Fostering Voices Podcast
A Foster Arizona podcast featuring Authentic Conversations with Real People talking all things Foster Care and beyond. Hosted by Kim and Brian Vehon.
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Episode 181: It's OK to Say, "I'm Not OK."
04/23/2024
Episode 181: It's OK to Say, "I'm Not OK."
Summary: Today, it’s just the two of us, engaging in a candid conversation about mental health. Ironically, we find ourselves easing into a month dedicated to both mental health and foster care awareness. For those who have experienced life within the foster care system, the intricate connection between these two realms becomes evident. So, let’s dive into the spaces where our mental well-being has been profoundly affected and the valuable lessons we’ve gleaned along the way. With that, let’s begin this authentic conversation. 🌟 Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 180: How Caregiver Stress Impacts Our Bodies
04/09/2024
Episode 180: How Caregiver Stress Impacts Our Bodies
Summary: In honor of Stress Awareness Month, our podcast delves into the crucial topic of stress reduction and self-care. While this is important for everyone, it holds even greater significance for caregivers of children with special needs and those working in social services fields. The toll of constant stress can adversely affect our health, leading to feelings of depression, anxiety, inadequate sleep, lack of physical activity, and imbalanced diets. These factors increase the risk of serious health conditions like heart disease and diabetes. But how do we address this challenge? Today, we’re thrilled to welcome back Dr. Jaime Parker, a seasoned expert with over 25 years of experience in health and wellness. Dr. Jaime wears multiple hats as a holistic health coach, fitness instructor, certified personal trainer, nutrition educator, and certified Pilates instructor. She has personally triumphed over numerous health obstacles. Recently, I sought Dr. Jaime’s guidance in my own healing journey. The years of accumulated stress have taken their toll on both Brian and me. Dr. Jaime’s genuine empathy and understanding resonate deeply as she navigates the delicate balance between caring for others and prioritizing self-care. Her remarkable ability to meet people where they are, infused with love and encouragement, is something we’re excited to share with you today. Tune in as we explore simple yet impactful changes that can lead to stress relief and better health. 🎙️🌟 Resource Links: (Dr. Jaime Parker) Products: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 179: What is Critical Memory Integration and How Can it Help?
03/26/2024
Episode 179: What is Critical Memory Integration and How Can it Help?
Summary: Today, we’re delving into an exciting new therapy modality called Critical Memory Integration. This groundbreaking approach focuses on healing trauma by exploring unresolved critical memories and integrating them with neutral memories, fostering resilience in individuals. At the forefront of this creation, our incredible team of panelists joins us today. You might recognize one of our team members—Estefana Johnson—who shared her insights in our Valentine’s episode. Estefana is a cherished friend of Foster Arizona. Alongside Estefana, we have two remarkable psychologists: Dr. Brian Livesay and Dr. Diego Hernandez. Both experts bring extensive backgrounds in trauma care and post-traumatic stress disorder. Over the past two years, I’ve eagerly followed the progress of this project, and it’s truly remarkable to witness its practical implementation locally and globally. Resource Links: Lt. Col Mann TEDx on Generosity of Scars Elizabeth Feldmann Barrett How Emotions are made Luiz Pessoa: “The Entangled Brain: Integration of emotion, motivation, and cognition” Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:00 - Opening 00:33 - Intro 02:03 - Dr. Brian Livesay 03:40 - Connection is Fundamental 04:35 - Dr. Diego Hernandez 05:23 - Did I Make a Difference? 06:38 - We Did Everything Together 08:07 - Estefana Johnson 09:57 - You were Made to Fly! 10:46 - It Starts with the Therapist 13:20 - Clinicians are more than Technicians 15:42 - Survival is not Enough 16:34 - Critical Memory Integration 18:24 - The Deepest Conversations 19:00 - We are Designed for Play 19:47 - Getting Through the Bad Feelings 21:54 - Recognizing the Signals 22:59 - Tactical Disclosure 25:02 - Power in Relatability 28:55 - Where does CMI Fit? 32:20 - Integrating CMI 35:08 - Critical Memories 36:14 - The Stories Movies Tell 37:15 - Full Access to your Emotions 40:21 - Teaching Kids to Experience Emotions 43:33 - Stories are Wisdom 44:18 - How to get this new Therapy 47:10 - New Understanding 48:03 - A Hub for Training 50:18 - Resources 51:15 - Final Thoughts 55:10 - Conclusion 55:40 - Thank You!
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Episode 178: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 2
03/12/2024
Episode 178: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 2
Summary: Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast! In today’s episode, we’re picking up where we left off last week. Our microphones are live on location at Foster Cooperative’s first training day of 2024, where we’re soaking up knowledge and growing together. 🌱 Last time, you had the pleasure of meeting some of our incredible presenters. This week, get ready to hear from three more remarkable human beings. They’ll share their stories, insights, and passion for fostering. 🎙️ So, without further ado, let’s dive into this enriching conversation! Buckle up, because here we go! 🚀 Resource Links: (Frances Holguin) (Nichol Khan) (Dr. Jaime Parker) Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 177: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 1
02/27/2024
Episode 177: Learning and Growing Together - On Location at Foster Cooperative Training Day: Part 1
Summary: Today is all about something extra special! We've packed our gear and hit the road to bring you an exclusive behind-the-scenes experience. Right now, we're on location at Foster Cooperative's training day, immersing ourselves in a day of learning and growth. Foster Arizona, a beacon of support and empowerment, hosts these training events twice a year. And let me tell you, each time is a unique journey filled with eye-opening insights. Today, we're not keeping those gems to ourselves – we're bringing you along for the ride! Join us as we dive into various topics and explore valuable resources that shape the fostering landscape. Whether you're a seasoned advocate or just starting your journey, there's something for everyone. So, buckle up and get ready to embark on this enlightening adventure with us. Are you ready? Let's go! Resource Links: (Mathew Blades) (Mathew Blades) (Wade Cordell) (Carol Melim) (Jillian Ashby) Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 176: All You Need is Love (Not!)
