Own Your Choices Own Your Life

Welcome to the podcast, "Own Your Choices Own Your Life". Your host, Marsha Vanwynsberghe is a Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the Bestselling Book, "When She Stopped Asking Why". On this podcast, we will share the tips, tools and strategies used by our guests to breakthrough and overcome the challenges in their lives. Marsha is on a mission to educate, empower and inspire you to recognize that when you truly own your choices, you own your life.

863 | You Don’t Chase the Vision — You Become It First 06/02/2025

863 | You Don’t Chase the Vision — You Become It First In this episode, I share the concept of becoming the version of ourselves that can hold our dreams before we chase them. Our nervous systems must feel safe and regulated to pursue our goals effectively. If we rush into chasing what we want without first anchoring into our identity, we risk operating from a place of lack rather than power. I share my journey of deciding to publish "Unreserved," highlighting the month I took to reflect on whether I was ready for such a significant commitment. This pause allowed me to assess my beliefs, emotional state, and the blocks that could hinder my ability to lead and sustain the energy of this project. If we chase our goals without addressing our internal barriers, we may experience burnout, self-sabotage, and the inability to sustain the results we are constructing and creating. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Welcome and Book Launch Reflections 00:01:15 - The Importance of Becoming Before Doing 00:02:50 - Understanding the Nervous System and Subconscious Mind 00:05:06 - Anchoring into Identity Before Pursuing Goals 00:06:31 - Addressing Limiting Beliefs and Inner Resistance 00:08:07 - Regulating Your Nervous System for Success 00:09:32 - Stacking Wins and Building Confidence 00:10:25 - Moving from Clarity, Not Chaos 00:11:18 - Preparing Your Nervous System for New Experiences 00:12:53 - Building a Solid Foundation for Sustainable Success 00:14:08 - The Importance of Rest and Reintegration Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36810735

862 | Identity Work Isn’t a One-Time Breakthrough 05/30/2025

862 | Identity Work Isn’t a One-Time Breakthrough In this episode, I share the journey of identity work and the ongoing process of breaking down limiting beliefs. After the exhilarating experience of the unreserved book launch party, which involved coordinating with 24 different authors and connecting with women from around the globe, I reflect on the personal growth from such expansive experiences. I emphasize that identity work is not a one-time breakthrough but rather a continuous process of chipping away at the concrete walls of limiting beliefs we have built over the years, if not decades. I share a powerful metaphor: just as you cannot smash through a thick concrete wall in one swing, you must chip away at it gradually. This analogy illustrates how we can shift our identities by consistently challenging and replacing our limiting beliefs. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Process of Identity Expansion 00:02:00 - Understanding Breakthroughs 00:03:00 - Chipping Away at Limiting Beliefs 00:04:00 - The Role of the Subconscious Mind 00:05:00 - Identifying Limiting Beliefs 00:06:00 - Rewiring Beliefs 00:07:00 - Finding Evidence of Change 00:08:00 - Anchoring New Beliefs 00:09:00 - Daily Commitment to Change 00:10:00 - The Decision to Change 00:11:00 - Final Thoughts and Support Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36761155

861 | It's Never Too Late to Reparent Yourself with Johanna Gordon 05/29/2025

861 | It's Never Too Late to Reparent Yourself with Johanna Gordon In this episode, I connect with Health and Wellness Coach Johanna Gordon. In 2019, Johanna experienced the heartbreaking loss of her mother to cancer after years of struggling with alcoholism. This loss was the catalyst of Johanna's healing journey, prompting her to seek therapeutic avenues and ultimately leading her to reevaluate her life choices. She candidly shared her feelings of stagnation and the realization that she needed to make significant changes to live a more fulfilling life. This profound loss deeply affected her, inspiring a renewed commitment to prioritize her mental and emotional health. Johanna’s healing journey became transformative, strengthening her dedication to nurturing her physical, mental, and spiritual well-being. Along the way, she explored various therapeutic modalities and discovered a passion for supporting others in their own health journeys. Her perspective on reparenting oneself and nurturing the inner child resonated deeply, highlighting the transformative power of self-love and acceptance. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:29 - Johanna's Background 00:01:51 - Understanding Biohacking 00:02:51 - Cellular Health Explained 00:03:51 - Personal Experiences with Biohacking 00:05:14 - Client Success Stories 00:05:26 - Practicing What You Preach 00:06:30 - The Importance of Parasympathetic State 00:09:02 - Tools for Managing Stress 00:10:36 - The Impact of High Cortisol Levels 00:11:30 - Emotional Awareness and Healing 00:13:39 - Coping with Loss and Trauma 00:15:08 - Building a New Life 00:24:08 - Lessons from Grief 00:26:07 - Healing Generational Trauma 00:27:44 - Navigating Grief 00:30:07 - Embracing Emotions 00:32:14 - Changing the Narrative 00:34:45 - Future Aspirations Connect with Johanna Email: Instagram: Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG. Click Subscribe on YouTube. Click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36761045

