Primal King Podcast
Derek Wilson walked away from a 6-figure salary, sold his dream home and started over with his young family in rugged central Idaho to save the family ranch after his father's death. Building his new life revealed the simple but effective shifts in mindset that anyone can access to create a life they love in ANY circumstance. Derek's podcast and interviews help countless others reframe their perspective about what happiness and success look like in 3 key areas: Liberation (recognizing and breaking free from a lack of fulfillment), Lifestyle (living with intent instead of by default), and Legacy (building change that lasts).
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Why "Nice" Guys Really Do Finish Last...As They Should
12/01/2023
Why "Nice" Guys Really Do Finish Last...As They Should
If you have ever heard the saying that "nice guys finish last" you probably think it's because they are getting pushed over by the "mean guys." What if that wasn't the case at all? What if the goal is to NEVER become the nice guy at all? In this episode, Derek reflects on a conversation that he recently had that made this point crystal clear and how he was the "nice guy" in a situation that really came back to bite as it almost always does. Although our culture may try to convince you that being a nice guys (or gal) is something we should all strive for, it's not true and it's also not biblical despite what your pastor or teacher may tell you. If you've fallen into that nice guy situation or if you always wonder why it seems that you aren't getting the respect that you should, this is a must listen!
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Are You A Modern Day Slave?
11/19/2023
Are You A Modern Day Slave?
Slavery is a thing of the past, right? Well, maybe not... If the definition of slavery is to be owned by someone else, what would it be called to be owned by SOMETHING else? So many of us are owned by debt or a mortgage or a relationship that forces us to not be able to be truly free. Would that be called a slave? In this episode, Derek dives into how so many of us are living in a modern day, self imposed slavery. We are forced to live and to act and to speak in a way that is not that of a free person because we are owned by so many outside forces. How do we get out of it? Make sure to listen to this episode and share it out so we can end this modern day slavery as soon as possible!
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You're Going To Have To Become An EXTREMIST!
11/10/2023
You're Going To Have To Become An EXTREMIST!
When you hear the word "extremist," you probably think BAD, right? Our society has villainized extremes and perhaps rightfully so...however, what does it take to actually become the best of the best? Is it balance? Is it passiveness? What WILL actually allow you to climb the mountain? That's right; it's becoming extreme about what you're looking to accomplish. Keep in mind that being the best at anything is not for most people and that is totally fine. Not everyone wants to have 6 pack abs or a 6 figure plus business but if you do, you most likely won't achieve it by being overly balanced and comfortable. That is a lie that too many of us believe. If you want to truly get the results that you haven't gotten before and if you truly want to achieve greatness in any area of life, make sure to listen to the evolution that Derek has had when it comes to this topic!
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When Did You Lose Your Purpose and How Do You Get It Back?
11/03/2023
When Did You Lose Your Purpose and How Do You Get It Back?
In the Western world, we have moved to a society of consumers and less and less, producers... There was a time that most people could take pride in what they do and what they create. We could take pride in the land that we own or the things that we make or create but that time has come and gone. We have replaced our purpose with the promise of "stuff" to make us happy but it is having the exact opposite effect that we think it will. If you're wondering why you aren't feeling like you are living your purpose, in this episode Derek goes through why he believes this is happening on a mass scale and also what you can do to change it!
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Former NFL Head Coach Tom Cable-Finding Mastery
10/27/2023
Former NFL Head Coach Tom Cable-Finding Mastery
Tom Cable has coched football at every level; High School, College and Professional over the past 30+ years. What was it that allowed him to have continued success and rock solid relationships with his players? Love. Whether you are a business owner or a peewee coach, respect is earned and players and employees will go much harder for those that they respect and love. How is it that you go about that though when it's much easier said than done? In this episode you'll not only learn what it's like to be at the highest of highs (such as winning a Super Bowl) but also the dark valley after a gut-wrenching loss as well as what it takes to get your team to truly buy into your vision and execute at a level of mastery. Make sure to tune into the "Finding Mastery Podcast" coming out on Nov 22 if you loved hearing from Coach Tom Cable!
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Just Win Today
10/20/2023
Just Win Today
It's easy to get in a rut and wonder why it's happening. How many times have you or someone you know gotten to a point and asked "how has my life gotten to this point?" If you were given a crystal ball and could look into the future, you would see exactly how everything will go. However, there isn't a crystal ball. But...what if there are actually is the next best thing to being able to see directly into the future? In this episode Derek will break down exactly how you can get a glimpse of what your life will look like in the future with precise accuracy and it's actually much easier to see than you might think. If you want to be the "fortune teller" of your own life, this episode will lay it all out...
