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#27 Afraid of Being 'Judgmental'? Why Your Children Need Your Guidance
04/17/2025
#27 Afraid of Being 'Judgmental'? Why Your Children Need Your Guidance
š„ Join the Studio: https://hifam.com/studio while doors are open (and get EARLY BIRD pricing while it lasts) "Who are you to judge?" - the phrase paralyzing parents everywhere. I used to tiptoe around my own values, terrified of being labeled "judgmental." But here's the uncomfortable truth: if YOU don't guide your child's moral compass, TikTok and their peers will. This isn't about control. It's about inheritance. In this episode, I expose the dangerous myth of "neutral parenting" and give you 5 powerful ways to confidently guide your children without becoming the dictator you fear. Your child doesn't need a chauffeur who stays silent on life's biggest questions. They need a coach who's cracked the code on building a meaningful life. The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion by Jonathan Haidt -
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#26 Raise a Kid Who Won't Rebel (3 Steps)
04/15/2025
#26 Raise a Kid Who Won't Rebel (3 Steps)
š„ Join the Studio: https://hifam.com/studio while doors are open (and get EARLY BIRD pricing while it lasts) š„ Get the accompanying PDF for this video: https://hifam.com/rebel-pdf Is teenage rebellion really inevitable? What if everything we've been told about modern parenting is actually CAUSING the problem? Controversial truth: children aren't rebelling against boundariesāthey're rebelling against the LACK of them. As a mother of five, I've discovered why today's "hands-off" parenting approach is backfiring spectacularly. Yetā¦ What's the alternative? Why do some teenagers naturally resist peer pressure while others fall for every trend? In this video I share a powerful 3-step approach that transforms how your children view your guidance. The secret isn't controlling your kidsāit's building something they genuinely want to be part of. Curious how to become the trusted guide your family needs? Listen now to discover what modern parenting experts won't tell you.
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#25 Luxury Hauls, iPad Kids, Consumerism, Entitlement and Materialism
04/10/2025
#25 Luxury Hauls, iPad Kids, Consumerism, Entitlement and Materialism
š„ Get the Reclaim Play Course here: https://reclaimplay.com/course (so you're kids are busy playing independently instead of on screens)! š„ Join the Studio: https://hifam.com/studio while doors are open (and get EARLY BIRD pricing while it lasts) Is it even possible to avoid materialism in today's world? Or are we trapped in a cycle that's turning our children into entitled consumers? "Why can't I have it? You never buy me anything!" "This is boring already." "Is that all I'm getting?" Sound familiar? These phrases haunt parents everywhere, leaving us wondering: Where did we go wrong? Why does nothing ever seem enough? I analyzed dozens of viral "what I got my child" TikTok hauls and saw why even loving, well-intentioned parents are creating a generation that struggles with gratitude. "Maybe if I get them this ONE more thing, they'll finally be happy..." "Am I a bad parent if I don't buy what their friends have?" "Why does Christmas joy fade so quickly now?" These thoughts aren't your failure - they're symptoms of a larger problem affecting families across all income levels. Whether you're drowning in toy clutter, exhausted by constant "I wants," or just trying to raise kids with healthy values in a materialistic world, this episode offers practical wisdom without judgment.
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#24 How to Teach Kids Common Sense and Values
04/09/2025
#24 How to Teach Kids Common Sense and Values
š„ Join the Studio: while doors are open (and get EARLY BIRD pricing while it lasts) Get the FREE Accompanying Worksheet - Ever notice how some of today's most popular parenting advice leaves you feeling more uncertain and your kids more entitled? What if there's a more effective way to raise resilient children who actually listen? As a mom of five, I've been thereātrying all the "right" techniques but still struggling. This episode is for every parent who's tired of walking on eggshells in their own home. This will challenge everything you thought you knew about modern parenting. Don't miss itāthis could be the parenting breakthrough you've been searching for.
