Sexploration with Monika
Sex is proof that God loves us and wants us to have fun!
info_outline 15 Kinds of Orgasms for Everyone 03/01/2021
15 Kinds of Orgasms for Everyone We may have spent the last 9 months cooped up with our partner (or alone) and worry there's nothing new to explore in orgasm, but Susan Bratton has a collection of 15 orgasms for anyone male-bodied, female-bodied. You can find the #UpwardPleasureSpiral in your relationship, and your relationship with yourself. If you're longing for new sizzle in your explorations, Susan Bratton, Author of Revive Her Drive and Sexual Soulmates, has seemingly endless well-researched tools, techniques and ideas to explore!
info_outline Sexy Tantric Ganja Yoga 02/11/2021
Sexy Tantric Ganja Yoga Sex Coach Tantrika & Yoga teacher Dee Dussault has ways to get you into your hips, pelvis and some extra special tools to help you tune into your body, relax, and connect with your partner this Valentine's day. Dee's got some feel-good ways to help you melt into the infinite present moment with 3 special SIP-friendly online classes for Valentine's Day "Sexy Flex" on Friday and Valentine's Day it's Partner Ganja Yoga and Tantra. Plus $50 off a 12-hr self love tantra introduction with SEXPLORATION code
info_outline Keeping Yes And No Sexy 12/28/2020
Keeping Yes And No Sexy Once a high-end escort, she knows how to keep consent sexy. Do you want to try something crazy new with a partner but don't know how to ask? Are you worried your new friend wants to move too quickly? It is a global pandemic, after all, we're all cuddle-starved! Would you like to assert a boundary more gracefully? As a result of Veronica Monet's skillful communication tactics, you can create more desire, turn-on and possibilities for play in your partnership!
info_outline 52 Lesbian Sex Fantasies 11/24/2020
52 Lesbian Sex Fantasies Kamala Devi of "Polyamory: Married & Dating." has an almost 20-year marriage -- and a girlfriend! Now before you start having lurid, explicit lesbian sex fantasies... let Kamala Devi show you how it's done! Just kidding, you can start having lesbian sex fantasies RIGHT NOW. I am.. mmm ladies kissing. Kamala will introduce us to the beatiful Violet, and Ravyn, a dominant and fierce sex-positive feminist in her book "52 Fridays."
info_outline Kinky Tantric Gasm TV 10/22/2020
Kinky Tantric Gasm TV As the Folsom Street Fair has gone all online for COVID-19, of "Getting the Kinks Out: uses medical play, chastity, even erotic enemas to take consenting masochists on healing endorphin journeys while observing that her deep dive into BDSM has healed her early childhood trauma as well. We also discuss what type of relationship you might be drawn to, are you a -seeker, like Monika? Eve also brings up attachment styles (fun 5 min ). Sacred Kink Courtesan is also starting a new online sensual sex-education project as well. Since most people are getting their sex-ed from porn, s mission is to excite and educate, bringing healing & transcendence. We also discuss healing from the wounds of culture, as has a vision for healthy, empowered sexuality for everyone worldwide. Tantrica will reveal how her meditations will help you line in and experience your exciting future successes right now in this present moment. You can try one of her Femifesting meditations on her website. Plus, learn how spark with your own and others' sexual energy sharing oxytocin, the love and bonding hormone, even though we are separated by screens! Evalena's tantric solo erotic dance is just the thing to add to a self-pleasuring practice when you have been sheltering-in-place too long. Sexploration with Monika's latest sexy philosophical explorations of tech, tantra, & kinky sex with plenty of giggles & guffaws from comedian of the Edge of Insanity.
info_outline Tantric Sex Manifestation 05/28/2020
Tantric Sex Manifestation You can use the power of sex to manifest! Using meditation techniques, love and gratitude; you can menifest the reality you desire. Two guide us from sex organs to chakras on how consent and energy, deep brainwaves and intention can connect us to the quantum field so we can manifest, or femifest our heart's desire. OregonTantraFest.com starts May 30th, 2020 - an online passport to connection & exploration with sexy classes, learning about ecstatic states, healing, and sexuality as a gateway to the divine.
