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Welcome to the Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide podcast for 5 Steps to Solo Travel. The FAQ is: What is going on with the number of cars on the road these days? Is traffic increasing, and why? Answer: Americans are sitting in traffic longer than ever. Last year, commuters lost an average of 63 hours, or almost 8 workdays, stuck in traffic, according to a Texas A&M study reported by Kiplinger. It is a 16% increase in national congestion costs from 2099 to 2024. Truck congestion rose 19%. A shift in traffic patterns has contributed to overall increased traffic times. Delays are no longer...
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Japan is one of the most visited places by those from the USA. Listen to this archived episode from years' past about Japan. It's still relevant today. It's a Step 5 Destination, and you can travel there solo. Find out more from the book series: The Five Steps to Solo Travel. And if you leave a review, you will make Dr. Travelbest so happy. Happy 2026 to you. Read what others say and then make your own words. It's an authentic voice, and it's really me!
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Episode: The Garden Route, South Africa Today's episode is an FAQ on what the Garden Route is, a bit about the route, and my mistakes on it. The FAQ is: What is the Garden Route? It sounds lovely, but what is it actually? Answer: The Garden Route is a re-branded name for a region in Africa. It's a 190-mile stretch of South Africa's southeastern coast, stretching from Mossel Bay to the Storms River. It is a popular tourist road trip known for lush forests, dramatic mountain scenery, lakes, and sandy beaches. The area features a mild, year-round temperate climate, making it a premier, safe...
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This is the Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide Podcast, Part 2 of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil The FAQ is: How to carry toiletries on a long trip? Answer: For traveling solo, especially on longer journeys, toiletries can quietly become the heaviest, messiest, and most annoying part of your bag. I use cubes, just packing cubes like for my other travel items. So before you toss everything into a pouch, ask yourself: Do I really need this much? Will this leak at 35,000 feet? Can I replace it at my destination? Here are four smart, confidence-building tips for carrying toiletries on a long...
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Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. This is part 1 of 2. . Welcome back to the Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide podcast. I returned from a 90-day journey around the world, and I'm excited to connect with fellow travelers and share experiences. The FAQ is: What are three phrases to learn for Brazil? Answer: Language Insights: Your Spanish will help tremendously. While English is less commonly spoken outside tourist hotspots, learning a few key Portuguese phrases can enhance your experience: Bom dia (Good morning) Obrigada (Thank you – from women) Quanto custa? (How much?) These should help...
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Where in the world am I? In San Diego, talking about Thessoloniki Greece, Part 2 of 2. Welcome back to the Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide podcast. I recently returned from a 90-day journey around the world, and I'm excited to connect with fellow travelers and share experiences. This episode covers driving and navigating at the same time, Thessoloniki, Greece, and my mistakes of not hydrating enough in Greece. The FAQ is: "I need help finding my way while driving." What advice can you provide me as I try to navigate while I drive? Answer: Here are three driving safety tips...
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Where in the world am I? In San Diego, talking about Thessoloniki Greece, Part 1 Welcome to the Dr. Mary Travelbest Guide podcast. I returned from a 90-day journey around the world, and I'm excited to connect with fellow travelers and share experiences for world peace. Here is an FAQ about plane or train travel, Thessoloniki Greece, Part 1, and also about a health issue you don’t want when you travel. Give a listen. I guide you to solo travel experiences to bring out your best. The FAQ is: If you could take a plane or a train, which would it be and why? Answer: If I have the...
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Where in the world am I? In San Diego today. Hi there. I’m Dr. Mary Travelbest, coming to you from a recent trip to South Korea, now sharing my best travel ideas. I’m about to launch on a 90-day trip around the world. Listener Story Spotlight A friend and a listener named Lois recently went to Hawaii. She told me about how she spent a lot of time getting travel insurance for herself and her partner. She had to pay more than she expected as her partner was having a birthday between the day she bought the service and the day of the trip. But she said it was well...
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Destination: Mojave Desert Welcome to Dr. Mary Travelbest’s 5-Step Guide to Solo Travel for women like you who need a little extra support as they travel the world (slowly), one woman at a time. I’ve been traveling solo since 1972. Now you can experience for yourself in the Book Series: 5 Steps to Solo Travel, A Woman’s Guide to Travel and Destinations in Her Prime, found on Amazon. Yes, it has been a best seller in its category for some time! Please rate this podcast and the book! In this episode: Mojave Desert FAQ: loneliness on the road and how to...
