The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Welcome to "The Intimate Marriage Podcast," the podcast where we explore the secrets to cultivating passionate and intimate relationships. I'm your host, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, aka "The Intimacy Doctor," an experienced intimacy coach and marriage expert. In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy. During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship. As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage. —----------- Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more. Join my email list to stay connected—it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe —---------- WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO? An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy. Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.

229. Beyond Climax: How to Improve Sexual Fulfillment 05/07/2025

228. Sex & Porn Addiction in High Performers with Roland Cochrun: What You Need to Know 04/30/2025

228. Sex & Porn Addiction in High Performers with Roland Cochrun: What You Need to Know Porn addiction among high-performing men is more common—and more misunderstood—than most people realize. In this eye-opening episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell welcomes back expert Roland Cochrun to discuss his new book, 'The High Achiever’s Guide to Sex Addiction Recovery'. Known for his groundbreaking insights into sex and porn addiction, Roland breaks down the crucial difference between substance and process addiction—where individuals become hooked not on external substances but on internal thought patterns and behaviors. Together, Dr. Alexandra and Roland explore why high achievers are especially vulnerable to these compulsions, how porn addiction impacts relationships, and why many of these behaviors are deeply misunderstood. Roland offers powerful guidance for healing, challenges societal norms around sex and desire, and encourages a new narrative of recovery, responsibility, and reconnection. Also in this episode: What Process Addiction Is: Being hooked on mental patterns and habits, not substances like drugs or alcohol. How It Affects Relationships: A partner’s porn addiction can feel like betrayal and cause emotional pain. Challenging Norms: Society’s views on sex and porn aren’t always healthy—it's important to question them. The Role of Self-Awareness: Recognizing your own patterns is key to breaking free from addiction. Moral and Legal Questions: Roland challenges the ethics of porn and strip clubs, comparing them to modern slavery. About The Guest: Roland Cochrun is the founder of The Successful Addict, a sex addiction recovery group designed specifically for high-achievers, executives, and entrepreneurs. As a recovering sex addict himself, Roland found blind spots in the treatment of process addiction, especially as it applies to successful men. Roland hopes to shine a light on a preventable issue that is destroying couples and families all over the world. Connect with Roland: Get his latest book: Website: YouTube: Listen to the previous interview with Roland Cochrun: “Sex and Success”: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/36277640

227. All About “Intimacy Dates” (Which Can Save Your Relationship) 04/23/2025

227. All About “Intimacy Dates” (Which Can Save Your Relationship) Are you and your partner drifting apart, despite loving each other deeply? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores how planning and scheduling "intimacy dates" can save your relationship (and totally uplevel it!) by fostering deeper connection and closeness, especially for busy couples juggling work, family, and other responsibilities. Emphasizing that intimacy should be prioritized like any other essential activity, Dr. Alexandra shares practical strategies and insights. With decades of experience, personally and professionally, she’ll show you how “intimacy dates” can revitalize your relationship, and bring back spontaneity and joy. Dispelling the myth that scheduled intimacy lacks romance, this episode shares creative ways to blend structure with spontaneity, to help you reconnect emotionally, sensually, and playfully. By keeping intimacy high on your priority list, and sharing responsibilities to reduce stress, couples can overcome disconnection and discover what fun and meaningful intimacy looks like in their unique dynamic and phase of life. Also in this episode: Scheduling "intimacy dates" is crucial for nurturing emotional, sensual, and erotic intimacy in a relationship, particularly for busy couples. Flexibility within scheduled times allows for spontaneity and enhances enjoyment, without the pressure of obligatory sex. Setting up intimacy dates during times when both partners are relaxed and energized leads to more meaningful connections. Assigning responsibilities, such as household tasks, to allow space for relaxation and self-connection facilitates a better atmosphere for intimacy. Personalizing “intimacy date”s to include activities like games, dancing, or creative expression stokes intimacy and rekindles fun in a relationship. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/36210740

226. Feeling Like a Third Wheel to Your Wife And Kids 04/16/2025

226. Feeling Like a Third Wheel to Your Wife And Kids Do you ever feel like a third wheel in your marriage, after the birth of your children? You are not alone. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the common phenomenon where fathers, sometimes mothers, struggle with the change in relationship dynamics that occur when parental responsibilities take center stage; she sheds light on how to navigate these challenging times with grace and leadership. Emphasizing the importance of communication, self-awareness, and leadership in maintaining a strong marital connection amidst the demands of parenting, Dr. Alexandra advises on the steps to take to support your spouse while also ensuring your own needs are met. She provides strategies for creating emotional and physical intimacy, even when life's demands seem overwhelming. Tips in this episode: Understand that feeling like a third wheel after the birth of children is a common phase. It's essential to address the dynamic, rather than ignoring it. Adopt a leadership role in the family by focusing on the needs of both children and your spouse, fostering a supportive and loving environment for all. Engage in meaningful conversations with your spouse about how to sustain and deepen your marital connection amidst the demands of parenting young children. Use the opportunity to exemplify a loving, collaborative, and passionate relationship for your children. Apply for Coaching: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/36081410

