Sex Chat for Christian Wives
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How Often Do Men Really Think About Sex?
01/29/2026
How Often Do Men Really Think About Sex?
Many wives have heard that men think about sex nearly all the time. But do they? We tackle this important question, because it influences what we think about men, sexuality, and challenges in our marriage. Sponsor Through story-centered counseling and coaching for individuals and couples, helps you move beyond surface solutions into real healing and lasting change. Check them out! From the Bible Those who live according to the flesh have their minds set on what the flesh desires; but those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. Romans 8:5 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. Ephesians 4:22–24 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Philippians 4:8 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Battling Bedroom Boredom (Quickie)
01/22/2026
Battling Bedroom Boredom (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about what to do when your bedroom is a little boring. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Related post:
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Bible Verses That Helped Our Sexual Growth
01/15/2026
Bible Verses That Helped Our Sexual Growth
We've often said that the Bible has a lot to say about sexuality. But which passages made a big difference in our lives? Bonny, J, and Chris start off the new year discussing Bible verses that helped our sexual growth. Sponsor has a great Date Night Subscription box and also sells quality lingerie and single-night date boxes. Check them out! From the Bible Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. 1 Corinthians 6:9–11 I know a man in Christ who fourteen years ago was caught up to the third heaven. Whether it was in the body or out of the body I do not know—God knows. And I know that this man—whether in the body or apart from the body I do not know, but God knows— was caught up to paradise and heard inexpressible things, things that no one is permitted to tell. I will boast about a man like that, but I will not boast about myself, except about my weaknesses. Even if I should choose to boast, I would not be a fool, because I would be speaking the truth. But I refrain, so no one will think more of me than is warranted by what I do or say, or because of these surpassingly great revelations. Therefore, in order to keep me from becoming conceited, I was given a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 2 Corinthians 12:2–10 Create in me a clean heart, O God And renew a right spirit within me. Psalm 51:10 (KJV) The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion— to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor. Isaiah 61:1–3 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Song of Songs 7:10 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that. 1 Corinthians 7:2–7 Here a great number of disabled people used to lie—the blind, the lame, the paralyzed. One who was there had been an invalid for thirty-eight years. When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, “Do you want to get well?” “Sir,” the invalid replied, “I have no one to help me into the pool when the water is stirred. While I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me.” Then Jesus said to him, “Get up! Pick up your mat and walk.” John 5:3–8 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:4–8a Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the Lord.” Genesis 4:1 I am my lover’s, and my lover is mine. He browses among the lilies. Song of Songs 6:3 (NLT) For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be made known and brought to light. Luke 8:17 (BRB) Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Setting Goals for Your Sexuality (Quickie)
01/09/2026
Setting Goals for Your Sexuality (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from J. Parker about setting goals for healthy, God-designed sexuality in 2026 and beyond. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! Related post: *** We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Holiday PIES Christmas Gift Guide
11/27/2025
Holiday PIES Christmas Gift Guide
As usual, we’re wrapping up the year with our annual Christmas gift guide. We're joined by friend and supporter Linda Thwing (pronounced twing) as we share ideas that can deepen your intimacy in four areas: physical, intellectual/creative, emotional, and spiritual. Sponsor is a Christian-friendly sex toy store, with a nudity-free, marriage-focused environment; discreet billing and shipping; and fast, free shipping on orders >$100. Save 13% during their Black Friday Sale with coupon code BF25! From the Bible Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7 The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands. Psalm 19:1 Drawing straws is one way to settle a difficult case. Proverbs 18:18 (CEV) (other translations replace "drawing straws" with "casting lots" or even "casting dice" I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Ephesians 3:16–19 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life. John 3:16 The fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, and faith. Galatians 5:22 (HCSB) Set your mind on things above, not on earthly things. Colossians 3:2 With God, all things are possible. Matthew 19:26b Gift Links Physical Intimacy Intellectual/Creative Intimacy Emotional Intimacy Spiritual Intimacy Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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De-Stress the Holidays (Quickie)
11/20/2025
De-Stress the Holidays (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with tips on how to de-stress the holidays for your own sake and for your marriage. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! _____ We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions)
11/13/2025
Sensitive Spots, Breast Augmentation & an Act She Doesn't Care For (Listener Questions)
Today, we’re tackling some tough listener questions. We're joined by Tara Buchanan, good friend and cohost of the Behind Our Smiles podcast. Sponsor It's here! Order the Sexual Desire Differences Masterclass and get the video, a resource list, and an invitation to participate in tonight's (Thursday, November 13, 2025) Live Q&A session with Bonny and J at 7:00pm eastern! . From the Bible The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:13 I am a wall, and my breasts are like towers. Thus I have become in his eyes like one bringing contentment. Song of Songs 8:10 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:17 And the Lord God commanded the man, “You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.” Genesis 2:16–17 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened....Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another....Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error. Romans 1:21,24, 26–27 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Feel More Sensual (Quickie)
11/06/2025
Feel More Sensual (Quickie)
