Parents Who Think
The Parents Who Think debate podcast interrupts our parenting status quo. Join Danusia Malina-Derben entrepreneur, author and mother of 10 for no-holds-barred debates between intelligent parents with diverse perspectives as they deliver raw and unfiltered opinions on crucial parenting dilemmas. Whether you see yourself as a mainstream parent or embrace ‘marginalized’ views, PWT injects clarity into the hard realities of parenthood. Agreement is not the goal in the show; it’s about finding your unique path in the messy, real-world chaos of raising kids. Flex your agency, think, and redefine modern parenthood with PWT, where debate is done different.
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Creating an Equitable Home with Eve Rodsky
04/26/2025
Creating an Equitable Home with Eve Rodsky
In this episode I sit down with Eve Rodsky, author of the groundbreaking book Fair Play, to discuss the often invisible and unequal labour dynamics that play out in our homes. We get into why women frequently become the "she-fault" parent, shouldering the brunt of domestic responsibilities and emotional labour, often at the expense of their own well-being and careers. Eve doesn't just identify the problem; she offers solutions. Drawing on her own experiences and extensive research, she introduces us to the Fair Play system, a practical and insightful approach to rebalancing domestic labour and creating a more harmonious partnership. We explore how this system helped Eve and her husband transform their own relationship and learn how it can work for others. We also discuss the crucial role of communication and boundary setting in achieving a truly equitable partnership. Eve shares invaluable insights on how to have those difficult conversations, break free from societal conditioning, and reclaim our time. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who feels overwhelmed by the demands of modern life and wants to create a more balanced and fulfilling relationship. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Female Masturbation with Hollie McNish
04/19/2025
Female Masturbation with Hollie McNish
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia gets into into a juicy conversation with Hollie McNish—award-winning poet, author, and performer. The focus? Female masturbation, sexuality, and shedding the centuries of shame surrounding women’s pleasure. One of Hollie’s books, Slug and Other Things I’ve Been Told to Hate, serves as the jumping-off point for this honest chat. Danusia and Hollie cover it all, from why society can't handle women who prioritise their own pleasure, to surprising moments of erotic awakenings (hairdressers and dentists, anyone?). Hollie shares deeply personal reflections, like conversations with her late grandmother who thought orgasms were mythical creatures. They also explore why certain words—like "moist" and "vulva"—trigger deep discomfort rooted in societal shame. You won’t want to miss this one—it’s time to dismantle taboos, one orgasm at a time! Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Switching Gender Roles with Priscilla McKinney
04/12/2025
Switching Gender Roles with Priscilla McKinney
What happens when a woman is the breadwinner and her husband takes the lead at home? Apparently, a lot of raised eyebrows, unsolicited opinions, and a bizarre mix of pity and praise. Entrepreneur and mother Priscilla McKinney joins me to talk about flipping the script on traditional gender roles, how she and her husband Steve made the switch, and what it really means to thrive in a setup that works for them—not society’s outdated rulebook. We get into the hilarity of watching people fumble over the idea of a stay-at-home dad (spoiler: they either worship him or assume he’s unemployed), the brutal weight of being the sole financial provider, and the power of letting go—of guilt, control, and the need to know everything about your child’s life. This one is for anyone who's ever questioned the status quo, felt the pressure to do it all, or needed a reminder that you get to decide what your family dynamic looks like. Listen in and prepare to unlearn a few things. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Sex Toys with Sarah Forbes
04/05/2025
Sex Toys with Sarah Forbes
Sex toys: ancient history, cultural icon, and—if Sarah Forbes has anything to say about it—essential to our understanding of sexuality. This week, Danusia sits down with the anthropologist and former curator of the Museum of Sex in New York to talk about the rise (and rise) of sex toys, the deep-rooted taboos around pleasure, and why we need to stop acting like vibrators were invented last week. We get into it all: the women who curate collections of sex toys like others collect fine wine, the psychology of private vs. shame, and why investing in high-end pleasure tech might just be self-care at its finest. Oh, and then we take a detour into the world of sex dolls—because, of course. Expect frank talk, fascinating insights, and a solid reminder that knowing your body is power. Let’s put the stigma to bed, shall we? Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Lies About Working Parenthood with Christine Armstrong
03/29/2025
Lies About Working Parenthood with Christine Armstrong
