The Elevated Man
This podcast is here to help inspire you in your life and better understand your relationships so you can maximize the potential of your love life along with your personal life. What you will find here is dating, relationship, and life advice from your host along with some amazing interviews with some pretty amazing experts!
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7 Must-Ask Questions Men Need To Ask Women Before Dating! (SCREEN HER LIKE THIS)
05/06/2024
7 Must-Ask Questions Men Need To Ask Women Before Dating! (SCREEN HER LIKE THIS)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 7 Must-Ask Questions Men Need To Ask Women Before Dating! (SCREEN HER LIKE THIS) Do you always date women that don’t alliance with your values? Do you want to know how to ask her the right questions? without sounding like an interview? If you want to know what proper questions to ask her during the date, this podcast episode is for you! In this special podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti discusses seven essential questions that men should ask women before dating them. Apollonia knows that dating is not easy and can sometimes discourage some men when they constantly date women and lack a connection. Apollonia will help you screen potential partners so that you can better understand a woman's value and compatibility. She will help you ask the right questions to avoid overlooking essential cues and indicators that might tell you she is not an available woman. So, if you want to start finding women who share your values, this podcast is for you! Key points in this episode: 0:36 - Why men should ask these seven questions before dating her. 1:21 - One of the tendencies men often miss is manipulation by women. 2:15 - Dating is an assessment process. But how do you start? 2:37 - How do you character-gauge a woman? Apollonia will explain further about this concept. 3:38 - Why character gauging a woman is important. Does she remind you of your ex? Does she have the same values as you? This is important to note. 4:37 - Having high standards is not how they are physically but emotionally. It sets the foundation Apollonia's you value and look for in a woman. 6:18 - Woman wants an ambitious man. And men should date an ambitious woman, too. 7:03 - Ask her, “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” This will give you insight into her goals and dreams, which may or may not align with yours. 8:35 - What is she looking for? This is important to ask; you are showing the woman you are a highly valued man and knowing if she is a highly valued woman. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Psychological Secrets To Get A Woman To Value You MORE! (Eliminate Scarcity NOW)
04/29/2024
Psychological Secrets To Get A Woman To Value You MORE! (Eliminate Scarcity NOW)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Psychological Secrets To Get A Woman To Value You MORE! (Eliminate Scarcity NOW) Do you always date woman that leaves you unhappy? Do you feel you're missing out on high-quality women? If you think you're always never dating a high-quality woman, it might not be how you go about dating but your mindset. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will discuss psychological strategies for increasing a woman's interest in your values and life. Apollonia understands that dating is not easy, and sometimes it can be impossible to find the right one. However, she'll explore how a shift in mindset towards abundance can enhance your dating life, enabling you to recognize emotionally available partners. She'll provide guidance on cultivating an abundance mindset, establishing healthy habits, and ultimately, attracting the partner you desire. So, if you are ready to start leveling up in your dating life, but also in your own life, then this is the podcast ideal for you! Key points in this episode: 0:33 - The psychological secret to getting a woman to value you more! 1:05 - Coming from a place of lack. If you’re going into dating thinking it is hard, it will be hard. 2:33 - Dating is not meant to be easy but never impossible. 3:44 - Changing your mindset is critical. 4:24 -Scarcity mentally can take place in your own life. It is a fear of losing your partner and missing out on life. 5:00 - Developing bad habits. A scarcity mindset can create bad habits that can bleed into your relationships. 6:05 - Limit your options. When choosing a good woman, you must set boundaries and establish good values to find that high-quality woman. 7:17 - Dating in abundance can make you identify an emotionally available woman. 8:20 - What is the Abundance Mentally in dating? Apollonia explains what it is. 9:15 - Train your brain to have an abundance mindset. Develop healthy habits and stick to them; start small. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Know You Aren't The Only One She's Talking To! ( Don't Let THIS Happen)
04/22/2024
How To Know You Aren't The Only One She's Talking To! ( Don't Let THIS Happen)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Know You Aren't The Only One She's Talking To! ( Don't Let THIS Happen) Do you sometimes see that often she is always on the phone and ignoring you? Do you think she might be talking to someone else while dating you? If you think the woman you're dating might be talking to other men and dont know what to do. Then, this is the podcast episode for you! In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti discusses strategies for identifying if she is talking to other men. Apollonia knows when a woman is talking to someone else, it stems from unavailability. With Apollonia's guidance, she underscores that a key indicator of unavailability is why women turn to talk to other men while dating someone. Through her insights, Apollonia provides practical advice on recognizing signs that the woman you're dating may not be genuinely interested, taking advantage of you, or seeking attention from other men. So, if you're ready to know if she is genuinely interested in you or if she's just using you for her own comfort, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:38 - Apollonia talks about how a woman is sometimes open about their dating life. 1:00 - When she tries to make a competition out of you. She makes you purposely jealous; this is where you need to be careful. 1:45 - Apollonia explains how a woman should properly tell you she’s dating other people without making it a competition. 2:42 - Inconsistent text or calls. The messages are short and repetitive; this can mean she’s losing interest or you are not the only one she is talking to. 3:40 - You always see her so happy when texting someone. You can see that she is eager to text this person back but not as eager to talk or text you. 4:27 - A lack of effort to spend time with you. Do you see her always planning things for the last minute? Or do you always have to put in the effort to plan things? 4:45 - Avoid commitment. She always avoids the topic of commitment. 5:00 - Still in dating apps. This is the biggest red flag that she is still potentially looking for other people. 6:10 - Physical touch is inconsistent. She is more physical with you when you don’t see her in a while; she pulls away when you try to touch her physically. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Where To Meet High Quality Women (Places You Haven't Heard Before)
04/15/2024
Where To Meet High Quality Women (Places You Haven't Heard Before)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Where To Meet High Quality Women (Places You Haven't Heard Before) Do you want to start meeting women differently? But don't know where to find high-quality women? If you've tried of using dating apps and want to start approaching women out in public but don't know where to go to find that high-quality woman, then this is the episode for you. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti discusses unique venues for meeting high-quality women that are often overlooked. Apollonia understands that approaching women out in public can be daunting for men. But with Apollonia's guidance, she will help you approach women respectfully and maintain engaging conversations. And reveals the secrets to encountering women in these lesser-known locations and explains why women frequent these spots. So, if you want to know the spots high-quality women go to and want help approaching women in person, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 2:30 - Brunch show spots. Brunch spots are where women often go in groups with their friends and are great places to interact with women. 3:44 - Kickboxing gyms. Certain kickboxing gyms, often in cities, are very social places where men and women go. 5:28 - You can find high-quality women in lounges. These places are already in a social setting, depending on the lounges; this is where you can interact with many women. 6:00 - Co-working spaces. In some co-working spaces, you can meet many different types of people; these spaces are where you can find potential friends and also a potential partner. 6:46 - Airports. Movies, shows, and hallmark movies always depict woman finding or meeting their true love in airports. In most cases, a woman often fantasizes about meeting their true love in these areas. 7:43 - Homegoods. Women love to decorate and do interior design. This is a place where you can find items for your home and also meet women. 8:09 - Dance classes. You’re in an environment that is not only social but also physical. Dancing can give you the confidence to approach a woman. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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EXACTLY What High-Quality Women Expect On A First Date!
04/08/2024
EXACTLY What High-Quality Women Expect On A First Date!
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti EXACTLY What High-Quality Women Expect On A First Date! Do you want to know what a High-Quality woman looks for on a first date? Or even impress that high-quality woman? If you’re struggling to impress or attract a high-quality woman, this is the episode for you. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti offers valuable insights into the expectations of high-quality women on a first date. Apollonia knows how important first impressions are on the first date and the anxiety men face when they take out the woman they want to build a connection or future relationship with. However, Apollonia, emphasizes the importance of communication skills, the impact of first impressions, and taking initiative. With her advice, she can help you, men, take that first step to getting that high-quality woman and becoming that high-quality man yourself. So, if you're struggling with how to impress that high-quality woman, make long-lasting good impressions on that first date, and see if you're a high-quality man yourself, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 1:02 - High-quality woman knows who they are. They want an man who matches their engery and levels them up, Apollonia begans to tell you how to attract these types of woman. 1:50 - Make the first move. A high-value woman likes a man who takes the initiative, takes her on the date, and plans the date. 2:56 - When planning the date, be careful where you take her. Take her somewhere new or unique. Does she like Shushi? Take her there! 3:40 - Keep the conversation light and witty. Engaging in playful banter and teasing can lighten up the mood, creating a light atmosphere for her to open up to you. 5:10 - Chivalry. A high-value woman loves chivalry; she wants a gentleman. Show her your acts of chivalry. 6:31 - Apollonia gives examples of chivalry. 7:12 - Have good communication skills. Communication is key to any connection. Pay attention to how you communicate with her. Showing engagement shows her that you can take the lead and are self-aware. 8:23 - Women are interested in who you are as a person. Ask your meaningful questions, not check off questions from a list. Go with the flow. 9:25 - How you present yourself. A woman wants a man to care for himself, including how he dresses, his hygiene, and how he carries himself. 10:34 - Punatual. Time is precious. Be on the date on time, and she should be on time, too. Apollonia shares a personal story about consistently not showing up on time for her dates and how her husband reacted. 12:44 - Apollonia summarizes the seven things you must do on a first date. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app. https://youtu.be/g9-Def-PZgI?feature=shared
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How To Start Taking Control Of Your Dating Life And Get More Dates w/ Mark Sing and Apollonia Ponti
04/01/2024
How To Start Taking Control Of Your Dating Life And Get More Dates w/ Mark Sing and Apollonia Ponti
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Start Taking Control Of Your Dating Life And Get More Dates w/ and Apollonia Ponti Are you at the peak of your career and still struggling to maintain a date? Do you still have trouble approaching women? and asking them out on a date? If this is becoming a problem in your life, then you are in for a special treat. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti and her special guest, , discuss strategies for taking control of your dating life and increasing your success in getting more dates. is a dating coach specializing in helping ambitious, career-driven men who struggle with dating. With the assistance of Apollonia Ponti, they provide insights into approaching and attracting women without experiencing anxiety or fear of rejection. understands that approaching a woman while trying to be confident can be difficult. But with Apollonia, Mark Sing will give you secret tips and tricks on engaging in meaningful conversations with women, feeling confident in being authentic and taking ownership of your identity as a man. So, if you struggle to ask that woman out and feel the confidence to even ask any woman out, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this special episode: 0:39 - Introduction to Mark Sing. 1:42 - Mark Sings talks about his past relationships and mental health, which inspired him to become a dating coach. 3:33 - Apollonia and Mark talk about the dating world. And how men view the dating world. 4:44 - Mark Sings discusses men’s lack of confidence and frame control and how it is used in men’s lives. 6:22 - What is frame control? Mark Sings talks about controlling the conversation but leading the discussion. 7:18 - The person who is leading is in their masculine role. This is why men need to take leadership in the relationship; Mark Sings explains further why it is. 9:24 - Apollonia explains why it’s also essential for men to step into your feminine. 10:40 - How do you know if you have too much in your masculine? Mark Sings uses examples of why it’s essential to use your masculine and feminine when dating a woman. 12:18 - When it comes to masculinity. It’s when and how to do it. Mark explains further. 13:57 - Apollonia and Mark discuss how men are not taught to find a healthy woman. They talk about how women are trained to find the right man, listing values, but men are never told that. 16:34 - What do you do if you are too much in their feminine? Mark Sings explains how to step out of your feminine. 19:50 - What are the differences between NLP and hypnotherapy? 22:41 - How do you approach a woman and successfully get her on a date when you’re already confident? Get more on: Podcast: Website: "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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13 Bad Habits EVERY Man Should Break! (This is RUINING Your Chances With Women!)