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#23 iPad Moms & Unlimited Screens ā Why Parents Are Choosing Tablets
04/03/2025
#23 iPad Moms & Unlimited Screens ā Why Parents Are Choosing Tablets
"I don't restrict screen time so my kids aren't obsessed with it." "I don't like limiting my kids from anything." "It helps them self-regulate." These popular claims are spreading rapidly across social media. But does removing limits actually create more balanced children, or is it simply a convenient way to avoid difficult boundaries? In this episode, I examine the flawed logic behind the "no limits" approach and what screen use actually does to developing brains. I explore: - Why the "forbidden fruit" theory about restrictions doesn't hold up to scrutiny - The false equivalence between screen time and food restrictions - The uncomfortable truth about why many parents avoid setting boundaries - What research actually tells us about screen time's impact on development - The alternative solution most parents aren't aware of (that doesn't involve screens OR constant parent attention) Beyond trends and convenient solutions lies the truth about what children truly need to thrive. I offer practical alternatives that benefit both overwhelmed parents AND developing children - no guilt, just better options. ____________________ š Ready to help your child play independently for HOURS without screens? Get my play course: š Transform your family culture with like-minded parents in The Studio - where we tackle real challenges with evidence-based solutions:
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#22 10 Things I Still LOVE About Gentle Parenting
04/01/2025
#22 10 Things I Still LOVE About Gentle Parenting
Many parents are walking away from gentle parentingāand for good reason. Our children lose the boundaries they need to thrive when it morphs into permissiveness. But in our rush to correct course, we risk losing what made this approach valuable in the first place. In this episode, I share 10 treasures from gentle parenting that transformed my relationship with my five childrenāprinciples worth preserving even as we move toward a more balanced approach. These elements create children who feel both loved and capable of meeting life's challenges. This isn't about parenting dogma. It's about discernmentātaking what works and leaving what doesn't. Join me for this honest conversation about creating a family culture that prepares children for a meaningful life. __________________ Ready for balanced parenting? Join The Studio waitlist for personalized guidance on combining connection WITH boundaries -
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#21 Controversial Dating Advice I'll Give My Kids
03/27/2025
#21 Controversial Dating Advice I'll Give My Kids
In a world of hookup culture, casual sex, and dating apps, what relationship advice will actually serve our children well? While many parents avoid these uncomfortable conversations altogether, I believe our children deserve real guidance about dating, relationships, and marriage. They need more than just 'follow your heart' or 'do whatever feels right.' In this honest discussion, I share the dating advice I'll give my own children as they enter their teen years. Drawing from both traditional values and practical wisdom, I cover: - The fundamental purpose of dating (and why 'just for fun' might be setting them up for heartbreak) - The surprising benefits of marrying younger rather than waiting for perfect 'readiness' - Why involving family and friends in relationship decisions is actually wise, not old-fashioned - The hidden costs of casual relationships that most dating advice ignores - How to maintain personal independence while building a strong partnership This isn't about imposing restrictive rules or outdated thinking. It's about equipping our children with the tools to build meaningful, lasting relationships in a culture that often treats commitment as optional and marriage as outdated. Whether you agree with my approach or have a completely different perspective, this conversation matters. Our children need more guidance, not less, when navigating today's confusing relationship landscape. ____________________ Ready to create a family culture that values commitment? Join the Studio waitlist at and start building the foundation your children need for healthy relationships. Stop waiting to develop relationship skills. Join the Married U waitlist at and learn to build a thriving partnership. Books mentioned: The Case Against the Sexual Revolution by Louise Perry ( A New Guide to Sex in the 21st Century: The Young Adult Adaptation of 'The Case Against the Sexual Revolution' by Louise Perry ()
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#20 The Readiness Trap: Donāt Raise Procrastinators and Perfectionists
03/25/2025
#20 The Readiness Trap: Donāt Raise Procrastinators and Perfectionists
Are you stuck in the 'I'm not ready yet' cycle? Watching your child hesitate before every new challenge? Waiting for that perfect feeling of readiness that never quite arrives? This persistent trap keeps parents delaying important transitions and Gen Z postponing adulthood altogether. With 52% of young adults still living with parents into their 20s and 30s, something has clearly shifted in how we approach life's milestones. In this episode, I share: - The surprising truth about readiness (and why it's often just an excuse) - How some parenting approaches could have created a generation afraid to act without perfect preparation - The critical difference between real developmental barriers and self-imposed limitations - Practical steps to break free from the perfectionism that keeps us and our children small From potty training a 5-week-old to challenging conventional wisdom about when children are 'ready' to read, sleep independently, or take on responsibility - discover how taking bold action creates the growth that waiting never will. If you're ready to stop waiting for ready and create the family culture you've always wanted, join me in the Studio at . And discover how play naturally encourages children to challenge themselves and grow with my Reclaim Play course at . Stop waiting for the perfect moment - true progress happens in the doing, not in the preparing.
