FLiP - Family Law in Partnership

Family Law in Partnership is a specialist family law firm who take a unique approach to family law. FLiP balances their exceptional legal expertise with care and compassion, delivering intelligent and creative solutions while carefully managing any emotional impact. Whether you are going through a divorce or making financial arrangements before or after you marry, FLiP will guide you through every turn with expertise and reassurance, always in partnership. FLiP offer unrivalled expertise across all process options, whether that involves going to court, mediation or arbitration, for example, selecting the best process for your particular case, providing first rate legal guidance and clarity around your options. Divorce and separation, whether children are involved or not, can be a distressing and difficult time. FLiP are always looking for better ways to help their clients through the process so they have developed a hub of emotional and practical support to enhance the wellbeing of their clients. And the latest addition to this wellbeing hub is the introduction of this podcast series.

Protecting Children During Court Proceedings - FLiP 29 12/05/2024

Protecting Children During Court Proceedings - FLiP 29 and discuss how to protect children’s mental health when their parents are in family court proceedings, or any process where a third party needs to make a decision for them, such as arbitration. Whether proceedings are about the children themselves, or the parents’ finances, Daniel and Jo agree that both the parents and the lawyers should do as much as possible to insulate children from the process and stress associated with it. They talk about direct ways to look out for children, as well as practical strategies to help parents protect themselves and support everyone’s wellbeing. This in-depth conversation covers, but is not limited to: · When and how to speak to children about family proceedings · The value of giving children a voice and how to do this in an age-appropriate way · The difference between feeling heard and being stuck in the middle · The importance of communication and trust between parent and child · Spotting signs that a child is struggling with their mental health · Getting help from third parties such as family, school and experts · Children’s involvement in proceedings, such as CAFCASS interviews · The benefit of boundaries and why parents should set them with their lawyers · The impact of stress on decision making · Dealing with disappointing outcomes · Managing handovers when you’re in conflict Discussing separation, Daniel comments “It’s one of those moments in one’s life where decisions that you make, behaviours that you exhibit, have profound impacts and can really seriously and significantly affect the future of our children.” About the speakers: Daniel Coombes Daniel is an experienced family solicitor, mediator and collaborative practitioner. He recognises that decisions made at the time of separation will have long-lasting ramifications and helps parents to focus on what is important and what needs prioritising – in the short, medium and long term. He has a reputation for handling the most challenging children cases - including where there are mental health concerns, allegations of abuse and parental alienation - and achieving creative but workable solutions, both in and out of the court arena. Jo Harrison Jo is an experienced therapist working with individuals and couples who are separating. A former family lawyer, Jo has a depth of experience that benefits individuals and couples as she supports them through the separation and divorce process. Jo is the author of the book ‘Five Arguments All Couples (Need To) Have And Why The Washing Up Matters’, and is regularly quoted in the press. She has made appearances on ITV’s This Morning (the Relationship Clinic) and Marina Fogle’s The Parent Hood. /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/34261680

How do we tell the children we are separating? - FLiP 28 11/14/2024

How do we tell the children we are separating? - FLiP 28 In this podcast , a Family Solicitor and Director at Family Law in Partnership, is joined by Couples Therapist and Divorce Consultant to discuss a question they are often asked – How do we tell the children we are separating? Referencing a blog written by Jo, which highlights the ideal situation of parents communicating together, they consider a range of scenarios and topics that lead on from this, including: · Planning the conversation together · Agreeing an age-appropriate narrative that is helpful for children · Preparing for questions children might ask · Helping children answer questions about the separation · The role of other adults and caregivers such as family members and teachers · The danger of replaying negative parental dynamics · Safety issues and circumstance in which you wouldn’t want to have this conversation jointly · What happens when one parent wants to introduce a new partner · Evolution of the conversation over time and the opportunity to try again. The materials referenced in the podcast can be found here: · FLiP Blog - How to Tell Children You Are Separating: · Resolution guide - Parenting Through Separation: About the speakers: Jo Harrison Jo is an experienced therapist working with individuals and couples who are separating. A former family lawyer, Jo has a depth of experience that benefits individuals and couples as she supports them through the separation and divorce process. Jo is the author of the book ‘Five Arguments All Couples (Need To) Have And Why The Washing Up Matters’, and is regularly quoted in the press. She has made appearances on ITV’s This Morning (the Relationship Clinic) and Marina Fogle’s The Parent Hood. Elizabeth Fletcher A highly regarded family solicitor and mediator, Elizabeth advises parents on how to manage the arrangements for their children and finances following the breakdown of their marriage, relationship or civil partnership. She has particular experience navigating complicated private law children arrangements, including those with an international element. #divorce #separation #children #familylaw #childarrangements /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/33876937

