Fostering Voices Podcast
A Foster Arizona podcast featuring Authentic Conversations with Real People talking all things Foster Care and beyond. Hosted by Kim and Brian Vehon.
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Episode 197: Championing Community Change
12/10/2024
Episode 197: Championing Community Change
Summary: In the final episode of our mini-series, we explore the transformative power of community support and how it can truly change and uplift lives. Over the last two episodes, we heard from two inspiring individuals who have directly benefited from the incredible work of Foster Arizona. Now, we’re flipping the script. Today, we’re thrilled to spotlight Christian and Patrick Andrew, two dedicated supporters who exemplify how we can all make a difference in our own unique ways. Often, we think creating impact means making big, life-altering commitments like opening our homes. But the truth is, each of us has the power to change lives by simply sharing our gifts, skills, and influence to create opportunities for others. Join us as we dive into their stories and discover how small acts of support can lead to big changes, inspiring all of us to find our own ways to contribute to our communities. This heartwarming episode will leave you motivated to take action and see the ripple effect of community care. Tune in and be inspired! Resource Link: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 196: Community Impact: Jenny's Story
11/26/2024
Episode 196: Community Impact: Jenny's Story
Summary: In this episode of our mini-series on the transformative power of community support, we dive into another inspiring story of connection and resilience. Last week, we heard from Joseph, who shared how the community shaped his journey from foster care to adulthood. This week, we’re thrilled to continue the conversation with Jenny Montgomery. Jenny brings a wealth of experience as someone who has dedicated her professional life to supporting children and families in the community. But her perspective is especially meaningful because she’s also been on the receiving end of that support during pivotal moments in her own life. Join us as Jenny shares her powerful story, offering insights into how community support can be both life-changing and life-giving. Her journey reminds us that we all have the ability to make a difference and that receiving help can be just as transformative as giving it. Tune in for an uplifting discussion that will leave you inspired to foster connection and support in your own community. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 195: Community Impact: Joseph’s Story
11/12/2024
Episode 195: Community Impact: Joseph’s Story
Summary: Welcome to our podcast mini-series, where we dive into the transformative power of community support. Join us as we explore how fostering connections can truly change lives. To kick things off, we’re thrilled to welcome Joseph Layton to the show. Joseph has been a vital part of Foster Arizona’s housing initiative for over a year and a half, working tirelessly toward his goals and aspirations. Guided by host Ashley, a dedicated Foster Arizona board member and longtime advocate, we’ll uncover the inspiring journey of someone who’s making big strides toward a brighter future. Ashley’s insight into Foster Arizona’s mission brings a unique perspective, helping us better understand the impact of communal support on those who need it most. Joseph’s story offers a firsthand look at what’s possible when people come together to create positive change. Tune in as we discuss Joseph’s path, the challenges he’s faced, and the powerful role of organizations like Foster Arizona in helping individuals thrive. Get ready to be inspired by the stories, the resilience, and the unbreakable spirit of a community that cares. Resource Links: Foster Arizona: Foster Arizona Housing Project: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 194: Refugee and International Foster Care in Arizona
11/05/2024
Episode 194: Refugee and International Foster Care in Arizona
Summary: Welcome to today’s episode, where we dive into the important and often misunderstood topic of refugee and international foster care in Arizona. Misinformation around this issue tends to spread, especially around election seasons, making it hard to separate fact from fiction. Our goal is to shed light on the realities of refugee and international foster care and to offer you practical ways to support those involved. We’re thrilled to welcome two special guests to help us unpack this topic: Erin Pelley and Adan Benitez. Together, we’ll explore the unique challenges and inspiring stories within the foster care system for refugee children, as well as the ways community members can provide support and make a lasting impact. Tune in to learn, dispel myths, and discover how you can be a part of positive change. Resource Links: Catholic Charities: . Best Practices for Working with Unaccompanied Migrant Children - UNICEF: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episdoe 193: Real Talk: Public Challenges with Invisible Disabilities
10/22/2024
Episdoe 193: Real Talk: Public Challenges with Invisible Disabilities
