751 | The Four Pillars of a Power Couple with Gabriela Embon
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
Release Date: 09/05/2024
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I dive into a topic that has been weighing heavily on my heart: the importance of keeping our hearts open to receive. I share my journey of learning how a closed heart, often shielded by emotional armour, can prevent us from fully experiencing life and connecting with others. To protect ourselves from past hurts, judgments, and fears, we inadvertently block not only negative but also positive emotions. This self-imposed limitation restricts our ability to express our true selves and to be seen by others. I emphasize that when we wear this armour, we are not just protecting...
info_outline 763 | From Trauma to Triumph: A Story of Resilience and Growth with Kristina GauthierOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, we speak with Spiritual Life Coach Kristina Gauthier. Kristina’s early years were far from picture-perfect; she was born into a family with a colossal amount of trauma on both her mother's and father’s sides. Throughout Kristina’s life, her late mother struggled with her drug addiction, and her dad is a well-known Hell Angel. After years of dating abusive men, struggling with her own drug addiction, and feeling profoundly insecure and unworthy of love or life, she chose to invest in herself and heal. In 2017, Kristina's late sister died of a fentanyl overdose, and...
info_outline 762 | Who Are You Going to Be Today?Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In today's episode, we dive deep into the question, "Who will you be today?" This episode was inspired by a journal prompt that made me pause and reflect on how we often focus on who we want to be when everything is going smoothly, but what about when things aren't going great? Who do you want to be when things are not going smoothly, when they are not in flow or alignment, and when it feels like it's challenge after challenge? I've learned to navigate those moments by asking myself who I want to be in those difficult times. It's about shifting our perspective from blaming others or...
info_outline 761 | What If It Is All PossibleOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this podcast episode, I dive into the transformative power of questioning our thoughts and beliefs. I emphasize that the quality of our lives is primarily determined by the questions we ask ourselves. Instead of succumbing to negative statements like "Why is this happening to me?" or "This is not fair," I encourage listeners to shift their mindset by asking empowering questions, such as "What if it's all possible?" I share a personal story about my recent trip to Finland, where my husband competed in the World Olympic Lifting Championships and earned a silver medal. This experience was...
info_outline 760 | The Importance of Empathy in Leadership with Melissa RobinsonOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
Welcome to today's episode, where I enjoyed speaking with Dr. Melissa Robinson-Weinmiller, an EQ via Empathy Trainer. In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Melissa shared her journey from classical musician to leadership coach, focusing on emotional intelligence through the lens of empathy. Dr. Melissa explained the concepts of empathy and emotional intelligence, highlighting the importance of understanding and controlling one's emotions while also tuning into the feelings of others. She emphasized that empathy is not about taking responsibility for others' emotions but connecting on a human...
info_outline 759 | You Are Never Too Late To StartOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I delve into the transformative power of the stories we tell ourselves, particularly the narrative that we are "too late" to start something new. Drawing from my journey, I share how I spent 27 years as a registered kinesiologist, feeling a strong pull towards a different path but constantly battling the belief that I was too late to change, especially as I entered my 50s. I reflect on the moment I discovered human design and how it shifted my perspective, allowing me to realize that my experiences and lessons were not a hindrance but a foundation for my new endeavours. I...
info_outline 758 | Doing Nothing is Growing Your DoubtOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, we discuss doubt, self-doubt, and how to change the story we tell ourselves about doubt. Throughout the episode, I emphasized the importance of taking action, nurturing a growth mindset to combat self-doubt, focusing on daily steps, celebrating progress, and investing in personal development to grow your growth mindset. Drawing from my experience with starting the podcast, I shared how doubt initially plagued me, but I overcame it through consistent action and belief in my vision. You can build a positive relationship with doubt and view it as a protective friend...