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You AREN'T The Minority...
09/22/2023
You AREN'T The Minority...
This episode is a little different but the mission will always be to help you live a better life... This week Derek reads an article written by the biggest newpaper in the state of Idaho that is attacking a small town football coach for his beliefs. This article hits very close to home seeing that Derek has been coaching high school football for 15 years and also puts his opinions out through his podcast and social media platforms. When a small, fringe group of people have the loudest microphones, it will seem like your values are outdated. It may even seem like you are the extemist...but you aren't. Derek is using this different style of episode to encourage everyone that enough is enough. We've had enough of people being cancelled for stepping out of line. We are tired of people being fired for having beliefs that aren't considered "mainstream" enough. We are tired of self-censoring for fear of retribution. If you are feeling the same way as Derek and are tired of the craziness going on, please share this episode!
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Let's Talk About Feelings...
09/15/2023
Let's Talk About Feelings...
If you have ever thought that Derek doesn't talk enough about feelings, this is your episode! Okay, maybe he isn't going to talk about feelings the way that you think...but more about how we should be dealing with our feelings. If you're like most, you have at some point said the words "I don't feel like doing that today." In fact, nearly every one of us has used the way that we feel to justify doing or not doing what we know we need to. We've used the way that we feel to justify our decisions. Everyone, at one point or another, has used our feelings as an excuse. What if our feelings are actually a lie? What if our feelings are actually what is holding us back from taking the critical steps to live a better life? In this episode Derek breaks down his recent loss and how feelings played a critical role and how we can all make better choices regardless of how we are feeling.
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Break the Generational _______...
09/08/2023
Break the Generational _______...
After a weekend hunting trip, Derek reflects on some of the things that he wished were different with his childhood. We all have those things that we wish would have been different when we were kids. Some of us had parents that abused us yet we end up passing that same abuse on to our kids. Some of us grow up in poverty and raise our kids in poverty. The hunting trip Derek took with his son was a reminder that he never got to go hunting with his dad. There were circumstances that contributed to that fact and although there is no resentment, it's also an opportunity to make sure his son never says the same thing. This episode is a reminder to anyone out there with kids or even those that are considering having kids that everything about your "generational ____," can be changed by YOU!
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These People Hate Us...So Why Do We Listen To Them?
09/01/2023
These People Hate Us...So Why Do We Listen To Them?
Do you ever wonder why some decisions are made at the highest levels that not only may not help our country but actually hurt us? Derek had a conversation several years ago with a very wealthy man that gave a clue at that time why these things may be happening but he was too naive at that time to truly understand how that conversation could be connected to what we're all seeing today. This episode is quite a bit different than most and it's not meant to be depressing; it's meant to shine a light on what is going on and to be able to make the best decisions for our lives once we know exactly what (and who) we're dealing with.
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I'd Rather DIE Than Quit...
08/25/2023
I'd Rather DIE Than Quit...
Derek is fresh off a week long retreat and it opened up some insight as to why so many of us never reach the goals that we have... When is the last time that you were in a situation that you were so overwhelmed by physical and mental strain that you thought you were going to die? That happened to Derek this week. Are you curious why it seems like you haven't ever gotten to the point that you want in life and you'll see how you can shift your mindset to achieve nearly anything you could ever want!
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A Game of What If w/ Jess Wilson to Celebrate 200 Episodes!
08/04/2023
A Game of What If w/ Jess Wilson to Celebrate 200 Episodes!
It is the HUGE milestone of 200 episodes being published so it calls for some fun...right? In this episode, Derek has on everyone's favorite guest which also happens to be his wife, Jess, to play a game of "What If." -What if Derek's dad's situation hadn't happened the way that it did? -What if Derek and Jess didn't make the move that they did? -What if their decisions over the past 5 years negatively impact their kids? We all look back on pivotal times in our life and ask the question around "what if" but does it do any good? Not usually... However, in this milestone episode, Derek and Jess don't just play a game of "what if," they instead go through the lessons that they've learned that wouldn't have be able to be learned any other way than just going right through the sh#t. If you have struggled with past decisions and if the "what if's" are holding you back, this will be a great episode for you to listen to!
