the SEX podcast
A sassy show about SEX, self-love and sisterhood with Dr. Heather Bartos. We're shining a light on all those things women want to talk about, like body image, intimacy, orgasms, boudoir shoots, hormones, all about "down there," and more. It's like having a GYNO as your BFF! Hit subscribe and let's get real, sis!
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Podcast Finale: Hieros Gamos: The Ultimate Sexual Sovereignty
03/15/2024
Podcast Finale: Hieros Gamos: The Ultimate Sexual Sovereignty
Can you believe it? We’ve reached the grand finale of the SEX Podcast, and what an incredible journey it has been! From our humble beginnings to now being listened to in more than 75 countries around the world, we couldn’t have done it without your unwavering support and enthusiasm. And for our last hurrah, we’re diving deep into the mystical realms of sacred sexuality with a twist that will leave you enlightened and inspired. Say hello to Hieros Gamos, but with a Dr. B twist! That’s right, our resident "sexologist" Dr. B is here to shake things up and challenge everything you thought you knew about this ancient concept. So, what exactly is Hieros Gamos, and how can it transform our sex lives? Prepare to have your minds blown as Dr. B unveils a fresh perspective on this sacred union of the divine feminine and masculine. Discover how embracing these aspects within ourselves can unlock the ultimate inner sexiness and elevate our intimate connections to new heights. You've had the power all along, my dear. You only had to believe it for yourself. But fear not, dear listeners, for while this may be the end of the SEX Podcast as you know it, our legacy lives on. You can still access all our past episodes on your favorite podcasting apps, so be sure to continue listening, learning, and sharing the wisdom we’ve gathered over the years. Thank you, from the bottom of our hearts, for being a part of this incredible journey. It’s been an honor and a privilege to explore the depths of sacred sexuality with you all. Let’s make this final episode one to remember! With love and gratitude, Dr. B and the entire SEX Podcast team
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Nurturing Your Divine Feminine for Ultimate Empowerment
03/08/2024
Nurturing Your Divine Feminine for Ultimate Empowerment
This week, we embark on a profound exploration of sacred sexuality as we unravel the mysteries of the Divine Feminine. In our series finale, we confront the myths and misconceptions surrounding femininity head-on. What exactly is the Divine Feminine, and what does it mean to truly embrace it? Does embracing the Divine Feminine mean conforming to traditional notions of "girlishness," or does it transcend gender entirely? Can men embody the Divine Feminine as well, and is it rooted in religious beliefs? These are just a few of the questions we address as we dismantle the myths and uncover the truths behind this sacred concept. Through our discussion, we discover that embracing the Divine Feminine is about tapping into our inner wisdom, intuition, and nurturing energy, regardless of gender or religious affiliation. With only one episode remaining, I invite you to join us in making this final episode the most impactful yet. Download and share this week's episode with your loved ones, colleagues, and anyone who may find solace and inspiration in our exploration of sacred sexuality. And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts as we bid farewell to the longest-running Sex Podcast in style! Thank you for being a part of this incredible journey. Let's make these last episodes an unforgettable celebration of sacred sexuality and the human experience.
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Embracing the Divine Masculine Sexual Energy
03/01/2024
Embracing the Divine Masculine Sexual Energy
As we approach the culmination of our journey together, I am thrilled to present to you the penultimate episode of the SEX Podcast. This week, we delve deep into the realm of sacred sexuality to explore a topic often shrouded in misconceptions: the Divine Masculine. In this episode, we confront the myths surrounding masculinity head-on. What exactly is the Divine Masculine, and what does it entail to truly embrace it? Does it mean conforming to traditional notions of "dudeness," or does it transcend gender entirely? Can women embody the Divine Masculine as well, and is it inherently tied to religious beliefs? These are just a few of the questions we tackle as we dismantle the myths and uncover the truths behind this sacred concept. Through our discussion, we discover that embracing the Divine Masculine is about tapping into our inner strength, authenticity, and compassion, regardless of gender or religious affiliation. With only two episodes remaining, I invite you to join us in making these final episodes the most impactful yet. Download and share this week's episode with your friends, family, and anyone who may benefit from our exploration of sacred sexuality. And don't forget to leave us a review on Apple Podcasts as we bid farewell to the second longest-running SEX Podcast (only #2 to Dr. Ruth!) in style! Thank you for being a part of this incredible journey. Let's make these last two episodes unforgettable!