02/13/2024
Episode 176: All You Need is Love (Not!)
Summary: It’s officially Hallmark’s week of love! 🌟 When it comes to parenting kids with trauma, we often hear the words, “All You Need is Love.” But is that really true? This week, we dive deep into this question. We’re thrilled to have Estefana Johnson joining us in the conversation. Estefana, a clinical social worker, began her career working with youth in residential treatment facilities. She’s a mover and a shaker, bringing innovative approaches to trauma therapies. Plus, she’s a favorite trainer at our semi-annual Foster Cooperative training events. And let’s not forget, she’s one of the most loving people we know. Tune in for insightful discussions and heartfelt stories! ❤️🎙️ Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:12 - Opening 00:35 - Welcome! 01:41 - Estefana's Journey 03:39 - Radical Acceptance 04:46 - Moving Beyond Fear 06:31 - Being Curious 06:59 - Therapy 08:07 - The Hero Complex 09:58 - What is Love? 11:00 - If you Loved them Better... 13:10 - "We're on Your Team" 14:35 - Rose-Colored Glasses 17:40 - Your Purpose is Greater 19:01 - The Heart Connection 21:17 - Handling Trauma 24:07 - Drip Drip Drip 26:00 - Self-Judgment 28:09 - It is not a Fault 30:17 - Deep Connections 32:01 - Choosing to Show Love 36:34 - Gratitude 36:55 - The Takeaway 37:58 - Resources 39:09 - Connect with Us! 39:33 - Thank You!
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Episode 175: I Want to Foster! Now What?
01/30/2024
Episode 175: I Want to Foster! Now What?
Summary: Discover the profound journey of becoming a foster parent in a nation grappling with a staggering shortage. In this episode, we explore the critical issue of the national decline in foster parent numbers, intensified by a 60% drop since the onset of the pandemic. Arizona, mirroring this trend, has witnessed a drastic decrease from 5,559 licensed foster homes in 2019 to a mere 2,798 as of November 2023 – marking a nearly 50% loss. Against this backdrop, our guests, Elisia and Jade from Step Stone Youth Agency, shed light on the challenges and rewards of foster parenting. At a time when Arizona is fervently working to address the shortage through extensive recruitment initiatives, this podcast provides a timely and insightful conversation. If you've ever wondered about the complexities, triumphs, and heartaches involved in fostering, join us as we explore the untold stories and experiences that shape the journey of these unsung heroes. The need for foster parents has never been more urgent, and this episode aims to inspire and inform, encouraging listeners to consider making a difference in the lives of vulnerable children. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 174: Moms Get Real
01/23/2024
Episode 174: Moms Get Real
Summary: Welcome to the Fostering Voices podcast with your host Kim! Join us as we shake things up in this episode by delving into some authentic mom talk. We've given Brian the boot for now to bring you a heartfelt discussion on the joys and challenges of parenting within the realms of foster care and adoption. As a mom personally touched by these experiences, connecting with others who share similar journeys has been both empowering and deeply meaningful. In today's episode, we're joined by the wonderful Elisia and Ally, fellow moms navigating the unique landscape of foster care and adoption. Tune in for an honest and relatable conversation that sheds light on the beauty and complexities of building families through love and compassion. Resource Links: Connect With Us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:34 - Welcome! 01:13 - Elisia's Story 04:32 - Ally's Story 09:37 - What have you Learned 13:24 - Filling in the Gaps 15:28 - Momma Joy Moments 21:43 - Challenging Spaces 30:05 - Tag You're In! 32:47 - Tag You're Out! 34:11 - Keeping Your Sanity 39:47 - Filling Your Own Cup 41:26 - Saying No in Love 42:36 - Resources 45:11 - Connect with Us! 45:50 - ThankYou!
