The Skeptical Pervert

Welcome to the Skeptical Pervert podcast, where we take a rational, skeptical look at many of the beliefs, attitudes, and ideas surrounding sex and human sexuality. The Skeptical Pervert is a fun, entertaining (we hope!) look at the weird, wonderful world of sex, seen through a rational, skeptical, evidence-based eye.

Episode 17: Pervertibles part 2 03/19/2024

Episode 17: Pervertibles part 2 We’re back, after an extended absence. In November of 2022, Franklin’s mom was diagnosed with cancer, so he spant the next year flying back and forth between Portland and Florida to help his dad care for her. Toward the end of her life, she required round-the-clock care, so this podcast ended up being put on hold. She died last December. We have several episodes nearly ready to go, so we're trying to get back on track. In this episode, part 2 of our two-part series on pervertibles, we talk some more about repurposing normal, everyday items for sex. As usual, you can find a transcript for this episode at skepticalpervert.com /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/30443948

Episode 16: Pervertibles, part 1 09/10/2023

Episode 16: Pervertibles, part 1 In part 1 of another 2-parter, we explore the wide whacky world of pervertibles! What are pervertibles? They’re anything with an ordinary, innocuous purpose that can be pressed into service as sex toys. Wooden spoons? Great for paddling! Chip clips? They reseal plastic bags to keep your potato chips (crisps for you Brits) fresh, but also make excellent nipple clamps! Humans are ingenious. Given enough time and creativity, there’s little that can’t be used as a sex toy. /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/27991137

Episode 15: Asexuality! 07/16/2023

Episode 15: Asexuality! It's been a while, but we're back, with a new episode about asexuality! Well, a sort of new episode. This episode was up briefly, but the audio was garbled, so we've fixed the problem and it's back. Anyway, in this episode, we talk about the many flavors of asexuality. We chat with Kitty about the broad range of attitudes, drives, and behaviors that fall under the asexuality spectrum, which, when you get down into the weeds, is really more a three-dimensional graph than anything else. Turns out asexuality is complicated; who knew? /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/27478662

Episode 14: 50 Shades of Terrible Negotiation 12/24/2022

Episode 14: 50 Shades of Terrible Negotiation In this episode, we’re doing something new. Eunice and Franklin have never read or seen 50 Shades of Grey, so Joreth reads it to us as we record our reactions in real time. Specifically, Joreth reads us the scene where Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele negotiate their BDSM relationship, noteworthy in the annals of erotic fiction because Christian violates Ana’s consent multiple times during the consent negotiation. Come along on the ride as Joreth inflicts this upon us! After all, misery loves company, right? As usual, you can find the transcript at skepticalpervert.com. /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/25422351

Episode 13: Sex Work Across Cultures 11/22/2022

Episode 13: Sex Work Across Cultures How is sex work like that guy in Mad Max: Fury Road who rode into combat playing a flamethrowing guitar? We talk about that in this episode of The Skeptical Pervert! This episode was delayed by a misadventure with COVID-19 and a hard drive crash. but it takes more than that to keep us down. In this episode, we examine how the concept of 'sex work' varies across different cultures, and along the way talk about colonization. This is even more complicated than the 'what is sex work?' question, not only because every culture and society treats sex work differently, and often says completely different things about sex work altogether, but it's sometimes hard for people from one society even to be able to tell if something in a different society is sex work. We’re not professional anthropologists, so we invite you to muddle through this with us, and if you have any comments, let us know! As usual, the transcript can be found at SkepticalPervert.com. /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/24089826

Episode 12: Sex Work Through History Part 2 09/11/2022

Episode 12: Sex Work Through History Part 2 Welcome, fans! After delays caused by a hard drive crash and COVID, we're back (at last!) with the second of the two-part look at sex work through history. In this episode, we chat about the Winchester Geese, a group of sex workers managed by the Bishop of Winchester, and muse about several historical sex worker philanthropists who seemed a lot more in tune with Christian charity than most Christians of the day. We also detour into the philosophies of St. Augustine and Thomas Aquinas and chat about official state-sanctioned brothels in France. Check it out! /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/24342588

Episode 11: Sex Work Through History 07/04/2022

Episode 11: Sex Work Through History Sex work: Mankind's oldest profession, right? Today we continue our series on sex work by looking at sex work (and some of the common myths and misperceptions about sex work) throughout recorded history. The history of sex as a profession is complex, and many of the things you might believe about it turn out not to have much of a historical basis. (It doesn't help, of course, that much of the language around sex, even in ancient times, is full of innuendo and nudge-nudge-wink-wink humor intended for an audience familiar with understated references, which doesn't age well.) We also suggest that sex work may in fact be older than homo sapiens as a species, and meander into historical accounts of adulterous Popes and people being thrown through windows. You can find a transcript of this episode at /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/23627279

