Parents Who Think
The Parents Who Think debate podcast interrupts our parenting status quo. Join Danusia Malina-Derben entrepreneur, author and mother of 10 for no-holds-barred debates between intelligent parents with diverse perspectives as they deliver raw and unfiltered opinions on crucial parenting dilemmas. Whether you see yourself as a mainstream parent or embrace ‘marginalized’ views, PWT injects clarity into the hard realities of parenthood. Agreement is not the goal in the show; it’s about finding your unique path in the messy, real-world chaos of raising kids. Flex your agency, think, and redefine modern parenthood with PWT, where debate is done different.
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The Myth of the Harried Woman with Laura Vanderkam
08/02/2025
The Myth of the Harried Woman with Laura Vanderkam
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia Malina-Derben speaks with Laura Vanderkam—author, researcher, and mother of five—about time. Not just how we spend it, but how we talk about it. Laura’s work tracks how high-achieving women actually use their hours, and what she found flies in the face of everything we’ve been told: the women she studied weren’t burned out, short-fused, or collapsing in heaps at the end of each day. Danusia and Laura get into it: why our cultural myths around ‘busy women’ persist, how remote work has reshaped everything from commutes to childcare, and what happens when you zoom out from the day-to-day panic and look at time over a full week. This conversation refuses the tired narrative that success for women is always a breathless, collapsing compromise. Instead, it’s a quiet rebellion—a reclaiming of time, energy, and joy. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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I Am Enough with Marisa Peer
07/26/2025
I Am Enough with Marisa Peer
In this episode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben is joined by Marisa Peer to discuss why “I am enough” is more than a mantra, it’s a psychological reset that ripples through families. Drawing on decades of therapeutic work and her own personal evolution, Marisa unpacks how societal norms, school gate competition, and everyday self-criticism shape our belief systems. From writing affirmations on mirrors to embedding them in passwords, she offers inventive, memorable ways to anchor self-worth. They explore gendered pressure, the damage of perfection myths, and why so many parents still chase external validation. Danusia shares her own journey of “marrying herself,” raising triplets, and learning to create joy in chaos. This is a conversation about repetition, ritual, and radical self-acceptance. One that reminds us: your children learn from what you model, and you are allowed to speak to yourself with love. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Jealousy and Sex with Erica Jong
07/19/2025
Jealousy and Sex with Erica Jong
What happens when a woman writes the truth the world isn’t ready to hear? In this episode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben joins Erica Jong, novelist, poet, and unapologetic icon, in a conversation about the power and price of honesty. They explore how female jealousy gets buried in family and friendship, how mothers and daughters carry inherited pain, and why admitting negative emotions is still radical. Erica reflects on the terror of writing Fear of Flying, the myth of zipless fucks, and why she’s always preferred warm and cuddly sex to bodice-ripping fantasy. From literary rebellion to maternal ambivalence, this episode offers rare insight into what it means to be a woman who speaks her mind, and refuses to apologise for it. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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A Grown-Up Conversation About Manhood with Ken Mossman
07/12/2025
A Grown-Up Conversation About Manhood with Ken Mossman
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia Malina-Derben joins Ken Mossman for a layered and moving conversation about modern masculinity, emotional maturity, and what it means to be an integrated man. Ken brings wit and wisdom to topics most men were never taught to face: how to play, how to feel, and how to take responsibility without shame or performance. They explore why so many men exile parts of themselves, like their inner child or rebellious adolescent, and what’s possible when those voices are finally welcomed home. Ken also shares what it looks like to meet children where they are, and how one moment with his four-year-old son changed everything he thought he knew about parenting. This is not your typical fatherhood talk. It’s about presence, power, and the radical responsibility of being a fully formed human, on purpose. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Mummy was a Secret Drinker with Clare Pooley
07/05/2025
Mummy was a Secret Drinker with Clare Pooley
Parents Who Think host Danusia Malina-Derben joins Clare Pooley in an unflinching conversation about motherhood, sobriety, and the silent unraveling that so often hides behind ‘wine o’clock’.” Together, Clare and Danusia speak frankly about alcohol as a socially sanctioned drug, the seductive myths around moderation, and the messy, non-linear journey of quitting. Clare offers sharp insights for those wondering if their drinking has crept too far, and shares what it means to live fully, vividly, and without blurring the edges. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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On Grief, Justice, and Legacy with Stuart Lawrence