info_outline The Everything Orgasm Episode While We Shelter In Place 05/06/2020
The Everything Orgasm Episode While We Shelter In Place Sheltered in place? Let's explore orgasm! Dr. Amy Cooper describes how to have an orgasm for the 1st time with a partner, & intensify orgasms. Lean meditation techniques for arousal that don't involve touch. OrgasmicKitchen.com's Marcie Prohofsky coaches us increase orgasmic energy; healthier, and add sizzle to a sexy dinner, aphrodisiacs, and how to experiment with food and sex in a safe way (that keeps you out of the ER). New Sponsor: TryLGC.com/Sexploration for 20% off at-home laboratory test kits!
info_outline Live Cockettes Sexy Theatre Spectacular 02/05/2020
Live Cockettes Sexy Theatre Spectacular You'll probably get glitter in your soul listening to these on-location interviews and sparkly pieces of the 50th Anniversary of the Cockettes from the , Sluts-A-Go-Go, The , a threesome of sexy gender-queer ; Sister Dana Van Iquity, Sister Roma, and Sister Freida Desire, oh my! Plus, Original Cockettes composer Scrumby Koldewyn & Michael from Pearls Over Shanghai, Tahara from the Angels of Light (a non-commercial spin-off of the Cockettes), , comedian , the rainbow-riffically eclectic , a stunningly sexy impression of Mick Jagger from a Thrillpeddler in mind-bendingly tight hot pink shiny pants, and various incendiary, luminous psychedelic Drag pleasurevolutionaries and sexual freedom fighters from 1969's Summer of Love in San Francisco and commune protest movement recorded for posterity in the Victoria Theatre in the SF of today at 16th and Mission by yours truly January 4th, 2020.
info_outline Golden Cockettes; Sexy Psychadelic Show Tunes 01/04/2020
Golden Cockettes; Sexy Psychadelic Show Tunes 50 glittery, gender-bending years of The Cockettes, an avant-garde theatre & dance group from San Francisco's psychedelic Summer of Love. Let’s explore the scene, the inspiration, the shadow-side, and take a deep dive into this part of the glamtastic history of San Franfreakshow with “Goldie” star Birdie Bob Watt and Dan Karkoska aka DJ Dank producer of Cockettes Are Golden: A 50th Anniversary Celebration. Birdie Bob graces the Mutiny FM theatre with “Cruising” a Cockettes original song!
info_outline Kinky Tantric Ecstatic States for Healing 11/06/2019
Kinky Tantric Ecstatic States for Healing , author of the and , joins & Tantric BDSM Priestess with sex educator Monika and for further exploration of funlightenment, meditating on the sensations of erotic exchange. How do you make hooking up at a kinky play party safe & healing? Even if that does not sound like your scene, how would knowing how to make edge play safe improve your sex life? Francesca & Janet take us on a deep dive into the mind states that can be achieved through conscious BDSM play. We discuss how the work of (quantum field healing), and (trauma & somatic experiences). In retrospect, this mind state beyond time/space and a sense of self reminds Monika of a TED Talk about neurologist who had a stroke and as parts of her brain shut down, she describes an experience of a right-brain *only* mind state beyond time/space and "self" or ego. This Sexploration with Monika episode is warming us up for SexplorationDinner.com in a gorgeous stone cathedral in SF's North Beach November 23rd. Let's Make sex sacred again, because sex is proof that God loves us and wants us to have fun!
info_outline Radical Ecstasy Sacred Sex Transcendental Funlightenment 10/13/2019
Radical Ecstasy Sacred Sex Transcendental Funlightenment Sex Educators "Ethical Slut" , 's Cathy & Monika with discuss the love child of Tantra and BDSM, How do you make kink safe? Why is it important even if you're not kinky? Our juicy conversation is just in time for SexplorationDinner.com The Sexploration Dinner in a gorgeous stone cathedral in SF's North Beach coming up just before Spanksgiving! The event is November 23rd, 2019, but the $69 earlybird tickets end this week. Making sex sacred again, and proving that sex is proof that God loves us and wants us to have fun! Join us as we meditate for transcendental funlightenment.