Episode 10: What is Sex Work with Andrew 06/10/2022

Episode 10: What is Sex Work with Andrew What "counts" as sex work? When you hear the words "sex work," what image does that bring up in your mind? In this episode, we discuss forms of sex work that most people don't think about when they think "sex work," and we talk to "Andrew," a former male sex worker. Andrew (not his real name) has some insights to offer about the differences between sex work as it's experienced by male and female sex workers. As usual, a transcript of this episode is available on . /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/23391542

Episode 9: OnlyFans with Mistress Ivy 05/16/2022

Episode 9: OnlyFans with Mistress Ivy In this episode, we talk about online sex work, the weird OnlyFans bump in the road where they threatened to ban sex workers and then backed down, and we interview Mistress Ivy, one of the top OnlyFans earners, about online sex work. Along the way, we talk about everything from NFTs to the unexpected effects of laws that try to "protect" sex workers but only make their lives worse. Mistress Ivy is a London-based Dominatrix, fetish model, and online performer. You can find her on and on the Web . /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/23120072

Episode 8: Sex Ed with Ms. Ashley (Part 2) 04/03/2022

Episode 8: Sex Ed with Ms. Ashley (Part 2) This episode brings you the second of the two-part interview with sex educator and activist Ms. Ashley about evidence-based, factual sex education. In this far-ranging conversation, we talk about sexual health, being the person your kids feel safe talking to, myths about sex, how to handle questions about sex, and values-based vs. evidence-based education. Ms. Ashley is a sex educator who teaches an adaptation of the curriculum. You can find her on Facebook , , and , and on Instagram . /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/22666436

Episode 7: Sex Ed with Ms. Ashley (Part 1) 03/20/2022

Episode 7: Sex Ed with Ms. Ashley (Part 1) In this episode, we bring you the first part of a two-part interview with sex educator and sex-positive activist Ms. Ashley, as we talk about the value of evidence-based, scientifically accurate sexual education. Ms. Ashley is a sex educator who teaches an adaptation of the curriculum. In part 1 of our interview, we discuss the various types of sex education, what the evidence shows about the effects of fact-based sex ed, and how continuing sex education can help not just students but everyone. You can find Ms. Ashley on Facebook , , and , and on Instagram . /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/22508552

Episode 6: Understanding Libido 02/28/2022

Episode 6: Understanding Libido In this episode, we look at the book Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, and discuss the idea that libido isn't a simple drive toward sex, but rather a combination of "accelerators" and "brakes" that either drive us toward sexual engagement or inhibit sexual desire. We also take the accelerators and brakes test, talk about how the idea is interesting but the book has weaknesses in its exploration of accelerators and brakes, and discuss our own complicated sex drives. /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/22289174

Episode 5: Diversity in the Age of a Pandemic 12/06/2021

Episode 5: Diversity in the Age of a Pandemic In this episode, part of our mini-series of sex during a global plague, we take a skeptical look at a paper published in the journal Leisure Sciences called “Less Sex, but More Sexual Diversity: Changes in Sexual Behavior during the COVID-19 Coronavirus Pandemic.” Along the way, we talk about the null hypothesis, the scientific method, and evaluating a research paper. /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/21397676

Episode 4: Sex in the Time of Pandemic: SexTech 11/22/2021

Episode 4: Sex in the Time of Pandemic: SexTech In part 2 of our Sex in a Pandemic miniseries, we take a look at...sex tech! How does it change sexual connections in an era of social distancing? What does it mean going forward? /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/21237941

Episode 3: Sex in a Pandemic 11/07/2021

Episode 3: Sex in a Pandemic So you may have noticed there's a global plague happening right now. In the first part of a series on sex in the time of a pandemic, we look at how the age of COVID can affect people's sex lives. /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/21079760

Episode 2: Aphrodisiacs 10/25/2021

Episode 2: Aphrodisiacs Aphrodisiacs! What are they? Are they real? Is there, in fact, something you can take to make you horny? In this episode, we explore aphrodisiacs, the mythology around them, the scientific evidence (spoiler: every food or supplement that's been tested in double-blind studies has failed), and the new class of melanocortin-agonist aphrodisiac drugs. /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/20922737

Episode 1: Intro 10/24/2021

Episode 1: Intro Good day, and welcome to our show, eh? In this episode, we introduce the Skeptical Pervert podcast. Who are we, and what is this all about? What do we mean when we say we take a rational approach to human sexuality? /episode/index/show/skepticalpervert/id/20922368

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