Better Men Get Better Women - The Mountain Top Podcast
The man's guide to strong character, dating, relationships, masculinity, self-improvement, confidence, attracting women, healthy living and adventurous lifestyle. For eighteen consecutive years, The Mountain Top Podcast (formerly The Chick Whisperer) from X & Y Communications has been the gold standard for high-achieving men of character who want to be better men and get better with women. Scot McKay and his expert co-hosts talk women, dating, relationships, 21st century masculinity and other men's issues in a fast-paced, sometimes controversial, and often hilarious style. | Please subscribe to get updates automatically, and if you love the show take a quick minute to rate us and leave a review. | Find guest photos, transcripts, video versions, links, show notes, the infamous free newsletter and more at https://www.mountaintoppodcast.com | NOTE: Views expressed by guests do not necessarily reflect those of the host and/or X & Y Communications, and guest appearances to do not necessarily equal endorsements.
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What Is "Friendfluence"? - SFTS 129
07/21/2026
What Is "Friendfluence"? - SFTS 129
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT===There's yet another new dating trend/buzzword now: "friendfluence". Now, on the surface you can figure what this is about. Women in particular have been letting their friends whisper in their ear about the guys they're dating since the dawn of recorded time. But thanks to a new "hail mary" attempt from Tinder to stay relevant, there's an added dimension. As it turns out, it's really nothing new either...it's just that most people haven't thought about it for a LONG time. So what did Tinder do, exactly? And how is it legitimately moving the needle...especially for women? And most of all, what should we as men do not only to merely leverage it, but to turn it into a massive advantage? Take the Reality Check Inventory quiz for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Get Better With Women While You Sleep - MTP 521
07/17/2026
Get Better With Women While You Sleep - MTP 521
Co Host Ryan Hurd (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/luciddreaming) My first-time guest is a dream researcher and educator with dreamstudies.org. What if you had a sandbox for practicing with women...with zero real-life consequences? And what if you didn't have to find ANY new time in your busy schedule for it? I mean it sounds crazy, but if you could open up those hours of built-in "downtime" in human existence when you're asleep to get better with women, what would the ramifications be? I mean, it's not like you'd be too busy to get to it. After all, you're asleep. What we're talking about here is learning the art (and science) of lucid dreaming, and harnessing the skill to go anywhere, meet anyone, and do anything...all while you're asleep. So what is lucid dreaming, anyway? How do you learn it? And what exactly can you be capable of in your dream world? Obviously, the potential for practicing skills with women in a "sandbox" with zero real-world impact should be intriguing to any man. But how does what happens in your dreams actually translate to real-world results with women? And what are some of the unexpected positive consequences? What else can lucid dreaming be used to get better at? Can you build neighborhoods and sort of an entire Roblox or Second Life kind of existence in your dream world that you can return to again and again...even with the same women? What are some of the most outlandish ways lucid dreaming can improve your overall quality of life? And is flying better than sex? Hey, if you're asleep almost a third of your life, why not maximize it to your advantage? Get the free report Flip The Switch: 5 Ways To Get Better With Women Right Now (the 6th one should be "fall asleep"!) when you go to: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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What Attractive Women Are Screening For When They Watch You - SFTS 128
07/14/2026
What Attractive Women Are Screening For When They Watch You - SFTS 128
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT===A lot of men are skeptical that women are noticing them at all, let alone watching them. But if you actually ask any woman, they'll readily admit that they watch us as men all the time. And yes, they watch ALL of us. Are they just "people watching", or are they scanning for something in particular? As it turns out there's one major factor that's an instant attraction trigger. It absolutely supercharges a woman's interest level in you, creating irresistible intrigue. Unfortunately for most men, fewer and fewer of us are exhibiting it nowadays. That's good news for YOU if you can have the proper mindset and cultivate the habits that make women take notice. Take the Reality Check Inventory quiz for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Are There Any Lines That Work With Women? - MTP 520
07/10/2026
Are There Any Lines That Work With Women? - MTP 520