What a treat today! Gaye Christmus, our former cohost, shares five practical ways to feel more sensual. Be sure to check out her website and shop. ________ We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Sex Is For You Too, Two
10/31/2025
Sex Is For You Too, Two
Today, we're highlighting one of our favorite episodes ever! Featuring the OG gang, we address that sex is for wives too and how to embrace it! Sponsor Mismatched desire in your marriage? Let’s talk about what it means, why it happens, and how to grow closer through it. Sign up for our new masterclass on today! From the Bible Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you— if you find my beloved, what will you tell him? Tell him I am faint with love. Song of Songs 5:18 Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside, let us spend the night in the villages. Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom— there I will give you my love. The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my beloved. Song of Songs 7:11-13 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31-32 Resources (affiliate link) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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How to Kiss More ... and Better
10/23/2025
How to Kiss More ... and Better
This week's quickie is from J. Parker about how to kiss more often in your marriage and improve the experience! Resources _____ We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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How Our Story Affects Our Sexuality, with Kate Aldrich
10/16/2025
How Our Story Affects Our Sexuality, with Kate Aldrich
Today we’re diving into how our personal stories shape our sexuality and our experiences with sex. Joining Bonny and J for this important conversation is , a marriage coach and mentor with an emphasis on Story Work. Sponsor Want to advertise with us? We're specifically looking for women-owned businesses who'd like to get the word out to our many listeners. You can find out more . From the Bible For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Psalm 139:13–14 I meditate on your precepts and consider your ways. Psalm 119:15 [Hagar] gave this name to the Lord who spoke to her: “You are the God who sees me,” for she said, “I have now seen the One who sees me.” Genesis 16:13 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Why Kissing Is Good for You
10/09/2025
Why Kissing Is Good for You
This week's quickie is from J. Parker about the benefits of kissing to both you and your marriage. _____ We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Pursuing Pain-Free Intimacy
10/02/2025
Pursuing Pain-Free Intimacy
Jess Seitz, occupational therapist and vaginismus recovery specialist, of joins us to talk about how wives can address sexual pain they currently have or may have in the future. Sponsor Better Help can match you to the right therapist for you. Get 10% off your first month with our discount code. Just head to . From the Bible Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 I will praise You because I have been remarkably and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful, and I know this very well. Psalm 139:14 (HCSB) I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Psalm 27:13 (the verse J couldn't think of in the moment!) “I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten— the great locust and the young locust, the other locusts and the locust swarm— my great army that I sent among you. You will have plenty to eat, until you are full, and you will praise the name of the Lord your God, who has worked wonders for you; never again will my people be shamed." Joel 2:25–26 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Getting Started Praying About Your Sex Life (Quickie)
09/11/2025
Getting Started Praying About Your Sex Life (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from J. Parker about how to start praying about the sexual intimacy in your marriage. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! _________ Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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4 Things We Wish We'd Understood About Our Own Sexuality
09/04/2025
4 Things We Wish We'd Understood About Our Own Sexuality
With J out, Chris and Bonny tackle what they wish they'd known about their own sexuality long ago. Learn from their hard-earned insights! Sponsor Get matched the right therapist for you wish ! And with our special link, get 10% off your first month. From the Bible The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge, for the ears of the wise seek it out. Proverbs 18:15 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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The Golden Trio
08/22/2025
The Golden Trio
This week's quickie is from J Parker about The Golden Trio (hint: it's about helping women have orgasms, or better orgasms!) Here are a couple additional resources for you: Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on .
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Helping Your Husband Heal, with Tara Buchanan
08/09/2025
Helping Your Husband Heal, with Tara Buchanan
Tara Buchanan of the joins us to talk about the impact of childhood trauma—big T and little t—on sex in marriage and how to help your husband heal. Sponsor Better Help can help you connect with the right therapist. Use our special link and get 10% off your first month: From the Bible The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 Though my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will receive me. Psalm 27:10 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 2 Corinthians 1:3–4 Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and sickness. Matthew 9:35 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Psalm 147:3 Resources w/Tara's first appearance on our show! Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Quick Update on Masterclass
08/06/2025
Quick Update on Masterclass
We've had some unexpected challenges! Take a listen. PREORDER THE MASTERCLASS ! Only $25. From the Bible We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps. Proverbs 16:9 (NLT) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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No Desire, Wedding Night Preparation, and Can't Reach Climax (Listener Questions)
07/25/2025
No Desire, Wedding Night Preparation, and Can't Reach Climax (Listener Questions)
We tackle listener questions today from a wife who doesn't even want to want sex, a woman wanting to know how to prepare for her wedding night and marriage, and a wife who can't seem to get all the way there with orgasm. Sponsor Mismatched desire in your marriage? Let’s talk about what it means, why it happens, and how to grow closer through it. Sign up for our new masterclass on today! From the Bible That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. Genesis 2:24 Resources – ONLY $5! Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: And if you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Measuring Sexual Growth
07/17/2025
Measuring Sexual Growth
This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about measuring sexual growth. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on .