We've been sold a lie: that working parents can “have it all” if they just work hard enough. Today, we’re tearing that fantasy to shreds. Danusia Malina-Derben PWT host is in conversation with journalist and author Christine Armstrong. They get brutally honest about the impossible expectations of juggling kids, careers, and sanity. Burnout isn’t a personal failure—it’s a rigged system that needs changing. They talk about the silent struggles, the real costs of trying to “do it all,” and why it’s not you failing, it’s the structure. Tune in to blow up the myth and start demanding better. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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From Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette Leblanc
03/22/2025
From Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette Leblanc
From Self-Doubt to Self-Love with Jeanette Leblanc Ah, the old “you’re too much” conundrum. Too loud, too opinionated, too ambitious, too everything—and somehow, simultaneously, not enough. If you’ve ever felt stuck in this impossible tug-of-war, you are not alone. Joining Danusia today is Jeanette Leblanc, writer, coach, and self-proclaimed champion of “too muchness.” They get into what it means to reclaim our full, unapologetic selves—without waiting for permission. Jeanette shares her own path from self-doubt to radical self-love, including the messy, gut-wrenching, but ultimately liberating process of breaking free from the boxes we’re shoved into. They cover it all—motherhood, desire, monogamy (or the lack thereof), self-forgiveness, and that unshakable need to live on our own damn terms. Plus, Jeanette’s got a Jung quote tattooed on her ribs, so you know this conversation is good. Feeling the pull to unleash your own “too muchness?” Press play. The world needs all of you. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Cruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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From Divorce to Dating with Steph
03/15/2025
From Divorce to Dating with Steph
Motherhood and sexuality—two things we’re told don’t belong in the same sentence. But who made that rule? And why are we still following it? Steph wasn’t about to. After decades of marriage, she found herself single, re-entering the dating world with a libido very much intact. But society had a different script for her: midlife divorce means fading into the background. Sex? Desire? Not for women past a certain age. Well. About that. In this episode, Steph shares what really happens when you stop putting yourself last—how desire resurfaces, how dating multiple people changes the game, and why owning your sexuality is about so much more than sex. If you’ve ever wondered whether life gets smaller after divorce, press play. The answer is a resounding no. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Hormones, Health, and Happiness with Dr. Shahzadi Harper
03/08/2025
Hormones, Health, and Happiness with Dr. Shahzadi Harper
Danusia Parents Who Think host, gets real with Dr. Shahzadi Harper about hormones, libido and why women’s sex lives shouldn’t have an expiration date. Shahzadi, a badass in women’s health, spills the tea on how hormonal changes—hello, perimenopause—mess with your libido, energy, and self-confidence. But it’s not all doom and gloom. They unpack how testosterone (yep, women have it too), oestrogen, and orgasms—partnered or solo—can reignite that inner fire. Dr. Shahzadi talks about beating libido crashes with lifestyle tweaks, hormone therapy, and simply learning to put yourself first. Think of libido as your life force, not just a sex drive—it's the secret sauce to strutting through life with joy and confidence. Ready to ditch outdated ideas about "sexual shelf life"? Hit play and feel empowered to reclaim your pleasure and power—at any age. Discover more from us: Join PWT community on Follow us on with Danusia Advertising Inquiries Credits: Hosted by Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Female ‘Empowerment’ and Motherhood with Emma Sayle
03/01/2025
Female ‘Empowerment’ and Motherhood with Emma Sayle
What happens when a woman builds an empire that shatters every outdated idea about female sexuality, and then dares to become a mother? Today, we feature Emma Sayle—founder of Killing Kittens, global disruptor, and all-around unapologetic powerhouse. We’re talking about breaking taboos, rewriting the rules of partnership and parenting, and why self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s a damn necessity. Emma shares how she built a community where women take control, how motherhood collided with societal expectations of her, and why ‘just asking’ is the most underrated relationship strategy. We also tackle the myth of the self-sacrificing mother (spoiler: no one’s handing out medals for martyrdom), the financial leverage that changes the game, and why taking time for yourself isn’t selfish—it’s survival. If you’ve ever been made to feel like you can’t have power, pleasure, and parenthood on your own terms, this one’s for you. Discover more from us: Join PWT community on Follow us on with Danusia Advertising Inquiries Credits: Hosted by Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Joy After Trauma with Shoshana Garfield
02/22/2025
Joy After Trauma with Shoshana Garfield