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Our Society Is Caving Into The "Big Dog Effect"
07/28/2023
Our Society Is Caving Into The "Big Dog Effect"
Have you ever wondered why it seems like most men in our society aren't nearly as strong as they used to be? Does it seem like most men don't have that fire, drive and conviction that those that came before us had? It's all due to the "Big Dog Effect." In this episode Derek tells a story about how his friend would ensure that his big dogs would never turn on them starting from the time they were young puppies; make them understand who the authority is and never let them forget. What may sound to some like animal cruelty is actually a highly effective way to make a dog or even an entire population of people be willing to submit. Once you listen to this talk about the "Big Dog Effect," it will become crystal clear what is happening in our culture and what we need to do in order to take our country back...
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Ron Lotti-Overcoming Childhood Trauma and Mission 22
07/22/2023
Ron Lotti-Overcoming Childhood Trauma and Mission 22
Ron Lotti had an very tough upbringing. He experienced everything from abuse to neglect and was ultimately left wondering if he even had a place in this world at all. He thought that the military could provide some of the structure and discipline that he so badly needed but after an unfortunate incident, even that proved not to work. So many people that would've ran into the amount of obstacles that Ron did not only at an early age but even throughout his early adult years would have probably ended up as another statistic...but not him. In this episode learn what Ron did to pull himself up, how a family was able to bring him in when he needed it and how a woman (and a new baby) changed not only his future but also his entire legacy!
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Take the Damn Trip!
06/23/2023
Take the Damn Trip!
How often do you feel guilty about taking a few days off to go do something fun? Do you ever feel like you "can't afford" to do the thing that you've been wanting to do? As Derek has gotten into his 40th year, he is starting to lean into the idea of experiences. Having responsibilities and obligations can make a marriage suffer and can also create distance between you and your kids if you aren't very intentional. After a conversation with a friend, this topic became very relevant. So often we make plans and then they never happen because we are just too busy or just too broke. We put off valuable experiences because we "shouldn't" do them. However, there will be a time for all of us when we look back and wish that we had just done it. If you are bogged down or feeling like you need a break but feel guilty about it, this is a must listen!
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Is Suffering...Helpful???
06/16/2023
Is Suffering...Helpful???
Derek had the opportunity to speak at the graduation ceremony for his local high school and the first point that he talked about was suffering. That same topic came up again when his daughter was struggling with some of her own issues. It may sound like a crazy question on the surface but...is suffering actually helpful? As humans, we are built to avoid pain and suffering at all costs. We buy all kinds of products that make our life easier but is that actually giving us a better quality of life? If you are going through a period of time where you or someone around you is suffering, make sure to check out this episode and share it with those that need to hear it. Suffering may actually be the BEST thing that you can go through...if you fully understand it.
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You Aren't Just Teaching Your Kids...
05/26/2023
You Aren't Just Teaching Your Kids...
Do you ever feel like everyday is the same? Does it seem like you have the same lifestyle, the same routine and mostly the same outcome? Do you end up telling your kids to just go away and play on the iPad or the gaming system? Everyone has tough days when they're raising kids. There are plenty of times when it seems easier to just let them get what they want rather than dealing with another temper tantrum. It could seem easier to just be their friend and not the authority that they need. Remember this...you aren't just teaching your kids. In fact, what you are teaching your kids is ultimately what they will teach their kids one day...and their kids one day...and on and on. It is really easy to get caught up in the day to day stress and lose sight that what we do and how we live is exactly what we are teaching our kids' kids one day. In this episode, Derek tries to get you to zoom out a little and see the real picture of legacy!
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Tim Meeks-How Hard Work and Humility Led to a Multi-Million Dollar Business
05/19/2023
Tim Meeks-How Hard Work and Humility Led to a Multi-Million Dollar Business
Tim Meeks grew up in Alabama very poor but he didn't let that stop him. Fortunately for him, although he was poor, he learned some of the most valuable lessons that will lead anybody to future success; hard work and humility. Although he was raised in a double wide trailer (and STILL lives in one right now despite running a multi-million dollar business) he didn't ever play victim to his circumstances. Instead, he went out and worked hard to get a good job, parlayed that into a startup business and then ultimately grew that business to a massive success. If you have ever thought that you weren't born with enough resources or that you just got unlucky with your circumstance, make sure to check out this episode because Tim shares a ton of knowledge and wisdom around how you can be an "anybody" and still have huge success!
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Focusing On THIS Is Killing Your Growth...
05/12/2023
Focusing On THIS Is Killing Your Growth...
