Sexploration with Monika

Sex is proof that God loves us and wants us to have fun!

Will You Find Juicy inspiration Here Now 07/18/2025

Will You Find Juicy inspiration Here Now Monika Interviews Dixie De La Tour of Bawdy Storytelling Get ready for a night of provocative storytelling, unapologetic truth, and boundary-pushing honesty! In this episode, Monika sits down with Dixie De La Tour, the dynamic force behind Bawdy Storytelling, to talk about the upcoming live show on Friday, July 18th at 8:00 PM at the Verdi Club in San Francisco's Potrero Hill neighborhood. They dive into the life and legacy of Dossie Easton, co-author of groundbreaking books like The Ethical Slut, Radical Ecstasy, The Topping Book, and The Bottoming Book. Dixie shares how a life-changing LSD trip became a turning point for Easton—one that would influence generations of thinkers, lovers, and radicals in the world of sex-positivity, kink, and ethical non-monogamy. This conversation is not just about storytelling—it’s about transformation, legacy, and the power of telling the truth out loud. Don’t miss the Bawdy Storytelling show—Friday, July 18th at 8:00 PM Verdi Club, Potrero Hill, San Francisco Real People. Real Stories. Real Sexy. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/37459885

You Can Learn How To Feel Into Your Own Pleasure! 04/29/2025

You Can Learn How To Feel Into Your Own Pleasure! Sexploration With Monika Interviews, "Shameless" Heather Atlas about Somatica, Non-Violent Communication (NVC), your inner family, and how to go from trauma to healing with modalities like core erotic themes and feeling states. NVC is a powerful communication framework. It's designed to foster empathy, understanding, and connection—especially in emotionally charged situations. You can find more information about heather Atles at her website: Subjects: Deshamification Deshamification means removing or lessening the shame by acknowledging it and moving forward. Taking the air out of the balloon. Kink Non-normative ideas Sex Disability Neurons that fire together wire together. Processing disappointment Polycules Relationship repair skills Not making each other wrong /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/36364585

You Can Celebrate The Revolution Ms. Blakk For President! 07/12/2024

You Can Celebrate The Revolution Ms. Blakk For President! - Drag Queen Joan Jett Blakk (Terreance Smith) campaigns for Mayor and President of the United States. - Pioneered efforts in human and women's rights. - Rocky Horror Picture Show'esque campaign chants - Activism-inspired play starring Tarell Alvin McCraney at Steppenwolf's award-winning theater production. Recorded at Edge Studios online in San Francisco /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/32106362

Did You Know That You Can Have A Cervical Orgasm? 05/30/2024

Did You Know That You Can Have A Cervical Orgasm? Sexploration with Monika, guest Neo-Tantric Sex Educator Amara Karuna, with Token Straight Guy: Dylan who is a professional nurse at Kaiser. We talk about pleasure, orgasm , female ejaculation & cervical orgasm. Many People Don't Know About The Diffrent Kinds Of Orgasms & In Addtion To The Clitoral Orgasm You Can Have An Ejaculitive Or Gushing G-Spot Orgam & Even A Cervical Orgasm! The Taoists Call The Cervical Orgasm The Shower Of Stars. We Learn About How The Unconscious Patterns We May Have Picked Up In Childhood Like Not Breathing, Being Quiet & Not Moving Can Interfere Not Only With Your Sexual Pleasure But Even With The Small Joys That We Experience Every Day, Like Eating, Listening To Music Or Watching A Sunset. How We Can Be More Present In Each Moment & How To Find The Pleasure Of Being, Even When It Is A Small Daily Task. We Talk About Different Reward Chemicals Like Dopamine, Serotonin, Oxytocin & Other Neurotransmitters & Endorphins. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/31542182

