Relationship Advice
I Do Podcast interviews today’s most successful and inspiring relationship experts, therapists and couples. Hosted by Chase Kosterlitz and produced by Sarah Kosterlitz, I Do Podcast is all about inspiring young couples to create a fulfilling and happy relationship. The weekly podcast will give you great advice to improve your relationship and fun ways to keep the spark alive. Each episode Chase interviews amazing relationship experts who share their knowledge on building successful and lasting love. The guests provide daily tips to improve your relationship, advice for young couples, amazing books and resources and much more.
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371: Dating After A Breakup Or Loss
09/22/2022
371: Dating After A Breakup Or Loss
It can be hard to know when and how to start dating after a breakup or death of a partner. Listen to today’s show to learn valuable tips for dating in the healthiest, most productive way possible after experiencing a loss. In this episode with Krista St-Germain, we discuss topics that include: How to grieve a breakup or death of a partner and why the 5 stages of grief may not always go as you think Debunking common myths around dating after a loss The importance of allowing our emotions How to know when to start dating again Post-traumatic growth and its hopeful message Why it’s ok to distract yourself from the pain of a loss by dating again And much more! Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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370: Learn To Communicate Lovingly With Your Partner
09/15/2022
370: Learn To Communicate Lovingly With Your Partner
Communication is a key component to any successful relationship. Whether you want to improve communication with your romantic partner, friends or family, this episode is for you. In this episode with Juliette Karaman, we discuss topics that include: The importance of staying curious to help communicate better What to do when you or your partner is triggered during communication Learn a super valuable and actionable communication exercise that will bring you closer to your partner immediately Words and phrases to avoid during communication Learning the importance of timing when you communicate And much more! Sponsors is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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369: Love Yourself More To Date Better
09/08/2022
369: Love Yourself More To Date Better
If you want to have more success in your dating life there are a lot of things you can do. One of the most important things to do is to work on your relationship with yourself. Listen to today’s show to learn how to date smarter, love yourself to attract the best partner that’s the right fit and much more! In this episode with Keyen Lage, we discuss topics that include: How to listen to your body in order to make good dating decisions The importance of not settling in a relationship and connecting to your heart to make decisions How to make a good decision if you’re not sure if you should continue seeing a potential match The importance of understanding your programming when it comes to relationships and dating How to get clear on what you desire in a relationship And much more! Sponsors is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting hair products are revolutionary: award-winning, vegan hair, lash, and brow products are plant based, safe and effective. Get beautiful, fuller looking hair, longer looking lashes and bold brows. Go to and use code IDO to save twenty percent on your first order! Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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368: How To Date Smart
08/31/2022
368: How To Date Smart
Dating can be tiring and frustrating to the point that you may feel like giving up. Don't worry, there's hope! Today you're going to get actionable tips that will help you navigate your dating life and set you on a path to finding your ideal partner. In this episode with Stephanie Mintz, we discuss topics that include: How to set up your dating GPS for a foundation of dating success Why it can be bad to jump into the physical too quickly while dating Understanding and communicating if you want to date casually or for a long term partner How to communicate productively and strategically in your dating life What to do if you're being ghosted The importance of understanding your red flags Dating if you just got out of a relationship And much more! Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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367: Personality Types And Your Relationship
08/25/2022
367: Personality Types And Your Relationship
Our personalities can clash with another person or they can gel. The manner in which we approach and navigate any relationship in our lives will depend on our personality and how it interacts with other personalities. The more we can understand personalities, the better we can relate! Listen to today's show to learn more about your personality and how it shows up in any kind of relationship. In this episode with Dr. Vicki Matthews, we discuss topics that include: The eastern philosophical approach to personality types Different personality types and how they interact with each other The key to getting along with almost anyone What to do if your personality clashes with your partners And much more! Sponsors is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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366: Daily Practices For A Thriving Relationship
08/17/2022
366: Daily Practices For A Thriving Relationship
