The Nacho Kids Podcast: Blended Family Lifesaver
Stepfamilies and blended families are very challenging. With a failure rate of over 70%, it's clear that blended families need help. Nacho Kids founders and blended family coaches, Lori and David Sims, are here to help blended families save their sanity and relationships. You'll hear the hosts and guests discuss the struggles and successes of blended family life and learn how the Nacho Kids Method is changing lives and saving relationships around the world.
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363: How Did We Get Here
05/15/2026
363: How Did We Get Here
** Disclaimer: This episode includes discussion of addiction, overdosing, and alleged inappropriate touching between a stepparent and stepchild ** In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with longtime friend Tabatha Hartman to discuss her challenging journey through grief, blending families, addiction, and parental alienation. Tabatha shares how her life changed after the loss of her ex-husband, the struggles her daughter endured, and the tough choices she faced as a mother and stepmom. The conversation delves into issues such as therapy for grieving children, navigating false allegations, maintaining boundaries, and building resilience amid chaos. Tabatha Hartman also talks about her memoir, "How Did We Get Here?", written to help others facing similar struggles. The episode offers raw, honest insight into coping with loss, healing family relationships, and the ongoing impact of addiction. In this episode, we discuss: Coping with the death of a co-parent and its effects on blended families Parenting through grief and supporting children after loss Legal battles and parental alienation within stepfamilies The impact of addiction and relapse on families Setting boundaries and making difficult decisions as a parent The journey of repairing and rebuilding fractured parent-child relationships The reality of false allegations and how to navigate them Writing as a tool for processing grief and trauma The ongoing effects of addiction and generational cycles How open communication and resilience can help families move forward
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362: Comparison Will Make You Miserable
05/08/2026
362: Comparison Will Make You Miserable
Comparisons are the Thief of Joy—But What About in Blended Families? In episode NKP362 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive deep into the pitfalls of comparison, especially when it comes to blended families, kids, and relationships. Listeners will hear personal stories from Lori about her son Jackson's academic achievements and the emotions that arise when comparing him to David's children. Together, Lori and David candidly discuss how easy it is to compare kids, relationships, and even possessions, leading to unnecessary feelings of inadequacy and frustration. They reveal their distinct perspectives on academic success, parenting expectations, and why it’s crucial to focus on each person's unique strengths instead of measuring up to others. In this episode: Why comparison in blended families can be harmful How Lori and David navigate differences in their children’s achievements The importance of recognizing individual strengths and backgrounds Why it’s better to compare yourself only to the person you were yesterday If you'd like to be a guest on our podcast, email us at . If you are struggling in your blend, or just want to better your blended relationships (including your relationship with your partner), join the Nacho Kids Academy at nachokidsacademy.com today! We offer one-on-one coaching and couples coaching. If you are interested, email us at to check our availability.
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361: Keep The Target Off Your Back
05/01/2026
361: Keep The Target Off Your Back
In this episode, Lori and David dig into real-life stepfamily scenarios from handling dinnertime food drama with stepkids, to discovering vapes hidden in a teenager’s room. They discuss the importance of keeping the “target off your back” as a stepparent, sharing strategies for maintaining household harmony and reducing stress, like letting dad handle his child’s plate or calmly informing the bio parent about the contraband instead of taking action yourself. The hosts get candid about how small moments can trigger deeper frustrations and how most conflicts fade with time. In this episode: Tips for reducing daily stress as a stepmom or stepdad Why “nachoing” can lead to better stepfamily relationships Creative ways to share responsibility with your partner Pros and cons of handling stepkid secrets and discipline The long-term perspective: laughing about today’s drama years down the road Heartwarming and hilarious stories from the hosts’ own experiences, including the joys of being a supportive step-parent and the misadventures of parenting
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360: Stepmom Becomes Only Legal Parent to Stepdaughter
04/24/2026
360: Stepmom Becomes Only Legal Parent to Stepdaughter
In this heartfelt episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Valerie Mills shares her remarkable story of becoming a stepmom who ultimately adopted her stepdaughter, overcoming immense obstacles and heartbreak along the way. Listeners will journey with Valerie Mills as she details the emotional and legal complexities of her family’s story, from rescuing her stepdaughter from a difficult home environment at age 7, to navigating the revolving door of foster care, facing her own battle with cancer, and overcoming domestic abuse. Hear how Valerie Mills fought for custody, the surprising ease of the adoption process as a single parent, and the pivotal moments where unconditional love triumphed over adversity. This episode covers: The unique challenges of blended families and step-parent adoption Navigating the foster care system and the importance of stability for traumatized children Open, candid discussions about mental health, resilience, and healing after trauma The power of chosen family and how more love supports a child’s growth You’ll also hear touching anecdotes about mother-daughter dynamics, ongoing struggles with biological parents, the importance of extended support systems, and practical tips for anyone considering adoption or dealing with family court. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this inspiring story with someone who needs to know they’re not alone on this journey!
