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Conflict, Communication, Fixing, Problem Solving - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 491

Relationship School Podcast

Release Date: 03/19/2024

My Experience with Cancer - Men Listen Up - Jayson Gaddis - 500 show art My Experience with Cancer - Men Listen Up - Jayson Gaddis - 500

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson opens up about his recent prostate cancer diagnosis. He talks about the causes of cancer, letting people’s care in and his recommendations for how men should monitor their health as they age. This episode is a PSA for men over 40, if you haven’t been screened for cancer, now is the time. Timestamps: 2:16 - Jayson's experience 6:34 - Causes of cancer 9:01 - Letting people's care in 12:15 - Recommendations for men over 40 Links: Follow Jayson on social media:

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When to Stay or Leave + True Love - Annie Lalla - 499 show art When to Stay or Leave + True Love - Annie Lalla - 499

Relationship School Podcast

IN THIS EPISODE, You will learn: To see your partner as a sacred mirror and sanctuary for the growing your greatest actualized self The true characteristics of a long-term partnership How your partnership is the optimal container for complete transformation of yourself into the highest possible version imaginable How to fall in love and why this is more important than being married How to take radical responsibility for being loved in every moment of your life How to actually get your needs/wants met in a partnership How to know if conflict in your relationship is driving you toward or...

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The Cost Of Stress In Your Primary Relationships with Dr. Gabor Maté - 498 show art The Cost Of Stress In Your Primary Relationships with Dr. Gabor Maté - 498

Relationship School Podcast

Most of us have no idea how damaging relational stress can be. In this episode, legendary medical doctor and psycho-physio-spiritual trailblazer Dr. Gabor Maté brings some very grounded, practical examples of how relationship stress can impact our lives. The result of stress can be seen throughout the web of our life and it’s up to us to learn how to relate and attach well to our fellow humans. I love how this man turns such complicated topics into common sense. If you want a deeper cut about your marriage, children, or any stressful relationship, this episode is a must listen. SHOWNOTES ...

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Advice for Couples, Therapists and Coaches - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 497 show art Advice for Couples, Therapists and Coaches - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 497

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Are you attending couples therapy but feeling like you're not making progress? Jayson and Ellen delve into why couples often find themselves spinning their wheels and offer insights on how to propel your relationship forward if you're feeling stuck. They also tackle the issue of spiritual bypassing, emphasizing that true letting go is a gradual process. Timestamps: 2:01 - Couples not making progress 7:36 - Doing the work 22:28 - Overly spiritual couples Links: U.S. listeners, sign up for relationship tips and support direct to your phone by texting this number: 720-704-4850 Follow...

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Polyamory vs Monogamy - Irka & Eugene - 496 show art Polyamory vs Monogamy - Irka & Eugene - 496

Relationship School Podcast

Irka and Eugene join Jayson to talk non-monogamy. Is monogamy inherently restrictive? Do people in polyamorous relationships have boundaries? Is non-hierarchical polyamory possible? What role does sexual exploration play in a polyamorous relationship? Is non-monogamy for you? Whether you’re monogamous or not, you’ll find plenty of wisdom in this insightful conversation. Timestamps: 8:45 - Definitions and terms 11:40 - Boundaries 19:52 - Thirds 34:09 - Is monogamy inherently restrictive? 37:39 - Sexual exploration 42:27 - Is non-monogamy for you? 51:03 - Communication 53:51 - Advice for...

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28 Years Strong Even After Affairs - Satyen and Suzanne Raja - 495 show art 28 Years Strong Even After Affairs - Satyen and Suzanne Raja - 495

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In this podcast, I interview Satyen and Suzanne, both long-time students of David Deida. These two are super honest, loving individuals, and wow have they been through a lot! There share some very vulnerable details about how they navigated religion, affairs, and fighting. They give you concrete practical tools you can try right now with your partner. These guys live it! SHOWNOTES How did Satyen and Suzanne start caring about relationships? [4:27] Why did Satyen resist marriage? [7:00] What ingredient was the “it” factor for Suzanne’s attraction to Satyen? [7:44] What role did religion...

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My Take on Andrew Huberman and His Relationship Issues - Jayson Gaddis - 494 show art My Take on Andrew Huberman and His Relationship Issues - Jayson Gaddis - 494

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Jayson shares his thoughts on the controversy surrounding popular podcaster Andrew Huberman. What can we learn about ourselves and our relationships from the online reaction to the recent revelations about Andrew Huberman? What are you projecting onto the authority figures in your life? Are you putting people in your life on a pedestal, and how will you react when they inevitably fail you? Timestamps: 2:17 - What can we learn from the Andrew Huberman situation? 5:24 - Pedestal to pit 13:55 - Are you projecting on to authority figures? Links: Follow Jayson on social media:

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The Purpose of Relationship Pain - Jayson Gaddis - 493 show art The Purpose of Relationship Pain - Jayson Gaddis - 493

Relationship School Podcast

Relationship pain has a very clear purpose. If you are hip to it, you’ll thrive in relationships. If you are uneducated here, you’ll run away and play the victim. Direct and to the point, I suggest a very important daily practice for you to strengthen your mindset about long-term partnership. Pain hurts indeed. And, what if pain was your ally in disguise?   Relationship Pain Daily Practice I have two choices with my relationship pain: 1. Use it to make me weaker by whining, complaining, and blaming others (or myself). 2. Use it to make me stronger by seeing it as my ally to master the...

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Dan Savage On Being Monogamish - Dan Savage - 492 show art Dan Savage On Being Monogamish - Dan Savage - 492

Relationship School Podcast

Are you simply defaulting to monogamy? Have you ever genuinely asked yourself, "Would a different sexual model work better for me?" Dan Savage, an author, sex-advice columnist, podcaster, and public speaker, suggests that we should all regularly pose these questions to ourselves. Dan and his husband have chosen what they call a "monogamish" relationship. They've acknowledged that it's impossible to fulfill all of your partner's needs, and that's a message from which we can all learn. While we typically focus on monogamous long-term relationships, in this episode, we'll explore how various...

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Conflict, Communication, Fixing, Problem Solving - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 491 show art Conflict, Communication, Fixing, Problem Solving - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 491

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Jayson and Ellen discuss conflict, communication, and problem-solving versus understanding. What's the issue with being a conflict-avoidant couple? When is it appropriate to problem-solve and offer advice to a long-term partner? Can excessive understanding become problematic? Tune in to hear Ellen and Jayson offer a few simple strategies that you can use to resolve your communication issues. Timestamps: 1:51 - Avoiding Conflict 11:21 - Solving communication problems 17:04 - Problem solving vs understanding 20:28 - The conflict-repair cycle 22:31 - Taking action vs understanding Links: ...

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Jayson and Ellen discuss conflict, communication, and problem-solving versus understanding. What's the issue with being a conflict-avoidant couple? When is it appropriate to problem-solve and offer advice to a long-term partner? Can excessive understanding become problematic? Tune in to hear Ellen and Jayson offer a few simple strategies that you can use to resolve your communication issues.

Timestamps:

  • 1:51 - Avoiding Conflict
  • 11:21 - Solving communication problems
  • 17:04 - Problem solving vs understanding
  • 20:28 - The conflict-repair cycle
  • 22:31 - Taking action vs understanding

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