Untangling the Mental Load after Divorce and Separation - FLiP27 05/01/2024

Untangling the Mental Load after Divorce and Separation - FLiP27 In this episode of the FLiP podcast, Senior Associate and FLiP’s in-house Divorce Consultant and Individual & Relationship Therapist discuss how couples can manage their mental load once they separate. In this wide-ranging discussion, Hannah and Jo look at how tasks within a relationship are often divided and the impact a separation may have on mental load as individuals seek to resume roles which they may have relinquished during the relationship. There is an acknowledgement that many separated parents wish to be seen as a “competent parent” as they move into the next chapter of their lives, but this can be hard and it can take some adjustment. Jo suggests that the key to managing the transition successfully is goodwill and fostering a good relationship through communication and an acknowledgement of the contribution their former partner has made and is making: “The better that you get on with your former partner, the easier it will be.” Hannah and Jo discuss the importance of building trust and sharing information with an acceptance that this can often take time to develop. Tread carefully and delicately, and think about your communication in terms of timing and tone. Appreciate and accept that your former partner may do things differently. At FLiP we have a team of Divorce Consultants and Individual & Relationship Therapists who have a wealth of experience in helping couples to improve their relationships, whether they are together or separating or separated. Our team offer a place to reflect on relationship issues in a confidential and stigma-free way. To learn more, visit our dedicated page found . is a Divorce Consultant and Individual & Relationship Therapist at FLiP. She is very experienced in working with individuals and couples who are separating. is a Senior Associate at FLiP. She advises on all aspects of divorce and cohabitation, including financial and children matters, and on relationship agreements, including prenuptial and cohabitation agreements. A qualified collaborative lawyer, Hannah’s focus is on providing clear, pragmatic advice whilst maintaining an empathetic approach, taking all available opportunities to minimise conflict, where possible. /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/31049223

Domestic Abuse: Working with Victims and Perpetrators - FLiP 26 09/15/2023

Domestic Abuse: Working with Victims and Perpetrators - FLiP 26 In this episode of the FLiP podcast, FLiP Director Helen Greenfield, leads a discussion with Chantal Hughes, Chief Executive at The Hampton Trust on the topic of domestic abuse and working with victims and perpetrators. Helen and Chantal cover a wide range of points such as: Who is referred to The Hampton Trust. The interventions offered by The Hampton Trust such as Project CARA. The language surrounding domestic abuse and coercive control. The stigma encompassing domestic abuse. The impacts of abuse on a family, in particular children who as defined by The Domestic Abuse Bill can also be victims of domestic abuse, with reference to the BBC documentary featuring Ian Wright which The Hampton Trust were involved with. Whether victims feel reassured by perpetrator support work and whether it can be said it is a safeguarding system for the victims. About the Speakers The Hampton Trust was founded in 1996 to deliver domestic violence perpetrator programmes within the criminal justice system. They have developed community based interventions for families experiencing domestic abuse alongside providing innovative criminal justice response. Chantal Hughes has been part of The Hampton Trust since 2006 where she joined as the Domestic Abuse Services Manager before progressing to Deputy Chief Executive. She took a 4-month sabbatical in 2011 to work for a charity providing rehabilitation to street children in one of the largest slums in Africa and remains connected to the work in Kenya. Taking up the role of CEO in 2013, Chantal has led the expansion of a range of domestic abuse and criminal justice interventions. She remains firmly committed to tackling the root cause of domestic abuse by holding perpetrators to account and ensuring the voice of victims and children are at the forefront of the work. Helen Greenfield advises on all matters relating to family breakdown, divorce and cohabitation. She has a particular interest in helping those who have been affected by domestic abuse. Domestic abuse can include anything from isolating a person from their friends and family, monitoring their time or taking control over aspects of their everyday life (such as where they can go, who they can see, what to wear, their finances or when they can sleep. It can also include threats to hurt, to kill or even physical assault). Helen recognises that the legal implications of domestic abuse are accompanied by a plethora of emotional and other issues, and she aims to ensure that clients are able to work through them with the right advice and support. For further information: Helen Greenfield: Chantal Hughes: FLiP’s Website: The Hampton Trust’s Website: LinkedIn: Facebook: Twitter: /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/28039548