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#19 10 Skills Every Child Needs in an AI World
03/19/2025
#19 10 Skills Every Child Needs in an AI World
Have your kids started asking ChatGPT for homework help? Are they creating AI art instead of drawing? Or maybe you're wondering what skills will actually matter in their future when technology seems to be advancing at warp speed? As artificial intelligence becomes increasingly integrated into our daily lives, parents are navigating uncharted territory. While some see unlimited possibilities, others wonder how to prepare children for a world that might look dramatically different from our own. But what if we could raise our children with confidence rather than confusion about this technological shift? What if we could equip them with skills that will remain valuable no matter how advanced AI becomes? In this practical episode, you'll discover: - Why balancing online and offline experiences is more crucial than ever - Ten essential skills that will remain valuable in an AI-dominated world - How to harness AI as a parenting tool while protecting your child's development - The mindset shift that transforms technological anxiety into optimism This isn't about rejecting progress or living in fearāit's about raising adaptable, creative children who can thrive alongside technology rather than compete with it. Learn how to prepare your children for a future that looks dramatically different from our present, while preserving what makes them uniquely human. _________________ Feeling overwhelmed by the pace of technological change? Join thousands of parents in The Studio at who are creating family cultures that balance technology with timeless human skills.
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#18 The true cost of luxury beliefs
03/13/2025
#18 The true cost of luxury beliefs
Are "luxury beliefs" destroying family values? Rob Henderson exposes how elite intellectuals critique the nuclear family without experiencing its consequences. From foster care to Harvard, he reveals a shocking double standard: those benefiting most from traditional family structures are often the first to undermine them. In this discussion, let's challenge the modern narrative that "all family structures are equal" and explore the real-world impact of these convenient, consequence-free beliefs. Discover how virtue signaling hurts the most vulnerable in society. ___________________ Ready to provide your children with moral clarity? Join us at to develop confident, value-driven parenting.
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#17 Is AI Ruining Our Kids Future? Interview with Daniel Schreiber
03/11/2025
#17 Is AI Ruining Our Kids Future? Interview with Daniel Schreiber
What skills will your child need in a world where AI can do everything from writing essays to providing therapy? As a parent, you're likely wondering: should I be terrified or thrilled about raising children in the AI revolution? In this in depth conversation with AI expert Daniel Schreiber, we dive deep into how artificial intelligence is transforming our world faster than most parents realize. While it's easy to dismiss AI as 'just another tech trend,' the reality is far more consequential for your child's future. You'll discover: - Why AI isn't just changing jobsāit's fundamentally redefining what it means to be human - The surprising truth about which careers will survive (and which won't) in the coming decade - Why your child's relationship with AI could be more important than their grades - The four critical skills parents must nurture that AI can never replicate - How family life may become more central to our identity than careers ever were This isn't about fear-mongeringāit's about practical preparation for a future arriving faster than we think. Learn how to help your child thrive in a world where AI handles the mechanics, leaving humans to focus on meaning, relationships, and purpose. _________________ As AI transforms careers, family becomes more central to identity and fulfillment. At The Studio membership (https://hifam.com/studio), I'll show you how to create the strong family foundation that gives your children the resilience, creativity, and purpose they'll need in an AI-powered world. What questions do you still have about preparing your children for a world with advanced AI? Drop them in the comments and let's continue this important conversation!
