Fostering Voices Podcast
A Foster Arizona podcast featuring Authentic Conversations with Real People talking all things Foster Care and beyond. Hosted by Kim and Brian Vehon.
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Episode 165: Celebrating 10 Years of Impact
09/12/2023
Episode 165: Celebrating 10 Years of Impact
Summary: Today is all about celebration as Foster Arizona turns 10 years old. Join us as we take a delightful trip down memory lane, reflecting on the invaluable lessons and heartwarming joys we've encountered throughout this incredible journey. In this special episode, we're honored to have Al Moore, one of our founding board members and the current board chair, as well as Ashley Shick, one of our earliest lead team volunteers and a dedicated board member. Their stories and insights will inspire you as we share our love and gratitude for these incredible individuals. Get ready for a heartfelt and enlightening conversation as we celebrate a decade of fostering hope and change. Stay tuned! Resource Links: Please submit your story (and photos if you’d like) to: Register for the celebration event!: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:10 - On Today's Episode 00:36 - Welcome Ashley and Al 00:59 - How did you get Involved? 04:01 - Ashley Getting the Call 04:30 - And then there's Al! 06:00 - Foster Care Becomes Personal 07:36 - The Kids Change Your Life 08:28 - What Keeps You Coming Back? 11:33 - It Takes a Village 12:03 - The System's Numbers are Skewed 13:38 - What Brings them Back? 15:04 - It's not all Sunshine and Roses 18:53 - Pivot, Flex, Adapt, Grow 20:10 - The Human Challenge 25:20 - Meeting People Where They Are 26:51 - Mountain Top Moments 31:02 - Reminiscing on the Beginning 33:35 - Celebrating Today and the Future 34:59 - The Magic Sauce 37:11 - There's a Surprise Drawing! 39:04 - The Takeaway 41:18 - Big Birthday Bash Event Coming Up! 41:56 - Submit Your Story Please! 42:31 - Connect with Us! 43:08 - Thank You!
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Episode 164: All Things School - When you Need an Advocate
08/22/2023
Episode 164: All Things School - When you Need an Advocate
Summary: As we continue exploring the return to school season, today's discussion delves into a crucial topic. Join us as we sit down with Amanda Glass, an esteemed legal professional with a passion for advocating for children's rights. Amanda's journey, post-graduation from the Sandra Day O'Connor College of Law at Arizona State University, led her to a groundbreaking Equal Justice Works fellowship at the Arizona Center for Disability Law, supported by Greenberg Traurig, LLP. Her impactful project focuses on enhancing accessibility to special education and mental health services for children with invisible disabilities within Arizona's child welfare system. Through legal expertise, community education, and collaborative efforts with existing organizations, Amanda strives to uplift children facing emotional or unseen challenges. In this insightful conversation, Amanda sheds light on the invaluable role collaboration and connection play in ensuring every child's needs are met. If you're a parent or guardian encountering roadblocks, frustration, or uncertainty in securing the necessary support for your child, this episode offers guidance and hope. Join us as we explore the transformative power of collective action and empathy in advocating for the future of our children. Thank you, Amanda, for gracing us with your expertise and perspective today. Tune in and empower yourself with knowledge! Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:04 - On Today's Episode 00:46 - Meet Amanda Glass 01:29 - Amanda's Work 03:23 - What Disparities are There? 05:05 - What Draws you to Child Welfare? 07:08 - Dukes Up! 10:04 - Options for Parents in Dispute 11:58 - Options for Filing Complaints 13:39 - Ordering Corrective Action 16:23 - Timeline for Due Process 19:06 - Broken Systems 23:21 - Restraint and Seclusion 27:00 - What can a Parent Do? 29:26 - Follow the Plan with Fidelity 31:41 - Accountability 32:37 - Public Records of Accountability 34:38 - Least Restrictive Placement 35:56 - Change of Placement 37:10 - Knowledge is Power 38:18 - Procedural Safeguards Notice 39:22 - Don't go it Alone! 40:00 - The Takeaway 40:57 - Resource Links 42:56 - Thank You!