info_outline 757 | Climbing the Stairs to Sobriety and Purpose with Cheryl PasiekaOwn Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I had the pleasure of interviewing Cheryl, a retired individual who embarked on a transformative journey of self-discovery and sobriety at the age of 66. Cheryl's inspiring journey of overcoming addiction and finding joy in her life. Cheryl shared her story of hitting rock bottom, realizing the need for change, and taking the courageous step to seek treatment for her alcoholism. Through her commitment to sobriety, Cheryl discovered the power of Kundalini yoga, journaling, and self-reflection in her healing journey. Cheryl's journey culminated in the publication of her book,...
info_outline 756 | How Is Shame Blocking You?Own Your Choices Own Your Life
Welcome back to the show! In this episode, we delved deep into the topic of shame and its profound impact on our growth in life and business. We explored how shame, often overlooked and suppressed, can manifest as a gremlin within us, affecting our self-perception and identity. Shame, distinguished from guilt, is centred on the belief that "I am bad" rather than "I did something bad." This distinction is crucial as attaching "I am" to negative beliefs can lead to a deep-rooted sense of unworthiness and flaw within ourselves. We discussed how shame thrives on secrecy, silence, and judgment,...
info_outline 755 | How Can You Grow Your Capacity?Own Your Choices Own Your Life
Welcome back to the show! In this episode, we delve into capacity, emphasizing how it relates to our ability to handle more, make decisions, and support our growth. I share personal experiences of feeling called to do more and the journey of expanding my capacity to meet those aspirations. Throughout the episode, we explore the importance of recognizing and challenging the stories we tell ourselves, understanding that our beliefs shape our capacity. I touch on the discomfort and challenges of growth, emphasizing the need to track progress over time and build resilience. Drawing on personal...
info_outlineWelcome to the latest episode of our podcast. I had the pleasure of interviewing Gabriela, a seasoned coach and author of the upcoming book Becoming a Power Couple: Four Pillars to Engineer Legendary Marriages. In this episode, Gabriela shares her journey from chemical engineer to certified coach and delves into the passion that drives her work in helping individuals engineer legendary lives.
Gabriela emphasizes the importance of passion in driving one's life and discusses the key focus areas for a life of no regrets - career and primary relationships. She highlights the freedom to course-correct and improve in these areas, leading to a legendary life. Gabriela shares her various roles in hosting a podcast, coaching high achievers, and launching her coaching certification program.
The conversation shifts toward how individuals can create change in their careers and relationships. Gabriela stresses the significance of clarity, commitment, and overcoming the fear of change to lead a fulfilling life. She shares anecdotes and insights on how she transitioned from engineering to coaching and the importance of making hard decisions based on where one wants to be.
We get a sneak peek into Gabriela's upcoming book, "Becoming a Power Couple," where she outlines the four pillars essential for engineering legendary marriages. The book offers practical guidance and exercises and dispels myths about marriage dynamics. Gabriela's personal growth during the writing process is evident in her conscious efforts to apply the principles she advocates in her own marriage.
Listeners are left inspired by Gabriela's wisdom and practical advice on nurturing relationships and fostering personal development within partnerships. Stay tuned for the pre-launch of her book and the insightful journey it promises to take readers on toward building more robust, more fulfilling relationships.
HIGHLIGHTS:
00:00:00 - Introduction and Background
00:05:30 - Passion and Career Change
00:10:26 - Transition to Coaching Certification
00:14:49 - Inspiration for Writing the Book
00:22:29 - Importance of Connection in Relationships
00:25:49 - Impact of External Factors on Relationships
00:31:49 - The Role of Commitment in Relationships
00:36:11 - Personal Development in Marriage
00:40:47 - Building Trust and Respect in Relationships
00:44:30 - Understanding and Respecting Boundaries
00:47:12 - Book Launch Details
00:48:42 - Practical Implementation of Pillars in the Book
00:49:42 - Myth-Busting and New Perspectives in the Book
00:50:06 - Personal Growth During Book Writing Process
Connect with Gabriela
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabrielaembon/
Email: [email protected]
Book Launch Info: https://gabrielaembon.com/book-pre-order/
Gabriela’s freebie " A Guide To Creating Your Marriage Constitution" -
Craft Your Marriage Constitution + A Bonus Tip to Become a Super Couple! https://gabrielaembon.com/marriage-constitution-guide/
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