Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Christian marriage and sex bloggers chat about God's design for healthy and holy sexual intimacy in marriage.

Quick Repair Restores Connection (Quickie) 04/02/2026

Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert 03/26/2026

Porn-Free But Now ED, How to Move During Sex & Feeling Semiconscious After Orgasm (Listener Questions), with Julie Sibert With special guest , we tackle listener questions about erectile dysfunction, moving during sex, and feeling semiconscious after orgasm. Sponsor is passionate about helping couples transform their marriages from surviving to thriving. They offer individual and couples coaching through convenient online video from the comfort of your own home. Regain hope and find healing with the . From the Bible I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman. Job 31:1 I will conduct the affairs of my house with a blameless heart. I will not look with approval on anything that is vile. Psalm 103:2b–3a You ask, “Why?” It is because the Lord is the witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have been unfaithful to her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant. Has not the one God made you? You belong to him in body and spirit. And what does the one God seek? Godly offspring. So be on your guard, and do not be unfaithful to the wife of your youth. Malachi 2:14–15 Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Colossians 3:5 The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13 I have come to my garden—my sister, my bride. I gather my myrrh with my spices. I eat my honeycomb with my honey. I drink my wine with my milk. Eat, friends! Drink, be intoxicated with love! Song of Songs 5:1 (HCSB) Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate . If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker /episode/index/show/sexchatforchristianwives/id/40518500

Dealing with Nonsexual Baggage (Quickie) 03/19/2026

How Sex Changes As You Age 03/13/2026

How's the Hugging? (Quickie) 03/05/2026

When Same-Sex Arousal Enters Marriage, with Vicki Tiede 02/27/2026

From Passion to Connection (Quickie) 02/20/2026

Episode 253: Kissing More in Your Marriage 02/12/2026

Episode 253: Kissing More in Your Marriage Francie Winslow, of , joins us today to talk about why and how you should prioritize kissing in your marriage. Special Request Regent University’s Cherish research team invites married adult women to take part in an important study on women’s thoughts and feelings around their sexual experience. Participation involves completing a confidential 20-minute online survey. Your privacy will be fully respected and you may choose to opt out at any point; if you choose to participate, more information will be given with regard to informed consent. Your responses will help shed light on an area of women’s health that is often underrepresented in research. By joining, you will be contributing to meaningful insights that can improve awareness, resources, and future care for women. Your voice matters, and your voluntary participation can make a real difference. Click or scan below. Please contact abigwi3@regent.edu if you have any questions. Take the 20-minute survey by clicking or scanning below. Sponsor Our Sexual Desire Differences masterclass guides you through what a desire difference looks like in marriage, why it happens, and how to navigate it with grace, understanding, and practical tools. All for only $25! Buy the masterclass or learn more . From the Bible Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine. Song of Songs 1:2 Greet one another with a holy kiss. 2 Corinthians 13:12 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you want to contribute without using Patreon, you can donate . If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker /episode/index/show/sexchatforchristianwives/id/40092140

Let Him Know You Enjoy Sex (Quickie) 02/05/2026

How Often Do Men Really Think About Sex? 01/29/2026

Battling Bedroom Boredom (Quickie) 01/22/2026

Bible Verses That Helped Our Sexual Growth 01/15/2026

Bible Verses That Helped Our Sexual Growth We've often said that the Bible has a lot to say about sexuality. But which passages made a big difference in our lives? Bonny, J, and Chris start off the new year discussing Bible verses that helped our sexual growth. Sponsor has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out! From the Bible Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. 1 Corinthians 6:9–11 I know a man in Christ who fourteen years ago was caught up to the third heaven. Whether it was in the body or out of the body I do not know—God knows. And I know that this man—whether in the body or apart from the body I do not know, but God knows— was caught up to paradise and heard inexpressible things, things that no one is permitted to tell. I will boast about a man like that, but I will not boast about myself, except about my weaknesses. Even if I should choose to boast, I would not be a fool, because I would be speaking the truth. But I refrain, so no one will think more of me than is warranted by what I do or say, or because of these surpassingly great revelations. Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:2–10 Create in me a clean heart, O God And renew a right spirit within me. Psalm 51:10 (KJV) The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion— to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor. Isaiah 61:1–3 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Song of Songs 7:10 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. 1 Corinthians 7:2–7 Here a great number of disabled people used to lie—the blind, the lame, the paralyzed. One who was there had been an invalid for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, “Do you want to get well?” “Sir,” the invalid replied, “I have no one to help me into the pool when the water is stirred. While I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me.” Then Jesus said to him, “Get up! Pick up your mat and walk.” John 5:3–8 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4–8a Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the Lord.” Genesis 4:1 I am my lover’s, and my lover is mine. He browses among the lilies. Song of Songs 6:3 (NLT) For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be made known and brought to light. Luke 8:17 (BRB) Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker /episode/index/show/sexchatforchristianwives/id/39749545