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Episode 163: All Things School - IEP /504
08/08/2023
Episode 163: All Things School - IEP /504
Summary: Join us in celebrating the return to school as we dive into an enlightening discussion on IEPs and 504s with the incredible Nancy Williams. Our guest, Nancy, brings a wealth of expertise to the table as the Executive Director of the Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents, an organization that has personally touched our lives. With a remarkable 30-year career in education, including roles as a special education teacher and administrator, Nancy's insights are invaluable. As a volunteer Surrogate Parent through the Department of Education, Nancy advocates passionately for youth in group homes who require special education services. She's a dedicated champion for families navigating the complex school system and fighting for their children's rights. In this episode, we'll delve into the intricacies of Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) and 504 plans, gaining essential knowledge and strategies for supporting children with diverse needs. Nancy's dedication and expertise shine through as we discuss fostering inclusive and supportive educational environments. Tune in as we engage in a dynamic conversation that empowers parents and educators alike. We're thrilled to welcome Nancy into our podcast space today. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 162: An Adoptee's Story - The Blessing; the Heartbreak
07/25/2023
Episode 162: An Adoptee's Story - The Blessing; the Heartbreak
Summary: In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve into the world of adoption through the eyes of Mea Han Fajardo, an extraordinary international adoptee and the visionary behind FostAdopt Connections. Join us as we explore Mea's deeply personal journey and how she has transformed her experiences into a powerful platform, fostering meaningful opportunities and connections for children in foster care and group homes. Throughout the conversation, Mea opens up about the unique challenges and joys of being an adoptee, offering valuable insights that shed light on the intricacies of the adoption process. Her heartfelt reflections inspire empathy and understanding, as we gain a profound appreciation for the resilience and strength of those touched by adoption. Mea's passion for making a positive impact in the lives of vulnerable kids shines through, and we express our sincerest gratitude for her willingness to share her remarkable story with our listeners. So tune in and join us in this moving discussion as we celebrate the power of human connection and the transformative influence of compassion and love in the world of adoption. Resource Links: Link to book: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapter Markers: 00:01 - Open 00:04 - On Today's Episode 00:33 - Welcome Mea Han Fajardo 01:33 - Mea's Story - Adopted at 10 02:58 - The Life-Long Experience 03:48 - We don't talk About it 04:01 - Gratitude and Lonliness 05:34 - The Space to Grieve 07:01 - Grieving with Intent 08:02 - How to Grieve 09:41 - Being Allowed to Grieve 10:32 - Normalizing Grief 11:29 - Breaking Open 12:50 - Grieving with Others 14:31 - Unlocking Grief 17:09 - The Mystery of Being an Adoptee 18:17 - Sympathizing with Adoptees 20:45 - Sharing my Adoption Story 22:38 - Reflection for Compassion 23:59 - An Adult Relationship with Parents 25:13 - Searching for Relationship 26:50 - Don't Hold on so Tightly 27:01 - Being Prepared when your Kid Starts Searching 27:44 - We Accept Your Family 29:42 - Loving Myself 31:26 - The Takeaway 32:27 - On Behalf of Adoptive Parents 33:25 - Resources 35:04 - Closing
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Episode 161: Real Talk - Self Care with Matthew Blades
07/11/2023
Episode 161: Real Talk - Self Care with Matthew Blades
Summary: Matthew Blades is a familiar and friendly voice known to many in Arizona from the successful Matthew and Priscilla in the Morning show on Mix 96.9 FM. Matthew's own journey of battling physical and mental health challenges led him to step away from broadcasting and embark on a healing journey. Now, he sits in front of the podcast mic, hosting the insightful "Learn From Those Who Lived It" podcast, where he engages in conversations with individuals who have overcome unimaginable circumstances and found their path to healing. Matthew's commitment to spreading joy continues with his new podcast, "I Needed That," co-hosted with Fitness Expert Chris Powell. Drawing from his personal experiences, Matthew shares valuable lessons in his workshops and speaking engagements, touching the lives of others. Today, we dive into an important topic: self-care. This discussion resonates with everyone, particularly those involved in the foster care world. Get ready to join us as we explore the significance of self-care and welcome Matthew Blades to the podcast. Prepare to be inspired and uplifted! Resource Links: Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices Chapter Markers: 00:04 - On Today's Episode 00:34 - Welcome Matthew Blades! 02:25 - Matthew's Story 04:40 - Your Super Power 05:12 - 3 Ways to Screw up Your Kids 07:10 - I am a Human FIrst! 07:41 - Shame, Fear, and Guilt 11:06 - The Recordings in our Heads 12:33 - Moving Forward 13:49 - Spinning the Plates 15:52 - It's not Control; It's Fear 16:59 - Letting Go 18:44 - You're a Transitional Character 20:44 - Speaking it Out Loud 21:47 - Redefining Success 23:59 - Your Real Life - Personal Inventory 26:43 - The Value of Self 27:51 - Having a Self Care Strategy 30:03 - Kim's Weekend 31:31 - Being Selfish 33:36 - The Blame Game 35:00 - Giving Yourself Permission 38:02 - The Takeaway 40:04 - Resources - Closing Thoughts 43:16 - You are not Broken 44:05 - Wrap Up 45:00 - Thank You!