Join Host, Danusia Malina-Derben brings you a powerful conversation with Dr Shoshana Garfield, a survivor of childhood torture and sexual abuse. Shoshana shares her journey of healing and self-reclamation, highlighting the importance of forgiveness, self-compassion, and relentless kindness. This episode explores the long-term impacts of trauma and the process of overcoming adversity to create a life filled with freedom and joy. Shoshana also discusses her work as an expert in torture rehabilitation and the power of energy psychology in her own healing journey. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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No Kids, No Apologies with Rachel Pesso
02/15/2025
No Kids, No Apologies with Rachel Pesso
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia is in conversation with Rachel Pesso, brand designer and unapologetic truth-teller, about her choice to skip motherhood—despite the relentless pressure to conform. Rachel gets real about the fear of judgment, the selfish-woman stereotype, and those infuriating "you'll change your mind" conversations. Spoiler: she hasn’t. Together, they blow up the outdated myth that motherhood is the only path to fulfillment. Rachel opens up about navigating anxiety, holding onto her ambitions, and the deeply ingrained expectations that make women feel like they have to disappear when they become mothers. This is a conversation that hits deep. If you've ever questioned the script society wrote for you, this one’s for you. Tune in and let’s rewrite the rules. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Style Unleashed with Yvadney Davis
02/08/2025
Style Unleashed with Yvadney Davis
Danusia is joined by Yvadney Davis to explore the magic of fashion as self-expression. Whether it’s metallic joggers, kaftans, or Katharine Hepburn-inspired classics, Yvadney serves up insights on owning your style unapologetically. From experimenting with bold looks to raising kids who feel confident in their clothing choices, this episode is a celebration of individuality. Yvadney even shares how motherhood gave her the ultimate confidence boost: “If I can give birth in front of strangers, I can dress however I want.” This is your reminder to have fun with fashion, embrace your unique slay, and never let trends define you. Press play and prepare to feel inspired! Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Raising Consciousness About Race with Uju Asika
02/01/2025
Raising Consciousness About Race with Uju Asika
Today, host Danusia Malina-Derben is joined by author Uju Asika. She shares her powerful story of navigating childhood racism, the lessons it taught her, and why hope is at the heart of her work. We talk about when kids start noticing race, why “colorblind” parenting doesn’t work, and how we can have honest, age-appropriate conversations about race. Uju also challenges us to lovingly examine our own lives and the unconscious messages we’re passing on. This is a conversation about healing, growth, and the power of the next generation to make change. Don’t miss Uju’s book Bringing Up Race: How to Raise a Kind Child in a Prejudiced World. —it’s a game-changer. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Teen Mom to Netflix Star: Mary Bonnet’s Story of Grit and Glamour
01/25/2025
Teen Mom to Netflix Star: Mary Bonnet’s Story of Grit and Glamour
In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia interviews Selling Sunset star Mary Bonnet about her inspiring journey from being a teen mom to becoming a powerhouse in high-end real estate. Mary opens up about the challenges she faced raising her son at 15, the grit it took to thrive, and how she’s still raising the bar. They discuss the work ethic Mary developed as a teen mom and how it shaped her success, overcoming societal expectations and the realities of juggling ambition and motherhood, and tackling double standards, from ageism to gender dynamics in business. Mary also shares her thoughts on having children in her 40s and how technology is redefining motherhood. This candid conversation is packed with wisdom and inspiration for anyone looking to break barriers and chase their dreams. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Asking for What You Want with Emer Brady
01/18/2025
Asking for What You Want with Emer Brady
Why is asking for what we want so hard? In this episode, host Danusia Malina-Derben gets into this question with guest Emer Brady, exploring the barriers many women face when advocating for themselves. From the subtleties of language to the power of body language, this conversation is packed with practical tips for anyone looking to show up stronger—especially in the workplace. You'll hear why apologetic language holds us back, how to communicate assertively without losing authenticity, and the importance of preparation before asking for what you need. Plus, there’s a fascinating discussion on the role of cultural dynamics in how requests are received and why understanding your audience matters as much as knowing what you want. One standout insight? Advocacy isn’t just about the ask—it’s about planting seeds, listening actively, and learning from those who’ve mastered the skill. With actionable tips like video-recording yourself to refine your delivery or observing how others successfully navigate workplace dynamics, this episode is a practical guide for turning self-doubt into self-confidence. If you’ve ever hesitated to speak up or worried about being seen as “too much,” this episode will leave you with tools to start making your voice heard. A must-listen for anyone ready to reframe their mindset and take action. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Reframing Mother-Daughter Dynamics with Harriet Malina-Derben
01/11/2025
