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Gay Therapy LA with Ken Howard, LCSW, CST

Gay Therapy LA with Ken Howard, LCSW, CST A gay men’s mental health, sex, and relationships podcast If you’ve ever wished there were a therapy-informed podcast just for gay men, you’re in the right place. I’m Ken Howard, LCSW, CST – a gay men’s specialist psychotherapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Psychiatric Social Worker, longtime LGBTQ+ advocate, and gay men’s life/career/relationship coach with over 32 years’ experience working almost exclusively with gay male individuals, couples, and polycules. On Gay Therapy LA, you’ll get more than clichés or recycled pop psychology. This is a deep-dive podcast for gay men’s mental health, sex, and relationships—rooted in real clinical experience with thousands of clients over three decades. We talk about what actually shows up in gay men’s lives: Mental health for gay men: anxiety, depression, trauma, shame, internalized homophobia Gay men’s relationships: monogamy, open relationships, consensual non-monogamy, polycules, jealousy, trust, communication Sex therapy for gay men: desire, performance, erections, ejaculation, kink, porn, HIV, PrEP, sexual confidence Gay men and aging: body image, muscles, appearance pressure, midlife, older gay men, long-term HIV survivorship Dating and intimacy: hookup culture, apps, ghosting, rejection, attachment, finding and keeping a partner Gay men and success: career transitions, burnout, money, retirement, purpose, and building a life that actually feels good Episodes are mostly just me—so you get unfiltered, no-nonsense, therapist-level insight without fluff, plus occasional guests whose expertise or lived experience can help you grow. Every episode is designed to give you practical tools, perspectives, and strategies you can use immediately in your life, not just “interesting conversations.” If you’re a gay man who wants better mental health, stronger relationships, more satisfying sex, and a more successful, meaningful life, this podcast is for you—whether you’re in your 20s, 40s, 60s, or beyond. About the practice behind the podcast Gay Therapy LA with Ken Howard, LCSW, CST is the podcast of my private practice: Psychotherapy for gay men in California (online) Coaching for gay men worldwide (online) I’m the founder of GayTherapyLA.com and GayCoachingLA.com, based in West Hollywood, California, serving gay men all over the world via webcam and phone. My credentials include: California Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) Certified Psychiatric Social Worker AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Certified in Consensual Non-Monogamy and Polyamorous Families Retired Adjunct Associate Professor in Social Work (USC) Through both psychotherapy (California) and coaching (worldwide), I help gay men improve their mental health, strengthen their relationships, upgrade their sex lives, and maximize their quality of life and career, leveraging their past to enhance their future. While this podcast cannot substitute for personal therapy and is provided for educational purposes only, the episodes reflect the kinds of themes and strategies I work on with clients every day. Your questions, comments, ratings, and reviews are very welcome, as are suggestions for future episodes. © 2025 Ken Howard, LCSW, CST. All rights reserved.

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info_outline Gay Men and Non-Monetary Wealth: Redefining What It Means to Feel Rich 12/18/2025
info_outline Why Gay Men Can’t Stop Scrolling: The Real Reasons Behind Compulsive Phone Use 12/09/2025
info_outline Gay Men and Wicked: For Good 11/19/2025
info_outline Gay Men and Psychiatric Medications: Functions, Fears, and Facts 11/08/2025
info_outline Why Mid-Life Gay Men Still Use Hookup Apps — and What That Really Means 11/02/2025
info_outline Are All Marines Gay Bottoms? Military Myths in Gay Culture 10/13/2025
info_outline Gay Men and Post-Nut Clarity: What It Really Means 10/13/2025
info_outline Yom Kippur and Gay Men: Finding Meaning in Reflection, Atonement, and Renewal 09/28/2025
info_outline Toxic Gay Currencies: How to Avoid the Attention, Sex, and Status Traps 09/17/2025
info_outline From Obama to Trump: Understanding the Whiplash in American Politics Through the Lens of Minority Stress and Gay Men's Mental Health 09/04/2025
info_outline Gay Men Healing from Trauma: Why Substance Matters More Than Hype 08/26/2025
info_outline When “Non-Affirming” Therapists Keep LGBTQ+ Clients for the Money: An Ethical Failure with Real Consequences 08/18/2025
info_outline Gay Men and The Cinderella Syndrome: From Outcast to Adonis 07/25/2025
info_outline Gay Men as Adult Children of Alcoholics - How the Past Talks in the Present 07/21/2025
info_outline Gay Widowers: Navigating Loss, Identity, and Rebirth 07/19/2025
info_outline Radical Erotic Aging: Gay Men, Desire, and the Audacity to Stay Sexy 07/08/2025
info_outline Gilligan’s Island & The Seven Deadly Sins: What a 60s Sitcom Can Teach Gay Men 06/24/2025
info_outline Gay Men Overcoming Unconscious Barriers to Success 06/19/2025
info_outline Gay Men and Understanding Personality Traits: The OCEAN Model 06/11/2025
info_outline Flash vs. Substance: Pop Psychology Gurus vs. Real Clinicians 05/24/2025
info_outline Gay Men and Coping with the Forms of Betrayal 05/19/2025
info_outline Positive Masculinity for Gay Men in a Changing World 04/28/2025
info_outline The Success Principles for Gay Men: What We Can Learn from Jack Canfield 04/17/2025
info_outline White Lotus and Gay Men's Fantasies - The Teasing Taboo of Pop Culture 03/31/2025
info_outline The Healthcare Hustle: What Gay Men Need to Know 03/20/2025
info_outline Legal Essentials for Gay Men: Protecting Your Future 02/27/2025
info_outline When You Know You're Ugly: A Guide for Gay Men Coping with Physical Unattractiveness 02/14/2025
info_outline Gay Men and Therapy Support for a Legal Case 02/04/2025
info_outline Interview of Host Ken Howard, LCSW, CST on the History of Gay Men's Therapy and His Career 01/21/2025
 
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