Co-Host Race DePriest (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/race My first time guest Race DePriest has been getting magical results with women since back when MySpace was a thing. He and his roommate would hold house parties and "audition" sexy women for spots on their social calendar. Nowadays, he's still the Chief Funstigator over at Attraction Rockstar, specializing in ways to meet women and charm them that have survived the infamous Pickup Artist era. Given that we as humans use the same lines over and over when making small talk with people in general, Race has identified at least 99 lines you can still use with women that will create real, genuine intrigue and attraction rather than making them roll their eyes and walk away. It's more about what to say to get good social interaction rolling, not simply some "secret" way to be clever for the sake of it. First, Race reveals why being fun is both better AND faster than being perfect when it comes to attracting women. What should a charming guy do when the inevitable mistake happens when talking to women? As it turns out, that's the first situation where having the right line is super helpful. What is the "Hook-Line-Sinker" Texting Blueprint? How about the "Let Me Guess" texting technique? Or the "Pattern Interrupt Opener"? What does "Seeding The Invite" mean? What are the three coolest words you can use when asking a woman out? How can you use the "Odd Time Trick" with women in a fun way? How can you handle women's objections like, “Is this copy/paste?” and “Do you say this to all girls?” without getting defensive? And finally, what's the real reason words matter more than looks? Get Flip The Switch: 5 Things You Can Do Right Now To Be Better With Women when you visit === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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What Is Typemaxxing? - SFTS 127
07/07/2026
What Is Typemaxxing? - SFTS 127
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT===You've heard of looksmaxxing. But it that really going to help you attract the kind of woman you really want? A lot of guys are falling for the trend, in large part because we've bought into the redpilled stereotypes--not only about women, but about ourselves. There's a much better way to think about "maxxing" out your attractiveness to women. Best of all, it's far more effective at getting the kind of women you've really wanted all along into your life. You don't have to "max" out to someone else's standards. Relax in being your 100% authentic self...but the best version. Then, watch women self-identify as being "one of you"...bringing a lot more depth than just looks alone. Take the Reality Check Inventory quiz for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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American Men, American Women - MTP 519
07/03/2026
American Men, American Women - MTP 519
Co-Host Tommy Breedlove (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/livelegendary) This show drops one day before the 250th anniversary of the United States of America's Declaration of Independence. To celebrate, my long-time friend, returning guest and all-around American guy Tommy Breedlove from Live Legendary joins me to talk about American men and America women. Especially the women. This episode was recorded a couple of weeks ahead of time, when hardly anyone was talking about America 250. Even now as I write this, on July 2nd, there just isn't as much conversation--let alone celebration--going on as there was back in 1976 for the Bicentennial. What's up with that? So then, what about American women? Are they the hottest in the world? When you think of another country, you probably picture one kind of woman. But here in the USA, American women come in all types. What makes American women particularly amazing? The complaint nowadays is that American women are less feminine than they used to be. What's the truth there? And as far as American men go, the spirit has been an independent and pioneering one. Have younger men started losing the masculine edge and bold sense of adventure and ambition that made America so amazing to begin with? Or is all of this more of a media stereotype than boots-on-the-ground reality? What about "America guilt"? Is that a thing? How did TV and movies influence how the world views American men and women? What is the true evidence that American men really do want to be heroes? What are electronics in particular (above and beyond the media broadcasted on them) doing to us as American men? Get the new report Flip The Switch: 5 Ways To Be Better With Women Right Now when you visit === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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How Can You Be The Prize Instead Of Her? - SFTS 126
06/30/2026
How Can You Be The Prize Instead Of Her? - SFTS 126
