Pivot with Purpose
(Formerly Sh*t I'm 30 Podcast) Pivot with Purpose is a podcast that celebrates every step of the journey into finding our purpose. Whether you feel lost and purposeless or you are currently fulfilled, Carla documents her journey juggling being an entrepreneur, radio personality and single mother of 2! How do the people you look up to the most find their purpose and have a balanced life? Well let's chat with them and get an insight into their lives. Join Carla and her guests weekly. Grab a glass of wine or coffee if you happen to be at work and lets find our God given Purpose!
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Finding Balance and Authenticity with Sofia Aguilar
05/14/2024
Finding Balance and Authenticity with Sofia Aguilar
Embrace the hustle without losing yourself—that's the promise of our latest heartfelt conversation. Unwind with me, Carla Ramirez, and the insightful Sofia Aguilar from Canada, as we delve into the world of content creation and the quest for personal growth. As my 37th birthday looms, I'm taking stock of self-care's crucial role amidst our non-stop work lives. With Sofia's podcasting journey as our backdrop, we chart a course through the ebbs and flows of social media's impact, the disparities in healthcare across borders, and the generational dance of wisdom and innovation in content creation. we often find ourselves at a crossroads of identity and belonging. In the company of multicultural women like us, we unravel the threads of not feeling "enough" for any one group and the journey to reclaim our heritage with pride. Our discourse spans from the complexities of Colombian stereotypes to the universal challenge of forging a path that honors our diverse backgrounds. And as we wade through these waters, we also navigate the delicate balance of intertwining friendships with professional roles, and the significance of setting firm boundaries. Thank you to our Sponsors: McDonalds BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 217:Breaking Barriers in Business with Denise Woodard
04/02/2024
EP 217:Breaking Barriers in Business with Denise Woodard
Discover the entrepreneurial spirit that is reshaping the world of allergy-friendly treats with of . Join us as we venture into the reality of starting and scaling a business, particularly as a woman of color, where every day is a lesson in grit, innovation, and the sweet taste of success. You’re invited to a candid conversation where we not only savor Partake's delectable cookies but delve into the strategies that transformed a mom's concern into a thriving brand. This episode is a close look at real-world wisdom for anyone navigating their career path. From the value of asking for help to embracing mentorship and participating in programs like Walmart's Black Unlimited, we share our first-hand experiences of the transformative power these resources hold. And for those considering a pivot, you'll find encouragement and practical advice on finding purpose in your work, ensuring your next move is not just a step but a leap towards fulfillment. Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 216: Loud Budgeting and Financial Freedom with Giovanna González
03/26/2024
EP 216: Loud Budgeting and Financial Freedom with Giovanna González
Unlock the secrets to financial freedom and take control of your money narrative with the wisdom of TikTok financial guru Giovanna, aka Our conversation illuminates the intriguing concept of "loud budgeting," a proactive, vocal approach to managing money that's shaking up the status quo. Delve into the heart of financial literacy with us as we discuss the profound influence of family on our money mindsets and the journey from paycheck-to-paycheck living to building lasting wealth. Gigi's insights into the financial realities of immigrant families and her tips for financial empowerment through social media offer a fresh perspective on shaping your own fiscal future. Navigating the complex dance of money, relationships, and personal values is no easy feat, but it's a challenge we tackle head-on in this episode. We reflect on aligning your finance with your core beliefs and how certain life choices, such as opting to live child-free, can redefine financial planning. As we examine the nuances of financial expectations in dating and entrepreneurial pressures, this conversation offers a rich tapestry of experiences and strategies to help you balance the scales of love and money. Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 215: Life Update: Personal Struggles and Professional Triumphs
03/15/2024
EP 215: Life Update: Personal Struggles and Professional Triumphs
Navigating through a storm of personal challenges and triumphant professional wins, I, peel back the curtain on the silent battles that often go unnoticed. Struggling with ADHD and facing a shortage of my essential medication. I find myself grappling with the highs of creative breakthroughs and the lows of emotional blocks. The episode is a raw exploration of this dichotomy, providing an intimate glimpse into the resilience needed to stand firm amidst family betrayal and legal trials, all while celebrating those moments of professional acclaim that remind us of our potential. Whether you're a parent, a professional, or someone who's ever fought to maintain your values in a challenging world, this episode resonates with the universal quest for emotional maturity and the strength found within. Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 214: Should I Get a Doula?