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#16 Does Gen Z Have Identity Crisis? 4 Ways Parents Can Help
03/06/2025
#16 Does Gen Z Have Identity Crisis? 4 Ways Parents Can Help
'Am I a dog boy or a cat girl today?' might sound like innocent play for a 5-year-old. But when teens are seriously asking this question - and expecting the world to validate whatever answer they give - we need to pay attention. The internet has created a marketplace of identities where our children shop for labels, diagnoses, and micro-communities that make them feel special. But at what cost? In this episode, I explore: - The fundamental differences between Gen Z identity formation and previous generations - How online communities fragment rather than unite our children - Why 'loafing' and self-diagnosis are replacing character development - Four practical strategies to help your child develop a stable, meaningful identity This isn't about judging - it's about understanding what's really happening and equipping you with concrete strategies to help your child develop a stable core identity in a world pushing them toward constant reinvention. __________________ Want to protect your child from harmful identity trends without rejecting them? The Studio at https://hifam.com/studio provides the exact framework I've used with thousands of families to build the strong family culture that becomes your child's identity foundation.
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#15 Are You an Anxious Parent? 5 Steps to Emotional Freedom
03/04/2025
#15 Are You an Anxious Parent? 5 Steps to Emotional Freedom
Are you constantly running worst-case scenarios in your head? The racing thoughts that keep you up at night... the endless scrolling for reassurance... the persistent feeling that something bad is just around the corner. It's become normal to move through life in a perpetual state of worryābut what if anxiety isn't actually mandatory? As parents, we've been sold the idea that anxiety is just part of modern life. But what if we could parent from a place of steady confidence instead of constant fear? What if we could model emotional stability rather than emotional fragility for our children? In this episode, you'll learn: - Why anxiety has become our cultural default setting (and how to opt-out) - The five practical steps that transformed me from crippling PTSD to calm leadership - How to replace anxious "what if" spirals with vision-focused thinking - The identity shift that makes anxiety-resistance your new normal It's not about denying real challengesāit's about facing them with a backbone instead of a breaking point. Learn how to become the calm, confident leader your family needs, especially during life's storms. It's time to bring back simply being 'okay' - comfortable in your skin, capable of handling what comes, and modeling real resilience for your children. Anxiety-free parenting isn't just possibleāit's trainable. Join thousands of parents in The Studio at who are learning to replace worry spirals with clear planning, future vision, and unshakeable mental strength.
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#14 Physically Aggressive Children and How to Reclaim Your Authority
02/27/2025
#14 Physically Aggressive Children and How to Reclaim Your Authority
"My 7-year-old punched me in the face this morning. My 5-year-old kicked me in the chest. I've tried EVERYTHING." Imagine waking up every day dreading the battle just to get your kids dressed for school. You've given them more love, more toys, more treats than you ever had... yet they respond with violence and disrespect. What's gone wrong? The answer might shock you. It's not about what you're GIVING them. It's about what you're not EXPECTING from them. In this raw episode, I reveal: - Why 'doing everything right' might be creating the very problem you're fighting - The missing half of the parenting equation most gentle parenting advice ignores - How to establish authority without resorting to physical discipline - The captain-of-the-ship approach that works even during life's storms This isn't about blameāit's about reclaiming your power. Because when you shift from doormat to captain, your children aren't the only ones who transform. Ready to take back the helm? Join the Studio at https://hifam.com/studio to learn my complete system for balancing expectations with support. Transform from victim to captain and raise children who respect boundaries without losing connection.
