The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

The Rob Skinner Podcast will inspire you to: • Live a no-regrets life • Make this life count • Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches

362. A Christmas Thank You 12/23/2025

362. A Christmas Thank You Episode Title: A Christmas Thank You Host: Rob Skinner Scripture: 2 Corinthians 9:7 Episode Description: In this special Christmas message, Rob Skinner pauses to say thank you and wish listeners a very Merry Christmas. Reflecting on the true meaning of the season—Jesus, grace, generosity, and people—Rob shares his deep gratitude for everyone who has supported The Rob Skinner Podcast and the broader Go & Grow Ministry this past year. From moving to Boston to expanding the podcast, writing, teaching, and training leaders, Rob acknowledges how prayer, encouragement, and financial generosity have made it all possible. This episode is a heartfelt expression of appreciation for partners and supporters who are helping people grow closer to God, discover their purpose, and live a no-regrets life. Key Themes: The true meaning of Christmas Gratitude and generosity Cheerful giving and joyful faith Partnership in ministry Reflection on a year of growth and transition Vision and prayer for the year ahead Key Scripture: 📖 2 Corinthians 9:7 — “Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.” Special Thanks: Rob personally thanks supporters who have partnered financially in the ministry over the past year, recognizing named and anonymous donors for their generosity and faithfulness. Closing Encouragement: As the year comes to a close, Rob prays God’s blessing over listeners and their families—peace, joy, hope, faith, courage, and lasting impact—and thanks them for helping make this life count. Support the Podcast: Subscribe and share the podcast Learn more about Rob’s ministry and resources at RobSkinner.com Check out Rob’s book The 10X Christian on Amazon or his website Mission Statement: Live a no-regrets life. Make this life count. Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches. /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39462775

361. Jordan and Caryn McLeod: A Missionary Story of Faith, Family, and Perseverance 12/22/2025

361. Jordan and Caryn McLeod: A Missionary Story of Faith, Family, and Perseverance Episode Description In this powerful and deeply moving episode of The Rob Skinner Podcast, Rob sits down with Jordan and Caryn McLeod, longtime missionaries whose journey has taken them from New York City to Jerusalem, Cyprus, and back to the United States. Raised in Jewish homes, Jordan and Caryn share their personal faith journeys, how they became Christians, and what led them to leave everything behind to help plant the church in the Holy Land. They open up about cultural barriers, spiritual resistance, heartbreak, perseverance, and what it really takes to serve God in one of the most challenging mission fields in the world. This conversation goes far beyond missions—it’s about marriage, parenting, generosity, resilience, and learning to make your life truly count in every season. If you’ve ever wondered what faith looks like when it’s tested, stretched, and refined over decades, this episode will inspire and challenge you. In This Episode, You’ll Hear: Jordan and Caryn's conversion stories and Jewish backgrounds What it’s like to plant a church in Jerusalem from scratch Why faith in Israel requires a completely different approach The idea of “completion” rather than conversion for Jewish believers Cultural, religious, and emotional challenges of overseas missions How they stayed faithful during years of slow growth and discouragement Stories of God’s provision, generosity, and miracles Raising faithful children on the mission field Transitioning from full-time missions to family-focused ministry Advice for anyone who wants to live a no-regrets life Key Scriptures Referenced: Galatians 5:6 Hebrews (faith and perseverance themes) Acts (church planting and endurance) About the Guests Jordan and Caryn McLeod served for over a decade as missionaries in Jerusalem and Cyprus. They are parents of four children, many of whom are now serving in missions around the world. Their story reflects decades of faithful service, adaptability, and deep trust in God. Resources & Links Learn more about Rob Skinner: Get Rob’s book The 10X Christian on or Support the Podcast If this episode encouraged you: Subscribe to The Rob Skinner Podcast Share this episode with a friend Leave a review to help others discover the show Live a no-regrets life. Make this life count. Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches. /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39461995

360. "Don't Ever Lead Songs Again" 12/19/2025

360. "Don't Ever Lead Songs Again" 🎙️ Rob Skinner Podcast Faith Fails Friday “Don’t Ever Lead Songs Again” Series: Faith Fails Friday Host: Rob Skinner 📖 Episode Summary In this episode of Faith Fails Friday, Rob Skinner shares one of his most personal and painful faith fails — a moment that nearly ended his engagement to his future wife, Pam. While serving in San Jose at a park service with no song leader, Rob stepped in to lead the singing and preach. Afterward, he asked Pam what she thought, expecting encouragement. Instead, her honest response — “I think you shouldn’t ever lead songs again” — cut deeply and became a crossroads moment in their relationship. Through this vulnerable story, Rob reflects on the power of words, the difference between honesty and wisdom, and how careless speech can wound deeply — especially those we love most. Drawing from Proverbs 12:18, Rob challenges listeners to examine how they speak to their spouses, family members, and closest relationships, reminding us that words can either pierce like swords or bring healing. This episode is a reminder that faith fails don’t have to define us — they can shape us, mature us, and teach us how to build rather than tear down. 📌 Key Moments & Talking Points Serving at a park service in San Jose with no song leader Stepping in to lead songs and preach The honest comment that nearly ended an engagement Insecurity, immaturity, and learning to handle words wisely The lasting impact words can have on relationships How God used this moment to teach humility and growth Why we often speak more carefully to strangers than to those we love 📖 Scripture Highlight Proverbs 12:18 (NIV) “The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” 💡 Main Takeaway Your words matter — especially with the people closest to you. Honesty without wisdom can wound deeply. God calls us to speak in ways that heal, encourage, and build up, not tear down. Faith fails often reveal areas where God wants to mature us — in humility, communication, and love. 🧭 Application & Reflection Pay close attention to how you speak to your spouse or closest relationships Ask yourself: Would I say this the same way to someone I’m helping spiritually? Choose words that heal instead of words that pierce Let God refine your speech so it reflects grace, wisdom, and love 🙌 Support the Podcast If this episode encouraged you: Share the podcast with a friend Read and review Rob’s book “The 10X Christian” Available at or on 🎯 Rob’s Mission To inspire you to: Live a no-regrets life Make this life count Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches Have a great day — and make this life count. /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39404225

