Are Your Teachers Doing This Too Much? | EP 295
Release Date: 09/27/2026
Music Lessons and Marketing
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In today’s episode, I talk about something your teachers probably do hundreds of times a week without thinking twice: they stop the music. It looks like good teaching. But after a conversation with Kelly Bennett from Valencia School of Music, I’m starting to wonder if all that stopping and correcting takes away one of the most important skills a young musician can learn, which is how to recover from a mistake and keep going. Key ideas from this episode: In a private lesson, it’s start, stop, correct. In a band, time keeps moving, and that changes how kids learn. Making a mistake and...
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In today’s episode, I sit down with Kelly Bennett, co-owner of Valencia School of Music in Westfield, New Jersey, to talk about something a lot of school owners get wrong about their youngest students. Kelly has been running her Kidzrock program since 2019, and right now she has around 40 kids enrolled with another 15 to 20 sitting on a waitlist. We dig into exactly how she built that, and honestly, about ten minutes into this conversation I was taking notes on my own program. Here’s what we cover: Why Kelly stopped selling music lessons and started selling something completely different...
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In this episode, I talk about the real reason so many students quietly lose interest in lessons, and why it has nothing to do with talent, motivation, or how good the teaching is. I share the story of a student named Marcus, a kid who went from showing off Queen bass lines to watching the clock, and what that pattern taught me about a structural problem hiding inside almost every private lesson. If you’ve ever had a parent tell you their kid “just won’t practice,” this episode gets at what’s actually going on underneath that. Key ideas covered in this episode: Why better teaching,...
info_outlineIn today’s episode, I talk about something your teachers probably do hundreds of times a week without thinking twice: they stop the music. It looks like good teaching. But after a conversation with Kelly Bennett from Valencia School of Music, I’m starting to wonder if all that stopping and correcting takes away one of the most important skills a young musician can learn, which is how to recover from a mistake and keep going.
Key ideas from this episode:
- In a private lesson, it’s start, stop, correct. In a band, time keeps moving, and that changes how kids learn.
- Making a mistake and recovering from one are two very different things, and we underestimate the second one.
- Kids naturally sync up with each other, often without a single word of instruction.
- Repetition through looping can do a lot of the teaching for you.
- Private lessons are valuable, but maybe they shouldn’t be the default starting point for every child.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why a kid who gets lost in a band and jumps back in may be learning more than a kid who gets corrected in a lesson
- What happened when I put two beginner drummers in the same band (I expected a nightmare)
- How "the almighty loop" gets kids locked into the groove without the teacher saying anything
- A simple way to gamify repetition so kids beg to play the same four bars 17 times
- Six things your teachers can try before they stop the music
- A quick listening exercise you can do outside your lesson rooms this week that might change how you see your school