The Disciple Standard Podcast
Welcome to the Disciple Standard Podcast! Where we discuss the multiply method of discipleship we believe it is time to upgrade the operating system of the church returning to a decentralized system which promotes exponential growth through the multiplication of disciples.
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Why the Future of the Church Won’t Drop from the Sky
11/20/2025
Why the Future of the Church Won’t Drop from the Sky
The Multiply Conference is over… now what? In this episode of the Disciple Standard Podcast, Aaron sits down with Zach Olson and Scott Vander Ploeg to unpack what actually needs to happen next if we’re serious about multiplying disciples, leaders, and churches in the CRC. They talk candidly about why this movement can’t just be a top-down plan from denominational offices, why real change has to be owned at the classis and local church level, and what it will take for every region to develop its own grassroots strategy. Along the way, they unpack the simple but powerful MDLC framework (Multiply Disciples, Leaders, Churches) and the bold challenge on the table for the next decade: – Raise up 2,000 leaders – Plant 1,000 churches If you left the conference asking, “Okay… but what do we do now?” this conversation is for you.
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How Movements Start: Conversations, Classes, and Calling - Multiply Conference Day 1
11/11/2025
How Movements Start: Conversations, Classes, and Calling - Multiply Conference Day 1
Day 1 of the Multiply Conference was less “talking heads,” more movement building. Scott sits down with Paul Vander Klay (Sacramento, CA) and Moisés “Mo” Pacheco (Chicago, IL) to unpack the day: why classes-level action beats top-down plans, what disciple-making must look like in a post-Christian moment, and why real multiplication starts with raising leaders (not just planting churches). Highlights: - Why grassroots/classis collaboration is the engine for church planting - The transmission crisis: discipling in a post-Christian, mobile, media-soaked culture - Parents discipling their own kids (and the hard convo about family & formation) - Practical metrics: aiming for 2,000 leaders in 10 years → fuels 1,000 church plants - Designing conferences around conversations (on purpose!)—hallway ministry wins - Florida time ⏰ + Mo’s legendary crowd-call = networking on overdrive
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Pre-Conference Recap: Scripture, Psalms, and a Movement of Multiplication
11/11/2025
Pre-Conference Recap: Scripture, Psalms, and a Movement of Multiplication
The Multiply Conference is here, and before the main sessions even kicked off, we gathered pastors and leaders to do something simple and powerful: hear Scripture publicly, pray and sing the Psalms together, and dream about multiplying disciples, leaders, and churches. In this short recap, Scott sits down with Tim and Brad (Resonate Global Mission) to unpack: - Why we began with the Public Reading of Scripture (PROS) and praying/singing the Psalms - How these ancient practices form modern disciple-makers - A candid look at biblical literacy (and why it matters for renewal) - Simple, reproducible ways PROS can serve church plants, rural congregations, and ministry points - The heart behind Multiply: a coalition of the willing moving from content to action
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Prayer, Psalms, and the Plan: Raising Leaders Now | Season 3 Episode 35
10/30/2025
Prayer, Psalms, and the Plan: Raising Leaders Now | Season 3 Episode 35
Leaders don’t wait for permission—they take responsibility. This week we tackle the “elephants in the room”: grassroots church movements vs. denominational centers, fears about factions, and what it really takes to multiply 2,000 leaders and plant 1,000 churches. Then we go deeper: a practical framework for gospel identity that moves you from the drama cycle (blame/avoid/complain) to the dream cycle (own the problem → plan → do → check → adjust). We talk prayer (especially the Psalms), honoring past generations, and why local churches can’t outsource discipleship or church planting.
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Are We Too Comfortable to Be Courageous? | Season 3 Episode 33
10/25/2025
Are We Too Comfortable to Be Courageous? | Season 3 Episode 33
In this episode, Aaron, Seron, and Zach tackle one of the most challenging questions facing the modern church: Are Christians too comfortable to live courageously? From AI and spiritual laziness to local evangelism and church culture, the team gets real about what courage looks like in everyday faith — and how comfort might be the greatest obstacle to gospel boldness.
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Risk Is Right: Why Christians Must Stop Playing It Safe | Season 3 Episode 34
10/23/2025
Risk Is Right: Why Christians Must Stop Playing It Safe | Season 3 Episode 34
Comfort is killing the church. For many believers today, safety has become a silent idol — but what if real Christianity has always required risk? In this episode, Scott returns from Nigeria with a powerful challenge: If Jesus is who He says He is, then risk is right. Aaron, Seron, and Scott wrestle with what courageous faith looks like in a world obsessed with control, comfort, and safety. We talk persecution, missionary legacy, a church plant born out of crisis, 63 churches in Sierra Leone, and whether the American church has lost its passion. Is the future of the CRC tied to recovering white-hot, risk-taking faith… and possibly learning from our Nigerian brothers and sisters? This is not just a trip recap — it’s a wake-up call.