In this episode, Derek dives into the age old debate about nature vs. nurture. With this conversation however, he takes a look at a VAST study that confirms what he thought to be true: it's about 50/50. What this data shows is that there are actually a lot of things we can't change...but there are just a little more that we can. Have you ever been critical of your height or how you look? Have you ever obsessed about wanting to be different but no matter how much you worry, nothing changes? We ALL have. This will be an episode that you don't want to miss because it will put the focus squarely back where it should be...on the things that we CAN change.
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Chad Felderhoff- Going From A Small Town to Being A BIG Entrepreneur
05/05/2023
Chad Felderhoff- Going From A Small Town to Being A BIG Entrepreneur
Chad Felderhoff grew up in a town of 1500 people and was working at his family business from a very young age. While most kids were off at the pool or playing, he was learning how to work and the value of a dollar. In our present culture, it seems like we don't value hard work or the "dirty jobs" like we used to. There used to be a ton of purpose and fulfillment created by working hard, earning money and providing for your family. Now, we would rather replace our blue collar jobs and businesses with automations and machines. Chad is the type of person that is the glue of our country. He grew up in a small town, he worked hard at some tough jobs, got his education and used it to learn enough to become a business owner where he now provides a ton of jobs for his community. This is the type of episode that you should consider sharing with the high school kids in your life. Rather than selling them the dream of getting a degree, getting that comfortable job and living just over broke until they retire, they can see how putting in the hard work early can change not only them and their family's lives down the road but can also impact a community by helping others as well.
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The Scribbles...
04/28/2023
The Scribbles...
After a trip to St. Louis for a business conference, Derek is sharing the biggest takeaway from the experience. Western culture doesn't focus on death very much. After all, it does seem pretty morbid, right? With that thought process being so pervasive in our culture, it can actually make it tough to see how we're living and how we'll ultimately be judged. Derek heard David Goggins share his vision about what happens when we die. It wasn't so much about the spiritual side of it but the reflective side that really made the impact. How will we look back on what we did and how we lived? Will we fulfill what it is that we were put here to do? Will we die being the best version of ourselves or will we be embarassed by what we could have done? These are just a few of the questions that Derek has been asking himself and will put to you on this massively impactful episode!
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Hard Work May Be Noble...But It's Not Enough
04/21/2023
Hard Work May Be Noble...But It's Not Enough
We all know work ethic is at an all time low which can be great for those of us willing to work. It means that we will always have a way to not only make money but do better than the average person who isn't willing to put in the work. However, you may be surprised to know that hard work will only take you so far and may only be sustainable for a short period of time before burnout happens. The question becomes this; what now? What if I'm not smart enough? What if I didn't get good grades in high school or college? What if I don't have all of the skills necessary? The good news is that there is ONE common trait that nearly ALL successful people have and it has nothing to do with anything God given or from your upbringing. Having this trait doesn't necessarily mean you will be successful in everything you do but not having it will almost guarantee failure in everything you do...
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An Easy Life Isn't What You Want...
04/14/2023
An Easy Life Isn't What You Want...
"Do not pray for an easy life. Pray to be stronger men." -JFK Aftrer a tough situation this week, Derek talks about the false hope that so many of us have for creating an easy life. An "easy" life shouldn't be what we pray for. The trials and difficulties we go through are what CREATES the good stuff. Derek also goes into the examples that everyone needs to be aware of when it comes to building a bigger business, owning a big piece of land, achieving a higher title or nearly anything else that is a big achievement: there will be people that want to take it from you and you have to be strong enough and possess enough wisdom to persevere. Whether you are in the beginning stages of your empire or near the top, this episode will serve as both a cautionary tale as well as motivation to keep going!
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Why Marriage Can Be VITAL To All Of Our Success w/ Jess Wilson
04/07/2023
Why Marriage Can Be VITAL To All Of Our Success w/ Jess Wilson
We wouldn't say that there is necessarily an attack on marriage in our current culture. However, there does seem to be a lot of glorifying the "hook up" culture that seems to paint it as so much more fun than committed relationships. This isn't some "marriage is the ONLY way someone can be happy" rant either. Derek and Jess wanted to advocate or at least exploring WHY marriage, although sometimes very difficult, is way more fulfilling than it is painted in silly shows like we see on TV. This episode is Derek and Jess' pitch on why marriage can be the optimal level of relationships if done properly. Yes, there are some ways to avoid pitfalls because a bad marriage can be equally destructive for our happiness and fulfillment. If you are younger and worried that you may be missing out by being in a committed relationship, don't be worried. If you are older and wonder if the grass is greener somewhere else, it probably isn't...
