The Submissive Next Door Podcast
Are you ready for a new look at the world of sexuality and kink? This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, deeply devoted to tantric practices, the power of embodiment, and holistic living, as well as an empowerment and intimacy coach. Topics range from sex education, LGTBQ+, consensual non-monogamy, Tantra, kink, BDSM, taboos, fetishes, sex toys, advice, experiences, consent, Shibari, and so much more!
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S2-Ep10: The Show is Back! Updates, The Vibe Expo, and More!
02/19/2024
S2-Ep10: The Show is Back! Updates, The Vibe Expo, and More!
After a long hiatus, the show is back with a new sound, new episodes, and more dynamic content than ever before! This is my first solo episode since starting season 2 and I am so excited to share all the exciting news with you! From the behind-the-scenes of The Vibe Expo in Hollywood, the official launch of Artistic Edge Magazine, new Toy reviews, and more! Get your drink and let's get into it! Video Version of this podcast is available on Patreon! Links for this episode: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . EDU . Official . . Personal Travel, Art, and BTS Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. ___________________________ Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, and are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to [email protected] Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. ___________________________ Press | |
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S2. Ep. 9 - Dr. Stefani Goerlich - Kink, Vanilla, and everything in between!
11/03/2023
S2. Ep. 9 - Dr. Stefani Goerlich - Kink, Vanilla, and everything in between!
Can vanilla and kinky people mix? What kind of people are drawn to kink and BDSM to begin with? And what does cyber security have to do with kink? In this episode, we cover all these topics and so much more! I am beyond excited to bring on the show someone I’ve admired for several years, the award-winning author and certified sex therapist, Dr. Stefani Goerlich! Her new book, With Sprinkles on Top, covers everything vanilla people and their kinky partners need to know to communicate, explore, and connect and she’s here to share her expertise to help others grow and thrive! We also take a surprising detour and discuss the interaction of cyber security and sex tech! You don’t want to miss this episode! Links for this episode: : Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect Be sure to also check out her other books: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, and are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to [email protected] Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! - My favorite corset company! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. ___________________________ Press |
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S2. - Ep. 8: Special Guest TammyJo Eckhart, Award Winning Kink Educator and Author
10/10/2023
S2. - Ep. 8: Special Guest TammyJo Eckhart, Award Winning Kink Educator and Author
I am so excited to bring you a special podcast with the award-winning Kink Educator, published author, and historian, Dr. TammyJo Eckhart! She has also been the Dominant in her poly-house since 1993 with experience in opening up, as well as coming out in the mainstream. Her work as a kink activist has helped to shed light on the relationship structures, and her dedication to writing is not only insightful but walks the line of BDSM, Kink, Sci-Fi, and Erotica. She's an eclectic and amazing human that I can't wait for you to meet! Join us on for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, and are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to [email protected] Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! - My favorite corset company! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. ___________________________ Press |
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S2-Ep7: Guest Interview - Author & Founder of Submissive Guide
07/18/2023
S2-Ep7: Guest Interview - Author & Founder of Submissive Guide
From BDSM dynamics, taboo kinks, to an extensive guide to An*l play and safety, we get down and dirty in this episode! I've admired Luna's work on the submissiveguide.com , the leading educational resource online for submissives, for years and share her passion for bringing the world of BDSM and D/s to others in an accessible, researched-based, and comforting way. She has written dozens of BDSM guides and just released her newest addition, "" which provides a step-by-step approach to incorporating anal; play into your submissive exploration. Come hangout out as we dive deep on the episode of The Submissive Next Door Podcast! Join us on for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, and are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to [email protected] Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! - My favorite corset company! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. ___________________________ Press |
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S2-Ep6: Special Guests: Christian Pan on Sex, Life, & Erotica
07/06/2023
S2-Ep6: Special Guests: Christian Pan on Sex, Life, & Erotica
What happens when you get two queer erotica authors in a room together? Let's find out! In this episode, I welcome Christian Pan, a fantastical sexy-smart bisexual author of erotic fiction based in New York City! Since 2021 he has published 5 novels, 90 short stories, and numerous reviews of erotic fiction & nonfiction. Since 2022, he has been the Captain of the Queer Erotic Content Creators Club, a permanent A Club on Patreon. He is here to chat about the world of queer erotic fiction, from how erotica authors research sex scenes, to how the concept of "erotic" has changed over the years. This is by far one of the most intellectually stimulating conversations I've had and you don't want to miss it! Grab a drink, kick back, and join us for a deep chat on all things erotic! Join us on for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, and are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to [email protected] Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! - My favorite corset company! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. ___________________________ Press |
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S2 - Ep. 5: Amplifying Your Sex Life with Special Guest Susan Bratton
04/21/2023
S2 - Ep. 5: Amplifying Your Sex Life with Special Guest Susan Bratton
