · Why perfection and all-or-nothing dieting are making you miserable (not healthy). · How to ditch the food police soundtrack running in your head 24/7. · The boring (a.k.a. unsexy) basics that actually move the needle, sleep, stress, protein, fiber, consistency. · What happens when you finally let it be easy instead of chasing six-week shred promises. This isn’t another 30-day quick fix. It’s a lifestyle shift for women who are done white knuckling their way through diets, workouts, and “earning their food.” So, if you’re ready to trade the mental gymnastics for ease, fun, and actually living your life, welcome to The Flip Flop Life. Ready to join us? Pop into the show notes for details on the open house and waitlist, or DM me to chat. Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com
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What Women Need to Know About GLP-1s, Ozempic, and Midlife Weight Loss|321
09/18/2025
What Women Need to Know About GLP-1s, Ozempic, and Midlife Weight Loss|321
So… Serena Williams shares she used GLP-1s to support her weight loss and the internet implodes with hot takes, shade, and side-eyes. Here’s the truth: when it comes to midlife weight loss, some folks don’t come to this decision lightly, and others are judging from the sidelines. If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide what’s working for you because someone else might label it "cheating," this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode is your permission slip to shut that noise down. In this candid, smart, and hilarious conversation, I sat down with Dr. Megan Garcia Webb, triple board-certified in internal medicine and obesity medicine (yes, triple), to break down: · What GLP-1s like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Zepbound actually do · Why “food noise” might be what’s really driving your cravings · The real deal on side effects like muscle loss, gut issues, and does it really cause cancer · Who’s a great candidate for these meds, and who should pause before jumping in · Why natural GLP boosters are more boring than sexy (but still matter) · How social media makes women feel like they’re doing it “wrong”, no matter what they choose · The #1 most underrated weight loss tool (spoiler: it’s not a supplement) · Whether you’re GLP-curious, already on it, or side-eyeing it from afar, this episode is about giving you clarity, facts, and a whole lot of freedom. DM me or tag us if something in this conversation made you say, “Wait… I never thought of it like that!” Links + Resources: Dr. Megan Garcia Webb’s website: YouTube channel: Previous Ozempic podcast Everything You Need to Know About Ozempic with Dr. Janese Lester Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com FREE Challenge 5 Days To Break The All Or Nothing Instagram https://www.instagram.com/kimjeffersoncoach
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Why Weight Loss After 40 Isn’t About Discipline|320
09/11/2025
Why Weight Loss After 40 Isn’t About Discipline|320
Here’s the truth: once you hit your 40s, those 2-hour gym marathons and bro-split routines aren’t just outdated… they’re working against you. What used to keep you lean and strong is now leaving you exhausted, inflamed, and frustrated. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I break down how to make your workouts actually work for you now: Why mobility and power moves are your new best friends. The real reason endless cardio and crunches aren’t getting you results. How to train for life, keeping up with kids, grandkids, and even carrying all the grocery bags in one trip. The underrated magic of balance and stability work to help you stay strong, steady, and injury-free. How to judge a workout by quality, not just time on the clock. This isn’t about punishing yourself at the gym. It’s about smart, sustainable workouts that help you feel energized, strong, and ready for whatever life throws at you. Ready to be the strongest “old lady” in the nursing home? Hit play and let’s go. If this episode hits home, screenshot and tag me @kimjeffersoncoach with the hashtag #oldladystrong Links Facebook group FREE challenge 5 Days To End The All Or Nothing Cycle Free Resources: Website:
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Inflammation or Fat? How to Tell (and Fix It!) |319
09/04/2025
Inflammation or Fat? How to Tell (and Fix It!) |319