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Episode 160: Real Talk - Parents of Foster Care
06/27/2023
Episode 160: Real Talk - Parents of Foster Care
Summary: At just 25 years old, Lindsey found herself pregnant and the parent of two children in the custody of the Department of Child Safety. She endured a heartbreaking struggle with homelessness, residing in motels and even living on the streets, surrounded by others in similar desperate circumstances. Desperate for change, Lindsey discovered a lifeline—a housing program for pregnant women with substance use disorders. This pivotal moment led her to the Family Involvement Center, igniting her path to healing and the reunion of her fractured family. Now, Lindsey is an active force in her city, advocating for change through various organizations such as the Parent Advisory Board, the Prevention Advisory Collaborative, and the Family Navigation Action Team. Her passion for improving child welfare has brought her before community audiences, the governor's office, and dependency judges. Lindsey's dedication to serving her community is truly inspiring. Join us as we delve into Lindsey's extraordinary journey, her triumphs, and her unwavering commitment to making a positive impact and becoming a beacon of hope and change in foster care. Resource Links: Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices Chapters: 00:01 - Open 00:34 - Welcome Lindsey Shine 02:09 - Lindsey's Story 03:47 - Going to the Wrong Attorney 04:21 - Leaving with Nothing 06:21 - Getting Help 07:05 - 5 Months and 3 Years 08:00 - Keeping Hope Alive 09:11 - Homelessness 10:27 - A Fork in the Road 12:19 - One More Shot 14:06 - Severance Trial 15:51 - Transition from Visitation 16:54 - A Traumatic Space 17:54 - A Glorified Babysitter? 19:11 - Being Friends with the Fosters 19:53 - A Broken System Challenge 22:13 - Choosing a Solution 23:38 - Choosing Responsibility 25:07 - Advocating in a Meaningful Way 27:18 - Normalizing Relational Support 28:28 - Deficiencies are Opportunities 30:45 - The Takeaway 32:30 - Being the Change 32:54 - Resources 34:25 - Wrap Up 34:56 - Thank You!
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Episode 159: The Way Home - How Kids Return to Their Families with Judge Colleen McNally
06/13/2023
Episode 159: The Way Home - How Kids Return to Their Families with Judge Colleen McNally
Summary: In honor of national reunification month, in this episode we have a conversation with Judge Colleen McNally about what reunification means for kids and their families. Before retiring, Judge McNally served the people of Arizona for over 16 years in the Maricopa County Superior Court of Arizona. Since retiring, she has devoted her time and efforts to supporting families that have experienced the foster care system and continues to advocate for better systems in Arizona. Resource Links: Foster Arizona PO Box 20787 Mesa, AZ 85277 Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices Chapters: 0:00 - Open 0:33 - Intro 1:32 - Who is Judge McNally? 3:39 - We all have Trauma 5:36 - The Courtroom Experience 7:00 - How can the System be Supportive? 8:44 - It's the Simple Things 10:32 - A Drink of Water 10:50 - The Challenge of Severance 12:42 - The Reality of Reunification 14:04 - And Now What? 16:00 - What is your Wish for Change? 18:43 - Reunification Day 20:53 - Kid Initiatives 22:06 - How can the Community Support? 22:35 - ACE Questionnaires 23:55 - Love for a Child vs. Love for an Adult 25:55 - Fear 27:54 - Send an Encouraging Note 29:26 - Reflections on the First Reunification Day 30:59 - Ways for the Community to Connect 33:17 - The Takeaway 34:34 - Get Involved 35:23 - Resources 37:21 - Thank You
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Episode 158: Recovery - Why Does it Work?