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20 Sentences the CRC Needs to Start Talking About… | Season 3 Episode 32
10/10/2025
20 Sentences the CRC Needs to Start Talking About… | Season 3 Episode 32
An old monk had 95 theses—today we bring 20. In this episode, Pastor Scott lays out a bold, practical roadmap for renewal in the Christian Reformed Church: a gospel-first identity, every believer a multiplier, leadership pipelines that start in local churches, and church planting as the ordinary way God renews His Church. We tackle the reality of decline—and why it’s not inevitable—and cast a hopeful vision for multiplying disciples, leaders, and churches in our time. What you’ll hear: - Why renewal begins with a fresh encounter with the gospel, not new tactics - How disciple-making reverses membership decline - Why leadership pipelines must start in local congregations (not agencies) - Church planting as the ordinary means of renewal - A call to become friends on mission and rally around a shared vision 🎟️ Want in? Join us at the Multiply Conference in Port St. Lucie
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Friends on Mission: Renewing the CRC Through Church Planting | Season 3 Episode 31
10/02/2025
Friends on Mission: Renewing the CRC Through Church Planting | Season 3 Episode 31
What’s the future of church planting in the Christian Reformed Church? In this episode of the Disciple Standard Podcast, Scott sits down with Tim Sheridan (Director of Church Planting for the CRC) and Vivi Cassis (Operations Manager, Resonate Global Mission & leader at The Source Church) to talk about: -The state of church planting across North America -How diaspora and multicultural movements are shaping the future -Why prayer, fasting, and bold goals (like planting 1,000 new churches) matter -The upcoming Multiply Conference in Port St. Lucie this November -How every church—large or small—can play a role in multiplying disciples and leaders 👉 Don’t just watch—join the movement. Register now for the Multiply Conference (Nov 8–11). https://conference.multiply222.com/
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The New Vision for CRC Churches in Florida | Season 3 Episode 30
09/25/2025
The New Vision for CRC Churches in Florida | Season 3 Episode 30
Church attendance may be declining across the U.S., but in this episode of the Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastors Aaron, Kris, and Scott share a bold new vision for the future of churches in Florida—and the Christian Reformed Church at large. From celebrating past wins to unveiling the goal of raising 262 leaders and planting 26 churches in the next decade! This conversation digs into: - Why leadership development is the key to church renewal - How 222 Discipleship is shaping the next generation of pastors and leaders - The role of collaboration, diversity, and shared vision in fueling a movement - Lessons learned from past conferences and what’s ahead for the Multiply Conference If you care about the future of the church, disciple-making, and gospel-centered leadership, this episode will inspire and challenge you.
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Plant Where It Grows: The Data, the Gospel, and a New Vision for Church Planting | Season 3 Episode 28
09/20/2025
Plant Where It Grows: The Data, the Gospel, and a New Vision for Church Planting | Season 3 Episode 28
What actually makes a church plant take root—strategy, location… or discipleship? Scott sits down with David Snapper (church planter/researcher) to unpack 40+ years of lessons: why many “parachute drops” stall, how clusters (the 20-mile/2,000 rule) change outcomes, and how to build a synthetic cluster (friendship networks, schools, training leaders in place) when you’re far from the denominational center. We also talk Acts (Jerusalem → Antioch → Athens), moving from numbers to disciples, and how conflict resolution frees a denomination to pursue Great Commission unity. You’ll hear: - The “200 barrier” myth—and what the data actually shows - Why proximity and community (schools, sister churches) fuel resilience - Training leaders locally to avoid “redemptive lift” - Discipleship-first pipelines that outlast trends - A hopeful path beyond divisive debates toward mission. If this helps, share it with a pastor/planter and subscribe for more practical conversations.
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Charlie Kirk, Demonic Powers, and the Church's Response | Season 3 Episode 29
09/19/2025
Charlie Kirk, Demonic Powers, and the Church's Response | Season 3 Episode 29
When tragedy shakes a nation, like the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk, people flood back into churches looking for answers. In this powerful episode of the Disciple Standard Podcast, Aaron, Scott, and Kris wrestle with big questions: - Why do moments of national crisis awaken spiritual hunger? - How should the church speak into cultural chaos without being consumed by it? - What do Augustine, the Psalms, and Jesus Himself teach about anger, fear, and the Kingdom of God? - How do we confront the lies, polarization, and spiritual darkness shaping our world? If you’ve felt heavy or restless with the state of culture, this conversation will point you toward hope, courage, and a Kingdom perspective.