359. Why You Need a Christmas Plan 12/18/2025

359. Why You Need a Christmas Plan 🎄 Why You Need a Christmas Plan 📖 Episode Summary What if one simple habit could make your Christmas less stressful—and a lot more joyful? In this episode of The Rob Skinner Podcast, Rob shares a surprisingly spiritual and practical idea that transformed his family’s Christmas experience: having a plan. What started as a moment of desperation became a powerful way to reduce anxiety, increase peace, and protect joy during the holidays. Rob explains why planning doesn’t kill joy—it actually creates space for it—and how a simple Christmas plan can help your family relax, connect, and truly enjoy the season together. 🔑 Key Takeaways Why “What’s the plan?” is often an anxiety issue, not curiosity How a simple Christmas plan brought peace to Rob’s family Why planning actually protects joy instead of ruining it Biblical wisdom on planning and order (1 Corinthians 14:40; Proverbs 16:3) How forethought and preparation communicate love Practical ideas for building margin, flexibility, and meaning into your holidays Why you don’t need a perfect plan—just a helpful one 📖 Scriptures Referenced 1 Corinthians 14:40 – “Everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way.” Proverbs 16:3 – “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and He will establish your plans.” 🎄 Practical Challenge You don’t need an elaborate schedule—just a plan that serves people instead of stressing them out. This Christmas, create a simple plan that includes: Time for people Time for rest Time for service Time for joy And when someone asks, “What’s the plan?” — you’ll be ready. 📬 Want Rob’s Christmas Plan Template? If you’d like a copy of Rob’s family Christmas plan to spark ideas for your own, email him at: 📚 Support the Podcast If you enjoyed this episode: Subscribe and share it with a friend Check out Rob’s latest book, The 10X Christian, available at or 🎯 About the Podcast The Rob Skinner Podcast exists to inspire you to: Live a no-regrets life Make this life count Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches Have a great day—and make this life count. /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39457190

358. No One is Beyond Forgiveness 12/17/2025

358. No One is Beyond Forgiveness 🎙️ Episode Title: No One Is Beyond Forgiveness Scripture: Mark 3:28 📖 Episode Summary In this encouraging episode of The 10X Christian Podcast, Rob Skinner unpacks one of the most hope-filled promises Jesus ever made: “All the sins and blasphemies of men will be forgiven.” Many people believe God can forgive others but secretly doubt He could forgive them. Rob addresses that struggle head-on, explaining what Jesus meant in Mark 3:28 and clearing up confusion surrounding the “unforgivable sin.” This message offers reassurance to anyone carrying guilt, shame, or regret and reminds listeners that God’s grace is greater than any failure. If you desire forgiveness and want to be right with God, that longing itself is evidence that His Spirit is still drawing you closer. 🔑 Key Themes God’s forgiveness is complete and available to all Understanding Mark 3:28 and the meaning of “all sins” What the unforgivable sin really is — and what it isn’t Why longing for forgiveness is proof of God’s grace Letting go of shame and living forgiven 📌 Key Scripture Mark 3:28 (NIV) “Truly I tell you, people can be forgiven all their sins and every slander they utter.” 💬 Memorable Quotes “All means all — every sin, every failure, every mistake.” “A person can’t be forgiven if they refuse the One who forgives.” “If you want forgiveness, that’s proof you haven’t gone too far.” 🧭 Application Release guilt you’ve been carrying and come honestly to God Stop believing the lie that your sin disqualifies you Receive God’s grace instead of rehearsing past failures 🎯 Challenge If you’ve been holding onto shame or believing you’re beyond forgiveness, bring that burden to Jesus today. Pray honestly, receive His grace, and choose to live free. 🙌 Call to Action If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs to hear that no one is beyond God’s forgiveness. for daily faith-building encouragement and keep living a no-regrets life. /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39402585

357. What Makes You Come Alive? 12/15/2025

357. What Makes You Come Alive? 🎙️ Episode: What Makes You Come Alive? Scripture: Romans 15:17–20 Podcast: The Rob Skinner Podcast 📌 Episode Summary In this episode, Rob Skinner explores what it means to come alive in the calling God has placed on your life. Too many people ask, “What does the world need from me?” when the better question is, “What has God ignited inside me?” Drawing inspiration from John Eldredge’s famous quote and the passion-filled ministry of the apostle Paul, Rob challenges listeners to identify and pursue their God-given ambition—not for comfort, not for approval, but for purpose. If you’re feeling stuck, hesitant, or unsure of your next step, this episode will help you listen to the Spirit’s prompting and step boldly into the calling God has prepared for you. 🔥 What You’ll Learn Why coming alive spiritually is essential for making a kingdom impact How Paul’s ambition in Romans 15 shapes our understanding of calling The difference between playing it safe and following the Spirit How to identify what God has uniquely placed in your heart Why obedience to your calling leads to joy, courage, and fulfillment Practical steps to begin pursuing your God-given purpose today 📖 Key Scripture Romans 15:17–20 — Paul’s declaration of his mission and ambition to preach Christ where He was not known. 💡 Key Quote “Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” — John Eldredge, Wild at Heart 🧭 Application / Challenge This week, ask yourself: What has God placed in my heart that I’ve been ignoring? What makes me come alive spiritually, creatively, or missionally? What step of faith can I take—today—to pursue my calling? Give yourself permission to follow the Holy Spirit’s prompting, even if the path isn’t perfect or fully clear. God brings life to those who obey His call. 🙌 Support the Podcast If this episode encouraged you: ✔️ Share it with a friend ✔️ Subscribe for your 5-minute daily faith boost ✔️ Leave a review to help others find the podcast 🎯 About Rob Skinner Rob’s mission is to help you: Live a no-regrets life Make this life count Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39330450

356. Nick Kaplan: Mission Update Hungary 12/13/2025

356. Nick Kaplan: Mission Update Hungary Nick Kaplan: Mission Update Hungary Guest: Nick Kaplan Keywords: mission, Hungary, faith, discipleship, Revive Eastern Europe, cultural adaptation, church, spiritual growth, God, community Episode Summary In this inspiring episode, Rob sits down with Nick Kaplan, a recent college graduate who stepped out in faith and moved across the world to serve as a missionary in Hungary. Nick shares how God placed this calling on his heart, the unexpected affirmations that confirmed his decision, and the powerful ways he has seen God working through the Revive Eastern Europe program. Nick opens up about the challenges of crossing cultures, the beauty of Hungarian hospitality, and the spiritual growth he’s witnessed among the local church. He also offers practical encouragement for anyone feeling drawn toward mission work—reminding us all that God does extraordinary things when we simply decide to go in faith. Key Takeaways Calling Confirmed: Nick sensed a clear call from God to serve in Hungary—and received multiple confirmations along the way. Revive Eastern Europe: The program partners with existing churches to strengthen, support, and revive the region spiritually. Spiritual Growth: Nick has witnessed inspiring growth among Hungarian disciples and has seen God answer his prayers specifically and powerfully. Cultural Adaptation: Moving to a new country hasn’t been easy, but it has been deeply grounding and transformative. Hungarian Hospitality: Hungarians are warm, welcoming, and open to spiritual conversations. Youthful Church Culture: The church in Hungary has a strong, vibrant group of young disciples. Mission’s Impact: Nick believes stepping away to serve—even temporarily—can transform your faith and life. Final Encouragement: “Go in faith and trust God’s plan.” Sound Bites "I want to become this thing." "It's just been so inspiring." "Go in faith." Chapters 00:00 — Introduction to Nick Kaplan's Mission Journey 04:41 — The Call to Mission in Hungary 10:25 — Experiencing God's Work in Hungary 14:15 — Challenges of Adapting to a New Culture 18:04 — Life in the Hungarian Church 21:55 — Reflections on the Mission Experience 24:39 — Advice for Aspiring Missionaries 💬 Connect and Grow For books, blogs, podcasts, and resources to help you make this life count, visit 👉 If you’d like to support this program and help Rob continue his mission to multiply disciples, leaders, and churches, please consider buying him a coffee here: If you are interested in learning more about Revive Eastern Europe, contact Shawn at /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39376415