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Episode 173: Kids’ Perspective on Foster Care and Adoption
01/09/2024
Episode 173: Kids’ Perspective on Foster Care and Adoption
Summary: Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast! Happy 2024, everyone! We're thrilled to kick off another year of heartfelt conversations and insightful stories. In today's episode, we have a special discussion with our 'bigs'—Maisey, Liesey, and Sam—sharing their unique perspectives on foster care and adoption. Join us as we delve into their experiences, gaining valuable insights into the world of fostering and adoption through their eyes. Thanks for tuning in, and let's embark on this journey of understanding and empathy together! Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 172: Foster Care Land Between: Planning Your Future in the Unknown
12/26/2023
Episode 172: Foster Care Land Between: Planning Your Future in the Unknown
Summary: As we wrap up 2024, we're diving into the complexities of foster care planning. Unlike the conventional New Year's resolutions, the foster care journey is a unique landscape filled with uncertainties. In today's raw and unfiltered discussion, it's just the two of us sharing our personal experiences without any guests. We want to pull back the curtain on the challenges and emotions that come with navigating the foster care land between. As we all contemplate what the coming year holds, those entrenched in foster care face a different set of considerations. Planning takes on a whole new meaning. Join us as we explore the intricacies of making decisions in the midst of uncertainty, reflecting on the hurdles, and finding the courage to move forward. Whether you're part of the foster care community or simply curious about the realities, this episode aims to resonate with you on a profound level. Tune in for an honest conversation about the uncharted territories of fostering, hoping it sparks a connection and provides insights into the often overlooked aspects of this journey. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:09 - On Today's Episode 00:55 - Welcome! 01:32 - In the Thick of the Crazy 03:22 - What is the Land Between? 06:20 - Handling the Phases 08:10 - Managing Emotions 12:13 - Emotional Roller Coaster 15:05 - Being Fully Invested 17:09 - It Affects More than Just Us 20:48 - Bringing in the Family 22:17 - Pre Foster Training 23:04 - Us vs. Them 25:56 - It's not About the Socks 29:53 - Controlling what you Can 34:02 - Connect with Community 36:04 - Create a Memory 39:21 - Don't be Afraid to Connect 41:36 - Resources 42:11 - Connect with Us! 43:16 - Thank You!
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Episode 171: Laughing all the Way: Vehon Christmas Traditions
12/12/2023
Episode 171: Laughing all the Way: Vehon Christmas Traditions
Summary: Welcome to a festive episode of our podcast, where we dive into the heartwarming world of holiday traditions and intentional joy. As we usher in the holiday season, we're joined by some special guests – the Vehon kids! In this intimate conversation, we explore how our family of 9 embraces the spirit of togetherness and crafts unique traditions that redefine the meaning of festive celebrations. Discover the magic of intentional joy and connection as we unpack the Vehon family's approach to the holidays. From crazy traditions that spark laughter to thoughtful rituals that deepen family bonds, this episode offers a glimpse into the joyous tapestry we’ve woven. If you've ever been curious about what holiday festivities can look like in a bustling household, this is the perfect episode for you. Join us in celebrating the season with the Vehon kids’ first-ever podcast recording. Whether you're seeking inspiration for your own festivities or just love a good holiday story, this episode is sure to fill your heart with warmth and festive cheer. Thanks for joining us as we unwrap the magic of intentional joy in this joyous holiday season! Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 170: A Look Into Tribal Foster Care
12/05/2023
Episode 170: A Look Into Tribal Foster Care
Summary: In this episode we peel back the curtain and take a look into tribal foster care. Joining us are Brad and Karin Dahlman, a remarkable couple who have dedicated themselves to fostering children for many years. Through tribal foster care, they've opened their hearts and homes to dozens of kids, making an immeasurable impact on our community. Karin sits on the board of Foster Arizona, and Brad is one of those people we can call to rally troops or step into a problem. We absolutely love them and are really grateful we all get to learn from them today. Tune in as we dive deep into their incredible journey as foster parents and explore the vital role of tribal foster care in the lives of children. Join us for an inspiring and informative conversation that sheds light on the challenges and rewards of this vital work. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:09 - On Today's Episod 00:43 - Welcome 01:17 - Brad and Karin Dahlman 01:38 - Life Before Foster Care 02:27 - Deciding to Foster 04:01 - Answering the Call 04:21 - Adjusting to the Decision 06:17 - Tribal or Not? 08:27 - Overcoming Tribal Challenges 13:37 - Kill 'em with Kindness 15:07 - It's all About Relationships 16:45 - Let them Lead Us 18:29 - The Baby Book 19:59 - From Baby Book to Dad 20:16 - Packing the Children Up 22:28 - Losing a Child 24:17 - Can't do it for Yourself 24:55 - Stronger for It 25:55 - Never too Old 26:56 - Unexpected Blessings 28:11 - Being on the Same Page 30:15 - Changing Visions 31:57 - Misconceptions 32:58 - Starting Late 34:23 - 7 kids; 6 and Under 35:09 - You Can! 35:47 - The Takeaway 37:21 - Resources 38:52 - Connect with Us! 39:16 - Thank You!
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Episode 169: Talking Adoption with an Adoption Attorney
11/14/2023
Episode 169: Talking Adoption with an Adoption Attorney
Summary: Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast with Kim and Brian! In celebration of Adoption Awareness Month this November, join us for a special episode dedicated to all things adoption. Our guest, Ed Johnson, a revered local attorney deeply embedded in foster and adoption circles, brings a wealth of experience to the discussion. In this insightful episode, Ed shares his years of knowledge, shedding light on crucial aspects of the adoption journey. If you're on the path to adoption in Arizona, don't miss the opportunity to connect with Ed—his contact information will be in the resource notes. As advocates for informed parenting, we emphasize the importance of understanding the unique spaces of loss associated with adoption. Education is key, and the more you empower yourself with knowledge, the better equipped you'll be to support your children, present or future. We hope today's conversation sparks valuable insights and encourages ongoing discussions about adoption. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of this meaningful journey. Resource Links: Ed Johnson - , 480-209-2847 Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:03 - Intro 00:53 - Welcome! 01:42 - Ed's Story and Work 02:25 - Having a Voice in the Court System 03:53 - Ed's Experience with Adoption 05:39 - Kids Need to be Remembered 06:09 - Appreciating RAD 07:54 - The Joy and Reality of Adoption 10:12 - FIrst Hand Experience with Trauma 12:18 - Relating to One Another 12:46 - Support Leads to Successful Adoptions 15:56 - Resilience Leads to Successful Adoptions 17:51 - Those who Stick Around 18:54 - It's a Family Affair 19:25 - Who's Your Favorite Child? 20:24 - Other People's Perceptions 23:08 - To Foster or To Adopt? 27:03 - Talking about Severence 28:24 - Talking about Cost 30:24 - Subsidies for Fostering 35:23 - The Practical Support of Subsidy 36:56 - The Courtroom Process 40:03 - After the Courtroom is Over 42:08 - The 30-dollar Staple 44:29 - Freedom After Adoption 46:39 - Extended Family 47:35 - The Takeaway 48:59 - Resources 51:01 - Connect with Us! 51:24 - Thank you!