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== Based on the comment sections from YouTube and TikTok, there's a problem out there that's starting to look more like a disease. It's all about how too many men respond to "thirst trap" videos, or the ones where men interact with sexy, attractive women. And nope, I'm not talking about the guys who post the "heart eyes" emojis and act like simps. That's no longer the trend. It's something completely different, and arguably more dangerous to your success with women should you fall into the trap. But fortunately, there's a much better way to frame your chances with exactly the kind of woman you want...and it'll probably free you from ever feeling the need to comment on any of those videos ever again, frankly. This brief episode explains. Take the Reality Check Inventory quiz for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Sleeping When You're Dead Is No Way To Live - MTP 518
06/26/2026
Sleeping When You're Dead Is No Way To Live - MTP 518
Co-Host Josh Bronfman (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/dreamer) My first-time guest Joshua Bronfman is a Certified Sleep Science Coach and the founder of Dreamer. He has made getting better sleep his life's mission. Now, it's pretty macho to make references to sleep being weak. For example, "I'll sleep when I'm dead". But then again, being exhausted and groggy isn't very manly, either. And worst of all is blowing an opportunity with a great woman because you were either too cranky or not quick enough on your feet in the moment due to lack of restful sleep. Above and beyond those social aspects of sleep, going without it just flat-out isn't healthy. So where did the "macho" attitude toward lack of sleep come from? And given that men really do need sleep, how has our lifestyle (either consciously or unconsciously) wired us to actually lose sleep? How does our relationship with a woman suffer as a direct result of poor sleep habits? Do younger men need more or less sleep than more mature guys? How are sleep and low-T levels directly related? Why is it that we as men happily deprive ourselves of sleep, but not of any other needs in life? What exactly does sleep deprivation do to you physical attractiveness? How is circadian rhythm the linchpin to this whole conversation? Why do some dudes feel like there should be, like 30 hours in a day, because we only feel like we need to sleep 8 out of every 30, not every 24? Finally, what is "junk sleep", and how does it affect you? Download Flip The Switch: 5 Things You Can Do Right Now To Get Better With Women at === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Focus On What You Can Control In Situations With Women - SFTS 125
06/23/2026
Focus On What You Can Control In Situations With Women - SFTS 125
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== There's nothing worse than approaching a woman, being on a date with her or even being in a relationship with her and you feel completely out of control. Your stress level rises, you feel emasculated and then what? You only get upset and frustrated. Well, every one of us as men has situations we CAN control, and when we focus on those it has a strange but almost magical effect on how we handle those situations we think we cannot control. And best of all, with a clear head we often find ways to take back control that our panic state had clouded us from seeing. Take the Reality Check Inventory quiz for FREE at: https://mountaintoppodcast.com/realitycheck === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a
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What Are Guided Erotic Experiences? - MTP 517
06/19/2026
What Are Guided Erotic Experiences? - MTP 517
Co-Host Nicholas Velotta (https://www.mountaintoppodcast.com/arya) My first-time guest Nicholas Velotta is an intimacy researcher for a company called Arya. Arya curates sexual experiences for couples everywhere. Nicholas's IRB-approved study of over 600,000 people found about how guided erotic experiences actually affect long-term attraction and connection. What did the data from couples reveal about the specific communication gap men fall into around desire? Next, discover why attraction doesn't fade on its own, and what the data shows actually triggers or kills it in long-term relationships. What can men specifically do differently to become the partner who keeps attraction alive? Also, find out why structure and novelty (not spontaneity) sustain erotic connection, and what couples can do about it right away. Could it be true that many men have sexual desires or fantasies that they wouldn't tell their "macho" friends about? (You decide...) You'll also get a breakdown of Arya's "Scenes" (Heat, Taste, Bound, and more), including what they are, how they work, and why couples who use them report deeper intimacy and sustained attraction. Get the free report Flip The Switch: 5 Things You Can Do Right Now To Be Better With Women, and also take the Reality Check Inventory quiz...both at === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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All I Want Is A Normal Woman. Is That So Hard?
06/16/2026
All I Want Is A Normal Woman. Is That So Hard?
