The Adversity Advantage with Doug Bopst

Turn your trials into triumphs! Hear the stories of experts from around the world and get inspired by how they used failures, obstacles and ADVERSITY to their advantage. Each week you’ll get practical everyday tips to help you grow and become your best self in every theme of your life. Learn from guests such as Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Gabby Bernstein, Gabor Mate, Robert Greene, Laurie Santos, Rich Roll, Rachel Hollis and more. Doug Bopst used fitness to save his life from the depths of despair while incarcerated on felony drug charges and now has made it his life mission to help others overcome hardship.

Aliens, Extraterrestrial Life, AI, UFO’s & The First Interstellar Meteor | Avi Loeb 08/31/2023

Aliens, Extraterrestrial Life, AI, UFO’s & The First Interstellar Meteor | Avi Loeb Avi Loeb is the Frank B. Baird, Jr., Professor of Science at Harvard University, the longest-serving chair of Harvard’s Department of Astronomy, founding director of Harvard’s Black Hole Initiative, and director of the Institute for Theory and Computation (ITC) within the Harvard-Smithsonian Center for Astrophysics. He also chairs the Advisory Committee for the Breakthrough Starshot Initiative, and serves as the science theory director for all Initiatives of the Breakthrough Prize Foundation, as well as former chair of the Board on Physics and Astronomy of the National Academies. Author of eight books and over a thousand scientific papers, Loeb is an elected fellow of the American Academy of Arts & Sciences, the American Physical Society, and the International Academy of Astronautics. In 2012, Time selected Loeb as one of the twenty-five most influential people in space. Today on the show we discuss: why he thinks extra terrestrial life exists that can interact with humans, Avi’s recent expedition to the Pacific Ocean to find what he believes is the first interstellar meteor, how he envisions a future interaction with extra terrestrial life, why AI might play a pivotal role in communicating with extra terrestrial life, whether or not Avi thinks life on Mars exists, how the average person can spot extra terrestrial life and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Avi | , ⚠ DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. I do not endorse or support the claims of any guests and I strongly encourage all of my viewers and listeners to do their own due diligence before buying products or supporting brands discussed by guests on the show. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27894792

Hospice Nurse Reveals Top Life Lessons From Her Patients, What They Want From Family & The Biggest Thing They Worry About | Nurse Hadley Vlahos 08/28/2023

Hospice Nurse Reveals Top Life Lessons From Her Patients, What They Want From Family & The Biggest Thing They Worry About | Nurse Hadley Vlahos Hadley Vlahos, RN, is a hospice registered nurse, mother, and wife. Her husband also works in the medical field as a doctor of physical therapy. Vlahos started her career as a registered nurse at twenty-two. As a hospice nurse, she now visits people at their home while also educating and sharing stories about hospice care on social media, where she has more than a million followers. Today on the show we discuss: what inspired Hadley to become a hospice nurse, advice for families that are dealing with a loved one in hospice, what patients actually want from their families when they are in hospice, the profound lessons that she’s learned from her patients on life and happiness, the patient that Hadley thinks about the most, how to know when it’s time to seek hospice care, how Hadley manages her own wellbeing with her profession and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Hadley | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. I do not endorse or support the claims of any guests and I strongly encourage all of my viewers and listeners to do their own due diligence before buying products or supporting brands discussed by guests on the show. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27861531

Jail Saved My Life: The Top 5 Lessons I Learned From My Cellmate 08/24/2023

Jail Saved My Life: The Top 5 Lessons I Learned From My Cellmate Today is a very special solo episode and I will be sharing in depth the top five most profound lessons that I learned from my cellmate Eric when I was behind bars. These lessons have transformed my life forever and I am confident that they will resonate with you as well. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. I do not endorse or support the claims of any guests and I strongly encourage all of my viewers and listeners to do their own due diligence before buying products or supporting brands discussed by guests on the show. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27835020

How to Stop Judging Yourself (and others) & Become Your Highest Self with Danielle Robay 08/21/2023

How to Stop Judging Yourself (and others) & Become Your Highest Self with Danielle Robay Danielle Robay is a TV host and journalist, currently the host of E!’s While You Were Streaming. She is creator of the video podcast PRETTYSMART, and the best selling card game QUESTION EVERYTHING: 52 Cards For Deep(er) Conversation, noted by Forbes as a “game changer”. Previously, you may have seen Danielle on IMDb, NBC, E!, EXTRA, Entertainment Tonight Online, HLN’s Dr. Drew, The Steve Harvey Show and NBC’s 1st Look, and Defy Media where her daily news segments and interviews received over 100 million views a month online. Today on the show we discuss: why reframing negative thoughts is essential for building confidence, why self validation is crucial for personal growth, the power of fitness for improving mental health, why having the right relationships can boost how you feel about yourself, how she transformed her relationship with self judgment and more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:25 Dealing with judgment 03:58 Judgment vs. criticism 06:03 “Beauty Sick” 09:11 Your insides must match your outsides 10:52 Saying no with “love” 17:16 What is external validation? 19:12 Blending career and identity 24:21 Learning from Larry King 25:29 Asking yourself great questions lead to personal growth 28:11 Why being “hard on yourself” is a good thing 31:39 Avoiding the comparison trap 35:56 My battle with body image 41:34 Having a healthier relationship with external validation 44:39 What helps Danielle build confidence? 50:00 Friendship cleanse 54:26 We play Danielle’s card game LIVE! Episode Resources: Danielle | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27803160

Founding Drummer of Maroon 5 On Losing Everything, Finding Recovery & Rebuilding His Life w/ Ryan Dusick 08/17/2023

