That Relationship Show

Naomi Rather, Ph.D.,LMHC and Deborah Curtis, LICSW certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapists interview the top experts in the field about relationships.

Creating Sexual Intimacy With Ease 08/01/2024

Creating Sexual Intimacy With Ease When one partner wants more sex than the other, things can get difficult for couples. Certified Sex Therapist and author Jessa Zimmerman joins us to talk about how to navigate desire discrepancy, and bring pleasure back to the relationship. Even if it's been ages since your last sexual encounter, there is hope! /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/32228422

Underneath the Guilt Trip 06/26/2024

Underneath the Guilt Trip Dr. Nancy Aikin joins us to discover what might be fueling the old "guilt tripping" approach to parenting adult children. She helps normalize the disappointment that can go both ways, and offers tips for having more meaningful family conversations. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/31906792

Healing From Estrangement 05/13/2024

Healing From Estrangement Renowned expert Dr. Joshua Coleman joins us to talk about estrangement between adult children and parents. In this lively discussion he shares how to reach for reconciliation or find acceptance when it isn't possible. Along the way he provides tips for preventing such cutoffs with family members. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/31255282

Ketamine Assisted Couples Therapy 03/23/2024

Ketamine Assisted Couples Therapy EFT Trainer Dr. Kathryn Rheem joins us to discuss what she's learned about Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy with individuals and couples, including her own personal journey. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/30513163

Love, Aggression and EFCT 03/01/2024

Love, Aggression and EFCT What do we do when "Finally, I've found my person" becomes aggression and violence? Unfortunately this happens for many more couples than actually report it, because in many cases it can be successfully addressed. EFT Trainer Jef Slootmaeckers joins us from Belgium to share what he's learned about treating Interpersonal Violence in couples therapy. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/30193133

The Inside Scoop on Therapy with Dr. Sue Johnson 01/29/2024

The Inside Scoop on Therapy with Dr. Sue Johnson Dr. Sue Johnson, founder of The Emotionally Focused Therapies joins us for a fascinating conversation. From the development of EFIT to her own therapy, Sue brings a lively authenticity to every story she shares in this episode. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/29686778

Say This, Not That (to keep your relationship secure & loving) 01/01/2024

Say This, Not That (to keep your relationship secure & loving) EFT therapist, author and Instagram star Julie Menanno joins us to talk about her new book, Secure Love. In this fun conversation, she helps us understand how to transform our anger, pain or resentment into validating boundaried conversations that are likely to both get us what we want and protect our relationship bonds. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/29214923

Everything You Wanted To Know About Emotions But Were Afraid to Ask 12/01/2023

Everything You Wanted To Know About Emotions But Were Afraid to Ask Author and therapist Hilary Jacobs Hendel takes us through the meaning and importance of emotions. Using the visual of a simple triangle, she teaches us how to interpret and manage them so that we can feel more calm, content and able to enjoy our lives. To support us on Patreon: /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/28713998

The Habits of Happy Couples (or What To Do Between Sessions) 11/01/2023

The Habits of Happy Couples (or What To Do Between Sessions) EFT therapists, business partners and married couple Tina & Michael LeBlanc join us to talk about their new book, The 10 Habits of Happy Couples. They offer specific skills that can be practiced between therapy sessions for deepening connection, making repairs after fights and protecting the relationship. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/28457000

Cheating-The Deepest Cut 10/08/2023

Cheating-The Deepest Cut EFT Trainer Dr. Ting Liu joins us to deconstruct the layers of pain that result from affairs. She offers hope for healing from even the deepest cuts, and for inoculating our relationships from this pain. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/28257512

The One About Family Addiction 09/04/2023

The One About Family Addiction When a loved one struggles with addiction, family members become involved. But attempts to fix, manage or control leave everyone hurting. Join us for a riveting conversation with Family Addiction Specialist Margaret Swift Thompson as she offers guidance for navigating these difficult waters. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/27937344

Life on the Spectrum 08/01/2023

Life on the Spectrum Diagnosed with an Autism Spectrum Disorder in adulthood, high school dropout John Elder Robison went on to become a successful business owner, best-selling author and neurodiversity scholar. Join us for this poignant and moving conversation about his life on the spectrum. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/27606000

Maintaining Connection While Raising Kids 07/01/2023

Maintaining Connection While Raising Kids Dr. Jordan Harris, LMFT joins us to discuss tips for couples to protect their bond while raising healthy, resilient children. With compassion and honesty he acknowledges how difficult modern parenting is, using his own experiences as a husband and father of three young children. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/27257850

Adult ADHD in Relationships 06/01/2023

Adult ADHD in Relationships Deb & Nao welcome from Switzerland ADHD experts and EFT therapists Alexine Thompson-De Benoit and Ben Kneubühler. With their personal experiences and years of expertise, they share what they've learned about adult ADHD in relationships. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/26906241