We've said it before and we'll say it again. Relationships take work! Well, great, amazing, mind blowing relationships take work. If you want to improve your relationship and make it amazing, you'll need to take deliberate steps to make that happen. Listen to today's show to learn amazing actionable tips that you can implement in your relationship today! In this episode with Lair Torrent we discuss topics that include: The importance of being proactive in relationship improvement How to develop a relationship culture and direction Understanding our wounds and how they bring us together Daily practices to improve your relationship Creating a healthy space for our partners to heal The importance of understanding the narratives we tell about our partner And much more! Sponsors provides comprehensive nutrition and gut health support in one daily drink, called AG1. Reclaim your health and arm your immune system with AG1, and even better, receive a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase at . hair products are revolutionary: award-winning, vegan hair, lash, and brow products are plant based, safe and effective. Get beautiful, fuller looking hair, longer looking lashes and bold brows. Go to and use code IDO to save twenty percent on your first order! is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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365: Sex Talk
08/17/2022
365: Sex Talk
Biological sex differences have numerous and important implications for how we show up in relationships. Listen to today's show to learn more about these differences and use this information to improve your relationship today! In this episode with Dr. Stephen Furlich, we discuss topics that include: How sex hormone levels influence communication and behavior The structural differences between male and female brains and why you should understand them How testosterone can hinder language abilities Navigating conflict with an understanding of male and female biological differences How men and women handle stress differently on a biological level Why women have better intuition And much more! Sponsors is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting is the #1 app for sleep and meditation. Transform your life with just a few minutes a day. For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at . is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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364: World Record Endurance Adventurer On The Power of Love
08/05/2022
364: World Record Endurance Adventurer On The Power of Love
What does a world renown endurance athlete know about love and relationships? It turns out, quite a lot! This conversation with Colin O'Brady will give you insight, tools and inspiration for your life and your relationship. Colin has a deep appreciation for his relationship with his wife and how it impacts the amazing feats he's accomplished. In this episode with Colin O'Brady, we discuss topics that include: How to pursue your goals and balance your relationship at the same time Navigating long distance relationships and time away from your partner Why walking for 12 straight hours will change your relationship and change your life How to overcome limiting beliefs about yourself and your relationship The deep insights into love that Colin had while spending two months alone walking across Antarctica And much more! Sponsors is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . provides comprehensive nutrition and gut health support in one daily drink, called AG1. Reclaim your health and arm your immune system with AG1, and even better, receive a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase at . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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363: Releasing Your True Inner Voice
07/29/2022
363: Releasing Your True Inner Voice
What does it mean to speak your deepest truth and show up as your most authentic self? It's not always easy to show up in this way but the benefits can be amazing. Listen to today's show to learn how to access your true inner voice and live more authentically. Of course this will all help improve your relationship along the way! In this episode with Dr. Fred Moss, we discuss topics that include: What is our true inner voice and how can we access it Why we lose our true selves Specific exercises to help cultivate your inner voice and resonate with our true selves Why we sometimes change who we are to be liked How to navigate finding your true inner voice with your partner And much more! Sponsors is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . is the #1 app for sleep and meditation. Transform your life with just a few minutes a day. For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at . hair products are revolutionary: award-winning, vegan hair, lash, and brow products are plant based, safe and effective. Get beautiful, fuller looking hair, longer looking lashes and bold brows. Go to and use code IDO to save twenty percent on your first order! Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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362: Cohabitation And Your Relationship
07/20/2022
362: Cohabitation And Your Relationship
