Who The Hell Are We?

Authors Melanie Benjamin and Edward Kelsey Moore talk books, movies, aging, ambition, and everything in between. Each episode features one book or one movie—something to read, something to watch, and plenty to say. It’s a podcast about stories, friendship, and figuring it out as you go. Suggestions and comments: [email protected] Podcast Substack: melanieanded.substack.com More: melaniebenjamin.com | edwardkelseymoore.com

I’m Divorcing My Husband Over This Movie 06/28/2025

I’m Divorcing My Husband Over This Movie The team watches Robinson Crusoe on Mars (1964)—Melanie immediately wants a divorce. Monkey chaos, Cold War weirdness, and a survival story that forgets to care. 📬 Email us: 📰 Read and subscribe: whothehellarewe.substack.com 🔁 This episode originally aired on September 9, 2020. /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/37204240

A Party Full of Mirrors 06/19/2025

A Party Full of Mirrors REISSUED for Pride Month | The Boys in the Band (1970) A queer dinner party implodes in Mart Crowley’s groundbreaking pre-Stonewall drama. Melanie and Ed revisit the 1970 film and reflect on its dated portrayals, raw emotion, and lasting legacy. Subscribe at whothehellarewe.substack.com Email us: /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/37078475

Read. Watch. Repeat. 06/17/2025

Read. Watch. Repeat. After more than 100 episodes of delightful chaos, Melanie and Ed are finally giving *Who the Hell Are We?* a little structure—just a little. From now on, they’ll alternate between one movie and one book, with plenty of time in between for tangents, updates, and whatever else comes up. First up: The Philadelphia Story (1940) The book? Tune in next time to find out. Comments and suggestions: [email protected] Substack: https://melanieanded.substack.com /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/37048175

Will Success Spoil Rock Hunter? 04/30/2025

Will Success Spoil Rock Hunter? Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is WILL SUCCESS SPOIL ROCK HUNTER (1957), starring Jayne Mansfield and Tony Randall, with Betsy Drake, Joan Blondell, John Williams, Henry Jones, Lili Gentle, and Mickey Hargitay, and with a cameo by Groucho Marx. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/36368420

Torch Song 03/08/2025

Torch Song Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is TORCH SONG (1953), starring Joan Crawford and Michael Wilding. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/35589570

The Holiday 12/21/2024

The Holiday Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is THE HOLIDAY (2006), starring Kate Winslet, Cameron Diaz, Jude Law, and Jack Black. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/34562490

Valentino 11/24/2024

Valentino Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is VALENTINO (1977), directed by Ken Russell and starring Rudolf Nureyev, Leslie Caron, Michelle Phillips, and Carol Kane. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/34122221

The Day The Earth Stood Still 11/24/2024

The Day The Earth Stood Still Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is THE DAY THE EARTH STOOD STILL (1951), starring Michael Rennie, Patricia Neal, Hugh Marlowe, Sam Jaffe, Billy Gray, Frances Bavier and Lock Martin. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/34121931

Fistful of Dollars 11/08/2024

Fistful of Dollars Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is FISTFUL OF DOLLARS (1964), directed by Sergio Leone and starring Clint Eastwood in his first leading role, alongside Gian Maria Volonté, Marianne Koch, Wolfgang Lukschy, Sieghardt Rupp, José Calvo, Antonio Prieto and Joseph Egger. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/33844982

Shadow of a Doubt 07/20/2024

Shadow of a Doubt Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is SHADOW OF A DOUBT (1943), directed by Alfred Hitchcock, and starring Teresa Wright and Joseph Cotten. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/32227012

Georgy Girl 06/18/2024

Georgy Girl Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is GEORGY GIRL (1966), starring Lynn Redgrave, Alan Bates, Charlotte Rampling, James Mason, and Rachel Kempson. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/31797762

Random Harvest 05/06/2024

Random Harvest Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is RANDOM HARVEST (1942), starring Ronald Colman and Greer Garson Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/31145033

Trapeze 04/28/2024

Trapeze Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is TRAPEZE (1956), starring Burt Lancaster, Tony Curtis and Gina Lollobrigida. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/31016798