355. Locked out of Church 12/12/2025

355. Locked out of Church Friday Fail Series: Locked Out of Church Episode Title: Friday Fail Series: Locked Out of Church Host: Rob Skinner Podcast: The Rob Skinner Podcast 🎙️ Episode Summary In today’s episode of the Friday Fail Series, Rob Skinner cracks open the vault once again and shares one of his most unforgettable ministry mishaps — the day he got locked out of his own church on Neighbor Day. Freshly appointed as an evangelist, visitors driving in from miles away, rain pouring down, and a Korean memorial service happening inside… what could possibly go wrong? Well — everything. Rob walks through the chaos, the embarrassment, the steam literally rising from Pam, and the leadership lesson this moment taught him: Don’t freak out — it will get better. 🔑 Key Moments & Lessons • Newly appointed as an evangelist Rob sets the stage with enthusiasm, vision, and… an unlocked building that should be open. • Neighbor Day gone sideways Guests traveled from as far as Eugene — only to be greeted by locked doors and rain. • The Korean memorial conflict A perfectly timed (or mistimed) ceremony inside the building meant Rob and the mission team were stuck outside for five long minutes. • Pam’s reaction Let’s just say: if steam could measure frustration, the gauge was redlining. • Public apology Rob shares how he apologized to the mission team and what he learned as a young leader. • Scripture insight — Ecclesiastes 10:4 “If a ruler’s anger rises against you, do not leave your post; calmness can lay great offenses to rest.” (NIV) “If your boss is angry at you, don’t quit! A quiet spirit can overcome even great mistakes.” (NLT) This verse became a grounding reminder: calmness, not panic, leads to better leadership — even in the middle of a fail. 💡 Episode Takeaway Every leader has moments they wish they could erase. But faith, maturity, and resilience grow the most through embarrassment, mistakes, and unexpected challenges. Don’t freak out. Stay calm. It will get better. 📚 Resources Mentioned The 10x Christian — Get your copy at or on . 🙌 How You Can Support the Podcast If today’s episode encouraged or entertained you: Share it with a friend Leave a review Pick up a copy of Your support helps inspire more people to: ✔ Make this life count ✔ Live a no-regrets life ✔ Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches 🚀 Final Encouragement Thanks for listening today. Have a great day — and make this life count! /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39329220

354. The Great I AM is With You 12/10/2025

354. The Great I AM is With You The Great I AM Is With You Scripture: Matthew 28:20 The Rob Skinner Podcast | The 10X Christian In today’s episode, Rob Skinner shares an encouraging message about courage, calling, and the powerful promise Jesus gave His disciples: “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” — Matthew 28:20 If you’ve ever felt nervous, inadequate, or afraid while stepping out in faith, this episode will strengthen your confidence and remind you that you never walk alone. 🎙️ In This Episode Rob discusses: His first time leading a Bible discussion—and the fear that came with it Why Matthew 28:20 was the anchor that steadied him The connection between Jesus’ words and God’s name in Exodus 3 — “I AM WHO I AM” How the presence of the Great I AM empowers ordinary believers to do extraordinary things Why God’s presence—not comfort or ease—is His greatest gift to us A practical challenge to step boldly into whatever scares you right now 📖 Key Scripture Matthew 28:19–20 — The Great Commission Exodus 3:13–14 — God reveals His name: I AM ✨ Big Idea God doesn’t just send you— He goes with you. The same God who stood with Moses and empowered the first disciples stands with you in every challenge, calling, and step of obedience. 🔥 Highlights “I AM with you always” is more than comfort—it's power. Fear fades when you realize who is standing beside you. You don’t do the heavy lifting—God does. Courage grows when you trust the presence of the Great I AM. 🧭 Challenge for This Week Identify one thing in your life that scares you: ✔️ Sharing your faith ✔️ Leading a group ✔️ Starting something new ✔️ Having a hard conversation Then step into it—knowing you are not alone. 🙌 Support the Mission If this episode encouraged you, you can help by: ⭐ Subscribing to the podcast 📤 Sharing this episode with a friend 📝 Leaving a review 📚 Reading Rob’s new book ❤️ Supporting the ministry 🎯 About Rob Skinner Rob’s mission is to inspire you to: Live a no-regrets life Make this life count Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39324525

353. Make Yourself Available to God 12/08/2025

353. Make Yourself Available to God Make Yourself Available to God The Rob Skinner Podcast Episode Summary In today’s episode, Rob Skinner explores one powerful question that can transform your spiritual life: Are you available to God? Just like a phone line that’s busy or a message that goes unanswered, our lives can become so packed and distracted that God can’t reach us. Rob shares why availability—not talent—is often the key to being used by God. With biblical examples, practical insights, and a relatable message, this episode will help you slow down, create margin, and open your life to the opportunities God has already prepared for you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why God values availability more than ability How busyness and distraction can block God’s work in your life What Ephesians 2:10 reveals about your purpose How biblical figures like Isaiah, Mary, and the disciples made themselves available Practical ways to create margin for God to speak and move Daily steps to become more responsive to God’s calling Key Scriptures Ephesians 2:10 – “For we are God’s workmanship… prepared in advance for us to do.” Isaiah 6:8 – “Here am I. Send me.” Luke 1:38 – “I am the Lord’s servant. May it be to me as you have said.” Practical Takeaways Build intentional margin into your schedule Say “no” to some good things so you can say “yes” to God’s things Slow down enough to notice the people and opportunities around you Disconnect from digital distractions to reconnect with God Pray daily: “Lord, I’m available. Show me where to go.” This Week’s Challenge Create space in your schedule and your heart. Listen for God’s voice. When He calls—don’t be too busy to pick up. Say with Isaiah: “Here I am, Lord. Send me.” Support the Rob Skinner Podcast If this episode helped you grow, you can support the mission by: Sharing this with a friend Leaving a review on your podcast platform Sign up for Rob's newsletter on his scroll down About Rob Skinner Rob’s mission is to inspire you to: Live a no-regrets life Make this life count Multiply disciples, leaders, and churches /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39314880