03/04/2024
EP 214: Should I Get a Doula?
This week I am joined by the founder of Black Mom Blog and pioneer of black motherhood and self-care Shanica Boswell. You’ll hear about the shaming of single mothers sending their child to stay with their fathers, the benefits of a doula, and trying to have a natural birth after having a C-section. This episode isn’t only for women with babies or who are currently pregnant, but it’s an episode for everyone to get an inside look at the journey and obstacles or pregnancy and parenting. Follow Our Guest Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered @shaniciaboswell @blackmomsblog
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EP 213: Dinero, a Prenup, and How to be FNF! feat Jannese Torres
02/26/2024
EP 213: Dinero, a Prenup, and How to be FNF! feat Jannese Torres
Today’s guest is Jannese Torres , host of “Yo Quiero Dinero Podcast". Jannese discusses entrepreneurship and how she found success as a food blogger. Then, she tells a bizarre story about her husband’s mistress confronting her mom about their affair and why she decided to get a divorce. Jannese also drops some major gems on how to start a business and the ladies connect over their love for Puerto Rico. This week’s listener letter is a question about lending money to family and the scripture of the week is Ecclesiastics 5:10. Connect with Jannesse: Instagram: Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 212: He Married/Divorced a Narcissist TWICE!
02/19/2024
EP 212: He Married/Divorced a Narcissist TWICE!
This week Carla is joined by Baron Young from Reach One Recovery which dedicated to providing the “spark” of enlightenment for survivors of narcissistic abuse. We are shinning a light into men that have experienced abuse. As a society we dont allow men to share or express their pain, yet this kind of abuse will cause PTSD so many while the numbers of narcissistic abuse keep rising. Some of the things you will hear: Suicidal rates in men Realizing that you are being abused and its not physical How to leave a narcissistic relationship Email your questions to Launch Your Podcast in 30 Days use code PODCAST to get $100 OFF Connect with us
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EP 211: Juggling the Highs and Lows of Love, Finances, and Self-Discovery
02/16/2024
EP 211: Juggling the Highs and Lows of Love, Finances, and Self-Discovery
Ever found yourself laughing through a challenge over dinner? This week on Pivot with Purpose, I'm joined by Paola, as we discuss life’s curveballs with a side of laughter. Get ready to explore personal evolution, relationship rollercoasters, and the blend of family dynamics we all navigate. Money and love—two things that should work in harmony but often end up clashing like titans. Throughout this episode we tackle the issue of financial manipulation in relationships. From the audacious requests for money to shaming over financial incapabilities, we've seen it all and lived to tell the tale. Childhood tales, narcissistic exes, and the minefield of co-parenting all come into play as we share personal stories and strategies to keep your financial dignity intact. Take a listen! Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 210: Embracing Identity, Building Boundaries, and Paternity Tests feat Dexty
02/08/2024
EP 210: Embracing Identity, Building Boundaries, and Paternity Tests feat Dexty
I've always believed that if opportunity doesn't knock, build a door. This episode with Dex swings that door wide open as we revel in the tales of our entrepreneurial spirit, which took root in childhood candy sales and blossomed into career advancements achieved through sheer tenacity. We share a laugh over our methods of carving out our own spaces and touch on the not-so-secret ingredients to success: emotional intelligence and networking. A simple reminder that playing the cards we're dealt with strategic thinking and assertive action can lead to creating the opportunities we seek. we also dive into the emotional complexities of family dynamics, from the discovery of surprising ancestry to the intricacies of navigating relationships with estranged family members. Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 209: How ADHD Became Our Superpower
01/30/2024
EP 209: How ADHD Became Our Superpower
Imagine untangling the complexities of love and digital entrepreneurship while also juggling the nuances of ADHD. That's exactly what we're doing as I sit down with , the digital sales guru and business coach, to explore the magnetic digital marketplace and its impact on our personal lives. We pull back the curtain on the dance of relationships, the resilience needed in the face of health challenges like endometriosis, and the profound emotional journey toward motherhood—a path fraught with societal expectations and our own shifting identities. Our conversation doesn't shy away from the spiritual and emotional pillars that support us through life's ebbs and flows. Reflect with me on the role of faith in personal growth,Join us for this journey of discovery and introspection, where we embrace change, cherish support systems, and strive for authenticity in every step. Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 208: High Maintenance Friendship as Adults ft Dani aka Splenda
01/10/2024
EP 208: High Maintenance Friendship as Adults ft Dani aka Splenda
On this episode with and : Ever found yourself wondering why some friendships feel like a never-ending carousel of emotions? Join me, and my guest Dani as we unravel the complexities of friendship. From the comical trials of aging to the heartfelt moments of reconciliation after a friendship breakup. This episode is your personal handbook to what exactly a high maintenance relationship is, and understanding the emotional investment necessary for nurturing friendships while keeping your boundaries intact. Prepare to be inspired, laugh out loud, and maybe even shed a tear as we dissect the role of therapy in managing friendship woes and the profound impact these relationships have on our personal growth. Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' -
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EP 207: New Year, New Pivot - I GOT FIRED? AGAIN?