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Sacred Sexuality: Integrating Our Spiritual Selves
02/23/2024
Sacred Sexuality: Integrating Our Spiritual Selves
Join Us for a Transformative Finale: Unleashing Our Spiritual Selves through Sacred Sexuality! As we embark on the final leg of our journey with the SEX Podcast, I am thrilled to invite you to join us for what promises to be an unforgettable finale: "Sacred Sexuality: Unleashing Our Spiritual Selves." We celebrated our 4th birthday on February 20, and in over 200 episodes we've delved into countless aspects of human sexuality, exploring its depths, complexities, and infinite possibilities (from asexuality to vulva and everything--I mean EVERYTHING-- in between). Now, as we prepare to bid farewell, we're dedicating our last four episodes to a topic that lies at the heart of our mission: sacred sexuality. But what exactly is sacred sexuality, and why should it matter to us? Sacred sexuality is more than just a physical act; it's a profound spiritual experience that transcends the boundaries of the physical realm. It invites us to connect deeply with ourselves, our partners, and the universe, tapping into a source of divine energy and wisdom that flows through all living beings. In these final episodes, we'll explore the essence of sacred sexuality, uncovering its ancient roots, its modern interpretations, and its transformative power to heal, awaken, and elevate our consciousness. From tantric practices to mindful intimacy, we'll delve into practices and perspectives that can enrich our lives and relationships in profound ways. As we reflect on the journey we've taken together, I invite you to join us for this culminating exploration of sacred sexuality. Whether you're a longtime listener or new to the podcast, this is an opportunity to engage with a topic that lies at the intersection of pleasure, spirituality, and personal growth. Together, let's embark on this final chapter of the SEX Podcast with open hearts, curious minds, and a shared commitment to unleashing our spiritual selves through the power of sacred sexuality. Join us, and let's make these last four episodes truly unforgettable! [email protected]
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Virtual Reality. Intimacy: Game on or Game Over?
02/16/2024
Virtual Reality. Intimacy: Game on or Game Over?
Ever since I tried VR with my kid's Oculus, I can understand that it's a fun way to play a video game. But Guitar Hero aside, would I ever want to use in the bedroom? Demand for sex is a constant, but how people go about getting it done has completely changed. These days, people aren't paying to play for it like they used to. In 1948, 69 percent of American men reported having at least one experience with a prostitute (this stat shocked me), By the 1990s, that fell to as little as 15 percent. Why are fewer people paying for sex? Some blame technology. And now VR porn is coming into the screen. There are SIX major companies producing VR-related adult content, but at what cost? Sure, the technology is pricey, but don't we also lose the ability to connect with real people? Are we all doomed to end up alone in our parents'. basement with no appetite for real touch? In this episode, we are diving into the world of VR in the bedroom... Is it game on? Or is it game over. [email protected]
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Pleasure Bytes: How Sex-tech Can Make You Sexually Healthier
02/09/2024
Pleasure Bytes: How Sex-tech Can Make You Sexually Healthier
While the phrase "sexual technology" or "sex-tech" sounds super futuristic, it's kind of already here. People--mostly men--have been looking forward to futuristic sex since the 1970s, when the term virtual sex was created. But sex-tech is technology and tech-based ventures that are designed to enhance the human sexual experience. Sex-tech has seen a recent boom in mainstream acceptance due to a big push from WOMEN-led firms in the space--who knew, am I right? From tele-dildonics (yes, the name dildo is in it) which uses networked electronic sex toys to mimic and extend human sexual interaction to bluetooth-enabled smart sex wearables (that's right...a Fitbit for your clit)... sex-tech is ready to take your sexual health to the next level. But do we really need data on penile thrust velocity (yup, that's an option)? Or how hard we Kegel during the big O? I gotta be honest, not sure, but we're going through all the sex-tech talk we can in this episode. Use your bluetooth and tune in today! [email protected]
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Deconstructing Deepfake Porn: Navigating the AI Nightmare
02/02/2024
Deconstructing Deepfake Porn: Navigating the AI Nightmare
In today's episode, we continue on our AI and the bedroom series. Today, we delve into the unsettling world of deepfake porn technology, specifically its impact on individuals, particularly women, who become victims of non-consensual content. Let me be frank (not like I'm not usually) and say: with 96% of all deepfake technology revolving around pornography, this is an issue that needs attention now. Key points we'll be discussing include: -Why people feel the need to use deepfake pornography -Examining the prevalence of non-consensual deepfake content. -Exploring the psychological and emotional toll on victims. -Discussing the legal landscape and challenges in addressing deepfake incidents. There's not many issues that I'm not open to, but revenge porn using artificial intelligence is reprehensible. And it's EVERYWHERE. And it's CHEAP. And if you're not targeted? Your daughter, sister or mother could be. And it's in the metaverse forever. Even if you can prove it's a deepfake, people will always associate you with a non-consensual video that was made of you. Without you. We would greatly appreciate your support in sharing this important discussion with your network. Anyone of us could be affected by deepfakes. Men, women or children. We have to make it stop.