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#13 5 Steps How to Handle Eye Rolling and BackTalk
02/26/2025
#13 5 Steps How to Handle Eye Rolling and BackTalk
"Eye rolls. Sarcasm. Door slams. Backtalk." How often have you felt that knot in your stomach when your child speaks to you with blatant disrespect? That moment when you've modeled respectful communication explained expectations clearly, and stayed calm... yet they still throw your efforts back in your face with contempt. You know you deserve better treatment. You know other families don't struggle with this level of disrespect. So why do your attempts to address it feel so ineffective? What if the gentle parenting movementāwith all its beautiful wisdom about connection and empathyāhas left you without practical tools for handling disrespect? As a mother of five, I've discovered that mainstream parenting advice completely falls short when it comes to teaching children how to be respectful. It tells us to model respect (which is important!), but offers virtually nothing for what to do when that modeling isn't mirrored back. In this episode, I reveal: - The foundation that most parents are missing - The critical difference between demanding respect and commanding it - How your tone and delivery might affect your parenting - The exact language to use when addressing disrespect in the moment - Why mastering your triggers is essential This isn't about returning to harsh, authoritarian parenting. It's about finding that sweet spot between warm connection and clear leadership that helps your children develop into respectful individuals who will thrive in relationships and society. ___________________ Ready to command respect instead of begging for it? Join thousands of parents in The Studio where I teach the complete framework for family leadership. Join the waitlist at and transform how your children respond to you. Is your emotional reactivity undermining your parental authority? Join the Alchemize waitlist at to master your triggers and become the unshakable leader your family needs.
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#12 The Problem with 'Gentle' Parenting Advice
02/22/2025
#12 The Problem with 'Gentle' Parenting Advice
These viral parenting tips are everywhere - but I think they're missing the point. While TikTok's telling us to just 'hold space' and never set boundaries, I'm here to say what everyone's afraid to: our kids need more than just endless empathy. I'm breaking down the most popular parenting advice by women on TikTok and sharing why I think we're headed in a concerning direction. Let's talk about what our children really need to thrive. ____________ Ready to Lead your Kids with Both Strength & Heart? Join The STUDIO Waitlistā
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#11 The Truth About Gentle Parenting: What Actually Works With Toddlers
02/20/2025
#11 The Truth About Gentle Parenting: What Actually Works With Toddlers
"Hands are not for hitting," "Make good choices," "Are you ready to be nice?"... You're saying all the right phrases but.... your child acts like you're not even there. Or the situation just gets worse! As a mother who's been through every parenting trend, I've discovered why 'gentle parenting' often leaves us feeling more frustrated than ever. You're doing everything the books say - staying calm, offering choices, using all the "correct" phrases. So why does it feel like you're just providing background music to your child's meltdown? What if the very tools we're using to be more gentle are actually making it harder to be effective parents? In this episode I reveal: - The hidden reason your carefully chosen words might be making tantrums worse - Why filming our parenting for social media is changing how we respond (and not in a good way) - The crucial difference between being present and being a narrator - When to step in, when to step back, and how to do both with confidence - The simple shift that transforms you from commentator to leader This isn't about abandoning gentle parenting principles. It's about combining compassion with clear, decisive action to help your children feel secure. _____________ Master confident parenting at
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#10 How to Get Your Kids to Listen Without Repeating Yourself
02/18/2025
#10 How to Get Your Kids to Listen Without Repeating Yourself
'Just listen to me!' How many times have you heard yourself say those words today (in your head or out loud)? That frustrating moment when you're asking nicely (for the hundredth time), offering choices (like all the parenting books say), negotiating, explaining, pleading... and your child still acts like they can't hear you. You know you're making reasonable requests. You know other kids can do this. So why does 'put your shoes on' turn into an epic power struggle? What if everything we've learned about getting kids to cooperate is actually making it harder? As a mother of five, I've discovered that modern parenting advice about 'gentle choices' might be missing something crucial. In this episode, I reveal: - Why modern parenting's favorite tools might be undermining your authority - The simple shift that transforms resistance into cooperation - How to combine warmth with clear leadership - Exactly what to say to get results (without the battle) From morning routines to bedtime battles, these practical strategies will transform how your children respond to requests.This isn't about harsh discipline or blind obedience. It's about finding that sweet spot between gentle parenting and clear leadership that helps your children thrive. Learn the exact framework I use to get cooperation without constant negotiation. Join me in The STUDIO, where I teach parents how to create the strong family culture they dream of. Join The Waitlist:
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#9 'Don't Be Your Child's Friend' - Top TikTok Dads Right or Wrong?