Founding Drummer of Maroon 5 On Losing Everything, Finding Recovery & Rebuilding His Life w/ Ryan Dusick Ryan Dusick is an associate marriage therapist and counselor and the founding drummer of one of the world’s most popular bands, Maroon 5. He started the band which was originally called Kara’s Flowers in 1994 with his best friends Adam Levine, Jesse Carmichael and Mickey Madden. After changing the name of the band to Maroon 5, they went on to have their first viral record “Songs About Jane,” selling millions of albums and winning two Grammy’s. Despite the band’s massive fame and success Ryan was suffering with some deep physical and emotional pain which eventually led to Ryan parting ways with the band in 2006. Ryan lost everything, found himself in the depths of addiction before finding recovery in 2016 and completely reinventing himself and we dive into all of this today. Today on the show we discuss: The story of starting Maroon 5 and what led to Ryan parting ways with the band, what life was like after losing everything, the challenges of success and fame, what his current relationship is like with Adam Levine, how Ryan reinvented himself and got sober, why he values recovery more than winning a grammy and more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:23 Adam Levine kicks Ryan out of Maroon 5 09:29 The story of Maroon 5 13:53 Ryan’s nervous system forced him to stop 19:56 Why does fame cause mental health issues? 23:40 Addiction 29:45 The hardest part of leaving the band 31:32 The reinvention process 38:45 Misdirected anger towards Maroon 5 41:27 Rebuilding his self esteem 45:16 Why is Ryan’s story so relatable? 46:51 Recovery vs. winning a Grammy 49:21 Current relationship with Adam Levine 51:30 Would he ever rejoin the band? Episode Resources: Ryan | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27775356

102 Year Old Doctor Reveals Her 6 Longevity Secrets For Living Longer, Happier and Healthier with Dr. Gladys McGarey 08/14/2023

102 Year Old Doctor Reveals Her 6 Longevity Secrets For Living Longer, Happier and Healthier with Dr. Gladys McGarey Dr. Gladys McGarey is 102 years old and is recognized as a pioneer of the allopathic and holistic medical movements. She is also a founding diplomat of the American Board of Holistic Medicine, the cofounder and past president of the American Holistic Medical Association and the cofounder of the Academy of Parapsychology and Medicine and more. Today on the show we discuss the six longevity secrets that have helped Dr. Gladys live to 102. She also shares the wisdom and lessons she’s learned from her own life and personal experiences that I think you will really relate to. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:26 Love is healing 02:14 Longevity secret #1 02:32 How does Dr. Gladys view adversity? 03:42 Longevity secret #2 06:59 Finding her voice at 93 14:22 Keeping her mind healthy 17:49 What does exercise look like at 102? 19:02 What makes Dr. Gladys smile these days? 20:45 She wasted a lot time doing THIS 23:45 Longevity secret #3 27:32 Longevity secret #4 30:16 How has her purpose changed over the years? 32:18 What does self love mean to Dr. Gladys? 35:21 Her view on relationships 39:00 Longevity secret #5 41:06 The most challenging thing that Dr. Gladys has overcome 46:30 Healing from divorce 49:08 Longevity secret #6 54:06 Her view on forgiveness Episode Resources: Dr. Gladys | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27740310

Michael Oher On “The Blind Side,” Remaining Optimistic During Adversity & Overcoming The Victim Mentality 08/10/2023

Michael Oher On “The Blind Side,” Remaining Optimistic During Adversity & Overcoming The Victim Mentality Michael Oher is a former American football offensive tackle who played in the National Football League for eight seasons, primarily with the Baltimore Ravens. He is perhaps best known as the subject of Michael Lewis’s bestselling book The Blind Side. He is the founder of the Oher Foundation, a philanthropic organization dedicated to empowering kids to break the cycle of poverty and achieve their dreams through opportunities in education. Today on the show we discuss: Michael’s story and his thoughts on the movie “The Blind Side,” how he conquered the victim mindset and remained optimistic during adversity, how he avoided temptation as a kid and stayed out of trouble, why cutting ties with bad friends is so important, the biggest lessons Michael has learned from everything he’s overcome and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Michael | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27707868

Neuroscientist REVEALS How to Rewire Your Negative Thoughts & Help Your Child Become Mentally Resilient | Dr. Caroline Leaf 08/07/2023

Neuroscientist REVEALS How to Rewire Your Negative Thoughts & Help Your Child Become Mentally Resilient | Dr. Caroline Leaf Dr. Caroline Leaf is a communication pathologist, audiologist, and clinical and cognitive neuroscientist specializing in psychneurobiology and metacognitive neuropsychology. Her passion is to help people see the power of the mind to change the brain, control chaotic thinking, and find mental peace. Today on the show we discuss: how to rewire toxic thoughts and how parents can support their kids when they’re trying to do the same. We also get into how parents can help their kids: become mentally resilient, feel more confident, build sustainable habits, develop effective problem solving skills and so much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Dr. Leaf | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27674919

From The Streets of NYC to Celebrity Trainer: The Story of Eric Rakofsky 08/03/2023

From The Streets of NYC to Celebrity Trainer: The Story of Eric Rakofsky Today’s guest is personal trainer and wellness advisor. Eric Rakofsy. Eric is a partner and trainer at the prestigious Kollective gym in Austin Texas and also an advisor to Super Coffee, Ladder and others. Some of Eric’s influential clients include Strauss Zelnick, who’s CEO and chairman of the board of the billion dollar company behind Grand Theft Auto, Millard Drexler, chairman and CEO of J.Crew; Victor Cruz, model Nina Agdal, Shay Mitchel and many others. Today on the show we discuss: How Eric escaped his ultra traumatic childhood and built a very successful personal training career, the invaluable lessons he’s learned from training some of the most influential people in the world, how Eric faced and dealt with his recent thyroid cancer diagnosis, why being kinder to yourself will help you lose body fat, Eric’s tips for busy people to optimize their health and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Eric | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27643005