352. Hostage Fail 12/05/2025

351. How to Pray Like It’s Already Done: Mark 11:24 11/24/2025

350. From Missionaries to Mentors: Don and Mie Lee’s Journey 11/22/2025

350. From Missionaries to Mentors: Don and Mie Lee’s Journey 💡 Episode Summary In this episode of The Rob Skinner Podcast, Don and Mie Lee share their inspiring journey of faith, love, and service. They talk about their conversions, cross-cultural marriage, and experiences as missionaries in Hong Kong and Japan. After retirement, Don and Mie felt called to return to mission work—this time in Eastern Europe, where they now serve in Bulgaria alongside younger disciples. Their reflections on aging, the desire to stay useful in God’s kingdom, and the joy of serving others offer timeless wisdom for Christians seeking to make their lives count. “We want to be useful again.” — Don and Mie Lee 🔑 Key Takeaways Don was baptized in 1976 and has been a Christian for nearly 50 years. Mie became a disciple while working as a Japanese diplomat in Jamaica. The couple met through mutual friends who “arranged” their meeting. Don’s time in the Boston church during its explosive growth deeply shaped his faith. The Hong Kong mission team grew from 17 members to over 2,000 in just ten years. Mie faced early cultural and spiritual challenges while serving in Japan. After retirement, they felt a renewed call to serve in Eastern Europe. Their work in Bulgaria focuses on mentoring younger disciples and strengthening local churches. They emphasize that no matter your age or stage of life, you can still be useful in God’s kingdom. 🕰️ Chapters 00:00 — Introduction to Don and Mie Lee 03:02 — Don’s Journey to Faith 04:24 — Mie’s Conversion in Jamaica 07:21 — Meeting and Marriage: A Cross-Cultural Love Story 11:37 — Mission to Hong Kong: Growth and Challenges 19:07 — Serving in Japan: Cultural Insights 28:45 — Life After Marriage: Seattle and Beyond 31:37 — Answering the Call to Return to Mission Work 35:28 — Why Eastern Europe? 38:25 — Life and Ministry in Bulgaria 47:30 — Encouragement for Future Missionaries 55:27 — Finishing Strong and Making Life Count 🗣️ Sound Bites “I want to make my life count.” “We can be useful again.” “It’s never too late to make a difference.” 🧭 Keywords missionaries, faith journey, cross-cultural marriage, church growth, retirement, Eastern Europe, Bulgaria, discipleship, service, personal growth, spiritual purpose 💬 Connect and Grow For books, blogs, podcasts, and resources to help you make this life count, visit 👉 If you’d like to support this program and help Rob continue his mission to multiply disciples, leaders, and churches, please consider buying him a coffee here: If you are interested in contacting Don or Mie about missionary work or anything related to the discussion, please email Don at 📲 Tags #FaithJourney #Missionaries #Inspiration #RetirementWithPurpose #Discipleship #EasternEurope #Bulgaria #ChristianLife #RobSkinnerPodcast #MakeYourLifeCount /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39022720

349. Don't Be a Solo Christian 11/21/2025

349. Don't Be a Solo Christian Episode Summary In this episode, Rob explores why the Christian life was never meant to be lived alone. Drawing from 2 Timothy 2:2, he unpacks the biblical blueprint for spiritual multiplication—Paul → Timothy → Reliable People → Others. Rob explains how real impact comes not from doing everything yourself, but from raising up others to carry the message forward. Rob also shares insights from leadership expert Carl George, reminding listeners that effective leaders accomplish work through people—not by doing everything themselves. Whether you're a ministry leader, a small group leader, or simply a believer wanting to grow, this episode will help you break the “solo Christian” mindset and embrace the 10X approach of multiplying disciples. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why following Jesus alone limits your impact How 2 Timothy 2:2 gives a four-generation model for disciple-making The difference between doing ministry and developing ministers Why multiplication—not solo effort—is the heart of the 10X life Practical steps for passing on your faith to others How investing in people creates long-term, generational influence Key Quote “The task is too great for one person. It is more important for the leader of a growing church to produce other leaders than to perform personal ministry.” —Carl George Application / Challenge Ask yourself: Who am I training right now? Who is learning from my walk with God? Who can I intentionally invest in this week? The 10X Christian doesn’t try to carry everything alone—they multiply their impact by raising others up. Listen & Share If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who wants to grow their faith and influence. How to Support the Rob Skinner Podcast If you would like to help support my mission to multiply disciples, leaders, and churches, click here: Learn More / Get Resources For books, blogs, podcast episodes, and more tools to help you grow spiritually, visit: 👉 And if you’ve read The 10X Christian, please consider leaving a review on Amazon—it really helps spread the message! /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39111925

348. Two Loves That Change Everything 11/20/2025

348. Two Loves That Change Everything Episode Summary In this episode, Rob unpacks one of the most powerful principles in the Christian life: two simple loves that can change everything—loving God and loving the person right in front of you. Drawing from 1 John 4:19–21 and a profound quote from missionary Eloy Cruz, Rob shows how these two loves form the core of a vibrant, authentic, and effective Christian walk. Discover how loving God shapes your character, how loving others reveals your devotion, and how everyday interactions become moments for God to work through you. This short, practical message will deepen your faith and sharpen your spiritual focus for the day ahead. Scripture 1 John 4:19–21 “We love because He first loved us. Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar… Anyone who loves God must also love their brother and sister.” What You’ll Learn The simple wisdom of Eloy Cruz’s two loves Why loving God and loving the person in front of you cannot be separated How real love shows up in ordinary interactions—baristas, coworkers, family How God’s love for you fuels your ability to love others Why every moment is an opportunity to reflect Jesus’ heart How 10X Christians multiply love one person at a time Key Insights You can’t love people “in general” without loving the actual person in front of you. Loving God expands your capacity; loving others proves your devotion. God doesn’t require a stage, microphone, or platform—just a heart open to love. Slowing down, noticing people, and valuing them transforms your day and theirs. Application / Challenge Who is God putting in front of you today? Slow down. See them. Encourage them. You don't have to fix their life—just help them feel seen, valued, and loved. That’s how 10X Christians change the world: one person, one moment at a time. Call to Action If this episode encouraged you, please share it with a friend and subscribe for your daily 5-minute boost of faith. 👉 For more resources, books, and episodes, visit: 👉 Support the mission: Help Rob multiply disciples, leaders, and churches worldwide by contributing here: 👉 If you’ve read The 10X Christian, please leave a rating and review on Amazon—your feedback helps others grow! /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39111270