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359: Building a Custody Case Against Narcissistic and Abusive Co-Parents
04/17/2026
359: Building a Custody Case Against Narcissistic and Abusive Co-Parents
Challenging custody battles, high-conflict co-parents, and courtroom chaos, this episode dives deep into the realities protective parents face, with real strategies for fighting for your child's best interests. Join Renee Rodriguez and her expert guest for a powerful and practical conversation. In this insightful episode, Renee Rodriguez welcomes a seasoned custody consultant, the creator of The Custody Blueprint, to discuss the complex and emotionally charged world of family court. Listeners will gain clear, actionable guidance on navigating custody disputes with high-conflict or abusive co-parents: from organizing evidence and building a compelling case to understanding the dynamics of narcissistic behavior, dealing with biased or uninformed legal professionals, and securing the best outcome for their children. Key topics include: What it really means to be a "protective parent" versus being labeled "high-conflict" Why 50/50 custody isn't always in the child's best interest Strategies for collecting and presenting the right evidence in court The critical importance of clear, specific parenting plans The emotional and systemic hurdles parents face, and how to overcome them You’ll also hear real-life experiences from both the host and her guest, covering issues like breastfeeding and overnight custody, medical neglect, and the challenges of getting the court to see behind the facade of an abusive co-parent. Guest Links & Resources: Website:
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358: Mother's Day Doesn't Have to Suck
04/10/2026
358: Mother's Day Doesn't Have to Suck
Mother’s Day is almost here, and stepmoms everywhere are bracing for the rollercoaster of emotions that this Hallmark holiday can bring. In this honest, lighthearted episode, Lori & David break down the myths, expectations, and real stories behind recognition, or lack thereof, on Mother’s Day and Stepmother’s Day in blended families. In this episode: Why communication about expectations is crucial (hint: don’t assume your partner or stepkids know what you want!) How to navigate feelings of disappointment or being overlooked, and practical tips to prevent “getting butt hurt twice” Real-life experiences with gifts, love languages, and candid stories about not being recognized—and creative ways stepmoms can celebrate themselves The history behind Mother’s Day and why even its founder came to regret it Advice on handling grief and mixed emotions if you’re missing your own mom or struggling with the holiday Whether you’re a stepmom, stepdad, or simply navigating new traditions in your blended family, this is your annual reminder to communicate with your partner, lower expectations and appreciate yourself for all you do.
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357: Estate Planning In Stepfamilies
04/03/2026
357: Estate Planning In Stepfamilies
Discover crucial insights into estate planning, divorce mediation, and the complexities of blended families in this heartfelt episode featuring attorney Tamara Arnold. Learn why preparing legal documents for life’s unexpected turns is one of the greatest gifts you can give your family. Listeners will hear Tamara’s powerful personal story that led her to a career in estate planning, from her mother’s tragedy to her mission of helping families ensure their voices and wishes are honored. She delves into why healthcare directives matter, how trusts work (especially for stepfamilies), and the importance of clear communication to avoid family conflict over inheritance. Tamara also explains her compassionate approach to divorce mediation, helping couples navigate separation without escalating hostile battles. Highlights include: The real-life impact of a lack of estate planning and healthcare directives How to set up trusts and wills that honor everyone, especially in blended families The pitfalls of probate and how to avoid them Tips on guardianship decisions for children in stepfamily situations How mediation offers healthier outcomes in divorce and custody disputes Tamara’s practical advice for step-parents seeking balance, trust, and clarity Her story of integrating into a blended family, earning stepchild trust, and finding harmony Special guest: Tamara Arnold, founder of and creator of the Divorce Wave app. Follow her on Instagram .