Summary: In this episode, released during Invisible Disability Awareness Week, we shine a light on the often-overlooked challenges of living with invisible disabilities. We share our personal experiences navigating a world where assumptions are based on what can be seen. From expectations about how a child should behave to judgments about what adults are capable of, these perceptions can create unintentional barriers for those with invisible disabilities. Join us as we explore how our interactions and assumptions affect others and discuss what it might look like to shift our approach. How can we create space for more understanding, allowing people to be seen for who they truly are? What happens when we let down our guards and give each other room to breathe? This episode invites listeners to reflect on how we can cultivate a more compassionate society—one that acknowledges the realities of invisible disabilities and fosters more mindful, inclusive connections. Resource Link: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 192: Now What? How to Support Your LGBTQ Youth
10/08/2024
Episode 192: Now What? How to Support Your LGBTQ Youth
Summary: In this episode, we’re diving into an essential conversation about the role we all play—parents, caregivers, and community members—in supporting the wellbeing of LGBTQ+ youth. Even if you don’t feel this is directly relevant to your life, we encourage you to listen. Statistically, more than one in five Gen Z adults and one in ten millennial adults identify as LGBTQ+. Youth who identify as LGBTQ+ are at a significantly higher risk for homelessness, substance abuse, trauma, and suicide, with even greater risks for those who’ve experienced the foster care system. These youth could be our neighbors, friends, children, or our kids’ friends, making it crucial for us to put down our guard and open our hearts. To guide this discussion, we’re joined by Rochelle Rippy and Hira Ismail from one•n•ten, a nonprofit organization dedicated to serving LGBTQ+ youth and young adults ages 11-24. They provide critical services that promote self-expression, self-acceptance, leadership development, and healthy life choices. Let’s explore how we can all play a part in creating a more supportive, inclusive world for the LGBTQ+ youth in our lives. Resource Links: one•n•ten: Tips for Parents of LGBTQ+ Youth: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 191: Fostered for Greatness
09/24/2024
Episode 191: Fostered for Greatness
Summary: In this episode, we are honored to sit down with Mari Ramsey, whose inspiring journey began when he and his brother entered foster care at the age of 14. While many teens in his situation end up in group homes, Mari was fortunate to find a loving foster family where he could thrive. Through the challenges he faced, Mari discovered his passion for music, faith in God, and a calling to share his story with others. Join us as we listen to Mari’s heartfelt reflections on his experiences, the power of resilience, and how his love for music and faith shaped his path. Resource Links: Fostered for Greatness - Foster and Adopt Information: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 190: Real Talk: Group Homes in Arizona
09/10/2024
Episode 190: Real Talk: Group Homes in Arizona
Summary: In today’s episode, we dive into the world of group homes for children in foster care. When family or foster families aren't an option, group homes become the next step for many kids. But what is life really like inside these homes? We’re joined by Shevaun Sullivan, Director of Group Home Relations at OCJ Kids, who shares her insights from years of experience. Shevaun discusses the day-to-day realities for kids in these environments and highlights the crucial role the community plays in supporting their well-being. If you’ve ever wondered how group homes function or how you can help make a difference, this conversation is a must-listen! Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 189: Learning & Growing Together - On Location @ FC Training Day
08/27/2024
Episode 189: Learning & Growing Together - On Location @ FC Training Day
Summary: Join us on location at Central Christian Church in Glendale, Arizona, for Foster Arizona’s semi-annual Foster Cooperative Training. This episode is packed with insightful talks from experts dedicated to empowering caregivers and community champions. Discover valuable knowledge and practical tools to better support the children who need us most. As we learn and grow together, we enhance our ability to make a meaningful impact in their lives. Tune in to be inspired and equipped to show up with greater purpose and compassion. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 188: How Art Helps Build Resilience
08/13/2024
Episode 188: How Art Helps Build Resilience
Summary: In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the concept of building resilience, particularly in children. We often hear about the importance of resilience, but what does it really mean? And more importantly, how can we help our kids develop this crucial skill? Resilience isn’t just about surviving challenges—it’s about learning to bounce back and thrive in the face of adversity. While there are many ways to nurture resilience, today, we’re focusing on a powerful and perhaps unexpected tool: art. Art can be a transformative medium for children, offering them a way to process emotions, express themselves, and find healing. To explore this topic further, we’re excited to welcome Matt Sandoval, the Executive Director of Free Arts for Abused Children of Arizona. This incredible local nonprofit is dedicated to providing trauma-informed programs that connect the community to the healing power of the arts. Matt brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to our discussion, and we’re grateful to have him with us as we explore how art can be a successful tool in building resilience in children. Resource Links: Free Arts for Abused Children of Arizona - Video: 3 Art Therapy Activities to Boost Resilience Made from Dollar Tree Materials BOOK - I Can do Hard Things - Mindful Affirmations for Kids Resilience Guide for Parents and Teachers Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 187: Behavior Interventions that Work for Us