860 | How to Shift from Lack to Abundance 05/26/2025

859 | You're Seeing What You're Programmed to Look For 05/23/2025

859 | You're Seeing What You're Programmed to Look For In this episode, I share thoughts on perception and how our brains filter the overwhelming amount of information we encounter daily. I start by expressing my gratitude to listeners for their support and shares, emphasizing the importance of being open to new perspectives and solutions that may be hidden from our view. I introduce the idea that we are not seeing reality as it truly is; instead, we only perceive what we are programmed to look for. With our brains processing 11 million bits of information every second, our conscious minds can only handle about 40 to 50 bits at a time. This means that what we consciously perceive is merely a fraction—0.0004%—of the reality around us. I explain how our brains delete, distort, and generalize information based on our beliefs and focus, which can significantly limit our understanding of the wrld. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:12 - Perception of Reality 00:00:45 - Information Overload 00:01:59 - Conscious vs. Subconscious Processing 00:03:06 - The Role of Filters 00:04:31 - The Reticular Activating System (RAS) 00:06:38 - Examples of Perception 00:08:04 - Beliefs and Interpretation 00:09:10 - Shifting Your Mindset 00:10:47 - Finding Solutions 00:12:25 - Stacking Wins Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36642770

858 | The Power of Seeing Change As Neutral with Tesa Arcilla 05/22/2025

858 | The Power of Seeing Change As Neutral with Tesa Arcilla In this episode, I am connecting with Tesa Arcilla. Tesa has never taken the conventional route—personally or professionally. A journalist by training and driven by an insatiable curiosity, she has lived and worked across multiple continents, carving out a career that defies easy labels. From live broadcasts at NBC and CBC to moderating high-stakes political debates for Euronews and the European Commission, she has spent over 20 years asking the tough questions, navigating complex global issues, and making sense of the world’s turning points. But beyond the newsrooms and international assignments, Tesa’s journey has been defined by bold choices—moving across the world for love, walking away from established career paths, and constantly reinventing herself. She understands what it means to take a leap into the unknown, to bet on yourself even when the path isn’t clear, and to thrive outside the traditional mould. Now, she helps others do the same—own their voice, build influence with authenticity, and turn their expertise into impact—without the ‘cringe’ of self-promotion. As the host of Choices & Chances, she dives into the defining decisions that shape lives and careers, helping others embrace uncertainty, make bold moves, and step fully into their potential. Whether on stage, moderating a panel, or mentoring thought leaders, Tesa brings a sharp mind, a global perspective, and a passion for real, unfiltered conversations that challenge, inspire, and drive action. Because in the end, life isn’t about playing it safe—it’s about making the choices that create the chances we truly want. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:30 - Vulnerability and Boundaries 00:01:56 - Self-Respect and Authenticity 00:02:59 - The Journey of Sharing Personal Stories 00:05:31 - Career as a Foreign Correspondent 00:06:02 - The Privilege of Journalism 00:09:03 - Navigating Stress and Health 00:10:10 - Learning to Listen to the Body 00:12:31 - Highlighting Career Experiences 00:16:18 - The Impact of Political Shows 00:20:16 - The Challenge of Live Broadcasting 00:23:20 - Transitioning to Entrepreneurship 00:26:07 - Recognizing the Right Time for Change 00:29:45 - Unwinding from High-Stress Environments 00:32:38 - Change as a Neutral Concept 00:35:42 - Agency and Choice 00:39:39 - Embracing Uncertainty 00:42:25 - Current Entrepreneurial Endeavours Connect with Tesa Instagram: Instagram: Website: Here is a freebie on Tesa’s website: Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG. Click Subscribe on YouTube. Click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36642985

857 | Holding The Vision When You Can’t See It Yet 05/19/2025

857 | Holding The Vision When You Can’t See It Yet In this episode, I ask the question, "Can you hold a vision when you can't see it yet?" I challenge the notion that we must wait for tangible evidence, like a certain bank balance or a fully booked calendar, before we can embody the person capable of achieving our dreams. We must first become that person internally to sustain the success we desire. Drawing from my personal experience, I recount my journey from being a kinesiologist for 27 years to embracing my calling as a coach. In 2019, I felt an unshakeable intuition that I would transition into coaching, despite not having a clear plan or business. Through continuous challenges and roadblocks, I continued to write and trust that I was being guided toward something greater. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:05 - The Challenge of Holding a Vision 00:02:32 - Personal Story: Transitioning Careers 00:03:36 - Identity Shift During Uncertainty 00:05:09 - The Role of Identity in Achieving Goals 00:06:34 - Repetition and Reprogramming 00:07:48 - Building a Bridge to Your Vision 00:09:14 - Self-Leadership and Vision 00:10:39 - Visualizing Your Future Self 00:12:07 - Celebrating Growth and Progress 00:13:43 - Upcoming Events and Community 00:14:15 - Encouragement to Pursue Goals Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36618270