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356: Who Pays For College In A Stepfamily
03/27/2026
356: Who Pays For College In A Stepfamily
Curious how blended families navigate the tricky question of paying for college? Lori and David tackle financial planning, family dynamics, and the reality of college costs in stepfamilies with honesty and humor. In this episode, you’ll hear candid discussions about college expenses, scholarships, military paths, and what happens when one parent or stepparent has set aside funds for their child. Lori and David share their own experiences, like how military service and scholarships shaped their children's education, and what tough conversations arise if only one child has college savings. They dive deep into blended family finances, including inheritance, trusts, and what "fairness" really means when handling money for kids and stepkids. You’ll also get practical advice on when to start talking about finances, why it's essential to plan early, and how to manage uncomfortable conversations (with tips for mediators and financial advisors). The hosts read comments from their Facebook group, providing real-life perspectives on who pays for college. Want more Nacho Kids wisdom? Visit for resources, join their Facebook group, and stay connected on social media. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and catch upcoming episodes for support and advice on stepfamily life! Subscribe & Review: Help us grow and serve more stepfamilies!
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355: Family Court Don'ts ~ Whitney Antoniono Family Law Attorney
03/20/2026
355: Family Court Don'ts ~ Whitney Antoniono Family Law Attorney
Struggling with family court drama or high-conflict co-parenting? In this eye-opening episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, host Lori sits down with seasoned family law attorney Whitney Antoniono to reveal the common mistakes people make in family court, and how to avoid them. What to Expect: You’ll learn the crucial dos and don’ts of communicating with your co-parent, why documenting everything (with more than just your phone!) matters, and how emotional responses can sabotage your case. Whitney Antoniano shares real-world stories from inside and outside the courtroom, highlighting how little things, like your tone in emails, or rolling your eyes in court, can sway a judge’s opinion. The episode also dives into: How to protect yourself from common pitfalls before, during, and after court The ins-and-outs of self-representation versus hiring an attorney The realities of step-parent involvement in custody cases When and how kids’ preferences are considered Why relying on AI tools like ChatGPT for legal filings could backfire How to keep your cool (and keep your costs down) if things get heated Guest Info: Whitney Antoniano is a multi-state family law attorney (DC, NY, MD, TX). She’s known for her straight talk, practical strategies, and deep empathy for clients caught in high-conflict cases. Find her on Instagram and TikTok @WLAFamilyLaw, or visit for educational content and resources. Don’t miss this essential episode for any parent, step-parent, or partner navigating the family court maze. Hit subscribe to hear more, leave us a review, or join the Nacho Kids community for extra support!
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354: Stepkids Don't Disappear at 18
03/13/2026
354: Stepkids Don't Disappear at 18
Ready for some laughs, real-life blended family moments, and practical advice? In Episode NKP354 of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David go deep on navigating relationships with adult stepkids - messy bathrooms, emptied fridges, and all! Tune in to hear Lori recount a jaw-dropping real-life story from a Nacho Kids Academy member who returned home to a ransacked kitchen and disaster-zone bathrooms after leaving her adult stepkids in charge. David and Lori unpack what to do (and NOT do) when your adult stepkids act more like kids than adults, and how applying Nacho parenting strategies can save your sanity, and your marriage. You’ll learn the difference between stepping in and stepping back, how to address stepkid messes without drama, and why your words (and tone!) matter more than you think. This episode also dives into the long game: how today’s choices affect future relationships with your partner, stepkids, and even step-grandkids. Plus, hear tips for emotional regulation, clear communication, and picking your battles so minor annoyances don’t become major rifts. Love the show? Subscribe, leave a review, or join the Nacho Kids Academy for more tools to make your blend less stressful and more joyful! Follow Nacho Kids: Website:
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353: Don't Do This & Big Announcement
03/06/2026
353: Don't Do This & Big Announcement
Ready for some real talk about stepfamily life? In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive into the hot topic of whether stepkids should be pushed to move out at 18, and why the answer is rarely so simple. Tune in to hear Lori and David share both personal stories and practical advice about navigating expectations around adult children in blended families. You'll hear them discuss everything from financial realities facing today's young adults to the emotional impact of pushing (or not pushing) kids out of the house. The hosts break down common misconceptions, such as the idea that kids are automatically ready at 18 or assuming that birth order or biological connection determines readiness. They even roleplay typical conversations (with humor and honesty) to illustrate the complicated dynamics at play. Listeners will learn: Why “just move out at 18” isn’t always realistic or fair for stepkids The importance of planning, open communication, and leading rather than pushing How economic realities have changed since Lori and David were young Practical strategies for preparing kids for independence, including decision-making tools and honest conversation No special guests join this episode—it's all the witty, relatable wisdom you’ve come to expect from Lori and David. Love the show? Visit for more resources, join the Nacho Kids Facebook group, and follow Nacho Kids on Instagram and Facebook. If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, or share with someone navigating the blended family journey! Nacho Kids Podcast—real talk, real families, real solutions.
