Spiced Wife
Yes, you can be holy and sexy! Discussions on how to keep God at the center of your marriage without forgetting how to keep the bedroom all the way spiced! Finally, a place for wives to be comfortable discussing everything about the bedroom and Bible study at the same time!
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Ep. 182 Put Your Husband, God, and REST First
11/29/2022
Ep. 182 Put Your Husband, God, and REST First
Busy wife…. Are you resting?? Are you putting your husband first or just fitting him in where he can fit in? What is it costing you to not put your marriage first? Start with this video to begin change in your marriage and life. JOIN THE SPICED WIFE INNER CIRCLE Access personal coaching to help you achieve your goals of fulfillment in your marriage! MARRIAGE MAINTENANCE PROGRAM SAY HEEEEY ON SOCIAL MEDIA & YOUTUBE Facebook Group: Instagram: YouTube: DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE MOBILE APP Apple: Android:
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EP. 181 How to Revive Your Husbands Love for You
10/26/2022
EP. 181 How to Revive Your Husbands Love for You
Has your marriage been rocky and feeling more like roommates? Do you feel your husband is losing his love for you and you just want to get the spice of love back? I have two simple yet profound tips for you to do to change the love in your marriage! ---------------------------------- JOIN THE SPICED WIFE INNER CIRCLE Access personal coaching to help you achieve your goals of fulfillment in your marriage! Your influence can change your marriage! Even if your husband seems to not be changing... YOUR change will get him to! MARRIAGE & SEXUAL HEALING PROGRAM: FROM SHAME TO CONFIDENCE Join Our Program to Learn How to Rebuild Your Marriage and Sexual Confidence SAY HEEEEY ON SOCIAL MEDIA & YOUTUBE Facebook Group: Instagram: YouTube: DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE MOBILE APP Apple: Android: LISTEN TO THE SPICED WIFE PODCAST: Anywhere: Apple: Android: Spotify: Podbean: Stitcher:
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EP. 180 How to Enjoy Sex More
10/10/2022
EP. 180 How to Enjoy Sex More
Have you ever found yourself dreading sex with your husband? You take extra-long showers hoping he will fall asleep before you get out, or you simply roll over to the farthest edge of the bed as possible, praying he will think you are sleep. Speaking from experience, I know what this feels like and it’s honestly a result of life being overwhelmed. So, in this episode I am going to share with you 3 major points that changed my desire for sex with my husband! If you’re comfortable being transparent, comment with your biggest takeaway and the timestamp below. ----------------------------------------------------------- SEXUAL HEALING PROGRAM: FROM SHAME TO CONFIDENCE Join Our Program to Learn How to Rebuild Your Marriage and Sexual Confidence JOIN THE INNER CIRCLE! SAY HEEEEY ON SOCIAL MEDIA Facebook Group: Instagram: DOWNLOAD THE SPICED WIFE MOBILE APP Apple: Android: BLOG:
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Ep. 179 How to Support His (and Your) Dreams
09/27/2022
Ep. 179 How to Support His (and Your) Dreams
Ashlyn is answering a wife's question today about how we can support our husband's dreams, but as always there are many points of wisdom here that you can also apply to your desires as well! How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: IG: FB: Spiced Wife: IG: FB: FB Group: Subscribe to our Website: Shop: YouTube: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Here is a book on how to prepare to be a new wife (for the new wife or seasoned wife): Here is my book on why sex before marriage is a trap! Download the mobile APP: Apple: Google Play:
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BN: Day 3 - Don't Give Up (Fasting for him)
09/24/2022
BN: Day 3 - Don't Give Up (Fasting for him)
We are doing a 3-day fast FOR our husbands. Be sure to download the Spiced Wife App to get more details and listen to this episode for today’s edification and prayer. How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: IG: FB: Spiced Wife: IG: FB: FB Group: Subscribe to our Website: Shop: YouTube: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Here is a book on how to prepare to be a new wife (for the new wife or seasoned wife): Here is my book on why sex before marriage is a trap! Download the mobile APP: Apple: Google Play:
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BN: Day 2 - Faulty Foundations (Fasting for him)
09/23/2022
BN: Day 2 - Faulty Foundations (Fasting for him)
We are doing a 3-day fast FOR our husbands. Be sure to download the Spiced Wife App to get more details and listen to this episode for today’s edification and prayer. How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: IG: FB: Spiced Wife: IG: FB: FB Group: Subscribe to our Website: Shop: YouTube: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Here is a book on how to prepare to be a new wife (for the new wife or seasoned wife): Here is my book on why sex before marriage is a trap! Download the mobile APP: Apple: Google Play:
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BN: Day 1 - Knowing Your Rights (Fasting for him)
09/22/2022
BN: Day 1 - Knowing Your Rights (Fasting for him)
We are doing a 3-day fast FOR our husbands. Be sure to download the Spiced Wife App to get more details and listen to this episode for today’s edification and prayer. How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: IG: FB: Spiced Wife: IG: FB: FB Group: Subscribe to our Website: Shop: YouTube: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Here is a book on how to prepare to be a new wife (for the new wife or seasoned wife): Here is my book on why sex before marriage is a trap! Download the mobile APP: Apple: Google Play:
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BN: Fasting For Your Husband
09/20/2022
BN: Fasting For Your Husband
We are doing a 3-day fast FOR our husbands. Be sure to download the Spiced Wife App to get more details and listen to this episode to start you off. How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: IG: FB: Spiced Wife: IG: FB: FB Group: Subscribe to our Website: Shop: YouTube: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Here is a book on how to prepare to be a new wife (for the new wife or seasoned wife): Here is my book on why sex before marriage is a trap! Download the mobile APP: Apple: Google Play:
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EP. 178 Meet MY Husband!
