Couples Coaching with Natalie Clay

Of all the emotions you can choose to feel, love feels the very best! In this podcast, I'll share practical tools to help you develop emotional self-reliance and improve your marriage—even if your spouse isn't open to the process! We'll also spend time with real couples—to gain insights from each partner—as they work to implement these life-changing concepts in their own relationships. I love these coaching tools and have experienced more happiness in my personal and married life because of them. I look forward to sharing this journey with you!

77. Ann & Bruno 02/09/2024

77. Ann & Bruno Today hear my session with Ann and Bruno, as we talk through how to navigate marriage when someone decides to stop going to church. Schedule a consultation: Get coached on the podcast: /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/29867218

76. Sharon & Jake 02/02/2024

76. Sharon & Jake Marriage provides such a great opportunity for personal growth. And there are no shortcuts! Today you’ll hear my discussion with Sharon and Jake as they share their process of growth. Schedule a consultation: Get coached on the podcast: /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/29766083

75. Gabrielle & David 01/25/2024

75. Gabrielle & David Communication is the number one thing people come to me for help with. Listen in as I coach Gabrielle and David on how to improve communication in their marriage. Schedule a consultation: Get coached on the podcast: /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/29644258

74. Cassandra & Todd 01/19/2024

74. Cassandra & Todd If you ever wonder why the smallest tiff can sometimes turn into a big fight, today's episode is for you. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/29557018

73. Lynn & Lloyd 01/11/2024

73. Lynn & Lloyd It's easy to get caught up in who's right and who's wrong when we encounter a different approach to problem solving. Today you'll learn an easier, more honest approach where you can both be right and still support each other. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/29437688

72. Marriage Prep 05/09/2023

72. Marriage Prep Hello! It's been far too long! I'm excited to post the conversation I recently had with Jody Moore (Better Than Happy) on her podcast. We had a great talk about my new Marriage Prep course. Hope you tune in! /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/26793762

71. Butter Your Macros 09/30/2021

71. Butter Your Macros Today I’m excited to introduce you to Heidi Bollard and Natalie DuLaney of Butter Your Macros. I had the privilege of going on their podcast and I’m sharing it here with you today. These incredible women provide coaching for nutrition, weight loss and stress management. They are incredible at what they do and they are all around lovable women! If you’re looking for help with your health, I can’t recommend them enough! Head to www.butteryourmacros.com to learn more! /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/20653988

70. Bonnie & Clyde 09/23/2021

70. Bonnie & Clyde In my experience, most people truly desire happiness for their spouse and find that even more fulfilling than getting everything they want. So why do we feel such an intense need to have things our way? Bonnie and Clyde provide us with a key insight to help answer that question. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/20580380

69. Karen & Kai 09/02/2021

69. Karen & Kai Shame and blame are inseperable. But understanding this—and doing the work to eliminate personal feelings of shame—can transform a marriage. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/20345636

68. Nicole and David 08/26/2021

68. Nicole and David A shared religious faith often helps couples more closely align their values and goals. How does a couple navigate a marriage where one partner no longer believes? /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/20267690

67. Angelina & Brad 08/19/2021

67. Angelina & Brad It can feel intense to make important decisions that impact our marriage or family. Clarity comes when we remember to keep our personal values front and center. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/20128628

66. Mandy & Scott 08/12/2021

66. Mandy & Scott What determines equal contribution in a marriage relationship? And what are the results of trying to sort this out—for the marriage and individually? /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/20114444

65. Christine & John 08/05/2021

65. Christine & John The way our parents raised us informs the way we raise our own children. Couples often have strong, and markedly different, opinions on how it should be done. Today, I coach Christine and John on this issue. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/20039852

64. Noelle and Dale 07/29/2021

64. Noelle and Dale Want to love your spouse more unconditionally but not sure how to get there? The answer may surprise you. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19963343

63. A Marriage as Unique as You 07/22/2021

63. A Marriage as Unique as You We often cause ourselves unnecessary stress and pain trying to mold our marriage to fit unspoken standards of what constitutes a “good” marriage. What if we instead create a marriage that fits the uniqueness of the people in it? /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19890122

62. Margot & Ryan 07/15/2021

62. Margot & Ryan In sometimes large, but often small and subtle ways, we set ourselves up to fail when we shame ourselves in an attempt to become who we think we should be. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19814774

61. Ann & Tommy 07/08/2021

61. Ann & Tommy “Love languages” is a term I frequently hear from my clients. Today I speak with Ann and Tommy as they learn how to navigate their differing styles and use this information to best love themselves and each other. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19742729

60. Meaghan & Jake 07/01/2021

60. Meaghan & Jake Am I frugal or a spender? What value do I place on each description? Each of us has deep-seated ideas on how money should be made, saved or spent. Today I talk with Meghan and Jake about their different values regarding money. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19667066

59. Elle & Jared Rowley 06/24/2021

59. Elle & Jared Rowley This week I sit down with Elle and Jared Rowley to talk about how they have used the principle of taking care of their own needs to thrive within the demands of a marriage, four children and a successful business. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19588940

58. Shawn and Juliette 06/17/2021

58. Shawn and Juliette What story do you tell yourself about your marriage? Learn how to rework that story and watch your marriage improve! /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19503827

57. Resisting Emotion 06/10/2021

57. Resisting Emotion Resisting emotion is the quickest way to go from feeling bad to worse. Today I discuss when to change your thoughts and when to allow yourself time to feel bad. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19418135

56. Snap Judgments 06/03/2021

56. Snap Judgments We think we know each other so well, but just as often judge wrongly as we do right. But right or wrong, what you believe about your spouse’s character or intentions is what you’ll find. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19278653

55. The Obvious Solution That Doesn’t Exist 05/27/2021

55. The Obvious Solution That Doesn’t Exist We’re great at identifying the simplest solution to disagreement. But when the solution involves molding our spouse’s viewpoint, our easy answer becomes nearly impossible. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19257689

54. Sara and Jack 05/20/2021

54. Sara and Jack When things are rocky in our relationships, we can decide that changing ourself to meet our spouse’s expectations will fix things. Does it? /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19173719

53. Marie and Spencer 05/13/2021

53. Marie and Spencer Jobs and kids and the general stresses of life can sometimes make us feel that we are in a business partnership instead of a marriage. Today I coach Marie and Spencer. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/19093697

52. Belle and Paul 02/02/2021

52. Belle and Paul For many of us, small day-to-day life challenges over time can bring more stress to our marriage than major events. Today I coach Belle and Paul—newlyweds who are facing the realities of joining their lives together—and offer them tools that can lessen the stresses of daily life. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/17794568

51. Emotional Abuse 12/18/2020

51. Emotional Abuse I often get asked how to differentiate between unkind words and emotional abuse. In today's episode I discuss this with my Psychiatrist, Dr. Karl Martineau, to show how this topic is handled from the coaching and counseling perspectives. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/17240951

50. Heartbreak 09/26/2020

50. Heartbreak Whether dating or married, the loss of a relationship can be excruciating. Today I offer some ways to navigate the darkness of heartbreak. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/16167671

49. Margaret and Robinson 09/18/2020

49. Margaret and Robinson Opposites do attract. But sometimes, after marriage, our differences can feel more challenging than entrancing. Today I coach Margaret and Robinson on how they can effectively navigate a key difference in their marriage. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/16058951

48. Redefining Romance 09/11/2020

48. Redefining Romance The modern view of romance includes a whole lot of entitlement. Ridding ourselves of these expectations will help us develop true romance in our marriage. Let’s discuss. /episode/index/show/natalieclay/id/15977024

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