03/25/2024
13 Bad Habits EVERY Man Should Break! (This is RUINING Your Chances With Women!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 13 Bad Habits EVERY Man Should Break! (This is RUINING Your Chances With Women! What are healthy habits? Do you have them? How do you know if you have healthy habits in the first place? If you want to know what bad and good habits a high-quality man possesses, you're in for a special treat. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will discuss 13 detrimental habits that every man should eliminate to improve his chances with women. She delves into the importance of cultivating positive behaviors before engaging with high-quality women, highlighting how these habits signal readiness for a committed relationship. Apollonia emphasizes the significance of self-commitment, self-improvement, and adopting healthy habits as essential traits of a high-quality man. So, are you ready to level up, regain those healthy habits, and start finding that high-quality woman? Then this is the podcast for you! Key points in this episode: 0:40 - The first habit you need to break is porn. Porn addiction can set unrealistic expectations on how a woman should act in bed and how an woman should be aprroach. 1:30 - Pornography can make you miss out on genuine relationships. This is one of the main reasons why many men who suffer from pornography lack a real connection to other people. 2:17 —Social media. Stop wasting your time on social media. Remember that people post the highlights of their lives, so stop comparing yourself and your relationship to others. 3:00 - Challenge yourself to stop going through those social media apps. Apollonia gives habits to do to try not to go on social media. 3:57 —When using social media for long periods, you neglect to take care of yourself. It might be yourself, but your home and your daily duties, you are the only ones who can stop this. 4:49 - Stepping out of your comfort zone. This one is tough. It’s scary to do things that you’re generally not comfortable with. However, when you do, you can possibly meet that high valued woman you always wanted. 5:29 - Polarity is key. Have you ever heard of masculine and feminine energies? Well, Apollonia explains why they are important in daily life. 6:07 - Not having a mind of your own. You need to start living your best life. What do you want in life? Goals? Habits? Sometimes, the people who are your friends can prevent you from reaching those goals. 7:29 - Gaming all day and every day. Yes, playing games can be a great way to destress, but playing all day and all night can prevent you from being your best self. 8:06 - Not investing in your healing and learning. It’s a struggle to tune into your relationships, but before you do that, learn about yourself. What do you want in a woman? Other than physical? 8:42—Negligating your physical health. Not eating right, sleeping, or taking care of your body signals to the woman that you’re not properly taking care of yourself and can not take care of her needs. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Ask A Woman Out And Become Rejection Proof! (5 Lines Included Every Man MUST Try)
03/18/2024
How To Ask A Woman Out And Become Rejection Proof! (5 Lines Included Every Man MUST Try)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Ask A Woman Out And Become Rejection Proof! (5 Lines Included Every Man MUST Try) Do you ever fear to ask a woman out on the spot without trying to sound like a creep? Or when you do, you always get rejected? So you are stuck there thinking, how do you even approach or talk to a woman without her constantly rejecting you? How do you stop this? If you want to know who to talk a woman and turn those "no" into "yes" in dating, then you are in for a special treat; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares expert advice on how to ask a woman out and become rejection-proof, including five essential strategies every man should try. Apollonia knows the fear that many men face when trying to ask a woman out. She knows men don't want to be seen as creepy or disrespectful when asking a woman out. However, Apollonia’s practical guidance on how men can approach women respectfully will help men get the woman they want and stop getting rejected. Her insights can shift your perspective on rejection and improve your dating experiences. So, if you're struggling to ask a woman out, keep getting rejected, and want to know how to attract the women you wish, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:51 - How to start asking a woman out and become rejection-proof! 1:05 - What is rejection when dating? It doesn't mean you’re a failure when she doesn’t give you her number, but the fact you approach her and have the courage to talk to her is a stepping stone towards success with women. 2:32 - Dont let rejection stop you from dating. Many men stop trying to ask a woman out simply because of fear of rejection, but this is important to note: not all women will say yes to you, so don't let this stop you from trying to find that high-quality woman. 3:20 - Changing the landscape. Dating apps and social media are places where men don’t have to approach a woman in public to get her number. This is key because when you approach a woman in public, she will remember you. After all, it is not often done. 4:23 - Approaching in different settings. Apollonia will give you two examples: one is talking to a woman online, and the other is approaching her in person. 5:16 - Here’s a dating secret: a woman loves a sincere personality. When you’re talking to a woman, talk about your plans, what you did that day, something funny happened to you? Bring that up! 6:18 - Apollonia gives examples of what not to say to a woman. 6:56 - Mastering the art of asking a woman out is body language. Does she have an open posture? Or a close one? Apollonia will give examples of what to watch for in her body language. 8:48 - Remember success isn’t about the outcome but is the courage to take those first steps. Keep going when asking a woman out, learn from your mistakes, and try again. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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6 Things A Woman Should Bring To The Table In 2024!
03/11/2024
6 Things A Woman Should Bring To The Table In 2024!
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 6 Things A Woman Should Bring To The Table In 2024! It’s a new year in 2024. Do you want to find a high-quality woman finally? If you’re left thinking, what makes a high-quality woman? Then you are in for a special treat; in today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will discuss six essential qualities women should have in 2024. Apollonia has worked with countless men who have trouble dating women. And sees that most of the time, men have trouble differentiating unavailable and emotionally available women. Apollonia will explore what to anticipate from a high-quality woman, strategies for maintaining a healthy relationship with her, and how to recognize signs of dating an emotionally unavailable woman. So, if you’re struggling to find a high-quality woman, learn how to start looking for one and attract women who want long-term relationships. This podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 0:57 - 6 Things A Woman Should Bring To The Table In 2024. 1:31 - Always look for an emotionally available woman. One of the critical factors is vulnerability; when a woman can be emotionally available to you, it’s a sign that she wants a long-term relationship. 2:39 - A high-value woman knows who to support you through an emotional time. She knows when and how to help you through your emotional struggles. 3:15 - Unspoken agreement of loyalty. This is critical; each person needs to trust and respect each other. 4:54 - No snarky comments. Of course, when a woman is frustrated with her partner, she will make some comments here and there. But not constant. Is she really emotionally available if she’s always talking to other people about you? 5:55 - Without communication, there is no relationship. Communication is complex, and expressing your thoughts and feelings is sometimes difficult. Apollonia will give you essential tips on overcoming a lack of communication. 7:54 - Apollonia will give you critical examples of how to communicate with a woman in a relationship properly. And how she should speak back to you. 8:12 - Intimacy and connection. For a relationship to be healthy, you need to have that emotional and physical connection; both are important, but the emotional side can not be taken for granted. 9:40 - Trust. Trust is everything when dating a high-quality woman; it is slow to build trust but quickly to fall if she sees any potential distrust in the relationship. 10:25 - Be careful when a woman wants to make you HER center of the universe. She should be working toward something or goals she wants, a sense of purpose. It doesn’t mean she needs to be career-driven, but something she is actively working towards. In the end, what you don't want is for her to be overly dependent on you. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people just like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Charm A High-Quality Woman! W/ Apollonia Ponti & Husband Alex Cormont
03/04/2024
How To Charm A High-Quality Woman! W/ Apollonia Ponti & Husband Alex Cormont
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Charm A High-Quality Woman! W/ Apollonia Ponti & Husband Alex Cormont Do you sometimes find it challenging to find that one high-valued woman? Do you have trouble maintaining the balance of your own life while dating a woman? If attracting or keeping a valued woman sounds more of a challenge, then this is the podcast episode for you! In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti is joined by her husband, Coach Together, they discuss the key factors that have contributed to their successful marriage of eight years! , a renowned love coach and author with numerous publications on love and personal development, has helped over a thousand individuals navigate difficult periods, including overcoming infidelity, boosting self-confidence, and attracting desired partners. Still, most of all, it specializes in strategies for rekindling past relationships. Under Coach and Apollonia's expert advice, they will delve into how they manage their relationship in the public eye of social media and balance their respective careers while providing mutual support. They explore topics such as attracting high-quality partners, maintaining a disciplined mindset, and embracing the value of a partner. These two renowned love coaches will tell you how to maintain a disciplined mindset in their marriage while implementing those in their love life; if you're struggling with keeping the spark in your marriage and maintaining a relationship while maintaining a career, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this special episode: 3:20 - How did Apollonia and Alex meet? 4:37 - Alex talks about why their meeting context was important. Alex, not knowing English very well when he first met Apollonia, explains why it's essential to push through the uncertainties regarding dating. 6:00 - Apollonia talks about how she uses Alex's dating techniques to help inspire her to take these techniques to her guidance when coaching men. 8:04 - Alex dives deep into his past, his relationship with codependency, and how it impacted his dating life. 9:13 - What is a high-value woman? Alex explains his view on a highly valued woman, describing how setting boundaries and having a mature view can help you see if she is a highly valued woman. 10:19 - What can you bring to her life? When dating a highly valued woman, it's essential to ask yourself what you can get for her to help her level up, Alex Cormorts explains further. 11:26 - To charm a highly valued woman to be involved in your life. Apollonia explains the importance of showing her your activities and interests in your life, creating and establishing that bond. 12:45 - Setting your boundaries. Apollonia talks about setting limits in the relationship, remembering how Alex set his boundaries when they were dating, and setting a healthy challenge to know if she was genuinely interested. 14:16 - Alex explains how his ambitions and goals in life help is codenpency. 16:58 - Alex explains his experience dating in the US. He describes how he saw codes or rules you can or can't do when starting to date. 17:34 - Taking her to have coffee on the first date as a deal breaker? Apollonia and Alex explain in detail the importance of first impressions on the first date. 20:55 - How much of a role does social media play in relationships? Get more Coach Alex Cormont on: "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Sign up for the 7-Day Apollonia's VIP Membership! Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Create Sexual Tension With The Women! (3 Lines That You MUST Try!)