856 | What You Ask For Won’t Show Up How You Expect 05/16/2025

856 | What You Ask For Won’t Show Up How You Expect In this episode, I am sharing about the unexpected ways in which our desires manifest. I want to keep it real and share my insights on how asking the universe for something big often leads to challenges and discomfort rather than immediate fulfillment. I begin by discussing the concept of expansion and contraction, emphasizing that when we seek growth, whether it’s in our personal lives, careers, or finances, we often encounter obstacles that feel like setbacks. I share my own journey of asking for expansion this year, only to face a series of personal and professional challenges that left me feeling like I was experiencing the opposite of what I desired. In one example, I share how my husband’s injury during a crucial competition I illustrate how life can throw us curveballs just when we think we’re on the right path. I reflect on the emotional turmoil that comes with these experiences and how they serve as lessons to help us grow into the versions of ourselves that can truly hold our dreams. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Nature of Asking for Growth 00:02:00 - Lessons vs. Dreams: The Reality of Expansion 00:04:00 - Recognizing Contraction as Evidence of Growth 00:05:00 - Reframing Your Perspective on Challenges 00:06:00 - Handling Abundance and Contraction 00:07:00 - The Importance of Trusting the Process 00:08:00 - Identifying What You Asked For This Year 00:09:00 - The Role of Your Subconscious Mind 00:10:00 - Rewiring Your Beliefs Through Consistency 00:11:00 - Emotional Regulation Techniques 00:12:00 - Leadership in Difficult Times 00:13:00 - The Universe is Preparing You 00:14:00 - Embracing Challenges as Part of Growth Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36584470

855 | How Far Can Your Voice and Story Reach with Amanda Sellers 05/15/2025

855 | How Far Can Your Voice and Story Reach with Amanda Sellers In this episode, I speak with VoiceOver Artist, Meditation Creator and soon-to-be-published author in the collaborative book, Unreserved, Amanda Sellers. Amanda Sellers is an award-winning voice actor, known for her work with top global brands. Her voice has been featured in a Toyota commercial during the 2022 Super Bowl, animations, video games, commercials, and even your household Roomba. A multi-time Voice Arts Awards nominee, she’s been recognized for Best Commercial Campaign (Ziploc) and Best Video Game Character (SkyForge). In 2017, she discovered a passion for writing and recording guided meditations, amassing millions of listens on YouTube and Insight Timer. Now, she’s stepping into the world of motivational speaking, sharing insights on authenticity, fulfillment, and self-expression. A former rock band frontwoman, radio DJ, and backup singer for New Kids On The Block, Amanda is no stranger to the spotlight. Off the mic, she thrives on adventure—running endurance races, sharing glimpses of her cats on Instagram, and cherishing her greatest role: being mom to Beck and Trace. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:18 - Unreserved Book Collaboration 00:00:54 - Writing Experience 00:01:41 - The Flow of Writing 00:02:32 - The Power of Scripting 00:04:54 - Uncomfortable Truths 00:05:15 - The Importance of Sharing 00:07:11 - Amanda's Current Work 00:09:36 - Unique Voice Acting Experiences 00:10:54 - Meditation Journey 00:12:54 - Creating Meditations 00:15:13 - Background in Performing Arts 00:22:23 - Touring with a Band 00:23:41 - Backup Singing for New Kids on the Block 00:24:43 - Impact of School Experiences 00:27:14 - Fostering Creativity in Children 00:31:15 - Children in Voice Acting 00:34:03 - Lessons from Motherhood 00:37:49 - Self-Compassion and Awareness 00:40:30 - Meditation and Mindfulness 00:42:21 - Connecting with Insight Timer Connect with Amanda Email: | Website: Instagram: Join Amanda on Insight Timer: Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG. Click Subscribe on YouTube. Click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36572265

