814 | From Overthinking to Action: Break the Cycle of Suffering
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
Release Date: 02/07/2025
Own Your Choices Own Your Life
In this episode, I dive deep into the powerful concept of the stories we tell ourselves and how they shape our reality. I begin by emphasizing that the narrative we create in our minds is the one that ultimately defines our lives. Our subconscious mind is highly responsive to these stories, and if we continuously tell ourselves that we are afraid or incapable, we reinforce those beliefs, leading to a cycle of negativity. I share insights inspired by Erwin McManus, particularly his idea that our fears are intertwined with our nightmares, while our possibilities are linked to our dreams. I...
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In this episode, I am speaking with Shimrit Nativ. Shimrit is a Success & Freedom Mentor, CEO and founder of Master Your Path Academy. Having built a 6-figure business in a matter of months when she first started, with no prior experience, Shimrit is the perfect example of what's possible when you have a desire & drive to create a significant impact. As a Transformational & Success Coach and Mindset Expert, Shimrit has helped hundreds of driven and creative individuals across the globe create and sustain a consistent baseline of confidence, success and fulfillment. Accredited and...
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In this episode, I share the topic of emotional regulation and its massiveimpact on entrepreneurship. As I reflect on the five-year anniversary of my transition from a 27-year career to the online business world, I share insights that I wish I had learned much earlier in my journey. Emotional regulation, along with nervous system regulation and subconscious reprogramming, is not just beneficial but essential for sustainable business growth. There’s a huge difference between reacting and responding to situations. I emphasize that reacting is often an impulsive outburst driven by external...
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In this episode, I dive into a powerful question: "Can you feel it before you have it?" This inquiry transcends the realm of wealth and touches on various aspects of our lives, including confidence and abundance. Drawing from my personal experiences, I share a moment from a recent panel discussion on wealth, where I confronted my own feelings of lack amidst a challenging time, including the loss of my mother-in-law. I reflect on how wealth is often perceived solely in terms of money, yet I emphasize that true wealth encompasses much more. I challenge the audience to consider whether they can...
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In this episode, I had the honour of speaking with Brianna, a 2x Paralympian, a remarkable athlete who has made history as the first Canadian to do both the canoe and kayak events at the Paralympic games. She was the first to receive a medal in para-canoe and the flag bearer at the closing ceremonies in London in 2024. Brianna is a 12xs world medalist between 3 parasports. Brianna shares her journey from being an able-bodied athlete in various sports to navigating the challenges of life after a catastrophic accident that left her with a brain injury and physical disabilities. Brianna...
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In this episode, I share the concept of "anchors," a powerful technique from Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). Have you ever tried to push through resistance only to feel disconnected and unnatural? This struggle often stems from limiting beliefs and ingrained strategies that dictate our actions. Just like baking a cake requires a specific order of operations, so does our approach to personal growth. Anchoring allows us to evoke and harness positive emotions—such as confidence, gratitude, and joy—by consciously recalling specific experiences. However, we often anchor negative emotions...
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In this episode, I take a moment to reflect on the significance of International Women's Day, which is just around the corner. I share my personal journey of understanding and embracing this day, a realization that only came to me about a decade ago. The history of International Women's Day is rich and profound, and I emphasize the importance of women supporting one another—a theme that resonates deeply with me. Together, we rise, and together, we can create a powerful community of support and empowerment. Happy International Women's Day to all the incredible women out there! Thank you for...
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I speak with The World’s Top Manifestation Mentor, Kathleen Cameron, in this episode. Kathleen is the world’s top manifestation mentor. Her company, Diamond Academy, has skyrocketed to international acclaim, generating over $30M in under four years. She has helped thousands of people transform their lives with her innovative approach to “The Art of Expansion.” Using her techniques for raising self-awareness, expanding consciousness, and embodying faith, over 100,000 people have manifested more love, health, money, success, and undeniable impact. Kathleen is the author of two...
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In this episode, I share the concept of identity and its critical role in facilitating lasting change, particularly through the lens of neurolinguistic programming (NLP). I share insights from my experiences with clients in various coaching settings, emphasizing that true transformation occurs at the identity level. I talk about the destruction before creation, explaining that letting go of old patterns, relationships, and beliefs is essential for making space for new growth. I encourage listeners to reframe their perspectives on loss, viewing it as a sign of alignment rather than...
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In this episode, I am sharing the concept of being a heart-led leader while maintaining essential boundaries. Drawing from my personal experiences, including my journey as a leader in the Heartwired Leaders mastermind and the profound lessons learned from recent personal challenges, I explore the delicate balance between vulnerability and self-protection. HIGHLIGHTS 00:00:00 - Introduction to Heart-Led Leadership and Boundaries 00:01:00 - The Importance of Boundaries in Leadership 00:02:00 - Personal Reflections on Loss and Gratitude 00:03:00 - The Power of Sharing and Holding Space 00:04:00 -...
info_outlineIn this episode, I dive into the powerful distinction between pain and suffering, a topic that has resonated with many of you after I shared a thought-provoking quote on my social media. The quote, "Pain is inevitable. Suffering is a choice," has taken on new meaning for me, and I want to explore it further with you.
Throughout the episode, I stress that suffering is an energy leak that can hinder our progress and well-being. I encourage listeners to call themselves out when they find themselves stuck in an overthinking cycle and choose action instead. I highlight the importance of learning from our experiences, even the painful ones, as they contribute to our growth and understanding of ourselves.
HIGHLIGHTS
00:00:00 - Introduction and Call for Reviews
00:01:15 - Understanding Pain vs. Suffering
00:02:01 - The Role of Pain in Growth
00:03:47 - Suffering as a Choice
00:05:21 - Reframing Pain and Suffering
00:06:57 - Energy Leaks and Their Impact
00:08:22 - Learning from Suffering
00:09:05 - Conclusion and Invitation to NLP Coaching
Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster
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