So, Tell Me About Your Mother

Eavesdrop on thoughtful, and sometimes irreverent conversations of two friends as they explore current dilemmas through their roles as Christians, husbands, fathers, therapists, and educators.

So, Tell Me About Relationships 05/10/2021

So, Tell Me About Relationships In this episode, we look at the benefits of intimate relationships and the potential pitfalls of isolation. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/19040606

So, Tell Me About Suffering 05/03/2021

So, Tell Me About Suffering This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/18940763

So, Tell Me About Grief 04/26/2021

So, Tell Me About Grief In this episode, we talk about grief. We explore why western culture struggles with it and its importance for our well-being. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/18802472

So, Tell Me About Repentance 10/12/2020

So, Tell Me About Repentance This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/16371416

So, Tell Me About Forgiveness 10/05/2020

So, Tell Me About Forgiveness This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/16265837

So, Tell Me About Confession 09/28/2020

So, Tell Me About Confession This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/15994025

So, Tell Me About Time 09/21/2020

So, Tell Me About Time In this episode, we discuss the concept of time and the role it plays in the growth process. I try to be clear, but confuse Kent and myself in the process. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/12922265

So, Tell Me About Truth 09/14/2020

So, Tell Me About Truth This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/12635609

So, Tell Me About Grace 09/07/2020

So, Tell Me About Grace This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/12265160

So, Tell Me About Christmas 12/11/2019

So, Tell Me About Christmas In this bonus episode we discuss what makes Christmas so special and dreadful. We also talk about some of our favorite things, and Marsh makes his most controversial statement to date... on the podcast anyway. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/12340955

So, Tell Me About Societal Emotional Process 11/25/2019

So, Tell Me About Societal Emotional Process In this episode, we discuss how the same adaptive patterns families use to cope magically appear at the societal level too. This is the final episode of the season and the last concept in Bowen Family Systems Theory. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/12150248

So, Tell Me About Sibling Position 11/18/2019

So, Tell Me About Sibling Position Does birth order (first born, youngest, etc.) influence our character traits and who we become? We discuss. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/11842684

So, Tell Me About Emotional Cutoff 11/11/2019

So, Tell Me About Emotional Cutoff In this episode, Kent and Immanuel disagree about the utility of emotional cutoff. Is it ever prudent, or even possible, to distance yourself emotionally from family members? /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/11453558

So, Tell Me About Multigenerational Transmission Process 11/04/2019

So, Tell Me About Multigenerational Transmission Process In this episode we explore multigenerational transmission process. The idea is that self-differentiation (see S2E2) is handed down from parents to children. These levels of differentiation ebb, flow, and evolve over generations. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/11392559

So, Tell Me About Family Projection Process 10/28/2019

So, Tell Me About Family Projection Process In this episode, Kent unpacks the fourth concept of Bowen's Family System Theory - family projection process. This concept explains how parents may pass their emotional problems on to their children. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/11183207

So, Tell Me About Nuclear Family Emotional Process 10/21/2019

So, Tell Me About Nuclear Family Emotional Process In this episode, Kent breaks down Murray Bowen's Nuclear Family Emotional Process and its four relationship patterns - 1) Marital conflict; 2) Dysfunction in one spouse; 3) Impairment of one or more children; and 4) Emotional distance. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/10958588

So, Tell Me About Differentiation of Self 10/14/2019

So, Tell Me About Differentiation of Self In this episode, we discuss the second concept of Bowen's Family Systems Theory -- Differentiation of Self. Everyone has a self, but Bowen theorized that the level of self we have influences how we relate to others. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/10628204

So, Tell Me About Triangles 10/07/2019

So, Tell Me About Triangles We're devoting this season to Kent's theoretical orientation - Dr. Murray Bowen's Family Systems Theory. Each episode Kent will introduce a core concept of the theory. In this episode, we discuss "Triangles" - the three-person relationship structure of Bowen Theory. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/10459535

So, Tell Me About Family 05/20/2019

So, Tell Me About Family On this episode, we discuss how early familial relationships affect us in adulthood. We also discuss a little about birth order, and Marsh takes a shot at only children. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/9626438

So, Tell Me About Parenting 05/13/2019

So, Tell Me About Parenting In this episode, we discuss somewhat counter-cultural, and, perhaps, counterintuitive ideas about parenting. /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/9626357

So, Tell Me About Marriage 05/06/2019

So, Tell Me About Marriage In this pilot episode, we take a shallow dive into the institution of marriage. Why do people still get married? And why do some stay married while others don't? /episode/index/show/sotellmeaboutyourmother/id/9621113

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