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SEXBOTS: Are they coming for you?
01/26/2024
SEXBOTS: Are they coming for you?
I remember several years ago watching the HBO aka Max show Westworld, about a world with very human like robots that were used for cosplay, violence and sex. Basically, it was a playground for rich men to act out their very feral fantasies. And then it all goes horribly wrong. The Westworld robots revolt. They start to think for themselves. Chaos ensues. And it freaked my S**T out. Look at the other Hollywood-isms–freaky doll M3GAN which starts killing people. Because she goes rogue. And who can forget The Terminator–these are robots–that have gone… again. ROGUE. Is there a pattern here??? Now imagine bringing one home to your bedroom. Sure, I understand the general allure of a sex robot–or sexbot–and we talked about AI in general in the adult space last episode. A sexbot is a companion, it’s someone that you can play with, nurture, GROOM. She is there for you whenever you need her…and it’s now a $200 million industry. But what connection can truly be perfected with a doll? With a computer chip in her silicone head? We’re continuing on down the line discussing the hows, the legal, moral and other data…that involve the world sexbots. [email protected]
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"Byte-sized Pleasure: the Intimate Connection of AI in the Bedroom"
01/19/2024
"Byte-sized Pleasure: the Intimate Connection of AI in the Bedroom"
Ever wondered why folks are diving headfirst into the virtual embrace of Artificial Intelligence? From AI-assisted sex toys to virtual and augmented reality escapades, it's like we've opened Pandora's pleasure box. Picture this: AI-powered experiences that cater to your every whim, from customizable sex toys to immersive digital fantasies. Is this the dawn of a new era or a sci-fi nightmare? We're about to unravel the mysteries and spill the digital beans on why people are swapping silk sheets for virtual landscapes. In the upcoming episodes, we're decoding the matrix of AI in the bedroom, exploring the tantalizing possibilities and maybe just a smidge of chaos it brings. Is it a revolution, a revelation, or the raunchy ruin of real connections? But, darling, it's not all rose petals and champagne in the AI boudoir. Some say it's the end of civilization as we know it. Are we sacrificing genuine intimacy for a pixelated p****? Will robots replace Romeo? Is our future a love story with Siri? So buckle up, buttercup! Part 1 of our AI in the Bedroom series is dropping today, and you won't want to miss this rollercoaster ride through the tangled web of desire, technology, and the pursuit of the ultimate O... or is it 010101? [email protected]
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Hot or Hot Flashes: How Menopause Sparks Sizzle in Our Sex Lives
01/12/2024
Hot or Hot Flashes: How Menopause Sparks Sizzle in Our Sex Lives
In this eye-opening episode, we shatter the Hollywood stereotypes surrounding menopause with a sledgehammer of truth. Forget the clichés of aging, dryness, and becoming a 'has been.' Join us on a journey where we flip the script and embrace the immense freedom menopause brings. Sure, there might be the occasional bout of vaginal dryness and joint pain, but guess what? We're here to tell you that it's just a small chapter in a much bigger, bolder story. Menopause isn't about becoming a shadow of our former selves; it's an opportunity to redefine, reignite, and reclaim our lives. Tune in as we derail the Hollywood tropes, and instead, rally around the idea that women can kick ass and find unparalleled pleasure in this free-spirited phase of life. Discover the amazing possibilities, the newfound strength, and the sheer joy that menopause can unleash. You were probably never told anything about menopause, let alone how to navigate a great sex life during the change. Get ready to liberate yourself from the myths. Menopause is not an end; it's a powerful beginning. And whether you have sex once a year or once a day in menopause: guess what...YOU write the script during this time of life, my dearest! Let's break free from the mold together!