09/12/2022
EP. 178 Meet MY Husband!
My husband has joined me on the mic!!! This is just a fun and light episode answering some questions about how a husband and wife should honor their liking without disregarding each other's request. We share many personal examples of our marriage and I pray you are encouraged to laugh and honor your marriage, through having this peek into our lives. How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: IG: FB: Spiced Wife: IG: FB: FB Group: Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Here is a book on how to prepare to be a new wife (for the new wife or seasoned wife): Here is my book on why sex before marriage is a trap! Download the mobile APP: Apple: Google Play:
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BONUS: Where is my (your) abundance?
09/06/2022
BONUS: Where is my (your) abundance?
Have you ever felt tired of waiting for the overflow and abundance that you hear so many believers talking about? Do you wonder why nothing seems to be moving for you and why most of the people you know aren’t living in the abundance either? Let’s go to the Word! Here is a book on how to prepare to be a new wife (for the new wife or seasoned wife) How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Join me here: Download the mobile APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep 177 Question From A Husband about Wives Clothes
08/22/2022
Ep 177 Question From A Husband about Wives Clothes
We have a question from a husband! He wants to know our opinion on how his wife should dress and handle interactions that seem inappropriate. Let’s take a listen! Here is a book on how to prepare to be a wife (new wife or seasoned wife) How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Join me here: Download the mobile APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep. 176 Knowing Your Sexual Convictions
08/08/2022
Ep. 176 Knowing Your Sexual Convictions
How do you know if your convictions are right? Since our flesh is always rising up against God even when we don’t know it, how can we be sure that the voice of correction we are listing to is from Him? Let’s talk about it! Here is a book on how to prepare to be a wife (new wife or seasoned wife) How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Join me here: Download the mobile APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep 175 Masturbation in Marriage
07/25/2022
Ep 175 Masturbation in Marriage
Is masturbation a sin in marriage? Is it permitted under marriage? Let’s jump right in! Here is a book on how to prepare to be a wife (new wife or seasoned wife) How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Join me here: Download the mobile APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep 174 Becoming One in Marriage
07/11/2022
Ep 174 Becoming One in Marriage
We have a question from a wife who asks: Can you explain what it means for the two to truly become one? Let’s dive in! Here is a book on how to prepare to be a wife (new wife or seasoned wife) How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Do you need help in your marriage? Sign up for the Marriage Maintenance Program: Join me here: Download the mobile APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep. 173 Sexually Guarded
06/27/2022
Ep. 173 Sexually Guarded
Today we have a soon-to-be Spiced Wife who says she is nervous about her wedding night. Let’s dive in! Here is a book on how to prepare to be a wife How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Do you need help in your marriage? To bring the Marriage Maintenance Program: Join me here: Download the mobile APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep. 172 Female Ejaculation For Christians
06/13/2022
Ep. 172 Female Ejaculation For Christians
Today we are answering the following question from a wife: What is the difference between climax, female ejaculation, and orgasm? In this episode, we also discuss squirting. And we never leave out discussing the spiritual side of everything also, so you will hear how to understand the presence of God, and how to overall identify areas that you need to change in your life to see the hand of God in your marriage. How to stay connected: Ashlyn R. Watkins, Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Marriage Maintenance Program: Join me here: Download the mobile APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep 171 Lukewarm Sex & Intimacy
05/23/2022
Ep 171 Lukewarm Sex & Intimacy
God doesn’t want us giving Him lukewarm attention and neither do our bedrooms! Today we are talking about being hot in sexuality and spirituality! Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Marriage Maintenance Program: Join me here: Subscribe to YouTube: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep. 170 Disagreeing About Sex With Your Husband
03/28/2022
Ep. 170 Disagreeing About Sex With Your Husband
In this episode, a question from a wife who states she and her husband both serve God but completely disagree about sex and what’s sinful or not! We have many episodes that can answer what’s a sin or not, but let’s discuss when you and your husband don’t agree. Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Marriage Maintenance Program: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep. 169 Having A Less Spiritual Husband
03/14/2022
Ep. 169 Having A Less Spiritual Husband
In this episode, we answer an email that came in from a wife who feels heavy about her husband being less devoted to God than she is. With an open heart to receive, let’s dive into this subject. You will be edified and strengthened in this episode, in Jesus’ name! Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Marriage Maintenance Program: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep. 168 Having The Puberty Talk With Your Daughter
02/28/2022
Ep. 168 Having The Puberty Talk With Your Daughter
The first half of this episode gets our fear and focus in alignment with God. Then we head into answering a question from a wife who is uncomfortable with having the sexual development/puberty talk with her young daughter. There is one word of focus in this episode that we hope you hold tight to: AUTHORITY!! Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Marriage Maintenance Program: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Give: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep 167 Marriage Maintenance
02/09/2022
Ep 167 Marriage Maintenance
We don’t have to act like we have it all together. It’s ok to get help. This episode is breaking down the signs of when your marriage needs a tune-up! God is so kind, He will not shame you for needing help and He will even lead you to the perfect resource!! Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Marriage Maintenance Program: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Give: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep 166 Having Sex When Your Husband is Uncircumcised
01/25/2022
Ep 166 Having Sex When Your Husband is Uncircumcised
We are answering a question that was posted in the Spiced Wife group about how to have sex with a husband who is uncircumcised. We also go into Bible study at about the 19 minute mark on when circumcision was introduced in the Bible. Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Give: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep. 165 What Type of Sex Is Allowed?