06/28/2025
On Grief, Justice, and Legacy with Stuart Lawrence
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia Malina-Derben talks with Stuart Lawrence, teacher, author, and younger brother of Stephen Lawrence, about what it means to carry grief and use it as a tool for change. Stuart reflects on stepping into a leadership role in his family after Stephen’s murder, navigating the long and painful road toward justice, and discovering his own purpose through education and public speaking. He shares intimate memories of his brother, the confusion and pain of dealing with systemic failure, and how his mother’s strength and clarity became the foundation for everything that followed. Together, Danusia and Stuart explore what it means to raise a Black son in Britain today, how to instil hope without dishonesty, and why personal action, no matter how small, is never wasted. Stuart’s work in schools, his books Silence is Not an Option and Growing Up Black in Britain, and his belief in the power of education shine throughout this conversation. This is an episode about personal responsibility, family legacy, and how to keep going when the fight was never supposed to be yours, but you take it up anyway. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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On Home Education and Redesigning Success with Rosie Sherry
06/21/2025
On Home Education and Redesigning Success with Rosie Sherry
Danusia Malina-Derben talks with Rosie Sherry about what it really means to educate and parent outside the system. Rosie, a home educator and founder of a global tech community, shares the story of pulling her children out of school—not out of rebellion, but out of radical care. What followed wasn’t just a change in schooling—it was a reordering of her entire life. Together, Danusia and Rosie talk about the mismatch between modern schooling and real children, the pressure for constant peer socialising, and why introverted kids often get left behind. Rosie also reflects on building a business while home educating five kids, what success looks like when you stop chasing other people’s definitions, and why she no longer wants to “scale” just because she can. This is a conversation about instinct, discernment, and the quiet power of doing things differently. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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On Harm, Healing and Radical Accountability with Eldra Jackson
06/14/2025
On Harm, Healing and Radical Accountability with Eldra Jackson
Eldra Jackson doesn’t soften the truth. And he doesn’t offer redemption stories tied up in a bow. In this conversation, he speaks openly about the crimes that led to his 24-year prison sentence and the deeper inner work that began long after the bars closed behind him. Danusia Malina-Derben, host of Parents Who Think, joins Eldra to explore what happens when men are taught that power depends on domination—and what unfolds when trauma goes unnamed. And what it means to take full responsibility not just for your past, but for the impact you still have on others every day. They discuss his turning point in solitary confinement, his choice to step away from gang life, and how spiritual and emotional discipline helped him begin again. This episode offers a profound and grounded look at change—not the glossy kind, but the kind forged in silence, self-inquiry, and discomfort. Eldra speaks not just to those who’ve done harm, but to anyone who wants to stop running from the truth and start doing better. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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On Stillness, Grief, and Letting Life In with Suzy Walker
06/07/2025
On Stillness, Grief, and Letting Life In with Suzy Walker
When Suzy Walker began a mindfulness course, she didn’t expect it to unearth a lifetime of suppressed grief. But in conversation with Danusia Malina-Derben, host of Parents Who Think, what unfolds is a raw, honest reflection on what happens when we stop running, and start listening. Danusia and Suzy explore the seductive trap of busyness, the spiritual disorientation of stillness, and the hidden grief we mask with productivity. Together, they unpack what it means to be present in a culture that values performance over peace, and why women, especially mothers, struggle with simply being. From Whitstable beach meditations to missed flights and social media audits, this is a fiercely intelligent, intimate exchange between two women unafraid to question what success, selfhood, and service really mean. A reminder that we don’t have to do more to be more, and that sometimes the most radical move is to be still. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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On Lone Fatherhood and Equality with Michael Ray
05/31/2025
On Lone Fatherhood and Equality with Michael Ray