225. Shedding Sexual Shame with “Shameless Sex” experts Amy Baldwin and April Lampert 04/09/2025

225. Shedding Sexual Shame with “Shameless Sex” experts Amy Baldwin and April Lampert It's essential to understand that experiences of sexual shame vary greatly, depending on the person and circumstances. Addressing the range of feelings openly is vital for a healthy relationship. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell is joined by April Lampert and Amy Baldwin of "Shameless Sex" to discuss the intricacies of sexual shame, its impact on relationships, and how individuals and couples can navigate towards a more shameless and fulfilling sex life. Together they highlight common misconceptions about sexual shame, and offer practical advice for maintaining passion and intimacy in long-term relationships. They also explore the pervasive nature of shame, from societal pressures to personal traumas, and emphasize the healing power of communication and vulnerability. Tips in this episode: Many people carry unrecognized sexual shame from past experiences and societal norms; addressing these feelings leads to greater pleasure and connection. Open, compassionate dialogue with partners about sexual dissatisfaction and/or shame significantly enhances intimacy and relationship satisfaction. Sharing vulnerabilities and desires without judgment is vital for overcoming shame and achieving a fulfilling sexual relationship. Sexual shame often flourishes in long-term relationships, due to mismatched desires and societal expectations–addressing it is essential to maintain marital passion. About The Guests: Shameless Sex is a groundbreaking podcast that has been releasing nearly 500 episodes weekly since 2017. It is one of the most listened to podcasts in the world and consistently ranks in the top 5 of the sexuality category. More than just a podcast, it's a movement dedicated to normalizing discussions about sex and intimacy while reducing shame. The hosts, April Lampert and Amy Baldwin, are on a mission to empower individuals through various platforms, including their bestselling book, wellness retreats, live "edutainment" variety shows, and interactive workshops. Shameless Sex inspires listeners to embrace consensual pleasure and have more fun and less shame in the bedroom. Connect with April and Amy: shamelesssex.com IG: @ShamelessSexPodcast TT: @ShamelessSexPodcast FB: @ShamelessSexPodcast Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35906330

BONUS: Initiating Successfully 04/04/2025

224. Getting Real about Prioritizing your Marriage 04/02/2025

224. Getting Real about Prioritizing your Marriage People often talk about the importance of “prioritizing your marriage,” but what does that actually mean? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell addresses the common tendency to overlook nurturing emotional intimacy, amidst busy careers and family life. She emphasizes that making time to spend together as a couple is essential, but it’s only the beginning of what it takes to create and maintain a deep, uncompromising intimate bond. Dr. Alexandra explores how couples can overcome challenges, when it comes to prioritizing their marriages, emphasizing a commitment to cultivating emotional intimacy and improving communication skills. She introduces the concept of marriage as a third entity and explains the significance of attending to its needs. She discusses how more emotional intimacy can seamlessly transition into enhanced erotic vitality and sexual fulfillment. Dr. Alexandra gives practical steps for couples to implement today. She also discusses teachings from the Aligned & Hot Marriage Program, which offers specific techniques and exercises to deepen marital intimacy. Tips in this episode: Prioritizing your marriage goes beyond merely spending time together; it involves actively nurturing emotional intimacy and connection. Couples should view their relationship as a 'third entity' that requires dedication and care to flourish and thrive. Emotional intimacy acts as a powerful catalyst for enhancing sensual and erotic connections within a marriage. Dr. Stockwell's Aligned & Hot Marriage Program provides actionable tools, and education, to foster emotional and sexual intimacy in relationships. Even skeptical partners can transform their views and experiences when intentional efforts are made to prioritize the marriage. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35851820