01/11/2022
Ep. 165 What Type of Sex Is Allowed?
Today we are taking the top 6 sex topics that we discussed in 2018 and we are giving a recap of them all in one place. Get your pen and paper. Be ready to do some rootwork as we grow in our confidence to talk to God about EVERYTHING! Today we have a quickie discussion of: Masturbation, Anal Sex, Oral Sex, Sex Toys, Open Marriages, and Porn. Timestamps: 9:00 The three questions you should ask about every sex topic you want to have in your marriage 12:57 Exploring Romans 14 and Hebrews 13:4 in relation to sex 18:50 Sex topics begin 55:42 Thank yous!! Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Give: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep. 164 It's Time For Purpose
12/27/2021
Ep. 164 It's Time For Purpose
In doing a recap of 2021, God led me to the focus for 2022. Today I am holding nothing back as I share the word for the new year. I pray you feel activated and edified! Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Ep 163 Christ Makes Sex Better
12/13/2021
Ep 163 Christ Makes Sex Better
Leaving Christ out of the mix is becoming way too normal in these days. Christ must be the glue and center of your life or else nothing will have lasting change. He makes sex better! Coming off the 40 day fast we learned just how true this is! In this episode Ashlyn helps us through much needed transparency and encourages us by sharing a miracle God provided for her family that did not come until there was a transformation in Christ becoming the center. Only through Him can sex and everything else be better! Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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Prayer Call #2: Second Wind!
11/20/2021
Prayer Call #2: Second Wind!
Day 20 of our 40 day fast. This prayer call is kicking off the second half and we are in need of a fresh wind! We need a second wind so we don't lose zeal! We are stepping into more fire! WE ARE HUNGRY!
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Prayer Call, November 6, 2021
11/06/2021
Prayer Call, November 6, 2021
This is our first-ever prayer call. If you missed it, please join in here on the replay in your private prayer time. The prayer calls will not always be posted as replays, so if you would like to get the dial-in information to attend the calls in the future simply subscribe your email address on our website at
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BN: Closing The Year Fast
11/01/2021
BN: Closing The Year Fast
We are the product of our priorities, so it's time to put fasting and praying first. We are closing this year STRONG! We are going to see transformation in our homes THIS year! Even with only two months left, we are going to see a miracle in our marriage!
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Ep 162 Why I Went Back To Work
10/25/2021
Ep 162 Why I Went Back To Work
After quitting my 9-5 in faith and obedience, in exactly 2 years God told me to go back!! Today we discuss why! This is an episode for strong believers, those who actually believe the Bible and not just read it. There are many truths in this episode that will make you think deeply about the future, but you will also be encouraged to obey God at all costs! He knows what He is doing and He will blow your mind with all He has stored up for you! Download the Spiced Wife app! Available on Android and Apple! Just search Spiced Wife in your app store. Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Ashlyn: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Purchase Books: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube:
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Ep. 161 Is God Still Good?
10/11/2021
Ep. 161 Is God Still Good?
When you are in the eye of disappointment, weariness, and hopelessness the question may run through your mind on if God is still good. In this episode, we cover how to answer this question through Scripture. We also discuss how to keep the faith in these testing times of mandates and people losing their jobs. We address speculations about the mark of the beast, and the host shares a huge twist that happened in her life. Follow Spiced Wife on Social Media: Host: & Spiced Wife: & & Subscribe to our Website: Shop: Come to the Retreat: Subscribe to YouTube: Download the APP: Apple Itunes: Google Play:
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