Family Separation and Immigration Issues - FLiP 25 08/21/2023

Family Separation and Immigration Issues - FLiP 25 In this episode of the FLiP podcast, FLiP Associate Vanessa Sampaio, leads a discussion with Andrew Jones, Immigration Solicitor at Wesley Gryk Solicitors on family separation and possible immigration issues that can be encountered. Vanessa and Andrew cover a wide range of points such as: The challenges that arise from an immigration perspective for individuals in circumstances where their immigration status is dependent on their spouse and there is risk of such status being lost upon divorce. What impact children have on the immigration status of separating individuals. The legal position for unmarried couples who have children and one of the parents has a temporary visa and what can be done to regularise the parent’s status who does not have the right to remain in the country. Protective steps that family lawyers can take to safeguard their client’s immigration position. Vanessa advises on all aspects of family law including the division of finances on the breakdown of marriage/civil partnerships, and the preparation of pre and post nuptial agreements. She also advises in respect of matters under TOLATA 1996 and under Schedule 1 of the Children Act. Vanessa prioritises her clients’ objectives whilst providing them with pragmatic advice to assist them in achieving the best outcome for themselves and their children. Vanessa offers a considered approach to resolving her cases as constructively as possible, but nonetheless takes a strategic view when it comes to litigation. Vanessa is ranked as a Recommended Lawyer by Legal 500 2023. Andrew Jones is a solicitor at Wesley Gryk Solicitors LLP. Andrew’s practice covers a wide range of immigration, asylum and nationality matters. Andrew regularly assists clients to make applications for parents and partners applying to enter or extend their stay in the United Kingdom. He also has experience with applications for asylum, British citizenship for adults and children and status under the EU Settlement Scheme. Andrew successfully challenges Home Office decisions in the Immigration and Asylum Tribunals and by judicial review. For further information: Vanessa Sampaio: Andrew Jones: FLiP’s Website: LinkedIn: Facebook: Twitter: /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/27758508

Divorce Diary: How Therapy Changed My Experience of Divorce FLiP 24 08/03/2023

Divorce Diary: How Therapy Changed My Experience of Divorce FLiP 24 In this episode of the FLiP podcast, Marcia Drummond, Associate and Chartered Legal Executive Lawyer, leads a discussion with a former client about his divorce journey and the powerful impact therapy had on his experience. The questions in which Marcia asked her former client are listed below with the appropriate time stamp in case you would like to skip to a certain point of the discussion. At what stage did you consider it important to obtain legal advice rather than self-represent? (1:12) How did the end of your marriage impact on your mental health and how did you manage it? (1:47) When did you engage the services of a therapist? (2:30) How did you choose the therapist and what skillset was important to you? (4:13) What impact did therapy have on the way that you dealt with the divorce process? What would say are its benefits (and disadvantages) for other separating couples? (4:50) Do you consider there is an alignment between the legal advice you received and the support you received from your therapist? (7:39) Statistics show that men are likely to be more resistant to engage in therapy or counselling – do you have an opinion as to why that might be? (8:57) You’ve taken therapy to another level and have started a course in therapy – what was your motivation? (10:39) What would be your advice to anyone going through a divorce or separation? (12:20) At FLiP we have a team of Divorce Consultants and Individual & Relationship Therapists who have a wealth of experience in helping couples improve their relationships, whether they are together or separating or separated. Our team offer a place to reflect on relationship issues in a confidential and stigma-free way. To learn more, visit our dedicated website page linked below. Marcia Drummond is an Associate and Chartered Legal Executive (FCILEx) Lawyer. She handles all aspects of private family law and has a broad range of experience across financial, divorce/dissolution and parenting matters. To learn more about Marcia, see below. For further information: Marcia Drummond: FLiP’s Website: Divorce Diaries: Divorce Consultancy and Therapists: LinkedIn: Facebook: Twitter: /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/27646866