Reframing Mother-Daughter Dynamics with Harriet Malina-Derben
In this episode, Danusia is joined by her daughter, Harriet Malina-Derben, for a candid conversation about the complexities of mother-daughter relationships. Together, they unpack the generational patterns that can trap these bonds in negativity, from societal expectations that pit women against each other to the stereotyped idea of “tricky” mother-daughter dynamics. This heartfelt exchange dives into the importance of recognizing mothers as fully human—flaws, history, and all—and explores how adult daughters can shift their perspective to foster a deeper, more mutual connection. Harriet offers insights on how viewing mothers through a lens of empathy can transform a relationship once riddled with misunderstandings into one of empowerment and growth. The pair also reflect on breaking free from patriarchal narratives and embracing an ongoing exchange of wisdom between mothers and daughters. From the emotional rollercoaster of raising daughters to the intensity of female relationships, this conversation is full of practical takeaways for anyone seeking to build stronger bonds. If you’ve ever struggled to navigate your relationship with your mother or daughter, this episode offers plenty of food for thought—and hope. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Good Enough Parenting with Dr Joanna Fortune
12/14/2024
Good Enough Parenting with Dr Joanna Fortune
Perfection is overrated—especially in parenting. In this thought-provoking episode, Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Dr Joanna Fortune, child psychotherapist and author, to challenge the myths of perfect parenting and embrace being “good enough.” Joanna shares about the concept of parental stamina—how to recharge your tank without guilt—and why your own self-care isn’t just essential but a powerful teaching tool for your kids. From playful strategies (hello, dance breaks!) to the importance of taking time-outs (for parents too!), you’ll discover practical ways to lighten the load without compromising connection. And here’s the kicker: Joanna shares her bold take on why kids shouldn’t be the centre of the family universe. Spoiler alert: happy parents create a solid foundation for happy kids. This episode? A guilt-free guide to doing your best, showing your kids it’s okay to make mistakes, and letting go of the pressure to be perfect. Permission to be good enough granted. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Having It All & Tackling Imposter Syndrome with Caroline Flanagan
12/07/2024
Having It All & Tackling Imposter Syndrome with Caroline Flanagan
Danusia Malina-Derben takes on the myth of “having it all” with Caroline Flanagan, author of Be the First and all-round powerhouse. Together, they shred the outdated idea that women need to do everything to have it all—and dig into what your “all” could look like. But that’s not all. Imposter syndrome? They’re calling it out for the fraud it is. Caroline shares her real-life experience of feeling like she didn’t belong and how she flipped the script to reclaim her power. This isn’t about perfection or keeping up appearances—it’s about learning to own your worth, rewrite the rules and reframe your inner narrative to find solutions (instead of self-doubt). Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • Buy Danusia’s Motherhood book: NOISE • Caroline Flanagan’s book: • Mentioned reads: by David Rock and by Prof. Steve Peters • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Unlocking Self-Love at Any Age with Jane Wyker
11/30/2024
Unlocking Self-Love at Any Age with Jane Wyker
What if you could feel more alive in your 80s than ever before? Meet Jane Wyker, the unstoppable force behind Soul Selfish: The Awakening of a Good Girl. Jane’s story is proof that it’s never too late to prioritise yourself, let go of toxic baggage, and embrace joy at every stage of life. Danusia and Jane unpack the inner work of shedding the “good girl” identity, balancing self-love with motherhood, and yes, even the realities of sex, dating, and pleasure in your 80s. Jane’s advice on “inner housekeeping” is a game-changer—because let’s face it, no one thrives in a cluttered emotional home. This episode is a masterclass in how to own your life, your choices, and your happiness—no matter your age. Tune in for some unforgettable wisdom and a bold call to put pleasure (and yourself!) at the centre of your world. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • Find Jane Wyker • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Reframing Disability Narratives with Rebekah Taussig
11/23/2024
Reframing Disability Narratives with Rebekah Taussig
Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Rebekah Taussig, author of Sitting Pretty: The View from My Ordinary, Resilient Disabled Body, to unpack the complexities of living with a disability. In this episode, Rebekah challenges the oversimplified narratives that often surround disabled lives and calls for a more inclusive, open-hearted perspective. From embracing her body to navigating pregnancy, Rebekah shares stories that illuminate the richness, challenges, and ordinariness of disability—pushing past stereotypes of pity or inspiration. They discuss how society’s fear of disability limits understanding and how breaking those barriers starts with recognizing the nuance in every human experience. Danusia and Rebekah also dive into the untold stories of disabled motherhood, touching on everything from baby kicks to the broader need for representation. This conversation is a profound reminder: disability doesn’t diminish humanity—it enriches it. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • Find Rebekah’s book • • Advertising Inquiries here Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Embracing Motherhood and Poetry with Kate Baer