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== It's easy for us as men to say we'd really just like a normal, pretty average woman. After all, if you're who I call "Gen-Eric" you're wearing normal clothes, driving a normal car, working a normal job and living a normal life. So why wouldn't a woman like "Gen-Erica" who seems to match up well with you not want you? Well, that's not how it works, unfortunately. While it's definitely not about "average" women requiring some Chad to spoil them rotten, there is a certain part of your masculine nature that needs to be activated in order to get the result you want. And guess what? You're likely to transform that "normal, average woman" into her best self in the process. Take the Reality Check Inventory quiz for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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How To See Your Relationship With A Woman As It Really Is - MTP 516
06/12/2026
How To See Your Relationship With A Woman As It Really Is - MTP 516
Co-Host Dr. John DeMartini (https://mountainoppodcast.com/perceptions) It's easy to get kind of a warped perspective on our relationship with a certain woman--or women in general, really--especially if we've gone through a bit of a "dry spell" or haven't yet experienced the kind of success we'd really like. In those cases, we already know we need a whole new way of looking at things because what we're doing is openly sabotaging our chances with the very women we want. My first-time guest Dr. John DeMartini is a world-famous human behavior expert, and he has powerful ways of reframing and/or even resetting how we as men look at relationships with women. First off, how is it we as men put women on a pedestal at best, or completely dismiss them as "out of our league" at worst? And how do we repair that mindset? What does "The Miracle Of Selfhood" have to do with how our perceptions of women get so warped and unbalanced? What does John mean when he says, "envy is ignorance, imitation is suicide"? What's the difference between a caring and a careful relationship? Why is comparing our gifts and liabilities to those of our significant other often fatal to a relationship over time? How do different parts of our brain preside over different aspects of our relationships with women? Do we really "belong to each other"? What's the essential reframe there? And finally, what do we as men do that only proves we deserve the chaos and the drama that ensues in the relationship? Overall, this is one of those conversations that smart guys love, so enjoy. Take the new Reality Check Inventory quiz at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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How To Know If You're Being Authentic - SFTS 123
06/09/2026
How To Know If You're Being Authentic - SFTS 123
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== We all want to be our true selves in any situation, of course. But how do you head-check yourself to make sure you're presenting your real, natural self when approaching and meeting women? How about on first meetings, or those first few weeks when you're getting to know them? As it turns out, there's a sobering but potentially dead-accurate way to tell. All is revealed in this brief episode. Where do you stand? Take the Reality Check Inventory quiz for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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The Essence Of Femininity - MTP 515
06/05/2026
The Essence Of Femininity - MTP 515
Co-Host Lauren Salaun (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/essence) We talk about the masculine/feminine dance quite a bit around here, but what is the very essence of femininity? And especially, how would a woman define that herself? My first-time guest is Lauren Salaun, who is a transformational facilitator and somatic life coach. When she came to me with the idea for this show, at first it sounded a bit basic. But after 500 episodes, we've never talked about it the way she presents it. So what IS femininity, and what ISN'T it? And how do women sometimes exhibit "masculine energy" even as feminine women? What are feminine women actually looking for in a man, beyond those surface-level interview questions? How can a man bring out a woman's feminine energy, and what do men do to shut it down? Why can a woman be soft with one man and hard with another? What's the difference between a woman who wants you vs. one who just chooses you? What makes a woman feel safe enough to fully open up and surrender? Next, why attraction fades, and the subtle ways men lose it without realizing. What's the dynamic between masculine leadership and feminine trust? What does emotional safety actually look like to a woman? And by the way, what does it even mean to "regulate your nervous system"? Get your FREE copy of Flip The Switch: 5 Ways To Be Better With Women Immediately when you go to === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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How To Use "The Indirect Reference" With Women - SFTS 122
06/02/2026
How To Use "The Indirect Reference" With Women - SFTS 122
==SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== For years there has been talk about "going direct" with women. Well, how can you directly approach and talk to women while being "indirect" at the same time? Unlock that secret and open up a whole new (and easier) way to tell what a woman's interest level is, whether she has a boyfriend or not, and more...all before you get her number and tell her you want to see her again. Get the BRAND NEW report on 5 ways to get better with women RIGHT NOW for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Love Hard On Purpose - MTP 514
05/29/2026
Love Hard On Purpose - MTP 514
Co-Host John Kim (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/johnkim) We've had a number of guests define "love" different ways on this show. My returning guest John Kim, author of the new book Love Hard On Purpose, thinks of it as a deliberate, daily practice. Well, isn't that the same thing as love being a decision, rather than simply a feeling? We jump right in by talking about whether couples should feel guilty for being happy. John isn't sure there's really such a thing as a happy couple. So what does love look and feel like to John? Do couples who love each other fight...or what's the better word for the healthy kind of expression there? John is from LA and his partner is from NYC. What happens when cultures collide in a relationship? What do most couples fail to do daily in demonstration of their deliberate love for each other? How should couples handle the inevitable evolution of their selves and their relationships over the course of their lives together? What are some of the subtle traps or pitfalls couple run into when trying to deliberately love each other daily? Does the daily act of loving someone require a break to do something else? For all I talk about taking ourselves less seriously, when should we take our partner particularly seriously? And how should couples handle criticism of each other? In the end, ah screw it...let's talk about surfing. Get your free copy of Flip The Switch: 5 Ways To Be Better With Women Immediately when you get in on my daily email newsletter at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Actively Create Your Success With Women - SFTS 121
05/26/2026
Actively Create Your Success With Women - SFTS 121
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT===Far too many men wait passively for a woman to come into the picture. And when she does, they expect her to make the first move...whether that's showing them some sort of flirtatious sign or downright approaching them first and saying "hello". In the real world, that rarely happens. As men, we lead. We make things happen. And it shouldn't feel as if we HAVE to, it should be more like we GET to. When we take the initiative, we WIN...and that goes for most every area of life, not just success with women. But how do we DO that? Expect real-world examples in this brief episode. Get the BRAND NEW report on 5 ways to get better with women RIGHT NOW for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Senior Wisdom On Sex For Younger Generations - MTP 513
05/22/2026
Senior Wisdom On Sex For Younger Generations - MTP 513
Co-Host Suzanne Noble (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/noble) My first-time guest Suzanne Noble is the host of Sex Advice For Seniors. Whatever you're thinking, forgettaboutit. She is candid, open and honest enough to make Dr. Ruth Westheimer blush. So what can a woman who's compiled over 10,000 hours of sexual activity (now Malcolm Gladwell's blushing as well) tell us about sex and relationships? Well, after bantering a bit about her being an American in London for over five decades, we jump right into how qualified she is to share with everyone what works, what doesn't, and what pisses her off. Adding up Suzanne's 10,000 hours, she was quick to mention that some of that was in five- or six-hour increments. How do you last six hours? Can you have snacks, or even take naps during sex? What is up with "performative sex", and how does maturity help us stop focusing on that? Sex is supposed to be fun, but is it also supposed to be silly? Are multiple orgasms really necessary...or even desired? Why do even younger men experience so much ED nowadays? How can we move from performance to connection during sexual experiences? Why do men resist talking about sex with women in detail, and especially talking during sex? What intricacies of good sex do we never see or understand by simply watching porn? Check out Suzanne's very cool Yes, No, Maybe Checklist when you visit her Substack. Also, get on my calendar for free to talk about what you have going on in your life with women nowadays. === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Why People Pleasers Fail With Women - SFTS 120
05/19/2026
Why People Pleasers Fail With Women - SFTS 120
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT===People pleasers have the bad habit of trying to seek approval from everyone. Typically, talk on this subject gravitates around how people pleasers attract narcissists, which is a bad thing for sure. But there's an even darker side to this mindset and its associated behavior pattern that almost guarantees perpetual failure with women. Worse, most people pleasers have a massive blind spot. How can you figure out what is actually happening, put a stop to it, and start going about things the right way? Here's a hint: When you do, you'll almost immediately get all the approval that's been somehow eluding you all this time. Get the BRAND NEW report on 5 ways to get better with women RIGHT NOW for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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We Never Outgrow Flirting - MTP512