It can be valuable to understand how cohabitation may affect the success of your relationship. How and when you should move in together are just a couple of questions you might be asking yourself. Dr. Kuperberg has done extensive research into cohabitation and how it impacts relationships and marriages. Listen to today's show to learn about what the research shows, what to do about it and much more! In this episode with Dr. Arielle Kuperberg, we discuss topics that include: The link between cohabitation and the success of a marriage The importance of age when moving in together What sociological studies can help us learn about relationships How living together can help a relationship succeed Relationships trends you should know about And much more! Sponsors offers luxury bedding and loungewear known for its incredible softness and temperature regulation. Cozy Earth is providing an exclusive offer for our listeners: 35% off site wide when you use the code “”. offers at-home lab tests, vitamins and supplements that can help you get the knowledge and support you need, so you can become a healthier you. Receive a special 20% discount on an at-home lab test at . is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting provides comprehensive nutrition and gut health support in one daily drink, called AG1. Reclaim your health and arm your immune system with AG1, and even better, receive a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase at . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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361: The Best Ways To Navigate Anxious Attachment
07/13/2022
361: The Best Ways To Navigate Anxious Attachment
It's critical to learn your attachment style if you want to drastically improve yourself and your relationships. We've covered attachment styles in past episodes and will continue to do so because it can be such a powerful tool to understand dynamics and thus help improve your life. Individuals who display anxious attachment styles can sometimes have a lot more to navigate in life than those who are securely attached. Listen to today's show to learn more about anxious attachment and how to heal and thrive with it. In this episode with Jessica Baum, we discuss topics that include: What anxious attachment is and how it forms How someone who is anxiously attached can heal and move toward secure attachment How to tune into your body to help heal The negative dance between anxious and avoidant partners, and how to stop it How to hold more space for the wounded parts of yourself How you can heal in the container of a safe relationship And much more! Sponsors is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . provides comprehensive nutrition and gut health support in one daily drink, called AG1. Reclaim your health and arm your immune system with AG1, and even better, receive a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase at . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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360: What's Sex Therapy All About?
07/13/2022
360: What's Sex Therapy All About?
Getting help from a sex therapist can be a great way to get in touch with your sexuality, improve sex in your relationship and learn about yourself and your partner. Listen to today's show to learn everything you need to know about going to a sex therapist! In this episode with Keeley Rankin, we discuss topics that include: How to know when to go to a sex therapist Important questions to ask when choosing a sex therapist When to go to a regular therapist versus a sex therapist The specific ways sex therapy will help you and your relationship How sex therapy is done step by step How sex therapy can help build safety with your partner and improve your sex life And much more! Sponsors offers luxury bedding and loungewear known for its incredible softness and temperature regulation. Cozy Earth is providing an exclusive offer for our listeners: 35% off site wide when you use the code “”. is the #1 app for sleep and meditation. Transform your life with just a few minutes a day. For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at . provides comprehensive nutrition and gut health support in one daily drink, called AG1. Reclaim your health and arm your immune system with AG1, and even better, receive a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase at . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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359: Loving Better And Mastering The Text Message Game
06/29/2022
359: Loving Better And Mastering The Text Message Game
Getting to know someone via text is a huge part of developing relationships today and we're often not that great at it. "Why are they taking so long to respond?" “Do they really like me?” "Should I text that upside down smiley face emoji?" There's a lot to think about! Listen to today's show to learn how to preserve your mental health while navigating these landmines and more! In this episode with Yvonne Castaneda, we discuss topics that include: What to do when texting gets weird or they're not responding How to break out of negative self talk Important self-reflection exercises that everyone should be doing Why instead of seeking something from a partner, we should first try to give it to ourselves Debunking the myth that another person will make us whole Practical tips for text messaging a potential partner And much more! Sponsors offers luxury bedding and loungewear known for its incredible softness and temperature regulation. Cozy Earth is providing an exclusive offer for our listeners: 35% off site wide when you use the code “”. offers at-home lab tests, vitamins and supplements that can help you get the knowledge and support you need, so you can become a healthier you. Receive a special 20% discount on an at-home lab test at . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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358: How To Increase Pleasure And Get In Touch With Your Sexuality
06/22/2022
358: How To Increase Pleasure And Get In Touch With Your Sexuality