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Sex & Social Media
07/10/2025
Sex & Social Media
Today, we talk about how social media influences our view of sex, both good and bad, and how to be more intentional with our engagement. Sponsor Mismatched desire in your marriage? Let’s talk about what it means, why it happens, and how to grow closer through it. Sign up for our new masterclass today! From the Bible You say, ‘I have the right to do anything.’ But not everything is helpful. Again you say, ‘I have the right to do anything.’ But not everything builds us up.” 1 Corinthians 10:23 (NLT) Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Proverbs 4:23 The words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. Proverbs 12:18 "But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned.” Matthew 12:36–37 Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone. Colossians 4:6 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. James 3:9–10 “I have the right to do anything,” you say—but not everything is beneficial. “I have the right to do anything”—but I will not be mastered by anything. 1 Corinthians 6:12 Resources (written for husbands, but we wives could learn a thing or two here as well!) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: And if you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Choosing a Lube (Quickie)
07/03/2025
Choosing a Lube (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from J Parker about choosing a lubricant for sexual intimacy. A few lube recommendations: Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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Summer Lovin', with Gaye Christmus
06/26/2025
Summer Lovin', with Gaye Christmus
We welcome back former cohost and fan favorite Gaye Christmus to talk about fostering intimacy in your marriage during the summer months—both the challenges and the opportunities. Sponsor Does your husband want sex more than you do? Or are you the one who is more interested? Preorder ! The masterclass will arrive on or around July 1, 2025. From the Bible It was you who set all the boundaries of the earth; you made both summer and winter. Psalm 74:17 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: And if you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Decorate Yourself (Quickie)
06/17/2025
Decorate Yourself (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about decorating yourself for sex. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on .
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What Makes for Great Sex?
06/13/2025
What Makes for Great Sex?
On this podcast, we’re not focused on just having sex. We want wives to experience great sex. But how do we define that? Today, we’re diving into what makes for great sex in marriage and how to get there. Sponsor Get 25% off any lotion or hydrosol in the month of June with our coupon code: FCWSummer. Let soothing touch and scents for your sheets spark deeper connection. Turn bedtime into bonding time with massage lotions and hydrosols. And preorder our new Table Talk Masterclass on NOW! Dropping on or around July 1, 2025. From the Bible But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10 Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. 1 Peter 3:3–4 I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. 1 Timothy 2:1–2 (just a comparison of the same word in Greek translated quiet, also translated sometimes as tranquil) Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: If you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Episode 227: Mindful Connection with Your Body After Trauma (Quickie)
06/03/2025
Episode 227: Mindful Connection with Your Body After Trauma (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with the last of her kegels series about connecting with your body after trauma. You can find the first two quickies of the series here: Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on .
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Why Is Sex Awkward?
05/29/2025
Why Is Sex Awkward?
Sex can feel weird for many wives. We talk about why and how to get past the awkward to better sexual intimacy. Sponsor We’d love your support … and to give you perks! Check out our new page at and partner with our ministry. From the Bible Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: And if you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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The Sexual Benefits of Exercise (Quickie)
05/20/2025
The Sexual Benefits of Exercise (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the sexual benefits of exercise. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on .
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Integrating Body & Soul, with Francie Winslow
05/14/2025
Integrating Body & Soul, with Francie Winslow
We welcome Francie Winslow of to talk about why and how to integrate body and soul for better sexual pleasure and intimacy. Sponsor Calm your mind, reduce stress, and elevate your mood while nourishing your skin with . Experience true body-soul integration as this luxurious lotion soothes your skin and harmonizes your emotional well-being. Aroma skincare at its best! AND buy any size lotion and get a your-choice, FREE lip balm through May 31 using code FCWMAY. Put both items in your shopping bag, and the lip balm will show FREE. From the Bible Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame. Genesis 2:25 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 For it pleased the Father that in Him should all fullness dwell, and having made peace through the blood of His cross, by Him to reconcile all things unto Himself — by Him, I say, whether they be things on earth or things in heaven. Colossians 1:19–20 I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well. Psalm 139:14 (NKJV) Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him. John 13:3–5 As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:38–42 Resources Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! We’d love for you to join our inner circle by supporting us on . You can contribute to our wonderful ministry while getting some fun perks for yourself! Check it out here: And if you could, leave a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please also check out our website and webinars at . And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: - Bonny Burns - Chris Taylor - J. Parker
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Finding Allies (Quickie)
05/06/2025
Finding Allies (Quickie)
This week's quickie is from J Parker about how to find support and wisdom to help your sex life. Follow-up with our and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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