11/16/2024
Embracing Motherhood and Poetry with Kate Baer
Want your heart to skip a beat? Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with poet Kate Baer—three-time New York Times bestselling author of What Kind of Woman, I Hope This Finds You Well, and her latest, And Yet. They get real about everything from raw realities to anger simmering beneath the surface. Kate opens up about finding her voice amidst parenting, the poets who inspire her (think Mary Oliver and Sharon Olds), and tackling taboo topics with honesty and wit (yes, including poems like "The Pope's Penis"). They delve into the visceral experience of being a woman today, the societal pressures we face, and why it's high time mothers' voices are heard and valued. If you're ready for a conversation that cuts deep into the soul of womanhood and leaves you feeling seen and understood, this episode is a must-listen. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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On Guilt with Jo Wimble-Groves
11/09/2024
On Guilt with Jo Wimble-Groves
Guilt—it’s the nagging companion of parenthood. Jo Wimble-Groves, creator of Guilty Mother, joins host Danusia Malina-Derben to unpack why so many parents feel this way and how to start shifting that guilt into something useful (yes, it’s possible!). From screen time to sandwich choices, Jo’s refreshing take on embracing imperfection and rethinking what it means to care will leave you feeling lighter. If you’re tired of feeling like you’re never doing enough, this episode offers some much-needed relief. Tune in to discover why guilt doesn’t equal love and why it’s time to put down the “perfect parent” yardstick! Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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The Secret to Winning in Life with Wies Bratby
11/02/2024
The Secret to Winning in Life with Wies Bratby
This week, Danusia Malina-Derben brings in Wies Bratby—founder of Women in Negotiation and self-proclaimed “women’s butt kicker”—to break down why every woman needs to own her worth in the world of negotiation. It’s not just about more zeros on the paycheck; it’s about freedom, choices, and doing life on your own terms. Wies shares her wisdom on the art of asking for what you deserve—without the guilt trip. From salary boosts to the (often trickier) negotiations at home, she dishes out practical tips for women ready to stand up, speak up, and stop settling. And heads up: there’s no room for playing small here. This episode is a masterclass in confidence, clarity, and the sheer power of knowing your worth. Tune in to get fired up, and don’t miss Wies’s top tips on making every negotiation a win. Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on • Follow us on • with Danusia • Find Wies • • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Raising Body-Happy Kids with Molly Forbes
10/26/2024
Raising Body-Happy Kids with Molly Forbes
Host Danusia Malina-Derben gets real with Molly Forbes, author of “Body Happy Kids: How to raise children who love the skin they're in” for adults and “Every Body” for children. They’re talking about one thing every parent worries about—how to raise kids who love their bodies in a world obsessed with diet culture. Spoiler: It’s not about looking “pretty.” Molly dishes out her no-BS take on raising confident kids, from smashing beauty ideals to using her household mantra “It’s not my job to be pretty.” You’ll learn how to dodge diet culture’s sneaky traps and arm your kids with the self-love they need to stay strong. Oh, and Molly even has a genius idea involving compliment circles that you’ll definitely want to steal for your next family hangout. This episode? Pure fire for anyone ready to raise resilient, body-happy kids. Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Sarah Peck on Postpartum Sex + a Naked Swim
10/19/2024
Sarah Peck on Postpartum Sex + a Naked Swim
In this minisode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Sarah Peck, CEO of Start Up Parent, to discuss the often unspoken realities of postpartum sex and recovery. Sarah shares her personal experiences, from healing after childbirth to the surprising physical challenges that follow. Danusia and Sarah also talk about living brazenly, including Sarah’s daring naked swim from Alcatraz, and what it means to push past conventional metrics of success. This episode offers a fresh, unfiltered look at life after giving birth and how to embrace boldness in all areas of life. Tune in for real talk on postpartum recovery, relationships, and living by your own values! Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Can Detachment and Love Coexist? A story about the stoic parent
10/12/2024
Can Detachment and Love Coexist? A story about the stoic parent