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How 1:1 Discipleship Reversed a Decades-Long Decline | Season 3 Episode 27
09/04/2025
How 1:1 Discipleship Reversed a Decades-Long Decline | Season 3 Episode 27
What if a classis in long-term decline could reverse the trend—by discipling people one-to-one, raising new preachers, and planting churches again? In this roundtable, Aaron sits down with Pastor Chris (The Source Church), Pastor Felix (South Kendall Community Church), and Pastor Scott to unpack South Florida’s journey from contraction to multiplication: 70+ active 1:1 discipleship relationships, a pipeline of new preachers (including 9 headed to licensure this month), and a vision any church network can adopt—disciple deeply → develop leaders → plant churches.
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From Grief to Legacy: When Churches Face the End | Season 3 Episode 26
09/01/2025
From Grief to Legacy: When Churches Face the End | Season 3 Episode 26
In this week’s episode of the DSP, Pastors Scott, Zach (“the Wise One”), and Aaron dive into one of the most difficult but necessary conversations: what happens when a church faces decline and must confront its future. We react to Pastor Paul VanderKlay’s candid video about his church’s struggles, and together we unpack: The grief that comes when beloved ministries face endings. How legacy, discipleship, and multiplication matter more than buildings. What it looks like for churches to reimagine, relaunch, or even merge in pursuit of Gospel impact. Along the way, we share personal stories of parenting transitions, church renewal efforts, and how leaders can prepare for inevitable changes with hope. 📌 Links: Center for Church Renewal (congregational assessment tool): churchrenew.org Pastor Paul VanderKlay’s channel: www.youtube.com/@PaulVanderKlay Multiply Conference info: conference.multiply222.com
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A Life Full of Meaning from Proverbs | Season 3 Episode 25
09/01/2025
A Life Full of Meaning from Proverbs | Season 3 Episode 25
In this episode of the Disciple Standard Podcast, the guys dive into Proverbs, wisdom, foolishness, and the stages of life. From midlife crises and career thinking to deep theological reflections on Christ as the true wisdom of God, this conversation blends humor, vulnerability, and rich biblical insights. Get tickets to the Mulitply Conference - conference.multiply222.com
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The Whole Gospel: Why Good News Needs the Bad News | Season 3 Episode 24
09/01/2025
The Whole Gospel: Why Good News Needs the Bad News | Season 3 Episode 24
When you hear the word gospel, what comes to mind — music? A churchy phrase? Or the life-changing announcement of God’s rescue plan? In this episode of the Disciple Standard Podcast, we unpack what the whole gospel really is, why it matters for every sermon, and how it transforms lives and churches. From personal stories to Puritan wisdom, we explore sin, salvation, and service in a way that’s clear, practical, and freeing.
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Why We Need to Raise Leaders—and Then Let Them Lead | Season 3 Episode 23
08/28/2025
Why We Need to Raise Leaders—and Then Let Them Lead | Season 3 Episode 23
How do you raise up the next generation of church leaders—and then get out of the way? In this episode, Aaron sits down with Jary Reed and Scott Vander Ploeg to unpack how discipleship really works, why leadership starts young, and how churches can unlock the 90% of leadership potential sitting idle in their pews. They cover everything from the theology of adulthood to why pastors shouldn’t fear being replaced. It’s raw, funny, and full of wisdom from decades of raising leaders—and watching them surpass you. 🔔 Subscribe to join the movement of disciples making disciples. 📍 Learn more about the Multiply Conference: conference.multiply222.com
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Budget Cuts, Coaching Gaps, and the Future of Church Plants | Season 3 Episode 22
08/28/2025
Budget Cuts, Coaching Gaps, and the Future of Church Plants | Season 3 Episode 22
What’s the future of church planting in the CRC? We talk with Marco Ávila, East Coast Regional Leader for Resonate Global Mission, about raising up church planters, coaching leaders, and navigating the recent funding changes coming in 2026. From the essentials every church plant needs, to the challenges of vision and funding, this conversation digs into the practical steps for multiplying disciples, leaders, and churches in the years ahead.
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The Movement Starts Here: 2,000 Leaders in a Decade | Season 3 Episode 21
08/28/2025
The Movement Starts Here: 2,000 Leaders in a Decade | Season 3 Episode 21
The future is now! In this episode of the Disciple Standard Podcast, we dive deep into raising leaders from within the church, the journey of finding your own preaching voice, and why the harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Scott shares why leadership multiplication matters, Saron reflects on his first sermon (Psalm 137), and we talk about insecurities, discipleship, and the Holy Spirit’s role in preaching. Plus—an unexpected story about a Q-tip, Psalm 40, and hearing God’s Word clearly.