Is it fat… or inflammation? Dr. Shivani Gupta reveals the simple daily shifts that can cool your body’s fire and bring back your energy. Feeling puffy, bloated, or like your body’s rebelling? It might not be “just weight”, it could be inflammation. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I sit down with Dr. Shivani Gupta, an inflammation-fighting powerhouse, to unpack why midlife feels like a WTF moment for your body and what you can actually do about it. We talk: the hidden ways stress, sleep, and modern living fuel inflammation, how to tell if it’s fat or inflammation, and the 3 daily habits that make the biggest difference (spoiler: turmeric, sleep, and less stress). Plus, Dr. Gupta shares her Ayurvedic wisdom on gut health, metabolic fire, and why your body needs seasonal “downshifts” instead of nonstop hustle. If you’re tired of guessing, Googling, or grinding harder, this episode is your permission slip to slow down, tune in, and finally work with your body instead of against it. Resources + Links Mentioned in This Episode: Podcast: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheShivaniGupta Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.shivanigupta and use #turmericlife LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shivaniguptafl/ @shivaniguptafl and use #turmericlife JOIN the 7-Day Inflammation Detox Challenge https://www.7dayinflammationdetox.com/optin1641313075014- ( Free videos everyday and resources ) FREE GIFT: Anti-Inflammatory E-Cook Book https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ItNJ1DV3XsOn5MwBbSpeTFH8o3KFu2qk/view?usp=sharing Turmeric Supplement use code FGM Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast
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Is Your Healthy Lifestyle Actually Stealing Your Life? |318
08/28/2025
Is Your Healthy Lifestyle Actually Stealing Your Life? |318
Have you ever had a moment where you’re like, “Is this really my life?” Yeah… me too. Mine happened mid-cry on a StairMaster, squeezing in a 90-minute workout because I thought being “the fit girl” was my golden ticket to happiness. Sigh....t wasn’t. In this Fit Girl Magic episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing the raw, messy truth about how I ditched the grind, stopped earning my worth through workouts, and started living what I now call The Flip Flop Life™. This isn’t about giving up on health. It’s about giving up the hustle and rewriting the rules you didn’t even realize were running your life. If you’re tired of: ✔️ Monday “fresh starts” ✔️ Calculating every bite and step ✔️ Feeling like health is your second job …then, girl, you’re going to LOVE this conversation. I’ll share: ✅ The pivotal moments that cracked my “hardcore” fitness identity ✅ Why discipline was really desperation in disguise ✅ How to finally let yourself off the unrealistic hook ✅ And what living The Flip Flop Life actually looks like If you’ve been craving more joy, less judgment, and a whole lot of freedom, you need to listen to this one. 👉 If this episode hit you in the feels, your next step is easy: get my personal manifesto (yep, the one I kept secret for years) and hop on the interest list. Think of it as your official permission slip to make healthy feel easy again. Listen now and let’s make healthy feel easy again! Links Flip Flop Life Manifesto Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com
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Do You Want to Stop Being A People Pleaser?|317
08/21/2025
Do You Want to Stop Being A People Pleaser?|317
Do you have the syndrome? You know… the one where someone asks, “Hey, can you make the homecoming banner?” and before your brain or calendar catches up, your mouth says, “Of course!” Then five minutes later you remember… you’ve got a major deadline, three other commitments, and exactly zero extra hours this week. This week, I’m sitting down with therapist (and fellow recovering good girl) Diane Lang to expose what’s really behind that knee-jerk yes—and why “being helpful” often just means putting yourself dead last. Saying yes to everyone else isn’t what makes you valuable. In fact, the moment you stop making everyone’s emergency your problem, you gain more respect and more time for the things you actually care about. We’re breaking down: • Why “selfish” self-care is actually the least selfish thing you can do • How to drop the guilt without when saying no • The sneaky ways control addiction keeps you stuck • And how to make “no” your new favorite word (without the apology tour) Listen now and start building a life that doesn’t require you to earn rest, justify your boundaries, or explain why your answer is no. Better Boundaries for a Healthy Lifestyle https://fitgirlmagic.libsyn.com/building-better-boundaries-for-a-healthy-lifestyle-292 Links Facebook: Website https://dianelang.org/ Instagram Book Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com 5 Day Belly Fat Reset https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/5daybfc_25_podcast