Sexporation With Monika: Dance for the Middle East! 03/03/2024

Sexporation With Monika: Dance for the Middle East! Did you know that it was illegal to even dance in the Middle East? Perhaps you have heard that people in the Middle East are not allowed to wear Western clothing but did you know it was illegal for them to dance? You'll find a discussion of the joys & challenges of middle eastern feminisists. There are #dancelifefreedom #womenlifefreedom and because it is illegal for anyone to dance or celebrate life we will have to do it for them on our social media platforms like Instagram, Twitch, etc., so feel free to upload a video of yourself and your family dancing for the women and men and children in the Middle East who cannot! Shiva J has enjoyed the freedom of moving to the United States and is now an artist celebrating sensuality, beauty, and erotic play for couples and others. You can learn more at her website: /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/30202688

Eleanor Rosevelt's lesbian lover Lorena (Hick) 01/01/2024

Eleanor Rosevelt's lesbian lover Lorena (Hick) You can learn more about the first lady of the world Elenor Roosevelt and her intimate stolen moments on the campaign trail and in the White House. Playright Terry Baum introduces us to Lorena Hickock, the highest paid female journalist of her day, who coresponded with Elenor in hundreds of secret love letters. Find out where you can explore the romance and love that lasted for many years. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/29292398

Mimes Speak For Change!! 07/31/2023

Mimes Speak For Change!! Sexploration With Monika invites San Francisco Mime Troupe's Marie Cartier to Edge Studios in downtown San Francisco. Token Straight Guy Paul Brumbaugh joins in on the fun. Recorded Live 7-21-2023 These mimes will not stay silent in Dolores Park and lots of Bay area Parks, even as far away as Cotati! San Francisco native Marie Cartier is also a social worker and brings her unique voice to social justice issues like homelessness and depression that we all have faced, especially during the pandemic. She tells her story about writing Hobos in Space, a radio play produced online when we couldn't go outside. You can see Marie and many of her castmates as the summer goes by in Berkeley, Glen Park, and in lots of other areas, and on Labor Day, they will be back at Dolores Park! Mimes speak for social justice in San Francisco's Dolores Park and many other Bay Area parks, and you can find out more with Sexploration with Monika's interview with Marie Cartier! /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/27608298

Cockettes Res-ERECTION 03/24/2023

Cockettes Res-ERECTION Are you feeling the chill of winter? As the rains give way to the flowers of May and/or March let's enjoy the present moment and hear what Scrumbly Koldewyn, DJ Dan Karkoska, and the rest of the Cockettes have in store for you! It may just raise your freak flag! Sex educator and musical theater geek Monika Thomas and Paul Brumbaugh from the Edge of Insanity enjoy a live performance where Scrumbly Koldewyn searches for the perfect banana for you and me and everybody else. "As the chilly winter gives way to spring, there is a feeling in the air, a need for rebirth and everything it takes to get there–fauna blooming, bunnies and chickies being born and giant phallic objects rising into the air needing to be worshiped. The legendary Cockettes give the Rites of Spring their own unique twist as original Cockette Scrumbly Koldewyn brings you Res-Erection, a colorful musical revue featuring new songs and classic Cockettes numbers inspired by the changing season, bunnies, love and lust. Prepare for a night of Cockettes musical mayhem featuring Aaren Smith, Birdie Bob Watt, Bonni Suval, Carl Linkhart, Christian Heppinstall, Kitten on the Keys, Matt Bratko, Noah Haydon, Steven Satyricon, Jordan “Sunshine” Bontrager and more. Cockettes Res-Erection will be such an amazing Spring Awakening, it may even raise the dead!" /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/26326386

What Forbidden Friut Do Wou Want To Explore? 10/14/2022

What Forbidden Friut Do Wou Want To Explore? Nude Noir a sexy party coming up October 14th and 15th at at a gorgeous venue the Speakeasy in North Beach ofSan Francisco Sexploration with Monika talks with Britt about .female sexual empowerment, desire, sensuality, personal exploration, the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system, tantra, BDSM, and The libertine history of San we discuss the safe and consensual exploration of darkness, shibari rope bondage, and finding your authentic thrills. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/24684828