347. Live the Warrior's Life 11/17/2025

347. Live the Warrior's Life Live the Warrior’s Life Scripture: 2 Timothy 4:5 (NLT) Episode Summary In this episode of The Rob Skinner Podcast / The 10X Christian Podcast, Rob explores what it means to move from studying the Christian life to living it with courage, conviction, and spiritual toughness. Inspired by the ancient warrior Telamon of Arcadia—who said, “It is one thing to study war and another to live the warrior’s life”—Rob challenges listeners to stop approaching faith as theory and start embodying it as a daily battle fought with clarity, purpose, and courage. Drawing from 2 Timothy 4:5, Rob highlights Paul’s charge to Timothy: Keep a clear mind Don’t fear suffering Share the Good News Fully carry out the ministry God has assigned This episode calls believers to embrace the “warrior life” of discipleship—stepping into hard things, facing fear head-on, and living boldly for Christ. Key Points Studying faith is good—but living it is where transformation happens. Paul wrote 2 Timothy from prison, urging believers not just to talk about courage but to show it. Real discipleship is proven under pressure: in rejection, misunderstanding, spiritual battles, and perseverance. A 10X Christian chooses conviction over comfort and mission over fear. Living the warrior’s life means stepping into ministry, sharing your faith, forgiving people, and acting even when afraid. Challenge of the Day Ask yourself: Am I studying faith, or living it? Take one bold step today: Share Jesus with someone Forgive someone Step into a ministry opportunity Do the hard thing God has placed in front of you A 10X Christian doesn’t run from the fight—they stand firm, believing God has already won the battle. Scripture of the Episode 2 Timothy 4:5 (NLT): “But you should keep a clear mind in every situation. Don’t be afraid of suffering for the Lord. Work at telling others the Good News, and fully carry out the ministry God has given you.” How to Support the Rob Skinner Podcast If you’d like to help support Rob’s mission to multiply disciples, leaders, and churches, you can give a gift here: 👉 Enjoying the Podcast? Please take a moment to rate and review The 10X Christian on Amazon and wherever you listen to podcasts. Your review helps others discover the show. /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39045355

346. Building a Thriving Church Community with Jesse and Alexandra Ghoman 11/15/2025

346. Building a Thriving Church Community with Jesse and Alexandra Ghoman Summary In this episode of The Rob Skinner Podcast, Jesse and Alexandra Ghoman share their inspiring journey of faith, love, and ministry. From their beginnings in faith to their marriage and transition to leading the Charleston Church, the Ghomans open up about the joys and challenges of ministry life. They discuss personal losses, leadership lessons, and the power of relationships in growing a vibrant church community. Their story is one of humility, perseverance, and faith — a powerful reminder that great ministry is built on love, teamwork, and trust in God’s plan. Key Takeaways Jesse and Alexandra’s unique journeys of faith and calling. The importance of deep relationships and authentic community in ministry. How to navigate challenges and losses in leadership. Proven strategies for church growth and community engagement. The role of humility and collaboration between evangelists and elders. Building a strong culture of leadership development. The power of faith to overcome obstacles. Creating an inviting and inspiring environment for families. The lasting impact of personal relationships on church health and growth. Dreaming big for the future — multiplication, vision, and legacy. Chapters 00:00 – Introduction and Background 01:48 – Faith Journeys: Becoming Christians 06:21 – Meeting and Marrying: Jesse and Alexandra’s Love Story 11:54 – Ministry Beginnings: From Boston to Charleston 15:38 – Transitioning to Charleston: Reasons for the Move 19:22 – Growing the Church: Strategies and Challenges 28:29 – Navigating Loss: Personal and Ministry Challenges 31:32 – Recognizing Unique Gifts in Leadership 34:35 – The Importance of Experience and Expertise 37:27 – Strategies for Raising Up Leaders 47:07 – Building Healthy Relationships with Elders 52:58 – The Value of Humility and Time in Leadership 56:13 – Intentional Friendships and Community Building 56:54 – Vision for the Future: Multiplication and Growth 01:02:10 – Making Life Count: Priorities and Legacy 🎧 Listen and Be Inspired! Discover more inspiring interviews, resources, and tools to help you grow your faith, leadership, and impact by visiting . How to Support the Rob Skinner Podcast If you’d like to help support my mission to multiply disciples, leaders, and churches, click here: And if you’ve read my book The 10X Christian, please take a moment to leave a rating and review on Amazon — it helps others discover the message and multiply the impact! /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/39014570

345. "Pre-Parenting" Learning How To Raise Godly Kids Before the First one is Born with Michael and Angela DeAquino 11/08/2025

345. "Pre-Parenting" Learning How To Raise Godly Kids Before the First one is Born with Michael and Angela DeAquino How to Support the Rob Skinner Podcast. If you would like to help support my mission to multiply disciples, leaders and churches, click here: Michael and Angela DeAquino have a unique passion and ministry: Coaching parents on how to raise their kids before their first child is born. Hoping to avoid many of the pitfalls of parenting this couple with five kids believe that the earlier parents get help raising their kids, the better. They recently wrote a book on the subject and are helping ministries prepare married couples to raise spiritual kids. More about Michael and Angela: Michael was born to Brazilian parents who immigrated to the U.S. and eventually settled in Chicago. His dad was trying to make ends meet and got involved in Amway for a time. One day, while knocking on doors in their apartment building, he met a group of disciples who were having a Bible talk. They invited him in, and not long after, both of Michael’s parents became Christians in the Chicago church. Michael was six years old at the time. He grew up in the Chicago church and was part of an awesome youth ministry. At 14, he decided to become a disciple himself. After graduating high school in 2003, he joined the campus ministry in Champaign, IL. During his sophomore year, he visited a friend who attended Harding University and loved the atmosphere there. He transferred to Harding his junior year to pursue a Bible degree with a focus on Youth and Family Ministry. During his senior year, his former teen ministry leader from Chicago called and asked if he’d consider leading the campus ministry in Cincinnati. After graduating in 2007, Michael moved to Cincinnati to take on that role. Angela didn’t grow up in the ICOC. She was first invited to church in fourth grade by her best friend Kelly, who invited her on the bus. Angela came on and off but eventually became a Christian her senior year of high school in 2006. She was part of the graduating class that moved from the teen ministry into the Cincinnati campus ministry in 2007, which is when Michael began leading it. We started dating in 2008 and got married in 2011. We had our first child in 2013 and today have five kids (one boy and four girls). In 2017, we were invited to interview for the Youth and Family Ministry position in Denver, Colorado. We moved there in 2018 and led the ministry for four years. In 2022, we transitioned out of full-time ministry. Angela now stays home and homeschools our kids, and Michael works full-time as a realtor here in Denver. The Parenthood Primer and The Parenthood Project Ministry After 11 years doing campus ministry, we noticed that many campus students who had been raised in our churches were struggling spiritually. The reason we decided to move to Denver to serve in Youth and Family Ministry was because we thought that if we could reach them earlier, in high school or middle school, we could help them be better prepared. But eventually, we realized the real need was to reach parents earlier. That insight led us to the idea of pre-parental counseling, helping couples prepare for parenting before they even have kids. We wrote a book called The Parenthood Primer: A Pre-Parental Counseling Workbook for Expecting Christian Couples. It is designed to help couples build a solid foundation for faith and family before their child arrives. We also started The Parenthood Project, a non-profit ministry that helps churches build young parent ministries. Many churches do a great job with teens, campus students, young professionals, and marrieds, but once people start having kids, they often lose that sense of community and support. Our goal is to help churches bridge that gap by equipping and encouraging young parents early on so their homes can be spiritually strong from the start. There are long-term benefits for churches and it’s also a huge evangelistic opportunity. Our focus now is helping churches and parents build strong families before and during those early parenting years. We have a website where parents and churches can sign up for our online pre-parental counseling course, along with many other resources and opportunities. (We are currently involved in helping 13 churches.) Michael and Angela DeAquino /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/38852720