223. How to Successfully Initiate Sex, with Dr. Alexandra and Dr. Rodd Stockwell 03/26/2025

223. How to Successfully Initiate Sex, with Dr. Alexandra and Dr. Rodd Stockwell In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and her husband, Dr. Rodd Stockwell, discuss ways men successfully initiate intimacy with their wives. Drawing on their own experience being married for 29 years, they share how their intimacy dynamics have evolved over the years, and what changed for it to become as wonderful as it is now. They also discuss how their communication skills have been refined over time, and why this is important to the quality and frequency of sex. You’ll learn a lot from this vulnerable episode as Rodd candidly shares his journey, learning how to initiate sex in ways that Alexandra responds to, and his own personal struggles with maintaining intimacy and navigating feelings of rejection, and incompetence Tips in this episode: Despite a lack of helpful guidelines in personal development, growth is achievable through collaborative efforts and shared communication, and guidance. Overcoming feelings of incompetence in initiating intimacy involves changing self-talk, and separating thoughts from facts. Applying skills and confidence from one’s professional life improves romantic relationships. Leadership and decisiveness in a relationship should be balanced with respect and attunement to a partner's needs. Read Dr. Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Sign up for the Masterclass “How to Ask Your Woman for Sex (so she’s more likely to say YES)” Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35747705

222. How to Cultivate Passion in your Intimate Relationship 03/19/2025

222. How to Cultivate Passion in your Intimate Relationship There is a nuanced art to cultivating intimacy in relationships, and in this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks specifically on the topic of how men can initiate sex and intimacy with their women in ways that foster connection and increase passion. Emphasizing the qualities of confidence and leadership, Dr. Alexandra discusses effective ways for a man to initiate sex with his wife so that she’s more likely to say “yes.” These tips help increase the frequency of sexual encounters while also deepening the overall emotional connection between partners. Drawing from her own experiences in her personal life and her work with hundreds of married couples, Dr. Alexandra explores common challenges couples face, such as libido mismatch and ineffective communication. She shares practical strategies for men to improve how they approach the topic of sex with their partners, ensuring their methods are inviting rather than off-putting. Episode highlights: Emotional intimacy is essential for long-term sensual and sexual satisfaction in relationships. Addressing and dispelling myths around libido mismatch empowers couples, with a focus on women taking responsibility for their pleasure. How men approach the topic of sex with their partners can significantly influence their partner’s receptiveness and response. Confidence and attunement are key when asking for sex; it’s important to let go of entitlement and resentment from previous rejections. Read Dr. Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Sign up for the Masterclass “How to Ask Your Woman for Sex (so she’s more likely to say YES)” Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35632940

221. Stop Assuming! (It Hinders Intimacy in Marriage) 03/12/2025

221. Stop Assuming! (It Hinders Intimacy in Marriage) Making assumptions impacts intimacy and connection in marriage in crucial ways. In this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell discusses why assumptions are dangerous; she teaches that the act of getting curious and asking questions is a small but powerful alternative to making potentially inaccurate assumptions. Opening up about true feelings and desires will create clear communication with your partner, thus avoiding invisible barriers in your marriage brought on by making assumptions. This episode teaches you to recognize your assumptions, in order to uncover the real truths about your and your partner’s feelings, preferences, and love languages. Embracing this honest communication will transform your marital bond and lead you toward true passion and uncompromising intimacy. Tips in this episode: Assumptions lead to misinterpretations of a partner's desires and intentions, which causes unnecessary conflict. Address assumptions by engaging in open conversations in order to accurately understand a partner's thoughts, feelings, and preferences. Directly discussing love languages provides significant insights and helps you tailor your actions so they resonate with your partner. Recognizing and questioning internal assumptions elevates personal understanding and fosters genuine connection with self and others. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35560445

220. Reviving Affection in Marriage 03/05/2025

220. Reviving Affection in Marriage Affection is one of the most valuable ways to connect in a relationship, and in this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell talks about its importance and how couples can revive affection in marriage. Whether affection in your marriage is dwindling, or you're looking to establish it for the first time, this episode provides a roadmap to enhance your emotional and physical connection through reviving affection. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of clear communication, discussing desires openly as a couple, and stripping affection of any transactional nature, especially tied to sexual intimacy. She shares insightful, effective strategies to reinvigorate touch and tenderness in your marital relationship. Tips in this episode: Don’t wait for your partner to read your mind. Be the first to extend affection in a calibrative, gentle manner that suits your current relationship dynamic. Have a conversation with your partner about wanting more affection, ensuring you both are aligned so it doesn't come as a surprise when you start touching more. Redefine affection as an end in itself, not just a prelude to sexual activity. Enjoy the intimacy of simple, non-sexual touches. Engage in an exercise where each partner showcases the type of affection they prefer, promoting mutual understanding and harmony in touch. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35418870