In this episode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben explores Stoicism and its relevance to parenting. Drawing on her experience as a mother to 10 children, she reflects on how Stoic principles like control, patience, and detachment have shaped her approach to raising kids. But it’s not just about personal resilience ~ Danusia also gets into the limits of Stoicism, especially when it comes to addressing the broader systemic challenges that families face. Through thoughtful reflections, she balances Stoic ideas with insights from feminist and care ethicists like bell hooks, Audre Lorde, and Carol Gilligan, showing that emotional engagement and systemic awareness are essential in parenting. This episode challenges listeners to consider how they can raise resilient children while also recognising and addressing the societal pressures their children face. Tune in for a thought-provoking exploration of Stoicism, love, and the complexities of modern parenting. Head over to comment on this episode on the “ on Substack. Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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The Caregiver Crisis with Anna Pawlowicz
10/05/2024
The Caregiver Crisis with Anna Pawlowicz
In this episode of *Parents Who Think*, host Danusia Malina-Derben interviews Anna Pawlowicz, CEO of Humankind, about the often invisible role of caregivers in society. Anna opens up about the challenges faced by those who provide care, whether for children, elderly family members, or those with medical complexities, and why caregivers remain undervalued and unsupported. They explore the heavy toll caregiving takes on mental health, work, and personal relationships, and question why governments and workplaces aren’t doing more, despite the fact that caregiving touches us all at some point in our lives. With insights from both personal experience and a broader societal lens, this episode asks us to rethink how we value care and what needs to change to better support caregivers. It’s a conversation that goes beyond caregiving—it’s about the systems that shape all of our lives. Tune in for an essential discussion on why care matters to everyone. Want to join the conversation and share your own caregiver story? Head over to “ on Substack. Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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The Undercover Self-Care Habit with Danusia Malina-Derben
09/28/2024
The Undercover Self-Care Habit with Danusia Malina-Derben
In this rare solo episode, Danusia shares a self-care secret that’s hiding in plain sight: cuddling a teddy bear. Yep, you heard right. We’re talking about the comfort of snuggling up to a stuffed toy, and why it’s not just for kids anymore. From CEOs sneaking plushies into bed to Supreme Court judges traveling with their own teddy, we unpack how this simple, often hidden habit can be a game-changer for stress relief and better sleep. We get into the science, real stories, and some surprising facts about why this soft, squishy form of self-care is making a comeback among adults. Grab your snuggly, get comfy, and let’s challenge the stigma together. Join the conversation and share your own plushie story—head over to “ on Substack. Until next time, keep taking gentle care of yourself. Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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No Nonsense: The Lucy Werner Guide to Self-Promotion
09/21/2024
No Nonsense: The Lucy Werner Guide to Self-Promotion
In this week’s minisode Parents Who Think host, Danusia Malina-Derben chats with PR expert and author Lucy Werner about the art of self-promotion. Known for her straightforward, no-nonsense approach, Lucy shares tips from her books "Hype Yourself" and "Brand Yourself," offering a fresh take on how to be seen without feeling cringe. Danusia and Lucy dive into the often daunting world of self-promotion, unpacking why it feels so tricky and how to make it work for you - without losing yourself in the process. Lucy’s insights are perfect for anyone wanting to boost their visibility, whether you're a pro or a beginner at putting yourself out there. This episode is packed with real, actionable advice on how to hype yourself with confidence, humility, and just enough fun to make it feel right. Tune in for a quick dose of PR wisdom you didn’t know you needed! Discover more from us: • Follow PWT on • Check out Lucy’s books: and • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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Clover Stroud on Intimacy, Motherhood, + Writing
09/14/2024
Clover Stroud on Intimacy, Motherhood, + Writing
In this minisode of Parents Who Think, host Danusia Malina-Derben revisits conversations with British author, journalist, and fellow podcaster Clover Stroud. Known for her raw, beautiful prose on motherhood, trauma, and grief, Clover has crafted a voice that resonates with readers who seek honesty in life’s most complex experiences. In this episode, Danusia and Clover get into the complexities of writing about motherhood and life’s messy truths. Clover reflects on the challenges of crafting authentic stories while living through the realities of being a mother to five. She shares candidly how motherhood reshapes every aspect of life - from career to marriage, and even sexual desire. Danusia and Clover’s transparent discussion about marriage, motherhood, and the creative process makes this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating the rollercoaster of life with kids, career, and relationships. Discover more from us: • Join us on PWT • Follow us on • with Danusia • • Advertising Inquiries Credits: • Hosted by • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram
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