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Is a New Vision for Church Planting Emerging in the CRC? | Season 3 Episode 20
08/28/2025
Is a New Vision for Church Planting Emerging in the CRC? | Season 3 Episode 20
In this episode, Scott Vander Ploeg returns from Europe with spiritual clarity and a renewed mission: reverse the Christian Reformed Church's decline through a gospel-centered plan of multiplication. From standing on the Apostle’s Step in Greece to delivering a game-changing floor speech at Synod 2025, Scott shares the urgency of the moment and a roadmap for hope. If you're a pastor, church leader, or just passionate about the future of the CRC, this episode is a must-watch! 🔗 Resources, speech links, and Paul VanderKlay’s video: https://youtu.be/uflCO1yddMY
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Defunding Church Planting? Here’s Why That’s a Dangerous Move | Season 3 Episode 19
07/10/2025
Defunding Church Planting? Here’s Why That’s a Dangerous Move | Season 3 Episode 19
In this powerful episode of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron Mamuyac sits down with Pastor Felix to unpack the recent Synod decision to defund church planting—and what that means for the future of the church. They discuss: Why church planting is a gift that keeps on giving The real danger of defunding church multiplication What we should cut instead to preserve the mission How funding impacts evangelism, discipleship, and growth The temptation to deconstruct systems without gospel vision Why faithfulness to God, not guaranteed results, is our true calling If we want to reach more people for Christ, we must invest in multiplication—not pull away from it. Subscribe for new episodes every Thursday
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The #1 Need Every Church Planter Has Today | Season 3 Episode 18
07/03/2025
The #1 Need Every Church Planter Has Today | Season 3 Episode 18
Pastor Aaron Mamuyac sits down with Dave Hancock, planter and lead pastor of The Grove Church, for a raw conversation about the highs, lows, and unexpected lessons of starting a gospel‑centered church from the ground up. 🌱 In this episode we cover: 🤔 Doubt as a pathway to flourishing—why wrestling with faith can deepen it. 🛑 Idolism: chasing things that never deliver and how to spot them. ⚠️ The hardest part of planting The Grove that no one saw coming. 🌄 Giving real hope when you feel hopeless (and helping your people do the same). 💬 Vulnerability as a natural by‑product of a gospel‑rooted identity—why pastors need more of it. 🚀 The single biggest need church planters have right now. 🧩 Core values every new plant must lock in early. 🛠️ Building the right team—who you need on Day One and why. 😨 Overcoming fear in the planting journey. 🎯 How to make denominations exciting again for future planters. 📚 Training, mentorship, and what Dave has learned the hard way. Whether you’re dreaming of planting, already leading, or just love hearing behind‑the‑scenes ministry stories, this episode will challenge and inspire you to lead with boldness, honesty, and gospel clarity. 👉 Subscribe for new episodes every Thursday, hit the 🔔, and join the conversation in the comments! - Support the Podcast - Visit our church - Connect with us - https://multiply222.com
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Why Defunding Church Planting Could Hurt the Church’s Future | Season 3 Episode 17
07/02/2025
Why Defunding Church Planting Could Hurt the Church’s Future | Season 3 Episode 17
In Episode 17 of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron is joined by Pastor Zach and Worship Director Seron to unpack their experience at Synod, a major annual gathering in the Christian Reformed Church (CRC). 🎙️ One major point of tension: defunding church planting. What does this mean for the future of ministry, and how can local churches step up? They also discuss: What Synod actually is (and why it matters) 🧭 What we’ve learned about the CRC and its diverse churches How a denomination shapes churches and leaders 🌱 Why church planting still matters The real challenges church planters face What Resonate and local churches can do to lead and grow in their communities 🔥 If you're curious about denominational leadership, church planting, or how churches grow and multiply, this episode will give you clarity, insight, and hope for the future. 📅 New episodes every Thursday 📍 Subscribe, like, and drop your thoughts in the comments!
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What Does the Bible Really Say About Fatherhood? | Season 3 Episode 16
07/02/2025
What Does the Bible Really Say About Fatherhood? | Season 3 Episode 16
In this Father’s Day-inspired episode of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastors Aaron, Jary, and Zach take a deep dive into what it means to be a biblical father—and how that often clashes with modern cultural expectations. 🎙️ We talk about: The biblical definition of a dad Passive vs involved fathers in today’s world Lies about fatherhood that men are tempted to believe The rise of gentle parenting Helping your kids become critically self-reliant and spiritually grounded Practical advice for dads trying to live up to God’s calling Whether you're a dad, want to be one, or are leading the next generation—this one’s for you!