info_outline Sacred Sex For Life 09/20/2019
Sacred Sex For Life A bevy of sex-educators and Comedian Paul Brumbaugh from discuss how to turn your sex life up to an 11 right now and forever. Sex Educator brings her arsenal of cutting edge technological treatments plus Taoist practices for stamina, health, and pleasure. Monika's star performer is also a renowned sex educator having lectured at Harvard and we'll explore how for her extreme sex is like transcendental meditation. From testosterone and tweaking hormones to the latest advances in sexual vitality (stem cells, prp shots, and GAINSwave vaginal rejuvenation, oh my!) Also Monika is creating a dinner party in a restored stone cathedral from 1907 in San Francisco’s North Beach. Under high vaulted stone ceilings and beautiful stained glass windows, you can enjoy a 5-course feast of desire, beauty & passion with dance & art performances that will delight your palette and make your night sizzle. Cocktails & hors d'oeuvres, figure drawing and between dinner courses dancers, sex-positive singers will feed the part of your soul hungry for fun. Don't forget Rain DeGrey's exhibition of live bondage and Lust Design's latex fashion show to bring just a taste of kink to an elegant evening. Learn more about 11.23.19 at SexplorationDinner.com.
info_outline 2 Too Much Woman; The Edge of Freedom 06/08/2019
2 Too Much Woman; The Edge of Freedom Pleasure Educator Lucia Pavone & I on “Edge of Insanity” with comedian Paul Brumbaugh. We’ll discuss all the ways you can be more free while staying safe, personally & professionally as a woman who wants it all, including the freedom to express herself honestly, authentically (and non-toxically) with S-Factor dance instructor Ellice Apostolos, owner of Steel & Grace pole dance studio in Santa Cruz and Clean beauty expert Isaac the Girl.
info_outline Hot-n-Heavy Fierce Fat Grrls + Too Much Woman SF 06/05/2019
Hot-n-Heavy Fierce Fat Grrls + Too Much Woman SF Virgie Tovar in 2012 as she was editing "Hot & Heavy" Virgie's "FLAWLESS: Radical Body Positivity for Girls of Color" comes out Spring 2020. Virgie's on point for"Too Much Woman SF" June 8th & 9th, 2019 (this weekend!) Join Sexploration with Monika, Gina Hatzis, Lucia Pavone and more ambitious womxn who are ready to explore their leadership beyond the ordinary paradigm.
info_outline Pleasure Spots & Too Much Woman 05/14/2019
Pleasure Spots & Too Much Woman Has anyone ever said you were "too much?" Join the club! Lucia Pavone & Sexploration with Monika on comedian Paul Brumbaugh's uncensored "The Edge of Insanity." - we discuss controversial pleasure points that even some Dr's aren't 100% sure exist... and you may be surprised to learn the sheer size of another female pleasure organ as most of it is deeply hidden in our bodies & simply ignored by most sex education in the US.
info_outline The BDSM Tea Party (10 minute quickie edit) 04/11/2019
The BDSM Tea Party (10 minute quickie edit) You can hear a quickie of the first-ever episode of Sexploration with Monika which debuted in 2007 on Erotic Radio Live. This is an edited 10 min demo version of for the article Sexploration with Monika explores how women and men get what they want in the context of sex and relationships, with a heavy emphasis on exploring new ideas, consent, negotiation, safe sex, kink, connection, communication, and play. Sexploration with Monika show topics range from , Japanese and other fetishes, metamorphasexuals, polyamory, and tips on having the perfect menage-et-trois. You can enjoy how "golly gee whiz" I am when they clue me about pegging, obviously this was before I was a Certified Sexual Health Educator! LoL Thanks to David Fratto of Media Posse for donating valuable production time for the first few shows in his lovely studios on Haight Street in SF. It was not uneventful (but it was a learning experience), & I'm sure his neighbors have forgotten all the strange noises by now!