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352: Apartnering Because Of Stepkid
02/27/2026
352: Apartnering Because Of Stepkid
Get ready for a powerful and deeply honest conversation in Nacho Kids Podcast Episode 352! This week, our returning guest Laura, a stepmom from Oklahoma, shares her emotional journey navigating difficult stepfamily dynamics, personal boundaries, and the realities of "apartnership" - staying married while living separately. Tune in to hear Laura provide a raw behind-the-scenes look at what led her and her husband to start living apart, including challenges with her teenage stepson, navigating sensitive situations, and the struggle for support and understanding in her marriage. Lori dives deep, asking the tough questions about why Laura chose to stay and work on her marriage despite major obstacles, and together, they discuss how stepfamily life creates unique struggles and growth opportunities. Listeners will gain insights into: The complexities of stepfamily relationships and boundaries How personal safety, mental health, and resentment play roles in blended family life Why living apart can sometimes bring clarity and healing The importance of communication, therapy, letting go of control, and self-care How to avoid the comparison trap when it comes to other stepfamilies Don’t miss Laura’s candid takeaways and tips for struggling stepmoms, along with relatable, real-life confessions from the host, Lori. This episode is a valuable listen for anyone in a blended family or considering alternative ways to nurture their relationship.
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351: Losing Yourself In The Blend
02/20/2026
351: Losing Yourself In The Blend
Feeling lost in your stepfamily journey? In Nacho Kids Podcast episode 351, Lori and David get real about what it’s like to lose yourself in the chaos of blending families, and how to find your way back to “you.” In this deeply relatable conversation, Lori opens up about her personal experience of losing her sense of self after joining families with David, taking on new roles, and navigating quadrupled responsibilities. David shares insights from a male perspective, highlighting the common pitfalls of stepfamily roles and why both partners can end up feeling like strangers to themselves. Together, they break down how cultural expectations, communication gaps, and a lack of boundaries can fuel resentment and exhaustion. You’ll learn: Why stepmoms (and stepdads) often feel “lost” in the blend How responsibility overload happens and tips to prevent it The importance of alone time, hobbies, and open conversations with your partner Real-life examples of boundary-setting, self-care, and mutual support Actionable advice to reclaim your happiness without guilt If you’re craving practical wisdom, moments of humor, and encouragement to put yourself back on your own priority list, this episode is for you.
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350: Your Partner Can Be The Problem
02/18/2026
350: Your Partner Can Be The Problem
Blending families isn’t for the faint of heart—and losing yourself in the process is all too common. Tune in as Lori and guest Jackie Faber get real about boundaries, guilt, and reclaiming your identity in stepfamily life. In this raw and relatable episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori welcomes former stepmom Jackie Faber to discuss what it’s really like to blend families, navigate unfair expectations, and fight back against the emotional traps that so many stepfamilies fall into. Jackie shares her personal story of discovering Nacho Kids, recognizing patterns of self-abandonment, and ultimately choosing her own well-being over staying in an unhealthy relationship. Listeners will learn: How stepmoms and stepdads often lose themselves trying to “do it right” in a blended family. Why resentment and guilt are so common, and how to recognize who’s really responsible for family problems. The difference between partner problems and parenting problems. The power of boundaries, self-care, and not letting others’ expectations dictate your happiness. Strategies for managing “fairness,” finances, and emotional labor in blended family life. How to communicate your needs (and why most of us were never taught how!). Eye-opening insights about stepfamily love, parental alienation, and not repeating unhealthy patterns from the past. Whether you’re in the trenches of a stepfamily or still considering blending, this candid conversation will help you find your way back to yourself.
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349: Valentine's Day Expectations
02/10/2026
349: Valentine's Day Expectations
Get ready for laughter, realness, and actionable advice as Lori and David tackle Valentine’s Day expectations and the tricky emotions that come with stepfamily living. In this episode, Lori and David dive into the emotional minefields of Valentine’s Day, discussing honest communication between partners and the importance of managing expectations, especially in blended families. You’ll hear their candid conversation about gift-giving ("Stop setting your partner up to fail!"), spontaneous acts of kindness, and why comparison can sabotage the holiday spirit. Topics: The importance of clearly communicating expectations with your partner (don’t set each other up to fail!) How perceptions and comparison impact kids, especially when one child gets a gift, and others don’t Why spending $150 on roses may NOT be the best way to show love, for anyone in your family Practical, budget-friendly ideas for celebrating and keeping family harmony, like the famous coupon book or sharing ice cream instead of overpriced cards Insights about childhood emotions, feeling included, and handling those tricky stepfamily holiday moments Relevant Links: Nacho Kids Podcast Website: Episode NKP349 Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and join the Nacho Kids community for more support and insights on stepfamily life!
