90. When Silence Hurts: The Hidden Impact of Withholding in Parenting
Sometimes Love Isn’t Enough: The Parenting Through Challenges Podcast
Release Date: 12/06/2025
Sometimes Love Isn’t Enough: The Parenting Through Challenges Podcast
Ever feel like you’re drowning in the day-to-day chaos—juggling behaviors, bills, broken systems, and just trying to keep it together? In this heartfelt episode, Angie pulls back the curtain on one of the biggest lies we’ve internalized as parents: that struggle means we’re doing something wrong. But what if… the struggle is actually a signal? What if you’re not stuck, but standing at the edge of your old life, just afraid to step into something new? 💡 In this episode, Angie dives into: Why the discomfort you feel might mean you're outgrowing your current story How...
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In this episode, I share my perspective on the unexpected evolution of a friend. I was asked to record an advanced Human Desing reading for my mentor's program, so I offered her a free Human Design reading. It's not my first time doing a reading... it's part of my coaching practice, and I regularly share insights with others about what I see in their chart. But this time was different. She was ready. She was on the cusp of outgrowing her old story, and perhaps terrified of the unknown of the next story. But she was ready. I'd love your thoughts on this episode, and I'd love...
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So, you created the vision. You felt the pull of your future memory. You even wrote the goal that felt big, bold… maybe even impossible. Now what? In this week’s episode, I’m walking you through what actually bridges the gap between inspiration and real transformation—and spoiler: it’s not more planning. It’s rewriting the narrative you’re living inside. We explore: Why most goals fall flat—even if they’re aligned The sneaky stories that keep you looping in old patterns How to consciously choose a new story that matches your vision What Human Design can reveal about...
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In this powerful New Year episode, Angie invites you to ditch the typical resolutions and dream way bigger—like wild, soul-stirring, “I-have-no-idea-how-this-could-happen” kind of goals. Because sometimes, the life you’re meant to create is the one you’ve been too scared to name. Drawing from the visionary energy of Gate 11—the gate of ideas and possibility—Angie shares how to use your Human Design chart to anchor those dreams in your actual energetic wiring, so you’re not just chasing change… you're building it from alignment. You’ll hear how “impossible” goals have...
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Holidays can be stressful for many of us - traveling, weather, cooking, in-laws, extended family, expectations, trauma, and so much more. For me, I let fear dictate my holidays for years... and it shifted how I showed up for my kids. Join me for this powerfully personal episode. About your host, Angie Grandt – Generational Healing Specialist Angie Grandt is a parent coach, on a mission to break cycles of trauma. She is also a Quantum Human DesignTM Specialist, Quantum Alignment System certified, Certified Family & Relationship Coach & an early intervention speech...
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Sometimes, the loudest wounds come from what’s not said. In this episode of Sometimes Love Isn’t Enough, Angie shares a deeply personal reflection on her own go-to parenting pattern: silence. If you grew up learning to keep the peace or “freeze out” conflict, you may recognize yourself here. Angie unpacks the energetic imprint of going silent on your child—not as punishment, but as self-protection. And she reveals how this well-worn path shaped her relationship with her son, despite her best intentions. This isn’t just about yelling vs. not yelling. It’s about energetic...
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Our personal experiences have such a powerful impact on the parent we are being with our own kids. If we want to really break the cycles that have caused us to be someone we're not, then we MUST heal us first. Join me for this powerful interview with Dina Lobo Lewis as we dig into how our stories about ourselves dance with our parenting, and the choices we get to make to break the cycles. About Dina Lobo Lewis: Empowering leaders to be SEEN, HEARD, and AMPLIFIED in the Era of Individualism. Dina Lobo is a sought-after global speaker and...
info_outlineSometimes, the loudest wounds come from what’s not said. In this episode of Sometimes Love Isn’t Enough, Angie shares a deeply personal reflection on her own go-to parenting pattern: silence.
If you grew up learning to keep the peace or “freeze out” conflict, you may recognize yourself here. Angie unpacks the energetic imprint of going silent on your child—not as punishment, but as self-protection. And she reveals how this well-worn path shaped her relationship with her son, despite her best intentions.
This isn’t just about yelling vs. not yelling. It’s about energetic withdrawal. Emotional disconnection. The unspoken message kids receive when we pull away instead of leaning in.
Drawing from her own journey, the 59/6 channel in Human Design, and the deeper roots of trauma responses, Angie opens a vulnerable and powerful conversation about:
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Why silence isn’t always golden—especially in parenting
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How kids interpret emotional withdrawal
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The internal stories that fuel our need to shut down
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What it looked like to finally break the cycle and reconnect
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The path to safe expression, emotional repair, and conscious connection
If you’ve ever found yourself freezing up, going quiet, or emotionally checking out when things get hard—this episode will hit home in all the right ways.
Because the truth is: silence might feel safe to us... but to our kids, it often feels like abandonment.
✨ The healing starts with awareness. The reconnection starts with us.
About your host, Angie Grandt – Generational Healing Specialist
Angie Grandt is a Generational Healing Specialist and parent coach helping overwhelmed parents break generational cycles and reconnect with their kids. She’s a Quantum Human Design™ Specialist, trauma-informed family coach, early intervention speech therapist, and a bio, adoptive, and former foster parent who gets the real-life struggles families face.
Angie blends Human Design, trauma-aware tools, mindset work, and practical coaching to help parents stop reacting, start connecting, and feel confident again—especially with kids who are “more.”
Learn more or book a session: angiegrandt.com
Follow Angie: @connectedparentswithangie