854 | What Your Subconscious Is Trying to Tell You? 05/12/2025

854 | What Your Subconscious Is Trying to Tell You? In this episode, I share some thoughts on how self-sabotage is not merely a sign of weakness or failure, but rather a form of self-protection driven by our subconscious mind. When we find ourselves on the brink of progress, it's common to experience a pullback into old patterns. I want to help you understand why this happens. I challenge the traditional narrative around self-sabotage by encouraging listeners to ask more empowering questions. Instead of questioning, "Why am I doing this?"—which can lead to feelings of shame—I suggest we ask, "What is my subconscious trying to tell me?" This shift in perspective allows us to uncover the limiting beliefs that often disguise themselves as self-sabotage. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:01 - Introduction to Self-Sabotage 00:00:33 - Understanding Self-Sabotage as Self-Protection 00:01:16 - Identifying Limiting Beliefs 00:02:40 - The Role of Effort and Patterns 00:03:40 - The Positive Intention Behind Behaviors 00:04:49 - Personal Experience with Self-Sabotage 00:06:03 - The Signal of Self-Sabotage 00:07:20 - Growth Through Evidence 00:08:55 - Launching New Programs 00:09:05 - Questions to Uncover Limiting Beliefs 00:10:30 - Reframing Negative Thoughts 00:12:37 - Visualizing Success 00:14:04 - Building Self-Trust 00:15:50 - Embracing Growth and Discomfort Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36509575

853 | When Doubt Takes Up More Space 05/09/2025

852 | From Small Town Roots to Big Dreams with Virginia Ehrlich 05/08/2025

852 | From Small Town Roots to Big Dreams with Virginia Ehrlich In this episode, I speak with Virginia Ehrlich. Virginia is the owner and founder of Acre75 Gathered, a Canadian subscription box dedicated to supporting small-town economies and the businesses that sustain them. Every item we feature in our seasonal boxes is made or designed in a small town in Canada with fewer than 30,000 residents. Virginia embodies the spirit of small towns, big dreams. As the founder and owner of Acre75 Gathered, a Canadian subscription box dedicated to supporting small town economies, she has partnered with over 150 small businesses since launching in 2017—infusing nearly $1,000,000 into local communities across the country. The power of self-compassion has deeply shaped her journey as an e-commerce entrepreneur, and she’s now on a mission to encourage others to extend that same grace and love to themselves as they pursue their own dreams. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:12 - Acre 75 Gathered 00:03:10 - The Entrepreneurial Journey 00:04:10 - Business Evolution 00:05:46 - Mental Health and Business 00:06:55 - Simplicity in Business 00:08:17 - Growth of Acre 75 00:10:11 - Support System 00:12:12 - Nervous System Regulation 00:14:19 - Self-Discovery Through Entrepreneurship 00:15:12 - The Importance of Self-Compassion 00:22:07 - Practicing Self-Care 00:25:55 - Navigating Challenges 00:33:05 - Personal Adversity 00:40:29 - Pandemic Impact on Business 00:44:28 - Community Impact 00:45:07 - Lessons for the Next Generation 00:47:12 - Louisa's Birth and Business 00:52:05 - Postpartum Challenges Connect with Virginia Website: Instagram: Virginia is offering our listeners $10 off their first Acre75 Gathered Box - MARSHAV10 Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG. Click Subscribe on YouTube. Click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36479785

851 | When the World Cracks You Open 05/05/2025

851 | When the World Cracks You Open In this episode, I am sharing the message of being "cracked open" by life's challenges and how these moments can lead to personal growth and clarity. I begin by sharing a powerful quote from Rebecca Campbell's book, "Light is the New Black," which emphasizes the importance of embracing the things that break us down, as they ultimately allow the light to shine through. This is a personal episode as I share the story of my husband, Brad, a Master’s Olympic lifter, who faced a serious injury during a competition. As he set national records, he suffered a painful elbow injury that required immediate medical attention. This situation forced us to navigate a whirlwind of emotions and decisions, all while managing the urgency of his condition and the pressures of our personal and professional lives. Throughout the episode, I reflect on the overwhelming nature of life when it feels like everything is happening at once. I discuss how, in these moments, we often find ourselves stuck in overthinking and fear, but I emphasize the importance of trusting our bodies and instincts to guide us through tough decisions. I share how I learned to pause, breathe, and listen to my inner voice, which often knows the answers we seek, even when our minds are racing. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Cracked Open: Embracing Vulnerability 00:01:15 - The Pressure of Decision-Making 00:02:40 - Trusting Your Body's Intuition 00:04:48 - Navigating Crisis: A Personal Story 00:06:45 - Making Decisions Under Pressure 00:09:04 - Finding Clarity in Chaos 00:10:20 - The Power of Grounded Presence 00:12:08 - Stripping Away the Noise 00:13:12 - Accessing Your Authentic Voice 00:14:25 - Trusting Your Body for True Power 00:15:52 - Embracing the Cracks for Growth 00:17:08 - Final Thoughts: Letting Your Voice Be Heard Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36430635