07/23/2024
Episode 187: Behavior Interventions that Work for Us
Summary: In our last episode, we shared how our family embraces summer adventures. This time, we're diving into the real struggles we face, not just in summer, but every day. Join us as we explore the challenges and interventions that work for us. We tackle road trips and outings, discussing how the struggle is real and how we manage in-car and outing behaviors, handling nighttime routines when you're the only adult or with another adult. We then shift our focus to home life, addressing challenges like out-of-control behaviors, unsafe car habits, dysregulation, and lack of sleep. We'll cover prevention strategies, therapy, additional supports, practice drills, preparing conversations, and identifying triggers. We also look at tips for taking care of yourself both on vacation and in everyday life, ensuring you can be present and supportive for your family. Tune in for practical insights and relatable stories to help navigate family life with confidence and resilience. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 186: Vacation Planning & Tips - Vehon Style
07/09/2024
Episode 186: Vacation Planning & Tips - Vehon Style
Summary: As summer blazes in Arizona, we’re constantly on the move, seeking cooler escapes to preserve our sanity. Traveling with a family of nine is no small feat, and we’ve gathered a treasure trove of tips and tricks to make it smoother. In this episode, we dive into Intentional Travel. Fresh from a recent timeshare presentation, we discuss the joys and challenges of discovering new experiences together and the importance of adventure in our family. We’ll share our favorite adventures and how we align them with our family goals. Next, in The Planning Behind the Fun, we break down the essentials of gearing up for family trips. From our favorite Shacke Paks to specific bags for medications, bug spray, sunscreen, and more, we cover it all. Learn how we manage kid bags, hygiene kits, and day bags to keep everyone organized. We’ll also share tips on cooler prep, using Stasher Bags and Mason Jars, and our go-to kitchen bucket. Our clothing plan includes an emergency washing kit and a portable clothing rack, plus how to plan laundry stops on the road. We’ll guide you through planning the fun with tools like the Road Tripper app and Google Docs for seamless travel details. Lastly, we touch on the essentials of permits, advance tickets, seasonal activities, and international travel tips. And when things don’t go as planned, we’ll share our go-to interventions to keep the fun alive. Join us for an insightful episode packed with practical advice for memorable family travels! Resource Links: Shacke Pak!: Wise Owl Towel: Stasher Bags: h Portable Camping Kitchen Organizer: Water Dispenser: Roadtrippers app: Bonus Content: Copy of Vehon 2023 Summer Trip Itinerary and Meal List: LINK TO DOWNLOAD FROM DRIVE: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 185: Consider Yourself a Mandated Supporter
06/25/2024
Episode 185: Consider Yourself a Mandated Supporter
Summary: In this week's episode, we continue the important conversation started in Episode 184 “The Link Between Foster Care and Social Disparities”. If you haven’t had a chance to listen to it yet, we highly recommend checking it out to gain a deeper understanding of today’s discussion. June is Family Reunification Month, a time to celebrate families coming back together after separation due to child protective services. But what if reunification wasn’t necessary? What if we could focus more on prevention and support within our communities to keep families together in the first place? This week, we explore these critical questions with our returning guest, Claire Louge. Join us as we examiine how every one of us can play a role in supporting our neighbors and fostering stronger, more resilient communities. Don’t miss this insightful and thought-provoking episode! Resource Links: “Considering Yourself a Mandated Supporter” training: Arizona - Triple P Parenting Education: Non-Arizona Triple P Parenting Education: Family Resource Centers: Foster Cooperative: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 184: The Link Between Foster Care and Social Disparities
06/11/2024
Episode 184: The Link Between Foster Care and Social Disparities
Summary: In honor of June being Family Reunification Month, today's episode sheds light on a crucial yet often overlooked issue in our community: the challenges and misconceptions surrounding birth families involved in the foster care system. As foster parents, we initially held unfair biases towards these families. However, through our journey, we've learned that various factors make some families more at risk of system involvement than others. To deepen this conversation, we are thrilled to welcome Claire Louge, the Executive Director of Prevent Child Abuse Arizona. Claire is dedicated to strengthening families and protecting children. She is passionate about creating a supportive and welcoming community where everyone can access the resources they need. Her insights and dedication to family reunification will inspire and inform our discussion. Join us as we explore the complexities of the foster care system, challenge our preconceptions, and learn how we can all contribute to a more understanding and supportive environment for families in need. We are grateful to have Claire share her expertise and heart with us, and we hope this episode fosters greater awareness and compassion within our community. Tune in and be part of this important conversation. Resource Links: Article: “Considering Yourself a Mandated Supporter” training: Blink by Malcolm Gladwell: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 183: A Single Mom’s FosterAdopt Journey