Footgasms with Mistress Minax 07/24/2022

Footgasms with Mistress Minax Stay tuned to sexploration with Monika for the explicit details about #NudeNoir coming from London to #SanFrandFreakshow at #thespeakeasy October 14th and 15th is the next episode. Did you know you could have an orgasm In Your Feet? You can learn how to have an orgasmin in a shocking number of erogenous zones! Learn how to enjoy #Footgasms and even #armpitgasms with professional #dominatrix and #sexeducator Eve Minax who will also, discuss how to employ your sexuality and the sympathetic nervous system to heal trauma. We'll learn how Eve"gets the kinks out" of her ever-so-willing "patients" in medical play scene. Plus the connection between the spiritual side of sexuality and BDSM and kinky sex #sexploratiowithMoika #kinky #footplay @eveminax @Paul Brumbaugh at edgestudios in #SanFrancisco /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/23837516

Girl Shock Tease; Is Crossdressing Too Much Fun? 06/15/2021

Girl Shock Tease; Is Crossdressing Too Much Fun? He thought he would just dress up as a woman for Halloween, but she keeps having so much fun, what were all the reasons s/he should stop? Maria Konner's tell-all-the-sordid-details book "Girl Shock!" Self-discovery. Sexuality. Trans. LGBTQ. Gender Fluidity. Drag. Kinky Sex. Love. Lust. This post-pandemic teaser-interview is just to wet your... whistle as you wait for my Zoom laptop harddrive to be fixed. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/19480289

15 Kinds of Orgasms for Everyone 03/01/2021

15 Kinds of Orgasms for Everyone We may have spent the last 9 months cooped up with our partner (or alone) and worry there's nothing new to explore in orgasm, but Susan Bratton has a collection of 15 orgasms for anyone male-bodied, female-bodied. You can find the #UpwardPleasureSpiral in your relationship, and your relationship with yourself. If you're longing for new sizzle in your explorations, Susan Bratton, Author of Revive Her Drive and Sexual Soulmates, has seemingly endless well-researched tools, techniques and ideas to explore! /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/18135089

Sexy Tantric Ganja Yoga 02/11/2021

Sexy Tantric Ganja Yoga Sex Coach Tantrika & Yoga teacher Dee Dussault has ways to get you into your hips, pelvis and some extra special tools to help you tune into your body, relax, and connect with your partner this Valentine's day. Dee's got some feel-good ways to help you melt into the infinite present moment with 3 special SIP-friendly online classes for Valentine's Day "Sexy Flex" on Friday and Valentine's Day it's Partner Ganja Yoga and Tantra. Plus $50 off a 12-hr self love tantra introduction with SEXPLORATION code /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/17910239

Keeping Yes And No Sexy 12/28/2020

Keeping Yes And No Sexy Once a high-end escort, she knows how to keep consent sexy. Do you want to try something crazy new with a partner but don't know how to ask? Are you worried your new friend wants to move too quickly? It is a global pandemic, after all, we're all cuddle-starved! Would you like to assert a boundary more gracefully? As a result of Veronica Monet's skillful communication tactics, you can create more desire, turn-on and possibilities for play in your partnership! /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/17342807

52 Lesbian Sex Fantasies 11/24/2020

52 Lesbian Sex Fantasies Kamala Devi of "Polyamory: Married & Dating." has an almost 20-year marriage -- and a girlfriend! Now before you start having lurid, explicit lesbian sex fantasies... let Kamala Devi show you how it's done! Just kidding, you can start having lesbian sex fantasies RIGHT NOW. I am.. mmm ladies kissing. Kamala will introduce us to the beatiful Violet, and Ravyn, a dominant and fierce sex-positive feminist in her book "52 Fridays." /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/16934078