02/17/2025
#9 'Don't Be Your Child's Friend' - Top TikTok Dads Right or Wrong?
Men's viral parenting advice on TikTok: harsh truth or outdated thinking? Watch as I break down these controversial takes on authority, friendship, and trust in modern parenting - and why the answer might lie somewhere in between. __________________ Be The Leader of YOUR Family -
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#8 THIS is Threatening Modern Marriage
02/14/2025
#8 THIS is Threatening Modern Marriage
When shocking relationship headlines go viral, they often miss the bigger picture. As a marriage coach and mother, I'm seeing concerning trends that threaten our understanding of love and commitment. But there's hope. In this episode, I break down: - How modern messaging shapes relationship expectations - What they mean for future generations - The impact of social media on intimacy - How to create a marriage worth modeling Join me for an honest discussion about protecting and strengthening the relationships that matter most. In a world of disposable relationships, your marriage can be different. __________________________ Check out in Married-U to discover how to build the kind of deep, lasting love that impacts generations. I'll show you exactly how to create a relationship worth modeling - one that gets better with time. Transform your marriage:
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#7 Why The TradWife Movement Is Misleading Women
02/13/2025
#7 Why The TradWife Movement Is Misleading Women
The "tradwife" trend has taken social media by storm - but is there more to this movement than frilly aprons and homemade sourdough? From viral TikToks of perfectly styled homemakers to Instagram reels of luxury housewife routines, we're diving deep into what's really behind this fascinating internet phenomenon. Is it a genuine return to traditional values, or something entirely different? Join me as we unpack the aesthetics, the authenticity, and the real implications of this trending lifestyle choice. Whether you're intrigued or skeptical, this video might surprise you... ________________________ Ready for a real, lasting marriage beyond the trends? Visit #Tradwife #Marriage #Relationships
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#6 The Common Marriage-Killing Habit (orange peel theory, anyone?)
02/11/2025
#6 The Common Marriage-Killing Habit (orange peel theory, anyone?)
Are you constantly looking for proof that your partner really loves you? Itās time to stop testing your marriage and start trusting instead! The viral Orange Peel Theory has exposed a habit many of us do without realizing: testing our partners to see if they measure up. But what if these subtle relationship tests are actually harming our connection instead of strengthening it? In this episode, I reveal: ā
Why we feel compelled to test our relationships ā
How testing creates the insecurity we fear ā
A mindset shift to stop testing your marriage and build real trust ā
How to build an unshakable bondāwithout the ātestsā If you want to stop testing your marriage and start building a love based on certainty, not constant proof, this video is for you. š Want a marriage built on trust, not tests? Get the exact framework in Married-U. Start here:
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#5 Stop Lecturing: Use This Parenting Secret Instead
02/04/2025
#5 Stop Lecturing: Use This Parenting Secret Instead
For thousands of years, parents have used one powerful tool to shape their children's values, build their resilience, and inspire their growth - without ever raising their voice or giving a lecture. This ancient wisdom, nearly forgotten in modern parenting advice, has helped cultures pass down their most important lessons for generations. Today, I'm sharing how to harness the transformative power of storytelling to influence your children in ways that lectures never could. In this video, you'll discover: - The ancient framework behind every powerful story - How to use personal stories to build confidence - Why family history matters more than you think - The secret to embedding values without resistance Plus, I share a real example of how I used this method to help my son overcome his fear of swimming. This isn't just about bedtime stories - it's about creating lasting change in your family through the timeless art of narrative. _________________ Create a family story worth passing down. Join me in The STUDIO to learn how to build a meaningful family culture that lasts. ā https://hifam.com/studio
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#3 Raising Healthy Masculine Men | 10 Things Modern Parents Forgot
01/21/2025
#3 Raising Healthy Masculine Men | 10 Things Modern Parents Forgot