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The Buzz: Elevating Intimacy with Vibrating Panties
01/05/2024
The Buzz: Elevating Intimacy with Vibrating Panties
Bad Hollywood representation and TikTok mania aside, vibrating panties have been a part of women's lingerie collections for nearly 30 years (although they have been improved on over that time). In this episode, we dive into the electrifying world of vibrating panties, exploring the why, the need, and the transformative impact they can have on both our sex lives and intimacy levels. From the thrill of spontaneity to the art of anticipation, we unravel the reasons behind choosing these buzzing accessories for your lingerie collection. Our discussion delves into the various ways vibrating panties can enhance connection and intimacy between partners, providing a playful twist to your romantic escapades. We'll go over how to select one, how to care for it, and what to do if you're busted in public wearing it (sounds, my love...sounds!) Tune in as we unravel the secrets to a more vibrant and satisfying intimate experience, one buzz at a time. [email protected]
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A Sneak Peek into 2024's SEX Trends
12/22/2023
A Sneak Peek into 2024's SEX Trends
Can you believe it? We've come to the climax of 2023, and it's time for our last SEX Podcast of the year! TADA: Get ready to pop the bubbly, because we're spilling all the steamy details about the sizzling trends we predict (and fervently hope for) in 2024. If you've been with us on this wild ride through the year of eco-friendliness and, of course, the glorious year of the booty, you won't want to miss the grand finale. We're diving deep into the smooth satin sheets, exploring the ins and outs (pun intended) of what's coming your way in the next year. Spoiler Alert: Get ready for a more "internal" and "soulful" experience. We're turning up the heat and turning inwards for a year that's bound to be as intimate as it is intense. (FIRE!) Join us for a tantalizing preview of what's in store for your pleasure, your love life, and beyond! We'll be back in January with all the deets, so mark your calendars and keep those headphones handy. Sending you much love and a heartfelt thanks for being with us on this electrifying journey. Here's to another year of passion, connection, and endless fun!
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Mind Games and Pillow Flames: The Secrets of Erotic Hypnosis
12/15/2023
Mind Games and Pillow Flames: The Secrets of Erotic Hypnosis
Hypnosis is not like you see in the movies, and it has NOTHING to do with mind control, or non-consent. True 'dat! The development of concepts, beliefs and practices related to hypnosis and hypnotherapy have been documented since prehistoric to modern times. Yeah, like more than 1000 years ago! It's recognized by major medical and psychological organizations as legit, but how do you start a practice for it in the sheets? Aha. That's why there's erotic hypnosis. Erotic hypnosis is different from therapeutic sexual hypnosis, but both have their place in the bedroom! Sexual hypnosis can help folks work through a persistent sexual issue that interferes with their solo or partnered sex life, including low libido, erectile dysfunction, painful intercourse and shame around sexuality. Erotic hypnosis is for those wanting to up their “50 shades” game in the boudoir, which can boost longer, stronger orgasms and a feeling of letting go. It's also used in the kink community, but don't let that steer you away if you're not into that. ANYONE can benefit from letting their guard down and getting rid of that thinking woman's brain! (the one that's doing your shopping list during the deed?) Curious about the phrase “you're getting sleeeeepppy” and how it can make your sex life FIREWORKS? I promise no one will make you bark like a dog, and you won’t do anything you don’t want. In today’s episode, we're demystifying the art of hypnotic seduction. Want to know what erotic hypnosis is really about, what it definitely ain't, and how to turn your bedroom into a hypnotic playground? Tune in, and let's turn up the heat together!
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Cracking the Yoni (Jade) Egg Myth: Are Crystals our Key to Sexual Healing?
12/08/2023
Cracking the Yoni (Jade) Egg Myth: Are Crystals our Key to Sexual Healing?
Hold onto your hats (or eggs)! 🎙️ The latest episode of "The SEX Podcast" just dropped, and we're spilling *all* the juicy deets on Yoni (aka Jade) Eggs. 💎🌟 If you tuned in the last episode, you know we talked about Yoni (Sanskrit for “sacred space"–you know, the vagina?) massages. But now let’s take it a step further. Curious why women are STILL flocking to these mystical orbs? Wondering what the heck Yoni eggs even are and what they're definitely NOT? We've got the lowdown, the real talk, and a dash of peppery spice just for you. In this episode, we've got Dr. B’s unique perspective as a gynecologist AND an energy healer– we're separating the facts from the fantasies, debunking myths, and giving you the inside scoop on why women might want to add a little egg-citement to their lives. Spoiler alert: it's not just about omelettes! 🍳😉 AND why maybe a different option would be even better– Hit play, and let's crack open this conversation!
