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209. Overcome Intimacy Blockers: Letting go of Resistance to Embrace Passion, with Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Release Date: 12/18/2024

210. Reigniting Passion: How to Transform a Sexless Marriage and Rebuild Emotional Intimacy

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, addresses the challenges of a sexless marriage and explores how emotional intimacy is key to reigniting passion. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes that emotional intimacy forms the foundation for a fulfilling relationship and shares actionable strategies, including exercises designed to restore both sexual and emotional intimacy. She highlights the importance of nurturing emotional bonds to overcome physical and emotional barriers, advocating for a proactive approach to reignite passion and rejuvenate long-term relationships....

209. Overcome Intimacy Blockers: Letting go of Resistance to Embrace Passion, with Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Many couples deal with a variety of intimacy blockers, resulting in diminished intimacy and erosion of passion. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, host Alexandra Stockwell MD, delves into this topic with guests Dr. Alison Ash and Sebastian Clark. The discussion covers key aspects of intimate relationships including attachment styles, boundaries, and ways to sustain meaningful connection. They offer actionable strategies to overcome barriers like emotional discomfort, attachment challenges, and misperceptions of failure. Drawing from personal experiences and professional...

208. How High-Achieving Couples CAN Have It All

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell MD talks about the unique challenges high-achieving couples face when it comes to relating intimately. She shares the story of “Shauna” and “Eric,” two successful physicians who struggle to connect with one another when it comes to intimacy, despite having aligned values and compatibility in other areas. While telling their story Dr. Alexandra highlights the unique challenges high-achieving couples face when balancing career and relationship fulfillment–in the process offering solutions anyone can implement....

207. From Strife to Strength, with Meygan and Casey Caston of Marriage365

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Practical insights for cultivating strong, intimate relationships is the focus for this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Alexandra Stockwell, MD, and Meygan and Casey Caston, founders of Marriage365. The Castons share their remarkable journey from the brink of divorce to becoming relatable, trusted authorities in marital communication. Driven by their own search for healthier relationship tools, they discuss the origins of Marriage365, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and effective communication as cornerstones of a successful marriage. Along the way, they provide...

206. Tapping into your Orgasmic Potential (Q & A)

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Answering audience questions, in this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, talks about ways to experience more satisfaction in bed, tapping into your orgasmic potential, while accessing passion and nurturing intimacy in your relationship. She responds to questions from women struggling with their sexuality who want to improve their orgasmic experiences. She offers personalized strategies to embrace body awareness, cultivate erotic flow, and enhance satisfaction through mindfulness and presence. Whether you resonate with the questions or not, the answers are sure...

205. How to Sustain a Healthy Relationship

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Healthy relationships involve a transition from codependence to interdependence. In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD dives into the foundations of healthy relationships and what it takes to create them. She starts by addressing the (very common) situation where one partner's emotions heavily influence the other's well-being. Throughout the episode, Dr. Alexandra outlines how independence, codependence, and interdependence shape relationship dynamics, while emphasizing the importance of establishing boundaries that respect each partner's personal autonomy,...

204. Resolving Arousal Mismatch with Susan Bratton

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Susan Bratton joins Alexandra Stockwell, MD, on the Intimate Marriage Podcast, to explore the concept of arousal, arousal differences and the art of intimate relating. They discuss the complexities of sexual and emotional fulfillment in long-term relationships, offering practical advice, and describing innovative techniques designed to reignite passion. Susan highlights the significance of recognizing the innate differences in male and female arousal patterns and addresses the negative impact societal repression has on sexual health. She introduces powerful tools such as yoni massage and...

203. A Brave Conversation About the Relational Impact of Porn Addiction

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores the effects of porn addiction with a man in his twenties who became addicted in fourth grade. In a candid and revealing discussion, this anonymous guest shares the impact on his intimate relationships in adulthood. The conversation delves into the complexities of porn’s influence, highlighting initial exposure at a young age, his subsequent struggle with addiction, and the profound impact it has had on his real-life experiences with women. This conversation is remarkable because it addresses the hidden...

202. How Intimacy Coaching Elevates Successful Relationships

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, dives into how intimacy coaching profoundly transforms relationships. She identifies common misconceptions prevalent in traditional counseling methods, and highlights the critical roles of authenticity and emotional connection in achieving marital success. By shifting the focus from behavior modification to fostering confidence, curiosity, and deeper connection, Dr. Alexandra gives the recipe for how educated, successful individuals can elevate their romantic lives. In the process, she outlines the significant benefits...

201. The Potency of Playfulness for Building Intimacy (Get Ready for Halloween!)

The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Alexandra Stockwell, MD, explores playfulness in intimacy, discussing the use of costumes and role play to re-ignite the marital spark and enrich sexual encounters. It’s an especially timely topic with Halloween around the corner. Familiar roles in the bedroom tend to limit sexual expression-breaking free from them through embodying new personas can help couples deepen their connection and discover new aspects of their personalities. Dr. Stockwell shares real-life examples of couples who transformed their intimacy through role play. She...

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Also in this episode:

Intimate relationships serve as potent avenues for personal growth, providing unique opportunities for self-discovery and development.
Managing pressure in sexual encounters involves recognizing and naming feelings, allowing partners to alleviate stress and foster genuine connection.
Understanding distinct attachment styles and boundaries significantly contributes to a relationship's health and longevity.

About the Guests:

Dr. Alison Ash, known as Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach, educator, and author, as well as a Stanford University Lecturer. With a PhD in Sociology from Stanford, Dr. Aly has deep expertise in the societal challenges that contribute to disempowering and unsatisfying intimate experiences. She is the founder of TurnON.love, a platform dedicated to empowering individuals and couples through intimacy coaching and education. Dr. Aly brings extensive training in Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, the Innate Somatic Intelligence Trauma Therapy Approach, and the Somatica Method to help her clients navigate complex emotional landscapes.

Sebastian is a skilled sex and intimacy coach and educator with nearly two decades of experience. Trained by The Sexual Health Alliance, Seb specializes in helping individuals, particularly those who are neurodiverse, express their needs and cultivate healthy relationships. His work centers on trauma-informed approaches to communication, intimacy, and nervous system regulation. Together, Dr. Aly and Seb empower people to create fulfilling and authentic intimate experiences with compassion and understanding.

Check out Dr. Aly's upcoming Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills course at www.TurnON.love/intimacy. Use the discount code "intimatemarriage" for $75 off!

For her Sustainable Intimacy course visit www.TurnON.love/sustainable-intimacy.

For on-demand workshops visit www.TurnON.love/workshops

Finally for intimacy coaching, visit www.TurnON.love/coaching

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