The Intimate Marriage Podcast

Hot sex and deep, nuanced connection for smart, successful couples. In the context of a committed marriage, everything that isn’t sex functions as foreplay, because every interaction either brings you closer together or pushes you farther apart. Join Alexandra Stockwell, MD, aka “The Intimacy Doctor,” to learn small, potent shifts in your everyday interactions that will lead to juicy, nourishing intimacy. Discover how good your relationship really can be! * Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. www.alignedhotmarriage.com Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected—it’s where she shares her latest insights and offers opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe __________________________ Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over 20 years she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life: from the daily grind of running a household, to intimate communication and ecstatic experiences in the bedroom–all while maintaining professional success! A wife of 27 years and a mother of 4, Dr. Alexandra believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy and success, isn’t compromise--it’s being unwilling to compromise. Because when both people feel free to be themselves, the relationship becomes juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying. Dr. Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, USAToday, Cosmopolitan, Business Insider, thriveglobal, mindbodygreen, FOX NEWS NYC, and Disruptors Magazine named her one of “30 Inspiring Women to Watch in 2022.”

127. Love Is Not Enough to Create A Dream Marriage 05/24/2023

127. Love Is Not Enough to Create A Dream Marriage In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, considers that love is not enough. We want it to be, but many couples love one another and it’s not enough to enjoy their dream marriage. She discusses the importance of relationship skills, personal growth, and being willing to understand your partner better in order to create nourishing, connected, joyful experiences. She delves into ways our childhoods shape our perception of love and influence our response to our spouse. She emphasizes that these are learnable skills, requiring courage and openness to grow. Key skills include cultivating curiosity, asking open-ended questions, and understanding how your spouse experiences love. Lastly, Alexandra addresses the challenge of aligning emotional and sexual intimacy and offers suggestions to bridge the gap. Also in this episode: Why love isn’t enough for a marriage to flourish The difference between love experienced by an adult and love experienced by a child Learning how to have a fantastic relationship is totally within reach Transformation begins with cultivating curiosity Connect with your spouse by conveying that they are deeply loved Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26890392

126. Reframing Our Approach To Sexual Intimacy In Terms of Expectations, Stigmas, and STDs: Holistic Sexual Health From A Family Medicine Physician and Sex Coach | With Dr. Tiff Cagle 05/17/2023

126. Reframing Our Approach To Sexual Intimacy In Terms of Expectations, Stigmas, and STDs: Holistic Sexual Health From A Family Medicine Physician and Sex Coach | With Dr. Tiff Cagle In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Tiff Cagle, a board-certified family medicine physician, sex educator, and coach. Dr. Cagle talks about her passion for providing care through the lens of a person's mind, body, intimacy, relationships, and community. Dr. Cagle also shares her experience in decreasing stigma around sex and providing HIV testing and counseling. Dr. Cagle discusses sexual concerns including erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, orgasm difficulties, desire discrepancies, and living with sexually transmitted infections. She also provides tips on how to manage herpes in a committed relationship and describes the start-stop method for overcoming premature ejaculation. Dr. Cagle emphasizes the importance of clarifying expectations and refining perceptions when navigating sexual concerns. Also in this episode: The importance of mentorship and sexual health How to deal with sexual health concerns like Herpes Treating premature ejaculation and discussing it with your partner The three principles of sensate focus in sex therapy The importance of undressing yourself when being intimate How partners can start touching one another The first three phases of sexual exploration About Dr. Tiff Cagle Tiff Cagle, MD (she/they/Dr.) is a board-certified family medicine physician, sex educator, and certified coach from Durham, North Carolina. Like many others, she grew up in an environment where conversations about sex were rare and almost always centered around shame. Through challenging the sex-negative attitudes she was taught, she developed a passion for helping others feel empowered to embrace their authentic self. Dr. Cagle chose to specialize in family medicine because of her desire to provide care through the lens of each person’s mind, body, relationships, and community. After years of traditional medical practice, she’s now bringing this holistic approach to her work in sexual health. She received her medical degree from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Medicine, where she first discovered her passion for decreasing stigma around sex while providing HIV testing and counseling. She went on to complete her residency training at Duke University Hospital with a concentration in Law, Ethics, and Health Policy, and now holds a consulting position in Duke’s Department of Community and Family Medicine providing resident lectures and mentorship. Contact Dr. Tiff Cagle Website: https://sensatehealthnc.com/ Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26708379

125. Wait, How Long Has Kevin Bacon Been Married To Kyra Sedgwick? Secrets We Can Learn From Their 34-Year Marriage 05/10/2023

125. Wait, How Long Has Kevin Bacon Been Married To Kyra Sedgwick? Secrets We Can Learn From Their 34-Year Marriage In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses how long Kevin Bacon has been married to Kyra Sedgwick and why she thinks they have been able to create their remarkable love story for the past 34 years! Alexandra is excited to talk about Kyra Sedgwick and Kevin Bacon because they are an attractive celebrity couple who have built a successful marriage and have raised a family together. She discusses their secrets to lasting love and offers insights into what it takes to enjoy a happy, fulfilling marriage. Alexandra also shares how hard it is to find couples to look up to as role models, and emphasizes how important it is for inspiration and emulation. Through that lens, she talks about how she and her husband navigated being children of divorced parents and how that influenced them to find a way to create a relationship filled with intimacy, passion, and connection. Also in this episode: Celebrity couples who inspire Alexandra Learning about relationships through role models Becoming your partner’s biggest fan Kevin and Kyra’s different roles in their marriage There is a version of this even if you’re not a movie star Making sure you have enough elasticity and stability to be creative Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26708154