02/26/2024
How To Create Sexual Tension With The Women! (3 Lines That You MUST Try!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Create Sexual Tension With The Women! (3 Lines That You MUST Try!) Do you want to create that sexual tension with her? Do you feel like sometimes you try to but fail at it? So, Suppose you want to become a pro at fostering excitement and intimacy with your partner. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares invaluable insights on cultivating sexual tension with women. Discover three essential techniques that are a must-try for anyone aiming to master the art of creating a captivating connection. Apollonia has seen patterns within her clients to spot the one mistake they often make. Delving into polarity, Apollonia explores the dynamics between feminine and masculine energies. Feminine energies embody gentleness and nurturing, while masculine energies encompass leadership and assertiveness. Learning to channel these energies effectively at opportune moments creates a sense of security for women. Apollonia emphasizes the significance of emotional attraction in the pursuit of sexual tension. Apollonia highlights the role of mystery in generating emotional attraction, prompting the woman to contemplate and desire your presence instantly. So, if you're struggling with how to create that sexual tension, tap into your feminine and masculine energies at the right moment, and make her attractive to you, then this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:32 - Do you want to become a pro and create that exciting sexual tension between you and your woman? 1:05 - To create that sexual tension, you need to have that spark. Unfortunately, Apollonia has seen many men get friendzoned because of the lack of spark. 1:24 - To create that sexual tension is to create an environment where she feels safe. Women often feel skeptical about their surroundings and need that emotional reassurance of handling safely for them to be themselves. 2:00 - Apollonia talks about polarity. She talks about the feminine and masculine energies. Feminine energies are areas where you're gentle and nurturing, while masculine energies are leadership and assertiveness. Channeling the energies at the right time can make her feel safe. 3:00 - Rational and emotional attractions. You can not create that sexual tension without emotional attraction; rational attraction is looks or how much money you have. Emotional attraction is desire; mystery makes that, and she will instantly start thinking about you. 4:01 - Apollonia provides examples of what to say to her if you want to attract her emotionally. The Goal here is to be playful about it, banter playfully, and keep that tone light. 4:27 - Be a tease. Ideally, in person, if you two have established that emotional or little sexual tension, you can start touching her hand or her shoulder to know that you are interested. 5:09 - One easy way to keep her on her toes is nicknames. Is she picky about food? Call her Gordon Ramsay! The key here is to keep it light and not offend her. Dont use it constantly. 6:39 - Be playfully disagree with her. It's playful banters like a dog vs cat person or food; it's all about getting to know each other more. And able to flirt at the same time. It is creating that fun memory. 8:00 - Within that playful banter, throw in body language. When you two are laughing and being comfortable around each other, please give her a smirk, touch her hand and shoulder, and don't go overboard, but show the intent of what you want. tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Do Women Prefer Dominate Men? Assertive Men vs. Controlling Men (6 Dominate Traits She Finds HOT!)
02/19/2024
Do Women Prefer Dominate Men? Assertive Men vs. Controlling Men (6 Dominate Traits She Finds HOT!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Do Women Prefer Dominate Men? Assertive Men vs. Controlling Men (6 Dominate Traits She Finds HOT!) Do you know if you're an Assertive or Controlling man? Do you wonder if there is any difference? If you ever thought that if an woman wants a more assertive or controlling man, you are in for a special treat. In today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into women's preferences regarding assertive and controlling men. The discussion focuses on six dominant traits that women find appealing, differentiating between assertive and controlling behaviors. Apollonia has seen the behaviors of Assertive and Controlling men. And she sees how women are attracted to assertive men. But what is an assertive man? Assertive men emphasize the importance of direct yet sensitive communication with their partner. The Assertive man establishes clear boundaries, which he adheres to while respecting those of others. Conversely, the controlling man resorts to manipulative tactics, such as guilt-tripping, to fulfill his desires. This dynamic creates an unhealthy scenario where the partner feels the need to constantly please the controlling individual, often at the expense of neglecting their own needs and desires. If you want to learn the difference and become a man who can attract high-quality women, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 1:00 - High-value women love assertive men, not controlling ones. Apollonia will explain the difference between being assertive and controlling behaviors in the relationship. 1:26 - The way an assertive man communicates is direct and yet sensitive. At the core of his assertiveness are boundaries that he had set up, and he respects other people's boundaries. 2:23 - Decision-making isn't only for him to make but collaborating with everyone involved. An assertive man communicates his thoughts and feelings while embracing his partners. 3:25 - An Assertive Man respects his partner's independence. He helps her or creates that space of autonomy, gives a sense of security in the relationship, and offers support when his partner needs reassurance. 4:04 - In contrast to Assertive Man, a Controlling Man looks at relationships to exhibit his power and authority. He goes his way or no way. 5:01 - A Controlling Man will manipulate situations. Not only does it erode trust and understanding in the relationship, but it will create an unhealthy dynamic. 6:15 - Emotional manipulation is joint in controlling men. He does it through guilt-tripping to get the things he wants. This creates situations where his partner constantly tries to please him and disregards her needs and wants. This is toxic. 7:14 - There's always a vast difference between awareness and controlling behaviors. An assertive man is what women want and are attracted to. 7:45 - Apollonia explains why an Assertive man is highly sought after in dating. 9:36 - healthy relationships need to have nurture and assertiveness. They need to balance supporting each other while setting boundaries most healthily. tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Why You Become TOO NICE When You Like A Woman! (Then Get REJECTED)
02/12/2024
Why You Become TOO NICE When You Like A Woman! (Then Get REJECTED)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Why You Become TOO NICE When You Like A Woman! (Then Get REJECTED) Are you frustrated when a woman rejects you and you're just being nice? Do you feel like she's drifting away, confusing you because you do everything to make her happy? If you don't understand why she's not interested when you're just being nice to her, it might be because you might have the Nice Guy syndrome. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into 'Nice Guys' and how men give excessive niceness when expressing romantic interest in a woman, ultimately leading to rejection. Apollonia knows how contradicting it is when a woman rejects you because you're too nice. Should I be nice to her? What does she want? Apollonia explores the underlying reasons nice guys may find themselves at a disadvantage in relationships and offers valuable insights into striking a balance between kindness and assertiveness when pursuing romantic connections. She emphasizes the significance of understanding the concept of polarity in relationships, highlighting the crucial interplay between masculine and feminine energies and offering what you should do as a man if you want her to start attracting you. So, if you're having trouble attracting her to you, how do you stop being the 'Nice Guy' and start dating the woman you want to be with. Then, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:31 - Why do nice guys finish last? 1:32 - Being too nice might be the problem. Of course, a woman wants to date a nice guy, but if you keep treating her like one of her girlfriends, it will throw her off. 2:15 - Apollonia will start to explain tips and tricks on balancing being a nice guy and leading with intention when trying to seduce her. 2:40 - Usually, nice guys finish last because they have the wrong attraction ideas. They dont embrace that masculine energy, not taking leadership when it comes to dating. 3:25 - The concept of polarity is important to every relationship. The balance of masculine and feminine energy is essential in the relationship. It's now about dressing 'feminine' or doing 'masculine' activities. It's about the traits. 4:10 - When embracing too much of your feminine energy, you signal that you want to be her friend rather than a potential partner. This is how guys get friend-zoned. 4:33 - It might be because you lack self-confidence in your ability to attract women. You keep her around because the idea of being her friend is better than losing her. You can't expect someone to fall in love with you when you're not being yourself. 5:43 - There should be a balance. Are you a people pleaser? Do you allow people to treat you wrongly? Remember, don't settle for less. 6:30 - Dont date someone because you're lonely. They have some self-worth when dating someone, usually nice guys, who always want to be nice to the woman they're dating because they feel they need extra work to like him. That is not all true. 7:11 - The right woman will be attracted to your self-worth. When she sees you have a healthy relationship with yourself, she sees you can maintain that healthiness in other relationships. 7:51 - Nice guys fear of setting boundaries. It's not bad. It's about giving yourself choices and setting boundaries will help you attract the woman you want to date. And you are not attracting emotionally unavailable women. tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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The Power Of Polarity To Attract Women (Create "Seduction Loops" To Attract Her)
02/05/2024