What does real equality look like when you're parenting solo? In this moving conversation, Danusia interviews Michael Ray, a father who’s raising his daughter on his own after her mother stepped away from their lives. What might sound like a tough beginning becomes a powerful dialogue on parenting, presence, and the messy realities of gendered expectations. Michael shares what it means to parent with depth and integrity—how he built his work life around his daughter’s needs, and why respect for her mother remains non-negotiable. We talk about how men are still applauded for showing up as parents, while women are expected to carry the full load with little recognition. We also get into why equality initiatives often fail, because they don’t come with a redistribution of domestic labour. This conversation isn’t only about lone parenting. It’s about the emotional labour of raising children well, the cultural rewiring men need to do, and how raising a daughter changed Michael’s entire outlook on power, gender, and responsibility. If you think you’ve heard every take on fatherhood, think again. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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On Menopause with Meg Mathews
05/24/2025
On Menopause with Meg Mathews
If you think menopause is just hot flashes and mood swings, Meg Mathews is here to set you straight. In this unfiltered episode, Meg opens up about how menopause knocked her sideways—crippling anxiety, misdiagnosis, zero libido—and how it took years before anyone mentioned hormones. That journey led to Meg’s Menopause, a platform busting taboos and pushing for real education, access, and self-respect. We cover it all—testosterone, bone health, dry everything, and the identity shifts no one warns you about. Meg tells it like it is: women aren’t broken, they’re just not being told the truth. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Fatherhood Without the Patriarchy with Jordan Shapiro
05/17/2025
Fatherhood Without the Patriarchy with Jordan Shapiro
What does it really mean to be a good dad in a world that’s (finally) rethinking power, privilege, and gender? Jordan Shapiro offers a fresh framework—one that demands more than just ‘helping out’ or being ‘the fun one.’ In this episode, we talk about radical inclusivity, critical consciousness, and why patriarchal manliness needs a total rethink. Jordan doesn’t dodge the difficult stuff—he names the creepy undercurrents of the “daddy as first boyfriend” trope and unpacks why so many men feel attacked when the cultural tide changes. We cover big ideas, big shifts, and the kind of inner work modern fatherhood really requires. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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She’s Not Selfish, She’s Self-Full with Meredith Masony
05/10/2025
She’s Not Selfish, She’s Self-Full with Meredith Masony
We’re told to be selfless. To give everything for our children. To die to ourselves for the sake of being a “good” mother and parent. But what if that’s not the answer at all? In this fierce, funny, and deeply real conversation, Danusia is joined by Meredith Masony —a woman who came back from a health crisis with one loud, clear truth: she was done putting herself last. They talk about the myth of the perfect mum, what happens when you carry the entire domestic load for a decade, and why sometimes the most radical thing a mother can do is say, “It’s my turn.” This episode is a battle cry for any woman who’s been told she’s selfish for wanting more. If that’s you? Tune in. We saved you a seat. Discover more from us: • Join the PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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From Homeless Teen to Entrepreneur with Simon Squibb
05/03/2025
From Homeless Teen to Entrepreneur with Simon Squibb
This episode, I speak with Simon Squibb, founder of HelpBnk and author of What’s Your Dream? We dive into cultivating luck (hint: it’s not random), why desperation can be a creative superpower, and how his mother kicking him out of the house became the very thing that made him. Simon shares his raw take on privilege, failure, and the myth of the A-grade life. We talk resilience, drive, and what it means to burn the boats and go all in—even if you don’t know how to hold a garden spade. You’ll leave this one fired up. Maybe even rethinking your whole idea of risk. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Enquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Creating an Equitable Home with Eve Rodsky
04/26/2025
Creating an Equitable Home with Eve Rodsky
In this episode I sit down with Eve Rodsky, author of the groundbreaking book Fair Play, to discuss the often invisible and unequal labour dynamics that play out in our homes. We get into why women frequently become the "she-fault" parent, shouldering the brunt of domestic responsibilities and emotional labour, often at the expense of their own well-being and careers. Eve doesn't just identify the problem; she offers solutions. Drawing on her own experiences and extensive research, she introduces us to the Fair Play system, a practical and insightful approach to rebalancing domestic labour and creating a more harmonious partnership. We explore how this system helped Eve and her husband transform their own relationship and learn how it can work for others. We also discuss the crucial role of communication and boundary setting in achieving a truly equitable partnership. Eve shares invaluable insights on how to have those difficult conversations, break free from societal conditioning, and reclaim our time. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels overwhelmed by the demands of modern life and wants to create a more balanced and fulfilling relationship. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Female Masturbation with Hollie McNish