124. Constructive Conflict: How We Can All Resolve Conflict Productively Today and Start Dismantling Racism For The Future | w/ Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle 05/03/2023

124. Constructive Conflict: How We Can All Resolve Conflict Productively Today and Start Dismantling Racism For The Future | w/ Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle, a conflict resolution strategist. Conflict is inevitable and Lynne talks about how she helps people engage in constructive conflict, instead of running from it. In this conversation the focus is on conflict in marriage, and in the workplace, between any two people and specifically interracial couples. Lynne recommends people engage in conversations with those they are in conflict with, aiming to be vulnerable and staying open to listening. She describes her program, On the Matter of Race, which was created to teach white people about racism and how to dismantle it. The program was inspired by a request from two white women who wanted to understand the experiences of people of color, and how to be effective allies. Lynne clearly articulates the need for white people to understand their role in addressing and dismantling racism and has devoted her life to helping make that happen, at both the personal and societal levels. Also in this episode: Why conflict presents an opportunity Why we are scared of conflict Racism and interracial marriages The merging of the present moment and personal history Dr. Lynne’s program called “On The Matter Of Race” Why racism is global Diversity, equity, and inclusion How to be an ally to others in the workplace About Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle is a conflict resolution strategist, facilitator, speaker, and coach. In addition, she is the author of the best-seller, “Closing Conflict for Leaders: How to Be a Bold Leader and Develop a Kick-Ass, High-Functioning, Happy AF Team”. In many circles, she is known as The Conflict Closer, not just because she helps leaders gain the skills they need to dig deep and finally close the door on those conflicts that have been plaguing their business for too long, but also because she helps bring conflict closer. She helps you bring conflict close enough to examine its roots, the fruits of it, and the long-lasting effects it has on your business and your life. She makes it less scary by helping you to actually see it, get to know it, and be in a relationship with it. Because it is only then that you can use it to help you and your team transform. She has helped a lot of people transform in her thirty-plus years of doing this work and that’s because, through a mix of different styles and methods, she makes it interesting and fun. Connect With Dr. Lynne Maureen Hurdle Website: On the Matter of Race: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26682468

123. The Emasculation of Men Is Not Necessary: Overcoming Societal Pressures and Finding Authentic Connection in Relationships and Friendships | w/ Connor Beaton 04/26/2023

123. The Emasculation of Men Is Not Necessary: Overcoming Societal Pressures and Finding Authentic Connection in Relationships and Friendships | w/ Connor Beaton In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Connor Beaton, the founder of ManTalks, to discuss the emasculation of men and how they can have real conversations with their partners and friends. Despite appearing to have a perfect life, Connor hit rock bottom while struggling with addictions and dishonesty. He eventually found a mentor who taught him yoga, psychology, cognitive behavioral therapy, and shadow work. When he opened up to his male friends about his struggles, he found they didn’t know how to respond and were used to conversations which lacked depth and substance. This realization inspired him to create ways for men to connect with one another and their partners, in meaningful ways that don’t compromise their strength. Connor helps men open up to one another, and their partners, without feeling emasculated. Instead, they flourish from doing so. Also in this episode: How a man can find a mentor Struggles with addiction, porn, lying and cheating “When the student is ready, the master will appear” How a good man finds his voice in marriage Men are more isolated than ever and that’s why it’s important for them to be around other men The importance of doing shadow work About Connor Beaton Connor Beaton is the founder of ManTalks, an international organization focused on men’s wellness, success, and fulfillment. He is a coach, facilitator, teacher, podcast host and speaker helping men from all over the world find purpose, healthy love, a joy-filled life, and fulfilling sexual connection. His teachings draw from an in depth apprenticeship in Jungian psychology, Gestalt, Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, and both Buddhist and Taoist traditions. Connor has a no-BS approach coupled with compassionate understanding of our own human limitations. He has coached thousands of men through private coaching, group work, workshops, retreats and masterminds, and has shared the stage with world class speakers like Gary Vaynerchuk, Lewis Howes, Danielle LaPorte, and many more. Connect With Connor Beaton mantalks.com/book Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26603694

122. Licensed Therapists Become Clients: Exploring Physical Intimacy And Feeling Vulnerable Amidst Parenthood And Life’s Many Stressors | w/ EJ & Tarah Kerwin 04/19/2023

