Ep. 85: The Habit That’s Quietly Destroying Independent Play
Release Date: 04/24/2026
The Art of Playful Parenting
In this episode, Jill takes a look at some of the parenting advice many of us grew up hearing and why it may not hold up when viewed through a modern understanding of child development. She unpacks the assumptions behind these common phrases and offers a more nuanced, connection-based perspective. This conversation invites parents to move beyond rigid rules and toward curiosity, helping them better understand what may be driving their child's behavior and respond with greater confidence and compassion. Want to work with Jill privately? The Playful Parenting Membership is HERE! You’ll learn...
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In this episode, Jill explores the deeply tender question many parents quietly carry: “Am I really cut out for this?” She unpacks a conversation with a client whose highly energetic, sensory-seeking son feels like the opposite of her own nervous system, and how that mismatch can leave parents feeling overwhelmed and unsure of themselves. This episode is a must-listen for parents navigating similar dynamics, reminding listeners that difference is not dysfunction, and that connection is built through understanding, not sameness. Want to work with Jill privately? The Playful Parenting...
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On today’s episode, Jill is joined by Jenny Friedman, a pediatric nutrition expert and mom of three boys to discuss a topic that so many parents struggle with: extreme picky eating and feeding challenges. They discuss how picky eating can be both normal developmental behavior and potentially indicate underlying issues. Jenny shares strategies Jenny emphasized the importance of parents trusting their instincts and seeking help when needed, while also sharing practical tips about managing snacks versus meals and the challenges of balancing work and parenting responsibilities. The conversation...
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In honor of Screen-Free Week, Jill breaks down how families gradually end up relying on screens more than they intended and why it can start to feel like the only thing that works. In this episode, she shares a realistic, non-shaming approach to reducing screen dependence by focusing on what matters most: creating more opportunities for play. Jill discusses how to evaluate screen time beyond just the number of minutes, why content and device type matter, how screens impact behavior and independent play, and where to start if you want to make changes without going “all or nothing.” Get your...
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Parenting more than one child quickly shows just how different kids can be. In this episode, Jill explores what it looks like to raise children with different needs, routines, personalities, and play styles, and why it can feel so challenging. She shares from her own experience navigating these differences with her daughters, and unpacks our natural tendency to compare, why some dynamics feel easier than others, and how to shift toward deeper understanding and connection. You’ll walk away with a more grounded perspective and simple, practical ways to support each child as their own unique...
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In this episode of The Art of Playful Parenting, Jill explores a subtle but common habit that can unintentionally disrupt independent play. Through a client story and a look at how young children's natural play and movement patterns, she reframes what it really means when a child walks away from an activity. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the cyclical nature of play and how small shifts, like leaving materials out a little longer, can support longer, more connected independent play. Ready to see more independent play? This totally free resource that will help you get more time...
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In this episode, Jill sits down with Lynn Hazan Bush, a mom of three, former blogger, and certified health coach behind Shuva Wellness, a nervous system–informed coaching practice for overwhelmed mothers. They talk through maternal mental and physical health, along with simple, actionable ways to feel better, build supportive habits, and prioritize yourself without adding overwhelm to your life. It’s an honest, grounding conversation for any mom who wants to take better care of herself in a way that actually feels doable. Learn more about how to work with Lynn and Shuva Wellness . Follow...
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If your child’s play space suddenly feels like it’s not working anymore, this episode is for you. I’m breaking down why that happens as kids move from baby to toddler, what signs to look for, and how to make simple changes that can completely shift how your child plays. I’m also sharing a couple real client examples to show how small, intentional updates can make a big difference. Want to book your playroom revamp consultation? Want to work with Jill privately? The Playful Parenting Membership is HERE! You’ll learn about foundational developmental concepts and age-appropriate play...
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In this episode, Jill shares how understanding your child’s sensory needs can transform afterschool play. She explores why some children struggle to regulate with traditional “calming” sensory activities, and how different nervous systems require different kinds of input. Drawing from her experience as a play expert and early childhood educator, and as a mom, she offers a new lens on afterschool meltdowns and what may actually be underneath them. Want a FREE list of afterschool play prompts? Want to work with Jill privately? The Playful Parenting Membership is HERE! You’ll learn...
info_outlineIn this episode of The Art of Playful Parenting, Jill explores a subtle but common habit that can unintentionally disrupt independent play. Through a client story and a look at how young children's natural play and movement patterns, she reframes what it really means when a child walks away from an activity. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the cyclical nature of play and how small shifts, like leaving materials out a little longer, can support longer, more connected independent play.
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