01/02/2024
EP 207: New Year, New Pivot - I GOT FIRED? AGAIN?
Ever feel like life's thrown you a curveball you just didn't see coming? Join us as we confess our own stories of transformation and tackle the balancing act between work and personal joy. We're peeling back the layers on the corporate world's sometimes harsh truths and revealing the silver linings that come with owning your content and career path. So, whether you're looking for a heart-to-heart on life's pivotal moments or just a good laugh about the stress of parenting and dating ,Tune in and join the conversation—you're bound to walk away with a fresh perspective, and you might just find yourself ready to pivot Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________________ ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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The Best of 2023 - Going Down Memory Lane
12/28/2023
The Best of 2023 - Going Down Memory Lane
In this week's episode were listening to highlights of 2023 from episodes Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - M&M’s Frito Lay’s ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 205: Necole Kane Pivoting LIFE After a Failed Blind Date - From Gossip Queen to Happy Flo
12/18/2023
EP 205: Necole Kane Pivoting LIFE After a Failed Blind Date - From Gossip Queen to Happy Flo
In this pivotal episode, Necole Kane discusses her start as a gossip blogger (Necole Bitchie) to realize her purpose as a different type of social media platform. Her journey started with a blind date and led her to sell all of her things off and move to Arizona. During her time there, she created her successful businesses (xoNecole and My Happy Flow) and moved on to creating other platforms that fulfill her with happiness. Listen in as Necole and Carla break down how you can be successful in the world of media while still maintaining your peace. How Necole Kane went from the Gossip Columns to selling her company to Will Packer (06:08) - Who is Necole Kane (the Rebrand) (32:54) - Trusting in Blind Faith (38:16) - Relationships and Dating (Fear of Abandonment) (54:57) - Taking Control of Your Period (68:08) - Finding Yourself through Soul Coaching (83:36) - Bible Verse - Psalms 91 Guest IG: @hellonecole + myhappyflo /hellonecole Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 204: The Pursuit of Purpose: Navigating Activism and Advocacy feat Tiffany D Loftin
12/04/2023
EP 204: The Pursuit of Purpose: Navigating Activism and Advocacy feat Tiffany D Loftin
Could your content consumption habits be shaping your outlook and actions more than you realize? Join me,as I sit down with Tiffany Dean Loftin the host of "How We Get Free," for a mind-opening discussion about the power of content consumption. We dive into the creation of podcasts and the impact they have on their creators. Are you ready to navigate the complex world of advocacy, voting, and social justice? We share our personal experiences on the challenges of leaving jobs, setting boundaries, and dealing with tough dynamics. We discuss the significance of your vote and the role of elected officials in shaping our society. Furthermore, we provide valuable resources to help you stay informed, get involved, and make a difference in pressing social justice issues. Let’s go beyond the spotlight and explore the role of celebrities in the social justice movement. Join us as we disentangle the emotionally charged subject of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict and emphasize the need for continued awareness and action. As we wrap up, our special guest, Tiffany shares a powerful discourse about the true meaning of success and fulfillment. Listen in as we engage these critical issues with the aim of inspiring you to pivot with purpose toward a life of significance. Thank you to our Sponsors: Frito-Lay My Joy BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 203: Reflecting on Five Years of Entrepreneurship
11/09/2023
EP 203: Reflecting on Five Years of Entrepreneurship
Join me on a journey of reflection as I recount five years of entrepreneurial endeavors - the triumphs, the hardships, and the invaluable lessons. I'll let you in on the five key things I've learned over my half-decade venture, including the art of active listening, the importance of valuing all voices, and the necessity of doing your homework before stepping onto any podcast. Additionally, I contemplate hosting an in-person event for our podcast’s six-year mark – an exciting milestone that feels both humbling and surreal. As we venture deeper into the realm of entrepreneurship, I share my experiences with outsourcing, assembling a supportive team, and the often hard-learned lesson that growth sometimes requires leaving certain things behind. Listen in as I recount personal stories about the difficult, yet necessary decisions I’ve had to make. I also impart some knowledge on networking, financial literacy, and leadership. As a business owner, preparation is key, and it’s essential to surround yourself with professionals like accountants or coaches who can guide you along the way. Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 202: 7 Kids and 7 Baby Mamas Ft. Comedian TK Kirkland