05/23/2023
Episode 158: Recovery - Why Does it Work?
Summary: What comes to mind when you think about Recovery and Recovery spaces? Often the images that come to mind are uncomfortable and we think of these spaces as the last place we would ever want to be, but what if we told you that Recovery…Is For Everybody! Join us in a conversation as we talk to Jillian about her journey into recovery and why the room of recovery can be the most freeing, accepting. and healing space around. Resource Links: Chapter Markers: 00:01 - On Today's Episode 00:34 - Introduction 01:20 - Jillian's Story 05:19 - Enter Celebrate Recovery 05:47 - It Stuck 07:34 - A Journey of Recovery 11:22 - Being a Leader in Recovery 14:05 - What are the Misconceptions? 16:45 - Recovery is for Everyone 18:48 - More than Just a Meeting 19:16 - The First Steps 20:34 - The Fellowship of Recovery 23:08 - It's Also About Your Loved Ones 24:08 - The Hardest Part 25:20 - It's an Ongoing Process 25:54 - What's Brought you the Most Joy? 26:57 - Who is Welcome? 28:21 - The Takeaway 28:54 - Resources 30:13 - Call to Action 32:15 - Wrap Up 32:39 - Outro Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices
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Episode 157: Real Talk: Substances (Mark’s Story)
05/09/2023
Episode 157: Real Talk: Substances (Mark’s Story)
Summary: Today there are so many people, humans like you and me, struggling because of varying hurts, habits or hang-ups, and they may be at the end of their rope. Today we have a conversation with Mark as he shares his story on substances and addiction and how connection helped him get to his space of recovery. Trigger Warning: Today’s episode deals with topics including addiction and suicide ideation. We encourage you to be aware of yourself while listening to this episode and please take time to pause if needed and reach out for support if any of today’s topic affects you. Chapters: 0:00 - Start 0:48 - Introduction 1:03 - Today's Topic 1:07 - Introduce Today's Guest Mark Gill 1:42 - Set Up Today's Topic 1:58 - Mark's Testimony 5:53 - The Denial 6:37 - Peer Pressure 8:18 - The Next Level 8:38 - The Big Moment 10:56 - The Wake Up 11:50 - The Aftermath 12:31 - Becoming Something Else 14:15 - The Next Phase 15:31 - Coming Home 16:27 - One More Option 21:01 - Three Questions 24:08 - An Impactful Story 25:33 - What Breaks Your Heart? 28:45 - Understanding the Story 30:31 - Being a Better Community 33:49 - Advice for Parents 36:07 - It's Too Easy 37:22 - The Takeaway 41:32 - Closing 44:01 - Outro Links: Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices
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Episode 156: Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption
04/25/2023
Episode 156: Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption
Summary: What happens when you choose to put your comfort space aside and open up your heart and home to a child in foster care? Spoiler alert, it can be humbling, messy, and chaotic at times, but it can also be the most rewarding experience that will change your life and the life of another, forever. Join us as we have a conversation with Stacy Bradley on Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption. Stacy is an adoptive mom and former foster parent who has gone on the journey, advocated hard for her kiddos, and is a pretty cool person to boot! Chapters: 0:02 - Introduction 0:31 - Welcome 0:45 - Introduce Stacy Bradley 1:22 - Get to Know Stacy Bradley 3:08 - Learning Experiences 4:40 - Sharing the Journey 5:25 - Learning to Compromise 7:01 - Fear Associated with Stigmas 8:57 - Getting the Wrong Impression 11:28 - The Response to the Wrong Impression 13:09 - What are the Different Stigmas? 14:48 - There's Something Wrong with these Kids 16:59 - Birth Families are Scary 19:48 - These Kids are Lucky 20:38 - The Emotional Journey 22:37 - These Kids are Orphans 23:42 - It's a Learning Experience Every Day 24:35 - When the Answer is Found on Pinterest 25:30 - It's a True Partnership 26:42 - Getting Fired by a 5-year Old 28:56 - Stepping Through the Fear 31:52 - It's not About Being Brave 33:04 - Be Willing to do Something 36:27 - A Smile Goes a Long Way 36:59 - Episode Takeaway 37:35 - The Hope 38:08 - Resources 38:22 - Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey 38:39 - SAGE Journal 39:41 - Poverty by America by Matthew Dezmond 41:12 - Outro Links: What Happened to You : Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing Hardcover – April 27, 2021 by (Author), (Author) Keeping secrets: how children in foster care manage stigma Poverty, by America Hardcover – March 21, 2023 by (Author) Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices
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Episode 155: Real Talk, Connecting When Connection is Hard
04/11/2023
Episode 155: Real Talk, Connecting When Connection is Hard
Summary: Truth…Parenting is hard, but those little moments of sweetness can make the tough days bearable. But what happens when those moments feel few and far between? Often in our foster care and adoption journeys the struggle to connect with our children can be an all too frequent reality. Join us as we welcome Chris and Caitlin and have a real conversation about connecting when connection is hard. It’s a tough conversation to have, but one that many of us need to face. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 1:15 – A Beginning in the World of Foster Care 4:12 – The First Experience with a Placement 8:35 – The Beginning of the Real Journey 9:35 – The Mixed Emotions of Adoption Day 10:40 – An Amazing Creative Beginning 11:25 – Day One of 'Now I'm Mom' to this Amazing Person 17:17 – Managing School Life and Home Life 21:04 – Connecting With Teachers and Making Them Part of the Team 23:09 – Setting Expectation as a Parent 34:58 – Let's Have a Little Fun With This! 35:56 – Understanding in the Community 36:25 – Tactics That Work 41:18 – Continuing the Conversation with Resources 43:10 – Connect With Us! Links: The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family: What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing Connect With Us!
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Episode 154: A Look Into Aging Out of Foster Care
03/28/2023
Episode 154: A Look Into Aging Out of Foster Care
Summary: Life can be tough sometimes, but for a young adult aging out of foster care the transition can be life altering and either set them up for success or leave them without a connection or direction. Join us as we have a conversation with Zack, a young adult with lived experience, and how connection and having a community changed his trajectory in life. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 0:26 – Welcome, Zack! 1:10 – What Brought Zack To Foster Arizona 3:43 – Becoming An Adult In Foster Care 5:38 – Embracing A New Situation 9:52 – Having Pride And Satisfaction In Accomplishments 11:16 – Showing The Way To Those Struggling Through 18:18 – Excitement Moving Forward 29:55 – One Takeaway 27:06 – Connect With Us! Links: Connect With Us!
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Episode 153: Finding Connection, Finding Your People
03/14/2023
Episode 153: Finding Connection, Finding Your People
Summary: Community is what gets us through life. In today's conversation we talk with Anika Robinson about finding your people and the importance of community and connection in our everyday lives. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 0:26 – Welcome Anika! 1:44 – Advocacy for Children 3:10 – Establishing Connections 8:38 – ASA Now 14:04 – Finding Hope in Dark Times 20:39 – The Powerful Impacts of Community 27:50 – The Need For Community 29:55 – One Takeaway 33:27 – Community Connections 37:02 – Connect With Us! Links: Connect With Us!
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Episode 152: Interracial Adoption and Finding Your Identity
02/28/2023
Episode 152: Interracial Adoption and Finding Your Identity
Episode 152: Interracial Adoption and Finding Your Identity Summary: A personal look into an adoptees story involving interracial adoption and her journey to discover her personal identity along the way. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 0:52 – Welcome Ann! 1:32 – Ann's Work and Focus 12:00 – A Position of Learning 16:44 – Ann's Journey 24:33 – Wanting Kids to Experience More Individuals Like Themselves 32:00 – Accepting a Child With Hands Open 35:01 – One Takeaway 37:21 – Kids at Risk 38:18 – Links in the Show Notes 41:36 – Connect With Us! Links: Connect With Us!