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Your Guide to the 4 Seasons of Fat Loss|316
08/14/2025
Your Guide to the 4 Seasons of Fat Loss|316
Tired of feeling like every day is diet season? It’s not your plan — it’s your timing. Press play and find out what season your body is really in. If you’ve been treating every single day like it’s fat loss season, we need to talk. In this Fit Girl Magic episode, I’m breaking down my Weight Loss Seasons Framework, winter build, spring downshift, summer maintain-and-live-your-life, and fall recalibrate, so you can stop running on the all-or-nothing hamster wheel. I’ll show you how to zoom out, look at your year, and match your workouts and nutrition to what’s going on in your life right now. No more pretending you can train for a marathon when life’s only giving you 5K energy. You’ll hear my own pivots, my clients’ “aha” moments, and why your plan isn’t broken, it’s just in the wrong season. Plus, how to stop spiraling when things don’t go as planned (because, spoiler: they won’t). No gold stars for grinding. No guilt for changing gears. Just a realistic strategy that works with your life instead of against it. Press play, figure out your season, and finally start working with your body instead of putting it in a headlock. Links Facebook group Free Resources: 5 Day Belly Fat Reset Website:
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Your Guide to the 4 Seasons of Fat Loss|316
08/14/2025
Your Guide to the 4 Seasons of Fat Loss|316
Tired of feeling like every day is diet season? It’s not your plan — it’s your timing. Press play and find out what season your body is really in. If you’ve been treating every single day like it’s fat loss season, we need to talk. In this Fit Girl Magic episode, I’m breaking down my Weight Loss Seasons Framework, winter build, spring downshift, summer maintain-and-live-your-life, and fall recalibrate, so you can stop running on the all-or-nothing hamster wheel. I’ll show you how to zoom out, look at your year, and match your workouts and nutrition to what’s going on in your life right now. No more pretending you can train for a marathon when life’s only giving you 5K energy. You’ll hear my own pivots, my clients’ “aha” moments, and why your plan isn’t broken, it’s just in the wrong season. Plus, how to stop spiraling when things don’t go as planned (because, spoiler: they won’t). No gold stars for grinding. No guilt for changing gears. Just a realistic strategy that works with your life instead of against it. Press play, figure out your season, and finally start working with your body instead of putting it in a headlock. Links Facebook group Free Resources: 5 Day Belly Fat Reset Website:
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How to Make Healthy, Delicious Dinners Easy |315
08/07/2025
How to Make Healthy, Delicious Dinners Easy |315
If you’ve ever opened the fridge, stared blankly, and considered making cereal again for dinner… this one’s for you. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I’m joined by the magical Allison Schaaf, a combo of registered dietitian and trained chef, to tackle the #1 question I get from clients: “What the heck do I cook?!” We chat about: Why meal prep doesn’t have to mean sad boiled chicken and hours in the kitchen How to plan dinner without crying or calling for takeout (again) The myth of the “perfect prep day” and what to do instead Why variety doesn’t mean complicated Plus… how Allison went from personal chef to helping thousands with her easy-as-heck meal plans And yes, we also talk about goat feed and Brussels sprouts. Naturally. If you’re ready to stop letting dinner boss you around, press play now. 👉 Try Allison’s two-week free trial at prepdish.com/fitmagic Links Meal Prep Monday podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/prepdish/ Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: 5 Day Belly Fat Reset Guilt Free Alcohol Guide https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/alcohol_evergreen_2025podcast
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You didn’t fall off the wagon, you outgrew the plan|314
07/31/2025
You didn’t fall off the wagon, you outgrew the plan|314