In this episode, I sit down with a special guest and intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton! She is a self-proclaimed "Orgasmanaut..." that travels to the outer reaches of human orgasmic potential to bring back the map to the territory of pleasure and connection. She's here to chat about some of the most common sexual issues in relationships today and how to amplify your sex life! Susan is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality. She is also a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs, including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. She has also been featured in the New York Times, on CNBC and the TODAY show, as well as frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC. A video version of this podcast is available on my - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! - My favorite corset company! Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. ___________________________ Press |
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S2-Ep4: Special Guests: The Creators of Swinger University
04/18/2023
S2-Ep4: Special Guests: The Creators of Swinger University
Are you ready to swing to the other side? Or maybe you are just thinking about it? Whether you want to learn more about the swinging lifestyle to better support others or thinking about opening up your own relationship, Ed and Phoebe Swinger are resources you need to know! They are experts in opening up and getting out there! Not only that, they tell it like it is and give practical advice, as well as insights into what it is really like to be swingers today. They also help to coordinate events for those "swinging through life!" I had the honor of interviewing them and chatting about many of the frequently asked questions I get from those new to the world of CNM. So grab a drink and kick back with us while we chat about play parties, swinging, jealousy, and all the bits in between! A video version of this podcast is available on my - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! Links for this episode: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. ___________________________ Press |
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S2-Ep3: Special Guest - Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries
04/03/2023
S2-Ep3: Special Guest - Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries
What happens when the girls next door get together to chat about sex, BDSM, favorite punishments, sexcapades, and more? You will find out all about it in this episode! In this episode, I welcome special guest Layla London of The Curious Girl Diaries! After living a life putting her sex life on the back burner, she woke up one day and decided to "stop wasting the pretty" and get out there! She created a sexual bucket list and set out to reclaim her sexuality and document it every step of the way! Listen as we discuss the freedom of sexual exploration, including her experiences as both a Submissive in the past to a Dominant today. A video version of this podcast is available on my and YouTube - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! You can check out the too! Links for this episode: Website: (With exclusive extras!) Podcast: Instagram: Facebook: Twitter: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. ___________________________ |
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S2-Ep2: Guest Interview - Erotic Expression with Eleanor O'Brien
03/02/2023
S2-Ep2: Guest Interview - Erotic Expression with Eleanor O'Brien
Are you ready to get erotic? Join me with one of the coolest women I have been lucky enough to meet! Eleanor O'Brien is the creator of Stand Up Smut, and Dance Naked Creative. For over a decade, she has helped people tell their stories in a way that celebrates their sexuality, revels in it, explores it, and firmly believes no one should be punished for their curiosity. With an MFA at the University of San Diego, she has done everything from Shakespeare at the Old Globe Theater and auditioned for commercials, film, and tv, but something felt deeply unsatisfying to her. Only when she wrote her first show, Dominatrix for Dummies did she realize what was missing! She wanted to make theater that mattered and had something to say; that helped people see different possibilities for their own lives. She wanted to make shows about sex and that is just what she's done! Grab your drink and kick back! You are in for one erotic ride! A video version of this podcast is available on my - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! You can check out the too! Links for this episode: Website: Patreon: Instagram: ___________________________ Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: ___________________________ Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
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S2, Ep. 1: Flipping The Script - The History and How-To of One of the Top Kinks Today
02/03/2023
S2, Ep. 1: Flipping The Script - The History and How-To of One of the Top Kinks Today
I am so happy to share this with you all! After a long hiatus, The Submissive Next Door Podcast has officially launched with an all-new season and weekly shows! Guests are lined up, juicy topics are flowing, there is an all-new sound and vibe to the show; and I'm so stoked about it! For the first episode, I am chatting with you about my most requested topic to date! The history and how-to of P★gging! In today’s episode, the topics we are going to cover are: What pegging is Where pegging came from A little history about the strap-on Statistics about the popularity of pegging today Benefits of pegging How to tell your partner you want to try it Getting started with pegging for beginners Aftercare Final thoughts and precautions Grab a drink, kick back, and lets get kinky! A video version of this podcast is available on my - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber! You can check out the too! Links for this episode: Article: Article: Insights: Pegging Search Term on PornHub () Article: Article: Research Article: Additional Resources Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Ways to Connect Socials: . . . Educational Personal Podcast Modeling Witchy Book Love (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more! Read my Erotica and other Works on or check out my for my published works and scholarly articles. Call for Submissions: If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more. Support the Podcast: Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider ! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month! It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you! Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