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Episode 151: Meet the Vehons
02/14/2023
Episode 151: Meet the Vehons
Meet your new hosts, Kim and Brian Vehon and learn a little bit about the heart behind their why and their vision for the Fostering Voices podcast. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 0:25 – Welcome Back In!! 1:43 – Creation of Foster Arizona and Community 21:34 – Our Mission at Foster AZ 27:19 – Thank you!!! Links:
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Episode 150: Goodbye from Chris and Jihae
01/04/2023
Episode 150: Goodbye from Chris and Jihae
Friends, as we FINALLY wrap up season 8, we are also wrapping up our time as your hosts of the Fostering Voices Podcast. We have loved the 5 years that we were the hosts, but we are so excited for your new hosts to take over, Brian and Kim Vehon of Foster Arizona! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 13:54 – Good Word of the Day!!! Good Word of the Day!!! Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 NIV 1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: 2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, Connect with us! You can also email us! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 149: Interview with an Incredible Single Foster Mama
08/21/2022
Episode 149: Interview with an Incredible Single Foster Mama
This episode features an interview with an AMAZING foster mama who happens to be single. Lina Bublys thought life would look differently than it does now, but she is still so grateful and so active in blessing those around her, especially her foster babes. We salute all you foster parents out there, but you single foster parents take the cake! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 8:46 – What's Been Helping Chris This Week? 14:15 – How Lina Came To The Fostering World 18:18 – Examples of Challenges of Fostering Children 24:51 – Examples of Beauty in Fostering 26:09 – Advice for Anyone Thinking About or In Foster Care 32:26 – Good Word of the Day!!! 33:17 – What Has Lina Been Doing For Her Health? Links: Good Word of the Day!!! to invent again or anew, especially without knowing that the invention already exists. to remake or make over, as in a different form Connect with us! You can also email us! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 148: Positive Imprints and Taking a Chance on Foster Kids
08/14/2022
Episode 148: Positive Imprints and Taking a Chance on Foster Kids
We are so often triggered by negative things that happen, but what about the positive things? This episode features a story of our son and the time we picked up a homeless lady on our way to McDonald's, and how that left a serious impression on his soul. Our call to action - take a chance. Say kind things, do kind things for others. And also, don't discount foster kids as broken and bad. They are not castaways of people who don't want them. They are humans who are able to accomplish great things and to be great. We just need to take a chance on them. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:13 – Being Open and Honest About Adoption 9:01 – A Story About Birthdays and Imprints 22:303 – Good Word of the Day!!! Links: by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. Good Word of the Day!!! 19 See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. Connect with us! You can also email us! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 147: Interviewing your host, Jihae Watson
07/31/2022
Episode 147: Interviewing your host, Jihae Watson
This episode features an episode with host, Jihae! Join us as Chris grills Jihae on life's highs and lows. And you will even hear what Jihae's favorite physical attribute is of Chris'. It's very appropriate and clean. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:30 – Jihae Describes Growing Up in Her Parent's House 6:44 – What Has Been Your Biggest Challenge In Life? 9:19 – What Helped You Overcome That? 11:12 – What Time Did You Feel Most Fulfilled? 13:36 – What Advice Would You Give To Teenage Jihae? 19:58 – Good Word of the Day!!! Links: Good Word of the Day!!! 9 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Connect with us! You can also email us! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 146: Interviewing your host, Chris Watson
07/11/2022
Episode 146: Interviewing your host, Chris Watson
This episode is a quick interview with your host, Chris Watson! Get to know Chris and what drives him to be a WINNER at all times. We hope you enjoy getting to know Chris a little better! Next week will be Chris interviewing Jihae. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 3:01 – Thank you, SHOWIT!! 4:27 – Story From This Week 5:12 – Showit EDM and Plank Challenge 10:07 – What Makes Chris a Winner? 12:00 – What is a Hard Thing That You Overcame During Childhood? 15:22 – What's One Thing People Do Not Know About Chris? 17:44 – Good Word of the Day!!! Links: Good Word of the Day!!! Romans 12:2 NIV 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will. Connect with us! You can also email us! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 145: Strokes, Bio Families, and Other Highs and Lows as a Family of 9
06/19/2022
Episode 145: Strokes, Bio Families, and Other Highs and Lows as a Family of 9
