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165. From Sex Ed to Sensual Mastery: Unleashing Your Artistry in the Bedroom

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Release Date: 02/14/2024

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In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, delves into the shortcomings of traditional sex education and proposes a new paradigm for learning about sexual intimacy. She discusses the importance of emotional intimacy, experimentation, and releasing preconceived notions about sexuality to craft an artful, gratifying sexual experience. The episode also highlights the crucial role parents have in ensuring their children receive an education that encompasses pleasure, consent, and respect within sexual encounters.

 

Also in this episode:

  • Knowing one's anatomy is fundamental, but exploring the feelings and experiences surrounding the act of sex is what truly enriches intimacy.

  • Parents should be proactive in educating their children about the deeper aspects of sex, tailoring the conversation to their family culture and values.

  • While traditional sex ed is important for scientific accuracy and health awareness, it falls short in areas of pleasure, connection, and passion.

 

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Referenced in the episode:

Women’s Anatomy of Arousal by Sheri Winston: https://amzn.to/3jpUvZe 

 

Listen to Episode 128: Embodied Sexuality, with Sheri Winston https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/128-embodied-sexuality-how-to-connect-with-your-partner-through-enjoying-more-satisfying-sexual-experiences-w-sheri-winston/

Listen to Episode 129: Understanding the Complexity of the Sexual Differences between Men and Women

 https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/understanding-the-complexity-of-the-sexual-differences-between-men-and-women-feat-sheri-winston/

 

Listen to Episode 137: How to Elevate Married Sex from Good to Great

https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/how-to-elevate-married-sex-from-good-to-great-with-expertise-from-an-intimacy-coach/

 

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Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here:
https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl

Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: 
https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: 
www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: 
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About Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. 

 

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