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348: Successful Co-parenting
01/30/2026
348: Successful Co-parenting
In this powerful and deeply honest episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with Jon Bassford, author of The Co-Parenting Secret: It’s Not About You, to talk about what healthy co-parenting really looks like, and why most families are unknowingly doing it wrong. Jon shares his personal journey as a child of divorce, a father navigating two households, and a co-parent who intentionally chose cooperation over conflict. Together, they explore the realities of dual parenting vs. true co-parenting, the emotional toll high-conflict dynamics place on children, and how ego, resentment, and unresolved hurt often derail what’s best for kids. This conversation covers: • Why “co-parenting” often isn’t co-parenting at all • The difference between parallel parenting and collaborative parenting • How childhood divorce experiences shape adult parenting decisions • Why keeping the focus on the child changes everything • The power of accountability instead of blame • How healthy communication models emotional intelligence for kids • Creating a functional “village” even after divorce • Why showing up matters more than perfection • How to reduce transitions, meltdowns, and emotional overload for children Jon also explains how he and his ex-wife rebuilt their post-divorce relationship with intentionality, including maintaining respectful communication, consistent parenting standards across households, and involving extended family as part of a unified support system. This episode is a must-listen for: ✔ Stepparents feeling overwhelmed or sidelined ✔ Divorced parents struggling with communication ✔ Parents navigating 50/50 custody schedules ✔ High-conflict co-parenting situations ✔ Anyone wanting to protect their child’s emotional health If you’ve ever wondered whether peaceful co-parenting is truly possible, this episode proves that it is. Because when parenting becomes about the child instead of the adults… everything changes. 🔗 Resources Mentioned: • The Co-Parenting Secret: It’s Not About You — Jon Bassford • Website: jonbassford.com 🎧 About the Nacho Kids Podcast The Nacho Kids Podcast is dedicated to supporting stepparents and blended families through real conversations, real stories, and real solutions — all grounded in the proven Nacho Kids Method. Life really is better… when you Nacho. stepfamily, stepparenting, blended family, co parenting, coparenting after divorce, parallel parenting, high conflict coparent, divorce parenting, shared custody, 50/50 custody, parenting after divorce, stepmom support, stepdad support, nacho kids, blended family podcast, co parenting communication, healthy coparenting, child centered parenting, divorced parents
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347: Adult Stepkid Moves Back In
01/23/2026
347: Adult Stepkid Moves Back In
When an adult stepchild moves back home, many stepparents quickly realize that blending does not end at age 18, it simply enters a new phase. In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David talk candidly about what happens when adult children return home, sometimes with partners and young children in tow. What begins as a temporary plan to save money or regroup can quickly bring up anxiety, boundaries, and old blended-family challenges you thought were behind you. They discuss the emotional and logistical realities of shared households, including working from home with more people present, managing noise and schedules, and navigating the difference between biological-parent tolerance and stepparent tolerance. This conversation covers: • Adult stepkids moving back in • Why this stage can feel harder than early blending • Anxiety and resentment many stepmoms experience • Setting household expectations without creating conflict • Communicating boundaries without sounding controlling • Helping adult children without hurting your marriage • Why step-parenting does not end when kids become adults Many blended families are surprised to learn that step-parenting continues well into adulthood, especially in today’s economy, where housing costs and living expenses make independence more difficult for young adults. If you are navigating an adult stepchild moving back home, struggling with boundaries, or feeling overwhelmed by the impact on your marriage or peace, this episode offers an honest perspective and practical reassurance. Helping does not have to mean sacrificing yourself. Because life is good when you Nacho. step parenting, blended family podcast, adult stepkids, stepmom burnout, nacho parenting, blended family boundaries
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346: They Can Put Their Big Person Panties On
01/16/2026
346: They Can Put Their Big Person Panties On
When a stepchild hurts your partner, every instinct tells you to jump in and defend them, but that move often makes everything worse. In this episode of The Nacho Kids Podcast, we unpack what really happens when step-parents step in too fast, how quickly alliances flip, and why trying to “fix” the moment can turn you into the problem. We talk honestly about: Watching a stepchild disrespect or hurt your partner Why defending your partner can backfire How the target shifts from the behavior to you Why step-parents often feel more upset than the biological parent The danger of keeping score When stepping in can help and when stepping back is the healthiest move This conversation isn’t about bad kids or bad intentions. It’s about understanding blended family dynamics, emotional triggers, and how to protect your relationship without escalating conflict. Nacho isn’t about disengaging emotionally. It’s about disengaging from what was never yours to fix. If you’re a step-parent trying to balance boundaries, connection, and peace, this episode will help you see the situation differently and respond with clarity instead of reaction. Keywords: step parenting, blended families, step parent boundaries, co-parenting conflict, high conflict families, step parent burnout, Nacho Kids, family dynamics, emotional safety, marriage in blended families
