483 | You Can’t Skip Over the Feeling Parts
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In this episode, I want to share some thoughts on what happens when we try to skip over parts of our healing, our feelings and how we subconsciously cannot push through these pieces no matter how hard we try. This is in alignment with one of the processes we use in the NLP Breakthrough Day Experience, where we use TIME Techniques to release emotions that we are holding onto in the order of anger, sadness, fear, hurt, shame/guilt. It brought up the conversation that we spend most of our lives holding onto or trying to skip past our emotions. In this episode, we discuss: 1) When...
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482 | Visualizing Mistakes That Are Blocking You
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In this episode, I have a couple of different perspective shifts when it comes to visualizing your goals and bringing your visions to life. This episode was inspired by Mel Robbins and one of her podcast episodes and it really hit home when I recognized that I spend more time visualizing the “end game or end product” instead of visualizing the mistakes, the challenges and getting up from them and moving forward. In this episode, we discuss: 1) How can you visualize and focus on the things that don’t go perfectly in the pursuit of your goals and still find the...
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481 | Sharing Stories that Create a Lasting Legacy with Tim Heale
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In this episode, we are speaking with Retired Colour Sergeant, Tim Heale. Having spent most of his adult life under the Colours in the British Army from being an infantry soldier to being an experienced PSYOPS Operator on 7 operational deployments has given Tim some awesome opportunities. Tim played a lot of rugby and his position was scrum half, the ski telemark and completed several times at the British Telemark Championships. He was a Hang Gliding Instructor, he played American Football for Milton Keynes Pioneers. He was a reasonably experienced offshore sailor and owned 3...
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480 | Are You Waiting for Your Light to Be Brighter Before You Shine It?
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In this episode, I have a question for you to ask yourself. Are you waiting for everything to be perfect, to be lined up perfectly until you decide to stand in your light? Are you waiting to release the podcast, do the live, share your story, write the chapter, the book, speak from stage, or launch your program when it is done and perfect? That is never going to happen and you will be waiting a long time before you can release it. More importantly you are missing incredible opportunities, people and experiences because they won’t see you for who you truly are. In this episode, we...
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479 | Problems Are the Gifts You Grow From
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In this episode, I am sharing a quote I heard Tony Robbins say and it made me stop and really reflect on the word problems. “Every problem is a gift and without problems we would not grow and if we’re not growing we are not living” ~ Tony Robbins. In this episode, we discuss: 1) There are problems which I would rather call obstacles, challenges, and difficulties. When you are stuck IN your problems it’s really hard to find your way out. Staying stuck in your problems, I visualize being trapped under them and that is when we give the word problems power over us. ...
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478 | Surrender Is Not A Dirty Word with Amy Stein
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In this episode, we are speaking with Herbalist, Energy Medicine Educator, Trauma- Informed Breathwork Facilitator, Amy Stein. Amy’s mission is to educate and empower others who are suffering with physical, mental or emotional health issues to learn to reconnect with the innate intelligence of our body along with Mother Nature. She believes we can be our own best healers when we can quiet the internal and external noise in order to hear the messages for healing. Reminding ourselves that we get to choose what is best for us. Her approach is a mind-body-spirit one which uses the “power of...
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477 | How Often Do You Challenge Your Own Beliefs?
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In this episode, I am sharing some thoughts and reminders that just because you have a thought doesn’t mean you have to accept it as a fact. When your thoughts pop up, consciously challenge the thoughts and try these few steps to actually change the thought instead of “believing” the thoughts that are not serving you. In this episode, we discuss: 1) When it is a thought that doesn’t serve you or the direction you are moving towards, consciously ask yourself if it is true, is it something you want to believe and when did this thought first arise? Get curious, ask...
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476 | Celebrating 5 Year Anniversary of When She Stopped Asking Why
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In this episode, I am celebrating and sharing that it has been 5 years since my 6x Bestselling Book Release, When She Stopped Asking Why. I am a completely different person since that book release and I am so grateful for this experience. I wanted to share some lessons that still ring true for me, some new lessons, the power of asking different questions, and how the dots always connect even when we don’t think they ever will make sense. In today’s episode we discuss: 1) A number of lessons, takeaways, gratitudes and a quick reading of an excerpt of When She Stopped Asking...
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475 | How to Become a Top 1% Communicator in Your Industry with Brenden Kumarasamy
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In this episode, we are speaking with Public Speaking Coach & YouTuber, Brenden Kumarasamy. Brenden is the founder of MasterTalk, he coaches ambitious executives & entrepreneurs to become top 1% communicators in their industry. He also has a popular YouTube channel called MasterTalk, with the goal of providing free access to communication tools for everyone in the world.In this episode we discuss:1) Why it is so important that we learn to communicate, speak and master our skills no matter what profession or field we are in. 2) One question to keep asking ourselves is if we are making...
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474 | Mentors Teach You How to Collapse Time
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In this episode, I am sharing thoughts on how mentors can teach you how to collapse time. I have been in the role of being a lifelong student for years, and I recently experienced a Breakthrough Day as a Master NLP Practitioner and it had me reflecting on this journey. In this episode, we discuss: 1) We all have a personal and business vision of who we are and where we want to be, but getting there on our own, with all life’s distractions, commitments, psychological baggage, perceived limitations and roadblocks, can block our momentum. Our brain, limiting thoughts and...
info_outlineIn this episode, I want to share some thoughts on logic and creativity and tie it back to our conscious and unconscious mind and some tips on how to shift this.
In this episode, we discuss:
1) Our unconscious mind is responsible for 95-99 % of our thoughts, beliefs and this is ultimately connected to our actions. We will not take action on something we don’t believe is possible. We also will always move towards what is familiar, even if that doesn't serve us or isn't part of our big vision moving forward. So is what we say we want and our actions on the same page?
2) Our conscious mind is all about creativity, imagination, and the vision of what we want to bring to life. So the idea, the download hits and then we get excited and then we fall into the how, the logic, and immediately our subconscious mind shows us the proof, what is familiar to us and before we know it we are back where we started. Logic is blocking us from creating change.
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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — Author, Speaker, and Life Coach
Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse far past the level of normal experimentation.
Through her programs, coaching, and live events for women, Marsha is on a mission to teach you how to “Own Your Choices” in your own life. She teaches women how to own their stories, lead themselves and pay it forward to others by creating businesses that serve, support, and impact others.