Who doesn't want to feel more pleasure!? Listen to today's show for some amazing, actionable tips to increase your pleasure, get in touch with your sexuality and start to have mind-blowing sex. In this episode with Nicoletta Heidegger, we discuss topics that include: How to prioritize yourself and your pleasure Understanding your barriers to experiencing pleasure Exercises and tools to help you learn about what you like sexually How to identify exactly what physical sensations give you pleasure Using a 'Yes, No, Maybe' list to better understand your sexuality What to do if your partner is not prioritizing sex Special communication tips for talking with your partner about sex And much more! Sponsors is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . offers luxury bedding and loungewear known for its incredible softness and temperature regulation. Cozy Earth is providing an exclusive offer for our listeners: 35% off site wide when you use the code “”. Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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357: Prodependence, Sex, Love And Addiction
06/20/2022
357: Prodependence, Sex, Love And Addiction
Supporting a partner with an addiction can be a very challenging journey. Dr. Weiss' prodependence approach revolutionized addiction healthcare by improving the ways we treat loved ones of addicts and other troubled people by offering them more dignity for their suffering rather than blame for the problem. Listen to today's episode to learn more about prodependence. In this episode with Dr. Rob Weiss, we discuss topics that include: Understanding how the theory of codependency evolved in the psychiatric treatment community Why the traditional approach to healing for those partnered with an addict may not be healthy The importance of not shaming someone who is partnered with an addict How to best support a partner with an addiction And much more! Sponsors makes the best clothes, from premium fabrics with gotta-feel-it-to-believe-it softness. Head to and enter the promo code IDO at checkout to snag 20% off ALL your new spring staples. is a tobacco-free non-electronic inhaler used to quit smoking and vaping naturally. Join 50,000+ worldwide and create healthier positive habits. Quit naturally with Füm and use IDO to save 10% at . is is a tele-health service for pet parents that offers 24/7 access to personalized pet care from veterinary professionals. Fuzzy is offering our listeners a FREE 7-Day Trial membership. Go to today to sign up. is the #1 app for sleep and meditation. Transform your life with just a few minutes a day. For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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356: Who Pays For The Bill In Your Relationship?
06/09/2022
356: Who Pays For The Bill In Your Relationship?
Gender equality is an important issue with broad societal implications. A great place to start addressing gender equality is in your current or future relationships. Listen to today's show to learn more about creating a gender equitable relationship. In this episode with Kate Mangino, we discuss topics that include: How to talk about gender equality when dating Who should pay for a meal when you're dating? Addressing the disconnect between values and behavior in ourselves and others What to do when one partner carries more of the load at home and work How men can be an ally to women Talking with your children about gender And much more! Sponsors curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code IDO at checkout. is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting offers at-home lab tests, vitamins and supplements that can help you get the knowledge and support you need, so you can become a healthier you. Receive a special 20% discount on an at-home lab test at . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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355: Four Key Communication Tips For Your Relationship
06/03/2022
355: Four Key Communication Tips For Your Relationship
Improving communication in your relationship takes work and practice. Listen to today's show to learn four communication mistakes many of us make and how we can improve them. In this episode with Sonya Jensen, we discuss topics that include: How to identify what you feel and communicate what you need How to communicate with more depth in your relationship Understanding what you should expect from a relationship Stonewalling and how to navigate it What happens when resentment builds in your relationship Evaluating the role we want our partner to play And much more! Sponsors is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . is a tobacco-free non-electronic inhaler used to quit smoking and vaping naturally. Join 50,000+ worldwide and create healthier positive habits. Quit naturally with Füm and use IDO to save 10% at Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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354: Introducing Your New Partner To Your Kids
06/01/2022
354: Introducing Your New Partner To Your Kids
There are many important areas to navigate as a divorced couple with kids. How and when to introduce new partners is just one area that is important to think about for the health of your children and the relationship with your ex. Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate these issues and more! In this episode with Dr. Ann Buscho, we discuss topics that include: Learn how and when to introduce new partners to your children How to communicate with your ex when it comes to introducing new partners to your kids How not to confuse kids after a divorce What to do when your kids won't accept a new partner The stories kids develop about a parents divorce And much more! Sponsors curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code IDO at checkout. is the best in men’s below-the-waist grooming. Their products are precision-engineered tools for your family jewels. Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code IDO at . is is a tele-health service for pet parents that offers 24/7 access to personalized pet care from veterinary professionals. Fuzzy is offering our listeners a FREE 7-Day Trial membership. Go to today to sign up. Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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353: Make Your Sex Life Magical