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Is Children’s Ministry More Powerful Than We Think? | Season 3 Episode 15
06/12/2025
Is Children’s Ministry More Powerful Than We Think? | Season 3 Episode 15
In Episode 15 of The Disciple Standard Podcast, we dive into the heart of children’s ministry and why it’s more than just snacks and songs. 🎨🧃 🎙️ Pastor Aaron sits down with Andrea and Kristen to discuss: The lasting impact of VBS at Sunlight ☀️ How community helps us through hard seasons What changed his perspective on children’s ministry How kids’ spiritual growth can transform the entire church 🧠❤️ Controversial takes on modern approaches to children's ministry 😮 And how you can support kids ministry—without ever stepping into a classroom! This episode is for parents, leaders, volunteers, and anyone passionate about discipling the next generation. 📅 New episodes every Thursday! 📍 Subscribe to the channel and join the conversation in the comments! https://disciplestandard.com/ Support the Podcast - Visit our church - Connect with us - https://multiply222.com
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Why Today’s Youth Are Struggling Spiritually | Season 3 Episode 14
06/05/2025
Why Today’s Youth Are Struggling Spiritually | Season 3 Episode 14
In this episode of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron, Pastor Jary, and Seron dive into what makes today’s youth different from generations before—and what that means for their spiritual growth. 🎧 They explore big questions like: 🤔 What’s the real threat to a young person’s faith today? 💰 Should we be paying kids for chores—or is that teaching the wrong lesson? ⌚️ When is the right time to introduce technology like smartphones? 💭 How do Christian parents navigate raising kids in a hyper-digital, fast-paced culture? This conversation is packed with real talk, biblical insight, and practical wisdom for parents, church leaders, and anyone investing in the next generation. 👉 New episodes every Thursday on YouTube and your favorite podcast platform. https://disciplestandard.com/ Support the Podcast - Visit our church - Connect with us - https://multiply222.com
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Why We’re More Lonely Than Ever (and What the Bible Says About It) | Season 3 Episode 13
06/04/2025
Why We’re More Lonely Than Ever (and What the Bible Says About It) | Season 3 Episode 13
📺 Episode 13: Let’s Talk About CommunityIn this episode of The Disciple Standard Podcast, we get real about one of the biggest issues of our time: loneliness. Despite being more digitally connected than ever, people feel increasingly isolated. 📱 💬 Why is that? We explore: – Why phones and distraction are killing real connection 😶🌫️ – How modern culture promotes isolation vs. what Scripture says 🧍♂️➕🧍♀️ – The Church’s role in building genuine relationships ⛪ – The power of discipleship in community 🤝 – How YOU can start creating meaningful connection again 🙌 Whether you’ve felt alone in a crowd or just want deeper faith-based friendships, this episode will challenge and encourage you to build the kind of community Jesus modeled. 🎙 With Pastor Aaron Mamuyac, Pastor Scott Vander Ploeg & Pastor Jary Reed 💡 Brought to you by Sunlight Community Church👥 Subscribe + Share this with someone who needs encouragement today! 📈 Invest Booklet: https://disciplestandard.com/ Support the Podcast - Visit our church - Connect with us - https://multiply222.com
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Why Christian Education Might Be the Most Important Mission Field | Season 3 Episode 12
06/04/2025
Why Christian Education Might Be the Most Important Mission Field | Season 3 Episode 12
🎙 Why Christian Education Might Be the Most Important Mission Field In Episode 12 of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron Mamuyac sits down with Pastor Scott Vander Ploeg and 🎓 Sarah Wilson Hyde, Head of Schools at Sunlight Christian Academy, for a powerful conversation on the role of Christian education in shaping lives and communities. 🧠 They talk about: How faith and deep thinking go hand-in-hand ✝️ Why Christian schools are more than just academics 📚 The origin story of Sunlight Christian Academy 🌱 Building a school that disciples the whole child 🙌 What it means to follow a calling from God 🔥 School and church working together as one mission 🏫⛪ Real stories of student leadership and faith 💡 💭 Could Christian education be one of the greatest mission fields today? Tune in to hear why it might be—and how you can be part of it. 