344. Release the Emergency Brake 11/07/2025

344. Release the Emergency Brake The Rob Skinner Podcast: Releasing Your Spiritual Emergency Brake Keywords: spiritual growth, overcoming fear, faith, personal development, Christian life, release the emergency brake, live free, purpose, growth, no regrets Episode Summary In this inspiring episode, Rob Skinner unpacks the idea of spiritual growth through the vivid metaphor of an emergency brake. Just like a car can’t move freely when the brake is engaged, many Christians struggle to move forward in faith because of hidden fears, doubts, or regrets. Rob challenges listeners to identify what’s holding them back and to release those spiritual brakes through prayer, surrender, and renewed trust in God. This episode will help you live free, pursue your purpose, and experience the kind of faith that moves without hesitation or regret. Key Takeaways If you’ve ever felt held back spiritually, it’s time to release the emergency brake in your life. A locked brake keeps even the most powerful engine from moving forward. When your spiritual brake is on, you can press the gas but make little progress. God calls you to throw off everything that hinders and run your race freely. Stop replaying the past — name it, pray about it, and let it go. A car wasn’t designed to run with the brake on — and neither were you. God created you to move forward, unhindered, fully alive, and free in His purpose. Memorable Quotes “Whatever it is, name it. Pray about it.” “The road ahead is wide open.” “He created you to run free.” Episode Chapters 00:00 – Introduction to Spiritual Growth 00:42 – The Emergency Brake Analogy 02:35 – Identifying What Holds You Back 04:25 – Moving Forward in Faith Support the Show If this episode encourages you, visit to learn more about Rob’s mission to multiply disciples, leaders, and churches. 💡 Help Support the Rob Skinner Podcast Join others who are helping spread this message of faith and purpose by visiting And don’t forget to read and review The 10X Christian on Amazon — your feedback helps others grow in faith and discover the path to a 10X life! /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/38942635

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335. How to Enjoy Peace of Mind 09/01/2025

335. How to Enjoy Peace of Mind How to Support the Rob Skinner Podcast. If you would like to help support my mission to multiply disciples, leaders and churches, click here: Transcript of How to Enjoy Peace of Mind When Jesus was about to leave this world, he told his disciples, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.” (John 14:27) He knew that he was headed for the cross. He knew his disciples were going to experience trials, tough times and lots of trouble. His gift to them was peace. Peace of mind. I think the idea of peace of mind gets overlooked today. There is a lot of study on the concept of happiness, and I think these things are related. Happiness is often connected to what you have, who you’re with and where you are going. Peace is independent of all of those things and is available to every disciple in every circumstance, right now. I want you to think about a time when you were enjoying peace of mind. When you really felt calm and joyful inside. What was that like? Can you share about that experience? Let’s take a look at how to enjoy more of the gift Jesus gave us, the gift of peace. 1. Abstain from Sinful Desires. Peter shares this in 1 Peter 2:11, “11 Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul.” There is nothing that will destroy your peace of mind more easily than unrestrained sinful desires. This is why Jesus counsels in Matthew 5:30 that, “if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off.” Jesus is not being mean or “old school,” he’s being realistic. If you are compromising or tolerating a certain level of sin in your life, you’re going to have difficulty enjoying the peace of mind Jesus promises. Peter rephrases Jesus’ command by telling us to abstain, which means, “to refrain deliberately and often with an effort of self-denial from an action or practice.” That can mean alcohol, swearing, media consumption, shopping, news binging and other controlling habits. As a disciple of Jesus, this world is not your home. You need to live with a level of detachment as a foreigner. When Pam and I lived in Japan, there were many things that went straight over our heads as foreigners and “Gai-Jin.” The jokes, the culture, the conformity to custom. If you want peace of mind, don’t negotiate, don’t tolerate, don’t rationalize, instead abstain. As Thomas A’Kempis said in the Imitation of Christ, “true peace of heart is found in resisting passions, not in yielding to them.” 2. Put your love into action. 1 John 3:16-19. 16 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. 17 If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? 18 Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. 19 This is how we know that we belong to the truth and how we set our hearts at rest in his presence.” Resisting evil is only one part of the equation to find peace. John advises us to live and love like Jesus did. Loving in actions and truth reminds you that you belong to the truth and sets your heart at rest in his presence. It doesn’t earn you a spot in heaven, but it reminds you of your identity as a child of God. If you want peace of mind, wake up each day with a determination to actively serve someone, help someone, encourage someone, assist someone, help someone move, comfort someone, advise someone, offer someone your time, energy or expertise. Next time you are prompted by the spirit, act on that nudge. Love in action and truth. Enjoy peace of mind and set your heart at rest in his presence. 3. Remember God is Greater than Your Feelings. 1 John 3:19-20. This is how we know that we belong to the truth and how we set our hearts at rest in his presence: 20 If our hearts condemn us, we know that God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything. Our feelings and thoughts are often the worst offenders when it comes to disrupting our peace of mind. Our self-judgment, self-criticism, wacky thoughts, catastrophic fears, fatalistic ideas, borrowed concepts from the world, childhood thoughts, inherited ideas all contribute to a lack of peace. As Tom Ferry says, “"Negative self-talk is the equivalent of letting a drunk monkey loose in your kitchen." That’s when we need to remind ourselves that God is far greater than our feelings. Our feelings don’t define reality, they are only an impression of reality. The God who made the world, who chose you before the creation of the world, who personally showed up in the world to rescue you is going to bring to completion what he started when he called you. He knows all about you and your quirks, faults and failures and he still adores you. You need to take captive those misguided thoughts and make them obedient to Christ, who is greater than your heart. Take some time each day to sit quietly and focus on the greatness of God, a scripture or a noble thought. When a weird thought pops up, don’t freak out. Just look at it and ask yourself, is this thought from God? What’s the reality? 4. Actively pursue peace of mind. 2 Timothy 2:22. “22 Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.” If you have overlooked, undervalued or ignored the concept of peace of mind, it might be time to reevaluate it. Jesus considered it a top gift and at the critical event of his life, the cross, he gave the gift of peace to those who followed him. You might want to find out why Jesus considered it so important. In fact, I’d do more than think about it, I’d pursue it. Make it a priority along with righteousness, faith a love. All the “cool kids” who have pure hearts are doing it. I like what Naval Ravikant shares in his almanack: “When I was younger, I really, really valued freedom. Freedom was one of my core values. Ironically, it still is. It’s probably one of my top three values, but it’s now a different definition of freedom. My old definition was “freedom to.” Freedom to do anything I want. Freedom to do whatever I feel like, whenever I feel like. Now, the freedom I’m looking for is internal freedom. It’s “freedom from.” Freedom from reaction. Freedom from feeling angry. Freedom from being sad. Freedom from being forced to do things. I’m looking for “freedom from,” internally and externally, whereas before I was looking for “freedom to.” Naval is not a disciple, but I think there is value here. Peace of mind is “freedom from.” You can enjoy peace, joy, and contentment in any stage of life, relationship status, financial circumstance, health status, location or any other environment. Make a decision that you are going to pursue peace of mind. Make it a conscious goal to enjoy Jesus’ gift to you. /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/37970705

