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Own Your Choices Own Your Life

Release Date: 12/04/2023

852 | From Small Town Roots to Big Dreams with Virginia Ehrlich show art 852 | From Small Town Roots to Big Dreams with Virginia Ehrlich

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, I speak with Virginia Ehrlich. Virginia is the owner and founder of Acre75 Gathered, a Canadian subscription box dedicated to supporting small-town economies and the businesses that sustain them. Every item we feature in our seasonal boxes is made or designed in a small town in Canada with fewer than 30,000 residents.  Virginia embodies the spirit of small towns, big dreams. As the founder and owner of Acre75 Gathered, a Canadian subscription box dedicated to supporting small town economies, she has partnered with over 150 small businesses since launching in...

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851 | When the World Cracks You Open show art 851 | When the World Cracks You Open

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In this episode, I am sharing the message of being "cracked open" by life's challenges and how these moments can lead to personal growth and clarity. I begin by sharing a powerful quote from Rebecca Campbell's book, "Light is the New Black," which emphasizes the importance of embracing the things that break us down, as they ultimately allow the light to shine through. This is a personal episode as I share the story of my husband, Brad, a Master’s Olympic lifter, who faced a serious injury during a competition. As he set national records, he suffered a painful elbow injury that required...

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850 |  Why I Stopped Waiting to Feel Ready show art 850 |  Why I Stopped Waiting to Feel Ready

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In this episode, I share my thoughts on the concept of readiness and how it is a lie.   I challenge the notion that we must feel 100% ready before starting new ventures. Drawing from personal experiences, I emphasize that readiness often results from taking the leap, not a prerequisite. I encourage listeners to reflect on their own lives and consider times when they felt prepared entirely—chances are, those moments are few and far between. I also touch on the significance of identity work, urging listeners to envision the person they aspire to be and to act as if they are already that...

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849 | Detours That Paved the Way for Entrepreneurial Success with Rebecca Ogilvie show art 849 | Detours That Paved the Way for Entrepreneurial Success with Rebecca Ogilvie

Own Your Choices Own Your Life

In this episode, I connect with Rebecca Ogilvie. Rebecca is a Mother, entrepreneur, and advocate for women’s empowerment. She believes life keeps getting better and is passionate about helping women create a life they love. Her journey began with her transformation. After years of prioritizing others, she reconnected with herself through small, intentional rituals—starting with skincare. That experience shaped her mission: to help women see their strengths, celebrate themselves, and embrace self-care as an act of self-respect. Through her skincare brand, The Detour Co, Rebecca reminds...

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848 |  Rewiring the Stories That Held Me Back - and How You Can Too show art 848 |  Rewiring the Stories That Held Me Back - and How You Can Too

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In this episode, I highlight the importance of awareness in recognizing these limiting beliefs. I discuss how our subconscious can drive us back to familiar patterns, often leading to self-sabotage. I encourage listeners to confront these thoughts and reframe them, asking themselves whether they are valid. Doing so can interrupt the negative loops that keep us from reaching our full potential. Things can become easier, but they never truly become easy. As we grow, we often confront subconscious beliefs that can hinder our progress. I candidly share my experiences of feeling nervous and...

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847 |  Become the Authority You Were Meant to Be show art 847 |  Become the Authority You Were Meant to Be

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In this episode, I explore how we can shift our mindset from feeling like an imposter to embracing our authority. I start by posing a thought-provoking question: How would you like to perceive imposter syndrome differently? I emphasize that authority doesn't have to be a triggering term; it can simply mean owning your life and your message. Throughout the episode, I discuss the common reasons behind imposter syndrome, such as caring deeply about our work and comparing ourselves to others who seem more experienced. I highlight the importance of recognizing that we often compare our beginning to...

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846 | Your Mind Can Be Your Friend with Charlotte Grimmel show art 846 | Your Mind Can Be Your Friend with Charlotte Grimmel

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Today, I speak with Charlotte Grimmel. Charlotte is a psychologist (MSc) and holistic business coach who has helped thousands master the invisible patterns that hold them back. Through her coaching practice and platform @themindfriend (168k+ followers), she turns deep psychological insights into practical tools for overcoming self-sabotage, perfectionism, and paralyzing self-doubt. Known for her direct yet compassionate approach, she shows people how to transform their relationship with their minds instead of fighting themselves. By combining expertise in psychology with real-world experience,...