Kinky Tantric Gasm TV 10/22/2020

Kinky Tantric Gasm TV As the Folsom Street Fair has gone all online for COVID-19, of "Getting the Kinks Out: uses medical play, chastity, even erotic enemas to take consenting masochists on healing endorphin journeys while observing that her deep dive into BDSM has healed her early childhood trauma as well. We also discuss what type of relationship you might be drawn to, are you a -seeker, like Monika? Eve also brings up attachment styles (fun 5 min ). Sacred Kink Courtesan is also starting a new online sensual sex-education project as well. Since most people are getting their sex-ed from porn, s mission is to excite and educate, bringing healing & transcendence. We also discuss healing from the wounds of culture, as has a vision for healthy, empowered sexuality for everyone worldwide. Tantrica will reveal how her meditations will help you line in and experience your exciting future successes right now in this present moment. You can try one of her Femifesting meditations on her website. Plus, learn how spark with your own and others' sexual energy sharing oxytocin, the love and bonding hormone, even though we are separated by screens! Evalena's tantric solo erotic dance is just the thing to add to a self-pleasuring practice when you have been sheltering-in-place too long. Sexploration with Monika's latest sexy philosophical explorations of tech, tantra, & kinky sex with plenty of giggles & guffaws from comedian of the Edge of Insanity. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/16501799

Tantric Sex Manifestation 05/28/2020

Tantric Sex Manifestation You can use the power of sex to manifest! Using meditation techniques, love and gratitude; you can menifest the reality you desire. Two guide us from sex organs to chakras on how consent and energy, deep brainwaves and intention can connect us to the quantum field so we can manifest, or femifest our heart's desire. OregonTantraFest.com starts May 30th, 2020 - an online passport to connection & exploration with sexy classes, learning about ecstatic states, healing, and sexuality as a gateway to the divine. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/14600138

The Everything Orgasm Episode While We Shelter In Place 05/06/2020

The Everything Orgasm Episode While We Shelter In Place Sheltered in place? Let's explore orgasm! Dr. Amy Cooper describes how to have an orgasm for the 1st time with a partner, & intensify orgasms. Lean meditation techniques for arousal that don't involve touch. OrgasmicKitchen.com's Marcie Prohofsky coaches us increase orgasmic energy; healthier, and add sizzle to a sexy dinner, aphrodisiacs, and how to experiment with food and sex in a safe way (that keeps you out of the ER). New Sponsor: TryLGC.com/Sexploration for 20% off at-home laboratory test kits! /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/14300858

Live Cockettes Sexy Theatre Spectacular 02/05/2020

Live Cockettes Sexy Theatre Spectacular You'll probably get glitter in your soul listening to these on-location interviews and sparkly pieces of the 50th Anniversary of the Cockettes from the , Sluts-A-Go-Go, The , a threesome of sexy gender-queer ; Sister Dana Van Iquity, Sister Roma, and Sister Freida Desire, oh my! Plus, Original Cockettes composer Scrumby Koldewyn & Michael from Pearls Over Shanghai, Tahara from the Angels of Light (a non-commercial spin-off of the Cockettes), , comedian , the rainbow-riffically eclectic , a stunningly sexy impression of Mick Jagger from a Thrillpeddler in mind-bendingly tight hot pink shiny pants, and various incendiary, luminous psychedelic Drag pleasurevolutionaries and sexual freedom fighters from 1969's Summer of Love in San Francisco and commune protest movement recorded for posterity in the Victoria Theatre in the SF of today at 16th and Mission by yours truly January 4th, 2020. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/13024703

Golden Cockettes; Sexy Psychadelic Show Tunes 01/04/2020

Golden Cockettes; Sexy Psychadelic Show Tunes 50 glittery, gender-bending years of The Cockettes, an avant-garde theatre & dance group from San Francisco's psychedelic Summer of Love. Let’s explore the scene, the inspiration, the shadow-side, and take a deep dive into this part of the glamtastic history of San Franfreakshow with “Goldie” star Birdie Bob Watt and Dan Karkoska aka DJ Dank producer of Cockettes Are Golden: A 50th Anniversary Celebration. Birdie Bob graces the Mutiny FM theatre with “Cruising” a Cockettes original song! /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/12613943