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Episode 168: Mental Health: Where do I go from Here?
10/25/2023
Episode 168: Mental Health: Where do I go from Here?
Summary: In this episode, we dive deep into the crucial topic of mental health and finding a path forward when you're grappling with the question, "Where do I go from here?" Today, we are thrilled to have Carol Melim join our conversation. Carol is not only a Licensed Clinical Social Worker but also a specialist in trauma therapy, certified in EMDR and EMDRIA, with a unique perspective. She brings a wealth of book knowledge and invaluable lived experience to the table, making her exceptionally attuned to the distinctive challenges faced by foster and adopted children, as well as their families. Throughout this episode, we'll explore the intersection of mental health and family dynamics, drawing on Carol's expertise and personal insights. Whether you're a parent seeking guidance, someone interested in mental health, or simply curious about the experiences of foster and adopted children, this conversation will provide valuable insights and practical advice. Join us as we navigate this important conversation, offering hope and understanding for those asking themselves, "Where do I go from here?" Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters 00:22 - On Today's Episode 00:35 - Welcome Carol Melim 01:33 - Carol's Story 04:04 - RTC's, CFT's, Life Skills 04:55 - Making a Change to Help 05:48 - Respite 06:55 - Becoming a Therapist 07:57 - Unique Challenges 09:18 - Lacking Behavioral Support 11:47 - Having a Safe Space 12:53 - Navigating Therapy 15:18 - Maneuvering Within Therapy 16:57 - Knowing When Therapy is Needed 18:09 - Recognizing False Motivation 20:51 - Follow the Mama Duck 21:31 - The 'Why' Journal 23:02 - Changing Behavior 25:22 - You Don't Get Pie 27:41 - Fun in Parenting 28:58 - Identifying Urgent Scenarios 30:51 - Behavior Coaches 32:32 - When it's not just Trauma 33:55 - Beyond Therapy 35:14 - Leaving too Soon 36:38 - The Takeaway 37:20 - Resources 38:25 - Connect with Us! 38:46 - Thank You!
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Episode 167: Trauma’s Impact on Marriage
10/10/2023
Episode 167: Trauma’s Impact on Marriage
Summary: Today, on our 20th wedding anniversary, we embark on a meaningful journey, delving deep into the intricate layers of marriages affected by trauma. Join us as we explore the profound impact that caring for children with special needs has on marital relationships, acknowledging the challenges without getting lost in statistics. We are honored to be joined by Perry Emerick, an ordained minister and EMDR trained counselor and supervisor. With 26 years of marriage and three children under his belt, Perry brings a wealth of personal and professional experience to our discussion. Together, we unpack the complexities of trauma, relationships, and family dynamics, focusing on the ways past traumas can influence our present connections. In this episode, Perry shares invaluable insights on how to strengthen marriages and families, especially when past traumas cast their shadows. His expertise and compassionate approach offer guidance on shoring up relationships, emphasizing the resilience and transformative power of love and understanding. Tune in as we navigate the profound impact of trauma on marriages, discovering the resilience that lies within the bonds of love and commitment. Thank you for joining us on this heartfelt exploration. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 166: Journey to Becoming a Foster Parent
09/26/2023
Episode 166: Journey to Becoming a Foster Parent
Summary: In this episode we delve into the transformative journey of becoming a foster parent. Join us as we sit down with Katie O’Dell, the passionate Executive Director of AZ127, a steadfast advocate for fostering life within a supportive community. AZ127 firmly believes that children require families, and families thrive with a strong support network. Together, we explore the profound steps, challenges, and rewards on the path to becoming a foster parent. Katie shares her invaluable insights, highlighting the vital role that community plays in this process. Tune in as we embark on this inspiring journey, discovering the power of love, compassion, and unity in building a brighter future for children in need. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:08 - On Today's Episode 00:35 - Welcome Katie O'Dell! 01:03 - Katie's Story 04:12 - Invisibility in Our Own Community 05:58 - What Happens to the Invisible? 07:23 - Advocating for the Invisible 09:15 - The Stereotype of The Invisible 10:03 - Mobilizing Faith Communities 11:27 - Families Need Communities 13:51 - Fostering is Hard 14:59 - Wrap Around Care Community 17:10 - Lonliness in America 18:05 - Offering Care 19:08 - We are "Judgy" People 21:28 - We can Change our Communities 22:44 - Walking the Talk 26:55 - Foster Parents are Real People 28:00 - Take the Next Step 30:03 - Anyone can Step Up 31:14 - It will Change Your Life! 31:58 - Every Little Thing Counts! 33:31 - The Takeaway 33:48 - Step Into Caring for the Vulnerable 34:31 - Resources 35:19 - Start Asking Questions 36:02 - Join the Conversation! 36:30 - Thank You!
