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5 Steps to Overcoming Materialism

Loving and Living the Quran

Release Date: 06/15/2016

Episode 342: Draw Bright Lines by Staying Far [17:32] show art Episode 342: Draw Bright Lines by Staying Far [17:32]

Loving and Living the Quran

In Sura Israa, Allah says: “Do not go near zina. It is an indecency and an evil path.” (17:32) Notice the wording. The verse does not say: Do not commit zina. It says: Do not go near it. The Qur’an addresses pathways, not just final acts. Moral collapse rarely begins with a dramatic decision. It begins with proximity: A look. A message. A private conversation. Secrecy. Rationalization. Allah blocks the first step. Psychology confirms this wisdom. Behaviour follows a loop: Cue → Craving → Behaviour → Reward. When we repeatedly expose ourselves to triggers, desire intensifies and...

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Episode 341: Accept Human Weakness [4:28] show art Episode 341: Accept Human Weakness [4:28]

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In Sura Nisa, the Quran says:  “Allah desires to make things clear to you… and to turn toward you in mercy.” (4:26) “Those who follow desires want you to deviate greatly.” (4:27) “Allah desires to lighten your burden, and the human being was created weak.” (4:28) These verses come in the context of laws around marriage and relationships. We may ask: why so many limits? The Qur’an places two desires side by side: Allah desires clarity, guidance, repentance, and mercy. Those who follow unchecked desires want deviation. Then comes the key: “The human being was created...

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Episode 340 When the Nafs Becomes a God [45:23] show art Episode 340 When the Nafs Becomes a God [45:23]

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Allah says: “Have you considered the one who takes his desire as his god…?” (45:23) After reflecting on nafs al-ammārah, we now encounter a deeper warning: what happens when desire becomes the authority. The word hawā refers to inclination, impulse, passion. Its root carries meanings like falling or being tossed by the wind — something unstable that can lead a person into ruin. Taking desire as a “god” does not mean literal worship. It means: Obeying impulse without question Organizing life around comfort and craving Prioritizing feeling over values Sacrificing long-term...

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Episode 339 Acknowledge Your Vulnerability to Nafs al-Ammārah [12:53] show art Episode 339 Acknowledge Your Vulnerability to Nafs al-Ammārah [12:53]

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After reflecting on our noble potential and innate moral awareness, we now confront a sobering truth: “Indeed the soul is surely commanding toward evil, except those upon whom my Lord has mercy.” (12:53) The Qur’an does not present the human being as one-dimensional. We are dynamic. We contain layers. Among them is nafs al-ammārah — the commanding self. The word ammārah implies something persistent and forceful. It strongly urges. It pushes. It rationalizes. Prophet Yusuf (as), despite his righteousness, says: “I do not absolve myself.” His humility teaches us something profound...

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Episode 338 Your soul already knows [91:7–8] show art Episode 338 Your soul already knows [91:7–8]

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Allah says: “And the soul and Him Who fashioned it, then inspired it with its fujūr and its taqwā.” (91:7–8) After speaking about fitrah, we now turn to another powerful reminder: your soul already carries moral awareness. Allah swears by the nafs — a sign that this is something we must pay close attention to. He “fashioned it” balanced and sound, then inspired it with an awareness of what breaks it (fujūr) and what protects it (taqwā). Fujūr comes from a root meaning to break open — like dawn breaks through darkness. Sin tears through something sacred. Taqwā comes from...

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Episode 337 Recognize Your True Nature [30:30] [Saturday 21] show art Episode 337 Recognize Your True Nature [30:30] [Saturday 21]

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Allah says: “So set your face toward the religion, inclining upright — the fitrah of Allah upon which He created mankind. There is no altering Allah’s creation. That is the upright religion, but most people do not know.” (30:30) Today we reflect on the word fitrah — the innate, primordial nature upon which every human being is created. Fitrah is our original calibration. It is the built-in inclination toward truth, justice, beauty, compassion, and tawḥīd. Before culture shapes us, before society influences us, there is something within us that recognizes what is right. Islam is...

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Episode 336: A Creation Honoured Above the Angels [38:72] show art Episode 336: A Creation Honoured Above the Angels [38:72]

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Allah describes the creation of the human being: “So when I have proportioned him and breathed into him of My Spirit, then fall down before him prostrating.” (38:72) In this verse, Adam (as) is first fashioned from clay, then honoured by the breathing of Allah’s Rūḥ. Scholars clarify that this does not mean humans carry a piece of God. Allah is utterly transcendent. Rather, this attribution is a declaration of dignity — an honour bestowed upon humanity. Like the Ka‘bah is called “My House,” this language elevates what is being described. We are not merely animated clay. We are...

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Episode 335: The Spectrum of the Human Soul [95:4-5] show art Episode 335: The Spectrum of the Human Soul [95:4-5]

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Allah tells us: “Truly We created the human being in the most beautiful stature (ahsanu taqwīm). Then We cast him to the lowest of the low.” (95:4–5) These verses outline the full spectrum of the human condition. The word taqwīm comes from qawwama — to shape, form, arrange in balance. Scholars explain that ahsanu taqwīmrefers not only to our outward form, but to our inner potential — harmony, balance, moral and spiritual beauty. We were created with the capacity for outward and inward excellence. Yet the next verse reminds us that we can also descend to asfala sāfilīn — the...

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Episode 334: Introduction to Ramadan Reflections 2026: Nurturing the Inner Moral Compass show art Episode 334: Introduction to Ramadan Reflections 2026: Nurturing the Inner Moral Compass

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Many of us are watching the state of the world with heavy hearts. We see cruelty, dehumanization, and moral numbness — and we ask: How can human beings do this? Where is their conscience? The Qur’an reminds us that moral collapse does not happen overnight. It is rarely one dramatic moment. It is a gradual process — a slow silencing of the inner voice that once made wrongdoing uncomfortable. This Ramadan, we begin a journey to understand that process — not to judge others, but to guard ourselves. Allah speaks of the nafs al-lawwāmah — the self-reproaching soul — so important that...

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Episode 333: Lecture 10 M2025: Seeking help through Salaat show art Episode 333: Lecture 10 M2025: Seeking help through Salaat

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[Muharram 2025 Series:  Holding On to Faith When the World Falls Apart Lessons in Resilience and Resistance from Imam Hussain [as] and Bibi Zainab[as] M1447/2025]   In this episode, we discuss the importance of Salaat as a tool of strength, success and discipline. We discuss the superpowers of salaat and how we can begin to become more mindful of our prayers   For questions and or comments related to this content, please email livingthequran786@gmail.com Please visit for more resources on practical spirituality. Please consider subscribing and leaving a rating & review on...

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The Quran asks man to reflect on this question: "O man! What has beguiled you from your Lord, the Gracious One?" (Chapter 82:6)

Inspired by this question, lets reflect on the many things that distract us from the Path to Allah and from our main purpose in life, which is reaching our full potential. In fact, modern life is so full of distractions that it is hard for us to focus on anything at all. We seem to be running in all directions, having lost sight of what our true priorities are.

In this session, we talk about the distraction of MATERIALISM, how it distracts us, and why this is a problem.

We talk about 5 steps to start managing the distraction of materialism and get back on track to what will truly bring us the peace and happiness that we crave.