Stephanie Rigg On The 4 Attachment Styles & How To Feel Secure In A Relationship 07/31/2023

Stephanie Rigg On The 4 Attachment Styles & How To Feel Secure In A Relationship Today’s guest is relationship coach Stephanie Rigg. Stephanie is also the host of the popular relationship podcast “On Attachment”, where she delves deep into all things attachment theory, love, relationships & intimacy - sharing her wisdom and experience to help you start making real changes in your life & relationships. Today on the show we discuss: the four different types of attachments in relationships (including which are most common), why improving your self worth is more important than knowing your attachment style, the signs that you have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, what you can do early in a relationship if have an anxious or avoidant attachment style , how to develop a secure attachment in relationships and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Stephanie | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27605058

Taylor Calmus (aka Dude Dad) On The Reality of Fatherhood & Parenting Tips You’ve Likely Never Heard Before 07/27/2023

Taylor Calmus (aka Dude Dad) On The Reality of Fatherhood & Parenting Tips You’ve Likely Never Heard Before Today’s guest is Taylor Calmus. Taylor also known as 'Dude Dad,' is a Colorado-based video creator who has become a viral sensation through his comedic, family-focused content and expert, DIY creativity. He is a father of four and a husband to his wife Heidi. Taylor taps into the relatability of parenthood in an effort to help other parents laugh at their own struggles. Today on the show we discuss: The biggest lesson he’s learned from being a dad, how his childhood influenced his unique parenting style, what inspired him to start his “dude dad” YouTube channel, how he monitors screen time with his kids, budget friendly DIY projects you can do to make things fun for your kids, how he deals with the ups and downs of parenting and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to listen for: 00:00 Intro 00:37 Biggest lesson he’s learned as a parent 02:26 What’s helped him practice more patience? 03:49 How did his childhood shape his parenting style? 06:27 Why did he pursue acting? 07:51 Creating Dude Dad 10:52 Helping other parents 12:34 Taylor’s “make or break” moment 16:46 Leading by example 18:31 Building a roller coaster in his backyard 21:16 Life changing lesson from his dad 24:28 Connecting with each of his four kids 29:10 The most interesting mom in the world 31:53 What does he do if one of his kids is having a bad day? 32:54 Most meaningful message he’s received from a fan 35:00 Tips for someone who’s struggling as a parent 36:04 What does Taylor do for self care? 37:25 Easy DIY project for your kids 39:29 Measuring success as a parent 43:29 Managing screen time with kids 48:28 What’s next for him? 50:34 Best parenting advice he’s received Episode Resources: Taylor| , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27576225

Dr. Tara Swart On The Law Of Attraction & How To Manifest Anything You Want In Life 07/24/2023

Dr. Tara Swart On The Law Of Attraction & How To Manifest Anything You Want In Life Today’s guest is Dr. Tara Swart. Tara is a neuroscientist, a former psychiatrist, and senior lecturer at MIT Sloan. She is also a leadership advisor and works with leaders all over the world to help them achieve mental resilience and peak brain performance while also helping them improve their ability to manage stress, regulate emotions and retain information. Tara has become wildly popular for her work in bridging the gap between science and spirituality and teaching others how to use science based tools to leverage the law of attraction and utilize the power of manifestation. Today on the show we discuss: the power of manifestation and how to correctly manifest what you want in life, how to cultivate an abundance mindset, the science of gratitude and what steps you can take to remain grateful, practical tools for rewiring negative thought patterns, how to use the law of attraction to their advantage, how to remain optimistic during challenging times and more. Thanks to today’s sponsors: House of Macadamias: Get 20% off your order & free box of sea salted macadamia nuts at: (use code DOUG20) Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to listen for: 00:00 Intro 00:14 How to bring abundance into your life 01:33 The science of gratitude 03:35 Developing a gratitude practice 05:57 What manifestation actually means 07:28 Why is manifesting misunderstood? 09:25 Steps you can take to manifest what you want in life 12:27 The proper way to use a “vision board” 15:50 How long does it take for things to change? 19:33 How to rewire negative thought patterns 27:07 The law of attraction 32:03 How to become more “magnetic” 32:40 Why did Tara start to study spirituality? 39:30 What is the “universe”? 43:49 How long does it take to change a habit? 45:53 Developing an optimistic mindset during adversity Episode Resources: Tara | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27542901

Arielle Lorre On Her Current Wellness Routine, Top Skincare Tips & The Most Overrated Beauty Treatments 07/20/2023

Arielle Lorre On Her Current Wellness Routine, Top Skincare Tips & The Most Overrated Beauty Treatments Today’s guest and returning to the podcast is wellness influencer and host of the Blonde Files podcast, Arielle Lorre. In our first discussion, Arielle and I dove deep into her incredible story of recovery and I invite y’all to check that one out in case you haven’t already. Today we discuss: the 3 biggest lessons Arielle’s learned from her podcast, the areas in her life that she’s seen the most personal growth, what Arielle’s current wellness routine looks like, the most overrated beauty treatments, 3 inexpensive ways to improve the health of your skin, why walking has been so transformational for her and more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to listen for: 00:00 Intro 00:17 3 biggest lessons from the podcast 04:03 How has the podcast evolved? 06:35 Areas of personal growth 10:37 The surprising benefits of walking 15:18 Plastic surgery addiction 18:35 Questions to ask yourself before getting plastic surgery 23:04 The most overrated beauty treatments 27:00 Why are cosmetic surgeries stigmatized? 28:53 3 best things you can do for your skin 30:50 Arielle rates my skincare routine 36:34 Current wellness routine 38:00 Joe Dispenza 41:02 How does she deal with anxiety? 43:27 Arielle’s current diet 46:28 Her favorite recipes right now 49:53 Gwyneth Paltrow 53:59 Advice for her followers 56:27 What’s next for her? Episode Resources: Arielle | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27515058