334. How to Become a Loving Person 08/26/2025

334. How to Become a Loving Person How to Support the Rob Skinner Podcast. If you would like to help support my mission to multiply disciples, leaders and churches, click here: Transcript for How to Become a Loving Person Pam and I just moved to Boston from Tucson, Arizona. We lived there for 13 years. We planted the church there and created so many memories. The last month we were there, we were busy packing up and saying goodbye to people. It’s hard to condense thirteen years into a few goodbyes. You know what was most important to Pam and me? Knowing that I loved the people there and that they loved me. When I heard people share how I had helped them and loved them, that’s all that mattered. There were many things people shared that I had forgotten about. They were often small things, but they were big to those people. Coming here I decided to have a simple focus, to love. That’s the goal. What’s your goal? · Make friends? · Find a romantic relationship · Make a difference? It’s easy to remain unconnected with people even when you are surrounded by them. Let’s figure out how to grow in love: Let’s read 1 Timothy 1:3-6 3 As I urged you when I went into Macedonia, stay there in Ephesus so that you may command certain people not to teach false doctrines any longer 4 or to devote themselves to myths and endless genealogies. Such things promote controversial speculations rather than advancing God’s work—which is by faith. 5 The goal of this command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith. 6 Some have departed from these and have turned to meaningless talk. Paul is advising Timothy how to lead the church in Ephesus. He tells him to command people to stop wasting time with empty words, false doctrine, gossip and backbiting. He says the goal of this command is love. Love provides the environment that advances God’s work. If you’ve ever been in a dysfunctional family or church, you know how God’s work gets sidelined when love takes a backseat to controversy. Love is too general of a goal to approach directly. It really has to be broken down. How do you become a more loving person? How do you experience more love in your heart? How do you change and grow into a person who is surrounded by loving people? Paul explains that love is like a tree that grows when it’s in the soil of a pure heart, good conscience and a sincere faith. Let’s break that down: · Love Comes From A Pure Heart Proverbs 4:23-27, Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. 24 Keep your mouth free of perversity; keep corrupt talk far from your lips. 25 Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you. 26 Give careful thought to the[] paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways. 27 Do not turn to the right or the left; keep your foot from evil. The Bible says guard your heart because everything you do flows from it. When you allow poison into your heart, it kills the love that wants to grow there. The first way to keep your heart pure is to watch what you say. Keep your words positive, faithful and upbuilding. Paul was pointing out the “meaningless talk” and empty words of the Christians. How are you doing in what you say? Are you loving people with your words or tearing them down? One decision Pam and I made before we left Tucson was that we were going to encourage every person specifically who came to church. We spent several midweek services praising and thanking every member and person who was attending. There were people in the audience who we had conflicts with. There were a few people who we had funny feelings toward and they felt the same toward us. But we decided to only praise and encourage. It was amazing. My feelings for those people changed and when they had a farewell party for us, they were so loving and kind. Take a minute to say something positive about the next person you run into. Whether you are at work, the gym, in class or at home, deliberately take a second to say something encouraging to the next person you bump into. It can be as simple as “I like your shirt” or “I’m glad you’re here” but make a decision to use your words for good if you want to have a pure heart. The second way to develop a pure heart is to 25 Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you. Be careful what you are looking at. It’s hard to be loving when you have no boundaries for what you allow your eyes to see. · Shopping · Money · Sex The summer after I graduated from high school, I was dating a girl who had won a miss teen America pageant. Needless to say, she was pretty. But I got distracted. Instead of focusing on her, I got focused on buying a 1965 Volkswagen. I paid $1,100 for it and then the same week I bought it, the engine blew. I spent that summer working full time to buy and then rebuild it. I was so obsessed with that car, I would work 24-hour shifts at the fairgrounds picking up trash to earn money. My eyes were on the car and not my girlfriend. Guess what happened? She dumped me for someone who was willing to pay attention to her. What are you focused on? Where are you eyes looking? It’s hard to love when your eyes are focused on the wrong thing. · Love Comes From A Good Conscience When you guard your heart and start cultivating a pure heart, it leads to a good conscience. You start feeling peace of mind. It’s hard to feel loving when you know that what you believe and the way you are living are in conflict. You feel like a fraud and a faker. If you’d like to improve your peace of mind, take some time to talk to someone about what’s going on in your life. There are always going to be gaps in our life and doctrine, acknowledging those gaps goes a long way toward creating a good conscience and closing the gap. When’s the last time you talked to someone about what is bothering your conscience? You know what is the hardest call to make? The call to let someone know that you aren’t perfect, that you blew it and that you made a mistake. I was just reading Seneca this morning and he said, “Why does no one admit his failings? Because he’s still deep in them. It’s the person who’s awakened who recounts his dream, and acknowledging one’s failings is a sign of health.” I have a discipling relationship with someone that I talk to regularly. I hate it when I’ve got a sin I need to confess and talk about. Whether it’s lust, something stupid I said, whether I was sharp in my tone with Pam or any other thing, I don’t want to make that call and talk to the person. But my conscience bothers me. I don’t have a good conscience. But what Seneca is saying is encouraging. The fact that my conscience does bother me shows that I am spiritually alive and sensitive. I’d be in real trouble if I didn’t feel the need to deal with my sin. Seneca goes on to say, “With afflictions of the spirit, though, the opposite is the case: the worse a person is, the less he feels it.” · Love Comes From A Sincere Faith Paul is pointing out the difference between love and empty talk that masquerades as religion. God is looking for disciples who show express their faith by practicing love not empty talk. My life previous to Jesus was empty words. I wasn’t loving and I didn’t have a genuine and sincere faith. My friends would be surprised when I offered to help them or serve. When you focus on planting seeds of purity, good conscience and sincere faith love will follow. Jesus is the ultimate example of this passage. His heart was pure, his conscience was good and his faith was sincere. It revealed itself through love and sacrifice: Romans 5:6-8, 6 You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. 7 Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Every week at church we remember the one person who consistently hit the goal of loving. He showed it by giving his life for those who aren’t. That’s why Jesus told us to take time to remember his life and death every week. It reminds us how much we are loved and inspires us to be more loving. Look what Seneca, the stoic philosopher wrote: Happy the man who improves other people not merely when he is in their presence but even when he is in their thoughts! And happy, too, is the person who can so revere another as to adjust and shape his own personality in the light of recollections, even, of that other. A person able to revere another thus will soon deserve to be revered himself…Choose someone whose way of life as well as words, and whose very face as mirroring the character that lies behind it, have won your approval. Be always pointing him out to yourself either as your guardian or as your model. There is a need, in my view, for someone as a standard against which our characters can measure themselves. Without a ruler to do it against you won’t make the crooked straight. Wouldn’t it be awesome to be a consistently loving person? How amazing it’d be to be known as an extremely loving person. Let me remind you of some steps to building a loving heart: · Watch your words · Watch your eyes · Be honest with your life · Get around people who are going in the right direction · Build a sincere faith and learn the truth /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/37970680