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Tantric Chronicles: Unraveling Yoni Massage Secrets
12/01/2023
Tantric Chronicles: Unraveling Yoni Massage Secrets
Often misconstrued, Yoni massage is an integral part of the tantric practice, and it ain't what you think it is. Cringey porn skits aside, this sensual massage involves more than just physical touch. It incorporates deep breathing, yoga, and meditation to harness and elevate sexual energy. Importantly, Yoni massage is not solely erotic and, in many instances, is entirely non-sexual. Why would you want to have a Yoni massage? Well, the primary goal of Yoni massage is to foster a profound connection with your own body. It serves as a gateway to self-awareness, allowing individuals to explore their desires and pleasures WITHOUT the external pressure of pleasing a partner. The focus is exclusively on your body and the sensations it experiences. It can help release sexual trauma, improve partner relationships (or with self), release your inner goddess strength and re-connect the mind-body-sexuality link (you didn't think the vagina was sitting down there isolated from the rest of you, did ya?) Yoni massage provides a unique opportunity to explore your innermost desires, leading to a heightened sense of well-being. In this episode, we'll delve into the intricacies of Yoni massage, exploring its origins, demystifying misconceptions, and sharing personal stories from those who have embarked on this transformative journey. We'll also talk about how to do one at home, or how to find a therapist who can help take you on that journey! Get ready to embark on a sensual and spiritual exploration like no other, gals!
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Unveiling the Secrets of Lingam Tantric Massage
11/17/2023
Unveiling the Secrets of Lingam Tantric Massage
Tantra always piques everybody's interest! And why now? Creative life force AND sexuality combined? Yes, please! Have you ever wondered (or heard) about the magic behind Lingam Massage? We've got the inside scoop! Lingam (phallic) Massage is an ancient practice rooted in deep history and profound pleasure. In our latest episode, we're unraveling the mysteries, diving into its rich past, and exploring why this sensual art form matters more than ever. Aside from its sacred overtones and pleasurable outcome, lingam treatment can help you in a variety of unexpected ways. After treating yourself (or your partner) to one: · You might find yourself to be able to control your sexual impulses to a much larger degree and it can increase libido. · Lingam treatment could help you deal with sexual emotional blocks and even traumas pertaining to your sexuality. · BREATHE: It's a meditative process and all about the journey, not the destination...so you can check meditation off that list of things to learn! Get ready to embark on a journey of mind-blowing discovery! Stay tuned, and let's explore the tantalizing world of Lingam Massage together.
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From Narcissist Nightmare to Sensual Superhero: Reclaiming Your Sex Life if You've Been with an Egomaniac
11/10/2023
From Narcissist Nightmare to Sensual Superhero: Reclaiming Your Sex Life if You've Been with an Egomaniac
Guess what? The wait is over! Part 3 of our scintillating SEX podcast series on Narcissist Nightmares is now live, and boy, oh boy, are we diving deep into the tantalizing world of narcissist RECOVERY! In this episode, we're serving up some seriously spicy topics: -Narcissist Detox: Reclaiming Your Power in the Bedroom – Discover how to banish those toxic vibes and rediscover your sexual confidence. It's all about you, baby! -Confidence is Key: Owning Your Sexuality – Learn how to strut your stuff and own your desires without apologies. Confidence is the sexiest outfit you can wear! -Toxic Relationship Recovery: Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust – We're dishing out tips on how to rebuild trust and intimacy after surviving a narcissistic relationship. Spoiler alert: it's totally possible and incredibly rewarding! And we discuss how to know if you've trauma bonded as well! -Sexy Self-Care: Indulge, Pamper, Repeat – Dive into the world of sensual self-care. We're talking bubble baths, scented candles, and all the things that make you feel like the goddess you are! -Bedroom Adventures: Spice Up Your Sex Life! – Ready to turn up the heat? Get inspired with some sizzling bedroom ideas that will leave you--SOLO--breathless and ready for more BEFORE you jump into your next relationship Get your headphones ready, and join us on this electrifying journey to self-discovery, empowerment, and mind-blowing pleasure. Whether you've been with a narcissist or know someone that has or somewhere in between, this episode is your passport to a world of unapologetic sensuality and fierce self-love. Share the love, sisters!
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Narcissism Nightmare: Part 2: Are You Sleeping with the Enemy?
11/10/2023
Narcissism Nightmare: Part 2: Are You Sleeping with the Enemy?