122. Licensed Therapists Become Clients: Exploring Physical Intimacy And Feeling Vulnerable Amidst Parenthood And Life’s Many Stressors | w/ EJ & Tarah Kerwin In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by EJ & Tarah Kerwin, licensed therapists wanting to expand their sensual intimacy and explore feeling vulnerable within their loving marriage. As professionals, EJ and Tarah often use the power of sharing vulnerably to help guide other couples in their relationships and this episode is no exception. They show up for me to coach them on this tender topic in a way that others can learn from. As you listen, you will hear EJ and Tarah participate as clients and also as the highly qualified professionals they are - EJ is a licensed professional counselor and Tarah is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. They both specialize in couples therapy. They fell in love while working at a counseling facility and are now raising a blended family, navigating their own challenges, and helping others with skillful devotion. Also in this episode: How EJ and Tarah got into the field of therapy Their love story Why they sometimes intimidate each other without meaning to Tarah’s discovery of sexual abuse and its impact on the intimacy in their marriage Dealing with loneliness and rejection within a loving marriage Asking for intimacy and what that entails for all couples Taking pleasure from touching your spouse Becoming more intentional with non-sexual and sexual touch Stay Connected With EJ & Tarah Kerwin Website: https://relationshiprenovation.com Social Channels: https://linktr.ee/relationshiprenovation Podcast: https://relationshiprenovation.com/category/podcast-only/ About EJ & Tarah Kerwin EJ is a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Tarah is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist; both specialize in couples’ therapy. They met while working at another counseling facility, fell in love, got married, and are currently raising a blended family together. They now own and operate the Relationship Renovation Counseling Center and host a podcast that explores various topics concerning all they have learned in the process. They discuss both the joys and the challenges of navigating intimate relationships. Their goal is to help couples better understand themselves and each other in a more fulfilling manner. They are passionate about their work and strive to help couples feel secure and happy in their relationship. They know that when relationships are connected and secure, the everyday stresses of life become much more manageable. They also know cultivating a healthy, loving relationship takes insight, intentionality, and work. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Download the first chapter of Dr. Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26510736

121. Redefining Love: Overcoming Blended Family Issues And Letting Go of Expectations For A Truly Successful Marriage | w/ Vince and Krystina Shirey 04/12/2023

121. Redefining Love: Overcoming Blended Family Issues And Letting Go of Expectations For A Truly Successful Marriage | w/ Vince and Krystina Shirey In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by Vince and Krystina Shirey to discuss the many blended family issues they faced when they got married and combined their families. They also talk about how they learned to let go of expectations in order to have a happier marriage. A pervasive challenge faced by couples when blending a family concerns the delicate balance between prioritizing the children’s needs and wellbeing versus prioritizing one another in the marriage. Unfortunately, societal norms and unconscious biases are unhelpful when navigating all the important considerations. The truth is, in a successful marriage with children, it’s not either-or and it’s key to aim for a harmonious balance. It is crucial to prioritize the marriage while also maintaining a strong bond with the children, which is an inherently lifelong commitment. Whether you’re in a blended family or not, how do you and your partner prioritize your marriage while also maintaining a strong bond with your children? Also in this episode: The challenges of blended families and being a blended family The importance of non-negotiable dates Why you need to start letting go of expectations How to deal with the pressure of your marriage Why sexuality is incompatible with pressure from your spouse Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD: | | Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26467059

120. Embracing Vulnerability and Maintaining Your Relationship | w/ New York Times Bestselling Author Laura Doyle 04/05/2023

120. Embracing Vulnerability and Maintaining Your Relationship | w/ New York Times Bestselling Author Laura Doyle In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, is joined by New York Times best-selling author, Laura Doyle, to talk about vulnerability and intimacy in marriage. While discussing her latest book, "The Empowered Wife," Laura shares her experiences and perspectives, while focusing on the importance of vulnerability in relationships. She explains that opening up to one's partner leads to deeper intimacy and a stronger connection. Laura has an inspiring personal story as well as a lot of insight into the painful mistakes wives make when trying to get time, attention, and affection from their husbands. Also in this episode: Laura’s book “The Empowered Wife” Coping with rage and understanding where it stems from How to express your desires in a way that inspires Why marriage is the best self-improvement project The turning point in Laura’s marriage The professional woman’s dilemma The fear of vulnerability and learning to embrace vulnerability About Laura Doyle I wrote a book about what I learned and it went to #1 on Amazon, became a New York Times bestseller, and was translated into 19 languages in 30 countries. That’s how I accidentally started a worldwide movement of women who practice The Six Intimacy Skills™ that make relationships playful and passionate, which started me on the mission to end world divorce. I wrote more books, including my latest, The Empowered Wife, started an international relationship coaching school, hosted The Empowered Wife Podcast and starred in the Empowered Wives series on Amazon Prime. But the thing I’m most proud of in the whole world? It’s my playful, passionate, 30-year marriage with my hilarious husband John, who has been dressing himself since before I was born. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26321856

119. Celebrating 100K Downloads And Discussing The Importance Of Being Present In All Of Life’s Relationships | w/ Chris Stockwell 03/29/2023

119. Celebrating 100K Downloads And Discussing The Importance Of Being Present In All Of Life’s Relationships | w/ Chris Stockwell In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, celebrates the milestone of 100K downloads on the podcast with her son Chris Stockwell! A few weeks back, I hit 100,000 downloads and that means people have been interested in, and listened to, what I have to say on The Intimate Marriage podcast 100,000 times! For me, it's such an incredible celebration. It's a celebration that belongs for me because I created this podcast and it's my vision. It's also a celebration that belongs to you, the listener, because you have created this with me. What’s most important in my view, is that it's a celebration that really belongs to the world, because the more individuals and couples that know how to create a truly wonderful, intimate marriage, the more likely the world becomes a better place. Today is also a celebration, because my incredible son, Christopher Stockwell, is joining me for the show! We have a wide ranging conversation about intimacy in film, building communities and being present in relationships. Also in this episode: An incredible review from a listener that really touched my heart The privilege for an adult parent to feel seen, not just as a mother or father, but to be seen more fully, in wholeness My mission to change the cultural narrative around long term relationships, so that people know long term relationships are not where passion just tapers off and fades away Intimacy in the movies, and the pace at which relationships evolve in films The best way to center yourself and find yourself present in the moment The importance of respect in relationships and reflections on the volcanic communication style Chris and I navigated when he was in high school Why Chris has accepted that he can have different energy around different people, and connect on different levels with everyone around him. Get My Course "The Surprising Secret To Having A Fantastic Relationship" For Free! Use this code at checkout: 100K Go here to claim your free course: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26321700