219. Keeping the Fire Alive in Long-Term Relationships, with Pamela Madsen 02/26/2025

219. Keeping the Fire Alive in Long-Term Relationships, with Pamela Madsen In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Pamela Madsen dive into the complexities of maintaining passion in long-term relationships. They explore the crucial components that are required to rekindle desire and excitement in marriage, especially when things have grown stale over time. Pamela Madsen shares her expert insights on why nurturing your own body and desires is foundational to enhancing erotic vitality with your partner. Addressing the common misconception that both people need to change for the relationship to improve, Pamela advocates for personal exploration of erotic needs and learning how to communicate them effectively with your partner. They address the importance of maintaining "fire" in a relationship through spontaneity, and unpredictable yet intimate gestures. They discuss actionable strategies for couples to explore sexual dynamics, such as using date nights to creatively explore sensual desires through games and shared experiences, all with the aim of rekindling intimacy and passion. Tips in this episode: Begin by understanding your own body and desires before attempting to change or influence your partner. This self-awareness creates a more erotic and confident presence in your relationship. Learn to express what you need erotically without expecting immediate changes from your partner. Effective communication and small, actionable steps lead to increased intimacy. Use games or selected tools like intimate shopping excursions to understand and fulfill each other's sexual needs and desires, ensuring a safe environment where both partners feel comfortable to express their yearnings. Reflect on personal erotic discoveries and integrate them into daily life, maintaining boundaries and ensuring your personal sensual growth benefits your partnership. About Pamela Madsen: Pamela Madsen, a somatic wellness educator, has captivated women worldwide with her transformative approach to self-discovery and intimate connection. Combining both her master’s degree in education and her certificates in sexological bodywork, Pamela's expertise extends far beyond conventional boundaries, earning her the title of a true trailblazer in the realm of women's wellness. As the brilliant mind behind Back to the Body™, Pamela has dedicated over a decade to helping women reclaim their bodies and reignite their desires. What sets Pamela's retreats apart is her unique formula of immersive, week-long experiences that revolve around bodywork and somatic healing. Through her work, she has witnessed women emerging from the shadows of eating disorders, liberating themselves from toxic relationships, and embarking on profound spiritual journeys. Learn more About Back to the Body: Instagram: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BacktotheBody/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35252290

218. How to Navigate Mismatched Sexual Desire 02/19/2025

218. How to Navigate Mismatched Sexual Desire In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the complexities of mismatched sexual desire in long-term relationships. Highlighting the power of emotional intimacy as a pathway to sexual connection, Dr. Alexandra emphasizes that deep emotional bonds can enhance and elevate sexual experiences in committed partnerships. She also highlights the power of non-sexual foreplay in deepening emotional connections, laying the groundwork for more fulfilling sexual intimacy. This episode encourages listeners to become curious and proactive in discovering and nurturing responsive desire, which can often bloom with the right approach and understanding. Highlighted in this episode: Emotional intimacy acts as a foundational bridge to sexual intimacy in committed relationships. Differentiating between spontaneous and responsive sexual desires is crucial in aligning mismatched sex drives. Enhancing emotional connection can lead to more satisfying sexual experiences. Slowing down and focusing on the partner’s comfort can create more fulfilling sexual encounters, especially where desires mismatch. Addressing performance anxiety through open communication can improve intimacy and connection. Learn More About Uncompromising Intimacy: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35242625

217. How to Love a Strong Woman with Dr. Rodd Stockwell 02/12/2025

217. How to Love a Strong Woman with Dr. Rodd Stockwell Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's husband, Dr Rodd Stockwell, is back on the Intimate Marriage Podcast for a lively discussion on the challenges, and delights, of loving and supporting a strong, powerful woman. Listen as Dr. Alexandra opens up about her transformative journey from conforming to societal pressures to embracing her full, powerful self within her marriage. Dr. Rodd adds to the conversation by detailing his own evolution, emphasizing the critical role of fostering a safe and supportive environment for his partner. Together, they explore the delicate balance of personal expression and connection, underscoring the significance of mutual support in nurturing a thriving marriage. Throughout the episode, you’ll learn about personal responsibility, societal expectations, and the unique dynamics involved in supporting a powerful woman in her professional and personal realms. Join Drs. Alexandra and Rodd as they share their insights on how embracing individual growth within a relationship profoundly enhances marital intimacy. Tips in this episode: Personal growth is essential in maintaining a supportive and authentic relationship, as is encouraging partners to embrace their full selves. Navigating societal expectations and fears is critical for women seeking to express their power and ambitions, both personally and professionally. Providing a stable, internal sense of security can reshape relationship dynamics and foster an environment where both partners thrive. Recognizing and overcoming gender stereotypes enables couples to create a harmonious balance, enhancing intimacy and connection in extraordinary ways. Contact Dr Alexandra: Apply for Relationship and Intimacy Coaching: Read Uncompromising Intimacy: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35071565