Sam Parr On How QUITTING Alcohol For 365 Days Made Him MILLIONS (6 Lessons For Life) 07/17/2023

Sam Parr On How QUITTING Alcohol For 365 Days Made Him MILLIONS (6 Lessons For Life) Today’s guest is guest is Sam Parr. Sam is cohost of the highly popular business podcast My First Million. He also founded the media company “the Hustle” back in 2016 which was acquired by HubSpot in 2021. Today we discuss: Why being an alcoholic can be your greatest superpower, Sam’s inspiring story and how he went from jail to selling his company to HubSpot, the top six lessons he’s learned from giving up alcohol and why that led to tremendous personal growth, how to instantly upgrade your approach when contacting someone via DM or email, his contrarian views on money and happiness, a simple and effective approach to taking calculated risks and managing uncertainty in life and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Sam | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27479847

Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani On The Dark Side of Self Help & How to Avoid Falling Into The Common Traps 07/13/2023

Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani On The Dark Side of Self Help & How to Avoid Falling Into The Common Traps Today’s guest is Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani, co-founder of Mindvalley, the world’s most powerful life transformation platform with 20 million+ followers. She is also the author of the recently released book, “Becoming Flawesome: The Key to Living an Imperfectly Authentic Life” Today we discuss: the dark side of the self help industry, how to identify, accept, and improve your flaws and imperfections, how to avoid the “indecision trap” and get over the fear of failure , what self love actually means and how to make it last, the pros and cons of perfectionism and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Kristina | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27446994

Dr. Stacy Sims On How Women Can Optimize Their Health At ANY AGE & Why Fasting Doesn’t Always Work 07/10/2023

Dr. Stacy Sims On How Women Can Optimize Their Health At ANY AGE & Why Fasting Doesn’t Always Work Today’s guest is Dr. Stacy Sims. Stacy is a forward-thinking international exercise physiologist and nutrition scientist who aims to revolutionize exercise nutrition and performance for women. She has directed research programs at Stanford and others focusing on female athlete health and performance and pushing the dogma to improve research on all women. during her tenure at Stanford, she had the opportunity to translate earlier research into consumer products and a science-based layperson's book (ROAR) written to explain sex differences in training and nutrition across the lifespan. Dr. Sims has published over 70 peer-reviewed papers, several books and is a regularly featured speaker at professional and academic conferences, including those by USOC and USA Cycling. Today on the show we discuss: why women are not “small men,” how to know if your hormones are causing health issues, the signs of early menopause, how to optimize your health and hormones during the pre, peri and post menopausal stages, why women need more carbohydrates, how to customize your diet and exercise choices based on your age and hormonal needs, why you may want to think twice about intermittent fasting and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: House of Macadamias: Get 20% off your order & free box of sea salted macadamia nuts at: (use code DOUG20) What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:23 “women are not small men” 02:26 Female hormones (estrogen and testosterone) 04:34 Signs of low levels of estrogen 07:55 Mental health vs. hormones 09:44 What a healthy menstrual cycle looks like 12:27 Diet & exercise tips for women in their 20’s and 30’s 19:38 Doing exercise classes everyday won’t help you burn fat 22:29 Why does chronic stress lead to weight gain? 23:59 Why you’re likely not losing body fat 26:30 The dangers of fasting 29:59 How much protein? 32:28 Women need more carbs 36:15 Healthy body fat percentage 40:29 When can excess body fat cause health issues? 41:57 How women should program their interval training 46:59 Optimizing your health during peri/post menopause 51:53 Injury prevention 54:36 Nutrition tips for peri/post menopause 56:28 Hormone therapy doesn’t change body composition 58:29 Supplements to consider Episode Resources: Stacy | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27410295

RC Blakes On Why A Woman Must Never Pursue A Man & What She Should Do Instead 07/06/2023

RC Blakes On Why A Woman Must Never Pursue A Man & What She Should Do Instead Today's guest is pastor R.C. Blakes. RC is a husband, a father of four, a grandfather of three and an empowerment speaker. Though he is a pastor, preacher and teacher his approach is conversational. He believes that transformation happens in conversation. He tackles issues and subjects that are sometimes uncomfortable for many leaders to address and maybe even difficult for some people to understand. He is the author of several books, including: Queenology, Imperfectly Holy, Soul-Ties and others. His most popular is entitled The Father Daughter Talk, which is actually more than a book- it is a national movement. RC’s women’s empowerment conferences ( Queenology) are life changing for women who travel from around the nation and abroad. RC has traveled extensively to communicate the principles of: healthy relationships- self-discovery- self-love, faith in God- and success in life. Today on the show we discuss: The three biggest relationship and dating mistakes people are making, qualities that are often overlooked but matter when choosing a partner, what healthy masculine and feminine energy looks like, why a woman should never pursue a man, how to know if you’re compatible with someone, why the word “submission” is often misunderstood, how to make a relationship last a lifetime and more. Thanks to today’s sponsors: House of Macadamias: Get 20% off your order & free box of sea salted macadamia nuts at: (use code DOUG20) Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:45 3 biggest dating mistakes that people are making 05:10 Qualities that are often overlooked but matter when choosing a partner 10:44 Healthy masculine and feminine energy 18:01 Why a woman should never pursue a man 23:04 How to let someone know you’re interested in them 26:09 Don’t chase (do this instead) 27:58 How to know if you’re compatible 32:37 Why is the word “submission” misunderstood? 38:42 A real marriage is “not the divorcing of me for the creation of we” 40:04 Common myth about masculine men and successful females 43:51 How to not “lose yourself’ in a relationship 49:01 How to make a marriage or relationship last a lifetime 53:39 When is it time to break up? 57:05 How to become empowered after a breakup Episode Resources: RC | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27377091