Healing & Reclaiming The Self 05/01/2023

Healing & Reclaiming The Self Reclaiming a loving connection to one's core self is pivotal for all other relationships, and paves the way for joy and connection. Psychologist and author SueAnne Piliero, developer of Core Self Reclamation Therapy joins us to share what's she's learned about this powerful process. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/26490567

The Secrets of Contented Couples 04/01/2023

The Secrets of Contented Couples Deb & Nao welcome from the UK fellow therapist and author Anne Power to talk about her research on what the common factors are in contented couples. When the initial rush of falling in love subsides, how do we get to the lasting comfort of deep abiding love? Join us to find out. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/26336628

Resilience 03/01/2023

Resilience In this uplifting episode, expert Linda Graham, LMFT shares what she's learned about resilience--why it matters, how our brains are wired for it and what individuals (and communities) can do to cultivate it and thrive, even when the road gets rough. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/25971129

Dopamine Nation 02/01/2023

Dopamine Nation We take a deep dive inside the brain's reward center with Dr. Anna Lembke, physician-researcher and NYT best selling author to understand how addiction changes the brain. Join us for this enlightening episode and discover why a dopamine fast might be just the ticket to regain balance. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/25697586

Letting Go of Childhood Wounds/Finding Your Place in Adulthood 12/31/2022

Letting Go of Childhood Wounds/Finding Your Place in Adulthood Daniel Mate, co-author and son of Gabor joins us for a frank and engaging look at how adult children can learn to let go of injuries inflicted by their parents, and come to a place of authenticity and strength. Using his own complicated relationship with his famous father, he offers wisdom and hope for healing and growth. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/25359039

The Externalizer, The Over-Explainer and The Folder 12/01/2022

The Externalizer, The Over-Explainer and The Folder Deb and Nao describe three common behaviors that fuel the negative cycle when we're triggered, and offer tips for change. By recognizing and exiting these modes, we are more likely to find the reassurance, comfort and connection that we need. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/25127379

Healing CEN in Relationships 11/01/2022

Healing CEN in Relationships Dr. Jonice Webb is back to help us understand how Childhood Emotional Neglect shows up in relationships, and what can be done to heal it. Whether with yourself, your partner, your child or your parent, she has tips for how to have productive conversations about CEN. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/24694032

Parenting Tips for Emotion Regulation 10/01/2022

Parenting Tips for Emotion Regulation One of the most important tasks for anyone to learn is to manage and regulate their emotions--yet this is not widely taught. Carly Soare, Certified Speech & Language Pathologist and Executive Function Coach joins us to offer her wisdom on how to help children become emotionally aware and adept. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/24408942

How People Change 09/01/2022

How People Change When we decide to change ingrained ways of behaving or learn new skills, there are many obstacles that can derail us. This applies to athletes, musicians, clients and therapists alike. Wesley Little, certified EFT therapist and supervisor joins us to discuss how Deliberate Practice can help us manage the process to keep our growth on track. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/24245748

How People Change 09/01/2022

Betrayals & Other Violations of Trust 08/01/2022

Betrayals & Other Violations of Trust A betrayal by a trusted person can leave us feeling crazy and unable to find our footing. EFT Supervisor Kelly Bourque,LMFT shares what she's learned about healing after a betrayal and offers hope for re-building safety. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/23768783

Communication Skills for Secure Love 07/01/2022

Communication Skills for Secure Love Author and EFT therapist Julie Menanno shares the communication skills that made her an Instagram phenom. With her clear and unassuming style, she shows us how to navigate the tricky places that block connection. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/23274062

Life After Love 06/01/2022

Life After Love Psychologist Clare Rosomon joins us to discuss healing after relationship loss. Her new book uses an attachment lens to explore and bring healing from anger, pain and grief. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/22735307

Sex and Attachment: Deepening the Bonds 05/15/2022

Sex and Attachment: Deepening the Bonds Dr. Laurie Watson takes a break from co-hosting the popular podcast Foreplay to talk with us about the intersection of sexual and emotional connection for couples. With her frank and engaging style, she shares what she's learned over three decades to help build empathy even for those couples who feel miles apart when talking about sex. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/23115551

Healing from Religious Harm 04/10/2022

Healing from Religious Harm Psychologist, author and religious trauma expert Marlene Winell joins us to discuss the impact of fundamentalist religiosity on individuals and relationships. She offers hope for healing and finding joy in this life. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/22739732

EMDR & EFT: Powerhouses of Healing 03/26/2022

EMDR & EFT: Powerhouses of Healing Internationally renowned EMDR trainer and therapist Deany Laliotis, LICSW joins Deb & Nao to talk about the powerful healing that EMDR can provide. We talk about the intersection of EMDR and EFT, the importance of attachment and the value of paying it forward. /episode/index/show/thecouchwithdebandnaomi/id/22575557

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