Setting Goals for Your Sexuality (Quickie) 01/09/2026

Holiday PIES Christmas Gift Guide 11/27/2025

Holiday PIES Christmas Gift Guide As usual, we’re wrapping up the year with our annual Christmas gift guide. We're joined by friend and supporter Linda Thwing (pronounced twing) as we share ideas that can deepen your intimacy in four areas: physical, intellectual/creative, emotional, and spiritual. Sponsor is a Christian-friendly sex toy store, with a nudity-free, marriage-focused environment; discreet billing and shipping; and fast, free shipping on orders >$100. Save 13% during their Black Friday Sale with coupon code BF25! From the Bible Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7 The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands. Psalm 19:1 Drawing straws is one way to settle a difficult case. Proverbs 18:18 (CEV) (other translations replace "drawing straws" with "casting lots" or even "casting dice" I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Ephesians 3:16–19 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life. John 3:16 The fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, and faith. Galatians 5:22 (HCSB) Set your mind on things above, not on earthly things. Colossians 3:2 With God, all things are possible. Matthew 19:26b Gift Links Physical Intimacy Intellectual/Creative Intimacy Emotional Intimacy Spiritual Intimacy Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker /episode/index/show/sexchatforchristianwives/id/39128615

De-Stress the Holidays (Quickie) 11/20/2025

Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions) 11/13/2025

Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions) Today, we’re tackling some tough listener questions. We're joined by Tara Buchanan, good friend and cohost of the Behind Our Smiles podcast. Sponsor It's here! Order the Sexual Desire Differences Masterclass and get the video, a resource list, and an invitation to participate in tonight's (Thursday, November 13, 2025) Live Q&A session with Bonny and J at 7:00pm eastern! . From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13 I am a wall, and my breasts are like towers. Thus I have become in his eyes like one bringing contentment. Song of Songs 8:10 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:17 And the Lord God commanded the man, “You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.” Genesis 2:16–17 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened....Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another....Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error. Romans 1:21,24, 26–27 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker /episode/index/show/sexchatforchristianwives/id/39019415

Feel More Sensual (Quickie) 11/06/2025

Sex Is For You Too, Two 10/31/2025

How to Kiss More ... and Better 10/23/2025

How Our Story Affects Our Sexuality, with Kate Aldrich 10/16/2025

Why Kissing Is Good for You 10/09/2025

Pursuing Pain-Free Intimacy 10/02/2025

Pursuing Pain-Free Intimacy Jess Seitz, occupational therapist and vaginismus recovery specialist, of joins us to talk about how wives can address sexual pain they currently have or may have in the future. Sponsor Better Help can match you to the right therapist for you. Get 10% off your first month with our discount code. Just head to . From the Bible Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 I will praise You because I have been remarkably and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, and I know this very well. Psalm 139:14 (HCSB) I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Psalm 27:13 (the verse J couldn't think of in the moment!) “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten— the great locust and the young locust, the other locusts and the locust swarm— my great army that I sent among you. You will have plenty to eat, until you are full, and you will praise the name of the Lord your God, who has worked wonders for you; never again will my people be shamed." Joel 2:25–26 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker /episode/index/show/sexchatforchristianwives/id/38429445

Getting Started Praying About Your Sex Life (Quickie) 09/11/2025

4 Things We Wish We'd Understood About Our Own Sexuality 09/04/2025

The Golden Trio 08/22/2025

Helping Your Husband Heal, with Tara Buchanan 08/09/2025

Quick Update on Masterclass 08/06/2025

No Desire, Wedding Night Preparation, and Can't Reach Climax (Listener Questions) 07/25/2025

Measuring Sexual Growth 07/17/2025

Sex & Social Media 07/10/2025

Sex & Social Media Today, we talk about how social media influences our view of sex, both good and bad, and how to be more intentional with our engagement. Sponsor Mismatched desire in your marriage? Let’s talk about what it means, why it happens, and how to grow closer through it. Sign up for our new masterclass today! From the Bible You say, ‘I have the right to do anything.’ But not everything is helpful. Again you say, ‘I have the right to do anything.’ But not everything builds us up.” 1 Corinthians 10:23 (NLT) Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Proverbs 4:23 The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. Proverbs 12:18 "But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.” Matthew 12:36–37 Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Colossians 4:6 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. James 3:9–10 “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything. 1 Corinthians 6:12 Resources (written for husbands, but we wives could learn a thing or two here as well!) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: And if you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker /episode/index/show/sexchatforchristianwives/id/37368220

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