From Addict and College Dropout to 7 Figure Entrepreneur: The Story of Moira Kucaba 07/03/2023

From Addict and College Dropout to 7 Figure Entrepreneur: The Story of Moira Kucaba Today’s guest is Moira Kucaba. Moira is a former alcoholic, addict and college dropout turned thought leader, seven figure entrepreneur and one of the most successful Beachbody coaches ever. Moira has been sober for over twenty years and today we dive deep into her story. Today on the show we discuss: the five things that have helped her stay sober for over two decades, why she still goes to twelve step meetings despite being heavily involved in the self help space, how to let go of shame and judgment from others when asking for help for your addiction, how she outgrew her identity as an addict and used her addictive personality to build a 7 figure business, what led to her addiction, what getting sober at 21 looked like and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:47 5 things that have helped her stay sober for 20 years 03:28 12 step meetings vs. personal development 08:07 Dealing with shame and judgment 10:14 Transforming her identity as an addict 18:04 Being driven led to her addiction 20:59 Why did she put so much pressure on herself? 22:58 When did things get bad? 26:25 Hitting rock bottom 33:12 Sobriety as a 21 year old 39:09 Daily mental work prepares you 43:12 How she built a 7 figure business 46:16 Being recognized is a good thing 50:16 Building inner self-worth 53:28 Is Moira hard on herself? 57:33 What does her identity look like now? Episode Resources: Moira | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27349293

Darin Olien On The Everyday Products That May Be Harming Your Health & What You Can Do About It 06/29/2023

Darin Olien On The Everyday Products That May Be Harming Your Health & What You Can Do About It Today’s guest and returning back to the show is my good friend Darin Olien. Darin is a well-known superfood hunter, co-host of the Emmy™ Award Winning, #1 Netflix docu-series, Down to Earth with Zac Efron. and host of the Darin Olien show. He is also a New York Times best selling author and his latest book “Fatal Conveniences: The Toxic Products and Harmful Habits That Are Making You Sick—and the Simple Changes That Will Save Your Health” will be the focus of today’s chat. Today on the show we discuss: what inspired Darin to talk about the dangers of “fatal conveniences,” common household products and items that you use every single day that can be damaging to your health, why tap water is toxic and how to effectively improve your water quality, why excessive cell phone use can be harmful and what you can do to reduce the potential negative health effects, simple switches you can make with your beauty products and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsors: House of Macadamias: Get 20% off your order & free box of sea salted macadamia nuts at: (use code DOUG20) Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:40 Products you use everyday that could be damaging your health 06:04 Darin puts me on the spot 06:51 Is he fear mongering? 08:00 EMF’s, cell phones and radiation 17:34 Minimize your exposure 21:45 Chemicals are in your water 24:35 How to improve your water quality 27:04 Water filters are not enough 29:10 Doesn’t the dosage make the poison? 35:20 Why did Darin write his new book? 40:52 Rethink your beauty products Episode Resources: Darin | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to health and mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your health or mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27318033

Alan Aragon Sets The Record Straight On Nutrition Research, Common Wellness Myths & How Physical Health Dictates Mental Health 06/26/2023

Alan Aragon Sets The Record Straight On Nutrition Research, Common Wellness Myths & How Physical Health Dictates Mental Health Today's guest and returning back to the podcast is Alan Aragon. Alan is a nutrition researcher and educator with over 30 years of success in the field. He is known as one of the most influential figures in the fitness industry's movement towards evidence-based information. His notable clients include Stone called Steve Austin, Derek Fisher, and Pete Sampras. Alan writes a monthly research review providing cutting edge theoretical and practical information. Alan's work has been published in popular magazines and has also been published in peer-reviewed scientific literature. He co-authored Nutrient Timing Revisited the Most Viewed article in the history of the Journal of the International Society of Sports Nutrition. Today we discuss: how mental health and physical health are closely related. Why food doesn't necessarily cause inflammation, what foods you can eat to improve your mood. The truth about industry funded research, current wellness trends that Alan thinks are overrated. What to look for when choosing to follow someone online, what type of exercise is best for your mental health and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:40 The connection between physical health & mental health 02:20 The most important first step 06:11 Best type of exercise to improve your mental health 08:24 Unhealthy relationship with healthy eating 12:44 Having a healthy relationship with food 14:30 Who should you follow online? 18:49 Avoid echo chambers 22:34 Red flags for online health/fitness accounts 28:10 Industry funded research 35:00 Wellness myths 40:19 Does food cause inflammation? 46:22 Food that improve your mental health Episode Resources: Alan | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27262149

Jillian Turecki On The Top Love Lessons She’s Learned, Why Dating Apps Don’t Work & How to Know If You’re Being Love Bombed 06/22/2023