Today, we are diving deep into the dark world of sexual narcissism, unraveling the manipulative tactics they use to lure their partners in, and the emotional turmoil they leave behind. We’ll be addressing some alarming behaviors, including love bombing, a technique where narcissists shower their partners with affection and attention, only to later use it against them. We'll also be delving into the unsettling phenomenon of how narcissists groom their partners, exploiting vulnerabilities and gradually asserting control (like a cult leader!) One of the most insidious techniques is gaslighting, where they distort reality to make their victims doubt their own sanity and perception of events. It’s a psychological nightmare that often leaves people questioning their own reality. You’ve heard me talk about Don Draper from *Mad Men* or Regina George from *Mean Girls*. They're fictional, yet they embody traits of real-life narcissists. We'll be drawing parallels, discussing why narcissists employ these tactics, and revealing the shocking similarities between these fictional characters and the narcissists we encounter in our lives. And you can count along as we provide the 11 most common behaviors narcissists do to woo you, bed you, and keep you. (How many points did you get?) The big question we're asking: have you ever slept with a narcissist? Don't worry; you're not alone.
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Narcissist Nightmare: Part 1: What the hell is a narcissist anyway?
10/27/2023
Narcissist Nightmare: Part 1: What the hell is a narcissist anyway?
Narcissism is like a fanny pack: it’s everywhere these days. Everyone is labeling their ex or their mother in law as a narcissist. But while it’s a term we often hear, what does it really mean? At its extreme, narcissism is a personality disorder characterized by a constant need for admiration, a lack of empathy for others, and a grandiose sense of one's own importance. People with narcissistic personality disorder often manipulate others and have an inflated sense of their own self-worth. More than 70 million people worldwide meet criteria for pathological narcissism. There are so many real and fictional examples that help us understand this personality disorder even better. We'll discuss real-life figures such as Ted Bundy, Adolf Hitler, Madonna and Kanye West, and we'll delve into fictional characters such as Cersei Lannister, Don Draper from Mad Men and even…Michael Scott from the Office (gasp! No, not Michael!), analyzing how their traits align with narcissistic personality disorder. All of this introduction is necessary because narcissism is not what you think it is: so then how do you know if you've been in a relationship with a narcissist? We'll explore the red flags and warning signs that can help you identify a narcissistic partner. From their constant need for validation to their tendency to belittle others, understanding these signs can empower you to protect your emotional well-being. In Part 2, we'll tackle the crucial question: What do you do if you find you’ve f***ed a narcissist? Download and subscribe to the Sex Podcast today!
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Consent Couture Part 2: How to create your own sexual agreement
10/20/2023
Consent Couture Part 2: How to create your own sexual agreement
Ever wondered about the magic behind healthy, consensual relationships? Enter the world of **Sexual Agreements**! In this week's podcast episode, we're spilling all the beans about what they are, why they matter, and most importantly, how you can create one today! **So, What Exactly Are Sexual Agreements?** Think of them as the secret sauce that adds spice to relationships! Sexual agreements are like the unwritten rulebook that partners craft together, outlining their desires, boundaries, and expectations. And here's a little spoiler alert for you: they're not just for lawyers and Christian Grey enthusiasts! 🙌 **Why Do They Matter?** Sexual agreements are like the trust fall exercise of relationships. By defining boundaries and expectations, they create a foundation of trust, making relationships stronger, healthier, and happier. Plus, they're the key to ensuring everyone's on the same page and having a blast together! **Ready to Create Your Own?** Curious to learn how to create a sexual agreement that fits like your favorite pair of socks? Tune in to this week's podcast for all the deets! We've got insider tips, hilarious anecdotes, and some surprising revelations that will make crafting your agreement as enjoyable as a cozy movie night in. 🍿 Remember, it's not just about agreements; it's about creating connections that are respectful, consensual, and downright fantastic! So, grab your earbuds and join us for a dose of laughter, insights, and a newfound perspective on relationships. Stay fabulous and consent-savvy! .
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Consent Couture Part 1: What is sexual consent?
10/13/2023
Consent Couture Part 1: What is sexual consent?
Trigger warning: this episode is about sexual consent. We're diving into the world of boundaries, desire, and the art of consent like never before. What is consent? What are different types of consent? Why do we need to consent? It is a myth that personal liberty and consent has been around since the Middle Ages. And while celebrities and athletes use these to protect themselves from sexual assault allegations in the future... WHY DO WE NEED THEM? Women rarely desire sexual consent contracts for preventing assault, but rather as a way to back up their boundaries. Don't miss out on the first of this two-part series: subscribe and download today! And if you're loving the conversation, we'd be over the moon if you left us a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts. Let's spread the word and redefine the art of consent together! Stay sassy, stay curious, and let's unravel the heart of sexual agreements.