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We Are In The 4th Turning And What It Means For YOU...
03/31/2023
We Are In The 4th Turning And What It Means For YOU...
Whether we choose to learn history or not, it goes in cycles. It is often said that if you want to predict the future, you only need to look to the past. There is a book called "The Fourth Turning" that breaks this concept down and explains exactly why we are experiencing right now in our country. There are four turning points and the final one is "Crisis." We are living in that stage right now. If we are able to understand these cycles, it makes understanding how to navigate them much easier. We don't have to panic. We don't have to live in fear. We simply need to know how to navigate the time we are living through. In this episode Derek breaks down the predictable cycles that each generation experiences and lays out how to best handle what is headed our way. Don't be the person left wondering what happened...
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You Really Don't Control Much So Now What...
03/24/2023
You Really Don't Control Much So Now What...
We all hear things like "Control what you can control" but what does that actually mean? Right now the world seems to be throwing so much at us that it can be hard to even know where to put our energy and focus. We hear crazy news stories and it seems like things are spiraling out of control whether that be politics, current events, potential wars and so on. If we allow it to, these things will consume a ton of time and energy and leave us feeling helpless but as much as we may hate to admit us, there's very little we can do as individuals to fix it. On the other hand, there are very FEW things that we actually can control despite how hard we may try. We can't control the people around us. We can't control certain circumstances. However, these very few things that we can control are absolutely vital. In this episode, Derek walks you through his experience and his ongoing learning about how to focus on what is controllable. Hint: it's not much but if you realize what is controllable, it'll be an absolute game changer!
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Doing Your Best May Not Be Enough...
03/17/2023
Doing Your Best May Not Be Enough...
Have you ever done your absolute best but still failed? Most of us have... Typically we will say things like "I can hold my head up high knowing that I gave it my best" or "At least I left it all out on the field." However, what if those are nothing more than cheap one-liners that will never actually help us get results? Doing our best is one thing. It may even be admirable to see someone laying it all out and doing their best. If you want to truly win and have success it's not about doing your best; it's about doing what's required. Derek was inspired by a podcast he recently heard when this topic was brought up. Most of us will do everything we can in the moment to win and/or be successful but that's never what it's about; it's ALL about doing the things required to ultimately achieve that success. If you are struggling with your weight, your marriage or your results in general, this is an episode that you have to check out!
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What Is The ONE Key To Success AND Confidence?
03/03/2023
What Is The ONE Key To Success AND Confidence?
What comes first: confidence or success? Maybe the better question is does it make more sense to practice all of the hocus pocus ways of being more confident? (yes, there are "gurus" that teach this stuff) OR, does it make more sense to commit to only doing things that create success? If you have ever struggled with confidence or with having success you need to tune into this episode... What if there is a simple answer on not only how to have more confidence but how to also have more success-which breeds more confidence-which breeds more success and on and on. Listen to this ONE thing and go out and crush it!
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Where Is The Line Between Grace, Standards and Accountability w/ Jess Wilson
02/24/2023
Where Is The Line Between Grace, Standards and Accountability w/ Jess Wilson
Derek and Jess are back and ready to dive in on one of the hardest topics that many people ask themselves: where do I apply grace and compassion and where do I hold fast to my standards and remove myself or other people around me to stay in alignment? If you are a Christian, we are taught to love and forgive. However, there are also very strict standards that we are instructed to live by. Should we judge other people and their decisions and their choices? Should we always forgive because we are taught so much about forgiveness? Should we EVER seek harsh judgement against those that live outside of our standards? Many of these questions are being asked and dealt with right now. There is a movement toward cleaning up schools yet not discriminating. There is an effort to clean up crime but not lose compassion. This episode should, at the very least, give you some different thoughts and opinions on how to approach these very sensitive and controversial topics so you can make these decisions for yourself.
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Did The Super Bowl Have a VITAL Life Lesson???
02/17/2023
Did The Super Bowl Have a VITAL Life Lesson???
During this solo episode, Derek talks about how one team in the Super Bowl has achieved greatness and it may not be what you think... Most teams in the NFL as well as most people in general are extremely happy with "good." Most of us would think that life simply has two options: good or bad. However, what does it take to actually achieve greatness? If you have been feeling like you are stuck on "good" in your body, your marriage or relationships, your finances or any other area of life, you have to tune into this sports-meets-life edition of the podcast!
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