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Episode 165: Celebrating 10 Years of Impact
09/12/2023
Episode 165: Celebrating 10 Years of Impact
Summary: Today is all about celebration as Foster Arizona turns 10 years old. Join us as we take a delightful trip down memory lane, reflecting on the invaluable lessons and heartwarming joys we've encountered throughout this incredible journey. In this special episode, we're honored to have Al Moore, one of our founding board members and the current board chair, as well as Ashley Shick, one of our earliest lead team volunteers and a dedicated board member. Their stories and insights will inspire you as we share our love and gratitude for these incredible individuals. Get ready for a heartfelt and enlightening conversation as we celebrate a decade of fostering hope and change. Stay tuned! Resource Links: Please submit your story (and photos if you’d like) to: Register for the celebration event!: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:10 - On Today's Episode 00:36 - Welcome Ashley and Al 00:59 - How did you get Involved? 04:01 - Ashley Getting the Call 04:30 - And then there's Al! 06:00 - Foster Care Becomes Personal 07:36 - The Kids Change Your Life 08:28 - What Keeps You Coming Back? 11:33 - It Takes a Village 12:03 - The System's Numbers are Skewed 13:38 - What Brings them Back? 15:04 - It's not all Sunshine and Roses 18:53 - Pivot, Flex, Adapt, Grow 20:10 - The Human Challenge 25:20 - Meeting People Where They Are 26:51 - Mountain Top Moments 31:02 - Reminiscing on the Beginning 33:35 - Celebrating Today and the Future 34:59 - The Magic Sauce 37:11 - There's a Surprise Drawing! 39:04 - The Takeaway 41:18 - Big Birthday Bash Event Coming Up! 41:56 - Submit Your Story Please! 42:31 - Connect with Us! 43:08 - Thank You!
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Episode 164: All Things School - When you Need an Advocate
08/22/2023
Episode 164: All Things School - When you Need an Advocate
Summary: As we continue exploring the return to school season, today's discussion delves into a crucial topic. Join us as we sit down with Amanda Glass, an esteemed legal professional with a passion for advocating for children's rights. Amanda's journey, post-graduation from the Sandra Day O'Connor College of Law at Arizona State University, led her to a groundbreaking Equal Justice Works fellowship at the Arizona Center for Disability Law, supported by Greenberg Traurig, LLP. Her impactful project focuses on enhancing accessibility to special education and mental health services for children with invisible disabilities within Arizona's child welfare system. Through legal expertise, community education, and collaborative efforts with existing organizations, Amanda strives to uplift children facing emotional or unseen challenges. In this insightful conversation, Amanda sheds light on the invaluable role collaboration and connection play in ensuring every child's needs are met. If you're a parent or guardian encountering roadblocks, frustration, or uncertainty in securing the necessary support for your child, this episode offers guidance and hope. Join us as we explore the transformative power of collective action and empathy in advocating for the future of our children. Thank you, Amanda, for gracing us with your expertise and perspective today. Tune in and empower yourself with knowledge! Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapters: 00:04 - On Today's Episode 00:46 - Meet Amanda Glass 01:29 - Amanda's Work 03:23 - What Disparities are There? 05:05 - What Draws you to Child Welfare? 07:08 - Dukes Up! 10:04 - Options for Parents in Dispute 11:58 - Options for Filing Complaints 13:39 - Ordering Corrective Action 16:23 - Timeline for Due Process 19:06 - Broken Systems 23:21 - Restraint and Seclusion 27:00 - What can a Parent Do? 29:26 - Follow the Plan with Fidelity 31:41 - Accountability 32:37 - Public Records of Accountability 34:38 - Least Restrictive Placement 35:56 - Change of Placement 37:10 - Knowledge is Power 38:18 - Procedural Safeguards Notice 39:22 - Don't go it Alone! 40:00 - The Takeaway 40:57 - Resource Links 42:56 - Thank You!