Raising boys in today's world is complicated. Between mixed messages about masculinity and conflicting cultural expectations, many parents feel lost about how to nurture their sons' natural strengths while teaching them to become good men. In this controversial but necessary video, I'm sharing 10 unconventional strategies I use to raise strong, capable, and morally grounded boys. As a mother of four sons, I'll reveal: - Why certain 'old-fashioned' approaches might be exactly what our boys need - The crucial balance between physical confidence and emotional intelligence - How to encourage healthy masculinity without toxic messaging - The often-overlooked skills boys must learn to become capable men - Why protecting our sons too much might be holding them back Whether you're raising boys or just interested in the future of masculinity, this video offers a fresh perspective on what our sons really need to thrive. ____________________ Ready to raise strong sons in a world that's trying to soften them? In The STUDIO, I'll show you exactly how to build a family culture that nurtures healthy masculinity while teaching real leadership. And because your marriage is your sons' first model of how men should treat (and be treated by) women, you might also want to join us in Married-U, where you'll learn to create the kind of partnership that teaches by example. Get started: š The STUDIO Waitlist: š Married-U Waitlist: Hi Fam Youtube Channel - What's your biggest challenge in raising strong, masculine boys in today's world? And which of these 10 points hit home for you? Share your experience in the comments below! š #raisingboys #masculinity #boymom #hifam
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#2 Childhood Trauma - Are We All Just Messing Up Our Kids?
01/14/2025
#2 Childhood Trauma - Are We All Just Messing Up Our Kids?
"I'm probably traumatizing my kids..." How many times have you caught yourself thinking this? If you're constantly walking on eggshells, worried that every parenting mistake might leave lasting damage, you're not alone. But what if this hyper-awareness of 'trauma' is actually the real problem? As someone who has personally overcome severe clinical PTSD, I'm sharing a perspective-shifting truth about childhood resilience that most modern parenting advice gets completely wrong. In this raw, honest episode, I reveal: Why labeling everything as 'trauma' might be hurting our kids The surprising science behind childhood resilience How to distinguish between real challenges and actual trauma A powerful mindset shift that will transform how you parent This isn't another "be more gentle" lecture or guilt-inducing advice. Instead, I'm sharing why our obsession with protecting our children from every discomfort might be creating the very thing we're trying to prevent - and what to do instead. ________________________________ Stop second-guessing every parenting move. Inside The Studio, I'll show you how to create a family culture that builds resilience naturally - without the guilt, fear, or endless worrying about 'traumatizing' your kids. Get on The Waitlist today - Useful Links: Bad Therapy: Why the Kids Aren't Growing Up by Abigail Shrier Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters by Abigail Shrier Hi Fam Youtube Channel -
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#4 10 'Controversial' Ways I'm Raising a Feminine Daughter
01/09/2025
#4 10 'Controversial' Ways I'm Raising a Feminine Daughter
In a world pushing girls to 'be anything,' we might be missing something crucial about femininity. As a mother navigating today's cultural messages, I'm sharing 10 controversial (but necessary) approaches to raising healthy, confident feminine girls. In this episode, I'll reveal: Why certain 'old-fashioned' ideas might actually empower our daughters The dangers of modern body image messaging How to celebrate femininity without limiting potential The crucial balance between protection and independence Why some popular parenting advice might be hurting our girls This isn't about holding girls back - it's about giving them the freedom to embrace their authentic selves in a world that often sends mixed messages. _________________________ Ready to raise feminine daughters in a world that's trying to redefine womanhood? In The STUDIO, I'll show you exactly how to build a family culture that celebrates authentic femininity while nurturing true strength and character. And because your marriage is your daughter's first model of how women should be treated (and treat others), you might also want to join us in Married-U, where you'll learn to create the kind of partnership that teaches by example. Get started: š The STUDIO Waitlist: š Married-U Waitlist: Hi Fam Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@HiFamLife
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#1 End Evening Chaos With Kids (5 Life Changing Strategies)
01/07/2025
#1 End Evening Chaos With Kids (5 Life Changing Strategies)