The Power Of Polarity To Attract Women (Create "Seduction Loops" To Attract Her)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti The Power Of Polarity To Attract Women (Create "Seduction Loops" To Attract Her) What is the Power of Polarity? Have you ever heard of masculine and feminine energies? If you heard of the concept of attraction in poetry or heard of feminine and masculine energies but are unsure what it means. Then you're in for a special treat; in today's podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti explains the influential dynamics of polarity in attraction, specifically focusing on creating "seduction loops" designed to captivate women. Apollonia has worked with many clients and has seen that men have trouble balancing their masculine and feminine energies in their relationships. However, Apollonia will delve into the nuanced concept of polarity, emphasizing the necessity of maintaining a delicate equilibrium between masculine and feminine energies within the context of a relationship. This will help you gain insights into attracting a feminine partner while preserving the essential balance of these energies within yourself. So, suppose you're unsure about understanding the power of polarity, balancing out your masculine and feminine energy, and how to start embracing your masculine energy correctly. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:48 - What is the attraction of polarity? In other words, this effect of a masculine and feminine balance in the relationships is what you lack is what you attract. 1:04 - Have you noticed that you never dated someone who was just like you? 1:32 - Many men mistake feminine and masculine energies, reading as more girly or manly. This isn't the case. 2:09 - Apollonia gives an example of feminine and masculine energies in the relationship. If you both have masculine energies or too much feminine energies, it will not balance out, and the relationship will fall apart. 2:52 - The key to a long-term relationship is balancing or sitting between masculine and feminine energies. Apollonia will begin to explain this concept in more detail. 3:16 - What is a masculine energy? It is all about creating the push-and-pull effect between you and your woman, which means taking the lead, being confident and assertive, and knowing what you want. 3:56 - Remember, if there is the same level of masculine energy within the relationship, it will not work out. This is why many men get friend-zoned. 4:21 - You do need to have a feminine energy. It's all about communication, talking about your feelings, and expressing your needs and wants. 4:38 - Feminine energy is all about nurturing. It's about caring, being cared for, open communication, and being emotionally stable. 5:17 - Apollonia always tells her clients about men being 70% masculine while 20% feminine. You need that leadership role and a nurturing side to help her feel secure and safe in the relationship. 5:55 - In the attraction and seduction stages of the relationship, she needs to see the masculine side of being confident and assertive. But also the feminine side; again, she wants to feel safe. This is the definition of the push and pull effect. 6:42 - Being busy is the easiest way to create that push-and-pull effect. Be active in your life and your goals; that sets the pace of the relationship, showing her that you won't be too clingy and giving her space while letting her miss you and crave your presence. 8:03 - Self-awareness. Being self-aware helps you embrace your masculine and feminine sides. Start journaling and doing more self-awareness exercises; the brain is a muscle that needs training. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Dating A Woman With A Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style! (Make Her WANT You MORE)
01/29/2024
Dating A Woman With A Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style! (Make Her WANT You MORE)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Dating A Woman With A Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style! (Make Her WANT You MORE) Do you feel like the woman you're dating is not fully there? Do you see that sometimes, when things get serious, she pulls away? If you ever see her doing the push and pull, but she is not fully committed, Then you might be dating a Fearful-Avoidant, Attachment-style woman. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, shedding light on strategies to enhance your appeal and foster a more profound connection while dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman. Apollonia has worked with many clients to see a pattern in a man dating a fearful-avoidant woman. However, by offering insights into the dos and don'ts of navigating a relationship with a woman exhibiting fearful-avoidant attachment tendencies, Apollonia provides valuable guidance on establishing and sustaining a lasting bond. She will give you essential advice for those currently dating a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, including effective communication techniques to prevent unintentionally creating distance in the relationship. So, if you're struggling to date a woman with a fearful-avoidant attachment style, how do you know if you're dating a fearful-avoidant attachment style woman, and how do you finally open her up? Then, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:33 - Apollonia talks about the different attachment styles. But in today's podcast, she will discuss one attachment style: A fearful, Avoidant Attachment Style. 1:25 - A little background on the theory of Avoidant Attachment Style. John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth tested their attachment theories by analyzing babies' earlier experiences. They saw a pattern of how they would develop later in life in personal growth and relationships. 1:50 - People with Secure Attachments are easy to show affection and interest. They uphold their values, exclude confidence, and, most importantly, set boundaries for people around them. 2:06 - What is an Avoidment Attachment style? Unlike Secure Attachment, they value independence. They hate the idea of being controlled or settling; this leads to unfilling or long-lasting relationships. 3:02 - You might see people with an Avoidment Attachment style holding on to friendships or relationships. However, they have one foot out the door, ready to leave when things get serious. 4:04 - They fear emotional and physical commitment and lash out when confined. They often do things alone and would rather not seek emotional support since they don't trust people. 4:18 - Like Avoidant Attachment, Anoxius Avoidant has some same qualities. They lack self-confidence, suppress their emotions and don't seek help. And unlike Avoidant Attachments, who like to do things alone, they would instead be alone to avoid getting hurt. 5:26 - To date someone with a Fearful, Avoidant Attachment style, you must know when and how to communicate your frustrations. When she promises to call or text and still doesn't, don't get mad, and send her a fury of texts immediately. Take a deep breath, relax, and then send your text. 6:08 - Communicate like adults. No demanding, no controlling the situation, talk. List your needs and wants, and listen to hers. 7:05 - Be patient with her. It's hard to do when she keeps pushing her away and wants to be alone. But remember, she likes to be alone to ease her anxiety. She needs time to think, sometimes requiring her to withdraw a bit. 7:50 - Tap into your empathy, but dont try to fix her. Understand her emotions and let her name her feelings. Support her, but don't push her. If you see that she doesn't want to express her feelings or change, except her or move on to another relationship. You can't change someone to fit your needs, but you can express your desires and wants. 9:31 - Respect their boundaries and maintain your independence. Sometimes, trying to rush the relationships and Fearful, Avoidant Attachment may try to run away at the sight of commitment. That's why giving her space is one way to make her know you respect her boundaries while maintaining yours. 10:47 - The most important thing to do when dating and fearful-avoidant attachment is not to be clingy. Picture this: you have a close friend who tries to cling to you and wants to know everything you do the whole day and every day. This can be overwhelming, so give her space. And she will go to you. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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7 Signs A Woman Is Gaslighting and Manipulating You! (EXPOSING Toxic Women)
01/22/2024
7 Signs A Woman Is Gaslighting and Manipulating You! (EXPOSING Toxic Women)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 7 Signs A Woman Is Gaslighting and Manipulating You! (EXPOSING Toxic Women) Do you feel like you are constantly second-guessing yourself in the relationship? Do you see that sometimes your partner is always lying and making it sound like you're the crazy one? Suppose you constantly see a pattern of lies and distorted information in the relationship. Then you might be dating a gaslighter. In this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will explore recognizing signs of gaslighting and manipulation in a relationship, thereby shedding light on toxic dynamics within relationships. Apollonia has seen men fall into the cycle of manipulation by the woman they're dating. She understands how frustrating it can be when you're trying to express your discomfort to your manipulator only to be brought down. However, with Apollonia's guidance, she will provide insights into the concept of gaslighting, defining it as a manipulation tactic that deliberately induces doubt in another's mind, causing them to question their thoughts, feelings, and actions. These practical examples will help you know how gaslighters often distort or misrepresent situations to suit their agenda, even when the facts contradict their narrative—involving a distorted version of reality implemented on their partner's view of the world. So, if you're struggling with dating a gaslighter, how do you know if you're being manipulated, and how do you get out of one? Then, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:46 - What is gaslighting in the relationship? It's a person who will make you second-guess everything you do. They also try to palpitate or twist a situation to favor themselves even though it's completely wrong and feed you with lies until you are convinced they're right. 1:07 - Apollonia's example of a partner trying to gaslight someone and manipulate them. The person always tells you one thing but does the other; they will try to make you feel bad even though it wasn't your fault. 1:55 - To know a woman is a gaslighter and manipulating you is that she's constantly lying even after being confronted with the truth. Even when confronted with evidence that she was lying, she is so confident in her lies that it makes you second guess. 3:00 - The gaslighter wants the upper hand. She wants control of the situation even though it's her fault. 3:16 - the gaslighter questions your insanity. For example, when you tell a story, she will say how the events didn't happen or comment that your memory is terrible even though it was all true. Again, a gaslighter wants the upper hand in your life. 4:03 - A gaslighter will lower your self-esteem and confidence. When she's constantly telling you, you're wrong and feeding you with her lies. It will make you second guess everything you do in life and friendships and drift away from family. This is dangerous. 4:35 - When she accuses you of behaviors that she's engaging in. If you bring up her toxic behaviors, she will flip the situation, saying that you're the one with the unhealthy behaviors. 5:17 - she will make you rethink your perceptions and memories. Let's say she is flirting or talking to another man; when you express your discomfort, she will blame it on you, saying that you are too flirty with women and possessive. 5:57 - A gaslighter and a manipulator will make you second guess everything, down to everyday activities. 6:38 - Her goal is to make you dependent on her. She will want you to guess everything second so you can rely on them, to the point where you ask them for advice for even the most mundane things. 7:19 - She will try to isolate you. Let's say you have a close friend or family member, and she will start to talk about them in a bad light, making them seem like they don't support you or are bad people. This is a way of her controlling your life. 8:27 - When their actions don't match their words. She is telling you what you want to hear but does nothing. She is a walking contradiction. She will make you doubt your feelings and your sense of reality. 9:31 - The most significant sign is when she plays on your insecurities. When you express your insecurities, she will use that as advance to control your emotions (ex., If you're insecure about your age, she will say things like, "You look good. For your age") "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Are All Women Emotionally Unavailable? (What EVERY Man Needs To Know)
01/15/2024