05/18/2022
353: Make Your Sex Life Magical
We all want to have better sex in our relationships, but don't always know how to make that happen. Today's episode is full of useful, actionable tips to start improving your sex life today! In this episode with Frank Wiegers, we discuss topics that include: Sex as a spiritual experience The importance of emotional connection with your sexual partner Rituals for communication in your relationship How to play, Simon Says, in your bedroom and how it will spice up your sex life The importance of pre-play and after play for your sex life And much more! Sponsors is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting : The best clothes, made from premium fabrics with gotta-feel-it-to-believe-it softness. Head to and enter the promo code IDO at checkout to snag 20% off ALL your new spring staples. is a tobacco-free non-electronic inhaler used to quit smoking and vaping naturally. Join 50,000+ worldwide and create healthier positive habits. Quit naturally with Füm and use IDO to save 10% at Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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352: How To Navigate Narcissism In Relationships
05/14/2022
352: How To Navigate Narcissism In Relationships
When narcissism rears its ugly head, it can have extremely detrimental effects on your relationship. Listen to today's show for an in depth look at how narcissism can negatively impact your relationship and how to navigate it. In this episode with Darlene Lancer LMFT, we discuss topics that include: Is there such a thing as 'healthy' narcissism? The 5 characteristics of narcissism How to recognize abuse in your relationship What to do if you feel like your partner has no empathy How to gain your power back in a relationship Determining if you should stay or go when in a relationship with a narcissist Why we fall in love with narcissistic traits And much more! Sponsors curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code IDO at checkout. is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . vitamins contain only the nutrients you need, in forms your body can actually use. Committed to creating the purest, most effective formulations for everyday health, Ritual is offering our listeners 10% off your first three months by visiting Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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351: How Exercise Will Improve Your Relationship
05/06/2022
351: How Exercise Will Improve Your Relationship
It's no secret that exercise will improve your health and wellness. However, we don't talk about its positive effects on mental health and relationships nearly enough on this show. Today we're going to dive in and focus on the benefits of exercise for your relationship so you can start using these tools for improving your life today! In this episode with Dr. Jennifer Heisz, we discuss topics that include: Understanding the connection between your health and your brain How exercise can combat mood disorders like depression and anxiety How to start an exercise routine and keep it Why exercising with your partner will help improve your connection The value of processing negative emotions through exercise Implementing play into your exercise routine The value of dropping an argument and going on a walk together And much more! Sponsors is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . is a tobacco-free non-electronic inhaler used to quit smoking and vaping naturally. Join 50,000+ worldwide and create healthier positive habits. Quit naturally with Füm and use IDO to save 10% at Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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350: Top Sexual Communication Practices
04/27/2022
350: Top Sexual Communication Practices
Communicating in and around the bedroom will help you have better, more connected sex and improve your relationship. Listen to today's show to learn how to best communicate needs and wants around sex and ignite passion with your partner. Hang on, today's episode may get hot and steamy! In this episode with Dr. Tara, we discuss topics that include: Why many of us lack the skills and awareness to communicate around sexuality Why most sex issues are actually communication issues Important questions to ask your partner to help improve your sex life Sex as an act of communication How to communicate outside of the bedroom to create more action in the bedroom The importance of complimenting your partner and how to do it And much more! Sponsors curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code IDO at checkout. is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting vitamins contain only the nutrients you need, in forms your body can actually use. Committed to creating the purest, most effective formulations for everyday health, Ritual is offering our listeners 10% off your first three months by visiting Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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349: The Best Ways To Navigate Divorce
04/20/2022
349: The Best Ways To Navigate Divorce