04/19/2025
Female Masturbation with Hollie McNish
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia gets into into a juicy conversation with Hollie McNish—award-winning poet, author, and performer. The focus? Female masturbation, sexuality, and shedding the centuries of shame surrounding women’s pleasure. One of Hollie’s books, Slug and Other Things I’ve Been Told to Hate, serves as the jumping-off point for this honest chat. Danusia and Hollie cover it all, from why society can't handle women who prioritise their own pleasure, to surprising moments of erotic awakenings (hairdressers and dentists, anyone?). Hollie shares deeply personal reflections, like conversations with her late grandmother who thought orgasms were mythical creatures. They also explore why certain words—like "moist" and "vulva"—trigger deep discomfort rooted in societal shame. You won’t want to miss this one—it’s time to dismantle taboos, one orgasm at a time! Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Switching Gender Roles with Priscilla McKinney
04/12/2025
Switching Gender Roles with Priscilla McKinney
What happens when a woman is the breadwinner and her husband takes the lead at home? Apparently, a lot of raised eyebrows, unsolicited opinions, and a bizarre mix of pity and praise. Entrepreneur and mother Priscilla McKinney joins me to talk about flipping the script on traditional gender roles, how she and her husband Steve made the switch, and what it really means to thrive in a setup that works for them—not society’s outdated rulebook. We get into the hilarity of watching people fumble over the idea of a stay-at-home dad (spoiler: they either worship him or assume he’s unemployed), the brutal weight of being the sole financial provider, and the power of letting go—of guilt, control, and the need to know everything about your child’s life. This one is for anyone who's ever questioned the status quo, felt the pressure to do it all, or needed a reminder that you get to decide what your family dynamic looks like. Listen in and prepare to unlearn a few things. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Sex Toys with Sarah Forbes
04/05/2025
Sex Toys with Sarah Forbes
Sex toys: ancient history, cultural icon, and—if Sarah Forbes has anything to say about it—essential to our understanding of sexuality. This week, Danusia sits down with the anthropologist and former curator of the Museum of Sex in New York to talk about the rise (and rise) of sex toys, the deep-rooted taboos around pleasure, and why we need to stop acting like vibrators were invented last week. We get into it all: the women who curate collections of sex toys like others collect fine wine, the psychology of private vs. shame, and why investing in high-end pleasure tech might just be self-care at its finest. Oh, and then we take a detour into the world of sex dolls—because, of course. Expect frank talk, fascinating insights, and a solid reminder that knowing your body is power. Let’s put the stigma to bed, shall we? Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Lies About Working Parenthood with Christine Armstrong
03/29/2025
Lies About Working Parenthood with Christine Armstrong
We've been sold a lie: that working parents can “have it all” if they just work hard enough. Today, we’re tearing that fantasy to shreds. Danusia Malina-Derben PWT host is in conversation with journalist and author Christine Armstrong. They get brutally honest about the impossible expectations of juggling kids, careers, and sanity. Burnout isn’t a personal failure—it’s a rigged system that needs changing. They talk about the silent struggles, the real costs of trying to “do it all,” and why it’s not you failing, it’s the structure. Tune in to blow up the myth and start demanding better. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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From Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette Leblanc
03/22/2025
From Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette Leblanc
From Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette Leblanc Ah, the old “you’re too much” conundrum. Too loud, too opinionated, too ambitious, too everything—and somehow, simultaneously, not enough. If you’ve ever felt stuck in this impossible tug-of-war, you are not alone. Joining Danusia today is Jeanette Leblanc, writer, coach, and self-proclaimed champion of “too muchness.” They get into what it means to reclaim our full, unapologetic selves—without waiting for permission. Jeanette shares her own path from self-doubt to radical self-love, including the messy, gut-wrenching, but ultimately liberating process of breaking free from the boxes we’re shoved into. They cover it all—motherhood, desire, monogamy (or the lack thereof), self-forgiveness, and that unshakable need to live on our own damn terms. Plus, Jeanette’s got a Jung quote tattooed on her ribs, so you know this conversation is good. Feeling the pull to unleash your own “too muchness?” Press play. The world needs all of you. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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From Divorce to Dating with Steph