05/28/2024
Episode 183: A Single Mom’s FosterAdopt Journey
Summary: In honor of Foster Care Awareness Month, join us for an inspiring episode featuring a heartfelt conversation with my sister-in-law, Tara Armstrong. Tara played a pivotal role in our family's foster care journey, guiding us as we transitioned from having two kids to seven. Now, she has embarked on her own remarkable path. As a single mom of two, Tara opened her heart and home, adopting two children from the foster care system who were searching for their forever family. This episode delves into the challenges and triumphs of fostering and adoption, offering real talk and personal insights that highlight the profound impact one person can make. Tune in to hear Tara's story of love, resilience, and the transformative power of family. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 182: Life-Changing Connections in Foster Care
05/14/2024
Episode 182: Life-Changing Connections in Foster Care
Summary: In today's episode, we explore the profound impact of connections on well-being, particularly in the context of foster care. The Center for Disease Control and Prevention highlights the pivotal role of social connections in fostering healthy choices and better mental and physical health outcomes. However, many children entering foster care face profound disconnection from their familiar support networks, exacerbating challenges like stress, anxiety, and depression. In Arizona, where the average foster child experiences two or more placements, the need for stable, nurturing relationships is starkly evident. Our guest, Freddie Hernandez, a former foster youth, shares his remarkable journey of resilience and transformation. With a degree in Digital Film and Video Production from The Art Institute of Phoenix, Freddie defied the odds, emerging as a beacon of hope in his community. Join us as Freddie sheds light on how one caring adult can alter the trajectory of a young person's life. Through his passion for digital storytelling and filmmaking, Freddie exemplifies the power of connection and the ripple effect of mentorship. His story serves as a testament to the transformative potential inherent in human connection. We extend our gratitude to Freddie for lending his voice and invaluable experience to today's conversation. Tune in as we explore the profound impact of connection and the pathways to support and empower those navigating the foster care system. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 181: It's OK to Say, "I'm Not OK."
04/23/2024
Episode 181: It's OK to Say, "I'm Not OK."
Summary: Today, it’s just the two of us, engaging in a candid conversation about mental health. Ironically, we find ourselves easing into a month dedicated to both mental health and foster care awareness. For those who have experienced life within the foster care system, the intricate connection between these two realms becomes evident. So, let’s dive into the spaces where our mental well-being has been profoundly affected and the valuable lessons we’ve gleaned along the way. With that, let’s begin this authentic conversation. 🌟 Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 180: How Caregiver Stress Impacts Our Bodies
04/09/2024
Episode 180: How Caregiver Stress Impacts Our Bodies
Summary: In honor of Stress Awareness Month, our podcast delves into the crucial topic of stress reduction and self-care. While this is important for everyone, it holds even greater significance for caregivers of children with special needs and those working in social services fields. The toll of constant stress can adversely affect our health, leading to feelings of depression, anxiety, inadequate sleep, lack of physical activity, and imbalanced diets. These factors increase the risk of serious health conditions like heart disease and diabetes. But how do we address this challenge? Today, we’re thrilled to welcome back Dr. Jaime Parker, a seasoned expert with over 25 years of experience in health and wellness. Dr. Jaime wears multiple hats as a holistic health coach, fitness instructor, certified personal trainer, nutrition educator, and certified Pilates instructor. She has personally triumphed over numerous health obstacles. Recently, I sought Dr. Jaime’s guidance in my own healing journey. The years of accumulated stress have taken their toll on both Brian and me. Dr. Jaime’s genuine empathy and understanding resonate deeply as she navigates the delicate balance between caring for others and prioritizing self-care. Her remarkable ability to meet people where they are, infused with love and encouragement, is something we’re excited to share with you today. Tune in as we explore simple yet impactful changes that can lead to stress relief and better health. 🎙️🌟 Resource Links: (Dr. Jaime Parker) Products: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 179: What is Critical Memory Integration and How Can it Help?