We're a relationship advice podcast that wants to help you improve your relationships. A harsh reality is that sometimes a relationship will end in a breakup, separation or divorce. We still want to give you the tools to navigate these endings in the best way possible. Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate a divorce in the healthiest way possible. In this episode with Kelly Frawley and Emily Pollock, we discuss topics that include: Common errors to avoid when going through a divorce The importance of understanding which issues are legal issues and which ones are not Understanding equitable distribution of wealth in a divorce Why you want to avoid going to court What to do when kids are involved in a divorce And much more! Sponsors is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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348: Listen Better And Improve Your Relationship
04/13/2022
348: Listen Better And Improve Your Relationship
Feeling heard in our relationships is one of the best feelings we can have. However, most of us have never been taught how to be a good listener for our friends, family and romantic partners. Listen to today's show to learn how to become a better listener and begin improving your relationships right away! In this episode with Terri Lonowski, we discuss topics that include: Why listening is so important to a healthy relationship Actionable tools to become a deep listener What to do if you feel your partner is not a good listener The important questions to ask yourself to become a better listener How to communicate on a deeper level And much more! Sponsors curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code IDO at checkout. vitamins contain only the nutrients you need, in forms your body can actually use. Committed to creating the purest, most effective formulations for everyday health, Ritual is offering our listeners 10% off your first three months by visiting Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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347: Are You In A Toxic Relationship?
04/11/2022
347: Are You In A Toxic Relationship?
Understanding the difference between a healthy and a toxic relationship is an important distinction to be able to make. Perhaps you think you're in a healthy relationship, but in fact you're not. Listen to today's show to learn what makes a healthy relationship and what makes a relationship toxic. In this episode with Dr. Ludy Green, we discuss topics that include: How a lack of trust can create a toxic relationship The ways in which a relationship can become toxic How to identify toxic relationship patterns The importance of setting boundaries in your relationship How to talk to a friend in a toxic relationship And much more! Sponsors is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . is an innovative health and sexual wellness company that designs all-natural sexual intimacy products for women, people with vulvas, and the people who love them. Get 20% off your first order by visiting Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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346: Consensual Non-Monogamy Overview And Tips!
03/31/2022
346: Consensual Non-Monogamy Overview And Tips!
A full one-fifth of the United States has engaged in consensual non-monogamy (CNM) at some point in their lives, and 29 percent of adults under thirty today consider open relationships to be morally acceptable—yet there are few resources to turn to when it comes to navigating this more non-traditional and explorative territory. That's why Kate Loree has written a book and dedicated much of her professional life to assisting individuals and couples with this relationship style. Listen to today's show to get a deeper understanding of CNM and the tools to do it right. In this episode with Kate Loree, we discuss topics that include: Understanding all of the different styles and options available in the realm of consensual non-monogamy The importance of setting boundaries and how to do it in CNM Understanding your attachment issues before and during engagement with CNM The biggest mistakes and misconceptions surrounding CNM Why don't ask, don't tell rarely works and should be avoided How to deal with falling in love in CNM Dealing with jealousy And much more! Sponsors is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 20% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code IDO at checkout. is a collection of health and wellness products, ranging from pre-workout to greens, and more. Each and every product is created with you and your journey in mind. Go to slash IDO for 15% off. Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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345: From Survive to Thrive
03/23/2022
345: From Survive to Thrive
We all want to live our lives to the fullest potential, but sometimes it's hard! Mental illness, depression and just being human can wear on our ability to thrive in this life. Listen to today's episode for tips on how to go from merely surviving to thriving! In this episode with Dr. Margaret Chisolm, we discuss topics that include: Understanding the difference between languishing and flourishing The best self talk when feeling depressed How to rescript your life story for the better Examples for how to rescript a break up or other painful life experiences The importance of understanding our temperament and inability to change it The value of knowing yourself and bringing that into your relationship And much more! Sponsors : Find the right vitamins, protein and collagen, personalized for you. For 50% off your first Care/of order, go to and enter code ido50. is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . vitamins contain only the nutrients you need, in forms your body can actually use. Committed to creating the purest, most effective formulations for everyday health, Ritual is offering our listeners 10% off your first three months by visiting Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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344: When You Have Kids Out Of Wedlock
