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Working With Men in Coaching and Therapy - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 484

Relationship School Podcast

Release Date: 01/30/2024

My Take on Andrew Huberman and His Relationship Issues - Jayson Gaddis - 494 show art My Take on Andrew Huberman and His Relationship Issues - Jayson Gaddis - 494

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson shares his thoughts on the controversy surrounding popular podcaster Andrew Huberman. What can we learn about ourselves and our relationships from the online reaction to the recent revelations about Andrew Huberman? What are you projecting onto the authority figures in your life? Are you putting people in your life on a pedestal, and how will you react when they inevitably fail you? Timestamps: 2:17 - What can we learn from the Andrew Huberman situation? 5:24 - Pedestal to pit 13:55 - Are you projecting on to authority figures? Links: Follow Jayson on social media:

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The Purpose of Relationship Pain - Jayson Gaddis - 493 show art The Purpose of Relationship Pain - Jayson Gaddis - 493

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Relationship pain has a very clear purpose. If you are hip to it, you’ll thrive in relationships. If you are uneducated here, you’ll run away and play the victim. Direct and to the point, I suggest a very important daily practice for you to strengthen your mindset about long-term partnership. Pain hurts indeed. And, what if pain was your ally in disguise?   Relationship Pain Daily Practice I have two choices with my relationship pain: 1. Use it to make me weaker by whining, complaining, and blaming others (or myself). 2. Use it to make me stronger by seeing it as my ally to master the...

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Dan Savage On Being Monogamish - Dan Savage - 492 show art Dan Savage On Being Monogamish - Dan Savage - 492

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Are you simply defaulting to monogamy? Have you ever genuinely asked yourself, "Would a different sexual model work better for me?" Dan Savage, an author, sex-advice columnist, podcaster, and public speaker, suggests that we should all regularly pose these questions to ourselves. Dan and his husband have chosen what they call a "monogamish" relationship. They've acknowledged that it's impossible to fulfill all of your partner's needs, and that's a message from which we can all learn. While we typically focus on monogamous long-term relationships, in this episode, we'll explore how various...

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Conflict, Communication, Fixing, Problem Solving - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 491 show art Conflict, Communication, Fixing, Problem Solving - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 491

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Jayson and Ellen discuss conflict, communication, and problem-solving versus understanding. What's the issue with being a conflict-avoidant couple? When is it appropriate to problem-solve and offer advice to a long-term partner? Can excessive understanding become problematic? Tune in to hear Ellen and Jayson offer a few simple strategies that you can use to resolve your communication issues. Timestamps: 1:51 - Avoiding Conflict 11:21 - Solving communication problems 17:04 - Problem solving vs understanding 20:28 - The conflict-repair cycle 22:31 - Taking action vs understanding Links: ...

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Couples Coaching: Anya & Bodhi Part 2 - Jayson Gaddis - #490 show art Couples Coaching: Anya & Bodhi Part 2 - Jayson Gaddis - #490

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Jayson coaches the couple, Anya and Bodhi. The last time this couple appeared on the podcast was in episode #364 when they were in the midst of deciding whether to stay together or break up. Since their last appearance, they have grown into a strong and stable couple. In this episode, they discuss the turning point in their relationship that led to them staying together. They also work through current tensions in their relationship related to conflicting schedules and navigating a small living space. You won’t want to miss this insightful conversation. Timestamps: 5:17 - Anya & Bodhi's...

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Teen Talk: An Intimate Conversation With My Son - Jayson & Lucian Gaddis - 489 show art Teen Talk: An Intimate Conversation With My Son - Jayson & Lucian Gaddis - 489

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Jayson is joined by his son Lucian for a conversation about the unique challenges of being a teenager in high school. What are the challenges of being from a relationally focused family? What kinds of stereotypes do teens face? Why do so many parents over-parent their kids? You won’t want to miss this candid father-son conversation. Timestamps: 3:52 - Boys in high school 5:28 - Social media apps 6:19 - Waldorf vs. public high school 9:21 - The relational family experiance 16:41 - Challenges high school kids face 20:25 - Over-parenting 23:41 - How to get teenagers involved Links: U.S....

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The Trap of Falling in Love - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 488 show art The Trap of Falling in Love - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 488

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Is it possible to truly love someone while you’re still infatuated with them? In this episode, Jayson and Ellen talk about the trap of falling in love and why it’s important to learn to live with the reality of who your partner actually is instead of projecting your fantasies onto them. How can you make your partner your priority every day? What should your relationship boundaries be? It’s time to take a deep dive into the world of love after infatuation. Timestamps: 2:16 - Infatuation vs. love 6:16 - Reality vs. fantasy 20:00 - Accepting people for who they are 24:48 - Know your...

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Dealing with Division and Getting Unstuck - Jayson Gaddis - 487 show art Dealing with Division and Getting Unstuck - Jayson Gaddis - 487

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Jayson talks about dealing with division in the world, digital minimalism and getting unstuck in your relationship. Can solving division in the home help make the world a better place? How do you know when you’re stuck as a couple? What should you do if you’re stuck? Would you like to be the next guest on The Relationship School Podcast? Listen in to find out more! Timestamps: 4:01 - Couples, how do you know when you're stuck? 11:47 - Dealing with division 19:25 - Action steps Links: Follow Jayson on social media:

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Coaching Session: From Being Ghosted to Self Love - Jayson Gaddis - 486 show art Coaching Session: From Being Ghosted to Self Love - Jayson Gaddis - 486

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Jason coaches two women live on the podcast. How should you deal with the experience of a long-term partner ghosting you? What should you do when you feel self-doubt and loneliness? How can you find meaning in the end of a long-term relationship? You won’t want to miss the chance to sit in on this powerful coaching session with Jayson, Katie and Camille. Timestamps: 4:09 - Katie's story 8:27 - Being there for yourself 16:26 - Katie's personal growth journey 26:17 - Camille's story 29:56 - Dealing with a partner who ghosted 37:46 - Finding meaning in the end of a relationship 46:51 - Finding...

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Allowance, Chores, Family Economy & Empowering your Kids with Money - James Ure - 485 show art Allowance, Chores, Family Economy & Empowering your Kids with Money - James Ure - 485

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Helping children learn to be financially responsible is one of the most important jobs that parents have. James Ure joins Jayson to talk about how a family economy can help you give your child the best chance to achieve success and independence when they leave home. Should you pay your child for chores? How much of an allowance should you give your child? What is the difference between bribery and empowerment? How can you teach your child the importance of saving, investing, and giving to charity? You won’t want to miss this insightful conversation. Timestamps: 8:31 - What is a family...

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Jayson and Ellen team up to talk about working with men in coaching and therapy. How can you tell when a man is ready to grow? How does couples' work help men? What are the advantages of attending a men’s group? Are men more comfortable with male or female therapists? If you’re a man or you have men in your life, you won’t want to miss this insightful conversation.

Timestamps:

  • 6:16 - Ways that men get stuck
  • 10:52 - Working through men's defensiveness
  • 13:56 - Recognizing men's issues
  • 17:27 - How male clients project
  • 21:10 - Are men more comfortable with male or female therapists
  • 24:48 - Men's groups
  • 29:44 - How couples work helps men
  • 31:35 - How to get men to change
  • 34:09 - Making sure a man is ready to grow
  • 36:34 - Action steps

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