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845 |  How Big Do You Allow Yourself to Dream? show art 845 |  How Big Do You Allow Yourself to Dream?

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In this episode, I dive into how big you allow yourself to dream. Where do you see yourself in two to three years? Will you live your dream, or will you still be in the planning, thinking, or avoiding phases? Throughout the episode, I emphasize the role of our subconscious mind in shaping our beliefs and goals. Many people settle for comfortable and familiar aspirations, but I urge you to break free from that mindset. By examining your past achievements and recognizing how far you've come, you can begin to dream beyond what you think is possible. HIGHLIGHTS 00:01:00 - The Importance of...

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844 |  The Hairdryer Cord -  Strengthening Your Mindset for Success show art 844 |  The Hairdryer Cord -  Strengthening Your Mindset for Success

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In this episode, I share some stats about the sheer volume of daily thoughts—between 60,000 and 80,000, with a staggering 80-90% being repetitive and predominantly negative. This repetition can create thick neural pathways in our brains, reinforcing doubts, fears and limiting beliefs. I use a vivid analogy comparing our thoughts to a hairdryer cord, illustrating how negative thoughts can become strong and durable while positive thoughts often remain fragile and underdeveloped. Throughout the episode, I encourage listeners to recognize the power of their language and internal dialogue. I...

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843 | The Subconscious Block is Never What You Think It Is with Cora-Lynn Hazelwood show art 843 | The Subconscious Block is Never What You Think It Is with Cora-Lynn Hazelwood

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Today I am speaking with Cora-Lynn Hazelwood. Cora-Lynn is a messaging mastermind, business mentor, and the co-founder of Scaling by Design, where she helps Always Enrolling Entrepreneurs turn their offers into movements that sell themselves. With over 2,500 students and a million-dollar brand built off of content that actually converts, Cora-Lynn’s mission is simple: Help you master the art of enrolling hundreds in your offers so you're always open for revenue, always impacting and always fully living your freaking life. Connect with Cora-Lynn Website: Instagram: Marsha Vanwynsberghe —...

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In this episode, I am sharing an answer to a question I was asked as a recent podcast guest on my friend Fallon’s podcast, Prosperity By Design, and she asked me a question that had me reflecting.  She was a guest on my show back in 2021, a little over 400 episodes ago, crazy I know, and she said she was listening to a few recent episodes and wanted to share how much my confidence, and certainty in my voice have changed. She wanted to know what I had done differently.  I wanted to share my thoughts and answers.

In today’s episode, we discuss:
1)  I actually think I have failed way more than people would realize, more programs and ideas haven’t worked, collaborations that didn’t continue, projects I started and stopped, and that left me with a lot of doubt and frustration, yet failure can be your friend.  It is required, it will teach you more than you can imagine. “Failure is not the opposite of success, it is part of success.” ~ Unknown

2)  The work of NLP, aka OUTSPOKEN has definitely had an effect on my confidence, also because subconscious reprogramming has helped me to recognize my blind spots, to see those old stories pop up, to not make them mean anything about me, and to know that with every NO that I am closer to the yes’.  The no’s have taught me a lot these past three years; pivot is an understatement. It has been a non-stop pivot journey but instead of throwing tons of spaghetti on the wall, I go inward first, quiet the noise, listen to what lights me up, say yes to that more, and allow myself to fail and get back up again. 



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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster

Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”.  She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse that tore her family unit apart. Marsha has been published 7xs, most recently with her co-platform, Every Body Holds A Story, and she is on a mission to continue to help women and men to speak, share and publish their stories. 

Through her tools, OUTSPOKEN NLP certification, programs, coaching, and podcast, Marsha teaches the power of Radical Responsibility and Owning Your Choices in your own life.  She empowers people how to heal and own their stories, be conscious leaders and build platform businesses that create massive impact.