10/23/2023
EP 202: 7 Kids and 7 Baby Mamas Ft. Comedian TK Kirkland
In this episode, comedian TK Kirkland wants you to understand his story but learn from his mistakes. From losing most of his immediate family (parents and siblings) to creating 7 kids of his own, TK has learned to accept things as they are. This comedian entrepreneur sits down with Carla to discuss how everyone has their own journey and we all have to allow each other the space to grow wiser as we grow older. (06:18) - Carla introduces TK Kirkland (07:38) - “Carla On Air: Love is Blind” (Hot Take) (21:32) - The Personal Live of TK Kirkland (42:06) - Be Wary of the Company You Keep (54:52) - Lessons Through Life Experience (1:13:07) - Bible Verse - Proverbs 1:5 Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Guest IG: @tk_kirkland Website: tk.network Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 201: It's Step Daddy Season - Navigating Parenting and Dating with Ariel B
10/16/2023
EP 201: It's Step Daddy Season - Navigating Parenting and Dating with Ariel B
Ever wondered how to navigate the intriguing journey of parenting while also trying to keep your personal life active? Join us as we talked with Ariel Brown, host of Too Shall Pass, who shares her Inspirational and often humorous experiences. Ariel opens up about her son's evaluation at school due to concerns about his development and energy levels, and how modern technology impacts children's behavior. We move on to a lighter note, exploring dating life and the role humor plays in relationships. Also touching on the critical need for any potential partner to provide a safe space! To wrap up , we discuss the wisdom that even toddlers can bring to our lives, taking note of their often funny and sometimes disconcerting remarks about their parents' significant others. We stress the necessity of resilience, faith, and positivity, particularly in challenging times. We also caution against the pitfalls of comparison, especially in today's social media-dominated world. Get ready for a mix of laughs, revelations, and heartfelt (0:00:00) - Child's Behavior Discussion With Skittles (0:09:18) - Discipline and School for Busy Kids (0:17:36) - Speech Therapy and Learning Challenges (0:22:49) - Parenting Challenges and Dating Criteria (0:35:09) - Preferences in Dating and Cultural Considerations (0:46:53) - Kids' Funny Dating Commentary (0:52:33) - Maintaining Faith in Difficult Times Thank you to our Sponsors: Skittles BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________________ ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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Its a Celebration 200 EPISODES !!!! Road to Redemption
10/04/2023
Its a Celebration 200 EPISODES !!!! Road to Redemption
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EP 199: I am EVOLVING Through Vulnerability
09/25/2023
EP 199: I am EVOLVING Through Vulnerability
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EP 198: From Addiction to Motherhood with Jessica Rose
09/13/2023
EP 198: From Addiction to Motherhood with Jessica Rose
Jessica Rose (“She Really Had a Baby”) is a woman with a successful brand that has millions of followers and reach across the internet…but it has been far from easy. Growing up, Jessica had no one to turn to. A domestic dispute with father and her negligent mother caused her to turn to a life of drug and alcohol addiction. After realizing she was going to be a mom, Jessica decided to begin the journey of turning her life around. Tune into this week’s podcast as Jessica and Carla discuss changing the cycle of mother-daughter trauma and learning to love themselves in the process. (6:49) - ADHD and Autism (14:47) - Who is Jessica Rose? (21:43) - Breaking Motherhood Trauma (32:40) - Sobriety vs. Self-Love (39:30) - New Money and Discipline (60:46) - Letter from Fan: How to Support Partner who Co parents with their ex (70:55) - Bible Verse - Proverbs 22:6 Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Skittles - Taste the Rainbow Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Guest IG: @thisisjessicarose Website: Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 197: The Struggles of Back To School Life as a Single Mother and Creating Your Tribe