info_outline Is That Broccolini In Your Yoga Pants or Are You Just Happy To See Me? 04/05/2019
Is That Broccolini In Your Yoga Pants or Are You Just Happy To See Me? Do YOU think it's OK to wear yoga pants when you are NOT doing yoga? Do you think it's OK to judge people for what they look like in yoga pants? What if they are wearing yoga pants after yoga? While doing a play about yoga? You might think is a play about yoga, that's only 1% correct. It's actually about ALL the social justice issues of our time -- and it's funny! Join me at the for an interview with star & co-producer Susi Damilano and then... is it crudite, is it cruciferous, is it compost? What *IS* that in your veg drawer? It's There's no time sooner than now to eat your veg ;)
info_outline This Heart Holds Many; 2nd Gen Sex & Gender 03/18/2019
This Heart Holds Many; 2nd Gen Sex & Gender Can you be pretty and manly or do you have to limit yourself to being pretty manly? Do you have to pick a gender? How many are there? What's it like when Grandma is polyamorous? How do you get THREE moms? Koe Creation's family tree is more flowchart or a "polycule" with relationships reaching out every which-way. Which pronoun should you use? What's it like growing up in a family where the entire family actually ACCEPTS your sexuality? I know, it's shocking. , tells all in their coming-of-age autobiography and you'll get a taste of them here, tonight. You can join Koe at the , out on tour or at @KoeCreate! They also discuss the SF swing lifestyle in a way you will never expect!!
info_outline Boob Massage, Sweet Spots & Radical Feminist Comedy 01/21/2019
Boob Massage, Sweet Spots & Radical Feminist Comedy Techniques for erotic breast massage & a cunning linguist's favorite “sweet spot” pillow position. Plus, explore the hilarious side of sex-positive feminism with playwright Anne Galjour of #GetGandhi: A Radical Feminist Comedy! Where is the Sisterhood of the Travelling Pantsuits going? Susan Bratton's new book "The Soulmate Embrace" teaches a breast massage technique that's AMAZING! Also healthy, all that blood flow and sexy energy moving around, plus lymphatic massage and pleasure is healthy anyway
info_outline Energy Healing, Sex and Musicals 07/06/2018
Energy Healing, Sex and Musicals BioField Energy Healing, Sexual Energy, & Deep Consent with Mike Sententia, founder of HealingLab.org. What does energy healing mean for the modern understanding of physics? Then join us on a glittery romp through the outback with "Priscilla Queen of the Desert; the Musical!" by Theatre Rhinoceros (1st queer theatre in the known universe) with producer Joseph Tally, & political mime troupe star Rotimi Agbabiaka from “Seeing Red: A Time-Traveling Musical” on why red -- socialism may be coming back into s
info_outline Take a bite of Erotic Fine Artist Nancy Peach 02/03/2017
Take a bite of Erotic Fine Artist Nancy Peach Erotic Fine Artist flowered from church lady to San Francisco's bold and daring sex-positive oil painter who paints dominatrixes and porn stars bigger than life, with gold leaf, fishnets and flowers. We'll discuss how Nancy flowered from church lady to Erotic Fine Artist under Femina Potens & bondage porn star Madison Young. We also talk about how going from architectural artist to erotic fine artist affected her traditional marriage and two children. You can catch Sexploration with Monika LIVE on Facebook too! You can go to Nancy's gallery opening in Santa Cruz at First Fridays tomorrow February 3rd 2017 & March 3rd 2017 and all the sexy oil paintings in between.
info_outline Kinky Salon Confessions 01/11/2016
Kinky Salon Confessions You've listened to her discuss founding the , ... she's known as Polly Glamourous, , latex designer & purveyor ... and author of the memoir Now, Polly Whittaker has her very own podcast! It's called and I was on it talking about polyamory, relationship anarchy, being a sex-positive prude, and making sex culture revolutionaries and organizations more grounded through real estate. Enjoy!
info_outline Are you your own authentic kind of sexy? 02/14/2015
Are you your own authentic kind of sexy? Have you ever felt that the sexual revolution may have happened 50 years ago but you're still not getting what you want from sex and dating? Sex is such a big part of our culture, as 50-Shades of Grey is plastered high on big billboards, but unless you're empowered to say what you want, you might be feel sex & dating is the grey area. What do you do if you're into someone but they're not matching your level of interest? What if he's pushing for physical intimacy but refuses to offer emotional intimacy? Dr Susan Edelman, psychiatrist and author of and I discuss how you can explore what you really want, treat your feelings with tenderness, support others, be honest with yourself, and pursue your own desires while gracefully saying no to what you don't want and yes to what you do. Is 50 Shades of Grey, depicting a healthy dating relationship, consent, and even kink in realistic way or is it a fantasy? Your kind of sexy is real and it's different from everyone else's. Let's talk about how to respect it.