Jillian Turecki On The Top Love Lessons She’s Learned, Why Dating Apps Don’t Work & How to Know If You’re Being Love Bombed Today’s guest and returning back to the podcast is Jillian Turecki. Jillian is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has taught others how to transform their relationships with themselves. She is also the host of the popular podcast, “Jillian on Love.” Today we discuss: the most powerful lessons Jillian has learned over the last ten years, how she betrayed herself in previous relationships, how you can rebuild your trust in romantic partners, the difference between love bombing and interest, how to navigate the current dating landscape and why should you get off dating apps if you’re looking to meet someone and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 01:00 Top lessons Jillian has learned in last ten years 05:30 Why did she betray herself in relationships? 09:04 What was the tipping point for Jillian? 14:15 Turning pain into purpose 16:44 Restoring her faith in men 21:43 Learning to trust again after a bad relationship 24:55 Are you love bombing someone? 29:34 If someone says THIS to you at the beginning, RUN! 30:35 Avoid coming off too strong 34:33 Why are people still stuck after “doing the work” 37:03 Get off the dating apps 41:04 How to maintain a healthy relationship 42:20 Could Jillian have saved any of her past relationships? 44:18 How does she protect her energy? 46:42 How to keep the spark alive Episode Resources: Jillian | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27223329

Ethan Suplee On Losing Over 250 pounds, Recovering From Addiction & Transforming His Relationship with Discomfort 06/19/2023

Ethan Suplee On Losing Over 250 pounds, Recovering From Addiction & Transforming His Relationship with Discomfort Today's guest is actor Ethan Suplee. He is known for his roles in films like Remember the Titans, Blow, and Mallrats, as well as in TV shows like Boy Meets World and My Name is Earl. But outside of his acting career, Ethan has an incredibly inspiring story. He has lost over 250 lb and Ethan has also been sober for over 20 years. Today we discuss: What helped Ethan lose over 250 lb and get sober, Why you should aim to "kill your clone" every single day, two things you must focus on if you want to stay sober, why eating healthy is more challenging than remaining abstinent, how Ethan's past has shaped how he parents his kids, what has helped him sustain his transformation, how to improve your relationship with discomfort and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Caldera Lab: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:56 “I killed my clone today.” 04:20 Losing weight won’t fix your problems 07:12 Health is a lifelong pursuit 09:21 Why Ethan doesn’t cheat on his diet 11:37 He thought he was going to die in his sleep 13:45 Ethan’s childhood and why he doesn’t blame his family 20:07 Allergic to carbs? 23:34 Numbing the pain 27:04 What made Ethan decide to change his life? 33:07 There is no destination 33:08 Why eating healthy is harder than staying sober 37:59 How did Ethan develop a healthy relationship with food? 40:33 Creating new habits 43:28 Why do so many people struggle to lose weight? 46:13 How to redirect negative thoughts 48:00 Embracing discomfort 50:30 How Ethan parents his kids 54:53 Parenting extremes 57:03 How would he have parented differently? 59:23 Two things you must do to stay sober 1:01:23 What’s next for Ethan? Episode Resources: Ethan | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27189015

Rebecca Rosen On Transforming Negative Beliefs into Positive Affirmations & How to Connect With Your Highest Self 06/15/2023

Rebecca Rosen On Transforming Negative Beliefs into Positive Affirmations & How to Connect With Your Highest Self Today’s guest is Rebecca Rosen. Rebecca is a spiritual medium and bestselling author with over 20 years of experience working as an ambassador between the spirit world and our day-to-day world. Today we discuss: Rebecca’s view on the circle of life and the afterlife, how to unlearn negative beliefs and become unstuck, why affirmations alone don’t work, how to get grounded without meditating, what communicating with the dead has taught her about what truly matters during our time on earth, how Rebecca shifted from a spiritual skeptic to a long time believer, how to begin to connect with your spirit guides and the afterlife and more. What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:56 Rebecca’s view on the circle of life 02:45 Her message to skeptics 05:21 Communicating with God, the universe or the dead? 07:05 Connecting to your highest self 10:09 Transforming false beliefs 15:53 Your soul contract 19:18 Life lessons you are meant to learn 21:47 Measuring and building self worth 26:39 What the afterlife says about what matters most 29:28 Acting like your highest self 31:14 Identifying your heaven 33:05 Rebecca’s thoughts on manifestation 35:51 What happens after we die? 38:15 Reincarnation 42:03 How to communicate with the dead 44:44 Reconnecting with my cellmate who passed away 48:50 Is a dead relative trying to talk to you? 51:24 Different views of spirituality 53:38 Getting grounded without meditating 55:37 From victim to empowerment Episode Resources: Rebecca | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27152502

Dr. Kelly & Juliet Starrett Reveal Essential Strategies to Defy Aging, Prevent Injuries & Increase Longevity 06/12/2023

Dr. Kelly & Juliet Starrett Reveal Essential Strategies to Defy Aging, Prevent Injuries & Increase Longevity Today's guests are Dr. Kelly Starrett and Juliet Starrett. Kelly is the coauthor of the New York Times bestsellers Becoming a Supple Leopard and Ready to Run. He consults with athletes and coaches from the NFL, NBA, NHL, and MLB, the US Olympic Team, elite Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, and Coast Guard forces, and corporations on employee health and wellbeing. Juliet is an entrepreneur, attorney, author, and podcaster. She was also a professional whitewater paddler, winning three world championships and five national titles. Together, Kelly and Juliet co founded The Ready State and San Francisco Crossfit, and cowrote the Wall Street Journal best-selling book Deskbound. Today we discuss: Why prolonged sitting is so dangerous for your health, the hidden advantages of walking and why you should count your steps daily, what you can do to increase your longevity and optimize the aging process, how to reduce your risk of injury and why stretching before a workout is ineffective, the best things you can do every day to supercharge your range of motion and mobility, how to optimize your sleep position to help alleviate pain, what you should do if you are experiencing aches and pains, and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:34 Is sitting as bad as smoking? 03:27 The hidden advantages of walking 09:19 Stop overcomplicating things 14:35 Early signs of poor mobility 17:00 Pain is a request for change 19:38 How to fix tight hips 22:00 Reduce your risk of injury 21:52 Daily mobility hacks 28:04 The single greatest thing you can do 26:39 Don’t stretch before working out 35:07 Equipment you should have at home 38:44 How to avoid getting hurt in the gym 41:23 The gym is the safest place there is 44:33 Sometimes you need to slow down 47:52 Rehab your injury properly 54:11 The best sleep position to prevent pain Episode Resources: Kelly and Juliet | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27111423