09/05/2023
EP 197: The Struggles of Back To School Life as a Single Mother and Creating Your Tribe
Carla and Paola are back to chat about the craziness that is back to school and many other topics. Their convo begins by discussing Carla’s tell-all on her recent guest appearance on the “Know For Sure” podcast and leads into body positivity for all body types. Finally, the ladies dive into the struggles of sending their kids back to school as a single-mom and having a license to carry in a house with children. Join the duo in this informative yet fun episode filled with laughs and understanding that you are not alone in your motherhood journey. (11:29) - Creating Confidence in Your Self-Image (16:24) - Tory Lanez Sentencing (24:35) - Back to School as a Single Mother (32:05) - The Importance of Having a “Tribe” (42:02) - Bible Verse - 1 Timothy 5:8 Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month SKITTLES - Taste the Rainbow Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Guest IG: @justpales Charlamagne The God Episode: Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 196: Manifesting Friendships as Adults and Creating Healthy Boundaries feat May Tsehay
08/30/2023
EP 196: Manifesting Friendships as Adults and Creating Healthy Boundaries feat May Tsehay
In this chaotic and crazily fun episode, Carla sits down with May Tsehay; her long-time friend and producer who helped take Carla’s brand and company to the next level. Their discussion leads to topics that range from setting healthy boundaries, mental breakdowns, and how much love you have for someone if you pick them up from LAX. Tune into this episode as the duo have honest dialogue surrounding what it means to be a good friend while making sure to take time for yourself. (14:05) - Friendships and Alignment (28:24) - Creating Spaces to Be Your True Self (38:44) - Battle Between Mind and Body (48:29) - Work Life: Balancing Respect and Relatability (55:15) - Listener Question: How To Maintain Healthy Boundaries but Still Support Others (1:03:35) - Bible Verse - 1 Thessalonians 5:11 Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Skittles- Taste The Rainbow Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Guest IG: @maytsehay Charlamagne The God Episode: Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 195: AN Unexpected and Unpredictable Life from Parental Separation to Medical Diagnosis feat Kay-Lani (viva_glam_kay)
08/22/2023
EP 195: AN Unexpected and Unpredictable Life from Parental Separation to Medical Diagnosis feat Kay-Lani (viva_glam_kay)
Having tried reaching out to this guest for years to join the podcast, was finally able to sit down with make-up artist ) at the perfect moment. Kay-Lani has been in the spotlight for years but today she sat down with us to discuss her upbringing, her start in make-up, and the life she has built for herself and her family. Throughout all of her hardships growing up, Kay-Lani and Carla shed light on how therapy and her relationship with her family and children has shaped her into the person she is today. Topics on the show: The Journey of having a child with precocious puberty Body Positivity and Internet Trolls Kay-Lani’s Journey in Make-Up Vida with Viva: Kay-Lani and Family Therapy in Hispanic Culture Balancing Empathy and Healthy Boundaries Bible Verse - 2 Corinthians 12:9 Guest IG: @viva_glam_kay Thank you to our Sponsors: Skittles BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 194: "They Always Say The Ex is Crazy" Feat. THE EX
08/15/2023
EP 194: "They Always Say The Ex is Crazy" Feat. THE EX
You’ve also probably been told that THE EX IS CRAZY…Well lets talk to the ex! Now we have to navigate the tricky waters of “co-parenting” ourselves. Today's episode of Pivot with Purpose offers a raw and authentic conversation with my special guest, Erica - my son's brother's mom - as we share our personal journey towards co-parenting. Our commitment to nurturing a bond between our boys may have been fraught with challenges, but it has led to a healthy relationship that we're proud to share. A crucial part of our journey involved healing, understanding, and finding common ground. Erica and I don't shy away from discussing the heartache that comes with a complicated family dynamic, and how setting boundaries was key to our healing process. We also break down how we consciously removed chaos from our lives, each taking our unique path towards growth and strengthening our resolve