118. Intention And Love Language Keep Romance Alive | feat. Kaylee and Justin Poulet 03/22/2023

118. Intention And Love Language Keep Romance Alive | feat. Kaylee and Justin Poulet In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Kaylee and Justin Poulet about keeping the romance in your marriage alive through intention and using Love Languages. In addition to his knowledge and ambition, I recognized Justin's incredibly intentional support for his wife as a real asset to his marriage. For context, we met in Arizona at a conference, and there was a massive snow storm back in his hometown. This made the situation back home somewhat difficult on his wife, Kaylee, who was managing the kids and household on her own. After we got to talking about Justin’s intentional actions to support and connect with Kaylee from afar, I learned just how growth oriented and aware Justin is as a husband. I knew I had to have this couple on the show. I see Justin and Kaylee as true role models: role models for other couples, role models for their children to see what marriage can be like, and I hope, today, they are role models for you too. Also in this episode: What Justin does to make things easier on Kaylee before he travels out of town How Kaylee receives Justin’s intentional love and acts of kindness How Justin and Kaylee prioritize both their marriage and their family life What Justin views as the most pivotal moment in their life and marriage Connect With Justin Poulet on Facebook: Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26261079

117. How To Navigate The Devastating Loss Or Terminal Illness Of A Parent Or In-Law 03/15/2023

117. How To Navigate The Devastating Loss Or Terminal Illness Of A Parent Or In-Law In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, discusses how you can navigate the incredibly difficult landscape when either you, or your partner, suffers through the loss, or terminal illness, of a parent. This is not a fun topic, but it is an extremely important one that eventually comes up, at some point, in most marriages. After all, real intimacy is not only about the sexy and fun moments–it is also about supporting a loved one through all aspects of life, and an unfortunate truth is that sickness and death find us at both expected and unexpected moments. Whether you or your spouse have lost one or both parents, or if one of you has a sick parent, or even if you currently have four healthy parents/in-laws, this episode will raise your awareness. It can help you navigate through some of the inevitably hard moments in life, in ways that are meaningful for your marriage. For those who haven’t encountered this type of hardship, I realize this is a tough subject and it may even seem morbid. But know that this is about setting yourself and your relationship up, so that you’re not blindsided by realities that will eventually happen. The orientation I provide today can also be successfully applied to other hardships you encounter as well. Also in this episode: The story of when and how I lost both my mother and my father Why the spouse going through the loss can feel lonely even within a strong, connected marriage The differing perspectives between the supportive spouse and the one going through the loss of their parent Guidelines to get through this heartbreaking experience without creating a barrier between you and your partner Specific recommendations for the supportive spouse to be able to love well during this time How To Stay Present During Sex Webinar: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCCM_ixzcdE Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26215368

116. This Couple Wins At Marriage While Creating Lifestyle Brand With Meaningful And Memorable Party Favors w/ Marx & Amber Succés 03/08/2023

116. This Couple Wins At Marriage While Creating Lifestyle Brand With Meaningful And Memorable Party Favors w/ Marx & Amber Succés In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with the co-founders of the Cotier Brand, Marx and Amber Succés, about the success in their marriage while building a thriving business together. Marx and Amber Succés have a very appropriate last name! This growth-oriented couple has seen success romantically in their marriage, as wonderful parents, and as Co-Founders of the Cotier Brand–a lifestyle brand in which the two create unique and modern party supplies and gift products. It takes a special team to bring creative and joyful products into the world the way these two do, especially when, as you’ll hear in this conversation today, they make it seem so easy. The fact that they work well together, with patience and honesty, says so much about them as a couple and as business owners. I absolutely love the fun products they are creating within the Cotier Brand, and I can’t wait for you to learn about their business and relationship. Listen as Amber and Marx share: How they compartmentalize to be able to communicate separately as business partners, as husband and wife, and as co-parents How their communication styles have evolved since they began their romantic relationship The inspiration behind the creative products in their business Amber and Marx’s biggest piece of advice for couples starting a business together Follow Marx and Amber Succés & The Cotier Brand Website: TikTok and Instagram: @cotierbrand Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully. Join my email list to stay connected–it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A. About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Known as “The Intimacy Doctor,” Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Relationship and Intimacy Coach and an Intimate Marriage Expert who specializes in coaching ambitious, successful couples to build beautiful, long-lasting, passionate relationships. She is the bestselling author of “Uncompromising Intimacy,” host of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26109585

115. Reflecting On The Past Year Of Marriage With My Husband, Rodd Stockwell 03/01/2023

115. Reflecting On The Past Year Of Marriage With My Husband, Rodd Stockwell In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD chats with her husband, Rodd Stockwell, to reflect on their last year of marriage. This conversation has become a wonderful tradition as part of our anniversary celebration, and we share what we’ve loved about the past year, what’s challenged us, and what we’re looking forward to. We believe that sharing this provides an invitation for others to learn from our experiences. This year in particular has been an interesting one as we have re-discovered hobbies that light us up, that we each do on our own. You’ll hear how, even though we don’t directly share in these experiences together, we each bring home a newfound joy that enhances our connection with one another. No marriage is perfect. We all have our ups and downs. But my goal is for you to see how communication, passion and reflection can deepen your connection so that it continues to improve with each passing year. Together we discuss: My initial feelings when we first got married and the surprising outlook I had on the future back then Our reflections on the past year of our lives How we’ve brought more fun into our lives by individually pursuing passions we each cared about long before we met What we’re looking forward to as we head into our 28th year together Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/26079969