info_outline Homeless Sex Party? Scary!!! 02/24/2014
Homeless Sex Party? Scary!!! You can join us at the last Halloween at in SF's gentrifying Mission district. As Kinky Salon gets evicted from Mission Control, they bid a freaky farewell & start to plan ways to keep throwing their colorful, sexy, highly unique parties while homeless. Remember, it's not just one sex party that is getting evicted, there's Velvet, Pink, Club Kiss, Threshold, Touch, the League of Gentlemen, the Speakeasy series, Essence... In this on-location broadcast you'll hear the Kinky Salon Cabaret, the exorcism in one of the many sexploitation film scenes being play acted live for the amusement of the party-goers, and hear about Bix's plans to give MC a very juicy orgasmic send-off with Jiz Lee and .
info_outline Masquerotica 2013: Costumes & Consent Are Sexy 11/03/2013
Masquerotica 2013: Costumes & Consent Are Sexy You can join me live on location at the epic sf sexy-party with Club Exotica, Bondage-A-Go-Go, Syd Gris, Cabaret de Caliente, Barron Scott Levkoff of Kinky Salon, , Mama Fou, and Clod Hop with Carnival Fantastique, Joegh of Anon Salon and so much mmmore! We'll describe the sights, sounds, eye-popping costumes and sexy goings-on, how to make a sexy corset that's COMFORTABLE, and all the myriad of ways to get consent (so you can make sure the person you are touching actually enjoys it) including the ever-so blackbelt move the "ask without asking." Masquerotica is an annual sexy pre-Halloween costume party that dares to discourage touristing and bad manners by outlawing street clothes, looky-loos, and unwanted advances. It's a "second base" party so consensual hugging, kissing, making out, above-the-waist groping/frotterage/fondling/pleasurable touching are A-OK. You'll hear Wes and I be surprised by some light and very exhibitionist BDSM play "cropping up" just before our eyes.
info_outline Girl Sex 101: Roadtrip Sex-ed Romance Novel Comic 10/13/2013
Girl Sex 101: Roadtrip Sex-ed Romance Novel Comic is roadtrip sex-ed comic book erotica, where the story "drives home" lessons about pleasure, anatomy, sexy communication skills, consent, and the 1,001 ways to pleasure a woman. Join sex educator & author of the (lesbian werewolves) books Allison Moon and I at the Fruitopia loft for a lubricating discussion of what anyone can learn from women having sex. In Girl Sex 101, Jamie and her ex Layla are driving a van from Vancouver to San Diego, and sexy adventures ensue. Allison and porn comic artist kd diamond of Salacious Magazine are creating a feminist, pleasure-positive, and consent-oriented sex education comic-book story to help women of all orientations understand their bodies and their partners. For example, in the first chapter, Layla has a hard time speaking up about what she likes in bed with a hot femme she picks up. Later on, Jamie finds herself in bed with a trans guy and doesn't quite know how to talk with him about his body. Meanwhile, Layla wants to communicate her STI status to a new flame, while Jamie navigates fooling around with an old crush with a disability. Girl Sex 101 also features sex-ed superstars Megan Andelloux, Tristan Taormino, Jiz Lee, Carol Queen, Nina Hartley, Sex Nerd Sandra, Reid Mihalko, Kelly Shibari and YOU! Allison wants to hear from you on and , and you can be a part of the genesis of Girl Sex 101 on Kickstarter -- if they can raise just over $1000 more Girl Sex 201 will happen with more advanced topics like kink, non-monogamy, fisting, oh my!
info_outline Love Drugs & Polyamory with the Queen 08/08/2013
Love Drugs & Polyamory with the Queen Are you in love or are you drugged by your own brain chemicals? If you have decided to open your relationship, how can you make sure you're doing it in a healthy way? is the founder of the Sacred Courtesan School, the Knights of Eros, and the Temple of Shadows. We discuss new relationships and all the drug-like brain chemicals that come with them... and when you're a floaty-hot-and-bothered-smitten-kitten, how to tell the difference between true love and pheromones. Plus, what's the difference between polyamory, and unconscious non-monogamy or "cheating?!!" What is high-protocol polyamory and how would you start a polyamorous relationship with the queen (or her paramour)? How can you engage with people in other relationships in the most conscious way - so that things go as smoothly as possible in uncharted waters? Could polyamory be a mechanism for personal or spiritual-growth? Also, you'll learn something ridiculous about the history of "playing footsie" that will either blow your mind, make you LOL, or explain the footwear of elves.