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Episode 163: All Things School - IEP /504
08/08/2023
Episode 163: All Things School - IEP /504
Summary: Join us in celebrating the return to school as we dive into an enlightening discussion on IEPs and 504s with the incredible Nancy Williams. Our guest, Nancy, brings a wealth of expertise to the table as the Executive Director of the Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents, an organization that has personally touched our lives. With a remarkable 30-year career in education, including roles as a special education teacher and administrator, Nancy's insights are invaluable. As a volunteer Surrogate Parent through the Department of Education, Nancy advocates passionately for youth in group homes who require special education services. She's a dedicated champion for families navigating the complex school system and fighting for their children's rights. In this episode, we'll delve into the intricacies of Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) and 504 plans, gaining essential knowledge and strategies for supporting children with diverse needs. Nancy's dedication and expertise shine through as we discuss fostering inclusive and supportive educational environments. Tune in as we engage in a dynamic conversation that empowers parents and educators alike. We're thrilled to welcome Nancy into our podcast space today. Resource Links: Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web:
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Episode 162: An Adoptee's Story - The Blessing; the Heartbreak
07/25/2023
Episode 162: An Adoptee's Story - The Blessing; the Heartbreak
Summary: In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve into the world of adoption through the eyes of Mea Han Fajardo, an extraordinary international adoptee and the visionary behind FostAdopt Connections. Join us as we explore Mea's deeply personal journey and how she has transformed her experiences into a powerful platform, fostering meaningful opportunities and connections for children in foster care and group homes. Throughout the conversation, Mea opens up about the unique challenges and joys of being an adoptee, offering valuable insights that shed light on the intricacies of the adoption process. Her heartfelt reflections inspire empathy and understanding, as we gain a profound appreciation for the resilience and strength of those touched by adoption. Mea's passion for making a positive impact in the lives of vulnerable kids shines through, and we express our sincerest gratitude for her willingness to share her remarkable story with our listeners. So tune in and join us in this moving discussion as we celebrate the power of human connection and the transformative influence of compassion and love in the world of adoption. Resource Links: Link to book: Connect with us! Email: Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: Chapter Markers: 00:01 - Open 00:04 - On Today's Episode 00:33 - Welcome Mea Han Fajardo 01:33 - Mea's Story - Adopted at 10 02:58 - The Life-Long Experience 03:48 - We don't talk About it 04:01 - Gratitude and Lonliness 05:34 - The Space to Grieve 07:01 - Grieving with Intent 08:02 - How to Grieve 09:41 - Being Allowed to Grieve 10:32 - Normalizing Grief 11:29 - Breaking Open 12:50 - Grieving with Others 14:31 - Unlocking Grief 17:09 - The Mystery of Being an Adoptee 18:17 - Sympathizing with Adoptees 20:45 - Sharing my Adoption Story 22:38 - Reflection for Compassion 23:59 - An Adult Relationship with Parents 25:13 - Searching for Relationship 26:50 - Don't Hold on so Tightly 27:01 - Being Prepared when your Kid Starts Searching 27:44 - We Accept Your Family 29:42 - Loving Myself 31:26 - The Takeaway 32:27 - On Behalf of Adoptive Parents 33:25 - Resources 35:04 - Closing
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Episode 161: Real Talk - Self Care with Matthew Blades
07/11/2023
Episode 161: Real Talk - Self Care with Matthew Blades
Summary: Matthew Blades is a familiar and friendly voice known to many in Arizona from the successful Matthew and Priscilla in the Morning show on Mix 96.9 FM. Matthew's own journey of battling physical and mental health challenges led him to step away from broadcasting and embark on a healing journey. Now, he sits in front of the podcast mic, hosting the insightful "Learn From Those Who Lived It" podcast, where he engages in conversations with individuals who have overcome unimaginable circumstances and found their path to healing. Matthew's commitment to spreading joy continues with his new podcast, "I Needed That," co-hosted with Fitness Expert Chris Powell. Drawing from his personal experiences, Matthew shares valuable lessons in his workshops and speaking engagements, touching the lives of others. Today, we dive into an important topic: self-care. This discussion resonates with everyone, particularly those involved in the foster care world. Get ready to join us as we explore the significance of self-care and welcome Matthew Blades to the podcast. Prepare to be inspired and uplifted! Resource Links: Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices Chapter Markers: 00:04 - On Today's Episode 00:34 - Welcome Matthew Blades! 02:25 - Matthew's Story 04:40 - Your Super Power 05:12 - 3 Ways to Screw up Your Kids 07:10 - I am a Human FIrst! 07:41 - Shame, Fear, and Guilt 11:06 - The Recordings in our Heads 12:33 - Moving Forward 13:49 - Spinning the Plates 15:52 - It's not Control; It's Fear 16:59 - Letting Go 18:44 - You're a Transitional Character 20:44 - Speaking it Out Loud 21:47 - Redefining Success 23:59 - Your Real Life - Personal Inventory 26:43 - The Value of Self 27:51 - Having a Self Care Strategy 30:03 - Kim's Weekend 31:31 - Being Selfish 33:36 - The Blame Game 35:00 - Giving Yourself Permission 38:02 - The Takeaway 40:04 - Resources - Closing Thoughts 43:16 - You are not Broken 44:05 - Wrap Up 45:00 - Thank You!
