Sex & Singapore City: The Podcast

Witty, gritty and uncensored, The Sex & Singapore City Podcast is by a strong female, for all females.

Let's Get Vocal About Oral 07/27/2020

Let's Get Vocal About Oral If you're tuning in because you think this will somehow be an audible version of soft porn, my apologies, but you'll be let down. If you're tuning in expecting to have a blow-by-blow (enjoy the pun!) tutorial on how to get the best oral sex, you'll also be let down. Besides, a tutorial on this kind of manner needs to be less audible, more visual, amiright? But if you're keen for a general chat, then pop those headphones in my friends & hit play. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/15364514

Life Behind The Media - with S&SC and Hanli Hoefer 07/20/2020

Life Behind The Media - with S&SC and Hanli Hoefer Hanli Hoefer - a Singapore based model, actress, host, presenter and podcaster, has lived a life fully exposed in the media spotlight. I sit down with Hanli to discuss what life really is like behind the lens. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/15279131

How Long Should Guys Last In Bed? 07/06/2020

How Long Should Guys Last In Bed? You'll be very surprised to hear (as I am) what the average time people have sex is, and the 'desirable' length of time for having sex too. Let's dive in shall we! /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/15099431

Does Size REALLY Matter? 06/29/2020

Does Size REALLY Matter? Does it actually matter if the penis is really small, or XLL? Is it an issue for women as much as it seems to be for men? Do we really care about the size of your dicks? Let's Discuss. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/15005006

"I Just Need a Break From Social Media" Let's Discuss 06/22/2020

"I Just Need a Break From Social Media" Let's Discuss Why do we feel we have to have a break from social media? Is it addictive? Is it all negative? Why can't we just limit ourselves, our usage, and not allow it to make us feel so overwhelmed that we have to physically remove it off our smartphones to try mentally sort ourselves out? I discuss this and more in today's episode. Watch the full insert of Simon Sinek's interview that I reference in my episode by . /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/14915726

Being Single During Lockdown - And How to Date After It's Over 06/15/2020

Being Single During Lockdown - And How to Date After It's Over Last week I discussed what it is like being in a relationship and confined to the home together during lockdown (I am so so so ready for a girl's night out nowwww) so this week I wanted to discuss the opposite = being single and isolated. Are all the single people going to head out as soon as lockdown is over and find the first person available for some one-night fun? Or is virtual dating now preference? Tune in to find out my thoughts. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/14823530

How To Ensure Your Relationship Survives Lockdown 06/01/2020

How To Ensure Your Relationship Survives Lockdown If you're yet to read it, one of my recent blog posts details a serious issue - the decline of our mental health during this Covid19 lockdown. To read it now, . One of the knock on effects beyond our personal mental health, is negatively impacting out relationships. We're not used to being stuck in the house around one other person (or that person + extra family) for 24/7! To try help, here are a few of my personal pointers to ensure your relationships lasts longer than this frickin' pandemic does. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/14648438

The Catch-up! Let's talk Lockdown, Staying Sane & Iso.Date 05/27/2020

The Catch-up! Let's talk Lockdown, Staying Sane & Iso.Date My sincere apologies for being quiet for a month or two - I'm finally back onto my content creating feet once more! Here's my quick catch up and to chat about the cool new reality dating TV show I present: /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/14585693

She Said, He Said - The Intricate World of Dating Apps 04/20/2020

She Said, He Said - The Intricate World of Dating Apps Here, Paul Foster and I chew apart the ins & outs of dating apps - what they mean, what they offer, the pitfalls and the positives! Let me know if you have any comments, feedback or epic/awesome dating app stories! IG: /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/14060990

She Said, He Said - Why You Should Adopt, Don't Shop 03/30/2020

She Said, He Said - Why You Should Adopt, Don't Shop Back in March 2020, the height and weight that dogs can be housed in HDB flats have been resized by the government scheme - you can now adopt a dog that is up to 55cm in height, with no weight restriction. There are so many slightly larger dogs out there that need your love and happy home life, and they can now get it. YAY FOR THE DOGGIES. Aside from the above, we're all dealing with the affects of the global pandemic of the Coronavirus, which for the majority of us means we're at home alot more than ever before. Now is the perfect time to introduce a fur baby to your home. But before you all head to a pet shop or a puppy farm *cries*, you need to listen to my co-host and myself discussing all the reasons you should always #AdoptDontShop. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/13756565

She Said, He Said - What is Cheating Anyway? 03/16/2020

She Said, He Said - What is Cheating Anyway? Is cheating just physical? Or can it be emotional? Is kissing cheating? Or is full-on sex only classed as cheating? Is sexting someone else cheating? We discuss all here.... tune in! /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/13563974

Storytime - Dick Pics sliding into my Insta DMs 03/09/2020

Storytime - Dick Pics sliding into my Insta DMs You'd think unsoliticted dick pics from strangers in my direct messages are just a LOL myth - but nah. They're a real thing. And they happen ALOT. Let's discuss shall we.... /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/13464956

She Said, He Said - The rules of Social Media when you are in a Relationship 03/02/2020

She Said, He Said - The rules of Social Media when you are in a Relationship Social media can be held accountable for a lot of relationship issues and downfalls. Damn you IG. But what is okay, what is not okay and are there universal rules for social media, for all the couples out there? With my co-host , we try tackle this tricky terrain! /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/13366526

How To Bag The Guy 02/23/2020

How To Bag The Guy If you're in the early thirsty throws of dating a guy you're into and you want to ensure he sticks around for good, I have a few handy tips / nuggets of advice here to help you out! But as always - BE YOURSELF. That's the main and significant piece of advice at all times. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/13263539