03/26/2024
Episode 179: What is Critical Memory Integration and How Can it Help?
Summary: Today, we’re delving into an exciting new therapy modality called Critical Memory Integration. This groundbreaking approach focuses on healing trauma by exploring unresolved critical memories and integrating them with neutral memories, fostering resilience in individuals. At the forefront of this creation, our incredible team of panelists joins us today. You might recognize one of our team members—Estefana Johnson—who shared her insights in our Valentine’s episode. Estefana is a cherished friend of Foster Arizona. Alongside Estefana, we have two remarkable psychologists: Dr. Brian Livesay and Dr. Diego Hernandez. Both experts bring extensive backgrounds in trauma care and post-traumatic stress disorder. Over the past two years, I’ve eagerly followed the progress of this project, and it’s truly remarkable to witness its practical implementation locally and globally. Resource Links: Lt. Col Mann TEDx on Generosity of Scars Elizabeth Feldmann Barrett How Emotions are made Luiz Pessoa: “The Entangled Brain: Integration of emotion, motivation, and cognition” Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:00 - Opening 00:33 - Intro 02:03 - Dr. Brian Livesay 03:40 - Connection is Fundamental 04:35 - Dr. Diego Hernandez 05:23 - Did I Make a Difference? 06:38 - We Did Everything Together 08:07 - Estefana Johnson 09:57 - You were Made to Fly! 10:46 - It Starts with the Therapist 13:20 - Clinicians are more than Technicians 15:42 - Survival is not Enough 16:34 - Critical Memory Integration 18:24 - The Deepest Conversations 19:00 - We are Designed for Play 19:47 - Getting Through the Bad Feelings 21:54 - Recognizing the Signals 22:59 - Tactical Disclosure 25:02 - Power in Relatability 28:55 - Where does CMI Fit? 32:20 - Integrating CMI 35:08 - Critical Memories 36:14 - The Stories Movies Tell 37:15 - Full Access to your Emotions 40:21 - Teaching Kids to Experience Emotions 43:33 - Stories are Wisdom 44:18 - How to get this new Therapy 47:10 - New Understanding 48:03 - A Hub for Training 50:18 - Resources 51:15 - Final Thoughts 55:10 - Conclusion 55:40 - Thank You!
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Episode 178: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 2
03/12/2024
Episode 178: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 2
Summary: Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast! In today’s episode, we’re picking up where we left off last week. Our microphones are live on location at Foster Cooperative’s first training day of 2024, where we’re soaking up knowledge and growing together. 🌱 Last time, you had the pleasure of meeting some of our incredible presenters. This week, get ready to hear from three more remarkable human beings. They’ll share their stories, insights, and passion for fostering. 🎙️ So, without further ado, let’s dive into this enriching conversation! Buckle up, because here we go! 🚀 Resource Links: (Frances Holguin) (Nichol Khan) (Dr. Jaime Parker) Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 177: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 1
02/27/2024
Episode 177: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 1
Summary: Today is all about something extra special! We've packed our gear and hit the road to bring you an exclusive behind-the-scenes experience. Right now, we're on location at Foster Cooperative's training day, immersing ourselves in a day of learning and growth. Foster Arizona, a beacon of support and empowerment, hosts these training events twice a year. And let me tell you, each time is a unique journey filled with eye-opening insights. Today, we're not keeping those gems to ourselves – we're bringing you along for the ride! Join us as we dive into various topics and explore valuable resources that shape the fostering landscape. Whether you're a seasoned advocate or just starting your journey, there's something for everyone. So, buckle up and get ready to embark on this enlightening adventure with us. Are you ready? Let's go! Resource Links: (Mathew Blades) (Mathew Blades) (Wade Cordell) (Carol Melim) (Jillian Ashby) Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 176: All You Need is Love (Not!)
02/13/2024
Episode 176: All You Need is Love (Not!)