Relaunch: Surrogacy: An Introduction - FLiP 08/01/2023

Divorcing in Your 20s - FLiP 22 05/25/2023

Divorcing in Your 20s - FLiP 22 In this podcast Hannah Greene, a Senior Associate at FLiP is joined by Jo Harrison, in-house therapist at FLiP. Hannah and Jo discuss Monica Heisey’s debut novel ‘Really Good, Actually’ and what it means to get divorced in your 20s. **SPOILER ALERT – to any listener who has not yet read the book, the plot of the novel is discussed to some extent and the conversation may contain some spoilers.** Jo and Hannah discuss a range of topics filtering from Monica’s novel, such as but not limited to: - How divorcing looks in your 20s from a legal perspective and the common issues which may feature; - How therapy can help an individual, no matter what their age, when going through a divorce or separation; - The concept of “necessary narcissism”; - Communication during the divorce process and after; - The legal position on pets during a divorce; - What is portrayed in the book which is general to divorce; - Lessons learnt from the novel. Hannah advises on all aspects of divorce and cohabitation, including financial and children matters, and on relationship agreements, including prenuptial and cohabitation agreements. A qualified collaborative lawyer, Hannah’s focus is on providing clear, pragmatic advice whilst maintaining an empathetic approach, taking all available opportunities to minimise conflict, where possible Jo is very experienced in working as a therapist with individuals and couples who are separating. A former family lawyer, Jo has a depth of experience in being able to understand the legal process. She can work with clients, either individually or as a couple, to support them through the process. Clients can meet with Jo for an initial consultation at our offices in Central London to think about what help is required. This can be at any stage before, during, or after a divorce or separation. For further information: Hannah Greene: Jo Harrison: FLiP’s Website: Really Good, Actually: https://www.waterstones.com/book/really-good-actually/monica-heisey/9780008511722 LinkedIn: Facebook: Twitter: /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/26948988

Language of Divorce and Separation - FLiP 21 05/05/2023

Separated Parents: Travelling with Children FLiP 20 04/21/2023

Separated Parents: Travelling with Children FLiP 20 In this podcast Kara Swift, a Senior Associate at Family Law in Partnership, and Michael Edwards, a Barrister at 4PB who specialises in international children law particularly child abduction, examine the issues that separated parents need to think about if they are planning to take their children on holiday, in particular from England & Wales. Kara and Michael underline the importance of abiding by the terms of any order that the Court has already made in relation to the children, and to try to reach an agreement away from the courts if at all possible. They look at the general view of the Family Courts towards separated parents taking their children on holiday, and offer practical steps that separated parents can take if they are in agreement to ensure that everything runs smoothly. There are times when agreement might not be possible and they consider the importance of carrying out a thorough risk assessment, weighing up factors such as: Who do the children live with? Who has their passports? Where is the other parent planning to travel to? Is this a country which is party to the Hague Convention*? Are there signs that this might be more than a temporary trip? Where a parent has concerns about the intentions of the other parent, Kara and Michael emphasise the importance of acting quickly and getting specialist legal advice on the best way forward. They look at the range of orders that a Court could make before the children travel, and what could be done if the children have already been taken abroad. *Hague Convention 1980 – contracting parties Michael of 4PB is a specialist in international children law, particularly child abduction, leave to remove and jurisdictional disputes. He regularly appears in the High Court and has appeared in many of the leading cases in the Court of Appeal and Supreme Court. Michael has been noted by Legal 500 as “the private children and child abduction guru”. Michael is Co-Editor of International Family Law, the leading journal on international family justice. Kara advises on all aspects of private family law, supporting a wide range of married and unmarried clients following separation to resolve matters relating to their children, finances and property rights with diligence and care. Kara is a qualified collaborative lawyer. Kara is ranked as a Rising Star by Legal 500 2023. For further information: Kara Swift: Michael Edwards: FLiP’s Website: ___ LinkedIn: Facebook: Twitter: /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/26563770

Ending a Relationship in an Amicable Way FLiP 19 01/03/2023

Divorce Diary: A Real Life Experience of Divorce FLiP 18 07/14/2022

Infant Children and Divorce 06/15/2022

Litigation Loans: All you need to know about borrowing to fund your divorce FLiP 17 04/30/2022

No Fault Divorce: Will it End the Blame Game? FLiP 16 03/22/2022

Should I get divorced in Hong Kong or England? A Discussion of The Legal Framework. FLiP 15 03/21/2022