Ever feel like your health goals are playing hide-and-seek every time life throws a curveball before your coffee even gets cold? You're not alone. In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the real reason your “plan” might not be working anymore, and spoiler alert, it’s not because you’re lazy, unmotivated, or lacking discipline. Here’s what we cover: ✅ Why trying to get it perfect is keeping you stuck (and what to do instead) ✅ How your old strategies are sabotaging your current reality ✅ The difference between “falling off” vs. simply evolving ✅ Why good-better-best beats all-or-nothing ✅ What to do when you feel like your workouts, meal prep, or sleep keep dropping off the radar And the best part? I’m building something juicy for women over 40 who are done with the one-size-fits-all, diet-y BS, and I want YOUR input. Would you mind taking a few minutes (seriously, it’s that quick) to fill out this anonymous survey and tell me what you really need → If you include your email, I’ll even send you a little treat, a free cup of coffee on me ☕ (because you’re a queen and deserve it). OR screenshot this episode, tag me @kimjeffersoncoach, and share your biggest "ah-ha" moment. Let’s make your goals feel doable again, not like another Pinterest fail. Your body isn’t broken. She’s just tired of being ignored. Catch you next week and remember… pick your pace and make peace with it. Listen now and take the survey, it’s time to create something that finally fits you. Links Facebook group Free Resources: Website: FREE Guilt Free Alcohol Guide
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Inflammation, Hormones, and Perimenopause Truths|313
07/24/2025
Inflammation, Hormones, and Perimenopause Truths|313
You’re doing everything “right” and your body’s still like… nope. Can’t drop the weight. Can’t sleep. Can’t stop yelling at your husband for breathing too loud. If you’ve ever blamed your hormones but couldn’t explain which ones or why this episode is your wake-up call. I brought in hormone ninja Becca Chielankowski to break down the real hormone hierarchy (spoiler: insulin gets VIP access, not estrogen), why inflammation might be the real villain, and what’s ACTUALLY driving your “fluffiness” in midlife. Becca and I cover: Why it’s not just estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone The metabolic chaos of overtraining and undereating HRT myths, misfires, and must-know truths How cortisol got unfairly labeled the villain (and why it’s not) The non-sexy foundations that actually fix your hormones And yes, why less hustle might save your health (gasp!) This is the conversation every midlife woman needs to hear before Googling another supplement stack or fasting protocol. Because guess what? The long way really is the shortcut. Listen now and tag use to tell us your biggest “OMG that’s me” moment. Links Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: FREE Guilt Free Alcohol Guide https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/alcohol_evergreen_2025podcast
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Why Your Old Diet Tricks Are No Longer Working|312
07/17/2025
Why Your Old Diet Tricks Are No Longer Working|312
If we were besties sipping coffee (or wine, let’s be honest), and I wasn’t afraid of hurting your feelings, this is the conversation we’d have. This episode? It’s for the woman who says she’s “stuck,” who’s tired of tracking every bite, who keeps saying “I just need to get back on track” without asking what that even means anymore. ⚠️ Spoiler alert: Your plateau isn’t punishment. Your metabolism isn’t broken. But your beliefs? They might need a full-blown rewrite. We’re burning the old rule book and building a strategy that fits your real life not your fantasy version from 20 years ago. Tune in for: ✅ What to do when “get back on track” feels like code for burnout ✅ Why your pace is perfect (and how to stop being pissed about it) ✅ 1–3 non-negotiables that actually work—even during hockey season, tax season, or total chaos ✅ What I’d tell you if you argued for your limitations one more damn time Hit play and let’s get honest. Because you’re not broken, you’re just tired of doing too much for too little. If this hits home, share it with your ride-or-die who needs to stop dipping her toe into quick fixes and finally dive in goals that actually work for you. 👇 Ready to stop recycling old diet drama? Tag me @kimjeffersoncoach and tell me your biggest aha from the show! FREE alcohol resource guide Help me build your Flip Flop Life Era (complete the survey and I'll give you a free cup of coffee) Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com
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Surprising Truths About Osteoporosis, Bone Health, and Fracture Risk with Dr. John Neustadt|311