Summary: It’s officially Hallmark’s week of love! 🌟 When it comes to parenting kids with trauma, we often hear the words, “All You Need is Love.” But is that really true? This week, we dive deep into this question. We’re thrilled to have Estefana Johnson joining us in the conversation. Estefana, a clinical social worker, began her career working with youth in residential treatment facilities. She’s a mover and a shaker, bringing innovative approaches to trauma therapies. Plus, she’s a favorite trainer at our semi-annual Foster Cooperative training events. And let’s not forget, she’s one of the most loving people we know. Tune in for insightful discussions and heartfelt stories! ❤️🎙️ Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:12 - Opening 00:35 - Welcome! 01:41 - Estefana's Journey 03:39 - Radical Acceptance 04:46 - Moving Beyond Fear 06:31 - Being Curious 06:59 - Therapy 08:07 - The Hero Complex 09:58 - What is Love? 11:00 - If you Loved them Better... 13:10 - "We're on Your Team" 14:35 - Rose-Colored Glasses 17:40 - Your Purpose is Greater 19:01 - The Heart Connection 21:17 - Handling Trauma 24:07 - Drip Drip Drip 26:00 - Self-Judgment 28:09 - It is not a Fault 30:17 - Deep Connections 32:01 - Choosing to Show Love 36:34 - Gratitude 36:55 - The Takeaway 37:58 - Resources 39:09 - Connect with Us! 39:33 - Thank You!
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Episode 175: I Want to Foster! Now What?
01/30/2024
Episode 175: I Want to Foster! Now What?
Summary: Discover the profound journey of becoming a foster parent in a nation grappling with a staggering shortage. In this episode, we explore the critical issue of the national decline in foster parent numbers, intensified by a 60% drop since the onset of the pandemic. Arizona, mirroring this trend, has witnessed a drastic decrease from 5,559 licensed foster homes in 2019 to a mere 2,798 as of November 2023 – marking a nearly 50% loss. Against this backdrop, our guests, Elisia and Jade from Step Stone Youth Agency, shed light on the challenges and rewards of foster parenting. At a time when Arizona is fervently working to address the shortage through extensive recruitment initiatives, this podcast provides a timely and insightful conversation. If you've ever wondered about the complexities, triumphs, and heartaches involved in fostering, join us as we explore the untold stories and experiences that shape the journey of these unsung heroes. The need for foster parents has never been more urgent, and this episode aims to inspire and inform, encouraging listeners to consider making a difference in the lives of vulnerable children. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 174: Moms Get Real
01/23/2024
Episode 174: Moms Get Real
Summary: Welcome to the Fostering Voices podcast with your host Kim! Join us as we shake things up in this episode by delving into some authentic mom talk. We've given Brian the boot for now to bring you a heartfelt discussion on the joys and challenges of parenting within the realms of foster care and adoption. As a mom personally touched by these experiences, connecting with others who share similar journeys has been both empowering and deeply meaningful. In today's episode, we're joined by the wonderful Elisia and Ally, fellow moms navigating the unique landscape of foster care and adoption. Tune in for an honest and relatable conversation that sheds light on the beauty and complexities of building families through love and compassion. Resource Links: Connect With Us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:34 - Welcome! 01:13 - Elisia's Story 04:32 - Ally's Story 09:37 - What have you Learned 13:24 - Filling in the Gaps 15:28 - Momma Joy Moments 21:43 - Challenging Spaces 30:05 - Tag You're In! 32:47 - Tag You're Out! 34:11 - Keeping Your Sanity 39:47 - Filling Your Own Cup 41:26 - Saying No in Love 42:36 - Resources 45:11 - Connect with Us! 45:50 - ThankYou!