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345: Some Blends Are Toxic
01/09/2026
345: Some Blends Are Toxic
In this lively episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and David dive straight into a wild story involving clogged toilets, dangerous chemical reactions, and a visit from the local fire department. Lori recounts her adventure with her friend Holley as they try to fix her dad’s clogged toilet, inadvertently creating chlorine gas by mixing household chemicals. The resulting chaos - fire trucks, EMTs, neighbors, and dad’s dark humor - serves as a hilarious reminder: don’t mix cleaning products! The hosts then shift the conversation toward stepfamily dynamics, exploring how emotional attachments shape responses to mistakes made by stepkids versus biological kids and close friends. Lori and David share personal anecdotes about household frustrations (think dirty dishes and leftover cereal boxes) and how they navigate daily stresses, especially with the anticipated return of David’s son and more family members moving in. Throughout the episode, there’s plenty of laughter, playful banter, and honest reflection on blending families, boundaries, and giving grace - even when someone leaves time on the microwave or a mess on the counter. The episode closes with a tongue-in-cheek debate about food, chores, and who really needs to stop eating - all in typical Nacho Kids Podcast fashion. Key Topics: When DIY plumbing goes wrong—chemical mishaps and calling 911 Differences in reactions to mishaps between stepkids, bio kids, and friends The rising stress of blended family living arrangements Household chores, boundaries, and comedic interactions between hosts Listeners get a healthy dose of humor, relatable stepfamily struggles, and a reminder that sometimes, all you can do is “nacho”—let go and laugh about it. Nacho Kids Testimony: "I no longer regret marrying my husband! Thank you Nacho!" ~ H.H., Montgomery, AL, USA
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344: Stepfamily New Year's Expectations
01/02/2026
344: Stepfamily New Year's Expectations
Kick off 2026 with laughter and real talk! In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David explore the powerful topic of expectations—why they trip us up, how to let go of what others “should” do, and how to build more peace and happiness in your blended family life. In this episode: Why expecting others to change (especially as a New Year’s resolution!) sets you up for disappointment How your personal stories, judgments, and baggage shape what you expect from others—and how to rewrite those scripts Practical advice on shifting your mindset, spotting unrealistic expectations, and finding the positive even in tough times The importance of controlling your own reactions and embracing ownership of your actions and mistakes Why social media and Hallmark movies might be sabotaging your happiness Exciting news about donated Nacho Kids Academy scholarships, courtesy of the amazing Sylvia Krakauer Nacho Testimony: "If it wasn't for Nacho Parenting, I'd be divorced... again!" ~ L.W., Canton, OH, USA
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343: Stepfamilies Can Change In The Blink Of An Eye
01/01/2026
343: Stepfamilies Can Change In The Blink Of An Eye
Looking for real talk on blended family challenges, New Year's resolutions, and actionable strategies for stepfamilies? In this episode, hosts David and Lori dive deep into stepfamily dynamics and why things can change in an instant. Whether you're a stepparent, parent in a blended family, or just seeking practical advice on setting and achieving goals, this episode delivers with wit, wisdom, and warmth. Episode Highlights: New Year's Resolutions & Why Most Fail: Learn why breaking goals into 90-day cycles (instead of year-long ambitions) leads to success. Psychology of Quick Wins: How seeing progress motivates stepfamilies, with lessons drawn from money management and video games. Realistic Blended Family Goals: Concrete ideas like reducing negativity and celebrating incremental progress. Building Relationships: Candid confessions on communication styles and maintaining healthy family or friendship connections. Acts of Kindness: The episode honors the memory of Ryan Webb by encouraging random acts of kindness in stepfamilies and communities. Tune in for practical strategies, relatable stories, and the trademark Nacho Kids humor as David and Lori help you navigate life's curveballs in a blended family. From paying off your car to learning how to "Nacho" the negatives, this episode is packed with inspiration to start your year strong - one bite-sized step at a time! Nacho Testimony: "The whole Nacho thing made no sense to me years ago when I heard about it. Now, years later, I am so thankful for this method and Lori & David! They saved my marriage!" ~ E.J., Pittsburgh, PA, USA
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342: That's Not Nachoing!