📅 New episodes every Thursday 🔔 Subscribe now so you never miss one! 💬 Comment below: What’s one thing you believe Christian education should focus on most? Timestamps: 00:22 - Why Christian Education Matters More Than Ever 01:37 - Jiu-Jitsu and Jesus: Discipline in Everyday Life 07:31 - Are We Prioritizing the Right Things for Our Kids? 13:01 - Amusement vs. Depth: What Are We Teaching Our Kids? 17:48 - Educating the Whole Child: Mind, Body & Spirit 20:39 - Building a Loving School Community That Lasts 24:29 - How a Hurricane Launched a Christian School 27:26 - From Pastor to Preschool Director: God’s Bigger Plan 35:39 - From Corporate to Called: Sarah’s Unexpected Journey 41:01 - When God Calls, It’s Never What You Expect 49:00 - What’s the Mission of Sunlight Christian Academy? 53:04 - Two Pillars: Gospel + Academic Excellence 56:52 - How to Stay Mission-Focused While Growing Fast 59:04 - Mission vs Covenant School: Why It Matters 1:01:17 - Christian Education as Long-Term Evangelism 1:04:59 - Church + School = A Model for Discipleship 1:11:15 - How Teachers Become Life-Long Disciple-Makers 1:14:38 - Real Stories of Student Faith in Action 1:18:48 - Outgrowing the Campus: Vision for the Future 1:23:19 - Called to More: Trusting God in the Unknown Support the Podcast - Visit our church - Connect with us - https://multiply222.com
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Dating, Marriage, and Parenting with the Vander Ploegs | Season 3 Episode 11
05/17/2025
Dating, Marriage, and Parenting with the Vander Ploegs | Season 3 Episode 11
In Episode 11 of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron, Pastor Scott, and Andrea dive deep into faith, family, parenting, and marriage from a biblical perspective. They tackle real questions like: How spiritually ready should someone be before marriage? What’s the most impactful thing parents can do to pass on their faith to their kids? What’s the most challenging season of motherhood—and how can faith make a difference? What does Scripture say about marriage, divorce, and raising a godly household? Whether you’re a young adult thinking about marriage, a parent in the thick of it, or someone looking to build a faith-filled home, this episode offers honest insights, biblical wisdom, and practical encouragement. 🎉 This episode is sponsored by The Crafter Party by Cherie Youngblood — where creativity meets celebration. Visit her on social to book your next unforgettable event! 🎧 New episodes of The Disciple Standard Podcast drop every Thursday on YouTube. https://disciplestandard.com/ Support the Podcast - Visit our church - Connect with us - Timestamps: 00:01 - Faith and Relationships 00:18 - Spiritual Disciplines in Marriage 00:58 - Introductions: The Podcast Panel 02:56 - Topic Setup: Marriage and Mother’s Day 03:18 - How They Met: The Andrea & Scott Story 10:33 - When Faith Becomes the Foundation 11:02 - Why We Chose Each Other 12:36 - A Relationship Rooted in the Bible 14:16 - What Drew Scott to Andrea 15:06 - The Commitment to Read the Bible Together 16:25 - Faith Compatibility and Dating 19:12 - Faith Level in Relationships 20:15 - Compatibility in Relationships 20:58 - Faith, Finances, and Core Values 22:00 - Dating Advice: Start with Faith 24:21 - Emotional and Spiritual Balance in Marriage 25:00 - Supporting Each Other Through Struggles 25:41 - 28 Years of Marriage 26:04 - Spiritual Disciplines for Couples 26:25 - Raising Kids with Active Faith 28:24 - Passive vs Active Faith Leadership at Home 28:59 - Benefits of Growing Up in Church 33:40 - Church is People, Not Just a Building 34:06 - Community as a Spiritual Discipline 36:05 - Faith and Community as Core Family Values 39:20 - Conflicting Schedules and Church Disconnect 39:44 - Re-centering the Family on Faith 40:25 - Shifting to Motherhood Challenges 43:06 - Trusting God's Plan for Your Kids 43:32 - Ministry Life and Its Demands on Marriage 47:00 - Wisdom and Discernment in Marriage 47:44 - Trusting a Husband’s Convictions 50:34 - The Unseen Sacrifices of Moms 52:01 - Single Mothers and Their Strength 53:26 - Sacrifice as a Form of Worship 56:37 - The CrafterParty Sponsor 57:22 - Introducing the Candace Owens Video 1:00:00 - Realizing My Own Selfishness in Marriage 1:01:52 - Why the Gospel Is Essential for Selflessness 1:02:21 - Culture’s Shifting View on Marriage 1:02:41 - Introducing a Video: "Marriage Is an L" 1:03:53 - Dating with Core Values in Mind 1:04:33 - Cultural Resistance to Commitment 1:05:17 - Marriage Is a Sacred Covenant, Not a Contract 1:05:45 - Love Is Always a Risk 1:06:30 - Marriage Exposes Deep