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From Narcissist Nightmare to Sensual Superhero: Reclaiming Your Sex Life if You've Been with an Egomaniac
10/11/2023
From Narcissist Nightmare to Sensual Superhero: Reclaiming Your Sex Life if You've Been with an Egomaniac
Guess what? The wait is over! Part 3 of our scintillating SEX podcast series on Narcissist Nightmares is now live, and boy, oh boy, are we diving deep into the tantalizing world of narcissist RECOVERY! In this episode, we're serving up some seriously spicy topics: -Narcissist Detox: Reclaiming Your Power in the Bedroom – Discover how to banish those toxic vibes and rediscover your sexual confidence. It's all about you, baby! -Confidence is Key: Owning Your Sexuality – Learn how to strut your stuff and own your desires without apologies. Confidence is the sexiest outfit you can wear! -Toxic Relationship Recovery: Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust – We're dishing out tips on how to rebuild trust and intimacy after surviving a narcissistic relationship. Spoiler alert: it's totally possible and incredibly rewarding! And we discuss how to know if you've trauma bonded as well! -Sexy Self-Care: Indulge, Pamper, Repeat – Dive into the world of sensual self-care. We're talking bubble baths, scented candles, and all the things that make you feel like the goddess you are! -Bedroom Adventures: Spice Up Your Sex Life! – Ready to turn up the heat? Get inspired with some sizzling bedroom ideas that will leave you--SOLO--breathless and ready for more BEFORE you jump into your next relationship Get your headphones ready, and join us on this electrifying journey to self-discovery, empowerment, and mind-blowing pleasure. Whether you've been with a narcissist or know someone that has or somewhere in between, this episode is your passport to a world of unapologetic sensuality and fierce self-love. Share the love, sisters!
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The Mysteries of the C-Spot...Unveiled
10/06/2023
The Mysteries of the C-Spot...Unveiled
Hope you're ready to embark on another tantalizing adventure with us because today we're diving deep into the world of the C Spot, and trust us, it's not what you might think! Is it the Cervix? The Clitoris? Is it Confusing? Hell yes, it is! We're breaking it all down discussing how to find your C spot and do you need to find your C spot? What does a C spot orgasm really feel like? Is this just another dang spot I have to find? But here's the big question: Should you be pursuing these pleasure spots like you're on an Indiana Jones expedition? Or is it safer to stick to the familiar backyard? Or front yard ;) Join us as we explore where it is, what it is, and most importantly, how to ignite it! This episode is all about expanding your pleasure horizons, so don't miss it. Tune in now and let's embark on this electrifying journey together! 🌟
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The A-Spot Expedition: do I need Indiana Jones for this?
09/29/2023
The A-Spot Expedition: do I need Indiana Jones for this?
We are here to demystify the enigmatic A-spot in the latest episode of The SEX Podcast! Is it a hidden pleasure button or just another myth? Tune in as we navigate the intriguing world of the A-spot, separating fact from fiction and why the hell do I need to find another spot (if you're still searching for the elusive G spot). In this episode, we're diving deep into the anatomy, exploring the potential for pleasure, and answering those burning questions you've been too shy to ask. Don't miss out on this tantalizing adventure! Stay curious and keep those questions coming!
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Should you Hire a Sex Coach?
09/22/2023
Should you Hire a Sex Coach?
Hey There, Sensual Explorers! In this week's episode, we're boldly asking the question – "Should you get a sex coach?" We're not holding back as we dish out the spicy details on what a sex coach can bring to the table, from igniting your desires to becoming the ultimate bedroom boss. So, whether you're a seasoned pleasure-seeker or just dipping your toe into the tantalizing waters of sensuality, join us as we navigate the world of sexual empowerment, leaving no sultry secret unexplored. In this episode, we'll discuss: --differences between sex coaches, sex therapists and sex counselors and how each one can do something different for you (and also how they approach their craft) --how sex and intimacy coaches work and how you can find one --what sex coaches are NOT. Tune in, turn up the passion, and let's release your inner sensuality like the true Bedroom Boss you are!