07/10/2025
Surprising Truths About Osteoporosis, Bone Health, and Fracture Risk with Dr. John Neustadt|311
Ladies, we need to talk about the part of your body you never think about until it literally snaps —your BONES. This week I’m joined by the actual king of bones, Dr. John Neustadt, a doctor and , researcher , and supplement founder who’s made it his mission to prevent the silent epidemic we call osteoporosis. 👀 And spoiler alert: Most of us don’t hear about this until we’re in our 40s (if at all), and by then we’ve already been secretly losing bone like it’s a side hustle. In this jaw-dropping episode, we Dr. Johns shares: uncover: 💥 The real reason your bone density test may not tell the whole story 💥 What your antidepressant or acid-reducer isn’t telling you about your fracture risk 💥 Why collagen and+ calcium aren’tisn’t the end-all-be-all (hello MK-4!) 💥 How sleep, stress, and even your social life may impact your bones 💥 The #1 predictor of a future fracture —and it’s NOT what you think 💥 3 things you can start doing TODAY to reduce fracture risk and build stronger bones Dr. John breaks it down like you’ve never heard before—this isn’t fear-mongeringfearmongering, this is your empowerment you get to choose moment. Whether you’re in your 40s or talking to your Gen Z daughter, this is a must-listen. 🎁 Resources & Links: ✨ Dr. John’s Website: ✨ Grab his book ✨ ✨ Try the FRAX online fracture risk tool 📣 Call to Action: Had an OMG moment during the episode? Screenshot and tag us on Instagram! 👩⚕️ @kimjeffersoncoach 🧬 @nbihealth And for real—shareplease share this with your girlfriends AND your daughters. Strong bones aren’t just for the over-50 crowd. Your future self will thank you. Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com Guilt Free Alcohol Guide https://kimbarnesjefferson.lpages.co/alcohol_evergreen_2025 Is Your Metabolism Tired AF? https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/metabolism-makeover
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Fat Loss Should Be a Phase, Not a Lifestyle | 310
07/03/2025
Fat Loss Should Be a Phase, Not a Lifestyle | 310
Welcome back to the third episode of our Metabolism Series – and today, I’m tackling the one topic that gets everyone in their feelings: FAT LOSS. But let’s be clear… I’m not talking crash diets, cabbage soup, or “skinny by Saturday” nonsense. I’m talking fat loss done right. If you're a woman over 40 who’s been dieting harder than a 2000s fitness competitor and still not seeing results, this episode is your permission slip to break up with the BS and start playing the long game. Inside this episode, I’m breaking down: Why your obsession with the scale is tanking your results What it actually means to change your body composition The 12–16-week fat loss phase (and why you should treat it like a season, not a lifestyle) Why that 1–2 lb per week “rule” is total trash How to wade into fat loss like a rockstar (without mourning your almond butter) Plus, you’ll get the real scoop on why slashing calories, skipping meals, and fasting your face off is the exact opposite of what your perimenopausal body needs. Spoiler: There is a better way. And it starts by finally stop bullying your body and start to treat it like the partner it is. Bonus: I’ve got a Metabolism Quiz linked below that’ll tell you exactly what phase you're in right now—fat loss, maintenance, or reverse. No more guessing, no more Googling. And if you’re tired of white knuckling your way through another diet plan, grab my upcoming Metabolism Reset Guide to start building a sustainable fat loss roadmap that actually fits your real life. Hit play, grab a notebook (or your favorite protein smoothie), and let’s get real about what it takes to get results at this stage of life, without burning out, bingeing, or blowing up your social life. Because my queen, fat loss isn't forever… but freedom from diet drama? That’s the goal. Screenshot this ep, tag me on IG or hop into the Fit Girl Magic Facebook group and share your biggest takeaway! Facebook group Free Resources: Website: Is Your Metabolism Tired AF FREE Guilt Free Alcohol Guide
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How to Stop Being Scared of Money with Tess Waresmith|309
06/26/2025
How to Stop Being Scared of Money with Tess Waresmith|309