Are All Women Emotionally Unavailable? (What EVERY Man Needs To Know)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Are All Women Emotionally Unavailable? (What EVERY Man Needs To Know) Do you feel like you might be dating an emotionally unavailable woman? Do you feel that most of the women you date lead to nowhere? If you are with a woman and the relationship is heading nowhere, you might be dating an emotionally unavailable woman. But how do you know if you are dating an emotionally unavailable woman? In this podcast episode, coaches Apollonia Ponti and Coach Cynthia delve into the crucial topic of female emotional availability, providing invaluable insights for every man dating an emotionally unavailable woman. Both Apollonia and Coach Cynthia have worked with many men who have dealt with dating an emotionally unavailable woman. They empathize with the frustration when men want to take the relationship to the next level, only to have the woman pull away. Apollonia and Coach Cynthia will provide insights into effective communication strategies when dealing with an emotionally unavailable woman and offer guidance on navigating situations while helping you find the right emotionally available woman. So, if you're struggling with dating an emotionally unavailable woman, how do you know if you're dating an emotionally unavailable woman, and how do you find an emotionally available woman? Then, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 1:08 - Understand that there are a lot of emotionally available women. However, it's your job not to fix that emotionally available woman. And focus on searching for an emotionally available woman instead. 2:14 - A lot of men get confused about why a woman lies about wanting emotionally available men. Most of the time, a woman who constantly seeks emotionally unavailable men is, too. Because they are emotionally unavailable, you must remember to watch for her behaviors and patterns. 2:59 - You want to be the emotional choice. Emotionally available women base their decisions on their emotions; if you constantly bring in negative emotions everywhere you go, she will see it as someone who can't take care of her emotional needs. 4:35 - You might still have that hero complex. You might be very empathetic, seeing emotionally unavailable women and wanting to help them. You mentally choosing an emotionally unavailable woman, start by stopping this hero complex to see if there is a shift in your dating life. 6:18 - What is the concept of being emotionally unavailable? Some men are confused about the difference between her wanting to get to know you better vs. just enjoying the dating process. Is she only happy when you give her or do things for her? Or is she happy just being in your company? 7:18 - Many men seek only one positive thing in the relationship and let go of the negatives. Usually, when men are in denial when dating an emotionally unavailable woman, they will be sucked into the ideal fantasy of what she could be rather than seeing the reality that she might be a walking red flag. 7:42 - When you're dating an emotionally unavailable woman, she will do nothing but break your heart and waste your time. It's easy to date someone, but it's hard to establish a relationship with them. An emotionally unavailable woman should not be your top priority in life. 9:18 - Let us be honest with ourselves. Sometimes, when we are not seeking honesty within ourselves, we ignore the mixed signals and patterns she is showing in the relationship. She might be saying one thing but contradicts herself; she will be affectionate with you but stops when she leaves. This is a sign that she's an emotionally unavailable woman. 10:54 - Why do you always end up dating an emotionally unavailable woman? It might be because you're intentionally seeking an emotionally unavailable woman. 11:38 - Dont try to fix her pain. When an emotionally unstable woman is still stuck in her trauma and past pains, you can help her, but don't try to fix it for her. Let her learn from her mistakes, and let her heal. 13:39 - There is a plan for you already set in your life. You have to choose the best one. Treat yourself like you're the best plan, take care of yourself mentally or physically, and reconnect with your wants and needs. It is then that you will start to attract emotionally available women. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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7 Masculine Habits That Women Find Really Hot! (DRIVE Her WILD)
01/08/2024
7 Masculine Habits That Women Find Really Hot! (DRIVE Her WILD)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 7 Masculine Habits That Women Find Really Hot! (DRIVE Her WILD) Do you feel that you are not attracting high valued women? Do you sometimes think that it might be your masculinity that doesn't attract the right woman? If the thought of not attracting highly valued women because of your masculine traits. Then you are in for a special episode; Apollonia Ponti explores seven male habits that are particularly appealing to women, elevating their level of attraction. Apollonia has worked with many clients and has seen that many of her men have suffered from trying to captivate high-value women through the expression of their masculinity. But Apollonia delves into the reasons behind potential challenges in attracting highly valued women, even for those already embracing their masculine traits. This practical guidance on cultivating and enhancing one's masculinity will encourage alignment with women whose values resonate with one's own. So, if you're struggling with attracting high-valued women, identifying your masculinity, and having that masculine allure, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 1:07 - You have reponsblities. If a woman can see that you are sticking to your responsibilities, she will know you are looking for a committed relationship. 1:49 - If a man can take hold of his own life, he is seen as reliable and a leader; most women will like to see that. If a guy can show that he is responsible with his finances and life, he is mature and shows that he can work together toward a common goal (ex. having a family). 2:39 - High-valued woman is attracted to courageous men. A brave man shows confidence and is a sign that he believes in himself; he can provide a sense of adventure. Most women are attracted to that sense of experience and security. 4:23 - Kindness is one of the most apparent traits a masculine man should possess. Life can get to you, and sometimes stress turns into anger, which a woman doesn't like. If she can see that you can show kindness and compassion throughout your stress of life, this will instantly attract her. 4:58 - Being kind isn't just doing charity or something grand. The small things build up over time, checking up on a family member, grabbing her favorite drink on the way back from work; these little things can make her want to embrace her feminine side around you. 5:41 - A masculine trait is thinking things logically. That self-assuredness in your life shows her that you know what you want and how to get it. This, again, security can help her feel safe around you and open up to new possibilities with you. 6:30 - When you can handle things well under pressure. When can you solve problems quickly, see that you're a great communicator, and keep the connection strong. 6:53 - All the traits that Apollonia has discussed will also get her to admire you. This is the ultimate attraction; if you can maintain these traits, she will see that you are a reliable partner seeking long-term relationships and adaptable to every situation; these are what a woman wants. 7:33 - Have that positive attitude. Bring positivity in the relationship; leading with a positive outlook can create open communication and form a strong bond. 8:41 - If you're always complaining, she will turn away. This is why having a positive attitude is the best way of living for men and everyone. You, too, should seek a highly valued woman with a positive attitude and willingness to navigate the ups and downs with you. 9:00 - Woman are attracted to men who live in their purpose. Witnessing someone catching their goals is very admirable. If a woman sees this, she knows that you has a purpose in your life; it might not be career-wise, but something like; wanting to learn how to sail a boat or build your own home (or owning one); it things that you want to do in your life, and going after it can make her see that you too are a high valued man. 9:56 - Pursuing your goals can show relisences. Showing determination and strong values will make you more interesting. If you can show you're willing to persist in your dreams, then she will feel the need to be around your ambitious energy. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Turn Pain Into Power Coach Andres Roadmap to Overcoming Fear w/ Coach Cynthia
01/01/2024
How To Turn Pain Into Power Coach Andres Roadmap to Overcoming Fear w/ Coach Cynthia
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Turn Pain Into Power Coach Andres Roadmap to Overcoming Fear w/ Coach Cynthia Do you feel like you haven't moved from your trauma? Do you feel like you want something new but are scared of doing it? If you're at a place where circumstances are not in your favor, then this is the best time to start being your best self, but how? In today's special podcast episode, Coach Cynthia is joined by special guest Coach Andres, who will provide insights on transforming adversity into empowerment through his Roadmap to Overcoming Fear. As a life coach known for his work under the banner of Coaching with Andres, he fosters a positive mindset for personal growth, professional development, and navigating the challenges of losing a loved one. Coach Andres is dedicated to assisting individuals in reaching their optimal selves, irrespective of their circumstances. Coach Andres knows how hard it is to think positively under stressful situations. Coach Andres candidly shares his journey of overcoming traumatic situations. His transformative experience led him to achieve his best self and inspired him to guide others in overcoming their obstacles. Experiencing the best quality of life, and being their best self. So, If you're struggling with overcoming trauma, staying positive, and just trying to be your best self, then this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this special episode: 2:07 - Who is Coach Andres? Coach Cynthia will introduce him, what he does, and his inspiration to be a coach. 3:22 - We all have fear, but is it holding you back? Coach Andres starts introducing the idea of how to overcome that fear. 4:19 - To overcome fear and to be empowered, you must accept failure. Coach Andres explains that most people must learn to fail and overcome it. 6:48 - How do you turn pain into power? Coach Cynthia explains a lot of men in this modern world are overcome by the stress of their daily lives and the expectations placed on them. Coach Cynthia advises on how to overcome those stresses of life. 8:19 - Coach Andres explains the traumatizing life experience that made him who he is today. 8:47 - Sudden changes can contribute to the cycle of pain. Coach Andres talks about how he didn't process sudden changes like moving and the pandemic—turning him to relieve stress from exercising. 10:13 - Coach Andres discuss his journery of relearning how to walk again after his accident. 12:12 - We always forgive but never forget. When coach Andres discusses how some people suffer in their pain by not learning how to open up and let other people help them. This contributes to their relationships and often why they might have difficulty maintaining one. 14:12 - Coach Cynthia asked Coach Andres how he was motivated to get his body moving and healthy again. What was the click for him to start doing the work? 16:00 - Attitudes and egos kick In a time of hardship. Coach Andres explains how his ego and aggressive attitude thought he could recover quickly and walk again. He explains that this attitude wouldn't help him recover and that he must learn slowly through trial and error. 19:54 - Often, putting on a strong face doesn't mean it will help your quality of life. Coach Andres talks about how being strong for yourself and others wouldn't help you. Ask, lean on family or friends, and most importantly, seek support or advice. 22:03 - Coach Andres advises to help men turn pain into power. His most important advice Is to to surround yourself with people who are overcoming their hardships and are now thriving, join a support group, and talk to people or look up people who have gone through the same hardships as you. Being inspired to improve is a way to get motivated to overcome hardships. Get more Coach Andres on: Website; "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me support people just like you and gets my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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I Get Women, But I CAN'T KEEP Them! (Exactly How To Keep Her Interested)