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Ep. 41 - BDSM & D/s Myths: Breaking Down Common Misconceptions
08/13/2022
Ep. 41 - BDSM & D/s Myths: Breaking Down Common Misconceptions
We have all heard some myths about BDSM, Kink, and D/s. For those in the communities, these can feel like a slap in the face and often result in shame that hurts on a deeper level than even humiliation play can reach. They also result in misunderstandings and total avoidance to learning more about the world of kink and BDSM to those new to this world. It's time to dispel some that have made their way across my desk recently and provide the research to disprove them, as well as insight into what it's really like in a consensual dynamic. Links for this episode: Case Study: published in the Journal of Sex Research Case Study: published in The Journal of Sexual and Relationship Therapy Case Study: published in the Journal of Sex Research Case Study: published in the Journal Of Sexual Medicine Book: by Dr. Sefani Goerlich Article: Book: Book: Book: Book: Book: (Great info on the Imago Dialogue) Additional Resources: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: Site: _____________________ LIVE Digital Magazine - Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Psss…. Don’t forget to check out – subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a . Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Social Links
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Ep. 40 - More Sex or More Intimacy?
06/27/2022
Ep. 40 - More Sex or More Intimacy?
Let's talk about Libido... in particular, how do we overcome libido discrepancy? (i.e.: when one partner wants more sex than the other.) While we are at it, let's take it a step further and throw parenting, life, and a little kink into the mix! In this episode, I'm going to address an insightful question from a follower concerning how to talk to their partner about the tough subject of getting more sex when one partner isn't feeling it. I also take you on a deep dive into a conflict resolution technique called "The Imago Dialogue" (and how it can be used as check-in method for D/s dynamics), how this fits in with creating more responsive desire, as well as teach you how to find what your inner self actually needs from sex. I'll also give actionable steps to reframe what pleasure is, and build a container of safety that will help partners connect on a deeper level, even when sex isn't on the menu! Let's get going! Links for this episode: Dr. K's Imago-Inspired D/s Relationship Dialogue Script will be available on and her Book: Book: Book: Book: Book: (Great info on the Imago Dialogue) Site: Additional Resources: Site: Site: Site: _____________________ LIVE Digital Magazine - Additional Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Psss…. Don’t forget to check out – subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a . Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Social Links
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Ep 39. - Let's Talk About Stress & Masturbation + 15 Minute Guided Meditation
03/25/2022
Ep 39. - Let's Talk About Stress & Masturbation + 15 Minute Guided Meditation
Are you all as stressed out as I am these days? In this episode, I'm analyzing the science behind stress from the perspective of the Stress Response Cycle, and how our sexuality plays into it. In addition, I'm going to discuss different ways to combat it from a holistic approach, including a thoughtful discussion on how mindful masturbation can be used as a tool to aid in wellbeing and stress managementment. As a bonus, this episode includes a 15 minute Chakra balancing body-scan guided medication to help you achieve a restful state of bliss at the end of the day. Get comfy and a settle-in for some serious self-care tonight! Links for this episode: Book: Site: Site: Site: _____________________ - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts LIVE Digital Magazine - Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Psss…. Don’t forget to check out – subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a . Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Social Links
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Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience and BDSM With a Side of Kink
03/04/2022
Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience and BDSM With a Side of Kink
Are you ready to get down and nerdy with me? Good! And yes, you read the episode number right... I had a brain malfunction and skipped 37, so we are looping back around! In this episode, I take you on a deep dive discussion on the neuroscience of BDSM, the theories behind what makes kink and BDSM a positive experience to those who seek the endorphin rush, as well as the case studies around the prevalence of kink and BDSM today. Class is now in session! Links for this episode: Book: Book: Research Article: Site: Site: Site: Case Study Findings: Research Article: _____________________ - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts LIVE Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Psss…. Don’t forget to check out – subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a . Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Social Links
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Ep. 38 - ADHD, Sexuality, & Kink
02/04/2022
Ep. 38 - ADHD, Sexuality, & Kink
Are you ready for an ADHD-infused conversation about ADHD? Good! Me too! This episode dives deep into Ari Tuckman's book "ADHD After Dark", case studies, and more, while I share the down and dirty details about how I handle my tendencies during those intimate moments. I'll also share highlights about my appearance on Forsale18's Twitch Stream, "Positive Thots", as well as everything I have found so far as I work on an academic literature review on ADHD & Sexuality. Get ready! This is a long episode! Thank you for all your support! Links for this episode: Research Article: Site Article: Research Article: Site Article: Site Resource: Site Article: Book Resource: _____________________ - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts LIVE Resources: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health. Psss…. Don’t forget to check out – subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a . Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you! _________________________________________________ Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too! Check out The Submissive Next Door's Social Links
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Ep. 36 - Special Guest: Big Daddy on Dynamics, Scenes, and More!