12/19/2025
342: That's Not Nachoing!
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts David and Lori dive into a deeply relatable and emotional topic: financial stress and holiday challenges in blended families. Lori reads a heart-wrenching post from their Facebook group about a listener struggling to provide Christmas gifts for her children due to unexpected medical expenses, while her fiancé has spent thousands on his own kids’ presents. The question at the core: Is this “nachoing,” or is it something deeper about the relationship itself? In this episode: Blended family finances Holiday stress for stepfamilies Nacho parenting boundaries Asking for help and community support Avoiding resentment between kids and partners Creative solutions to financial hardship The meaning of teamwork in blended families Managing unexpected expenses together Ethical giving and protecting your heart Nacho Testimony: Learning to Nacho was the best thing I ever did! It taught me so much about myself, our blend, and our marriage. I am so thankful for Nacho! ~ T.K., Washington DC, USA
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341: Sick Stepkids
12/12/2025
341: Sick Stepkids
In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, hosts Lori and guest David tackle one of the trickiest challenges in blended family life: what happens when the stepkids get sick? This episode dives deep into how co-parents and stepparents can navigate illness between households, keep communication open, and prioritize what’s best for the kids. In this episode: The impact of sick kids moving between households Communication strategies during illness Sticking to the court order vs. using common sense Special considerations for newborns and “ours” kids Documenting decisions and preparing for possible court ramifications Handling stepkids and bio kids during big events or vacations Setting expectations with your partner before kids get sick The difference between nuclear families and stepfamilies in dealing with sickness Grace, compassion, and the realities of co-parenting through illness Perfect for step-parents, co-parents, and anyone navigating blended families, this episode offers actionable advice, personal stories, and a dose of humor. Whether your concern is family court, protecting newborns, or just managing the stress of sick kids in a complex household, you’ll find something helpful here. Nacho Testimony: "Nacho parenting saved my life! I'm not kidding." ~ E.W., Atlanta, GA, USA
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340: Cell Phones Between Homes
12/05/2025
340: Cell Phones Between Homes
Is your blended family struggling with cell phone boundaries? NKP340 dives deep into the real challenges and solutions around kids, technology, and stepfamily life—don’t miss these actionable tips! In this insightful episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori & David tackle one of today’s hottest parenting topics: managing cell phones in homes where children move between parents. From hilarious Little House on the Prairie analogies to sobering stories of real blended family struggles, this episode offers a mix of laughter, practical advice, and must-know warnings. Listeners will learn: How cell phone rules can become battlegrounds between households, and ways to set clear boundaries before problems start. Pros and cons of monitoring apps like Life360, Faraday bags for privacy, and navigating who controls a child’s device and passwords. Why direct communication and trust (but verify!) are essential, and the vital role of bio parents in digital discipline. Eye-opening risks around online gaming, social media, sextortion, and the emotional impact of technology on kids. How to explain tech boundaries, and why every child—and family—may need different rules. Connect with the Nacho Kids Podcast: Website: YouTube: Facebook: Nacho Kids Academy Testimonial: "I was at my wits end. I hated my life. I joined the Nacho Academy out of sheer desperation. I wish I would have joined it sooner! It changed my life!" M.G. ~ El Paso, TX, USA
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339: Gifts Between Homes
11/28/2025
339: Gifts Between Homes
This week on Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive deep into the often sticky subject of gifts: where they go, who they belong to, and the emotional complexities when kids want to bring presents between homes. Whether your family is navigating joint custody, split holidays, or parallel parenting, this episode delivers smart advice and real stories that every modern blended family can relate to. Listeners will learn: The factors that influence whether gifts should travel between homes (cost, age, custody schedules) How withholding gifts can reinforce the sense of “two separate lives” for kids, and emotional fallout that comes with it Tips for setting clear expectations about gifts, including guidelines for expensive presents and clothing The pitfalls of competitive gift-giving between parents and how to keep the focus on your child Alternatives to physical presents, like sharing memorable experiences instead Why “guilty parent syndrome” can drive us to replace lost or broken items, and why letting kids learn consequences is often healthier Relevant Links: Learn more about Nacho Kids: Join the Nacho Kids Academy: Connect on Facebook: Subscribe and never miss an episode: YouTube: If this episode resonates with you, subscribe, leave a review, or check out the full Nacho Kids Method on to join the conversation and gain more support in your blended family journey!