12/25/2023
I Get Women, But I CAN'T KEEP Them! (Exactly How To Keep Her Interested)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti I Get Women, But I CAN'T KEEP Them! (Exactly How To Keep Her Interested) Do you constantly find yourself in new relationships? Are you unable to maintain a long-term one? Do you see the women you want to attract but reject you? Suppose you see yourself in a cycle of moving on to the next woman and want a more meaningful connection and a long-term relationship than a short one. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the intricacies of attracting and maintaining meaningful connections with women and centering on the challenge many individuals encounter in successfully transitioning from initial attraction to a lasting relationship. Apollonia has seen many of her highly valued clients that end up with unfulfilling relationships. She will explain the underlying factors that can hinder the establishment of long-term bonds. She adeptly explores the common dilemma of attracting women but failing to sustain a committed relationship. And why often a highly valued woman rejects you. So, if you're struggling with maintaining a long-term relationship, finding the right woman, and ensuring you're a highly valued man, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 0:58 - You get the girl, but you can't keep her. Apollonia will explain why you always seem to get any girl you want, but she's always getting away. 1:32 - One reason you can't keep a woman is an avoidment attachment style. It means that they tend to be more independent and don't try to foster an emotional connection to other people. This is usually because they don't want to get hurt. 1:59 - How do you know if you have an avoidant attachment style? People with an avoidant attachment style have a habit of not wanting to have deep conversations or are emotionally distant when it comes to dating. 2:40 - Most people with an avoidant attachment style might attract anxious people. The anxious attachment people seek more reassurance while the avoidant will try to seek independence, which can both be catastrophic. 3:37 - When men keep getting women but can't keep them, it might be because they are emotionally unavailable women instead of a highly valued woman who plays hard to get. This might be tricky, but it's all about seeing the patterns in the relationship. 4:13 - Apollonia proves an example of a highly valued woman playing hard to get. A high valued woman will seem very selective regarding dating, is open to communication, and is honest about what she wants in the relationship. 5:15 - An emotionally unavailable woman (or a commitment-phobe) will back away when things get serious in the relationship. She will try to create distances from them. She's leaving them unsure about what she wants in the relationship. And send mixed signals. 6:47 - Sometimes, men have a 'frat boy' mentally. It's okay for a man to be a carefree guy, but a woman wants to see some stability in their life. Or at least some sense of responsibility. 7:28 - Sometimes, they might be too focused on the attraction. It's not all about looks; it's about emotional attraction. Some good-looking men see this problem of getting the woman because he is attractive but always fail to have that emotional connection. 8:28 - They wait for her to initiate things. Both partners must contribute to the relationship's growth; it's not who does more than the other. It's about working together to make this relationship work. 10:29 - When can a guy struggle to keep the woman in the relationship is because they are not in touch with themselves. Throughout life, they have been high achievers and tried to be the man the girl wants. But it's never what he wants. They need to make sure when going into a relationship that you must be in love with yourself to love her. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship)
12/18/2023
How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship) Do you feel that your woman is pushing you away? Do you see that your girlfriend is often telling you that she needs more space than usual? Or do you think that you may be overly clingy but aren't sure? Suppose you see a sudden pattern of her making up excuses or wanting more distance from you and are unsure why; you are in for a special episode. Apollonia Ponti will share guidance on recognizing signs of excessive clinginess in a relationship and establishing a healthy balance of attention. Apollonia has seen many clients destroy their relationships, with their excessive clinginess. Apollonia dives into specific behaviors and characteristics that may render an individual excessively clingy within their romantic partnership; Apollonia offers a comprehensive analysis. She provides practical strategies for managing moments of clinginess and transforming them into constructive interactions. This practical advice will help you on proactive steps to prevent inadvertently pushing one away. This episode is a valuable resource for fostering harmonious and balanced relationships. So, if you are struggling with over-clinginess, to stop being clingy with her, or how to know if you are in the first place, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:32 - The start of the podcast: How To Know You're Being Too Clingy! (The Right Amount Of Attention To Give In A Relationship). 1:10 - When you’re too clingy, you constantly seek validation from a woman. A clingy man will fish for compliments and seek validation of her feelings and never will try to give her the space that she needs. 2:01 - A woman Likes to have space and think. Just like any man or person, space in the relationship is crucial. If you want her to think about you and know what you’re doing, keeping that space will let her think more about you. 2:47 - A clingy man will overanalyze their relationships through the amount of sex they are having. He will think that with less sex, the less the person is interested. Of course, sex in the relationship will decrease over time, but it doesn’t mean that they are not attracted to you anymore. 3:08 - Another huge sign of clinginess is when you give all your attention to her and lose sight of yourself. They will all lose track of their life, neglecting their goals and friends and family. This is a massive turn-off to a high-value woman; she sees this as an immature trait that a man has. 4:08 - When a man is clingy, he will ignore the red flags from a woman. A clingy man will miss all the red flags in the relationship and cling to the idea that she will change for him as the relationship progresses. But this rarely happens. 4:54 - There are no standards for the woman he dates. He doesn’t care if her values align with his, and most likely will neglect his values for her, just get obsessed with the idea of getting her that he doesn’t see if she's interested in the first place. 5:29 - What is the right amount of attention to give to a woman? It all comes down to your life. Make yourself busy, do what makes you happy by exploring your hobbies, and provide time to hang out with friends and family. A balance in your life is what makes a woman attractive to you. 6:19 - When there is a healthy balance in your life, the push and pull become easy. You don’t need to make plans when going out with her; it comes naturally, and you don’t wait for her to talk or text you. And when she does, you will have some time to tell her. Personal development is what makes a woman attracted to you. 7:12 - A balance in your life varies from person to person. It all comes down to one thing is: having full days and not left wondering. When you’re in the beginning stages of dating a woman, you need that balance of communication and mystery. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <--"- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This allows me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Get A Younger Woman's Attention! (Older Men Can WIN A Younger Woman Over EASILY)
12/11/2023
How To Get A Younger Woman's Attention! (Older Men Can WIN A Younger Woman Over EASILY)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Get A Younger Woman's Attention! (Older Men Can WIN A Younger Woman Over EASILY) Do you ever wonder how to attract a younger woman? Do you feel, as an older man, unsure of how to attract a younger woman respectfully? Suppose you're unsure about how to approach the first steps of attracting a younger woman. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti offers valuable insights on capturing the attention of younger women, particularly for older men seeking to establish meaningful connections. Apollonia has worked with many older clients and recognizes common mistakes they make when trying to attract a younger woman. Apollonia delves into the underlying reasons behind the attraction that younger women often feel for older, more mature individuals. She emphasizes the importance of adopting a mature and experienced mindset, as well as demonstrating strong leadership qualities and masculinity. The practical advice that Apollonia discusses will help older mature men understand initiating and sustaining successful relationships with younger women. And to gain essential knowledge and enhance your dating prospects with younger women. So, suppose you're struggling with how to attract a younger woman, how to approach a younger woman respectfully, and how to start having engaging conversations with a younger woman. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 1:07 - To attract a younger woman is to let her see you as a leader. This means leading the conversation and talking about your wants and needs. Be confident in the conversation. 1:30 - There is a reason why younger women are attracted to older men. He doesn't have a young person mentality but a mature and experienced one. He is taking the lead and being masculine. 2:09 - Ask her things to see that you want to get to know her. A younger woman wants an older man to ask her something about herself, leading the conversation and getting to know her more. 2:35 - One thing that can turn young women away from older men is focusing too much on the age gap. If the older man keeps making comments about the age gap, then the younger woman will be turned off and make her feel that the age gap will become a recurring problem. 2:58 - Apollonia talks about one of her older clients trying to date a younger woman. He spoke of the age gap and did it so much that the woman felt uncomfortable. She saw that he wasn't confident about his age, therefore leaving him. 3:57 - The younger woman loves adventure. Older men have the stereotype that they lose interest in having fun once they get older. That is not all true; being open to trying new things and exploring each other's interests is a good start. 5:07 - Show that you offer stability in your life. One reason a younger woman is attracted to older men is because they're emotionally secure and stable in their lives; he knows what they want and is not afraid of getting it. 6:10 - Don't hide your past to a younger woman. Telling her your stories and struggles can make her open up to you. This can emotionally attract her to you, knowing that you can open up about your past, not only showing that you can be vulnerable but showing that you're a great communicator as well. 7:25 - Act your AGE! When an older man tries to attract a younger woman, he tries to act like a younger man; this will instantly turn her off. There's a reason why a younger woman is attracted to an older man; he shows signs of maturity and balance in his life. Embrace this; don't try to hide from it. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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7 SNEAKY Reasons Why Women Friendzone Men! (Why RESPECT Get's You Nowhere!)