01/14/2022
Ep. 36 - Special Guest: Big Daddy on Dynamics, Scenes, and More!
I am so excited to bring you this very special episode! Big Daddy is here and he opens up about D/s dynamics from a Dom's perspective, maintaining a dynamic during a pandemic while working overtime, favorite scenes, orgasms, consent, and so much more! We also bring y'all on a deep discussion about check-ins, favorite toys, and finding pleasure through rituals. Dismantling stereotypes, one sex-positive conversation at a time!
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Ep. 35 - Top 10 List of New Year's Resolutions to Make 2022 Pure Pleasure!
01/07/2022
Ep. 35 - Top 10 List of New Year's Resolutions to Make 2022 Pure Pleasure!
It's 2022 and I have a list of resolutions for you! In this episode, I'm going to not only go into an ADHD tangent or two (when don't I? lol) but also give you a list of my Top 10 New Year's Resolutions aimed to level up your pleasure, expand your mind, improve your self-confidence, and boost self-love! As always, grab your favorite drink, and let's chill!
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Ep. 34 - I'm Back! Updates, Courses, and a Critical Review of Wheel of Time
01/07/2022
Ep. 34 - I'm Back! Updates, Courses, and a Critical Review of Wheel of Time
I'm back! I'll explain my hiatus, what projects are in the works, a new course launching THIS WEEK for others looking to get into podcasting within the realm of sexual education, and we chat about a few topics that sprang up for me while watching The Wheel of Time during a recent TV binge. From polyamory, sexism, to power dynamics I noticed in this Prime TV series that has me left with extremely mixed feelings. Come chill with your friendly neighborhood Submissive Next Door and get nerdy with me!
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Ep. 33 - QA Time Communicating Kinks, Brat dynamics, and Anxiety within D/s
09/25/2021
Ep. 33 - QA Time Communicating Kinks, Brat dynamics, and Anxiety within D/s
QA with Dr. K! I swear, I have the best fans and followers around :) Y'all send in some of the most passionate questions! In this episode, I'm going to discuss some questions submitted from fans that range from methods and communication techniques for bringing up the idea of kink to partner, get in-depth about the exciting dynamics of brats and their tammers, and the more therapeutic aspects of D/s for anxiety and panic attacks. (see my podcast blog post for all the links for this episode)
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Ep. 32 - All About Smut
09/23/2021
Ep. 32 - All About Smut
The inner mind of an erotica writer is a strange and adventurous place... and when you combine that with a nerdy service sub with brat tendencies, well.. you get an episode like this! 😅 In this episode, we are going to take a trip down the rabbit hole and see what kind of fetishes, kinks, and provocative prose we find! I'll tell you about my newest paranormal erotica, "Dark Heat", the deliciousness I found while researching new kinks to write about, and give you just a taste of the audio version of book!
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Ep. 31 - Sex Tech Episode: Hey OnlyFans... WTF?!
08/23/2021
Ep. 31 - Sex Tech Episode: Hey OnlyFans... WTF?!
If you haven't heard, OnlyFans just announced a massive shift in their terms of service that has models, *corn* stars, and spicy accountants scrambling to answers questions. The #1 being, "Where do we go?" With my background in technology and platform testing, I took to the quest of running through use-case testing of nearly every reputable alternative to OF that I could find and will break down each one in this episode, as well as discuss the business decision that just might put OnlyFans under.
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Ep. 30 - Kinks, Fetishes, and a Flogger?! Oh my!
08/11/2021
Ep. 30 - Kinks, Fetishes, and a Flogger?! Oh my!