333. The Power of Right Now 08/15/2025

333. The Power of Right Now How to Support the Rob Skinner Podcast. If you would like to help support my mission to multiply disciples, leaders and churches, click here: There are three things that we can start doing that will take our faith from theory to practice every single day. All we need to do is: 1. Encourage right now 2. Connect right now 3. Pray right now Find out how in this episode of the Rob Skinner Podcast! How to Support the Rob Skinner Podcast. If you would like to help support my mission to multiply disciples, leaders and churches, click here: The Power of Right Now Introduction · Have you ever listened to someone’s story and then said, “I’ll pray for you.” After saying that you quickly forgot about it and never prayed for the person. · Have you ever had a person pop up in your head and you thought, I wonder how they are doing? I bet that person could use a call. After that thought you quickly moved on and never followed up. · Have you ever felt the impulse to reach out and share with someone and then backed off because you were: Ø Too busy Ø Too tired Ø Afraid of their reaction Instead of acting on that impulse, you let the Spirit’s prompting pass away. If you can remember at least one time that happened to you, you understand the importance of living out your faith, “Right Now.” That’s why I want to talk to you tonight about the power of “right now.” There are three things that we can start doing that will take our faith from theory to practice every single day. All we need to do is: 1. Encourage right now 2. Connect right now 3. Pray right now 1. Encourage Right Now Paul talks about the power of right now in Ephesians 5:15-20. “15 Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, 16 making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 18 Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit. Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord, 20 always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. Paul tells us to be very careful how we live. Why, because the days are evil. That’s why we need to realize the power of right now and make the most of every opportunity. Ø Right now people are struggling with temptation Ø Right now disciples are targeted by Satan Ø Right now friends you know are dealing with health issues Ø Right now Christians are considering leaving God and his church Ø Right now people you thought were solid are feeling shaky How can you help? § Encourage people right now § Speak to one another with psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit § Share scriptures that encourage you § Praise people § Thank people § Lift people up § Share positively about people who aren’t here right now o I really appreciate Stuart. His work in Boston has inspired me and is one of the reasons Pam and I wanted to move here. He is an extremely encouraging person. Often times we know these things and we have positive thoughts about others, but we don’t take advantage of the power of now to encourage others. Let’s make the most of this opportunity by turning to the person next to you and encourage them with: § Positive words § Gratitude § A scripture § Praise 2. Connect Right Now Let’s read Colossians 4:5, “Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity.” Paul says we need to be wise in how we deal with those aren’t following Jesus. We need to make the most of every opportunity. God gives us opportunities every day to help those around us. If we want to see God work in our life, we need to connect every day. On my first Sunday, I was sitting in front of a couple that I could tell were visiting. I introduced myself and they shared they were here for the first time. A few minutes later I saw someone else talking to them and being kind to them. That brother understood the power of right now. At the end of the service, I looked back and they were gone, but I know that brother had exchanged information with them. He had made the most of every opportunity. God gives us opportunities to love and serve those around us every day. We just need to be aware and ready to make the most of every opportunity. Ø When we are at work Ø When we are in an elevator Ø When we are checking out of the store When I arrived, the first thing I did was ask Stuart for some invitation cards to connect when God gave me an opportunity. It’s been so much fun to connect and see the power of now: Ø My movers Ø Dunkin Donuts Ø Roche Brothers I think one of the easiest ways aside from reaching out at church on Sunday is simply texting your friends and letting them know what you are doing. It’s soft, it’s gentle, it’s loving and if they’re aren’t interested they can ignore you. However, a simple text can change a person’s life. Let’s take advantage of the power of now. Pull out your phone and text a friend or coworker. Just text them something loving like: “Just thinking about you. Hope you are doing well.” If you want to go an extra step, you can add, “I’d love for you to join me this Sunday at church” 3. Pray Right Now How else can we make the most of right now? We can pray for each other in the moment. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve said “I’ll pray for you” and then forgot to do it. But then I found a way to avoid that. When someone shares something serious, heavy, or worthy of prayer, I use that as a trigger to pray right then and there. Prayer makes a difference, but if you never follow through, you missed the power of right now. Look at how James describes how powerful prayer really is: “13 Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise. 14 Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord. 15 And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. 16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective. 17 Elijah was a human being, even as we are. He prayed earnestly that it would not rain, and it did not rain on the land for three and a half years. 18 Again he prayed, and the heavens gave rain, and the earth produced its crops. 19 My brothers and sisters, if one of you should wander from the truth and someone should bring that person back, 20 remember this: Whoever turns a sinner from the error of their way will save them from death and cover over a multitude of sins.” James writes that if we or someone we know is going through something, anything-our first response should be to pray. Why? Prayer is powerful and effective. Prayer moves God. God can do anything. He then launches into a story about Elijah, who he says was a normal person just like us. His prayers changed weather patterns. Would you like to save someone from death, bring wanderers back, return people to the truth and cover over a multitude of sins? It all starts with praying. Praying right now. Let’s pray right now by asking the person next to us, “What can I pray for you about?” After listening, hold hands and pray for that person. After that let the other person ask, “What can I pray for you about.” After the person shares a need, put your hands on his or her shoulder or hold hands and say a prayer for them. Pray right now. Conclusion Can you imagine how your life would fill up with joy and power if you started making the most of every opportunity? What if on a daily basis you began to: 1. Encourage right now 2. Connect right now 3. Pray right now I believe you would begin to draw closer to God and people and you would be begin to see miracles happen. That’s the power of “Right Now.” Ice Cream Social /episode/index/show/robskinner/id/37836730

The Rob Skinner Podcast: Helping You Make This Life Count

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