05/15/2026
We Never Outgrow Flirting - MTP512
Co-Host Emily McKay (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/coach) Emily joins me once again, this time for a fun-filled topic. Yes, we're talking about flirting...and flirting should indeed be fun. If it's work, drudgery, or even creepy and weird then we're not doing it right. Since women love fun, that means they also love to flirt. So what IS flirting really, anyway? And given the stereotype that sex slows down (or stops) after marriage, is it really flirting that stopped first? How is it that couples who actually like each other and are attracted to each other stop flirting? What killed it? The even better question is how do you get your flirt mojo back once you've lost it? Can we not lose it to begin with? What are the big differences between casual flirting with people we don't even know (yet), and flirting with someone we already know, or are in a relationship with? When Emily and I met, we flirted constantly from the first date. Have we slowed down or stopped flirting in our own relationship? And what in the world does parenthood do to flirtatious tendencies? Maybe an even better question is what does parental flirtation do to kids? Does flirting stop after marriage because it's not so easy to be naughty together anymore? After all, sex is perfectly okay in a marriage. What happens to flirting when we get in an argument with our significant other? Is there "aggression flirting" that happens right before the inevitable "make-up sex"? So the bottom line is this: If you're in a relationship and the flirting is MIA, what do you do to get back on track? And if you're hoping to be in a relationship someday, how do you make sure you never stop flirting with each other? Get in on the new audio program The "Big Four" Woman at === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Do Women Want Exactly What You Lack? - SFTS119
05/12/2026
Do Women Want Exactly What You Lack? - SFTS119
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== Last week we talked about how men try to find a "workaround" for not being tall, good looking or rich...when the truth is we should be focusing more on what our strengths actually are. As a follow up, this week I'm covering another equally tricky prank we play on ourselves. The craziest part about this one is we hold ourselves to such strict account in this regard when considering our potential attractiveness to women, yet even though WOMEN also suffer from the same affliction, we as men rarely even notice...let alone care! Add it all up, and we really need to get over ourselves, stop being our own worst enemy (yet again) and start attracting women like we deserve to. Get the BRAND NEW report on 5 ways to get better with women RIGHT NOW for FREE at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Be With A Woman Who Inspires You - MTP511
05/08/2026
Be With A Woman Who Inspires You - MTP511
Co-Host Brandon Wade (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/seeking) My first time guest Brandon Wade s the founder and co-CEO of Seeking.com, a dating platform he founded in 2006 after his own frustrations with modern dating and difficulty finding meaningful connection. For nearly 20 years, he has helped build and evolve Seeking around a core idea that now feels more relevant than ever: successful relationships start with honesty, intentionality and aligned expectations. And importantly, if the person you're with isn't inspiring you, that's a major red flag, if not a flat-out dealbreaker. Brandon freely admits that seeking.com started out as a "sugar baby" site, and that description is still somewhat accurate even nowadays. But here's the thing...despite everything I've ever warned you about regarding the whole "sugar daddy" thing, Brandon found the love of his life on his own site, despite his own take that the entire "dating industry" is rigged against successful people! After once cynically (and publicly) questioning love itself, he ultimately met his wife and co-CEO Dana on Seeking, an experience that helped shape the company’s current focus on authenticity, trust and intentional dating. This was after using his own site for considerable practice improving his skills with women. So yes, his perspective is not only rooted in operating a dating platform at scale, but in his own lived experience. This wide-ranging discussion covers the rising standards among women, the low-effort dating crisis, male loneliness, and why many men are struggling to adapt to a dating culture that increasingly rewards emotional maturity, clarity and effort. Get in on the new audio program The "Big Four" Woman at === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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What To Focus On To Attract Women - SFTS118
05/05/2026
What To Focus On To Attract Women - SFTS118