She Said, He Said - Why Do Men Only Appear Interested, Once the Girl Loses Interest? 02/17/2020

She Said, He Said - Why Do Men Only Appear Interested, Once the Girl Loses Interest? It's totally a thing. A guy seems to only care once the girl stops caring. Why is that? Is it all about the chase for men? Once they 'win' the prize, is it suddenly a switch off? /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/13176587

All Your Sex Questions, Answered 02/10/2020

All Your Sex Questions, Answered Whatever you ask me, I'll address it head on with nothing but honesty. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/13086893

She Said, He Said - When to Break up With Someone 02/03/2020

She Said, He Said - When to Break up With Someone We're back! Nixalina & Paul Foster here, battling it out for the genders, dissecting topics and issues that we all face during our single, dating and relationship lifelines. This episode explores - When is it time to break up with someone? /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12989141

How To Be Single 01/27/2020

How To Be Single Newly single? Or have you been single for a long time? Whilst we’re all ‘yas free-time, girls nights out and zero man stress’ when we’re single, it can actually get a little tiring. Dating in itself is exhausting and when it comes to the month of February, those longing pangs for a partner always become that little bit louder. But it’s not all doom, gloom and avoiding couples in the street. You can (and you will) make some changes your end to give yourself a little helping hand when it comes to finding true love. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12895589

Sexting, should you do it? 01/20/2020

Sexting, should you do it? Sexting, is it just some harmless fun, or is it a danger zone you should never enter into? Heed my revenge porn story first, before you make your decision! /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12804617

She Said, He Said - First Date Etiquette 01/12/2020

She Said, He Said - First Date Etiquette With my new co-host , (star of Netflix's global reality show Singapore Social), we have an awesome mini series as part of Sex & Singapore City: The Podcast. Proudly introducing She Said, He Said!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mr. Foster offers the male perspective on all the sex, dating & love issues we females need clarity on - from sexting, to first dates, to cheating or break ups - Paul takes on Nixalina (brave man!) over the mic. Call it a gender battle - but we keep the gloves on! /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12704132

How to Survive a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) 01/06/2020

How to Survive a Long Distance Relationship (LDR) It doesn’t matter if it’s 2 months or 2 years apart, nothing can quite prepare you for the pain of being far away from the person you love. It’s pretty traumatic at times, I’ll be honest – particularly when timezone come into play. 8 hours apart and 7000 miles? Yes, less than ideal. It’s tough, it’s emotionally exhausting and it will make you question your relationship and/or your reasoning on embarking on this long distance crap in the first place. There is a lot of negativity attached to this form of relationship – but I urge you, don’t allow that fear make you hastily decide to call it quits before you even began. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12627413

Storytime - My boyfriend cut my toe off, during sex, on Christmas Day 12/30/2019

Storytime - My boyfriend cut my toe off, during sex, on Christmas Day Drunk and excited for Christmas Day, we decided to have Christmas sex. Because if you can’t make love on Christmas Day, is it even Christmas? This is where I can’t really explain, to myself or anyone else, why the next sequence of events happened. Sigh. But they happened. This is the podcast you never knew you needed. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12561608

Storytime - This one time, I went to a London Sex Party 12/16/2019

Storytime - This one time, I went to a London Sex Party However much you may disagree or refuse to ever attend, sex parties are happening all over the joint. So, when I was asked if I’d like to go and review one, I felt it was my mission to check it out and be able to tell you all what actually goes down. Besides, we only regret what we don’t do, right? /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12411011

All the things they DIDN'T tell you, before you move in with your partner 12/09/2019

All the things they DIDN'T tell you, before you move in with your partner You think it's going to be amazing...but it is often quite the opposite. Avoid the scary unknown and listen to this episode before you take that big step with your other half and move in together. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12329831

How to Survive a Break Up 12/02/2019

How to Survive a Break Up Whether it has been 2 months, 2 years or 20 years - breakups suck. Heartache hurts and there are no words to describe the level of emotional pain you will be feeling. Worst still, you have no idea when any of it will get easier. This podcast will help (hopefully) all those going through a breakup - to come to terms with it, to lessen the daily pain and finger's crossed, move on stronger and happier than ever before. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12241058

Rules to nailing your Tinder profile 11/25/2019

Rules to nailing your Tinder profile This is for dudes & dolls who use Tinder but are struggling to find any matches and have no idea why. From bad first photo choices to terrifying bio captions - here's all the do's and don'ts of acing the Tinder game. Thank me later! /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12152957

WTF is a FuckBoy & How to Spot Them 11/18/2019

WTF is a FuckBoy & How to Spot Them Wouldn’t it be just swell if we could spot all the bad boys before we date them…and actively avoid them like the plague? I cannot count the amount of times I’ve fallen for empty promises and fake sentiments, believing what I’ve got is real…only to be hit with reality down the line. If I could rewind and know he was a fuckboy before I fell hard, I’d do it without a second thought. Whilst we can’t change the past, we can learn lessons and use them to before it’s too late. I have AMPLE experience in this field and I am thus lucky enough to offer you gems that will help you side-step the future fuckboys. Fuckboy checklist? Check. Let’s go. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12073625

Introducing The brand new Sex & Singapore City Podcasttttt! 11/12/2019

Introducing The brand new Sex & Singapore City Podcasttttt! Hi everyone - I'm Nixalina! *waves* Founder / Content Creator of multi-award winning blog and now , I've decided to launch my first ever podcast. *crowd goes wild* Enjoy this teaser episode & thank you for tuning in. /episode/index/show/sexandsingaporecity/id/12000461

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