850 | Why I Stopped Waiting to Feel Ready 05/02/2025

850 | Why I Stopped Waiting to Feel Ready In this episode, I share my thoughts on the concept of readiness and how it is a lie. I challenge the notion that we must feel 100% ready before starting new ventures. Drawing from personal experiences, I emphasize that readiness often results from taking the leap, not a prerequisite. I encourage listeners to reflect on their own lives and consider times when they felt prepared entirely—chances are, those moments are few and far between. I also touch on the significance of identity work, urging listeners to envision the person they aspire to be and to act as if they are already that person. By shifting our mindset and embodying the qualities of our future selves, we can break free from the constraints of waiting for readiness. I provide practical steps for listeners to visualize their goals and take immediate action, regardless of their current feelings of preparedness. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:06 - The Myth of Being Ready 00:02:54 - Navigating Feelings of Unreadiness 00:04:10 - Listening to Your Inner Nudges 00:05:14 - Identity Work and Taking Action 00:06:37 - The Reality of Fear and Excitement 00:07:32 - Serving Your Audience Regardless of Size 00:09:10 - Shifting Your Mindset 00:10:56 - The Importance of Action Over Perfection 00:12:24 - Future Pacing and Visualization 00:14:45 - Deciding to Be Ready 00:16:00 - Building Confidence Through Action Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36405045

849 | Detours That Paved the Way for Entrepreneurial Success with Rebecca Ogilvie 05/01/2025

849 | Detours That Paved the Way for Entrepreneurial Success with Rebecca Ogilvie In this episode, I connect with Rebecca Ogilvie. Rebecca is a Mother, entrepreneur, and advocate for women’s empowerment. She believes life keeps getting better and is passionate about helping women create a life they love. Her journey began with her transformation. After years of prioritizing others, she reconnected with herself through small, intentional rituals—starting with skincare. That experience shaped her mission: to help women see their strengths, celebrate themselves, and embrace self-care as an act of self-respect. Through her skincare brand, The Detour Co, Rebecca reminds women that they matter. Her mission goes beyond skincare—it’s about guiding women back to themselves so they can live radiant, confident lives. HIGHLIGHTS 00:02:00 - Rebecca's Skincare Journey 00:04:00 - Rebecca's Big Dreams 00:06:00 - Transition to Business 00:07:00 - Inspiration Behind Skincare Creation 00:08:00 - Early Product Development 00:15:00 - Growth and Support 00:19:00 - Live Events and Customer Connection 00:22:00 - Balancing Family and Business 00:24:00 - Aligning Vision with Reality 00:25:00 - Future Aspirations for The Detour Co 00:28:00 - Embracing Possibilities 00:33:00 - The Importance of Embracing the Unexpected Connect with Rebecca Website: Instagram: Rebecca is sharing a face care routine freebie. It walks them through a simple routine that can be modified depending on the products they are using. Here's that link: Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG. Click Subscribe on YouTube. Click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36382915

848 | Rewiring the Stories That Held Me Back - and How You Can Too 04/28/2025

848 | Rewiring the Stories That Held Me Back - and How You Can Too In this episode, I highlight the importance of awareness in recognizing these limiting beliefs. I discuss how our subconscious can drive us back to familiar patterns, often leading to self-sabotage. I encourage listeners to confront these thoughts and reframe them, asking themselves whether they are valid. Doing so can interrupt the negative loops that keep us from reaching our full potential. Things can become easier, but they never truly become easy. As we grow, we often confront subconscious beliefs that can hinder our progress. I candidly share my experiences of feeling nervous and self-doubting as I expand my offerings, particularly with the launch of my Master Practitioner program in NLP. This new venture felt daunting, and I found myself fighting with old narratives about success and worthiness, and the last year has been feeling all the discomfort of growth, even though it doesn’t mean that I can’t do it, it is just new and expansive and your nervous system has to learn how to hold your new growth. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Misconception of Growth 00:02:00 - Embracing New Responsibilities 00:03:00 - Confronting Subconscious Beliefs 00:04:00 - The Importance of Data 00:05:00 - Self-Sabotage Awareness 00:06:00 - Transformational Breakthroughs 00:07:00 - Recognizing Evidence of Success 00:08:00 - Stacking Wins 00:09:00 - Protecting Your Subconscious 00:10:00 - Empowerment Through Rewiring 00:11:00 - Building a Better Relationship with Stories Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36279625