From “Lose Weight or Die” To Running Marathons: The Inspiring Story of Martinus Evans 06/08/2023

From “Lose Weight or Die” To Running Marathons: The Inspiring Story of Martinus Evans Today's guest is Martinus Evans. Martinus has run eight marathons since his doctor told him to “lose weight or die” in July 2012. Since then, he’s also coached hundreds of runners and been featured in The New York Times, Men’s Health, The Wall Street Journal, Runner’s World, New York Post, LADbible, HuffPost, Magnolia, and U.S. News & World Report. Martinus is the Founder and CEO of the Slow AF Run Club, a community of over 10,000 members worldwide. When he’s not running races around the world, he enjoys speaking passionately about issues related to size-inclusivity, mindset, DEI, and mental health. We discuss: how being told to “lose weight or die” fueled his anger to transform his life, how he went from running 15 seconds on a treadmill to running multiple marathons, why you can be both overweight and healthy, how using an alter ego helped Martinus destroy self-doubt, how he overcame early challenges and kept going when things got tough, how sports and tragedy kept Martinus away from selling drugs as a kid and much more. What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:30 “Lose weight or die” 05:08 Fueled by anger and rage 07:42 Was this the first time he tried to get fit? 09:55 Running his first 5k 11:21 Mistreated by other runners 14:21 Did he experience challenges early on? 19:11 Everyone should be physically active 21:52 You can be overweight and HEALTHY 24:38 Having a plan and building community 26:39 Falling in love with the process 29:27 Discipline builds motivation 31:42 Why he doesn’t want to win races 33:39 Running his first marathon 37:20 Being heckled at mile 19 40:30 It’s you vs. your mind vs. everyone else 43:55 What’s his diet like? 47:31 How often does he get bloodwork done? 49:47 How did Martinus avoid selling drugs as a kid? 54:54 The importance of playing sports 56:36 Being bullied in school Episode Resources: Martinus | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27076881

Case Kenny On The Secrets to Building Healthy Relationships & How To Transform Your Love Life 06/05/2023

Case Kenny On The Secrets to Building Healthy Relationships & How To Transform Your Love Life Today’s guest is Case Kenny. Case is an entrepreneur, mindfulness expert and host and founder of the top 25 Apple podcast . You may also recognize him from his viral coffee cup and post-it quotes on Instagram, which have been shared by millions and featured by Complex, Forbes, Women’s Health, Cosmopolitan and many more. Case is also the creator of the best-selling mindfulness journals and recently published his first book in January 2023, "That's Bold Of You," a self-help book to guide readers on how to let go of self-judgment. Today we discuss: why being single is a superpower, how to elevate your level of happiness, why you don’t need to love yourself to be in a relationship, how to feel understood and understand your partner in a relationship, the biggest red flag you don’t want to overlook, why you should focus on being proud of yourself, what you must do before dating again and much more. What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:30 Common dating traps 02:26 Being single is a superpower 06:22 Getting to know yourself 09:45 Should you start dating again? 12:48 How to stop attracting the wrong person 17:08 What to do if you’re unhappy with your relationship 19:43 Separating your head from your heart 22:36 Love is not enough 24:43 Overlooked secret to healthy relationships 27:05 Attract the right person 30:27 Rejection 34:14 What was Case like before he started his podcast? 36:49 Using journaling to overcome negative beliefs 38:20 Letting go of overthinking 42:11 Why being proud of yourself is so important 45:35 Manifesting isn’t always spiritual 49:04 How to deal with bad luck 51:44 The biggest green flag 55:35 The biggest red flag 58:02 Don’t do THESE things when dating Episode Resources: Case | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27037686

Dr. Tracey Marks On How to Effectively Manage ADHD, Reduce Anxiety & Transform Negative Thoughts into Positive Action 06/01/2023

Dr. Tracey Marks On How to Effectively Manage ADHD, Reduce Anxiety & Transform Negative Thoughts into Positive Action Today’s guest is Dr. Tracey Marks. Dr. Marks is a general and forensic psychiatrist of over 20 years whose mission is to increase mental health awareness and understanding by educating people on psychiatric disorders, mental well-being, and self-improvement. As a forensic psychiatrist, she has formulated over 1000 opinions through Independent Medical Evaluations, criminal assessments, or civil litigation consultations. She has been qualified as an expert in multiple federal and state courts and military court-martial. She also maintains a general psychiatry clinical practice focusing on mood disorders, anxiety disorders, and burnout. Today we discuss: why so many people are feeling anxious right now, how your gut health impacts your mental health and how to utilize diet and exercise to optimize your mood, the difference between anxiety and worry and how to reduce anxiety in the short term and long term, how to know if you truly have ADHD and how to effectively manage it personally and professionally, the signs and symptoms of depression and how to transform negative thoughts and feelings into positive action, what you can do if you struggle with procrastination and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:27 Why are so many people feeling anxious right now? 03:00 Overlooked symptoms of anxiety 04:22 Gut health and anxiety 10:35 When is anxiety a problem? 15:28 How to reduce anxiety in the short and long term 19:05 How to deal with worry 22:24 Do you have ADHD? 28:16 Can you reverse the symptoms of ADHD? 31:18 Dealing with ADHD at home 34:33 Being in a relationship with someone that has ADHD 37:52 Symptoms of depression 40:32 How to get out of a depressive state 43:04 Transform negative thoughts into positive action 46:30 Using diet and exercise to optimize your mood 52:27 How to stop procrastinating Episode Resources: Tracey | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/27003657