114. Practicing Tantra And Tantric Exercises Can Expand The Intimacy In Your Life Quickly w/ Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver 02/22/2023

114. Practicing Tantra And Tantric Exercises Can Expand The Intimacy In Your Life Quickly w/ Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver In this episode of the Intimate Marriage podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, chats with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver about expanding intimacy in your relationship[p through practicing tantra and tantric exercises. If you’re not familiar with tantra, this conversation will be a great introduction for you, as this isn’t about tantric sex but more so the mind-body connection and meditation practice within the realm of intimacy. It’s about both your sexual center and your love center. As Freddy says in this episode, “tantra is one of the most effective yogas in terms of shifting something in your life.” So if you have something you’d like to shift, whether it’s around your relationship or another aspect of your life, I hope you listen to this fascinating conversation. Also in this episode: How exactly they define the concept of “tantra” Details on the practice of sexual meditation How these sexual practices impact men and women differently The differences in Freddy and Elsbeth’s upbringings in terms of sexual openness and sexual oppression What it’s like for this couple working together day-to-day with completely different work styles and personality types Stay Connected with Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver: Free online workshop: Ignite Your Relationship: TantraNova website: Sexual Enlightenment Book: TantraNova YouTube Channel: About Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver Dr. Elsbeth Meuth and Freddy Zental Weaver are a beautiful couple who work together to bring more love and intimacy, pleasure and bliss into the world. They have built an approach through integrating sex and meditation. Within their practice, TantraNova, they work with couples and singles to discover the secrets to lasting intimacy through private programs and retreats centered around tantra yoga and meditation practices. Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25959579

113. Simple Ways You Can Stay Connected With Your Partner When Frequent Business Trips Keep You Apart 02/15/2023

113. Simple Ways You Can Stay Connected With Your Partner When Frequent Business Trips Keep You Apart In this episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, host Alexandra Stockwell, MD discusses the ways you can connect with your partner if frequent business trips keep you apart. This can be difficult on both sides – for the person who’s at home (oftentimes managing the day-to-day household and kids on their own) and also for the person traveling–who’s focused on their work project and being present in their job. This episode will offer you useful advice that both you and your partner can use before the scheduled travel, during the trip, and once you or your partner returns home from a trip. Also in this episode: Why I’ve found it’s more challenging for the person at home than for the person traveling How you can support your partner at home while you’re traveling Tips on how to stay connected for both the one traveling and for the one at home Why existing relationship complications are exasperated by someone being away FREE 3-Day Make Your Valentine’s Day Special Course: Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25883910

112. Can You Be Growth Oriented In Your Relationship While Also being Satisfied With Where You Are? 02/08/2023

112. Can You Be Growth Oriented In Your Relationship While Also being Satisfied With Where You Are? A recent coaching call with clients has inspired this episode. The woman in the couple is extremely committed to her personal growth through an extensive morning routine including meditation, journaling, and self-care every day. While not opposed digging into growth, her husband is a very ambitious entrepreneur who, after a hard day at work, desires to hang out with his wife in a lighter manner by focusing on the laughter, and fun moments the majority of the time. This creates an ongoing tension between the two of them because they believed having a growth-oriented relationship, and feeling satisfied and content, were mutually incompatible. In this episode, I discuss: How this couple can get into alignment with one another Is feeling content really the opposite of being deeply committed to personal growth? Why a desire does not imply dissatisfaction with the current state of affairs How to want more while being content with what you have As a relationship and intimacy coach, I always want you to be able to see how what you have is beautiful, while also believing it’s worthwhile to create even more goodness and connection in your relationship. Today you’ll learn that you don’t have to choose one or the other! FREE 3-Day Make Your Valentine’s Day Special Course: Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25746207

111. Prioritizing Your Marriage Within A Successful Career: Featuring Insights From A LinkedIn Post By Marc Randolph, Co-Founder of Netflix 02/01/2023

111. Prioritizing Your Marriage Within A Successful Career: Featuring Insights From A LinkedIn Post By Marc Randolph, Co-Founder of Netflix In this episode, I discuss a LinkedIn post by Marc Randolph, Co-Founder of Netflix, concerning how he chooses to prioritizes his marriage even while maintaining a wildly successful career. This post recently came up in my feed and it thrilled me to read about such a successful man, founder of numerous extremely robust companies, because he feels most proud of achieving his success while staying married to the same woman and being present as a father. To him, this is THE DEFINITION OF SUCCESS. What struck me after reading the post were the comments, many of which were negative reactions to what he’d shared. For a relatively sophisticated platform like LinkedIn, I was surprised to say the least. You’ll learn today that spending time with your partner is not about the quantity, or even the frequency. It’s about the quality of the time spent together and the commitment to doing so. In this episode, I share: A full reading of Marc Randolph’s post from LinkedIn What these negative reactions indicate about our society How you can be an extremely ambitious person and prioritize your marriage How my husband and I prioritize time together amidst our busy lives CLICK HERE TO SEE Free 3-Day Make Your Valentine’s Day Special Course: Alexandrastockwell.com/valentines Apply for the Aligned and Hot Marriage program: https://alexandrastockwell.com/live Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25737522