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Episode 173: Kids’ Perspective on Foster Care and Adoption
01/09/2024
Episode 173: Kids’ Perspective on Foster Care and Adoption
Summary: Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast! Happy 2024, everyone! We're thrilled to kick off another year of heartfelt conversations and insightful stories. In today's episode, we have a special discussion with our 'bigs'—Maisey, Liesey, and Sam—sharing their unique perspectives on foster care and adoption. Join us as we delve into their experiences, gaining valuable insights into the world of fostering and adoption through their eyes. Thanks for tuning in, and let's embark on this journey of understanding and empathy together! Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 172: Foster Care Land Between: Planning Your Future in the Unknown
12/26/2023
Episode 172: Foster Care Land Between: Planning Your Future in the Unknown
Summary: As we wrap up 2024, we're diving into the complexities of foster care planning. Unlike the conventional New Year's resolutions, the foster care journey is a unique landscape filled with uncertainties. In today's raw and unfiltered discussion, it's just the two of us sharing our personal experiences without any guests. We want to pull back the curtain on the challenges and emotions that come with navigating the foster care land between. As we all contemplate what the coming year holds, those entrenched in foster care face a different set of considerations. Planning takes on a whole new meaning. Join us as we explore the intricacies of making decisions in the midst of uncertainty, reflecting on the hurdles, and finding the courage to move forward. Whether you're part of the foster care community or simply curious about the realities, this episode aims to resonate with you on a profound level. Tune in for an honest conversation about the uncharted territories of fostering, hoping it sparks a connection and provides insights into the often overlooked aspects of this journey. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:09 - On Today's Episode 00:55 - Welcome! 01:32 - In the Thick of the Crazy 03:22 - What is the Land Between? 06:20 - Handling the Phases 08:10 - Managing Emotions 12:13 - Emotional Roller Coaster 15:05 - Being Fully Invested 17:09 - It Affects More than Just Us 20:48 - Bringing in the Family 22:17 - Pre Foster Training 23:04 - Us vs. Them 25:56 - It's not About the Socks 29:53 - Controlling what you Can 34:02 - Connect with Community 36:04 - Create a Memory 39:21 - Don't be Afraid to Connect 41:36 - Resources 42:11 - Connect with Us! 43:16 - Thank You!
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Episode 171: Laughing all the Way: Vehon Christmas Traditions
12/12/2023
Episode 171: Laughing all the Way: Vehon Christmas Traditions
Summary: Welcome to a festive episode of our podcast, where we dive into the heartwarming world of holiday traditions and intentional joy. As we usher in the holiday season, we're joined by some special guests – the Vehon kids! In this intimate conversation, we explore how our family of 9 embraces the spirit of togetherness and crafts unique traditions that redefine the meaning of festive celebrations. Discover the magic of intentional joy and connection as we unpack the Vehon family's approach to the holidays. From crazy traditions that spark laughter to thoughtful rituals that deepen family bonds, this episode offers a glimpse into the joyous tapestry we’ve woven. If you've ever been curious about what holiday festivities can look like in a bustling household, this is the perfect episode for you. Join us in celebrating the season with the Vehon kids’ first-ever podcast recording. Whether you're seeking inspiration for your own festivities or just love a good holiday story, this episode is sure to fill your heart with warmth and festive cheer. Thanks for joining us as we unwrap the magic of intentional joy in this joyous holiday season! Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 170: A Look Into Tribal Foster Care
12/05/2023
Episode 170: A Look Into Tribal Foster Care
Summary: In this episode we peel back the curtain and take a look into tribal foster care. Joining us are Brad and Karin Dahlman, a remarkable couple who have dedicated themselves to fostering children for many years. Through tribal foster care, they've opened their hearts and homes to dozens of kids, making an immeasurable impact on our community. Karin sits on the board of Foster Arizona, and Brad is one of those people we can call to rally troops or step into a problem. We absolutely love them and are really grateful we all get to learn from them today. Tune in as we dive deep into their incredible journey as foster parents and explore the vital role of tribal foster care in the lives of children. Join us for an inspiring and informative conversation that sheds light on the challenges and rewards of this vital work. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:09 - On Today's Episod 00:43 - Welcome 01:17 - Brad and Karin Dahlman 01:38 - Life Before Foster Care 02:27 - Deciding to Foster 04:01 - Answering the Call 04:21 - Adjusting to the Decision 06:17 - Tribal or Not? 08:27 - Overcoming Tribal Challenges 13:37 - Kill 'em with Kindness 15:07 - It's all About Relationships 16:45 - Let them Lead Us 18:29 - The Baby Book 19:59 - From Baby Book to Dad 20:16 - Packing the Children Up 22:28 - Losing a Child 24:17 - Can't do it for Yourself 24:55 - Stronger for It 25:55 - Never too Old 26:56 - Unexpected Blessings 28:11 - Being on the Same Page 30:15 - Changing Visions 31:57 - Misconceptions 32:58 - Starting Late 34:23 - 7 kids; 6 and Under 35:09 - You Can! 35:47 - The Takeaway 37:21 - Resources 38:52 - Connect with Us! 39:16 - Thank You!