Ladies, if money talk makes your eyes glaze over... or you secretly worry you’re “bad” at it... this is THE episode for you. I’m bringing in my girl Tess Smith, a financial educator who is the exact OPPOSITE of some stiff suit yelling on TV. (No jargon. No shame. No calculator required.) She’s keeping it SIMPLE and real, because money stress is one of the biggest weights we all carry… especially in midlife. And Magic Makers, you deserve better than flying blind or feeling stuck. In this fun conversation, we cover: ✅ Why “bougie broke” is keeping too many women trapped (good bye Stanley cup) ✅ The sneaky ways we’re held hostage by money beliefs ✅ How to build financial freedom, yes, even if you feel like its “too late” ✅ Why having a million bucks isn’t the only way to retire well ✅ What your 401k should actually be doing for you (and what Tess wishes every woman knew) If you’ve ever said: “I’m bad with money…” “I missed the boat…” “I’ll figure it out later…” …it’s TIME to listen. This could change everything. 👉 Hit play and if you love it, take a screenshot and tag me + @wealthwithtess Links: Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com FREE Quiz – Is Your Metabolism Tired AF? https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/metabolism-makeover FREE Guilt Free Alcohol Guide https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/alcohol_evergreen_2025podcast/ Tess Smith https://www.wealthwithtess.com/ Instagram FREE beginner investing resources https://www.moneyconfidentclub.com/ Books mentioned I’ll teach you to be rich The Millionaire Next Door The Psychology of Money https://amzn.to/4kSNu2F
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How To Flinally Stop Yo-Yo Dieting| 308
06/19/2025
How To Flinally Stop Yo-Yo Dieting| 308
Okay magic makers, if you've ever thought maintenance was just code for “you're stuck,” then buckle up, because today’s Fit Girl Magic podcast episode is about to blow that myth straight outta your protein shake. I’m diving DEEP into the most underrated phase of fat loss: MAINTENANCE (aka the peaceful middle ground where your metabolism gets to breathe and your sanity comes back). If you’ve been stuck in the all-or-nothing hustle, this is your permission slip to chill the F out… strategically. Here’s what I’m breaking down: · Why reverse dieting was just the appetizer · The truth about living in a 3–5lb weight range (yep, it’s normal) · What “boring AF” habits actually create freedom (spoiler: they’re not sexy, but they work) · Why we need to stop chasing perfection and start chasing consistency · How to use your real life (not some Pinterest vision board) to map your fat loss seasons · What it means to live in your damn maintenance house and decorate it with non-negotiables Plus: Why cardio might be killing your vibe Why it’s okay to ditch the clean plate club Why you don’t have to like tofu to eat like a grown-ass woman And how to make “rinse and repeat” feel like freedom, not failure This is THE episode for every woman over 40 who's done being a slave to the scale, tired of starting over, and ready to feel at peace in her body again. Hit play, take a walk, and prepare to feel seen. And hey, I’m working on updating my Maintenance Magic ebook when it drops want a copy? Slide into my DMs with the word MAINTENANCE and I’ll hook you up when it’s ready. Links Facebook group Free Resources: Website: FREE Guilt Free Alcohol Guide
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How To Ditch Dieting and Feel Amazing|307
06/12/2025
How To Ditch Dieting and Feel Amazing|307
You don’t need another diet. You need a reason to stop chasing skinny like it’s still 1999. In this week’s Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I’m joined by Olivia Young—a coach who gets it. We both work with women who’ve spent years stuck in the “eat less, move more” loop… and it’s just not working anymore. So we’re doing what most people won’t: we’re having the real convo about what it actually takes to feel good in your body, without obsession. Here’s what we get into: 👉 What performance goals look like (even if you’re not a gym junkie) 👉 Why 15 grams of carbs before your workout might be your new best friend 👉 How stress and sleep quietly sabotage your results (and what to do about it) 👉 Why the scale isn’t telling you the whole story—and never has 👉 How to think like an athlete—even if you're just trying to keep up consistent with your workouts Plus… why one solid hour in the gym is plenty. You don’t need a 2-hour grind fest to see results. You just need strategy—and to stop letting your hunger be a badge of honor. Ready to eat more, feel better, and train like a grown woman? Hit play. 👉 Tag @kimjeffersoncoach and @livebeyondthetable and let us know your next performance win. Screenshot and share if you’re done micromanaging your macros and ready to live, lift, and actually enjoy your body again.