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Kink Chronicles: Unraveling the Whimsy of Humiliation
09/15/2023
Kink Chronicles: Unraveling the Whimsy of Humiliation
Get ready to dive into the intriguing world of desires with our latest episode – "Kink Chronicles: Unraveling the Whimsy of Humiliation." 💥🎙️ From the exhilarating thrills to the secrets of safe play, we're pulling back the curtain on the whimsical world of humiliation. This ain't new stuff, folks. Humiliation and erotic embarrassment have been documented since the early Greeks, fine-tuned in the Middle Ages and perfected now in this century. Why would anyone want to be humiliated and embarrassed? Turns out, nearly 50% of women enjoy being humiliated in some form or fashion during sex seshes. Tune into this week's episode, cuz it's time to embrace your desires, ignite your passions, and unleash your inner kinkster! So, whether you're a seasoned aficionado or just a bit curious about the kink of humiliation, grab your headphones and let's delve into the world of Kink Chronicles: Humiliation World. Stay sassy, stay curious, and keep those desires burning!
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DILF Delight: The Allure of Silver Foxes and Dad Bods
09/08/2023
DILF Delight: The Allure of Silver Foxes and Dad Bods
Get ready to embark on a tantalizing journey with our latest episode – "DILF Delight: The Allure of Silver Foxes." 🎧✨ We're diving deep into the world of those dapper and distinguished gentlemen who've got everyone swooning. Ummmmm, hello? Sean Connery? Idris Elba? Tony Leung? So many choices, so little time. From the magnetic charm to the charisma that comes with a few well-earned wrinkles, we're unearthing the secrets behind the DILF phenomenon. It's time to pour yourself a cup of curiosity and join us as we explore the allure of these silver foxes, leaving no sultry detail unturned. But how does this work with the Dad Bod? We're going salt and pepper with this episode so, whether you're a seasoned admirer or just looking to spice up your day, tune in, turn up the heat, and let's revel in the world of DILF Delight! (and when not to) Stay sassy, stay curious, and keep those earbuds ready!
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Don’t just be a sex machine: Use one!
07/28/2023
Don’t just be a sex machine: Use one!
When most people think of sex machines, they think of oversexualized women a la Barberella, whose insatiable lust and sexuality breaks the evil professor’s modern technology of the “Excessive Machine.” If human contact is not enough for a certain woman, then certainly a machine can be, right? But sex machines–as they are colloquially called–is a machine with a long and illustrious history. These also gave rise and are the “big sisters” to the common vibrator, which was created to Later, as the vibrator was used to treat “hysteria,” sex machines were installed in bath houses and eventually more compact, electrically powered versions later briefly appeared as health aids in department store catalogs (yeah, like Sears). But sex machines aren’t just for lusty minxes that “can’t get enough” through human means. They throb. They penetrate, they also milk, suck and a host of other things that a partner may not be able to do. Is a sex machine – either DIY or purchased via hundreds of online avenues–worth it? And why would you want it? And will it ruin traditional sexual activities? Find out all this and more on this week’s episode!
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COCK A DOODLE DOO: How Cock ‘n Balls Torture can ruffle your randy rooster
07/21/2023
COCK A DOODLE DOO: How Cock ‘n Balls Torture can ruffle your randy rooster
Allow me to introduce you to your new way to seek revenge on your penile partner– KIDDING!!! Seriously, if you want to level up some bedroom kink you gotta check out… CBT (no not cognitive based therapy, COCK n BALLS torture!) I mean the name is intriguing by itself right? But CBT is sexual activity involving the application of pain to the penis and testicles for pleasure (see why it’s not called Penis n Testicle Torture? It’s all about the marketing) But as with any form of BDSM play, there are ~rules~ and preCOCKtions to keep in mind before jumping right into it. So in this episode we dive into what CBT is, how to play, what you’ll need to do it, and all other encompassing tips, tricks, and deets to know before pleasing your partner’s oh-so-sensitive parts.
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Hold your breath–why some people turn to choking during sex
07/14/2023
Hold your breath–why some people turn to choking during sex
Have you been curious about choking during sex? Maybe you had a partner recently who, seemingly out of nowhere, asked you to choke them? Or perhaps you saw a porn scene recently where choking was the main attraction? Erotic asphyxiation (otherwise known as “breath play”) is a dangerous sexual act most often used while engaging in BDSM. EA occurs when the oxygen in the breath is limited, resulting in more intense sexual interactions and orgasmic experiences WOWOWWWWWW. Whew this one is a doozy this week. I’ve put off doing this topic for months now, because every time I start looking at it, it triggers me. BIG TIME. And a lot of women feel like I do. Because done even the slightest bit wrong: can have devastating consequences (short list of celebrities who have died during EA: David Carradine, Michael Hutchence and others). And yet, Google searches for erotic breath play, choking and asphyxiation are at all-time highs (FYI: the high is the reason people like it). There is a way to play with this kink without ending up in the intensive care unit: I'll share all the deets in this episode.
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