to foster a positive environment for our boys. You'll learn how we both have grown from our past experiences, and how they shaped the women we are today. Lastly, we will explore the power of generosity and the joy of utilizing our unique gifts. Drawing strength from the Bible verse Luke 6:38, we delve into how choosing love over hate has been instrumental in our healing process. Erica, now a successful culinary chef, sheds light on her journey and the fulfillment she finds in her work. This episode is a testament to the power of patience, understanding, and mutual respect in co-parenting. So join us for an honest and open conversation about navigating intricate family dynamics. “sometimes when we talk, you relive things, right, but as part of the healing process” “I take things personal and, um, yeah, I gotta know that, um, everything doesn't deserve a reaction” 06:05 - Co-Parenting Concerns and Finding Reassurance 0:15:00 - The Beginnings of a Beautiful Bond 0:20:29 - Shared Healing and Smiling 0:26:19 - Crazy Reactions and Mutual Understanding 0:31:47 - Intentional Growth and Dealing With Chaos 0:36:14 - Success, Power, and Communication 0:42:35 - Dealing With Control and Parenting Issues Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 193: Focusing on Self-growth After Break-ups with Mandii B.
08/07/2023
EP 193: Focusing on Self-growth After Break-ups with Mandii B.
Mandii B. (See, The Thing Is…and WHOREible Decisions Podcasts) is in Orlando and of course she had to come by the studio! Both women have been through very tough break ups that were so different yet so similar. If you've heard the term " she wont leave him until she is ready" then you will understand why they stayed in their relationships longer than they should have. Mandii has decided to become celibate after this breakup and her and Carla discuss how celibacy Is different between the both of them because it has been over a year and Carla is still not ready to date. There is a deep talk about narcissism and toxic manipulative relationships and how they can be so similar yet so different and how to support a friend through it. Join the conversation and laughter as these long-time friends show how growth comes in ANY form. (4:32) - Being Unapologetically You (10:43) - Picking Yourself Up After the Pandemic (13:37) - Finding Strength in Being Alone (34:56) - With Age Comes Wisdom (44:03) - Vow of Celibacy (51:52) - Thriving While Single (57:17) - Bible Verse - Proverbs 18:24 Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Guest IG: @fullcourtpumps Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 192: The Story of Realtor Linda Jokbengboon: Refugee Camps, Gambling Addiction, and Growing up Asian
08/01/2023
EP 192: The Story of Realtor Linda Jokbengboon: Refugee Camps, Gambling Addiction, and Growing up Asian
Imagine not belongin anywhere, no real home, no identity, no country that you can legally call home. Linda Jokbengboon aka Linda Sells Orlando started life in a Thai Refugee Camp. After moving to America, she struggled to assimilate with every community including her own. In this episode, Carla and Linda discuss Linda’s upbringing filled with gambling addiction, raising her siblings during college, and how a misdemeanor stopped her from gaining citizenship. They shed light on how Linda was able to overcome her hardships and become successful in real estate. (5:59) Carla and Linda discuss how they met (7:21) Being a refugee from Thailand (10:43) Dad’s Gambling Addiction (19:33) Troubles of gaining citizenship and traveling abroad (29:41) Growing up with Identity struggles (40:35) Aligning with your purpose (55:43) Linda and Carla answer a letter with the topic “Dumb real estate questions from a beginner” (62:32) Bible Verse - Psalm 128:2 Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Guest IG: Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 191: The Impact of Liars, ADHD and Bipolar Medication Struggles, and Finding Strength in Faith
07/25/2023
EP 191: The Impact of Liars, ADHD and Bipolar Medication Struggles, and Finding Strength in Faith