Stefan Falk On Why You Never Finish Anything & How To Avoid The Pain of Failure 05/29/2023

Stefan Falk On Why You Never Finish Anything & How To Avoid The Pain of Failure Today’s guest is Stefan Falk. Stefan is an internationally recognized executive coach and the author of Intrinsic Motivation: Learn to Love Your Work and Succeed as Never Before. Stefan is also a human performance expert for top business executives, special ops in the armed forces, and elite athletes, Falk has spent more than thirty years helping thousands of individuals, teams, and organizations become intrinsically motivated. He has held C-suite roles at several global companies, and has been responsible for driving corporate transformations valued in excess of two billion dollars. His leadership and human performance techniques have been developed in continuous cooperation with leading scientists in fields including neuroscience, behavioral science, and psychology. Today we discuss: what intrinsic motivation is and why it’s so important, how to get excited about a goal you want to pursue, why you must love what you do professionally, how to avoid the pain of failure, how to effectively navigate uncertainty and negativity, why achieving daily goals is so valuable, how to know when it’s time to quit a job and much more. What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:30 What is intrinsic motivation? 01:38 How to get a excited about a goal you are pursuing 06:45 Use time to your advantage 08:20 Staying intrinsically motivated while working out 10:41 Master the baby steps 14:30 Losing motivation is normal 19:04 Navigating uncertainty 22:55 Regulating your nervous system 25:06 Can helping others become problematic? 27:41 Dealing with failure 32:26 Should you love your job? 36:31 Is it time to quit your job? 39:10 The only time failure is truly painful 41:44 Use a calendar for negativity 46:33 Three things you should achieve daily Episode Resources: Stefan | ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/26972052

From Addicted to Dope to Building the Dopey Empire: The Untold Story of Dave Manheim and the Dopey Nation 05/25/2023

From Addicted to Dope to Building the Dopey Empire: The Untold Story of Dave Manheim and the Dopey Nation Today’s guest is David Manheim from the Dopey Podcast. Dopey podcast is the most popular addiction/recovery podcast that exists and has featured guests like Marc Maron, Jamie Lee Curtis, Margaret Cho, Danny Trejo, Jason Biggs and many others. Dopey was created by Dave and his cohost Chris in 2016, they met in rehab in Connecticut in 2011. Chris tragically died in July of 2018, relapsing and overdosing on cocaine and fentanyl. Dave never stopped making the show and continues on to push the Dopey message as far as it possibly can go. Today we discuss: Dave’s very entertaining and inspiring story, how addiction destroyed his career in show business before finding sobriety and starting Dopey, how loneliness and discomfort led to his addiction to drugs, what kept Dave going after the tragic death of his cohost Chris, how Dave finally found recovery after battling addiction for two decades, what he believes you must do to recover from addiction and much more. Thanks to today’s sponsor: Just Thrive: Use Promo code "Doug" at checkout to receive 20% off your order Episode Resources: Dopey | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/26943219

Nedra Tawwab On Empowering Your Child to Beat Addiction & How to Protect Yourself from Manipulation 05/22/2023

Nedra Tawwab On Empowering Your Child to Beat Addiction & How to Protect Yourself from Manipulation Today’s guest and returning to the podcast is Nedra Glover Tawwab. Nedra is the author of the New York Times bestsellers Drama Free and Set Boundaries, Find Peace. A licensed therapist and sought-after relationship expert, she has practiced relationship therapy for more than fifteen years. Today we discuss: the biggest mistakes parents make when raising their kids, how to effectively support yourself and your child if they're battling addiction, how to enforce healthy boundaries with someone that's in the thick of their addiction, what you can do to prevent yourself from being manipulated by others, how to determine when it's time to cut someone out of your life, how not to become a prisoner of your past, why you can still spend time with family members who don't want to change and much more. What to Listen For: 00:00 Intro 00:31 Biggest mistake parents make 02:07 How to make your kids feel supported 05:54 Parents need to recognize that they are imperfect 07:48 What do to do if your child is battling addiction 10:14 Setting boundaries 12:30 When is it time to cut someone out of your life? 15:02 How to prevent someone from manipulating you 19:28 Is there anything parents can do to help their kids beat addiction? 21:58 Putting your kids first when you get divorced 24:36 Is your childhood holding you back? 27:19 The nuance of personal responsibility 29:10 Learn new healthy patterns 34:12 Become a hero of your journey 37:39 How to coexist with family members 40:11 Stop trying to change other people 45:09 Are you overreacting? 47:54 Talking to your parents that neglected you Episode Resources: Nedra | , ⚠ WELLNESS DISCLAIMER ⚠ Please be advised; the topics related to mental health in my content are for informational, discussion, and entertainment purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your current condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard from your favorite creator, on social media, or shared within content you’ve consumed. If you are in crisis or you think you may have an emergency, call your doctor or 911 immediately. If you do not have a health professional who is able to assist you, use these resources to find help: Emergency Medical Services—911 If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911, available 24 hours a day. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 1-800-273-TALK (8255) or https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org. SAMHSA addiction and mental health treatment Referral Helpline, 1-877-SAMHSA7 (1-877-726-4727) and https://www.samhsa.gov and https://www.samhsa.gov /episode/index/show/theadversityadvantage/id/26907324

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