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Hot Girl Summer Is Out Consistency and Confidence Are In|306
06/05/2025
Hot Girl Summer Is Out Consistency and Confidence Are In|306
If you’re anything like me, you’ve spent more summers than you’d like to admit bouncing between being “on plan” or going completely off the rails—then beating yourself up for it. I used to believe that if I wasn’t starving, sore, and checking every damn box on a to-do list, I was failing. In this Fit Girl Magic podcast episode, I’m calling BS on all of that. I’m sharing how I went from obsessive meal prep and gym workouts on vacation (yes, I was that girl) to actually enjoying my life and making progress. It’s all about what I call my Non-Negotiables—a few simple habits I can take with me anywhere that keep me grounded, sane, and consistent no matter what life throws at me. What I Dive Into: Why extreme doesn’t equal effective (and never did) The “perfect plan” lie that kept me stuck for years The 1–3 habits that helped me feel free, not frantic How I let go of the guilt around fun foods like rosé and ice cream How I learned to reflect instead of self-destruct “Fun isn’t failure. One fun meal doesn’t cancel out a week of consistency. But beating yourself up? That will knock you off track.” If you’re over 40 and done with starting over, this one’s for you. No more chasing perfect. It’s time to build a lifestyle that can hold up when life gets messy (because it always will). Want in on the Unsexy Summer Shred? This is my 8-week challenge for women who want to build real, repeatable results using boring-but-powerful habits. Nothing extreme. Just sanity, sustainability, and success. 👇 before it’s gone. Your Turn — Let’s Make This Interactive: Screenshot this episode and tag me on IG h. Tell me: 👉 What’s one non-negotiable you’re committing to this summer? Let’s stop dieting and start doing this differently—together. Links Facebook group Free Resources: Website:
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How to Reclaim Your Energy, Sanity, and Self-Compassion|305
05/29/2025
How to Reclaim Your Energy, Sanity, and Self-Compassion|305
Ever feel like you're crushing life… until life crushes you right back? You're meal-prepping, showing up for workouts, answering emails faster than ChatGPT, helping your kids survive college admissions, and wondering why you are running on fumes. You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re just burned the hell out. In this episode, I’m joined by Coach Ellen Schinke, burnout expert, high-achiever whisperer, and fellow recovering perfectionist, to break down what burnout really is (hint: it’s not just being tired) and how to spot it before you're face down on the floor wondering if wine counts as a self-care strategy. We get into: The 4 types of burnout (yes, there’s more than one!) Why your brain won’t shut up at night (hello, overthinking) The sneaky ways you’re numbing with "healthy" habits How to ditch the pressure for balance and aim for sustainable badassery What self-compassion actually looks like (spoiler: it’s not bubble baths and mantras) Whether you're running on caffeine and cortisol or just feeling off lately, this conversation will give you the words, awareness, and tools to pull yourself out of burnout and back into your body. No guilt. No shame. Just real talk, real tools, and a reminder that doing less doesn’t make you less. Links: https://www.coachellyn.com/ Burnout proof podcast Youtube: Threads: Systems Is your business stressing you out Unsexy Summer Shred https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/unsexysummer/Facebook group Free Resources: https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/freeresources_podcast Website: http://www.kimbarnesjefferson.com
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Reverse Dieting Over 40: How to Heal a Tired Metabolism |304
05/22/2025
Reverse Dieting Over 40: How to Heal a Tired Metabolism |304
Ever feel like your metabolism is giving you the finger? You’re eating “clean,” doing all the workouts, skipping the wine—and STILL not seeing results? Girl, this episode is your permission slip to stop under-eating and start healing your metabolism. In Part 2 of the Metabolism Reset Series, we’re talking all things reverse dieting aka how to add calories without blowing up the scale or losing your mind. Yep, it’s a thing. And yes, it works especially if you’ve been living in a 1200-calorie prison since the early 2000s. Here’s what I break down: What the hell is reverse dieting? (And no, it’s not just “eating more.”) The 5-step Fit Girl method to rewire your metabolism How to know when you’re ready to increase calories (without panic) The truth about weight gain, water retention, and real biofeedback wins Why ditching diet culture = long-term freedom When to move into maintenance or fat loss If you’ve been under eating, over-exercising, and still not losing weight… this episode will hit like a truth bomb wrapped in tough love and protein powder Links & Resources: Take the “Is Your Metabolism Tired AF?” quiz → Join the Fit Girl Magic Facebook group Free Resources: Website: Grab the Reverse Dieting Ebook → Ready to stop guessing? Join the Fit Girl Magic Society →
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