Kinky Tantric Ecstatic States for Healing 11/06/2019

Kinky Tantric Ecstatic States for Healing , author of the and , joins & Tantric BDSM Priestess with sex educator Monika and for further exploration of funlightenment, meditating on the sensations of erotic exchange. How do you make hooking up at a kinky play party safe & healing? Even if that does not sound like your scene, how would knowing how to make edge play safe improve your sex life? Francesca & Janet take us on a deep dive into the mind states that can be achieved through conscious BDSM play. We discuss how the work of (quantum field healing), and (trauma & somatic experiences). In retrospect, this mind state beyond time/space and a sense of self reminds Monika of a TED Talk about neurologist who had a stroke and as parts of her brain shut down, she describes an experience of a right-brain *only* mind state beyond time/space and "self" or ego. This Sexploration with Monika episode is warming us up for SexplorationDinner.com in a gorgeous stone cathedral in SF's North Beach November 23rd. Let's Make sex sacred again, because sex is proof that God loves us and wants us to have fun! /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/11926412

Radical Ecstasy Sacred Sex Transcendental Funlightenment 10/13/2019

Radical Ecstasy Sacred Sex Transcendental Funlightenment Sex Educators "Ethical Slut" , 's Cathy & Monika with discuss the love child of Tantra and BDSM, How do you make kink safe? Why is it important even if you're not kinky? Our juicy conversation is just in time for SexplorationDinner.com The Sexploration Dinner in a gorgeous stone cathedral in SF's North Beach coming up just before Spanksgiving! The event is November 23rd, 2019, but the $69 earlybird tickets end this week. Making sex sacred again, and proving that sex is proof that God loves us and wants us to have fun! Join us as we meditate for transcendental funlightenment. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/11625500

Sacred Sex For Life 09/20/2019

Sacred Sex For Life A bevy of sex-educators and Comedian Paul Brumbaugh from discuss how to turn your sex life up to an 11 right now and forever. Sex Educator brings her arsenal of cutting edge technological treatments plus Taoist practices for stamina, health, and pleasure. Monika's star performer is also a renowned sex educator having lectured at Harvard and we'll explore how for her extreme sex is like transcendental meditation. From testosterone and tweaking hormones to the latest advances in sexual vitality (stem cells, prp shots, and GAINSwave vaginal rejuvenation, oh my!) Also Monika is creating a dinner party in a restored stone cathedral from 1907 in San Francisco’s North Beach. Under high vaulted stone ceilings and beautiful stained glass windows, you can enjoy a 5-course feast of desire, beauty & passion with dance & art performances that will delight your palette and make your night sizzle. Cocktails & hors d'oeuvres, figure drawing and between dinner courses dancers, sex-positive singers will feed the part of your soul hungry for fun. Don't forget Rain DeGrey's exhibition of live bondage and Lust Design's latex fashion show to bring just a taste of kink to an elegant evening. Learn more about 11.23.19 at SexplorationDinner.com. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/11326820

2 Too Much Woman; The Edge of Freedom 06/08/2019

2 Too Much Woman; The Edge of Freedom Pleasure Educator Lucia Pavone & I on “Edge of Insanity” with comedian Paul Brumbaugh. We’ll discuss all the ways you can be more free while staying safe, personally & professionally as a woman who wants it all, including the freedom to express herself honestly, authentically (and non-toxically) with S-Factor dance instructor Ellice Apostolos, owner of Steel & Grace pole dance studio in Santa Cruz and Clean beauty expert Isaac the Girl. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/10100153

Hot-n-Heavy Fierce Fat Grrls + Too Much Woman SF 06/05/2019

Hot-n-Heavy Fierce Fat Grrls + Too Much Woman SF Virgie Tovar in 2012 as she was editing "Hot & Heavy" Virgie's "FLAWLESS: Radical Body Positivity for Girls of Color" comes out Spring 2020. Virgie's on point for"Too Much Woman SF" June 8th & 9th, 2019 (this weekend!) Join Sexploration with Monika, Gina Hatzis, Lucia Pavone and more ambitious womxn who are ready to explore their leadership beyond the ordinary paradigm. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/10056905