12/04/2023
7 SNEAKY Reasons Why Women Friendzone Men! (Why RESPECT Get's You Nowhere!)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 7 SNEAKY Reasons Why Women Friendzone Men! (Why RESPECT Gets You Nowhere!) Do you often get friendzone? Do you feel like there might be something you’re doing wrong that makes her friendzone you? But I'm not sure what it is. Suppose you don’t want to end up in the friend zone forever and possibly make the relationship a romantic one. In that case, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will share the intricacies of why men sometimes find themselves in the challenging position of being friend-zoned by women. Emphasizing the significance of maintaining a balance between masculine and feminine energies, Apollonia provides actionable insights on how to navigate the friend zone and cultivate a more desirable sense of male power. Apollonia understands the frustration of men trying to get out of the friend zone. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia uncovers seven subtle yet crucial reasons contributing to this dynamic. This practical advice on getting out of the friend zone can help you understand why women perceive a man as a friend rather than a romantic interest, shedding light on potential behaviors that may inadvertently lead to this perception. So, if you’re struggling with how to get out of the friendzone, how to stop getting into the friendzone, and which steps to take when getting out of the friendzone, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 1:25 - One reason men get friendzone is not embracing their masculine side. Men should have a polarity of masculine and feminine energy. Usually, men lack their male side and go far into their feminine; women start to see you as more of a friend. 2:33 - Again, a woman, to be physically attracted to you, needs to see you in your masculine. Of course, a woman wants a man to be friendly and caring, but being too much into your feminine side can make her think you're more of a friend than a potential boyfriend. 3:07 - Frienzones happen when men are not comfortable with their seduction. Women want to crave your presents and feel that you are attracted to them. Showing intent with a woman can make her see you're more interested than just being friends. 3:42 - The woman wants to feel the flirty playfulness. If a man is too shy to flirt or show intent, she will take it as if you're not interested in her. 4:06 - One common reason you are a friendzone is the lack of sexual tension. That is what separates friendships and romantic relationships. Create the sexual tension and keep doing it. 5:10 - Putting more effort into being flirty and showing intent can have a great outcome. That healthy push and pull from a woman can make her feel wanted by you and create that sense of desire for you when you're not around. 5:50 - The structure in your intent. When men are too shy to talk to a woman, don't try to call or go up to her and flirt with her, then the friend zone immediately starts to form. 7:00 - The mistake of focusing on rational attraction rather than emotional attraction. Men will think about how to attract a woman by gaining muscles and or picking up a masculine hobby instead of not focusing on their values. Do you two have the same values? How about big life goals? These questions should be your priority instead of rational attraction. 9:10 - Friendzone happens when men are overly submissive. He will try to make her happy all the time; they will show no boundaries and neglect their values and put her values instead of his own. Women are attracted to men who hold strong values and take the lead in their lives. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Are You A Man That's Too Much In His Feminine? (Lacking Masculine Balance)
11/27/2023
Are You A Man That's Too Much In His Feminine? (Lacking Masculine Balance)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Are You A Man That's Too Much In His Feminine? (Lacking Masculine Balance) Do you feel a woman always sees you more like a friend than a potential boyfriend? Have other women told you that you exclude feminine energy even though you don’t want to? If the thought of being too feminine is affecting you, attracting highly valued women, you are in for a special podcast episode; Apollonia Ponti discusses maintaining a healthy balance between masculine and feminine energies in individuals. Apollonia knows the frustration of men who face potential challenges in the dating world because they are deficient in their masculine energy. They lack what makes a woman attracted to a man seeking to appreciate a strong sense of masculinity. This practical advice on being masculine while balancing out your femininity will help you attract feminine women. Apollonia will provide insightful examples of masculine energy traits and offers practical guidance on how men can effectively express and embody their masculine selves. So, suppose you struggle with your feminine energy, not knowing if you're using it, and how to finally get a woman who is in their feminine energy. In that case, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 0:58 - Why do women go for the men who mistreated them when im so nice? Apollonia explains the polarity effect and how men and women have both masculine and feminine energies. And sometimes, the lack of male energy can be the leading cause of why a woman will friend zone you. 1:22 - Apollonia explains that her polarity affects the masculine and feminine energy philosophy. Masculine energy is goal-oriented and takes leadership, while feminine energy is nurturing and patient. 2:21 - In a relationship, men and women must use this polarity effect. However, if a man isn't showing his masculine energy and embracing his feminine energy, then the woman will not be interested. 3:15 - Apollonia always tells her male clients to have at least 70% masculine energy while having 20% feminine energy. The feminine energy is also vital; for example, when you talk about your feelings. 3:48 - Apollonia tells a story about one of their male clients being in his feminine too much. She explains how her client constantly sent poems and love letters to the woman he was interested unknowingly making the woman move away. 5:02 - You talk about your feelings all the time. When a man is too much in his feminine, he will constantly talk about his emotions and hold no mystery for the woman to explore. 5:48 - When a man is too much in his feminine, he will never say 'no.' This can be a people-pleaser tendency, but a woman likes a man who can stand his ground and take the lead. If she sees you let her control your life, she might pull away from the relationship. 6:46 - A man who isn't taking the lead is too much in his feminine. When a man doesn't take leadership in his life, the woman will lose Interest. A woman will want to fall into her feminine, but when she doesn't see you as a reliable person, she will start to lose Interest. 8:03 - You are unable to regulate emotionally. This is losing your cool and emotions when there is a tricky situation that you're facing. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How Women REALLY View Intimacy! (What You Need To Know And It's Not What You Think)
11/20/2023
How Women REALLY View Intimacy! (What You Need To Know And It's Not What You Think)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How Women REALLY View Intimacy! (What You Need To Know And It's Not What You Think) When you are with a woman, does it seem like every time you’re trying to indicate sexual advances toward her, she instantly pulls away? Do you feel that sometimes your woman seems physically uninterested in being sexual with you? If the thought of how to please your women sexually becomes more of a challenge, then you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti provides insights into the nuanced perspective of women regarding intimacy. She delves into a profound understanding of how to genuinely satisfy women sexually, emphasizing that women are multifaceted sexual beings. Apollonia has worked with many clients and seen their frustration when trying to please their women. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia will explain that beyond physicality, underscores the pivotal role of mental stimulation in pursuing genuine intimacy. Connecting with a woman's mind and ensuring she is mentally engaged is crucial to unlock the depths of her pleasure. This practical advice on how to not only please a woman sexually but also understand a woman's views on intimacy can help you understand the essential distinction between men and women in terms of hormonal responses, highlighting the need for heightened mental stimulation to complement physical sensations for women. So, if you’re struggling with how to please your woman sexually, what to do to stimulate her, and how to make her desire and want you, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 1:21 - Women are sexual beings. But there's a whole mental side that you need to stimulate more than physically. You have to tap into her mind and ensure she is mentally simulated. 2:00 - Fantasy is vital to a woman's intimacy. This sets the stage for their physical responses, paving the way to get into the sexual mood. 2:27 - Unlike men, women's hormones are different, meaning they need more stimulation in the mind to feel the sensation you are giving them physically. 3:08 - Sexting can help stimulate her. You can help her with anticipation of being intimate with you. 3:42 - The mental foreplay helps her experience her sexual side. Stirring up those mental images can help her want more imitacy and desires. 4:20 - Apollonia proves an example of how a woman desires a man. When a woman looks at an attractive guy, her first thought is whether he likes and wants her. She craves a man to want her, which can lead to thinking about sex. 5:00 - It's not a physical touch that sparks physical desires for a man. It's mentally letting her know that you want and desire her; that is when mental sexual fantasies occur. 5:31 - Women and men have different orgasms. It may take longer for a woman to orgasm, but once you find a pattern to help her simulate, it's like a guide map to help you know what pecks her sexual interest. 6:46 - Women crave sexual discipline from a man. This means not beg with her for sex, going to their women with sex, and porn addiction; she wants a man who can showcase self-control. This helps her to respect you and want you later on. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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8 Types Of Women Who Will INSTANTLY Cheat On You! (Don't Let Her DO This)
11/13/2023
8 Types Of Women Who Will INSTANTLY Cheat On You! (Don't Let Her DO This)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti 8 Types Of Women Who Will INSTANTLY Cheat On You! (Don't Let Her DO This) Have you ever felt something might be wrong in your relationship? Are you suspecting her of secretly cheating? But aren't you sure if she is? If that thought ever crosses your mind, you are in for a special treat because, in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti will share eight distinct archetypes of women who may engage in infidelity and how to prevent this from happening to you. Apollonia has worked with many clients who had dealt with infidelity from their past partners. Apollonia empathizes with the frustration that can arise when your partner is dishonest about their actions. However, Apollonia offers a comprehensive analysis of the underlying reasons behind female infidelity and furnishes invaluable insights into identifying the subtle indicators of potential cheating within a relationship. Although determining infidelity may be challenging, Apollonia systematically outlines the behavioral patterns and dispositions that categorize women predisposed to unfaithfulness. So, if you're struggling with a partner suspected of cheating, knowing if she's cheating, and what to do with your cheating partner, this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 1:29 - The first sign that a woman is cheating is she is constantly partying. Going out with her friends is not wrong; this only applies to a woman who has substance abuse, as they can not fully grasp the impact of their actions. In a setting with alcohol and drugs, she is most likely to do things out of passion. 2:26 - Substance abuse stems from thrill-seeking behaviors and validation. Because of the thrill, they will most likely find other people who share the same interest in this thrill, which can cause her to cheat. 2:55 - Commitment phobia can cause a person to cheat. She can genuinely care about the person she is dating; however, because of this fear of losing her independence, she will cheat and use that person as a safety net if things go sour. 4:13 - When a woman shows a history of cheating and hasn't changed. It might be obvious to some people, but the main reason men stay in a committed relationship with a woman with a history of cheating is the belief that she will change for him. Men in a relationship like this are usually in constant denial and exhibit self-destructive behaviors. 4:59 - A manipulative woman will cheat. It might be hard to know if someone is manipulating you, but if you see patterns of her trying to control how you do things and guilt tripping you into doing something you didn't want to do, are the first few signs. 5:56 - A woman who cheats is in and out of your life. After you guys broke up, she quickly returned to you, not entirely to commit but to linger around you; it might seem that you two are in a relationship, but you are not. 7:29 - She is extremely private in her life. Even though you both are in a relationship, she is still private about her life, friends, and social life, shutting you out and putting her needs before yours; this is most likely because she is cheating. 8:43 - A woman who is a cheater is self-conscious and thrives on attention from men. When you guys are out together, she cares about how other men look at her; she thrives off the engagement and compliments of men that she barely acknowledges. 9:21 - The emotional connection isn't present anymore. Negligenting her emotional needs can lead to her turning to someone who will pay more attention to her emotional needs. She will seek out someone intentionally and cheat because of the lack of intimacy in the relationship. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Be Irresistible To Feminine Women w/ Coach Marce and Coach Cynthia.
11/06/2023
How To Be Irresistible To Feminine Women w/ Coach Marce and Coach Cynthia.