110. The Date Night Planner: Simple Tips And Intentions To Make Date Nights Unforgettable Again 01/25/2023

110. The Date Night Planner: Simple Tips And Intentions To Make Date Nights Unforgettable Again Don't you sometimes wish you had a Date Night Planner? It would definitely come in handy. There are particular occasions in life that require a lot of thought and planning. If prom night is coming up, you know you want to figure out ahead of time what you’ll be wearing. If it’s your wedding day, you’ve likely spent months setting your intentions for the day—what you’ll wear, where it will be, the flow of the day, the experience throughout the day, both for yourself and your guests. These are examples of occasions that you put a lot of thought and attention into in advance in order to set yourself up for success. But the truth is you don’t have to save that approach for the big milestones. You can put care into and set intentions for all experiences in your life, both big and small. In this episode, I discuss: Ways to approach a date night so that it doesn’t disappoint you or your partner How to set your intentions for just about anything in your life What won’t work if you want to set yourself up for success How these ideals apply not only to your relationship but to all interactions in life …plus much more. My hope is that you will walk away from this episode with a new outlook on how to approach the experiences in your life. Since my ultimate goal is for you to create more connection in your relationship, I want you to see that each little encounter you have with your partner constitutes an opportunity for connection. You can obviously take this further and apply it to any other aspect of your life as well! FREE 3-Day course Make Your Valentine’s Special: Sign up for the next Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25622730

109. The Real Secret Behind Getting Your Partner To Change Without Compromising, Losing Who You Are, Or Being A Nag 01/18/2023

109. The Real Secret Behind Getting Your Partner To Change Without Compromising, Losing Who You Are, Or Being A Nag If you were ever interested in getting your partner to change in some way, and wondered how to make that change happen, you are not the only one! In fact, “How do I get my partner to change?” is a question that I’m asked very frequently, with exasperation and concern. In this week’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast I’ll share my answer with you. Here’s a spoiler: the secret I’m about to share has nothing to do with actually making your partner change, although it will still get you what you want. And it doesn’t involve compromise or giving up on what you want either! In this episode, I share: What I told a couple I’m currently coaching who’s determined to improve their relationship (and each of them wants the other to change) The evolution of my desire for my husband to change, and how I shifted my thoughts over time How to get your partner to do exactly what you want them to do, without being a nag …plus much more. The secret I tell in this episode will open many doors for you, and for your relationship. I’m thrilled to share it with you. Join Uncompromising Intimacy 101: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25622436

108. Sexy Marriage Radio w/ Dr. Corey & Pam Allan 01/11/2023

108. Sexy Marriage Radio w/ Dr. Corey & Pam Allan Dr. Corey and Pam Allan co-host the wonderful, informative, fun podcast called Sexy Marriage Radio, which he started 11 years ago! Their marriage and partnership exemplify many of the concepts I teach. I especially enjoy that they’ve come to it through very different training and life experiences than I have had–which makes our conversation all the more dynamic. In this episode you’ll hear Dr. Corey and Pam discuss: Dr. Corey’s inspiration for starting a podcast 11 years ago (which was way ahead of its time) The question Pam asks herself regularly as part of addressing any issues that arise in their marriage (and how she also applies this to motherhood and other relationships) How Dr. Corey and Pam’s careers have evolved and led them to gradually begin working together as co-hosts How most people view the concept of what is “fair” …plus much more. You’ll hear that this couple makes a conscious decision every single day to be together, and the work, awareness, intention, and communication this requires. And how worth it it is! Connect with Dr. Corey and Pam Allan Sexy Marriage Radio: https://smrnation.com/ Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25373439

107. Say What You Really Want: Create Connection & Real Intimacy With Your Spouse (And Become A Better Leader While Doing It) 01/04/2023

107. Say What You Really Want: Create Connection & Real Intimacy With Your Spouse (And Become A Better Leader While Doing It) Identifying and expressing your desires is one of the most important aspects of real intimacy. However, I frequently see couples struggle with this–both with knowing what they want and also being able to say it to one another. Some people have no idea where to begin in order to figure out what they desire. Others know exactly what they want but don’t know how to say it clearly, or they find it prohibitively uncomfortable to do so. And then some people don’t know what they want nor how to say it. It can be helpful when your spouse asks you, “what do you want?” But that question has at least two different meanings, with two very different contexts. It’s important to be able to distinguish between them. In one context the question is genuinely about you and your desires, and in the other it’s about the question asker’s needs in that moment. In this episode you’ll learn: Two different contexts and meanings that become relevant when you’re asked what you want and how to respond to each one Tactics to help you discover what you really want Why it’s important to give yourself time to identify what you want, and then share it …plus much more. Since it’s the beginning of a new year, I know you may be setting goals and intentions–doing so requires you to tap into your desires and navigate any blocks you have. I hope this episode helps you in achieving that. January Uncompromising Intimacy Workshop: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25388256