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== For years we've been told women want tall, rich, good-looking guys...and then given workarounds, loopholes or "quick fixes" to try to get women without having any of those traits going for us. Well, how is that working out? If not so well, this brief episode exposes the real truth. It's not that you've been lied to about not needing to have won the "genetic lottery" to get women, it's just that for all these years the FOCUS has been all wrong. Here's what to do that really WORKS...without tricks...without having to be someone you're not. Also, I have a BRAND NEW report on 5 ways to get better with women RIGHT NOW. Get your FREE copy at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Creationships, Not Destructionships - MTP510
05/01/2026
Creationships, Not Destructionships - MTP510
Co-Host Simone Milasas (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/simone) You have what's commonly known as relationships, you have situationships, and now you have creationships. The term was coined by my first-time guest Simone Milasas, who sheds some new light on some of the ideals we've held true for years now around here. Now obviously, a "creationship" should be the opposite of, say, a "destructionship", but what is it exactly? Simone explains all. Knowing what it is and how great it sounds, what's holding most people back from entering into one? Well, for starters, it's not medieval times anymore. We're not partnering up for political reasons or financial reasons (at least, hopefully not), we actually get to choose who we want to be with. What's the "trickle down" effect of that freedom of choice? What exactly do you get to "create" together as a couple, perhaps even in defiance of conventional wisdom and commonly held limiting beliefs? And how do today's widely held opinions on masculinity and femininity factor into all of this? How does Simone envision men and women creating together as masculine and feminine partners? What needs to be brought back again about how men and women used to relate to each other...or can it be brought back at all? What is the weirdest reason why men won't even attempt to begin a relationship with a woman anymore? Gentlemen, snap up your copy of the brand new audio program The "Big Four" Woman at mountaintoppodcast.com/bigfourwoman === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Beat The Competition, Get The Girl - SFTS117
04/28/2026
Beat The Competition, Get The Girl - SFTS117
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== Too many of us psyche ourselves out when it's time to meet a woman and invite her to spend some quality time with us. We start fearing rejection, think of the hundreds of other guys she'd probably want instead of us, and end up rationalizing our inaction. Meanwhile, sure enough...some other guy who's really no better than you ends up with her. What's he got that you don't? The truth is he probably didn't win the genetic lottery or inherit millions. All he has is a different mindset. The good news is you can "flip a switch" and get that mindset for yourself. When you do, you'll revolutionize both the ease and the simplicity with which you meet and attract women from now on.. Speaking of "flipping the switch", I have a BRAND NEW report on 5 ways to get better with women RIGHT NOW. Get your FREE copy at: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Are You Potent? - MTP509
04/24/2026
Are You Potent? - MTP509
Co-Host Gabriela Rosa (https://mountaintoppodcast.com) Sure, a lot of guys fear--or even dread--fatherhood. But what if you have the right woman in your life, are finally ready to start a family with her...but can't? And it turns out the problem isn't her, it's you. My first-time guest Gabriela Rosa is a Harvard-trained fertility specialist and founder of Fertility Breakthrough, the world’s first fully virtual fertility clinic. She has helped 140,000+ people in 111 countries achieve parenthood, with a 78.8% live birth rate. So first off, does age have anything to do with this? If you drop the hammer on your 25 y.o. honey at age 90, will you still knock her up? Or is that a myth? What about women's "biological clock"? Do they worry too much about that? What are some of the ways our sperm can suffer? Did you know "silent infections" can keep us from being as potent as we could be? What is the big "misconception" people have about getting reproductive help, and why is it so counterproductive to getting results? Why won't most fertility doctors have the proper necessary conversations with infertile couples? Do you really have to masturbate in a cup to get an accurate semen sample? So what's a man to do if his sperm count is actually low? What, if any, are the environmental factors conspiring to keeping us as men from being as fertile as we could be? What are some surprising things we as men can and should do to make sure we're as capable of potentially fathering children as we could be? Get the latest X & Y Communications program called The "Big Four" Woman: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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The Real Rite Of Passage - SFTS116
04/21/2026
The Real Rite Of Passage - SFTS116