In this episode we share some highs and lows of the last month. Highs include seeing our big kids become amazing big kids. Not without faults and failures, but as young people who are trying to figure out what it looks like to be a loyal, kind person who has integrity. Church camps and cousins are also very high on the list. And in the lows category, Chris' dad had a stroke, Chris and Jihae have been feeling disconnected, and a meet up with a bio family got cancelled at the last minute and basically the wheels fell off for a minute. But we are all trying to weather these storms together, with grace, open communication, and community. So we encourage you to do the same! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:14 – Thank you, SHOWIT!! 2:19 – Chris's Highs of the Week 9:20 – Jihae's Highs of the Week 11:52 – Chris's Lows of the Week 21:36 – Jihae's Lows of the Week 27:36 – Good Word of the Day!!! Good Word of the Day!!! James 1:2-4 NIV 2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. 4 Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. Connect with us! You can also email us! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 144: Football, Faith, and Purpose
06/05/2022
Episode 144: Football, Faith, and Purpose
This episode features an incredible interview with Ben Malcolmson, author of Walk On: From Pee Wee Dropout to NFL Sidelines: My Unlikely Story of Football, Purpose, and Following an Amazing God. Ben has seen some major lows in his life, starting with having an alcoholic mom, and being thrust into college life a year early. But God was with him every step of the way, and brought him through so many dark days, to so many glorious days. You will learn so much from this former USC football player, and Pete Carrol's right hand man of 10 plus years on the Seattle Seahawks. If you have ever questioned your purpose in life, you will want to listen to this episode! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:13 – Welcome Ben! 2:45 – Ben's Journey 7:22 – Talking About Faith 12:10 – The Intersection of Journalism and Football 28:53 – The Bible Story – From the Book 44:39 – Good Word of the Day!!! Links: Good Word of the Day!!! Habakkuk 1:5 NIV The Lord’s Answer 5 “Look at the nations and watch— and be utterly amazed. For I am going to do something in your days that you would not believe, even if you were told. Connect with us! You can also email us! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 143: Talk to Your Kids
05/29/2022
Episode 143: Talk to Your Kids
This week we have a less than 5 minute episode! In light of the horrifying events of this last week, we just want to encourage you to talk to your kids about it. Cause they have heard about it. But they should hear about it from you and be able to talk about it with you. Cry together, pray together, and be prepared together. We don’t need to live lives of fear as parents, so let’s definitely make sure we are helping our kids to do the same. Chapters: 0:00 - Talk to Your Kids 2:06 – Good Word of the Day!!! Good Word of the Day!!! Proverbs 1:33 NIV 33 but whoever listens to me will live in safety and be at ease, without fear of harm.” Connect with us! You can also email us! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 142: Why You Shouldn't Follow TikTok Trends
05/22/2022
Episode 142: Why You Shouldn't Follow TikTok Trends
This episode is for parents of teens and teens! We would LOVE for teenagers to listen to this episode, but it wasn't until midway through the recording that Jihae realized she was using her condescending 'mom voice', for which she is VERY SORRY. She tries to reserve that for exclusive use to the Watson children, so we are sorry you have to hear it during this episode. But, it's a serious one, and we have seen Tik Tok trends go the complete wrong way, and we want you to make better choices for yourself and those around you! We hope you learn something new and useful from this episode! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 3:02 - The Power of the Phone/Don't Follow the Trends 21:22 – Good Word of the Day!!! 24:44 – Reading Reviews Time! Links: "Complacency Kills" Proverbs 1:32 32 For the waywardness of the simple will kill them, and the complacency of fools will destroy them; Good Word of the Day!!! Proverbs 15:31-33 31 Whoever heeds life-giving correction will be at home among the wise. 32 Those who disregard discipline despise themselves, but the one who heeds correction gains understanding. 33 Wisdom’s instruction is to fear the Lord, and humility comes before honor. Connect with us! You can also email us! [email protected] We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 141: Finding Health in Habits and Relationships with Bekah Tinter
05/15/2022
Episode 141: Finding Health in Habits and Relationships with Bekah Tinter
This episode features and interview with Health and Lifestyle Coach, Bekah Tinter. She shares some truly simple tips and habits you can implement to enjoy a healthier, and more enjoyable lifestyle. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 3:56 - Honest Stories in Adoption 10:27 – Health Tips from Bekah 20:32 – Good Word of the Day!!! Links: Good Word of the Day!!! Release – releasing what we can't control and allow God to be God in our lives. Isaiah 40:29-30 New International Version 29 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. 30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; Connect with us! You can also email us! [email protected] We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 140: More Harmony in your Life: Interview with Author Grant Botma