Ok folx, we are about to get downright filthy! In this episode, I'm going to talk about my soon-to-be-released "Mega" BDSM checklist and just how deep into the rabbit hole my research into highly specific and little-known kinks and fetishes took me! I share some of the new ones I am so glad I discovered, then I pull out one of my favorite floggers from my "Toy Trunk" and discuss some favorite uses for it ;) This episode is highly explicit... you have been warned. (Check out the YouTube Video Version)
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Ep. 29 - The Fitness Episode
08/11/2021
Ep. 29 - The Fitness Episode
It's no secret that fitness and health is a passion of mine! I get asked often from my IG and TikTok followers what I'm doing to stay fit, so here is the "down and dirty" full overview of my fitness routine each week, lifestyle, nutrition, supplements, and my favorite skin routine for my body! This might be my most vanilla episode ever lol. Peep my YouTube for the video version ;)
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Ep. 28 - Life, Wine, and the pursuit of D/s
08/10/2021
Ep. 28 - Life, Wine, and the pursuit of D/s
Wow, it has been a minute! I'm back from my hiatus! Let's have a gab session about what happened over the summer, and what's in store for all the platforms! I'm going to give you the down and dirty details about our trip to Napa, CA in July and how we incorporated D/s into our travels and experiences. I'll also tell you a funny story about how a submissive, a Dom, and a bartender walk into a winery... ;) Grab and drink and kick back... this one is going to take a while!
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Ep. 27 - Kinky Dating vs. D/s Practitioners & Mentors
05/22/2021
Ep. 27 - Kinky Dating vs. D/s Practitioners & Mentors
Hey there all! One of the questions I get asked the most is "How do I find a Mistress or Dom as a life partner?" and quite often, there is a misunderstanding of the differences between looking for a romantic life-partner who will share a D/s dynamic with you vs. a trained practitioner who works with you, mentors you, or engages in a more contractual D/s dynamic, but is not in a romantic relationship with you. See my website for all the links mentioned here :)
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VLOG: Breast Aug Part 2: 3 Week Update
05/22/2021
VLOG: Breast Aug Part 2: 3 Week Update
This is my 3-week update! I'll cover surgery day, post-surgery experiences, surprises along the way, and how I'm feeling at 3 weeks post-surgery, and how I'm handling my Factor 5 Lidein disorder with recovery. I understand this topic is controversial and only ask for kindness & respect. I do not recommend anyone getting this procedure done without taking time to clearly think about options, risks, & potential complications, & ensuring they are in a healthy headspace. I am only sharing my personal journey.
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Ep26: Masturbation May! Let's talk about Masturbation and Porn!
05/21/2021
Ep26: Masturbation May! Let's talk about Masturbation and Porn!
In this episode, I cover the amazing subject of masturbation! From making time to feel sexy, how erotic dance can help anyone get into their sexuality, to my personal joy with mutual masturbation! I also talk about some new discoveries such as body sex and creating a kink conversation template (link coming this week!) Finally, I discuss the important consideration of porn literacy! This is a jam-backed episode!
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Ep. 25 - VLOG SPECIAL: Breast Augmentation Journey: Part 1 - Pre-Op
04/28/2021
Ep. 25 - VLOG SPECIAL: Breast Augmentation Journey: Part 1 - Pre-Op
Disclaimer: This is my personal journey with getting a breast augmentation with a lift. I ask for kindness, compassion, and non-judgmental comments. I understand some may not like my choice, but please remember I am a human with feelings. This is a vulnerable topic to many. As a Doctor of Education, I understand the diversity of opinions that exist on this topic. This is a deeply personal journey and I hope it helps provide context into the process for others. YouTube Video Version on my YouTube.
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Ep 24. A Very Eclectic Episode: 100K Followers, Being a Service Sub, & Surgery
04/28/2021
Ep 24. A Very Eclectic Episode: 100K Followers, Being a Service Sub, & Surgery
Wow, it has been a roller coaster of a week! I hit 100K followers on TikTok & inadvertently found myself in vanilla land! Just what exactly is a service submissive? And let's just chat about the public shaming within the world of social media for lifestylers. I also an update on the launch of the official MERCH shop, and share some updates on my surgery this week. Finally, I share some resources on where to go for courses and additional education from some of my favorite kink-aware educators!
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Ep 23. Subtly Kinky - Show & Tell - Disneyland, Domination Stickers, & More!
04/15/2021
Ep 23. Subtly Kinky - Show & Tell - Disneyland, Domination Stickers, & More!
This is the podcast version of the video show & tell on YouTube! I get asked all the time about subtle ways my Dom and I express our D/s dynamic. We are always looking out for nods to our kinky side and utilizing under-the-radar tactics to continue practicing our lifestyle 24/7. This is the first part of the short series "Subtly Kinky!"
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