Whistle-stop Tour on Pre-Nuptial Agreements FLiP 14 01/28/2022

Thoughts On How To Tell Your Children You Are Separating FLiP 13 01/04/2022

Tax On Separation: Most Commonly Asked Questions FLiP 12 11/17/2021

Therapy: An A-Z of Mental Health Professionals FLiP 11 11/01/2021

Surrogacy: An Introduction FLiP 10 10/14/2021

Successful Step Parenting FLiP 9 08/26/2021

Children & Screen Time: What You Need to Know FLiP 8 05/19/2021

Children Arbitration: All You Need To Know FLiP 7 04/07/2021

The family court process in times of COVID-19 FLiP 6 03/01/2021

The family court process in times of COVID-19 FLiP 6 The family court process in times of COVID-19 In this episode of the FLiP podcast we discuss how the courts have adapted to the Covid-19 crisis with a particular focus on how hearings can take place remotely and what other routes are available to clients who wish to avoid the court process altogether. FLiP Associate Kara Swift leads the discussion with family law barrister Francesca Dowse of 4 Paper Buildings. Kara and Francesca explain what to expect if you are due to attend a virtual court hearing and how to prepare for the hearing. Together they look at the advantages and disadvantages of virtual court hearings and offer tips for making the hearing as stress free as possible. Francesca Dowse of 4 Paper Buildings has a particular expertise in all matrimonial finance including Inheritance Act provision, international and private law children work. Francesca was highlighted by Legal 500 2021 as ‘an excellent advocate with a pragmatic, analytical and incisive approach. One of her many strengths is being able to put the client at ease before and during a hearing. Her cross-border experience is extensive’. Kara Swift of Family Law in Partnership advises on all aspects of private family law, supporting a wide range of clients following separation to resolve matters relating to children and financial matters with diligence and care. Kara was named Family Law Young Solicitor of the Year 2019 in the prestigious LexisNexis Family Law Awards. The award recognises a solicitor with under 5 years post qualification experience who has made an outstanding contribution in family law. Click to view Kara’s blog on the Family Courts and Lockdown. For further information: Kara Swift: Francesca Dowse: FLiP’s Website: FLiP’s ADR pages: Mediation: Arbitration: Negotiations/private FDRs: Collaborative practice: LinkedIn: Facebook: Twitter: /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/18135707

Family Mediation: All you Need to Know. FLiP 5 01/22/2021

Domestic Abuse: The Hidden Pandemic. FLiP4 11/26/2020

Communicating During Family Breakdown - FLiP3 09/25/2020

Divorce and the impact of Depression - FLiP2 08/17/2020

Successfully Navigating the Return to School with Emma Gleadhill - FLiP1 07/20/2020

Successfully Navigating the Return to School with Emma Gleadhill - FLiP1 Please note this episode was recorded on 20 July 2020 at which time all information discussed reflects an accurate reflection of the government’s advice. We acknowledge that during the coronavirus pandemic it is an everchanging climate and therefore do keep up to date with the government guidelines which can be found on the gov website. Successfully Navigating the Return to School Family Law in Partnership is a specialist family law firm who take a unique approach to family law. FLiP balances their exceptional legal expertise with care and compassion, delivering intelligent and creative solutions while carefully managing any emotional impact. Whether you are going through a divorce or making financial arrangements before or after you marry, FLiP will guide you through every turn with expertise and reassurance, always in partnership. FLiP offer unrivalled expertise across all process options, whether that involves going to court, mediation or arbitration, for example, selecting the best process for your particular case, providing first rate legal guidance and clarity around your options. Divorce and separation, whether children are involved or not, can be a distressing and difficult time. FLiP are always looking for better ways to help their clients through the process so they have developed a hub of emotional and practical support to enhance the wellbeing of our clients. And the latest addition to this wellbeing hub is the introduction of this podcast series. In this episode, FLiP are delighted to be joined by Emma Gleadhill, an Educational Speaker and Trainer. Emma has a long-standing reputation for delivering transformative learning in psychological wellbeing, emotional intelligence, and healthy relationships. Emma works with over 50 schools throughout the UK and numerous national and international organisations as a speaker, trainer and parenting expert. Emma is a professional coach with a private practice coaching parents and teens. She brings a wealth of experience from a range of different perspectives. Find more about Emma on her website (linked below) where you can also sign up to her fantastic newsletter 'Parenting with Purpose' which can be found on her homepage, suitable for both parents and teachers. During the discussion, Emma mentioned the helpful advice contained within the NSPCC website which can be found by following this link . Other links: Emma’s Website: FLiP’s Website: . LinkedIn: Facebook: Twitter: /episode/index/show/flippodcasts/id/15287321

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