847 | Become the Authority You Were Meant to Be 04/25/2025

846 | Your Mind Can Be Your Friend with Charlotte Grimmel 04/24/2025

845 | How Big Do You Allow Yourself to Dream? 04/21/2025

844 | The Hairdryer Cord - Strengthening Your Mindset for Success 04/18/2025

844 | The Hairdryer Cord - Strengthening Your Mindset for Success In this episode, I share some stats about the sheer volume of daily thoughts—between 60,000 and 80,000, with a staggering 80-90% being repetitive and predominantly negative. This repetition can create thick neural pathways in our brains, reinforcing doubts, fears and limiting beliefs. I use a vivid analogy comparing our thoughts to a hairdryer cord, illustrating how negative thoughts can become strong and durable while positive thoughts often remain fragile and underdeveloped. Throughout the episode, I encourage listeners to recognize the power of their language and internal dialogue. I challenge them to identify the negative beliefs they may be reinforcing and to consciously work on building new, empowering thoughts. I emphasize that change is possible and that we can create new neural pathways through repetition and intention. The metaphor of a string vs a hairdryer cord landed visually, and I knew I wanted to share it! HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - Thoughts Become Beliefs 00:02:30 - The Power of Repetition 00:04:00 - Neural Pathways and Their Strength 00:06:30 - Building New Pathways 00:08:00 - Internal Representations and Sensory Engagement 00:10:30 - Anchoring New Beliefs 00:12:00 - The Importance of Consistency 00:13:30 - Identifying Limiting Beliefs 00:15:00 - Reinforcing New Empowering Thoughts Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button to never miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36214620

843 | The Subconscious Block is Never What You Think It Is with Cora-Lynn Hazelwood 04/17/2025

842 | Judgment Is a Mirror — And NLP Holds the Key to Compassion 04/14/2025

842 | Judgment Is a Mirror — And NLP Holds the Key to Compassion In this episode, I share the idea that judgment acts as a mirror, reflecting our internal beliefs and feelings. We all have our own internal representation of the world, and each person perceives the world through a unique lens shaped by experiences, values, and emotions. This leads to the realization that trying to change someone else's perspective can be a waste of energy, as they are likely operating from their own internal map of the world. The judgments we fear from others often stem from our self-judgment. Judgment can trigger unresolved beliefs within us, and I emphasize the importance of self-compassion and forgiveness in overcoming these feelings. Reframing our triggers and approaching others with curiosity instead of criticism can foster empathy and understanding. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Nature of Internal Representation 00:02:00 - The Futility of Changing Perspectives 00:03:00 - A Mother's Unimaginable Experience 00:04:00 - The Impact of Negative Comments 00:05:00 - Personal Reflection on Judgment 00:06:00 - The Fear of Judgment 00:07:00 - Judgment as a Mirror 00:08:00 - Perception is Projection 00:09:00 - The Work of Self-Forgiveness 00:10:00 - Reframing Judgment to Compassion 00:11:00 - Empathy vs. Sympathy 00:12:00 - The Power of Compassion 00:13:00 - Recognizing Common Emotions 00:14:00 - Holding Space for Others 00:15:00 - Avoiding the 1% of Negativity 00:16:00 - The Importance of Inner Work Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36119980

841 | Why the Heck Don’t You Challenge Your Own Thoughts 04/11/2025

841 | Why the Heck Don’t You Challenge Your Own Thoughts In this episode, I’m sharing the importance of challenging our thoughts and the profound impact they can have on our lives. We are not our thoughts; we are human beings experiencing thoughts. With an astonishing 60,000 to 80,000 thoughts racing through our minds each day—most of which are negative and repetitive—it's crucial to recognize that these thoughts are not facts. They are merely programming we have internalized over the years, often without even realizing it. Throughout the episode, I challenge listeners to confront their inner dialogue. I ask, "Why do we accept our thoughts as truth?" Many of us would never allow others to speak to us how we often speak. I share a personal anecdote about a limiting belief I held for years, which was not even my own, illustrating how easily we can adopt narratives that do not serve us. HIGHLIGHTS 000:00:00 - Introduction and Listener Appreciation 00:00:12 - The Importance of Challenging Your Thoughts 00:00:55 - You Are Not Your Thoughts 00:01:39 - Recognizing Negative Thought Patterns 00:02:31 - Rewiring Your Thoughts 00:03:12 - The Role of Neuro-Linguistic Programming 00:04:38 - Understanding Internal Representations 00:05:31 - The Impact of Internal Narratives on External Results 00:06:56 - Interrupting Negative Thought Loops 00:07:40 - Choosing Empowering Thoughts 00:08:34 - The Power of Agency in Thought Management 00:09:49 - Challenging Limiting Beliefs 00:10:42 - Reprogramming Your Subconscious Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36091970

840 | The Unsexy Side of Business & Spiritual Growth with Renee Walker 04/10/2025