The Rose Tattoo 04/14/2024

The Rose Tattoo Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is THE ROSE TATTOO (1955), starring Anna Magnani, Burt Lancaster, Marisa Pavan, and Jo Van Fleet. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/30818558

Sudden Fear 03/01/2024

Sudden Fear Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is SUDDEN FEAR (1952), American film noir thriller film directed by David Miller, and starring Joan Crawford and Jack Palance Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/30192098

Stormy Weather 02/04/2024

Stormy Weather Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie is STORMY WEATHER (1943), starring Lena Horne, Bill "Bojangles" Robinson, and Cab Calloway. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/29789318

*insert lame excuse here* 01/05/2024

*insert lame excuse here* Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them; their audio engineer let the holidays, day job, COVID, and aliens delay posting this episode. This week's movie is SHAFT (1971), starring Richard Roundtree, Moses Gunn, Charles Cioffi, Christopher St. John, and Lawrence Pressman. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/29356288

Cold [vodka] Opening 11/04/2023

Cold [vodka] Opening Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: A MATTER OF LIFE AND DEATH (1946), starring David Niven, Roger Livesey, Raymond Massey, Kim Hunter and Marius Goring. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/28515404

10th Anniversary! 10/15/2023

10th Anniversary! Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: BLACK NARCISSUS (1947), starring Deborah Kerr, Sabu, David Farrar, and Flora Robson, and featuring Esmond Knight, Jean Simmons, and Kathleen Byron. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/28319210

The Umbrellas of Cherbourg 09/01/2023

The Umbrellas of Cherbourg Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: THE UMBRELLAS OF CHERBOURG (1964), Written and directed by Jacques Demy, with music by Michel Legrand. Starring Catherine Deneuve and Nino Castelnuovo. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/27916290

Cowabunga, Big Kahuna 07/25/2023

Cowabunga, Big Kahuna Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: GIDGET (1959), starring Sandra Dee, Cliff Robertson, James Darren, Arthur O'Connell, and the Four Preps. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/27566229

Maurice 07/08/2023

Maurice Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: MAURICE (1987), starring The James Wilby, Hugh Grant, and Rupert Graves. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/27407070

NUTS! 06/18/2023

NUTS! Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: BATTLEGROUND (1949), starring Van Johnson, John Hodiak, Ricardo Montalbán, George Murphy, and James Whitmore. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/27184995

Melanie's Potty-Mouth T-Shirt Reveal 06/08/2023

Melanie's Potty-Mouth T-Shirt Reveal Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: CAT PEOPLE (1942), starring Simone Simon, Kent Smith, Tom Conway, and Jane Randolph. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to [email protected] Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/27082617

Lost Moral Compass 05/18/2023

Lost Moral Compass Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: THE DAMNED DON'T CRY (1950), starring Joan Crawford, David Brian, and Steve Cochran. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to [email protected] Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/26875899

Cooley High 05/10/2023

Cooley High Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: COOLEY HIGH (1973), starring Glynn Turman, Lawrence Hilton-Jacobs, and Garrett Morris. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to [email protected] Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/26805717

Tuggle and TV 04/15/2023

Tuggle and TV Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: WHERE THE BOYS ARE (1960), starring Connie Francis, Dolores Hart, Paula Prentiss, George Hamilton, Yvette Mimieux, Jim Hutton, and Frank Gorshin. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to [email protected] Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/26551950

Madame X 03/26/2023

Madame X Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: MADAME X (1966), starring Lana Turner, John Forsythe, and Ricardo Montalbán. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to [email protected] Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/26342772

Mendacity! 02/26/2023

Mendacity! Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: CAT ON A HOT TIN ROOF (1958), starring Paul Newman, Elizebeth Taylor, and Berl Ives. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to [email protected] Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/26050266

Authors in London Stories 02/06/2023

Authors in London Stories Melanie and Ed love watching old movies and dishing on them. This week's movie: THE LONG, HOT SUMMER (1958), starring Paul Newman, Joanne Woodward, Orson Wells, Lee Remick, Anthony Franciosa, and Angela Lansbury. Mel and Ed make book recommendations with similar themes. Send podcast comments and suggestions to [email protected] Don't forget to subscribe to the show! /episode/index/show/whothehellarewe/id/25839171

Who The Hell Are We?

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