03/15/2025
From Divorce to Dating with Steph
Motherhood and sexuality—two things we’re told don’t belong in the same sentence. But who made that rule? And why are we still following it? Steph wasn’t about to. After decades of marriage, she found herself single, re-entering the dating world with a libido very much intact. But society had a different script for her: midlife divorce means fading into the background. Sex? Desire? Not for women past a certain age. Well. About that. In this episode, Steph shares what really happens when you stop putting yourself last—how desire resurfaces, how dating multiple people changes the game, and why owning your sexuality is about so much more than sex. If you’ve ever wondered whether life gets smaller after divorce, press play. The answer is a resounding no. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Hormones, Health, and Happiness with Dr. Shahzadi Harper
03/08/2025
Hormones, Health, and Happiness with Dr. Shahzadi Harper
Danusia Parents Who Think host, gets real with Dr. Shahzadi Harper about hormones, libido and why women’s sex lives shouldn’t have an expiration date. Shahzadi, a badass in women’s health, spills the tea on how hormonal changes—hello, perimenopause—mess with your libido, energy, and self-confidence. But it’s not all doom and gloom. They unpack how testosterone (yep, women have it too), oestrogen, and orgasms—partnered or solo—can reignite that inner fire. Dr. Shahzadi talks about beating libido crashes with lifestyle tweaks, hormone therapy, and simply learning to put yourself first. Think of libido as your life force, not just a sex drive—it's the secret sauce to strutting through life with joy and confidence. Ready to ditch outdated ideas about "sexual shelf life"? Hit play and feel empowered to reclaim your pleasure and power—at any age. Discover more from us: Join PWT community on Follow us on with Danusia Advertising Inquiries Credits: Hosted by Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Female ‘Empowerment’ and Motherhood with Emma Sayle
03/01/2025
Female ‘Empowerment’ and Motherhood with Emma Sayle
What happens when a woman builds an empire that shatters every outdated idea about female sexuality, and then dares to become a mother? Today, we feature Emma Sayle—founder of Killing Kittens, global disruptor, and all-around unapologetic powerhouse. We’re talking about breaking taboos, rewriting the rules of partnership and parenting, and why self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a damn necessity. Emma shares how she built a community where women take control, how motherhood collided with societal expectations of her, and why ‘just asking’ is the most underrated relationship strategy. We also tackle the myth of the self-sacrificing mother (spoiler: no one’s handing out medals for martyrdom), the financial leverage that changes the game, and why taking time for yourself isn’t selfish—it’s survival. If you’ve ever been made to feel like you can’t have power, pleasure, and parenthood on your own terms, this one’s for you. Discover more from us: Join PWT community on Follow us on with Danusia Advertising Inquiries Credits: Hosted by Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Joy After Trauma with Shoshana Garfield
02/22/2025
Joy After Trauma with Shoshana Garfield
Join Host, Danusia Malina-Derben brings you a powerful conversation with Dr Shoshana Garfield, a survivor of childhood torture and sexual abuse. Shoshana shares her journey of healing and self-reclamation, highlighting the importance of forgiveness, self-compassion, and relentless kindness. This episode explores the long-term impacts of trauma and the process of overcoming adversity to create a life filled with freedom and joy. Shoshana also discusses her work as an expert in torture rehabilitation and the power of energy psychology in her own healing journey. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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No Kids, No Apologies with Rachel Pesso
02/15/2025
No Kids, No Apologies with Rachel Pesso
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia is in conversation with Rachel Pesso, brand designer and unapologetic truth-teller, about her choice to skip motherhood—despite the relentless pressure to conform. Rachel gets real about the fear of judgment, the selfish-woman stereotype, and those infuriating "you'll change your mind" conversations. Spoiler: she hasn’t. Together, they blow up the outdated myth that motherhood is the only path to fulfillment. Rachel opens up about navigating anxiety, holding onto her ambitions, and the deeply ingrained expectations that make women feel like they have to disappear when they become mothers. This is a conversation that hits deep. If you've ever questioned the script society wrote for you, this one’s for you. Tune in and let’s rewrite the rules. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Style Unleashed with Yvadney Davis
02/08/2025
Style Unleashed with Yvadney Davis