839 | Why Great Coaches Go Deeper 04/07/2025

839 | Why Great Coaches Go Deeper In today’s episode, I reflect on recent experiences with clients who have faced toxic coaching situations in the past, emphasizing that coaching should not simply provide answers or only focus on the client’s goals, instead can they help clients uncover the underlying barriers that prevent them from reaching their goals. I share my belief that strategy constitutes only 5% of the equation, while subconscious work—addressing limiting beliefs and emotional blocks—makes up the remaining 95%. Throughout the episode, I stress the significance of getting to the root of why individuals feel stuck or engage in self-sabotage. So many clients are unaware of the deeper reasons behind their behaviors, which are often buried in their subconscious. By employing techniques such as FLIP The Script Techniques and asking subconscious questions, we can uncover these hidden beliefs and reframe them to create lasting change. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction to Coaching and Self-Leadership 00:01:00 - The Importance of Subconscious Work 00:02:30 - Understanding Goals vs. Blocks 00:04:00 - The Depth of Self-Sabotage 00:05:30 - Identifying Limiting Beliefs 00:07:00 - Fear of Success vs. Fear of Failure 00:08:30 - Transforming Identity Through Coaching 00:10:00 - The Power of Language and Self-Talk 00:11:30 - Emotional Patterns and Client Transformation 00:13:00 - The Role of Identity in Achieving Goals 00:14:30 - Creating Lasting Change Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36030025

838 | 55 Years of Growth, Healing & Expansion 04/04/2025

838 | 55 Years of Growth, Healing & Expansion In this special Friday episode of "Own Your Choices, Own Your Life," I take a moment to reflect on my recent milestone—turning 55 years old. As I celebrate this significant birthday, I want to share the lessons I've learned throughout my journey, particularly the transformative mindset shifts that have shaped my life and business. As I just turned 55, I share how this age feels like a new beginning. I discuss the decades I spent learning to drop my emotional armor, integrate my masculine and feminine energies, and heal old subconscious stories that held me back. This journey has been deeply personal and powerful, leading to significant growth in both my life and business. I emphasize the significance of identity shifts and the need to let go of old stories that no longer serve us. I share how my understanding of success has evolved, allowing me to build a business that honors my values of health and relationships. I also discuss the importance of integrating both masculine and feminine energies in my work, recognizing that true success comes from a balance of strategy and intuition HIGHLIGHTS 00:02:00 - Celebrating a Milestone Birthday 00:03:30 - Personal Journey of Growth and Healing 00:05:30 - The Power of Vulnerability 00:07:00 - Shifting Subconscious Stories 00:08:30 - Integrating Masculine and Feminine Energy 00:10:30 - The Ongoing Journey of Growth 00:12:00 - Chasing a Bigger Vision 00:13:30 - Empowering Others Through Sharing 00:14:30 - Letting Go of Old Stories 00:15:30 - Invitation to Join the Journey Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/36002915

837 | Healing Through Art: A Path to Sobriety and Self-Discovery with Shayam Korey Steckle 04/03/2025

837 | Healing Through Art: A Path to Sobriety and Self-Discovery with Shayam Korey Steckle In this episode, S. Korey Steckle is a father, writer, self-taught, award-winning artist who exhibits his work in abstract painting, collage, and photography worldwide. He was born at an orphanage in the slums of Dhaka, Bangladesh, and within four months, he was adopted and raised in Wilmot Township by his Swiss German and French German parents. He now lives on Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia, close to his 16-year-old son Quinlan. He is open and honest regarding his struggles with drugs, alcohol, addiction, adoption, ADHD and cultural issues .. but also his overcoming these challenges and finding joy in the minute details on the path toward enlightenment. Shedding light into the dark places of his own life has liberated him to new levels of freedom and fulfillment. His first book, David: A Memoir (1st Volume), will be released in December 2024. HIGHLIGHTS 00:04:04 - Arrival in Canada 00:05:34 - Struggles and Coping Mechanisms 00:08:47 - Turning to Unhealthy Coping 00:12:54 - The Impact of Addiction 00:16:40 - Turning Point 00:20:17 - Support and Recovery 00:25:23 - The Role of Forgiveness 00:30:47 - The Decision to Write a Memoir 00:35:15 - The Writing Process 00:40:42 - The Purpose of Sharing His Story 00:44:39 - Looking Ahead: Volume Two 00:46:35 - Relationship with His Son 00:50:59 - Open Communication and Healing Connect with Korey Website: Instagram: Instagram: Korey’s book: Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG. Click Subscribe on YouTube. Click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/35976385

