Covert Narcissists are Determined to Psychologically Diminish You
The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast
Release Date: 09/26/2022
High Level Narcissists Without Concience or Empathy - Full Speed Ahead
The Narcissist in Your Life Podcast
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Free Yourself From Pyschological Fusion with the High Level Narcissist
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Clever Covert Narcissists Fool Almost Everyone
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High Level Narcissist's Avarice - A Fever that Doesn't Break
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Running a fever is a sign that we are fighting an infection. Your temperature rises; you are very hot. Your sweat glands activate and you cool down. Your fever has broken and you are in the process of healing. The high level narcissist's avarice has no boundaries, no controlling force. The lust for money and power in the high level narcisist is a fever, a sickness, a perverse uncontained pursuit. Avarice is the singular preoccupation for many high level narcissists. It isn't knowledge, wisdom, insight or inner peace they are seeking. It is knowing that they have...
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Malevolent High Level Narcissist Re-Creates A Sparkling New Identity
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From the time he/she was very young, the budding narcissist was convinced that he was brilliant, talented, master of social graces, resourceful, socially gifted at magnetizing people to him/her. Often the golden child, these individuals are exceedingly self entitled, overflowing with hubris. They are convinced that they are perfect---superior to others in every respect. They don't develop a conscience and blame their dirty deeds on siblings, friends, family members, acquaintances, rivals, enemies. High levels are "climbers", determined to reach the highest summits of monetary and...
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High Level Narcissist: A Fortress of Defense Mechanisms
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Grandiose, filled with hubris, extreme self adulation, the high level narcissist creates a series of personas that feed his/her delusons of ultimate power and perfection Propeled by a lack of conscience, the high level narcissist sails past those who stand in his/her way to achieve master and control. The high level has perfected the creation of a series of false seleves that showcase his/her perfection and omnipotence. The high level possesses a dark venal shadow that ejects psychological venom on all those at hand. This narcissist is a masterful fabricator of lies. He/she is persuasive and...
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High Level Classic Narcissists Demean You and Your Feelings
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Classic narcissists, larger than life, bombastic, charismatic to some, sail through their days in the fast lane---always moving to their next cascade of narcissistic supply. If they are very successful they have more opportunities to be adored, praised and rewarded handsomely in this current world of rampant pathological narcissism. Those at the top of their games don't do the hardest work. They have adoring followers, psychologically dependent individuals, hangers on, at their beck and call. If you have narcissists in your family, you are too keenly aware of how they demean you and/or...
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Empaths Rescue Themselves from Marriage to High Level Narcissists
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Empaths are highly perceptive, exquisitely sensitive individuals. They are finely attuned to their external and internal environments. They feel deeply and are often misunderstood by spouses, family members and the world at large. Empaths who are married or partnered with high level narcissists have a particularly difficult time. Many of you grew up as children of narcissistic parents. Demands and reprimands were daily occurrences. Narcissistic mothers and fathers gave you the message that you didn't and couldn't measure up to their expectations. You felt irredeemably flawed. For making great...
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Freedom From Childhood Shame Projected by A Narcissistic Parent
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Shame is a dreadful, intolerable feeling, a visceral reaction that goes deep inside of us. Often, children carry their shame into adulthood, especially if they are raised by narcissistic parents. When we feel ashamed we want to disappear and hide where no one can find us. The narcissistic parent expects perfection from his child. A child learns how to feel about himself/herelf through the loving attachment of the parent---the empathy, affection, acceptance of the son or daughter as a unique human being. The child with the highly dysfunctional narcissistic parent is never permitted to be...
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Recovering from Chronic Exhaustion After the High Level Narcissist
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"The narcissist is at all times a deceiver, never straight, clear or true. He/she has mastered the ability to delude himself and others. Like a socerer, he hatches intricate plots in secret..." (From: Freeing Yourself From the Narcissist in Your Life, Linda Martinez-Lewi, Ph.D., LMFT). For many years you played your role of partner and spouse to the high level narcissist, knowing that he/she was psychologically toxic. You are exhausted at all times. You have chronic insomnia and can't sleep at night. You get up in the morning and drag yourself through the day. You are now...
info_outlineCovert narcissists create and maintain a delusional world where they are perfect and everyone else is flawed except for those who dwell within their tightly controlled golden circles. It is from these chosen individuals that the narcissist receives abundant overflowing cascades of narcissistic supplies: praise, adulation, veneration, perpetual positive attention and affirmation. The covert narcissist is unable and unwilling to look inside at his/her character flaws, his multiple cruelties perpetrated on to others, including spouses, partners children and siblings. Though highly judgmental and demeaning of his fellow human beings, the covert is decidedly unintrospective. He moves through life at mach speed, disrupting the snese of security and inner peace of all those who bruise his/her grandiose ego.
Control obsessed, the covert directs with minute detail the actions, feelings, thoughts and words of those closest to them. He/she is a ominous prsence in their daily lives, a specter of terror and dread.
The covert with his/her undramatic, underplayed image fools most people. Gifted at affecting a believable fake empathy, he/she passes himself/herself off as a fine human being of solid character who always want the best for you.
All of this is a lie, a delusion, a mirage, a cruel farce.
Covert narcississ are determined to break you psychologically and emotionally by keepin you in the fight or flight mode, a state of psychophysiological siege so that you will submit to their sadistic demands.
They keep you panicked and immobilized so that yo compromise yor good judgment and relinquich your power over to them.
They seize on your fear of abandonment to keep you psychologically fused with them and at their command.
They infliect guilt on you when irinically they are the moral and emotional transgressors.
They seek revenge when you show assertion or independence of though or action. They threaten to dissemble your close relationships with others by gossiping and spreading ugly rumors and lies about your character.
With secret cunning they can devise long range intricate plans to steal your perosnal financial assets and properties and leave you with nothing.
After many years spent under the domination and duress of the covert narcissist, you have a time of reckoning. You know clearly through your research, discernment and intuition that you are separating from and leaving the covert narcissistic spouse/partner. You move forward along the pathways of self care and the evolution of your authentic, creative self. You are steadfast and grounded. The winds are at your back. Give yourself tremendous credit for advocating and acting for yourself---a precioius, strong, grounded individual of great character!
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