106. Husband Aims to Provide Genuine Support for his Wife’s Empowerment w/ Michael & Maraya Brown 12/28/2022

106. Husband Aims to Provide Genuine Support for his Wife’s Empowerment w/ Michael & Maraya Brown Maraya and Michael Brown met and he proposed on the first date! Now about a decade later, they talk about the amazing evolution of their relationship–it’s truly a beautiful love story with delicious twists and turns. Maraya is a women’s health and empowerment expert who midwife’s game changing women through the important moments of life. Her husband, Michael, used to work full time and now is at home, supporting her behind the scenes, believing in her, and gladly watching her soar. In this episode, you’ll hear Maraya and Michael share: The mantra Michael practices that allows him to support Maraya in the sincere way that serves them both A spicy personal story from Maraya on (re)connecting in the bedroom The story of their first date and what inspired Michael to propose after just meeting Maraya …plus much more. It takes a lot of trust, commitment and sincerity to practice the level of support that Michael offers Maraya–you’ll get a lot from listening to this loving and intimate couple! Connect With Maraya Free elixir recipes: Next Vibrant Life Workshop: The Women's Vibrancy Code Podcast: Follow Maraya on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_marayabrown_/ Facebook: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25373265

105. Live Coaching: Polyamorous Woman Confronted by Partner's Desire for Monogamy 12/21/2022

105. Live Coaching: Polyamorous Woman Confronted by Partner's Desire for Monogamy In this episode you’ll hear me coach Jennifer Kaylo Ruscin, a polyamorous woman with a podcast focused on polyamory, swinging, and all things related. I was scheduled to be a guest on her show, The Jennifer Kaylo Ruscin Podcast, but instead of a typical interview I ended up giving her a coaching session instead!A week before we spoke, Jennifer faced a major challenge in her relationship. She told her partner that she was interested in dating a couple she knows. Her partner is typically ok with flirting and fun sexy socializing but he did not take well to this idea at all. He immediately rejected it and said he would move out rather than stand by her moving forward with this plan. Jennifer was faced with three choices: move forward without his permission, leave her partner, or dial down and disconnect from her desires. She chose the third option. That’s where our conversation begins.In this unique episode you’ll hear: How I coached Jennifer and reframed her views on compromise The ways Jennifer communicated her desire for polyamorous experiences to her partner My advice to Jennifer to communicate using curiosity and openness …plus much more. The way I coach Jennifer will show you how to feel more connection, more emotional intimacy, and more erotic gratification in your relationship, whether you are in a strictly monogamous relationship, or not. Link to full video on Youtube: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25251285

104. The Power Of Authentic Connection With Serdar Hararovich 12/14/2022

104. The Power Of Authentic Connection With Serdar Hararovich Today’s podcast episode is different from every episode before because, for the first time ever, I’m interviewing someone about the power of authentic connection who is not currently in a committed relationship. But, I heard Serdar speak on a panel about masculine and feminine polarity teachings, and his views piqued my interest (plus I was captivated by his voice which you’ll soon understand). Then shortly after that, I saw a post he did on how to have meaningful connected sex, and I knew we were aligned in our ways of thinking and that he would have a lot to offer that will enhance the intimacy in your life. Serdar is the epitome of self-reflection, living authentically, and constantly growing in connectedness and hearing his perspective as a single male is sure to inspire and nourish you. You’ll hear us discuss: How the challenges in Serdar’s upbringing left him with a strong yearning for connection How Serdar defines attachment trauma and how it relates to the way he coaches The ways in which Serdar’s concept of connection has evolved over time Serdar’s views on sex, intimacy, and connection and his guidance on how to have more fulfilling sex Serdar’s personal growth journey is truly beautiful and I’m delighted for you to learn from such an enlightened man. To book a call with Serdar: To read Serdar’s articles: Facebook.com/SerdarHararovich Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25181622

103. What You Need To Make The Holidays Wonderful 12/07/2022

103. What You Need To Make The Holidays Wonderful It’s that time of the year again; the holiday season is upon us. But do you actually find it to be the most wonderful time of the year??? The holidays should be a celebration, a day of recreation and togetherness. Yet so many people, especially exhausted mothers, need to recover once the holidays are over. Did you know that January is the month when the most people file for divorce, right after the holidays are over? Let me just say, it doesn’t need to be this way! If you want to create joy for your family, your marriage, and yourself this holiday season, you need the tools to do so. In this episode you’ll hear: How to create an enjoyable holiday season with your spouse, even if you desire different things The most effective way to tend to everyone’s needs during the holidays Ways to identify what you desire and communicate it to those around you I hope the tools I share will help you and your family create a connected, loving holiday and that, come January, you’ll feel rested and rejuvenated! Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25100436

102. When Your Partner Isn’t Into Personal Growth 11/30/2022

102. When Your Partner Isn’t Into Personal Growth In my intimacy coaching business, over the years many women have reached out and expressed interest in working with me, while also sharing a lot of frustration because their husband “wasn’t interested in doing the work.” However, anytime one of those husbands chose to have a short conversation with me, it turned out that he definitely was interested in exploring coaching with me. I found this to be true 100% of the time! It used to confuse me, until I came to understand that people tend to project their own personal growth style onto their partner, and then find the partner lacking. These men, who were described by their wives as having no interest in personal growth and coaching, turned out to be quite interested and motivated. However, they were not interested in contorting themselves to fit the definition of “personal growth” assigned to them by their wives. In other words, they were not interested in neglecting their own ways of growing and learning, in order to conform to what their wives wanted. Once they spoke with me and realized that I highly valued their perspective and preferences, everything would change. They would enthusiastically open up and tell me how much they wanted to put attention on their marriage. In this episode, you’ll hear: Why personal growth doesn’t look the same from person to person A story about a woman I coached who traveled for work and struggled with long-distance communication with her husband A man I coached on his own because his wife wasn’t interested (and doesn’t speak English) and the amazing results he created in his marriage. If you have a partner who isn’t interested in personal growth, your instinct may be to try to change them, or give up on them...I hope this episode makes you question those options and inspires you to adopt a different strategy instead. Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25100226

