How to Preserve a Loved One's Legacy Using Modern Technology
Release Date: 05/26/2026
Ask Better Questions to Advocate for Your Aging Parent
Lighting the Path
How do you advocate for an aging parent while making sure their voice remains at the center of the conversation? In this episode of Lighting the Path, guest Tara Shuler explores the conversations that come with supporting a parent through the later years of life. From healthcare appointments to family decisions, Tara shares ways to clarify goals, ask purposeful questions, and keep difficult discussions focused. Drawing on her experience as a corporate trainer and personal caregiver for her mom, Tara discusses how to communicate with your parent, their healthcare team, and other people...
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How to Be a Better Patient Advocate for Someone You Love
Lighting the Path
What does it mean to advocate for someone you love during a healthcare journey? In this episode of Lighting the Path, Robin Shapiro defines patient advocacy and explores how caregivers can speak up, ask questions, and support the person in their care. Robin and Jerry discuss how healthcare has changed over the years—and why advocacy matters more than ever. She offers practical tips for caregivers, describes signs that it may be time to bring in a professional advocate, and explains why an independent advocate is worth considering. For caregiver checklists, Robin recommends ....
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How to Choose a Healthcare Proxy: Questions to Ask and Conversations to Have
Lighting the Path
Who would speak for you if you experienced a medical emergency and could not make healthcare decisions for yourself? In this episode, Robin Shapiro of Well Said Health joins us to discuss how to choose a healthcare proxy—the person you authorize to make healthcare decisions on your behalf if you lose the ability to communicate or make informed choices. Robin Shapiro is the founder of Well Said Health and a passionate advocate for helping individuals and families communicate clearly about healthcare choices. Robin explains why this is not only an issue for older adults or people with...
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How to Communicate With Compassion in Dementia Care
Lighting the Path
Communicating with a person living with dementia is about far more than choosing the “right” words. In this episode, we welcome back Hollie Lowe, Certified Dementia Practitioner, for a practical and compassionate conversation about using communication to reduce distress, preserve dignity, and strengthen connection. Hollie explains why a caregiver’s body language can be just as important as verbal communication. Facial expression, posture, tone, pace, physical proximity, and the way we approach someone can either help them feel safe—or unintentionally create confusion, resistance, or...
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How to Communicate with Someone with Dementia: What Caregivers Need to Know
Lighting the Path
Dementia affects far more than memory. It can change how a person understands language, finds words, follows a conversation, expresses needs, interprets their surroundings, and connects with the people they love. In this episode of Lighting the Path, we welcome Hollie Lowe, LPC, Director of Education and Family Support Services at the James L. West Center for Dementia Care in Fort Worth, Texas. Hollie is a dementia-care expert and certified grief counseling specialist who helps families and professionals better understand the challenges of dementia. You’ll hear practical communication...
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Be Part of Something Beautiful: Harbor Foundation Butterfly Release Brings Hope to Hospice Families
Lighting the Path
In this episode, we highlight the , a free, family-friendly event that supports hospice patients and their families. Learn how this meaningful gathering brings the community together to honor loved ones, celebrate life, and create moments of hope and healing. We also share how the purchase of butterflies and t-shirts helps fund compassionate care for those navigating end-of-life journeys. The Harbor Foundation supports the community through hardship grants, Bravehearts grief kits for children, and scholarships for high school seniors, nursing students and social work students. The butterfly...
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How to Support Pre-teens Through Loss and Emotional Pain
Lighting the Path
In this episode, we welcome Dr. Jerry Woodbridge, author and advocate for children navigating grief. Drawing from both professional insight and personal experience, Dr. Woodbridge shares a powerful perspective on how pre-teens process loss—and why their grief often goes misunderstood. We explore the unique ways children respond to grief, including behaviors that may surprise caregivers, such as anxiety and panic attacks. Dr. Woodbridge speaks candidly about her own son’s experience after the death of his father, offering a deeply personal look at how grief can manifest when children lack...
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When Grief Won't be Quiet: Practical Ways to Process Loss
Lighting the Path
In this deeply personal and insightful episode, Dr. Jerry L. Woodbridge—educator, author of children’s books on grief, and widow—talks about her journey through loss after the death of her husband in 2004. With honesty and wisdom, Dr. Woodbridge shares how grief showed up in unexpected ways and how she learned to navigate the emotional “buzz” that often accompanies profound loss. One of the most powerful tools in her healing process was writing. She describes her thoughts and emotions as “bees buzzing” in her mind—constant, overwhelming, and difficult to quiet. Through...
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Practical Tips on How to Support Grieving Children
Lighting the Path
In this episode, host Jerry Fenter welcomes Katie Ransdell, a certified child life specialist and founder of Grief Garden, for a thoughtful conversation about supporting children through grief. Katie shares the personal and professional journey that led her to create Grief Garden, a space designed to help children process loss in developmentally appropriate and compassionate ways. Drawing from her expertise, she explains how children of different ages understand death and grief, and why their responses can look very different from those of adults. A key part of Katie’s work is play...
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How to Support Grieving Children; Insights from a Child Life Specialist
Lighting the Path
In this episode, we sit down with child life specialist Katie Ransdell to explore how children experience grief and how hospice professionals can better support them. Katie shares her journey into the field of child life, practical insights for working with grieving children, and meaningful stories from her work that highlight the power of presence and connection. About Our Guest Katie Ransdell is a certified child life specialist dedicated to supporting children and families through serious illness, grief, and loss. Her work focuses on helping children express emotions, understand complex...
info_outlineIn this episode, Dawn Delaloye returns to talk about Reflekta, a digital platform designed to help people preserve memories, stories, and legacies of the people they love. Dawn shares the origin story of Reflekta, the need the founders saw, and the mission that continues to shape their work: giving people a meaningful way to remember, honor, and stay connected with loved ones through story and intentional reflection.
Dawn walks us through how Reflekta works and how individuals and families can use it to collect and store legacy information about loved ones—whether they are still living or have already died. Reflekta allows users to gather photos, videos, audio clips, written stories, and even voice recordings in one secure online space, creating a living archive of memory and meaning that can be revisited and shared over time.
A significant part of the conversation focuses on the role of technology and AI in grief support. Dawn and Jerry acknowledge the concerns many people have about AI and new digital tools, especially when it comes to something as tender as loss and remembrance. Together, they explore how technology, when thoughtfully designed and ethically used, can actually enhance our ability to remember, reflect, and connect across generations—not replace human connection, but support it.
Listeners will hear practical ideas for using Reflekta:
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Inviting family members to share stories and upload media to build a collective memory space
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Recording or uploading voice messages to preserve the unique sound and presence of a loved one
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Using prompts and reflections to help process grief and keep bonds alive through storytelling
If you are supporting someone who is grieving, working in end-of-life care, or simply wanting to be more intentional about preserving your own family’s stories, this episode offers a hopeful look at how digital legacy tools like Reflekta can become part of a compassionate, human-centered approach to grief and remembrance.
You can learn more about Reflekta by visiting their website at Reflekta.ai.
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