What to Do When Your Child Doubts God (and You Don’t Know the Answer) with Elizabeth Urbanowicz
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Release Date: 10/16/2026
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Our kids are hearing hard questions about God, the Bible, and faith from friends, influencers, and the internet. Elizabeth Urbanowicz, founder of Foundation Worldview, returns to talk about how to make home the safest place to ask them. She and Terrie discuss what to do when your child doubts, when you don’t know the answer, and when someone has twisted Scripture to hurt them.
In this episode:
- Welcome questions: The opposite of faith is unbelief, not questions. Affirm the question before you answer it.
- When you don’t know the answer: Faking an answer trains kids to trust blindly, and that trust eventually moves to a peer, an influencer, or a professor. Instead, research the answer together and teach your kids how to judge whether a source is reliable, including asking AI tools to cite their sources.
- When your child doubts God exists: Doubt can be an invitation to discover whether what they believe is true. Ask questions first to find the root of the doubt. An intellectual objection calls for evidence. A painful experience calls for comfort first.
- When a friend walks away from faith: Help your kids come up with good questions that uncover why the friend left.
- The listening ball activity: A simple game that teaches kids to ask questions and repeat back what they heard before they respond.
- When Scripture has been twisted: Teach kids the whole story of the Bible, how to read a passage in context, and the difference between descriptive and prescriptive passages. Remind them that God takes it seriously when shepherds harm His sheep.
- Literal or symbolic? Using John 6 as the example, Elizabeth explains how genre, context, and the resurrection help kids interpret hard passages.
- Moving past “the Jesus answer”: When kids default to “Jesus,” ask them to explain why.
Timestamps
00:11 Welcome
01:54 New Foundation Worldview resources for kids
02:44 Preparing kids for the questions they’ll face
03:19 Making your home a place that welcomes questions
06:12 What if I don’t know the answer?
08:30 When your child starts doubting God
11:13 Finding the root cause of doubt
14:43 When a friend walks away from faith
18:06 The listening ball activity
20:57 When kids have been taught twisted Scripture
25:54 When church hurt affects your kids
29:55 John 6: Is it literal or symbolic?
33:42 Why Jesus used shocking language
36:00 How a doctoral assignment turned into a family Bible study
37:55 Moving kids past “the Jesus answer”
40:51 Closing
Resources mentioned
- Foundation Worldview: apologetics and biblical worldview curriculum for kids, plus parent training. foundationworldview.com. Use code SPARK10 for 10% off.
- Coming soon from Foundation Worldview: Trusting the Bible (ages 8–12) and Bearing God’s Image (ages 4–7, working title)
- GotQuestions.org: answers to Bible questions, footnoted with Scripture
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