836 | You Can Free Yourself from the Prison of Your Thoughts 03/31/2025

836 | You Can Free Yourself from the Prison of Your Thoughts In this episode, I explore a topic that resonates with many: the prison of our thoughts. Reflecting on my experiences, I aim to create a space for authenticity and vulnerability, sharing insights to help listeners navigate their mental landscapes. I begin by acknowledging the overwhelming nature of our thoughts and how they can sometimes feel like a cage, trapping us in limiting beliefs and fears. I encourage listeners to recognize that these thoughts do not define them; they are merely thoughts that can be changed. By understanding that we are not our thoughts, we can break down the mental barriers we've unconsciously built over time. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction: The Realness of Life 00:01:00 - The Prison of Your Thoughts 00:02:30 - Recognizing Your Thoughts as Separate from You 00:04:00 - Building Your Own Mental Cage 00:05:30 - The Role of NLP in Breaking Limitations 00:07:00 - Real-Life Examples of Overcoming Limiting Beliefs 00:09:00 - Common Limiting Thoughts and Their Impact 00:10:30 - The Illusion of the Locked Cage 00:12:00 - Interrupting Negative Thought Patterns 00:13:30 - Returning to Neutral and Saving Energy 00:15:00 - Choosing Empowering Beliefs 00:16:30 - The Power of Rewiring Your Subconscious Mind 00:17:30 - Reflecting on Personal Growth and Change 00:18:30 - Conclusion: The Key to Your Freedom Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/35922485

835 | The Truth About the In-Between Phases 03/28/2025

835 | The Truth About the In-Between Phases In this episode, I explore identity and its crucial role in personal growth and transformation. I share that transitioning to a new identity can be uncomfortable and chaotic. It’s normal to feel like you’re in a state of flux, especially when you’re not quite who you used to be, nor fully who you’re becoming. I share my experiences of navigating this in-between phase, particularly in my journey toward publishing books. This process started as an idea and has required significant effort and adaptation. Throughout the episode, I highlight the importance of language and mindset. I discuss how our subconscious mind prefers familiarity and safety, often resisting change even when necessary for growth. This resistance can manifest as self-doubt and imposter syndrome, creating a tug-of-war between our past and future selves. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Athlete Mindset 00:02:00 - Navigating Identity Shifts 00:03:30 - The Chaos of Change 00:05:00 - The Importance of Language 00:06:30 - Familiarity vs. Growth 00:08:00 - The Tug of War 00:09:30 - Moving Houses Metaphor 00:10:30 - Reframing Discomfort 00:12:00 - Visualizing Your Future Self 00:13:30 - Recognizing Old Identities 00:15:00 - The In-Between Phase 00:16:30 - Commitment to Growth 00:18:00 - Invitation to Join Outspoken Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG click Subscribe on YouTube click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/35902660

834 | The Journey of Learning Radical Self-Acceptance with Laura Gallaher 03/27/2025

834 | The Journey of Learning Radical Self-Acceptance with Laura Gallaher In this episode, I speak with Dr. Laura Gallaher. Dr. Gallaher is a professional speaker, leadership development expert, organizational psychologist, and USA Today's best-selling author who inspires driven self-starters to transform their relationships with themselves and accomplish more than ever. She combines insights on radical self-acceptance with humour to create a unique connection with her audience. Despite being a national best-selling author, Dr. Laura stands out from the typical "academic" personality of her PhD peers. Her notable achievements include being hired by NASA to reshape organizational culture after the Columbia accident, leading significant changes in performance management at Disney, and inspiring Yahoo’s global teams to pursue transformation from within. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:23 - Journey into Organizational Psychology 00:01:07 - NASA's Culture Change Initiative 00:02:10 - Understanding Organizational Culture 00:03:15 - Self-Deception and Its Impact 00:04:56 - Defining Self-Deception 00:05:20 - The Inner Critic and Vulnerability 00:06:56 - The Role of Self-Acceptance 00:08:11 - The Importance of Self-Awareness 00:10:32 - Defensiveness and Its Roots 00:12:25 - The Journey of Self-Acceptance 00:13:48 - The Story in Your Head 00:15:24 - Significance, Competence, and Likability 00:17:54 - Self-Judgment vs. Self-Acceptance 00:19:05 - The Impact of Self-Judgment on Growth 00:25:11 - Stress as a Choice 00:35:08 - The Meaning We Attach to Stress 00:39:22 - Transforming Stress Through Self-Acceptance 00:42:41 - Personal Journey of Radical Self-Acceptance Connect with Laura Website: hEmail: Instagram: LinkedIn: Take the Self-Acceptance Quiz: Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in March 2025) Learn more about changing the Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program . Use Code PODCAST to receive 20% off. Code FASTACTION20 Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: Connect on IG. Click Subscribe on YouTube. Click /episode/index/show/ownyourchoicesownyourlife/id/35881740

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