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338: I Don't Love My Stepkids
11/21/2025
338: I Don't Love My Stepkids
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337: I'm Not Buying The Stepkid Christmas Presents
11/14/2025
337: I'm Not Buying The Stepkid Christmas Presents
Holidays in a blended family don’t have to be stressful! In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori and David dive into real-life stories and practical tips on how to navigate gift-giving, family traditions, and finances during the holiday season as a blended family. Listeners will learn how to handle common issues like kids comparing presents, managing in-law expectations with step-grandkids, and avoiding “gift competition” between households. Lori and David reveal their own strategies for dividing up gift responsibilities, setting realistic gift budgets, and creating flexible holiday traditions that don’t revolve around a specific date, but focus on making lasting memories together. You’ll also pick up clever ideas for dealing with uneven schedules, supplementing grandparent gifts, and why sometimes it’s okay to buy your own present and wrap it up! Lori and David share plenty of personal experiences and advice every blended family can relate to. Don’t miss their heartfelt take on giving back during the holidays and the importance of gratitude, even when things aren’t “Hallmark perfect.” Tune in for laughs, thoughtful insights, and a powerful reminder: Christmas is about the love and memories you create, not just the gifts you give. Enjoyed the show? 👉 Subscribe, leave a review, and check out more resources at 👉 Join the Nacho Kids Academy to get even more support for your blended family Nacho Kids Academy Testimony: "The Nacho Kids Academy was the best investment we ever made for our marriage!" ~ L.H., Aurora, IL, USA
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336: I'm Not Leaving My Stepkid Nothing In My Will
11/07/2025
336: I'm Not Leaving My Stepkid Nothing In My Will
In this candid and often humorous episode, Lori and David pull back the curtain on their personal lives, sharing the challenges and surprises that come with caring for aging parents, navigating wills and inheritance in blended families, and keeping family drama at bay during important occasions. Listeners will hear firsthand stories about planning for final arrangements. Complete with amusing tales of funeral shopping and “drive-thru” ideas. Plus, what it truly feels like to manage adult responsibilities amid the ticking clock of family health issues. Lori and David also discuss crucial estate-planning differences for stepfamilies versus nuclear families and share insights into handling complex inheritance scenarios fairly. You’ll learn: Why legal planning is especially important in blended families How to open difficult conversations about wills, power of attorney, and inheritance Ways to “nacho” family drama (and why you should!) Real-life examples of guilt, responsibility, and the art of letting go Episode #336 – Subscribe, leave a review, and share with someone who needs encouragement through their own family journeys! Nacho Academy Testimonial: "I had no idea how hard this stepfamily crap would be. We needed help and weren't afraid to admit it. David & Lori really put things into perspective and gave us hope again! Three years later, we are still Nachoing and it's great! Couldn't have done it without them!" ~ J.U., Denver, CO, USA
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335: Parenting Adult Children - Catherine Hickem
10/31/2025
335: Parenting Adult Children - Catherine Hickem
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334: That Family Law Guy - Daniel Ryan - Part 2
10/24/2025
334: That Family Law Guy - Daniel Ryan - Part 2
Discover the complexities and real-life challenges of stepfamilies navigating Family Court, with heart and humor! In this episode, Lori continues her chat with UK attorney, Daniel Ryan, for an honest, insightful conversation you won’t want to miss. This episode dives deep into the emotional and financial obstacles stepfamilies face in Family Court, especially around child custody, parental alienation, and child support. Daniel Ryan shares details about his innovative Family Court Mastery course - launching soon to guide people through the daunting legal process, even without representation, and in multiple languages for diverse communities. You’ll hear real stories of parents’ struggles, heartbreaking cases, and surprising gaps in the legal system that affect both moms and dads. The discussion also highlights the importance of compassion, fair legal access, and how resources like stepfamily coaching and educational courses can change lives. Whether you’re facing your own family court battle, supporting a loved one, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of the system, this episode offers practical advice, expert perspective, and a touch of humor. Expect candid talk about the realities behind attorney fees, the impact of court decisions on children, and the crucial need for trustworthy legal and emotional support. Learn more: Nacho Kids: (stepfamily resources & coaching) Nacho Kids Academy - Learn to Nacho Properly! Family Court Mastery info: Stay tuned for launch details! Guest: Daniel Ryan, UK attorney & Family Court Mastery creator Subscribe to the Nacho Kids Podcast, leave us a review, and join the Nacho Kids community for more support and practical solutions for your stepfamily journey!
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