555 | What We Learn In The In-Between [available on Patreon]
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Release Date: 05/30/2023
609 | Breaking Free From Emotional Eating with Jonathan McLernon
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In this episode, we are speaking with Master Health Coach, Jonathon McLernon. Coach Jon is a weight loss coach and emotional eating expert who has lost 100lbs. From nanotechnology researcher to Navy marine engineer, to globetrotting nomad, Coach Jon spent most of his life running from his true calling, until one question changed his life. Now he's on a mission to help others lose weight for good and leave BS diets in the rearview mirror. With Freedom Nutrition Coaching he marries the Science of Metabolism with the Psychology of Behavior Change and the Compassion of Human Connection...
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608 | What It's Really Like In The Moment
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In this episode, I am sharing a personal story a real-time shift, and how to navigate through the muck. It’s always important that we share our own story, sometimes we are walking through a ton of things that are outside of our control and we can only share our story. The old me would fight like hell through every single challenge that crossed my path, mostly on my own until I realized I was wasting a crap ton of energy and realized nothing was changing. In today’s episode, we discuss: 1) Today I am sharing a personal story, and I wanted to share what it is really like in the...
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607 | Are You Growing Your Self-Confidence?
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In this episode I am sharing some thoughts on self-confidence, are you growing it or squashing it, and what self-confidence actually means. Self-confidence is a feeling of trust in one's abilities, qualities, and judgment. Self-confidence is an attitude about your skills and abilities. It means you accept and trust yourself and have a sense of control in your life. You know your strengths and weaknesses well and have a positive view of yourself. You set realistic expectations and goals, communicate assertively, and can handle criticism. The challenge is that your external results will...
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606 | The Humour Behind the Badge with Vic Ferrari
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In this episode, we speak with Retired NYPD detective turned author Vic Ferrari. Vic is the author of NYPD: Law & Disorder, Grand Theft Auto, The NYPD’s Flying Circus, NYPD: Through the Looking Glass, and Dickheads & Debauchery, is a retired New York City police detective and probably the funniest person you’ve never heard about. With no formal training or Harvard degree, Vic has managed to carve out a niche in the literary world. When he’s not shamelessly promoting his books, Vic is a frequent guest on the nationally syndicated radio show Sterling on Sunday. In this episode, we...
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605 | The Gripping Hold Of Shame
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In this episode, I am sharing a perspective and insight on the power of shame and how it is blocking us from being seen authentically. Releasing shame is one of the first steps to starting to share your story and this is the first step we will be moving through with the authors in the Write Your Damn Book Mastermind. In today’s episode, we discuss: 1) Shame can only be released by giving yourself some grace. Sometimes we have shame and we don’t even know what they are, it’s not our shame to carry it but we do, we pile it on. They’re not our bags, and this shame is...
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#604: The Story and The Narrative
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In this episode, I am sharing a reframe of the story vs. the narrative of the story. The story is the story, it is the details of the event, simply the facts. The facts have no emotion, no bearing, no personal responsibility, blame, or meaning behind them. The narrative of the story is what creates the problem that keeps us stuck in a loop of a story that we don’t want to be in. In today’s episode, we discuss: 1) The story is the facts, and bringing yourself back to the facts allows you to stick to the facts. When we are in a more neutral emotional and energetic...
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603 | Let’s Make The World More Accessible with Michael Hingson
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In this episode, we are speaking with New York Times Best-selling Author & International Speaker, Michael Hingson. Michael has been in countless TV and radio appearances, feature articles, and speaking engagements, Hingson does much more than simply tell his own 9-11 story; he continuously explores the broader lessons of his life and experiences inspiring and motivating audiences. In this episode, we discuss: 1) Michael’s story, blind from birth, he has spent his life advocating for accessibility for people with disabilities, to change the definition of disability as this does not...
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602 | It's Not Breaking You Down
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In this episode, I am sharing a reframe of a statement or language that we all fall into using. What if the obstacles in front of you are not there to break you down or see how badly you want something? What if they aren’t breaking you down at all, but they are shaping you into the person that you are capable of being? In today’s episode, we discuss: 1) The ocean smashes into the rock thousands of times a day and if you look at the rocks in one day, you will see no change to the rocks. Over time the waves break down the rocks because they are persistent and...
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601 | What If You Are Closer Than You Think?
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In this episode, I am sharing a quick message, mindset shift on what if you are closer than you think? Regardless of what the goal is, however, “long you feel it will take” will dictate how you choose to show up. In today’s episode, we discuss: 1) The intention, the energy, and the focus of how you choose to show up are directly related to how far away it feels for you. 2) You will change the results you create by this one shift alone. Join the OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification Connect with us on Patreon INFINITE Coaching Package Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP...
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600 | Liberating Humanity with Paul Hutchinson
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In this episode, we are speaking with the Executive Director of the Sound of Freedom, Paul Hutchinson. Paul Hutchinson has dedicated over a decade to creating a world where every child can experience safety, freedom, and hope. He has personally led or played a critical role in over 70 undercover rescue missions in 15 countries, saving children enslaved in child sex trafficking. In total, Paul has been involved in liberating over 5,000 children. Paul is the Executive Producer of the film “Sound of Freedom”, which exposes the horror of child trafficking, and highlights one of the...
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In this episode I am sharing some thoughts on the in-between, the time in between where we are today and where we think we are supposed to be.
In today’s episode we discuss:
1) The in-between is the most uncomfortable time, where we aren’t where we want to be yet, and we equate that to doing something wrong, not enough, or that we are on the wrong path. There is power in the pause and this is the in-between space. We are not yet who we want to be and have to grow into the version of the person who can hold and handle the next level of success, yet that person is inside of us, it is up to us to bring them to life.
2) This is the time we feel the most resistance, the most struggle and resistance recruits allies, thank you Steven Pressfield, and it shows up a lot like self-sabotage. The power of the pause. This is the time to become the identity that you are desiring to be. Health, fitness, reader examples. To assume the identity is to become that version, what do you do, see, hear, feel if you have that identity. Use this in-between time to anchor in the traits of this person. Bringing in your subconscious mind and not just consciously setting the goals. Goal getter vs goal setter
3) At the identity level, the self-image, the ideas a person constructs about themselves and their behaviour, abilities and beliefs, mostly unconsciously. In this level of change it is our beliefs, our values that will shape our identity.
4) In this in-between we are learning more about ourselves, building on our non-strengths, learning what is required, and getting clear on what we do or don’t want. It is a time of pause, but it is a required time of learning. The more resistance we feel and feed on the longer we can stay in this in-between. It requires surrender, trust, aligned action, belief. This is where one small step or act of courage every day can move the needle forward to create results. If you rush the in-between, or crowd more into this space, you create a temporary crash landing of more in between. You might not know exactly where you are going, but you know that backwards isn’t an option.
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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse that tore her family unit apart. Marsha has been published 7xs, most recently with her co-platform, Every Body Holds A Story, and she is on a mission to continue to help women and men to speak, share and publish their stories.
Through her tools, OUTSPOKEN NLP certification, programs, coaching, and podcast, Marsha teaches the power of Radical Responsibility and Owning Your Choices in your own life. She empowers people how to heal and own their stories, be conscious leaders and build platform businesses that create massive impact.