216. 2 Strategies to Heat Up Intimacy this Valentine’s Day 02/05/2025

216. 2 Strategies to Heat Up Intimacy this Valentine’s Day Are you ready to transform your Valentine's Day from ordinary, even disappointing, to unforgettable? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell unveils the secrets to enduring intimacy in your relationship, just in time for the holiday of love. She focuses on two unique and actionable strategies that will help you curate celebrations that are not only memorable but deeply fulfilling. Valentine’s Day sometimes creates a sense of pressure on a couple, as they each have different expectations and hopes for their celebration. Some couples exchange gifts, some plan a romantic dinner, some go out, some stay home. In this Valentine’s Day episode, Dr. Alexandra will show you that it doesn’t really matter what you do on Valentine’s Day, so long as you are both on the same page, feeling connected. Get ready to rethink the conventional ways of celebrating Valentine’s Day as Dr. Alexandra empowers you to create moments that are as pleasurable as they are meaningful. You’ll also learn why: Valentine's Day is a profound opportunity for couples to deepen their intimacy and connection. Preparing and planning creatively for Valentine's Day will make the celebration far more enjoyable and fulfilling. Genuine relationship transformation comes from intentional actions and mutual enjoyment. Make your Valentine's Special with Dr Alexandra’s Free Course: Get The Intimate Experience Date Night Box Subscription and Use. code IntimateMarriage for 20% off: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/35064090

215. Elite Communication Strategies for a Stronger Marriage 01/29/2025

215. Elite Communication Strategies for a Stronger Marriage Communication is the key to a long and healthy marriage. That’s why in this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores communication strategies for a stronger marriage. There are many challenges when it comes to successful communication in marriage, including misunderstandings and mismatched intentions. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of being clear about the type of conversation you’re about to have with your partner in order to create a win-win outcome. You’ll also learn the pros and cons of different conversation types—whether it's logistical planning, venting, or vulnerable sharing—and how each one contributes to a healthier relationship. Through relatable anecdotes and actionable insights, you will gain practical tools to enhance the communication in your marriage, deepening your connection with your spouse. Specific tips in this episode: For couples where one partner tends to be more expressive, setting a clear timeframe for discussions can prevent feelings of being trapped. Stop conversations while in a harmonious state, rather than waiting for things to become contentious, to better foster trust and openness for future discussions. Recognize that communication needs vary among couples depending on life stage, such as having young children or business co-ownership. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/34882700

214. 6 Key Qualities for a Thriving Marriage 01/22/2025

214. 6 Key Qualities for a Thriving Marriage Are you a high achiever who sometimes feels stagnant or disconnected in your relationships? In this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell offers actionable guidance to create a thriving marriage that balances professional success with deep emotional connection, reigniting the passion and intimacy in your marriage and in your life. You’ll learn about the six essential qualities for building an extraordinary marriage: curiosity, honesty, kindness, happiness, responsibility and growth, so you can build the skills needed for having a truly fulfilling relationship. Join Dr. Alexandra as she shares personal insights and real-life success stories of couples who have embraced these principles and transformed their marriages. Whether your relationship is thriving or struggling, this episode will provide you with the tools and wisdom needed to deepen intimacy and create a marriage that fosters both personal and relational growth. You’ll also learn: How to use open-ended questions to cultivate curiosity, leading to deeper understanding and connection with your partner What the difference is between vulnerable honesty and brutal honesty and how to use honesty to create a vibrant relationship Why taking 100% responsibility for your relationship's quality can completely transform the dynamic in your marriage How to engage proactively with your partner The principles outlined in Dr. Alexandra Stockwell’s book, Uncompromising Intimacy Learn More About Uncompromising Intimacy: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/34831990