101. Using Travel to Enhance Intimacy, with Marilee & Paul Kostadimas 11/23/2022

101. Using Travel to Enhance Intimacy, with Marilee & Paul Kostadimas There are many different ways for a couple to connect. For Marilee and Paul Kostadimas, it has always been using travel to enhance intimacy – from the day they met on an archeological dig far from where either one of them lived. Rugged travel, luxury travel, educational travel, service-based travel, leisure travel, historical travel, and many other kinds of travel form the defining backbone of this couple’s beautiful, intimate marriage. They live by the mantra, “meaningful travel is part of a meaningful life” and they see themselves as travel partners in life, through life, and for life. While this shared value has been there since they met, it has evolved over time and taken many different shapes over the course of their long, nourishing marriage. The Kostadimas’ share their love story and how travel became so important to them and has enhanced their marriage–so much so, that they started a company, Spotlight Sojourns, to inspire and connect others wanting to enjoy more meaningful and varied travel together. Also In this episode: How these two bring balance to their relationship through respecting one another’s gifts and creativity: Paul’s photography skills and Marilee’s way with words Marilee and Paul’s conviction that couples shouldn’t commit to marriage until they’ve traveled together How Marilee and Paul became passionate about travel and allowed that to color their lives The different types of travel styles and how Marilee and Paul choose their next adventures Marilee has such a beautiful way with words that invites you to feel the moments she shares from this couple’s incredible adventures. The Kostadimas’ website and blog: Get travel inspiration delivered to your inbox: Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25005051

100. Why Intimacy Matters–Celebrating 100 Episodes of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Anne Rose Hart 11/16/2022

100. Why Intimacy Matters–Celebrating 100 Episodes of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Anne Rose Hart It’s the 100th episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast and we discuss why intimacy matters! I am elated to be celebrating this beautiful milestone. In honor of the occasion I invited my own coach, Anne Rose Hart, to join me. We talk about intimacy, why it matters, my zone of genius in serving couples, and the need for this type of work in the world. This is a refreshingly unique episode, as I am the one who is interviewed, on my own podcast! It’s such a great way to mark 100 episodes of the show. Also in this episode: Exactly how I define intimacy Why intimacy is a learned skill (including a foray into my teachings!) The importance of growing within your marriage, not just for you as a couple, but for what it creates on a much larger scale in terms of influence and impact My vision and goals for the future of relationships This is a tender and intimate glimpse into what a private conversation looks like between me and my amazing coach and you’ll get to hear the beauty of our mutual respect, and the foundation of love that informs our communication. Connect with Anne Rose Hart on her website: https://annerosehart.com/ Subscribe To The Podcast: | | Connect With The Show: | | | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, get started with the FREE first chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book “Uncompromising Intimacy” Purchase a FULL copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” About Alexandra Stockwell, MD Her mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement together, every day. For over two decades, she’s been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom—all while maintaining extraordinary professional success! Alexandra Stockwell, MD supports family happiness through facilitating healing and joy for couples. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/25003314

99. Where Christians Get Their Sex Toys, With Teresa & Blair Bass 11/09/2022

99. Where Christians Get Their Sex Toys, With Teresa & Blair Bass Although I don’t typically focus on religious considerations on The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I was thrilled to have a wonderful conversation with devoted, church-going Christians Teresa and Blair Bass. They set out to make a change in the way their fellow Christians view sex and intimacy by opening a Christian sex toy shop where you can purchase sex toys and other supplies, receive instruction and respectful encouragement. Now this is the place where Christians get their sex toys. The Basses share their story and the many challenges they faced in this unique, courageous, and remarkably honest conversation. You’ll hear about: How Blair and Teresa define purity culture and my take on it How purity culture can impact women’s relationship to sex How Teresa reacted when Blair presented the idea of opening a Christian sex toy shop How Blair’s expertise in supply chain management translates to sex toys How Teresa and Blair navigated the complicated responses of their pastor and other members of their church Get 10% Off From The Romantic Blessings Sex Toy Shop Use this code: IMP10 Stay Connected with Teresa and Blair: | | Connect With The Show: | | | | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/24807891

98. How Masculine-Feminine Polarity Teachings Undermine Intimacy 11/02/2022

98. How Masculine-Feminine Polarity Teachings Undermine Intimacy Implementing masculine and feminine polarity teachings prohibits the cultivation of uncompromising intimacy, because they place you in a particular role that inhibits the expression who you really are. This is an outdated view on relationships and ultimately undermines the idea that the tension between “masculine” and “feminine” ways of being creates erotic chemistry in a relationship. This usually is understood to mean that having a man embody masculine energy and a woman embody feminine energy (in a heteronormative relationship) will result in a wonderful marriage. It’s far more important to focus on your own authenticity and self-expression, rather than taking on a particular gender role. In this episode, I discuss: How masculine and feminine roles have changed over the decades (including examples from my own relatives) Why I believe that masculine and feminine polarity teachings are extremely restrictive My client, Suzanne, who was hesitant to participate in coaching because she was so concerned about giving up who she is in order to fit into a “feminine” role (as she felt she would be losing herself in the process) When masculine and feminine polarity teachings ARE helpful in an intimate marriage Resources referenced in this episode: Connect With The Show: | | | | | If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare. /episode/index/show/theintimatemarriagepodcast/id/24807174

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