Danusia is joined by Yvadney Davis to explore the magic of fashion as self-expression. Whether it’s metallic joggers, kaftans, or Katharine Hepburn-inspired classics, Yvadney serves up insights on owning your style unapologetically. From experimenting with bold looks to raising kids who feel confident in their clothing choices, this episode is a celebration of individuality. Yvadney even shares how motherhood gave her the ultimate confidence boost: “If I can give birth in front of strangers, I can dress however I want.” This is your reminder to have fun with fashion, embrace your unique slay, and never let trends define you. Press play and prepare to feel inspired! Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Raising Consciousness About Race with Uju Asika
02/01/2025
Raising Consciousness About Race with Uju Asika
Today, host Danusia Malina-Derben is joined by author Uju Asika. She shares her powerful story of navigating childhood racism, the lessons it taught her, and why hope is at the heart of her work. We talk about when kids start noticing race, why “colorblind” parenting doesn’t work, and how we can have honest, age-appropriate conversations about race. Uju also challenges us to lovingly examine our own lives and the unconscious messages we’re passing on. This is a conversation about healing, growth, and the power of the next generation to make change. Don’t miss Uju’s book Bringing Up Race: How to Raise a Kind Child in a Prejudiced World. —it’s a game-changer. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Teen Mom to Netflix Star: Mary Bonnet’s Story of Grit and Glamour
01/25/2025
Teen Mom to Netflix Star: Mary Bonnet’s Story of Grit and Glamour
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia interviews Selling Sunset star Mary Bonnet about her inspiring journey from being a teen mom to becoming a powerhouse in high-end real estate. Mary opens up about the challenges she faced raising her son at 15, the grit it took to thrive, and how she’s still raising the bar. They discuss the work ethic Mary developed as a teen mom and how it shaped her success, overcoming societal expectations and the realities of juggling ambition and motherhood, and tackling double standards, from ageism to gender dynamics in business. Mary also shares her thoughts on having children in her 40s and how technology is redefining motherhood. This candid conversation is packed with wisdom and inspiration for anyone looking to break barriers and chase their dreams. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Asking for What You Want with Emer Brady
01/18/2025
Asking for What You Want with Emer Brady
Why is asking for what we want so hard? In this episode, host Danusia Malina-Derben gets into this question with guest Emer Brady, exploring the barriers many women face when advocating for themselves. From the subtleties of language to the power of body language, this conversation is packed with practical tips for anyone looking to show up stronger—especially in the workplace. You'll hear why apologetic language holds us back, how to communicate assertively without losing authenticity, and the importance of preparation before asking for what you need. Plus, there’s a fascinating discussion on the role of cultural dynamics in how requests are received and why understanding your audience matters as much as knowing what you want. One standout insight? Advocacy isn’t just about the ask—it’s about planting seeds, listening actively, and learning from those who’ve mastered the skill. With actionable tips like video-recording yourself to refine your delivery or observing how others successfully navigate workplace dynamics, this episode is a practical guide for turning self-doubt into self-confidence. If you’ve ever hesitated to speak up or worried about being seen as “too much,” this episode will leave you with tools to start making your voice heard. A must-listen for anyone ready to reframe their mindset and take action. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Reframing Mother-Daughter Dynamics with Harriet Malina-Derben
01/11/2025
Reframing Mother-Daughter Dynamics with Harriet Malina-Derben
In this episode, Danusia is joined by her daughter, Harriet Malina-Derben, for a candid conversation about the complexities of mother-daughter relationships. Together, they unpack the generational patterns that can trap these bonds in negativity, from societal expectations that pit women against each other to the stereotyped idea of “tricky” mother-daughter dynamics. This heartfelt exchange dives into the importance of recognizing mothers as fully human—flaws, history, and all—and explores how adult daughters can shift their perspective to foster a deeper, more mutual connection. Harriet offers insights on how viewing mothers through a lens of empathy can transform a relationship once riddled with misunderstandings into one of empowerment and growth. The pair also reflect on breaking free from patriarchal narratives and embracing an ongoing exchange of wisdom between mothers and daughters. From the emotional rollercoaster of raising daughters to the intensity of female relationships, this conversation is full of practical takeaways for anyone seeking to build stronger bonds. If you’ve ever struggled to navigate your relationship with your mother or daughter, this episode offers plenty of food for thought—and hope. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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