213. Love is Blind Stars Bliss and Zack Goytowski on How Vulnerability Transforms a Relationship 01/15/2025

213. Love is Blind Stars Bliss and Zack Goytowski on How Vulnerability Transforms a Relationship Bliss & Zack Goytowski, from Love Is Blind Season 4, speak about the transformative power of Love Is Blind with Dr. Alexandra Stockwell in this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast. They share how their deep emotional connection grew with vulnerability and open communication before they even saw one another. Reflecting on their time in the pods, Bliss and Zack discuss how the unique experience of reality TV served them to foster personal growth, trust in one another, and the formation of a shared vision for their future. The conversation touches on themes of sacrifice, overcoming challenges, and the critical role of vulnerability and emotional intimacy in building a strong, lasting partnership. This episode offers valuable insights for anyone looking to deepen their connection and strengthen their relationship, without the need to be on Love Is Blind to make it happen! Also in this episode: Emotional vulnerability is easier to access when visual judgments are removed, allowing for deeper connections to form. Shared vision, common goals, and doing what it takes to make them happen, are essential in maintaining a strong relationship. Honest communication about fears and desires builds trust, as exemplified by Zack's transparency with Bliss. About the Guests: Zack and Bliss Goytowski are a dynamic couple who met and married on Season 4 of the hit reality series Love is Blind. Their journey, which started in the pods, has been a testament to the power of emotional connection and vulnerability in relationships. Since their marriage, they’ve been navigating life together and recently welcomed their first child. In addition to their growing family, Bliss and Zack are the hosts of the podcast Blind Love, where they dive into the realities of building a relationship outside of the typical dating framework. On the show, they explore themes of love, growth, vulnerability, and the challenges of maintaining a strong partnership while in the spotlight. Connect with them on social media: @blindlovepodcast @blisspoureetezadi @zackgoytowski Check out their podcast . Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/34754440

212. Reignite Passion in Your Marriage 01/08/2025

211. Strategies to Rekindle Intimacy Postpartum (that apply any time there’s been a hiatus) 01/01/2025

211. Strategies to Rekindle Intimacy Postpartum (that apply any time there’s been a hiatus) In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the challenges couples face when rekindling intimacy after a prolonged sexual hiatus. She offers practical advice for reconnecting emotionally, and physically, whether postpartum or during other life circumstances that disrupt a couple’s sex life. Dr. Alexandra addresses medical conditions, parenthood, emotional barriers, and other reasons there might be prolonged sexual inactivity, providing strategies to rebuild both physical and emotional intimacy. She emphasizes the importance of authenticity, open communication, and embracing vulnerability in restoring healthy intimacy. Key strategies include approaching reconnection like a "first date" to ease awkwardness, communicating concerns without blame, and adopting a slow, mindful approach to touch, which she refers to as "sensual meditation." These insights are designed to help couples navigate the complexities of reigniting passion and intimacy after an unintended break. Also in this episode: Rekindling Intimacy: Address the challenges of resuming sexual activity after prolonged breaks due to health or family conditions. Role Play as a First Date: Engaging in a 'first date' scenario can ease awkwardness and facilitate natural reconnection. Slow and Intentional Connection: Emphasizing slow, sensual interactions can help reignite passion and smooth out initial awkwardness. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/34529035

210. Reigniting Passion: How to Transform a Sexless Marriage and Rebuild Emotional Intimacy 12/25/2024

210. Reigniting Passion: How to Transform a Sexless Marriage and Rebuild Emotional Intimacy In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the challenges of a sexless marriage and explores how emotional intimacy is key to reigniting passion. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes that emotional intimacy forms the foundation for a fulfilling relationship and shares actionable strategies, including exercises designed to restore both sexual and emotional intimacy. She highlights the importance of nurturing emotional bonds to overcome physical and emotional barriers, advocating for a proactive approach to reignite passion and rejuvenate long-term relationships. With a focus on emotional intimacy, sexless marriage, and relationship rejuvenation, Dr. Alexandra shows couples how to break through intimacy inhibitors and create a deeper, more passionate connection. Also in this episode: Emotional intimacy is the bedrock of a fulfilling marriage, enabling partners to be genuinely seen and cherished. The key to overcoming a sexless marriage lies in mutual intention and deliberate efforts toward reconnection. Structured exercises, such as setting a timer for intimate interaction, can gradually rebuild sexual connections. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/34499340

209. Overcome Intimacy Blockers: Letting go of Resistance to Embrace Passion, with Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian 12/18/2024