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Be Irresistible To Feminine Women w/ Coach Marce and Coach Cynthia. Have you ever felt that sometimes you unwillingly attract a masculine woman instead of a feminine one? Do you ever hear people tell you you have more feminine energy than masculine? If the thought of attracting a feminine woman becomes more of a challenge, then you are in for a special podcast episode; in today's episode, Coach Cynthia, along with her distinguished guest, Coach Marce, will offer guidance on cultivating irresistible appeal to feminine women. Coach Marce is a transformational coaching expert who empowers men to authentically embrace, heal, and inspire their innate masculine energies. With a wealth of experience, Coach Marce has assisted numerous men in restoring and enhancing their masculine energy while enabling their partners to express their feminine essence fully. Coach Marce knows in the modern dating landscape; men often grapple with societal expectations that may encourage the suppression of their masculine qualities, leading them to overcompensate by attempting to fulfill women's needs instead of their own. Under Coach Marce's expert guidance, this episode aims to help men reconnect with their masculine attributes and attract available and feminine partners into their lives. So, if you're struggling with embracing your masculine energy, attracting feminine energy, and knowing if you are more in your unhealthy feminine, then this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this special episode: 0:33 - Coach Cynthia introduces Coach Marce. 2:50 - Coach Marce explains what masculine and feminine energy is. She explains how both men and woman naturally carries these energies. 3:37 - Masculine energy is different from feminine energy. Masculine energy is beautiful in that it naturally leans into their leadership and strength. 4:52 - What happens if there is no balance with both energy? Coach Marce explains it through her journey of seeing these energies in person. 5:43 - Coach Marce talks about her past. Raised in a traditional household, she faced difficult situations where she could not embrace her feminine side and instead took more of her masculine side. 7:00 - Coach Marce's story of a woman who is embracing their feminine side. In this story, she explains how the woman she was shopping with, receives different treatment from men when assuming her feminine energy. 8:08 - Men have a natural side to help and support somebody. Coach Marce explains how confused men are when embracing this side in the modern dating world, where women are held to the standard of being their boss. 10:08 - Woman naturally craves safety. Coach Marce explains how a woman's natural feminine side shuts down in unsafe situations and instead starts to embrace their masculine side. 11:34 - Coach Marce explains what it looks like if a man is not in his unhealthy feminine. If a man is in a relationship with a woman showing her masculine side, he lets her take the lead, leading to his unhealthy femininity. 14:39 - A man who cannot embody his healthy masculinity doesn't feel fulfilled. This goes the same way with a woman who does not feel happy when not embracing her healthy feminine. 17:54 - What's the difference between grounded and passive energy? Coach Marce will explain how to identify the difference using the nature around you, calming you down to face your natural energy when talking to a woman. 21:41 - The energy in a masculine is to pursue a woman. If a woman is unavailable, she will not let him follow her and will not open up to him about her availability. Get more Coach Marce on: "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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How To Touch A Woman To Turn Her On! (5 Things Most Men Miss, But Now You Won't)
10/30/2023
How To Touch A Woman To Turn Her On! (5 Things Most Men Miss, But Now You Won't)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti How To Touch A Woman To Turn Her On! (5 Things Most Men Miss, But Now You Won't) Are you unsure when to start flirting with her? Do you get nervous at the thought of trying to seduce your date? And often unsure whether or not she is really into you in the first place. If your thoughts of seducing a woman are making you unsure that will lead to more, then you are in for a special treat; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti shares valuable insights on the art of building romantic connections with women, specifically focusing on the subtle nuances of physical interaction that many men tend to overlook. Apollonia has seen it all when men are trying to turn a woman on. Many men and her clients frequently overanalyze their approach in the realm of seduction, often failing to grasp the subtle cues and signals women provide to express their interest. Apollonia empathizes with the frustration of seducing a woman and trying to turn her on while not being seen as creepy. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia uses practical and straightforward methods to help you discern a woman's readiness for romantic advances. These practical advice and tests will help you emphasize the importance of attentive body language observation and reciprocal physical contact; Apollonia provides essential guidance for recognizing the pivotal moments when a woman is ready to take things to the next level and potentially lead to the bedroom. So, if you're struggling with how to turn on a woman, seduce a woman, and know if she wants to be seduced, then this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 1:00 - Most men struggle with seducation. Apollonia explains how many men overthink when trying to seduce women, such as being overly flirty in a text. 1:34 - You need to read the room. Watch her body language and see how she is acting toward you. Is she smiling? Laughing? Constantly touching your arm, or is she closed off, moving away from you, or not even looking at you? 2:38 - The hand test. It's a simple yet effective test: if she wants you, put your hand on hers for 5 seconds. If she pulls away immediately, she is not comfortable with you yet; however, if she doesn't pull away and let your hand rest on hers for a while, that is the green light. 3:15 - Touch the appropriate parts of her body. One way to turn a woman on is physical touch (only start doing this if you know she is comfortable with you). Touching her shoulders, arms, and hands is the most respectful way to convey that you want her; however, feeling her stomach, thighs, or knees will make her uncomfortable. 4:45 - Putting her hair behind her ear. This makes a woman turn on; the thought of a romantic gesture makes her want you more. 5:19 - Hugging her. Once you have the green light and are both comfortable touching each other, once you hug her, let your hand gently touch her back; kissing her shoulders or neck will instantly turn her on. 5:58 - The key to turning her on is taking it slowly. Build up the tension; don't start kissing her off the bat; start with her hand, then her shoulder, hugging, and finally, a kiss. These steps can cause her to take things more with you in the bedroom. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Are Men Done With Dating? TODAY'S Dating Scarcity Leaves Men Feeling Miserable!
10/23/2023
Are Men Done With Dating? TODAY'S Dating Scarcity Leaves Men Feeling Miserable!
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Are Men Done With Dating? TODAY'S Dating Scarcity Leaves Men Feeling Miserable! Do you feel that it’s getting hard to find the right partner? Are you jealous because you see friends and family are getting married or in a committed relationship? If you are having trouble finding a partner or lack the motivation to start dating again, then you are in for a special episode; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the modern dating landscape, shedding light on why some men may find themselves disillusioned with today's dating culture. Apollonia knows her clients well; she has seen the patterns of men having a scarcity mindset that leaves them alone and unsure of why they are unsuccessful in the dating world. Apollonia recognizes that individuals with a scarcity mindset frequently find themselves entering relationships with partners who do not align with their desired criteria. Apollonia's practical advice and examples shed light on the scarcity mindset, which serves as a cognitive filter in dating, instilling the belief that one's current relationship is inadequate for long-term commitment. So, if you’re struggling with finding the right partner, getting out of a scarcity mindset, and finding any encouragement to return to the dating world, this podcast episode is for you! Key points in this episode: 1:10 - What is a scarcity mindset? It's a mindset that is a mental filter when dating; it is a mindset that you feel that the person in the relationship is not enough to be long-term. This leads to rushing into relationships because they are afraid of being alone. 2:40 - Desperation is not attractive. In the scarcity mindset, you are often seen as desperate for love and will drive potential partners away. 3:18 - Apollonia proves an example of a man in a scarcity mindset. When a man thinks that a woman is lost in life and only a man will save her, he develops into a savior complex. This can create an unhealthy codependency and a lack of boundaries. 5:03 - Another reason why men are in a scarcity mindset is appearance. In society, men are looked down on if they show emotion; they care about having the ' tough guy' appearance, which can make them get into toxic or unfulfilling relationships. 6:11 - Men deserve to have respect and express emotion. They should be able to express vulnerability (if they know how to do it correctly). One way to get out of the scarcity mindset is to make sure you have standards for the woman you date and respect other people's standards if they do not meet yours. 7:11 - It's essential to have a positive outlook in dating. Some men see the dating world as a hostile place, but if you can think optimistically about the dating world, you will be able to attract the woman you want. 7:40 - Surround yourself with other men and support. Men who are feeling miserable after dating usually lack support from people. Talk to people or men that are successful in the dating world. Listen to them and their advice on navigating and finding partners healthily. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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Is Porn Destroying Men's Lives? (The SILENT Epidemic)
10/16/2023
Is Porn Destroying Men's Lives? (The SILENT Epidemic)
Elevated Man Podcast with Apollonia Ponti Is Porn Destroying Men's Lives? (The SILENT Epidemic) Let's be honest; have you ever been in your room all day watching porn and doing nothing else? Do you miss out on events, seeing loved ones, or dating life because of porn? If you ever thought that you might have a porn addiction, then you are in for a special episode; in this podcast episode, Apollonia Ponti delves into the pressing topic of the impact of pornography on men's lives, addressing it as a pervasive yet often unacknowledged issue – the "Silent Epidemic." Apollonia knows that a lack of awareness of porn addiction can profoundly affect men's social, psychological, and romantic spheres. But in this podcast episode, Apollonia advises navigating porn addiction, the reasons behind men's reliance on pornography, dissecting the unrealistic ideals it propagates, and guiding self-assessment for potential addiction. These practical strategies that Apollonia discusses will help you debunk misconceptions surrounding intimacy in pornography to empower modern men in overcoming this challenge. And will make you live a fulfilling life simply by identifying the underlying cause of porn addiction. So if you're struggling with porn addiction, don't know if you are addicted to porn, or if your unsure why you are addicted to porn, then this is the podcast episode for you! Key points in this episode: 1:19 - Apollonias experiences her clients and their porn addiction. She understands how porn is made to make the person consume more crazy and explicit scenarios, inviting men to go down the rabbit hole of addiction to porn. 2:18 - Unrealistic expectations of what a woman should be doing in bed. It gives the expectation that if a woman is not acting like what is seen in porn videos, then they are not enjoying it or that you are a terrible lover, which is entirely false. 3:01 - Apollonia explains her male clients developing performance anxiety. Since they already have a false impression of how they should perform and how the women should reciprocate, they develop anxiety since they know they can not do what they saw in the videos. 3:20 - Some guys want to sleep with women who have the body of the pornstar. It's okay for men to have preferences, but this is a false perception of a woman's body; it should be noted that a lot of porn star actress has gone under cosmetic surgeries. 3:46 - Porn addiction can cause erectile dysfunction. Younger men are having trouble getting erect because their brains function to watch other people having sex, and when they try to have sex, they can not perform. This is an unhealthily codependently on porn. 4:49 - Dr. Andrew Huberman's takes on porn addiction. He explains porn addiction is like spices; the more different you eat, the more bland the rest gets. 5:33 - Porn can hurt your stamina and performance. When men masturbate to porn, their train their bodies to ejaculate quickly, which can affect their life when it comes to the bedroom with a woman. Women want someone who will last longer and is emotionally present; a lack of that can turn them off. 6:40 - Porn can create dopamine spikes associated with shame and guilt. You are training your body to have these high dopamine spikes from doing something that does not make you happy. She explains further how men have to watch porn to get their day started; without it, it doesn't make them feel good, potentially messing up their dating and personal lives. 8:28 - Apollonia is not trying to shame men that are watching porn. She says that many men miss out on dating women or interacting with women when having porn addiction. Some men base their interactions on what they see in porn, which affects their fundamental interactions with a woman thinking it's okay to say things to a woman that will make her want to have sex with them, which is often seen as creepy or harassment. "I love Apollonia; her tips have helped me with my dating!" <---- If this sounds like you, please consider following me and rating/reviewing my show! This helps me to support people just like you and helps get my advice out there so we can collectively help change so many men's lives! All you have to do is press the follow button -->, scroll to the bottom to Rating & Reviews, and click on Write a Review. Free eBook: Want more dating advice? Follow Apollonia On: Listen and Subscribe to the Write Your Legend Podcast with Apollonia Ponti on iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and the CLNS Media Network mobile app.
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