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Episode 160: Real Talk - Parents of Foster Care
06/27/2023
Episode 160: Real Talk - Parents of Foster Care
Summary: At just 25 years old, Lindsey found herself pregnant and the parent of two children in the custody of the Department of Child Safety. She endured a heartbreaking struggle with homelessness, residing in motels and even living on the streets, surrounded by others in similar desperate circumstances. Desperate for change, Lindsey discovered a lifeline—a housing program for pregnant women with substance use disorders. This pivotal moment led her to the Family Involvement Center, igniting her path to healing and the reunion of her fractured family. Now, Lindsey is an active force in her city, advocating for change through various organizations such as the Parent Advisory Board, the Prevention Advisory Collaborative, and the Family Navigation Action Team. Her passion for improving child welfare has brought her before community audiences, the governor's office, and dependency judges. Lindsey's dedication to serving her community is truly inspiring. Join us as we delve into Lindsey's extraordinary journey, her triumphs, and her unwavering commitment to making a positive impact and becoming a beacon of hope and change in foster care. Resource Links: Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices Chapters: 00:01 - Open 00:34 - Welcome Lindsey Shine 02:09 - Lindsey's Story 03:47 - Going to the Wrong Attorney 04:21 - Leaving with Nothing 06:21 - Getting Help 07:05 - 5 Months and 3 Years 08:00 - Keeping Hope Alive 09:11 - Homelessness 10:27 - A Fork in the Road 12:19 - One More Shot 14:06 - Severance Trial 15:51 - Transition from Visitation 16:54 - A Traumatic Space 17:54 - A Glorified Babysitter? 19:11 - Being Friends with the Fosters 19:53 - A Broken System Challenge 22:13 - Choosing a Solution 23:38 - Choosing Responsibility 25:07 - Advocating in a Meaningful Way 27:18 - Normalizing Relational Support 28:28 - Deficiencies are Opportunities 30:45 - The Takeaway 32:30 - Being the Change 32:54 - Resources 34:25 - Wrap Up 34:56 - Thank You!
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Episode 159: The Way Home - How Kids Return to Their Families with Judge Colleen McNally
06/13/2023
Episode 159: The Way Home - How Kids Return to Their Families with Judge Colleen McNally
Summary: In honor of national reunification month, in this episode we have a conversation with Judge Colleen McNally about what reunification means for kids and their families. Before retiring, Judge McNally served the people of Arizona for over 16 years in the Maricopa County Superior Court of Arizona. Since retiring, she has devoted her time and efforts to supporting families that have experienced the foster care system and continues to advocate for better systems in Arizona. Resource Links: Foster Arizona PO Box 20787 Mesa, AZ 85277 Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices Chapters: 0:00 - Open 0:33 - Intro 1:32 - Who is Judge McNally? 3:39 - We all have Trauma 5:36 - The Courtroom Experience 7:00 - How can the System be Supportive? 8:44 - It's the Simple Things 10:32 - A Drink of Water 10:50 - The Challenge of Severance 12:42 - The Reality of Reunification 14:04 - And Now What? 16:00 - What is your Wish for Change? 18:43 - Reunification Day 20:53 - Kid Initiatives 22:06 - How can the Community Support? 22:35 - ACE Questionnaires 23:55 - Love for a Child vs. Love for an Adult 25:55 - Fear 27:54 - Send an Encouraging Note 29:26 - Reflections on the First Reunification Day 30:59 - Ways for the Community to Connect 33:17 - The Takeaway 34:34 - Get Involved 35:23 - Resources 37:21 - Thank You
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Episode 158: Recovery - Why Does it Work?
05/23/2023
Episode 158: Recovery - Why Does it Work?
Summary: What comes to mind when you think about Recovery and Recovery spaces? Often the images that come to mind are uncomfortable and we think of these spaces as the last place we would ever want to be, but what if we told you that Recovery…Is For Everybody! Join us in a conversation as we talk to Jillian about her journey into recovery and why the room of recovery can be the most freeing, accepting. and healing space around. Resource Links: Chapter Markers: 00:01 - On Today's Episode 00:34 - Introduction 01:20 - Jillian's Story 05:19 - Enter Celebrate Recovery 05:47 - It Stuck 07:34 - A Journey of Recovery 11:22 - Being a Leader in Recovery 14:05 - What are the Misconceptions? 16:45 - Recovery is for Everyone 18:48 - More than Just a Meeting 19:16 - The First Steps 20:34 - The Fellowship of Recovery 23:08 - It's Also About Your Loved Ones 24:08 - The Hardest Part 25:20 - It's an Ongoing Process 25:54 - What's Brought you the Most Joy? 26:57 - Who is Welcome? 28:21 - The Takeaway 28:54 - Resources 30:13 - Call to Action 32:15 - Wrap Up 32:39 - Outro Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices
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Episode 157: Real Talk: Substances (Mark’s Story)
05/09/2023
Episode 157: Real Talk: Substances (Mark’s Story)
Summary: Today there are so many people, humans like you and me, struggling because of varying hurts, habits or hang-ups, and they may be at the end of their rope. Today we have a conversation with Mark as he shares his story on substances and addiction and how connection helped him get to his space of recovery. Trigger Warning: Today’s episode deals with topics including addiction and suicide ideation. We encourage you to be aware of yourself while listening to this episode and please take time to pause if needed and reach out for support if any of today’s topic affects you. Chapters: 0:00 - Start 0:48 - Introduction 1:03 - Today's Topic 1:07 - Introduce Today's Guest Mark Gill 1:42 - Set Up Today's Topic 1:58 - Mark's Testimony 5:53 - The Denial 6:37 - Peer Pressure 8:18 - The Next Level 8:38 - The Big Moment 10:56 - The Wake Up 11:50 - The Aftermath 12:31 - Becoming Something Else 14:15 - The Next Phase 15:31 - Coming Home 16:27 - One More Option 21:01 - Three Questions 24:08 - An Impactful Story 25:33 - What Breaks Your Heart? 28:45 - Understanding the Story 30:31 - Being a Better Community 33:49 - Advice for Parents 36:07 - It's Too Easy 37:22 - The Takeaway 41:32 - Closing 44:01 - Outro Links: Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices
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Episode 156: Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption
04/25/2023
Episode 156: Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption
Summary: What happens when you choose to put your comfort space aside and open up your heart and home to a child in foster care? Spoiler alert, it can be humbling, messy, and chaotic at times, but it can also be the most rewarding experience that will change your life and the life of another, forever. Join us as we have a conversation with Stacy Bradley on Fighting the Fear of Stigma in Foster Care and Adoption. Stacy is an adoptive mom and former foster parent who has gone on the journey, advocated hard for her kiddos, and is a pretty cool person to boot! Chapters: 0:02 - Introduction 0:31 - Welcome 0:45 - Introduce Stacy Bradley 1:22 - Get to Know Stacy Bradley 3:08 - Learning Experiences 4:40 - Sharing the Journey 5:25 - Learning to Compromise 7:01 - Fear Associated with Stigmas 8:57 - Getting the Wrong Impression 11:28 - The Response to the Wrong Impression 13:09 - What are the Different Stigmas? 14:48 - There's Something Wrong with these Kids 16:59 - Birth Families are Scary 19:48 - These Kids are Lucky 20:38 - The Emotional Journey 22:37 - These Kids are Orphans 23:42 - It's a Learning Experience Every Day 24:35 - When the Answer is Found on Pinterest 25:30 - It's a True Partnership 26:42 - Getting Fired by a 5-year Old 28:56 - Stepping Through the Fear 31:52 - It's not About Being Brave 33:04 - Be Willing to do Something 36:27 - A Smile Goes a Long Way 36:59 - Episode Takeaway 37:35 - The Hope 38:08 - Resources 38:22 - Dr. Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey 38:39 - SAGE Journal 39:41 - Poverty by America by Matthew Dezmond 41:12 - Outro Links: What Happened to You : Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing Hardcover – April 27, 2021 by (Author), (Author) Keeping secrets: how children in foster care manage stigma Poverty, by America Hardcover – March 21, 2023 by (Author) Connect with us! Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast IG: @FosteringVoices
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Episode 155: Real Talk, Connecting When Connection is Hard
04/11/2023
Episode 155: Real Talk, Connecting When Connection is Hard
Summary: Truth…Parenting is hard, but those little moments of sweetness can make the tough days bearable. But what happens when those moments feel few and far between? Often in our foster care and adoption journeys the struggle to connect with our children can be an all too frequent reality. Join us as we welcome Chris and Caitlin and have a real conversation about connecting when connection is hard. It’s a tough conversation to have, but one that many of us need to face. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 1:15 – A Beginning in the World of Foster Care 4:12 – The First Experience with a Placement 8:35 – The Beginning of the Real Journey 9:35 – The Mixed Emotions of Adoption Day 10:40 – An Amazing Creative Beginning 11:25 – Day One of 'Now I'm Mom' to this Amazing Person 17:17 – Managing School Life and Home Life 21:04 – Connecting With Teachers and Making Them Part of the Team 23:09 – Setting Expectation as a Parent 34:58 – Let's Have a Little Fun With This! 35:56 – Understanding in the Community 36:25 – Tactics That Work 41:18 – Continuing the Conversation with Resources 43:10 – Connect With Us! Links: The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family: What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing Connect With Us!
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Episode 154: A Look Into Aging Out of Foster Care
03/28/2023
Episode 154: A Look Into Aging Out of Foster Care
Summary: Life can be tough sometimes, but for a young adult aging out of foster care the transition can be life altering and either set them up for success or leave them without a connection or direction. Join us as we have a conversation with Zack, a young adult with lived experience, and how connection and having a community changed his trajectory in life. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 0:26 – Welcome, Zack! 1:10 – What Brought Zack To Foster Arizona 3:43 – Becoming An Adult In Foster Care 5:38 – Embracing A New Situation 9:52 – Having Pride And Satisfaction In Accomplishments 11:16 – Showing The Way To Those Struggling Through 18:18 – Excitement Moving Forward 29:55 – One Takeaway 27:06 – Connect With Us! Links: Connect With Us!
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Episode 153: Finding Connection, Finding Your People
03/14/2023
Episode 153: Finding Connection, Finding Your People
Summary: Community is what gets us through life. In today's conversation we talk with Anika Robinson about finding your people and the importance of community and connection in our everyday lives. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 0:26 – Welcome Anika! 1:44 – Advocacy for Children 3:10 – Establishing Connections 8:38 – ASA Now 14:04 – Finding Hope in Dark Times 20:39 – The Powerful Impacts of Community 27:50 – The Need For Community 29:55 – One Takeaway 33:27 – Community Connections 37:02 – Connect With Us! Links: Connect With Us!
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Episode 152: Interracial Adoption and Finding Your Identity
02/28/2023
Episode 152: Interracial Adoption and Finding Your Identity
Episode 152: Interracial Adoption and Finding Your Identity Summary: A personal look into an adoptees story involving interracial adoption and her journey to discover her personal identity along the way. Chapters: 0:00 – Intro 0:52 – Welcome Ann! 1:32 – Ann's Work and Focus 12:00 – A Position of Learning 16:44 – Ann's Journey 24:33 – Wanting Kids to Experience More Individuals Like Themselves 32:00 – Accepting a Child With Hands Open 35:01 – One Takeaway 37:21 – Kids at Risk 38:18 – Links in the Show Notes 41:36 – Connect With Us! Links: Connect With Us!
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