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Episode 169: Talking Adoption with an Adoption Attorney
11/14/2023
Episode 169: Talking Adoption with an Adoption Attorney
Summary: Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast with Kim and Brian! In celebration of Adoption Awareness Month this November, join us for a special episode dedicated to all things adoption. Our guest, Ed Johnson, a revered local attorney deeply embedded in foster and adoption circles, brings a wealth of experience to the discussion. In this insightful episode, Ed shares his years of knowledge, shedding light on crucial aspects of the adoption journey. If you're on the path to adoption in Arizona, don't miss the opportunity to connect with Ed—his contact information will be in the resource notes. As advocates for informed parenting, we emphasize the importance of understanding the unique spaces of loss associated with adoption. Education is key, and the more you empower yourself with knowledge, the better equipped you'll be to support your children, present or future. We hope today's conversation sparks valuable insights and encourages ongoing discussions about adoption. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of this meaningful journey. Resource Links: Ed Johnson - , 480-209-2847 Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:03 - Intro 00:53 - Welcome! 01:42 - Ed's Story and Work 02:25 - Having a Voice in the Court System 03:53 - Ed's Experience with Adoption 05:39 - Kids Need to be Remembered 06:09 - Appreciating RAD 07:54 - The Joy and Reality of Adoption 10:12 - FIrst Hand Experience with Trauma 12:18 - Relating to One Another 12:46 - Support Leads to Successful Adoptions 15:56 - Resilience Leads to Successful Adoptions 17:51 - Those who Stick Around 18:54 - It's a Family Affair 19:25 - Who's Your Favorite Child? 20:24 - Other People's Perceptions 23:08 - To Foster or To Adopt? 27:03 - Talking about Severence 28:24 - Talking about Cost 30:24 - Subsidies for Fostering 35:23 - The Practical Support of Subsidy 36:56 - The Courtroom Process 40:03 - After the Courtroom is Over 42:08 - The 30-dollar Staple 44:29 - Freedom After Adoption 46:39 - Extended Family 47:35 - The Takeaway 48:59 - Resources 51:01 - Connect with Us! 51:24 - Thank you!
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Episode 168: Mental Health: Where do I go from Here?
10/25/2023
Episode 168: Mental Health: Where do I go from Here?
Summary: In this episode, we dive deep into the crucial topic of mental health and finding a path forward when you're grappling with the question, "Where do I go from here?" Today, we are thrilled to have Carol Melim join our conversation. Carol is not only a Licensed Clinical Social Worker but also a specialist in trauma therapy, certified in EMDR and EMDRIA, with a unique perspective. She brings a wealth of book knowledge and invaluable lived experience to the table, making her exceptionally attuned to the distinctive challenges faced by foster and adopted children, as well as their families. Throughout this episode, we'll explore the intersection of mental health and family dynamics, drawing on Carol's expertise and personal insights. Whether you're a parent seeking guidance, someone interested in mental health, or simply curious about the experiences of foster and adopted children, this conversation will provide valuable insights and practical advice. Join us as we navigate this important conversation, offering hope and understanding for those asking themselves, "Where do I go from here?" Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters 00:22 - On Today's Episode 00:35 - Welcome Carol Melim 01:33 - Carol's Story 04:04 - RTC's, CFT's, Life Skills 04:55 - Making a Change to Help 05:48 - Respite 06:55 - Becoming a Therapist 07:57 - Unique Challenges 09:18 - Lacking Behavioral Support 11:47 - Having a Safe Space 12:53 - Navigating Therapy 15:18 - Maneuvering Within Therapy 16:57 - Knowing When Therapy is Needed 18:09 - Recognizing False Motivation 20:51 - Follow the Mama Duck 21:31 - The 'Why' Journal 23:02 - Changing Behavior 25:22 - You Don't Get Pie 27:41 - Fun in Parenting 28:58 - Identifying Urgent Scenarios 30:51 - Behavior Coaches 32:32 - When it's not just Trauma 33:55 - Beyond Therapy 35:14 - Leaving too Soon 36:38 - The Takeaway 37:20 - Resources 38:25 - Connect with Us! 38:46 - Thank You!
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