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Where in the world am I? In San Diego, talking about Warsaw, Poland The FAQ is: “How do I decide when it’s time to pay more for comfort or safety instead of pushing myself?” Budget travel advice is common; guidance on when frugality stops being smart for aging bodies is not. This is a silent tension for senior solo travelers. Answer: Here’s the truth: saving money is never worth arriving exhausted, stressed, or injured. As we get older, comfort becomes a strategy, not a luxury. I ask myself one simple question: Will this choice give me more energy tomorrow? If the answer...
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Today, we're heading to Cartagena, Colombia —a vibrant and touristy Caribbean city bursting with color, music, and history. It's one of the most popular destinations on South America's northern coast — and I'll share my experiences and a few lessons learned for solo travelers like you. Get ready to immerse yourself in a culture that's as lively as it is rich.
Let's start with the setting.
Cartagena's Walled City — La Ciudad Amurallada — is the heart of it all. I recommend exploring early in the morning or late in the afternoon to avoid the crowds and the heat. You can pick up a free map at your hostel or a tourist stand.
Inside the walls, you'll find cobblestone streets, cannons facing the sea, and church courtyards like San Pedro Claver, where you can sit in the shade and people-watch.
For sunset, head to the top of the wall near Café del Mar — it's a magical view of the Caribbean, and you'll see locals and travelers gathered for that golden glow.
I stayed in the Getsemaní neighborhood, at Viajero Hostel, a lively, social spot just outside the walled city. It had a tiny rooftop pool — perfect for cooling off in Cartagena's humidity — and a friendly mix of travelers.
My room was simple, a six-bed dorm, stuffy and windowless, but safe and well-located. The price? About $17 a night — great value for budget-minded travelers.
Getsemaní itself is known for its street art and music. Don't miss Calle de la Sierpe, where colorful murals tell stories of resistance and community. The nightlife here is vibrant — karaoke, fireworks, and salsa music spill into the streets. But if you're not a night owl, bring earplugs and enjoy it from a distance.
One day, I took a day trip to Playa Tranquila on Barú Island, about an hour and a half from the city. It started rough — a confusing pickup process, language barriers, and a lot of waiting around, like for two hours. I felt a bit like a piece of furniture being moved from one driver to another.
Eventually, things smoothed out. I met some friendly couples from Mexico and Colombia. The weather turned rainy, and we all got soaked, but when the sun came out, it was worth it.
At Playa Tranquila, the water was calm, the food was fresh — fish, rice, salad, and plantains — and the atmosphere was relaxed. Swimming and snorkeling were okay, though there wasn't much to see underwater. It was a stormy day. Still, it was a lovely escape from the busy city.
Note: Some beaches, such as Bocagrande, are crowded and urban in nature. For a quieter experience, try Castillo Grande or take a guided tour to the nearby fishing villages, such as La Boquilla.
For safety, a few quick reminders:
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Take taxis or ride-shares — don't walk alone at night.
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Avoid hiking solo — especially to places like La Popa Monastery, where you should always take a cab.
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Stay hydrated and take breaks indoors during midday heat.
And remember, Cartagena can feel intense — lots of vendors, noise, and attention — but also warm, welcoming, and full of life.
In the end, Cartagena taught me, Dr. Travelbest, patience, flexibility, and how to stay cool — literally and figuratively.
Would I go again? Maybe, but next time I'd choose my tours more carefully and build in more downtime.
It's hot, touristy, but authentically Caribbean, and for solo women, it's a destination that builds confidence one humid, colorful day at a time.
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Safety: Cartagena is one of Colombia's safest cities for tourists, but it's recommended to stay in well-lit areas and use registered taxis or Uber. For solo senior women, it's advisable to avoid walking alone at night and to stay in well-reviewed accommodations.
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Hydration: Bring a reusable water bottle; it's very humid.
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Money: Use small bills; many shops prefer cash (Colombian pesos).
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Language: Basic Spanish helps, but most tour operators and hotel staff speak English.
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Pacing: Afternoon breaks indoors (12–3 pm) are ideal — locals rest during the heat.
Smart Move and Slip-up pairings
Bring the address of the place you are staying. I got lost in Cartagena and did not have the exact address of my hostel. I knew better, but thought I wouldn't need it. I was mistaken. It would have saved me a lot of stress to have the photo of the address on my phone, rather than what I actually had, which was very little. Having the address on a piece of paper is a smart move. On the other hand, a slip-up would be not having a backup plan if your phone runs out of battery or loses signal.
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