Listen in as we dissect the intricate web of lies and their implications, both for the individual and those around them. This exploration also extends to the consequences of fake kidnappings, attention-seeking behavior, and their possible link to mental health issues. Prepare for a lively debate about the characteristics that define high-value men and women. We explore the importance of a strong moral code, leadership values, faith, and discipline. This conversation also highlights the dangers of an overemphasis on superficial success and material possessions, and the need to strive for internal success. Additionally, we shed light on the challenges faced by a trans woman who was refused treatment by a gynecologist and the current debate about who owns periods and womanhood. The latter part of our discussion touches on the struggles with ADHD and bipolar medication, focusing on Carla's personal experience with Adderall. We navigate through the consequences of the 'highs' and 'lows' of medication and the importance of consistency. You will also get insights on financial literacy, budgeting, and the various avenues for accessing education. Don't miss out on this episode, where we talk about real-life experiences and challenges, providing a platform for you to learn and grow. Bible Verse: Psalm 23: 1-4 (0:00:06) - Pivot With Purpose (0:07:45) - Faked Kidnappings and Their Consequences (0:19:00) - Impact of Lies and High Value (0:24:30) - High Moral Values and Success (0:33:51) - Nursing School and Medication Mishaps (0:38:02) - ADHD and Bipolar Medication Struggles (0:46:01) - Trans Woman Challenges Cis Women (0:58:45) - Listener Letter: Unwanted Pregnancy and Responsibility (1:07:46) - Finding Strength and Comfort in Faith Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok ___________ Guest IG: @justpales Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 190: Behind the Laughter: A Heart-to-Heart with Kristen and J-Rod about Marriage, Blended Family, and Children with Autism
07/17/2023
EP 190: Behind the Laughter: A Heart-to-Heart with Kristen and J-Rod about Marriage, Blended Family, and Children with Autism
Join us on a journey filled with laughter, real-life experiences, and powerful insights as we welcome Kristen and J-Rod, the couple behind the hit podcast 'And Then We Had Sex'. These two share an incredible story about how they launched a successful podcast, and their unique approach to navigating relationships and intimacy when you're older. This episode is a deep dive into the idea of 'Pivot with Purpose' and how Kristen and J-Rod carved their path on their own terms. As we dig deeper, we engage in an enlightening discussion about common reasons for failed relationships. Brace yourselves as we reveal that cleanliness tops the list, even surpassing financial issues! We also touch on the negative impacts of social media overuse on relationships, illustrated by a viral video that underscores the importance of being present. This conversation doesn't shy away from exploring the challenges of dating, blended families, and the therapeutic potential of podcasting for couples. (0:00:06) - Pivot With Purpose (0:06:13) - Contributors to Failed Relationships (0:10:46) - Podcasting and Relationship Stories (0:23:46) - Podcasting as Therapy for Couples (0:30:04) - Challenges of Dating and Blended Families (0:42:36) - Power of Prayer, Finding a Church (0:47:19) - Benefits of Tithing and Podcasting (0:53:31) - Maintaining Consistency in Freelancing and Creativity (1:06:36) Bible Verse - 1 Thessalonians 5:11 Thank you to our Sponsors: BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Guest IG ___________ Follow Carla Wilmaris on social media: Instagram Twitter TikTok Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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EP 189: Birth Doulas, Manifesting Pregnancy, and Finding Your Purpose without Kids
07/11/2023
EP 189: Birth Doulas, Manifesting Pregnancy, and Finding Your Purpose without Kids
This week, Carla is joined by Wendy and Charlene; two doulas with a purpose to educate and support women (and their families) throughout their pregnancy journeys. Join the trio as they navigate what it means to be a doula and how to handle pregnancy as a woman of color. (7:06) Doula Description (12:29) The trio discuss when Wendy found her purpose (14:45) The ladies discuss doula with kids vs. doula without kids (22:26) Discussion on why the education from doulas is important (39:06) Carla opens up about her miscarriage (56:36) Wendy and Sharlene explain the do’s and don’ts of finding a doula (1:06:08) Where to hire Wendy and Sharlene (1:06:36) Bible Verse - 1 Thessalonians 5:11 Thank you to our Sponsors: McDonalds BetterHelp - Get 10% off your First Month Get $100 Off our signature course using code 'PIVOT' - ____________ Ready to start your own podcast? Schedule a clarity call today ___________ Connect with us: Instagram Twitter TikTok How to hire our guests as Doulas: Wendy South Florida/Central Florida/Virtual Doula IG: @ Sharlene Houston Area Doula/Virtual Doula IG: @ _______ Email the show to get advice and questions answered
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