Pleasure Spots & Too Much Woman 05/14/2019

Pleasure Spots & Too Much Woman Has anyone ever said you were "too much?" Join the club! Lucia Pavone & Sexploration with Monika on comedian Paul Brumbaugh's uncensored "The Edge of Insanity." - we discuss controversial pleasure points that even some Dr's aren't 100% sure exist... and you may be surprised to learn the sheer size of another female pleasure organ as most of it is deeply hidden in our bodies & simply ignored by most sex education in the US. /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/9773306

The BDSM Tea Party (10 minute quickie edit) 04/11/2019

The BDSM Tea Party (10 minute quickie edit) You can hear a quickie of the first-ever episode of Sexploration with Monika which debuted in 2007 on Erotic Radio Live. This is an edited 10 min demo version of for the article Sexploration with Monika explores how women and men get what they want in the context of sex and relationships, with a heavy emphasis on exploring new ideas, consent, negotiation, safe sex, kink, connection, communication, and play. Sexploration with Monika show topics range from , Japanese and other fetishes, metamorphasexuals, polyamory, and tips on having the perfect menage-et-trois. You can enjoy how "golly gee whiz" I am when they clue me about pegging, obviously this was before I was a Certified Sexual Health Educator! LoL Thanks to David Fratto of Media Posse for donating valuable production time for the first few shows in his lovely studios on Haight Street in SF. It was not uneventful (but it was a learning experience), & I'm sure his neighbors have forgotten all the strange noises by now! /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/9363377

Is That Broccolini In Your Yoga Pants or Are You Just Happy To See Me? 04/05/2019

Is That Broccolini In Your Yoga Pants or Are You Just Happy To See Me? Do YOU think it's OK to wear yoga pants when you are NOT doing yoga? Do you think it's OK to judge people for what they look like in yoga pants? What if they are wearing yoga pants after yoga? While doing a play about yoga? You might think is a play about yoga, that's only 1% correct. It's actually about ALL the social justice issues of our time -- and it's funny! Join me at the for an interview with star & co-producer Susi Damilano and then... is it crudite, is it cruciferous, is it compost? What *IS* that in your veg drawer? It's There's no time sooner than now to eat your veg ;) /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/9278750

This Heart Holds Many; 2nd Gen Sex & Gender 03/18/2019

This Heart Holds Many; 2nd Gen Sex & Gender Can you be pretty and manly or do you have to limit yourself to being pretty manly? Do you have to pick a gender? How many are there? What's it like when Grandma is polyamorous? How do you get THREE moms? Koe Creation's family tree is more flowchart or a "polycule" with relationships reaching out every which-way. Which pronoun should you use? What's it like growing up in a family where the entire family actually ACCEPTS your sexuality? I know, it's shocking. , tells all in their coming-of-age autobiography and you'll get a taste of them here, tonight. You can join Koe at the , out on tour or at @KoeCreate! They also discuss the SF swing lifestyle in a way you will never expect!! /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/9043691

Boob Massage, Sweet Spots & Radical Feminist Comedy 01/21/2019

Boob Massage, Sweet Spots & Radical Feminist Comedy Techniques for erotic breast massage & a cunning linguist's favorite “sweet spot” pillow position. Plus, explore the hilarious side of sex-positive feminism with playwright Anne Galjour of #GetGandhi: A Radical Feminist Comedy! Where is the Sisterhood of the Travelling Pantsuits going? Susan Bratton's new book "The Soulmate Embrace" teaches a breast massage technique that's AMAZING! Also healthy, all that blood flow and sexy energy moving around, plus lymphatic massage and pleasure is healthy anyway /episode/index/show/sexplorationwithmonika/id/8332619

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