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== The idea of a rite of passage from boyhood to manhood is talked about constantly in masculinity circles. Well, even though lots of other world cultures have historically had one well-defined moment when a boy comes a man, either by ritual or simple pronouncement, that certainly is not the case here in the post-modern Western world. We look around us and see way too many "man children" whose ID cards say they're adults, but their mindset, lifestyle and character aren't quite there. What is the real point when a boy can step up and say he's truly a man? And why is it so hard to define? As it turns out, the answer is crystal clear and has been hiding in plain sight. It's just that other factors in society have obscured matters. In this brief episode we'll reveal what that TRUE rite of passage is, along with how and why everything got so confused. Get the new program called The "Big Four" Woman program here: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Humor Is An Unfair Advantage With Women - MTP508
04/17/2026
Humor Is An Unfair Advantage With Women - MTP508
Co-Host Jim Wolfe (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/funny) My long-time friend and fellow coach Jim Wolfe returns, this time to talk about how to use the kind of humor that women find attractive. We kick things off by talking about the oxymoron that the harder we try to be funny, the less funny we are. What do you do with that situation? Well, the good news is being funny is a learned skill...but one few men ever master. What kind of humor attracts women, and what kind turns them off? It's important to get that part right. Jim lives right next to Iran these days, which is decidedly not funny. How does humor relieve stress and make life in general more bearable? What is the difference between having a sense of humor and being funny? You don't actually have to be a comedian to make women laugh, all you need is THIS (which most men are allergic to!) What about using humor as a Dad, as well as with women? What's the same and different? And what's the same and different about the humor you use when meeting women vs. the humor you use to keep a long-term relationship interesting? What is the difference between tension and pressure, and why is it so important to this conversation? And what is it about being funny that has a meta-level effect on a woman's attraction level toward you? Why is taking ourselves too seriously an even worse problem than simply not being funny at all? Best of all, you want practical tips and examples, and we bring 'em. At the very least you'll be slightly funnier having listened to his show! You're a "Big Four" man, now meet your "Big Four" woman: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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A "Sexual Threat" Should Not Be Threatening - SFTS115
04/14/2026
A "Sexual Threat" Should Not Be Threatening - SFTS115
===SNIPPETS FROM THE SUMMIT=== Who knows where the term started, but "sexual threat" is one of the most widely mis-interpreted phrases in the world of seduction and attraction science. For better or worse, it's also dead-on accurate in terms of describing what's going on. Obviously, we know a "Big Four" man is rightly focused on making a woman feel safe and comfortable. So how can something called a "threat" be a positive and powerful thing? Well, the truth isn't quite as complicated as it sounds. And yes, this is yet another one of those subtle areas that once you get right, your success with women skyrockets. In fact, it's a major key of moving from platonic to sexual. Get the new program called The "Big Four" Woman program here: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === Snippets From The Summit are all about completely original ideas for success with women that also happen to be extremely effective...and actionable. It's all built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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Men Underestimate The Power Of Their Leadership With Women - MTP507
04/10/2026
Men Underestimate The Power Of Their Leadership With Women - MTP507
Co-Host Marni Kinrys (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/fwithher) We talk about making women feel safe and secure, but what else do women need to feel genuine, raw, primal attraction? My long-time friend and returning guest Marni "The Wing Girl" Kinrys joins us to talk about her "Four Ss" (which I'm not exactly sure how to type out in proper English), which have everything to do with how we show up and lead as a man. Before we dive into that, we talk about being "equal time" advocates for men and women, and how that translates into us both being optimistic about the future of male/female relationships. Marni is a "boy mom" nowadays, which is having more and more impact on how she views masculinity and what kids are up against. How has the "all or nothing" fallacy affected how men and women communicate with each other nowadays? Next, Marni talks about how she met her husband...in a totally unexpected way, which is solid insight for every man. How do we as men create "monsters" out of women, without even realizing it? So what are Marni's "Four Ss", and how do they line up with The "Big Four"? What are some things we as men can do to be sexy to women, without feeling silly in the process for trying? What are two simple sentences that men should ask themselves all the time when relating to women? What does Marni have to say to guys who think women have all the power? The "Big Four" Woman is waiting for YOU: === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === This show is built on the "Big Four": Confidence, Masculinity, Liking Women, and Good Character. Better men get better women. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review.
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