209. Overcome Intimacy Blockers: Letting go of Resistance to Embrace Passion, with Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Many couples deal with a variety of intimacy blockers, resulting in diminished intimacy and erosion of passion. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, host Alexandra Stockwell MD, delves into this topic with guests Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clark. The discussion covers key aspects of intimate relationships including attachment styles, boundaries, and ways to sustain meaningful connection. They offer actionable strategies to overcome barriers like emotional discomfort, attachment challenges, and misperceptions of failure. Drawing from personal experiences and professional expertise, they unpack the psychology of sexual dynamics, explore how to shift from feeling pressure to enjoying connection, and share practical techniques to nurture lasting passion and fulfillment in long-term relationships. Also in this episode: Intimate relationships serve as potent avenues for personal growth, providing unique opportunities for self-discovery and development. Managing pressure in sexual encounters involves recognizing and naming feelings, allowing partners to alleviate stress and foster genuine connection. Understanding distinct attachment styles and boundaries significantly contributes to a relationship's health and longevity. About the Guests: Dr. Alison Ash, known as Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach, educator, and author, as well as a Stanford University Lecturer. With a PhD in Sociology from Stanford, Dr. Aly has deep expertise in the societal challenges that contribute to disempowering and unsatisfying intimate experiences. She is the founder of TurnON.love, a platform dedicated to empowering individuals and couples through intimacy coaching and education. Dr. Aly brings extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, the Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and the Somatica Method to help her clients navigate complex emotional landscapes. Sebastian is a skilled sex and intimacy coach and educator with nearly two decades of experience. Trained by The Sexual Health Alliance, Seb specializes in helping individuals, particularly those who are neurodiverse, express their needs and cultivate healthy relationships. His work centers on trauma-informed approaches to communication, intimacy, and nervous system regulation. Together, Dr. Aly and Seb empower people to create fulfilling and authentic intimate experiences with compassion and understanding. Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "intimatemarriage" for $75 off! For her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy. For on-demand workshops visit www.TurnON.love/workshops Finally for intimacy coaching, visit Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/34466370

208. How High-Achieving Couples CAN Have It All 12/11/2024

207. From Strife to Strength, with Meygan and Casey Caston of Marriage365 12/04/2024

207. From Strife to Strength, with Meygan and Casey Caston of Marriage365 Practical insights for cultivating strong, intimate relationships is the focus for this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Alexandra Stockwell, MD, and Meygan and Casey Caston, founders of Marriage365. The Castons share their remarkable journey from the brink of divorce to becoming relatable, trusted authorities in marital communication. Driven by their own search for healthier relationship tools, they discuss the origins of Marriage365, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and effective communication as cornerstones of a successful marriage. Along the way, they provide actionable strategies for navigating challenges like dealing with in-laws and setting personalized boundaries. Highlighting the value of tailoring boundaries to each couple's needs, they offer tips such as developing unique "code words" and guidelines for sharing personal matters--it’s a must-listen for couples wanting to deepen their connection. Also in this episode: For effective conflict resolution, learn how to pause difficult conversations while they are still productive, and revisit them later. Utilize "code words" or pre-planned signals with your partner to navigate uncomfortable social situations or family gatherings. Establish clear boundaries around what personal information is shared with family members. Learn how to navigate these differences, foster connection, and create a thriving, intimate relationship without sacrificing your individuality. Listen now for actionable insights and transformative advice: About the Guests: Just three years into their marriage, the founders of Marriage365 Casey & Meygan Caston found themselves at rock bottom—voted the couple least likely to succeed and on the brink of divorce. With no affordable or accessible resources to guide them, they struggled through trial and error to rebuild their connection and restore their relationship. That journey became the inspiration for Marriage365, a platform designed to help couples around the world reconnect and thrive. Today, their app and website provide practical tools, advice, and inspiration to millions, creating a safe, accessible space for personal and relational growth. Their mission is to ensure that everyone, regardless of money or privilege, has access to the resources they need to build healthier relationships. Learn more at or follow them on Instagram Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/34167270

206. Tapping into your Orgasmic Potential (Q & A) 11/27/2024

205. How to Sustain a Healthy Relationship 11/20/2024

204. Resolving Arousal Mismatch with Susan Bratton 11/13/2024

204. Resolving Arousal Mismatch with Susan Bratton Susan Bratton joins Alexandra Stockwell, MD, on the Intimate Marriage Podcast, to explore the concept of arousal, arousal differences and the art of intimate relating. They discuss the complexities of sexual and emotional fulfillment in long-term relationships, offering practical advice, and describing innovative techniques designed to reignite passion. Susan highlights the significance of recognizing the innate differences in male and female arousal patterns and addresses the negative impact societal repression has on sexual health. She introduces powerful tools such as yoni massage and making small offers to help couples cultivate a deeper, more satisfying connection. In sharing these strategies, Dr. Alexandra and Susan guide listeners on a transformative journey setting out with routine sexual experiences and arriving at ecstatic pleasure. Also in this episode: Deepen your understanding of the difference between a man’s quicker arousal patterns and a woman’s need for safety as doing so is crucial for mutual satisfaction. A vibrant and varied sex life is possible in monogamous relationships by focusing on mutual understanding and innovative practices. Communication is key to evolving sexual experiences, including verbal exchange about desires and physical responses to what is happening. Enhance Sensual Intimacy with Foria Wellness products! Unlock new levels of intimacy and wellness with Foria products which are designed to bring balance and pleasure to your relationship. Whether you're looking to explore natural enhancements or deepen your connection, Foria offers a range of wellness solutions crafted with care. 👉 Discover Foria’s transformative products here: The following Intimate Marriage Podcast episodes are referenced in the episode: Understanding the Complexity of Sexual Differences Between Men and Women – A deep dive into arousal differences and how understanding them can enhance intimacy. Embodied Sexuality: Connecting with Your Partner Through Satisfying Experiences – Discover how to foster a more fulfilling connection with your partner. Explore, connect, and transform your relationship today Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/33846847