info_outline Tantra & Pleasure: the Danger Path? 05/10/2013
Tantra & Pleasure: the Danger Path? Why is Tantra, the "pleasure path" to spirituality, also seen as dangerous? I'm wandering in, around, and above Union Square with , founder of , , and the Temple of Shadows. We'll explore a number of ideas in, around and on top of consciousness and sexuality. Learn about "Intuitive Safe Sex," whether or not it's actually safe, and how to communicate about STI's and manage your risk. Do you talk to your vulva? You could be able to experience a new level of orgasm by loving & being IN your body. Plus, can the tools and techniques of BDSM & kinky sex be used for sacred sexuality and spiritual connection? In relationships, how can you break the cycle of neediness and fear and come to a place of choice? Does playing "hard to get" work or is it dangerous because it communicates that we're not able to be honest in a yes? How do you deal with mixed messages, while being open, authentic, and creating allure with power & clarity? If your body is a temple, how do you adorn it? Plus, what sexy outfits mean and the connection between sex and spiritual power. What is the mysterious and yet so prevalent connection between shoes, feet, & sex? What happens when we suppress sexual expression and desire?
info_outline Cockette's Tinsel Tarts In A Hot Coma: Theater of the ReDICKulous 05/04/2013
Cockette's Tinsel Tarts In A Hot Coma: Theater of the ReDICKulous You may wonder what is a "Tinsel Tart in a Hot Coma?” But this musical isn't about making sense, it's about outrageousness! It does ~have~ a plot about a Hollywood star (or a "Tinsel Tart") going back to New York, but this musical trades narrative for being outrageously sparkly, queer, and sexually provocative. If you listened to the Sexploration with Monika episode, you'll remember , who have been described as "mindless libertineage," and "beautiful, funny, liberating, psychedelic messengers from the gods." There's a story within a story here that arcs from SF to NYC and goes all the way back to the late 1960's North Beach. Until June 1st 29th, 2013, are reviving another Cockette's Theatre of The Ridiculous sextravaganza with 3 of the original Cockettes, Scrumbly Koldewyn, “Sweet Pam” Tent, and Rumi Missabu. This troupe of glittery anti-establishment drag queens took "Tinsel Tarts in A Hot Coma" on the road to the Big Apple in 1971. They got a lot of press, and while not all of it was good, they penetrated the culture, inspiring glam rock, glitter rock, 80's glitter-glam fashion, a host of spin off troupes, bands, documentaries, YouTube make-up tutorials and more. The "Tinsel Tarts" you can see now at the Hypnodrome, is no less glittery but restored, rewritten, and rehearsed... from a 1971 outline to Thrillpeddler's full-length version. The Thrillpeddlers are still clearly having a blast onstage... but the set doesn't really look like cardboard anymore. We'll speak with original Cockettes Sweet Pam Tent and Rumi Missabu in this episode of Sexploration with Monika, and the person who may have coined the term "drag king," Leigh Crow, aka Elvis Herselvis. In the previous Sexploration with Monika episode about the Cockettes, we interviewed the other original Cockette - composer Scrumbly Koldewyn, plus Thrillpeddler's artistic director Russell Blackwood.
info_outline Aphrodisiacs and Ingredients for Arousal 04/15/2013
Aphrodisiacs and Ingredients for Arousal Have you ever wanted to try a real aphrodisiac? Chances are you have - and I don't mean that you've been dosed - because that's not sexy. There are tons of natural aphrodisiacs, and they could have been masquerading as a tossed salad - not THAT kind of tossed salad, though that could be an arousal amplifier too. Natural aphrodisiacs are just another way that God shows us that nature is pro-sex and when used with intention, you could be in for a lot of fun. Nutritionist Jared of will tell us which herbal aphrodisiacs he uses in his truffles. Speaking of a lot of fun, the "My Blissed Out Valentine" haiku for the aquatic & couple's massage from are here too. It's all for science - awareness, oxytocin, arousal, and exploration on this episode of Sexploration with Monika.