Vulnerability 1:07:13 - Sticking Through Hardship with Covenant Love 1:08:06 - Love Requires Trust in the Covenant 1:08:29 - Abuse Is a Clear Exception 1:08:54 - Abuse Requires Boundaries and Help 1:09:17 - The Risk of Unequally Yoked Marriages 1:09:47 - Advice for Unequally Yoked Marriages 1:10:15 - Don’t Ignore Foundational Incompatibilities 1:10:35 - When One Spouse Converts in Marriage 1:11:23 - Living as a Christian Witness in Marriage 1:12:12 - Common but Challenging: Mixed-Faith Marriages 1:12:38 - Encouragement for the Faithful Spouse 1:13:12 - Seek Wisdom, Pray, and Persevere 1:13:57 - Why We Were Hesitant About This Episode 1:14:21 - Comparison and the Danger of Idealizing Others 1:15:07 - Social Media’s Skewed View of Marriage 1:15:50 - Embracing Your Unique Relationship Journey 1:16:08 - Psalm 16: Finding Peace in Your Own “Land” 1:16:35 - Choosing Thankfulness Over Comparison 1:17:12 - God’s Unique Plan for Each of Us 1:17:38 - Trusting God's Plan Through All Seasons 1:18:10 - Gratitude for the Life God Gave Me 1:18:32 - Trusting God Over Discontentment 1:19:00 - Finding Joy and Contentment Now 1:19:24 - God’s Intimate Involvement and Gratefulness 1:19:50 - Marriage Challenges and Life’s Seasons 1:20:22 - Moving to Florida: A Major Challenge 1:20:44 - Struggling with Family Distance and Jealousy 1:21:09 - Trusting God Through the Transition 1:21:46 - Overcoming Bitterness and Finding Home 1:22:10 - Mindset Shift and Contentment 1:22:31 - Loneliness and Comparison in Port St. Lucie 1:22:49 - The Danger of Social Media Comparisons 1:23:22 - Reminder of Our Delightful Inheritance 1:23:38 - Closing Remarks and Thanks 1:24:03 - Outro and Upcoming Topics
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Are You Truly Self-Aware—or Just Self-Deceived? | Season 3 Episode 10
05/17/2025
Are You Truly Self-Aware—or Just Self-Deceived? | Season 3 Episode 10
Who are you—really? In Episode 10 of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron, Pastor Zach, and Seron dive deep into the topic of identity and what it means to truly know yourself. They ask big questions like: 👀 What’s something you once believed about yourself that wasn’t actually true? 🤯 Is our culture becoming more self-aware—or more self-deceived? 👥 How do your true needs and stress responses affect your closest relationships? 🙌 And how can tools like the Birkman test help you better understand who God made you to be? This episode is raw, relatable, and packed with insights that might challenge how you view yourself and your faith walk. Because the truth is—you can’t grow spiritually without knowing who you really are. 00:00 – Welcome & Introductions 00:57 – Gorilla vs. 100 Men Debate Begins 02:20 – Hypothetical Fight Logistics 03:25 – Environment and Fear Factor 05:01 – Fighting a Gorilla at the Church 05:57 – Transition to Topic: Identity 07:02 – Self-Limiting Beliefs 07:32 – Brutal Honesty as a Flawed Belief 08:41 – Realizing the Impact of Brutal Honesty 09:51 – Leadership and Communication Shift 10:38 – Stress Responses & Behavioral Patterns 12:09 – Behavioral Assessment Breakdown 13:32 – Vision Ownership and Group Dynamics 14:32 – Sharing Personality Assessments in Relationships 15:07 – Practicality vs. Emotion in Communication 21:46 – Culture Shift Toward Emotional Awareness 22:16 – Self-Awareness vs. Self-Deception: Personal Ratings 23:06 – The Impact of the Birkman Assessment 24:05 – Pre-Birkman Mindset: "This Is Just Who I Am" 25:00 – Self-Deception and Doubling Down on Beliefs 25:53 – Affirmation, Identity, and the Turning Point 26:52 – Considering the Impact on Others 27:34 – Perception vs. Reality: The “Terrifying” Teddy Bear 28:23 – Who Are We Under Stress? 29:11 – Stress as a Degradation of Our Best Selves 30:20 – Stress Behavior Explained Through Needs 31:29 – Our True Self: The Role of Needs 32:09 – Do Needs Lessen as We Mature in Christ? 33:38 – Viktor Frankl, Suffering, and Joy in Christ 34:38 – Needs Met in Christ, Not Circumstances 35:12 – Misplaced Expectations in Relationships and Teams 35:55 – The Leader’s Role: Meeting the Needs of the Team 36:09 – Applying This to Marriage: Belonging and Affection 40:53 – Social Needs vs. Social Norms 41:27 – Being Frank and Forthright 42:13 – The West Michigan Ramble 42:35 – Cutting Through Small Talk 43:06 – Cultural Communication Styles 44:44 – Person-Focused vs. Issue-Focused Feedback 45:21 – Directness vs. Tactfulness in Ministry 46:46 – Cultural Definitions of Directness 47:49 – Birkman Score Extremes 48:36 – Misread Needs and Bottled Emotions 49:43 – The Desire for Respect 50:40 – Feeling Respected vs. Feeling Dismissed 51:34 – The Impact of Key Relationships 52:31 – Scoffs, Dismissiveness, and Vulnerability 53:42 – Recognizing Deep Emotional Triggers 54:19 – Understanding Others’ Communication Styles 54:46 – The Need for Genuine Praise 1:00:04 - Self-Perception and Social Perception 1:00:52 - Birkman Interests Overview 1:01:30 - Birkman Scores on Patreon 1:01:48 - Seron's Motivation and Interests 1:02:12 - Clash Between Interest and Actions 1:02:35 - Siron Explains Outdoor Interests 1:03:14 - Trinity’s Low Artistic Interest 1:03:36 - Different Approaches to Artistic Interests 1:04:02 - Importance of Persuasive Interests 1:04:20 - Sales and Persuasive Interests 1:04:46 - Aligning Roles with Interests 1:05:32 - Role Misalignment and Job Satisfaction 1:05:59 - Birkman Interests as a Reflection of God's Image 1:06:29 - Psalm 139 and Birkman Interests 1:06:58 - Personal Examples of Career Alignment 1:07:17 - Top Interests and Career Fit 1:07:43 - Career Wheel and Role Clarity 1:08:33 - Integrating Personal Interests into Work 1:09:03 - Reflecting God's Image Through Interests 1:09:24 - Aligning Top Interests for Fulfillment 1:09:47 - Interest in Music and Role Alignment 1:10:33 - Importance of Living Into Your Interests 1:10:54 - Interests as Tuning Forks 1:11:18 - How to Engage Interests for Job Fulfillment 1:11:44 - Coaching for Role Adjustment 1:12:14 - Using Interests for Career and Personal Growth 1:12:51 - Music as a Stress Relief 1:13:15 - The Role of Social Energy in Work 1:13:57 - Using Interests to Recharge 1:14:21 - Strategies for Engaging with People 1:14:57 - Understanding Needs for Better Relationships 1:15:23 - Shalom and Peaceful Relationships 1:15:44 - Negative Impact of Unmet Needs 1:16:06 - Stress from Lack of Personal Space 1:16:49 - The Importance of Personal Recharge Time 1:17:09 - The Impact of Home Environment on Stress 1:17:50 - Finding Solutions to Stressors 1:18:06 - Birkman Results and Patreon Support the Podcast Visit our church Connect with us https://multiply222.com
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Is Sunlight Truly Bible-Literate? | Season 3 Episode 9
05/13/2025
Is Sunlight Truly Bible-Literate? | Season 3 Episode 9
How can the church become a place where everyone confidently knows and teaches the Word of God? In Episode 9 of The Disciple Standard Podcast, Pastor Aaron, Pastor Scott, and Seron reflect on a smooth Easter celebration and dive into topics that shape the future of the church—from Bible literacy to meeting people where they’re at. We cover: 🌅 A quick Easter recap and what went right 🎶 Using music to engage with the Psalms 📖 Why everyone in the church should be equipped to understand and teach the Bible 🧠 Helping new people follow the sermon and grow in knowledge 🗣 The role of Public Reading of Scripture and group discussion in spiritual growth 🤝 How leaders can better meet people where they are 🏘 Stories of God at work in community It’s a powerful episode for anyone passionate about building a Bible-literate, welcoming, and Spirit-led church. 🎙 Don’t miss new episodes of The Disciple Standard Podcast every Thursday on YouTube! Psalm 30 song: 00:00 – Easter Recap: Did It Go Too Smoothly? 03:12 – Measuring Success Beyond Logistics 06:22 – Reaching First-Time Guests on Easter 09:06 – Choosing Psalm 30 for the Easter Sermon 12:20 – Almost Singing the Psalm During the Sermon 15:34 – Cheering for Jesus Like It's a Cubs Game 17:19 – How Psalm 30 Speaks to Both Christians and Seekers 19:33 – Newcomers Ask Big Questions at Public Reading 22:05 – Biblical Literacy at Sunlight: Mixed Levels, Shared Growth 25:05 – Why Long-Time Churchgoers May Not Know the Bible 27:43 – The Need for Systematic, Personalized Discipleship 29:34 – Learning to Teach Others Deepens Your Faith 31:01 – Every Member a Disciple-Maker 33:21 – When You Don’t Know the Answer (and That’s Okay) 35:10 – Letting Scripture Be the Teacher 36:03 – Pros (Public Reading of Scripture) and Food Go Together 38:13 – From Skeptic to Pros Leader: Seron’s Transformation 40:04 – Why Focused Scripture Reading Matters 41:26 – Easter Worship: Losing My Voice, Finding My Why 43:24 – From Private Conviction to Public Revival 46:00 – How God Uses a Whole Community to Move His Mission 47:10 – What’s Next: Community, Discipleship, and Psalms in Worship https://disciplestandard.com/ Support the Podcast - https://www.patreon.com/c/DiscipleStandardPodcast Visit our church - https://sunlightchurch.com/ Connect with us - https://multiply222.com
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