203. A Brave Conversation About the Relational Impact of Porn Addiction 11/06/2024

203. A Brave Conversation About the Relational Impact of Porn Addiction In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the effects of porn addiction with a man in his twenties who became addicted in fourth grade. In a candid and revealing discussion, this anonymous guest shares the impact on his intimate relationships in adulthood. The conversation delves into the complexities of porn’s influence, highlighting initial exposure at a young age, his subsequent struggle with addiction, and the profound impact it has had on his real-life experiences with women. This conversation is remarkable because it addresses the hidden challenges many face privately, while evoking the intersection of addiction, intimacy, and personal growth. In a society where pornography is both pervasive and shrouded in secrecy and shame, this episode sheds light on its significant impact. Dr. Alexandra and her guest emphasize the importance of genuine connection and open communication for fulfillment in intimate relationships. Also in this episode: Exposure to pornography at a young age is complicated and profoundly affects perceptions of women, intimacy and relationships. Changes in a sexual relationship over time are natural; communication is key to adapting and maintaining intimacy. Open conversations about pornography, without guilt and shame, foster mutual understanding and healthier relationship dynamics. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/33814702

202. How Intimacy Coaching Elevates Successful Relationships 10/30/2024

202. How Intimacy Coaching Elevates Successful Relationships In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, dives into how intimacy coaching profoundly transforms relationships. She identifies common misconceptions prevalent in traditional counseling methods, and highlights the critical roles of authenticity and emotional connection in achieving marital success. By shifting the focus from behavior modification to fostering confidence, curiosity, and deeper connection, Dr. Alexandra gives the recipe for how educated, successful individuals can elevate their romantic lives. In the process, she outlines the significant benefits of intimacy coaching experienced by smart, high-achieving couples wanting to elevate their relationships. She describes what you can do to ignite both emotional and physical intimacy, emphasizing the importance of enjoying your relationship journey rather than simply aiming to reach a destination. Also in this episode: Intimacy coaching focuses on cultivating emotional connection and authenticity, rather than prioritizing behavior modification. Successful individuals learn to apply their winning strategies to enhance their romantic relationships. Rather than making yourself smaller, Dr. Alexandra will teach you to build on your strengths and successes, something oddly lacking with most counseling methods. The Aligned and Hot Marriage Program offers universal principles adaptable to any couple looking to elevate their relationship. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/33638957

201. The Potency of Playfulness for Building Intimacy (Get Ready for Halloween!) 10/23/2024

201. The Potency of Playfulness for Building Intimacy (Get Ready for Halloween!) In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores playfulness in intimacy, discussing the use of costumes and role play to re-ignite the marital spark and enrich sexual encounters. It’s an especially timely topic with Halloween around the corner. Familiar roles in the bedroom tend to limit sexual expression-breaking free from them through embodying new personas can help couples deepen their connection and discover new aspects of their personalities. Dr. Stockwell shares real-life examples of couples who transformed their intimacy through role play. She notes that Halloween creates the perfect occasion to strengthen emotional and physical bonds through engaging in imaginative exploration, in ways that enhance your sexual repertoire. Also in this episode: Embracing playful exploration invites unexpressed aspects of one's personality into the bedroom, thus enriching the partnership. There is an important distinction between healthy roleplay and the misuse of power dynamics. Expanding self-expression is not limited to the bedroom and everyday interactions benefit as well. Mindfold Blindfold – Perfect for Halloween Intimacy Elevate your intimacy with the Mindfold Blindfold; it offers a total blackout experience that is ideal for enjoying sensory play and enhancing intimate encounters. Whatever new elements you add to your intimate moments, the Mindfold Blindfold is the perfect tool to ignite your imagination and deepen your erotic connection. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully: Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her: This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By: /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/33545362

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