'Your kids just... knew what to do next. They moved through the whole routine perfectly!' That's what our new babysitter said after handling bedtime with our FIVE kids. No chaos. No resistance. Just a peaceful flow into dreamland. In this episode, I'm sharing the exact framework that transformed our chaotic evenings into a peaceful wind-down ritual. These aren't just tips - they're life-changing mindset shifts that help create the stable, nurturing environment our children crave at bedtime. You'll discover: How to create a sleep-inducing environment without the power struggles The surprising pre-bedtime ritual that changes everything Why sending your child to bed angry might be more significant than you think The sacred opportunity hidden in every goodnight kiss Whether you have one child or five, these proven strategies will help you reclaim your evenings while giving your children the peaceful bedtime they deserve. _____________________________ Join the Hi Fam Membership - Useful Links: Recommended books, toys, and more - Hi Fam Youtube -
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#34 Why Some Women Are Completely Opting Out of Dating and Marriage
12/18/2024
#34 Why Some Women Are Completely Opting Out of Dating and Marriage
What happens when women decide to opt out - not just from dating or marriage, but from nearly every interaction with men? Imagine a movement where women refuse to make eye contact with men, support male-owned businesses, or even acknowledge men in social settings. This isn't speculation - it's the 4B movement, which began in South Korea and is now gaining traction in America. This movement is transforming personal choices about relationships and family into radical political statements. What drives women to make such extreme lifestyle choices? How did a movement born from economic disparity in South Korea evolve into an American expression of political protest? Through personal experience and thoughtful analysis, this episode examines what this tells us about modern family life, gender relations, and the growing divide between men and women in our society. Join me for a raw, unfiltered exploration that challenges us to think deeply about relationships, family dynamics, and the future of family structures. Whether you agree or disagree with its premises, understanding this phenomenon helps us better grasp - and perhaps shape - the evolving landscape of modern family life. ______________________ Want to build a family life of connection and joy rather than disconnection? Join The Studio, where thousands of parents are creating meaningful family cultures through proven habits.
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#33 Beyond Victimhood: How to Help Your Children Stay Strong When Life Isn't Fair
12/03/2024
#33 Beyond Victimhood: How to Help Your Children Stay Strong When Life Isn't Fair
How do we raise children who may objectively be victims, without developing a victim mindset? In this deeply personal episode, I explore this complex question that carries meaning far beyond any specific group or circumstance. Whether your child faces bullying, medical challenges, family difficulties, or discrimination - this conversation offers powerful mindsets to help them develop resilience while honoring their experiences. Drawing from my personal experiences and family wisdom, I dive into practical strategies for allowing children to feel their genuine emotions while not letting hardship become their defining story. Learn how to help your children maintain their sense of joy, develop pride in their achievements (rather than circumstances), and transform challenges into opportunities for growth. Join me for this thoughtful exploration of building strong character and family culture in the face of adversity. Because while we can't always control what happens to us, we can control how we respond and who we choose to become. _________________________ Want to dive deeper into creating a meaningful family culture and raising children with strong values - , where parents come together to develop the leadership skills needed to build extraordinary families.
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#32 How To Have Judgment Without Being Judgmental
04/23/2024
#32 How To Have Judgment Without Being Judgmental
In a world where the mere mention of judgment can spark controversy and shame, it's easy to lose sight of its essential role in our lives. There's a crucial difference between being judgmental and exercising sound judgment, yet the fear of judgment has led many to forsake their ability to discern, blurring the lines between criticism and discernment. Join us as we navigate this delicate balance, uncovering why it's vital not to shy away from judgment but instead to embrace it as a cornerstone of wisdom. And perhaps most importantly, why giving the gift of good judgment to our children is an invaluable tool for them in navigating life's complexities with clarity and compassion. __________________ Build the Family of Your Dreams and Become the Leader of Your Family (hifam.com/studio)
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