05/01/2022
Episode 140: More Harmony in your Life: Interview with Author Grant Botma
Grant Botma, author, business owner, and super family man! He gives us some great tips on having more harmony in our lives. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 1:19 – Welcome, Grant! 5:56 – Talking About a Unicorn 7:25 – Work-Life Harmony 13:09 – Tips on Harmonizing Your Life 25:55 – One More Thing to Do to Work Towards Harmony 31:40 – Good Word Of The Day!!! 32:48 – Focusing on Health Links: Good Word of the Day!!! Mark 10:45 NIV 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” Connect with us! You can also email us! [email protected] AND please leave us a review on iTunes! This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 139: Communicating AND Connecting, With Your Kids and Others
04/24/2022
Episode 139: Communicating AND Connecting, With Your Kids and Others
In this episode we talk about ‘Everyone Communicates, Few Connect’, a great book by John C. Maxwell. And we just want to encourage everyone (including ourselves) to always strive to connect with your loved ones, and those around you! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 3:41 - "Everyone Communicates, Few Connect" 18:57 – Good Word Of The Day!!! 20:02 – Thank you to our sponsor, Showit!! Links: – John C. Maxwell Good Word of the Day!!! "When you make a commitment you create hope and when you keep a commitment you create trust." – John C. Maxwell Connect with us! You can also email us! [email protected] AND please leave us a review on iTunes! This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 138: Improve Your Spiritual Health
04/10/2022
Episode 138: Improve Your Spiritual Health
This week’s episode is with the incredible Bethany Lauren. She loves the Bible and she wants you to learn how to read it, understand it, and love it as well. We hope this interview will encourage you to be more spiritually healthy! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 6:03 - Welcome, Bethany!! 7:55 – A Little About Bethany 12:16 – Bethany's Foster Care Journey 16:08 – Some Tips for Approaching Studying the Bible 23:26 – Taking the Next Steps of Study 29:02 – "The Heart Has to Come With You" 31:40 – Good Word Of The Day!!! 32:48 – Focusing on Health Links: Good Word of the Day!!! Colossians 4:5-6 New International Version 5 Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. 6 Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Connect with us! You can also email us! [email protected] AND please leave us a review on iTunes! This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 137: For The Control Freaks
04/03/2022
Episode 137: For The Control Freaks
This episode talks about a bit of a funk that Chris had been in recently, and he realized it was stemming from his need to control things, which also caused him to feel less empathetic towards others. Might you be in the same boat? Check out this episode! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 2:14 - What We Are Reading 3:20 – That Thing Where You DM Us 9:12 – Being in a Bit of a Funk 22:00 – Getting Out of the Funk 24:00 – Good Word Of The Day!!! Books: Good Word of the Day!!! Hebrews 4:16 NIV 16 Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need. Connect with us! You can also email us! [email protected] AND please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts! This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people!
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Episode 136: How to Survive Your Winter Season
03/14/2022
Episode 136: How to Survive Your Winter Season
This episode features my sweet friend, Jodie Botma, who on the outside may look like she has a pretty darn good life! And she does! But she has also just come out of such a dark and hard season, and she shares with us how she survived the longest and darkest year of her life. And she has gone through many hard things in her life already, so that is actually saying a lot! Even though we may not have the tools to help you get out of your winter season, we believe this episode can help you through it! Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 7:05 - Different Seasons of Life 11:31 – Winter as a Season of Life 21:28 – Word of Advice 26:33 – Jodie's Turning Point 33:16 – A Word of Encouragement 34:17 - Good Word Of The Day!!! Links: Oil Pulling Description at : Megan Fate Marshman Sermon and Jesus as our Wonderful Counselor. – Grant Botma – Grant Botma: 2 Timothy 4:17: 17 But the Lord stood at my side and gave me strength, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. And I was delivered from the lion’s mouth. Good Word of the Day: Psalms 40:1-3 For the director of music. Of David. A psalm. 1 I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. 2 He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. 3 He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear the Lord and put their trust in him. Jodie on Connect with us! Fostering Voices on You can also ! We would LOVE it if you would AND please leave us a review on iTunes! This helps others to find our podcast so we can share these voices from the foster care and adoption community with more people! If you want to see how to leave a review, check out !
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