03/16/2022
344: When You Have Kids Out Of Wedlock
Nearly 50% of all kids born in the United States are born out of wedlock! Co-parenting, legal challenges and much more can cause all kinds of problems in this situation. Listen to today's show to learn how to best navigate having a kid with someone who you never intended to be in a relationship with or are no longer in a relationship with. In this episode with Jim Braz, we discuss topics that include: How to navigate the major problems that often come up when you have a child out of wedlock How and when to deal with a maternity test if needed The importance of coming up with a co-parenting plan and tips to implement one Using a parenting coordinator to help navigate your issues How to communicate with your co-parent for the best outcomes Why you should avoid legal processes at all costs And much more! Jim and Jessica Braz are the authors of the award-winning book, “Baby Out of Wedlock: Co-Parenting Basics From Pregnancy to Custody” and founders of , a resource-intense platform that helps the millions of parents who are navigating unplanned, single parenting. Sponsors curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 15% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code ido at checkout. : Dating for humans. Feeld is the alternative dating platform for couples and singles, open to all genders and sexual identities. Download the app here: was created to give those who bleed alternative period products that prioritize comfort, support an active lifestyle, and lend a hand to Mother Earth. Go to or use code IDO for 20% off Flex Disc Starter Kit —or 10% off your first Flex Cup—PLUS free U.S. shipping! Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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343: Lessons From 30 Years Of Marriage
03/09/2022
343: Lessons From 30 Years Of Marriage
Long term relationships take work and who better to learn from than a couple who has been married for nearly 30 years? Listen to today's show to learn a range of valuable insights into how we can better navigate our relationships. In this episode with George and Vanessa Naum, we discuss topics that include: How we can miscommunicate and how to fix it The importance of talking about the things that make us uncomfortable How to talk about our feelings and be vulnerable Understanding and communicating your non-negotiables The importance of self-awareness and knowing what we want and don't want The challenges of raising kids and parenting And much more! Sponsors , the #1 meal kit for eating well, makes eating well easy with meal kits and plans to fit every lifestyle: Keto, Paleo, Vegan, Vegetarian, Gluten-Free, or just looking to eat more balanced meals. Go to and use code ido130 to get $130 off, plus free shipping! is an audio app full of short, sexy stories and guided sessions that are designed to turn you on and help you get in touch with yourself. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to . Start building your ideal daily routine today with Fabulous Premium! Get 25% off Fabulous Premium by going to . is your ticket to sexual happiness! With a vast range of sexual wellness online courses backed by medical professionals and sex therapists, Beducated helps you bring and gain more pleasure into your bedroom. Visit and you can get 65% off Beducated’s yearly pass with our code, IDO. is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting . Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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342: Criticism In Relationships
03/03/2022
342: Criticism In Relationships
There's good reason that the Gottman Institute includes criticism in the Four Horsemen that can lead to the demise of a relationship. Listen to today's show to learn how to deal with this area that can lead to the end of your relationship. In this episode with Dr. Jessica Higgins we discuss topics that include: Why criticism is common in today's world How our partners can use criticism as a form of protest How to receive criticism from your partner and communicate around it The importance of staying in your lane, softening and communication What to do if your partner won't stop criticizing you Why people use criticism And much more! For more information on our guest, and for the episode links visit: Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Sponsors curates adult subscription boxes created to inspire and influence female sexual wellness. Like A Kitten is offering our listeners 20% off AND free shipping when you go to OR enter code IDO at checkout. is your ticket to sexual happiness! With a vast range of sexual wellness online courses backed by medical professionals and sex therapists, Beducated helps you bring and gain more pleasure into your bedroom. Visit and you can get 65% off Beducated’s yearly pass with our code, IDO. is a collection of health and wellness products, ranging from pre-workout to greens, and more. Each and every product is created with you and your journey in mind. Go to slash IDO for 15% off. Get $100 off our online course. Visit for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a ? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah
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