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Episode 223 - The Zegarnik Effect: Engage and Persuade

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Release Date: 01/25/2018

Episode 516 - Persuasion Mistakes, Influence Blunders, and Changes In Selling For 2024 show art Episode 516 - Persuasion Mistakes, Influence Blunders, and Changes In Selling For 2024

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Do you repel people?  Are you being offensive, pushing too hard, or saying the wrong things? As I interview prospects who have said no, the responses I get are interesting.  They told you it was too expensive, and they toldl me I did not trust them.  Statistics show that this is happening to you.  Let’s get into some of these complaints and things you could be doing that repels the people you are contacting.  What are those common persuasion mistakes, and sales blunders costing you money? These mistakes are silent influence killers.  Most people will never say...

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Episode 515 - Who is a better persuader?  Introverts, Extroverts, Ambiverts or Omniverts? show art Episode 515 - Who is a better persuader? Introverts, Extroverts, Ambiverts or Omniverts?

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Who's the better persuader? Is it the lively Extroverts thriving on social energy? Or maybe the contemplative Introverts harnessing the power of introspection? Could it be the versatile Ambiverts, navigating seamlessly between both worlds? Or perhaps the enigmatic Omniverts, fluctuating between the extremes? Think about it - your vote might align with your personality trait. If you're an introvert, you might swear by the subtle power of quiet persuasion, while extroverts might champion the bold approach of their outgoing nature. We break down all the details all this weeks all-new episode! PS...

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Episode 514 - Use Mirror Neurons To Influence Without Detection show art Episode 514 - Use Mirror Neurons To Influence Without Detection

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Twenty years ago, a team led by Giacomo Rizzolatti at the University of Parma in Italy made a radical discovery: mirror neurons.  These specialized brain cells were found in Macaque Monkeys and would activate when the monkey performed an action and when it observed another monkey performing the same action. You can create more engaging, relatable, and persuasive sales interactions by understanding and using mirror neurons.  Want to discover additional ways to get your prospect’s mirror neurons to fire on command?  Join me for this week’s podcast on Use Mirror Neurons To...

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Episode 513 - Are You A Master Manipulator? show art Episode 513 - Are You A Master Manipulator?

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Recognizing manipulation can be easy to identify - if you know the signs.  Listen to this episode too learn about some indicators that may indicate you are being manipulated. So, how do you know if you are being manipulated?  Why do people manipulate?  How do you handle a manipulator?  Join me for this week’s podcast on Are You A Master Manipulator? What is your Presentaion IQ? Find out for FREE

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Episode 512 - The Fake News of Persuasion And Sales show art Episode 512 - The Fake News of Persuasion And Sales

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There is a big difference between a genuine question of concern and an “I’m done with you” objection. Is it a sign of interest or resistance? That is the key question. When your prospect presents every objection in the book, such outright resistance should be a red flag to you. In other words, you are probably going down the wrong road by not properly reading your prospect. What this person is really saying is: “Go away. I have heard enough. I don’t see where or how this can help me.”  Great persuaders will always have fewer objections to handle than old-style persuaders will....

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Episode 511 -How Weather Affects Your Prospect’s Mood and Buying Desire - Using Meteoropathy show art Episode 511 -How Weather Affects Your Prospect’s Mood and Buying Desire - Using Meteoropathy

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Using meteoropathy (weather sensitivity) as a sales tool involves understanding and leveraging the impact of weather on individuals' moods, behaviors, and purchasing decisions.    Moods affect our thinking, judgment, and willingness to say yes. When the person you are trying to persuade is in a good mood, they are more likely to accept your offer. The opposite is also true. If they're not in a good mood, chances are much higher they won't bite. This is a huge advantage to you when it comes to persuasion. Not everyone is affected by the weather, however every influence tool you can...

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Episode 510 - How To Adjust Your Voice For Maximum Influence show art Episode 510 - How To Adjust Your Voice For Maximum Influence

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Voice plays a critical role in influence.  How we say the words we choose is just as important as the words themselves. Our voice is a powerful instrument that can motivate the troops or lull them to sleep. There is a vast difference between presenting and persuading, informing and influencing, and communicating and convincing. What are the other areas of vocal variety or paralinguistics?  There still is another 3 critical areas of adapting your voice to become more persuasive.  Join me for this week’s podcast on How To Adjust Your Voice For Maximum Influence.  Discover...

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Episode 509 - Melting the ICE of Resistance show art Episode 509 - Melting the ICE of Resistance

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Dealing with a manager who won’t give you the time of day and is distant can be challenging, but there are always tools you can use to improve the situation and create a more positive working relationship. On this episdode we will discuss some techniques to consider. It's important to remember that you may not be able to change your manager's behavior immediately, but you can control how you respond to it. Sometimes, we can’t control a prospect who is resistant, a resistant manager, or a customer who is being indifferent.  How can you melt that frigid, cold ice of resistance from...

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Episode 508 - Proven Ways To Get More Referrals – Even Without Asking show art Episode 508 - Proven Ways To Get More Referrals – Even Without Asking

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It is no secret that the easiest person to influence is someone referred or recommended to you or your company.  The reality is that most of your business sales should be based on referrals. Here are the 3 best ways to get your prospect to want to give you referrals. Listen to this episode to hear some of the top reasons. You can create a positive experience for your customers by encouraging them to share information about their networks, and give you more recommendations.  Discover 7 other additional ways to increase referrals for your business.  Join me for this week’s...

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Episode 507 - How AI Is Out Persuading Sales People And How To Maximize For Influence show art Episode 507 - How AI Is Out Persuading Sales People And How To Maximize For Influence

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AI (Artificial Intelligence )has the potential to revolutionize the sales process and provide numerous benefits to salespeople. A new study found the AI can persuade a salesperson by almost 82 percent! This study conducted by Swiss and Italian academics revealed that OpenAI’s GPT demonstrates higher persuasive capabilities in debates compared to humans. By leveraging AI tools to automate routine tasks, analyze data, and provide personalized messaging, salespeople can increase efficiency, improve customer service, and ultimately close more deals.  Discover on this week’s podcast...

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Zeigarnik Effect

When we feel we've been left hanging, it drives us crazy! We want to know the end of the story. What is the missing piece? We want our tasks to be completed so we can check them off our list. This is also known as the "Zeigarnik Effect," named after Bluma Zeigarnik, a Russian psychologist. This effect is the tendency we have to remember uncompleted thoughts, ideas, or tasks more than completed ones.

The story goes the Bluma Zeigarnik was sitting in a café in Vienna when she observed that a waiter could remember everything someone had ordered, but once the food was delivered the waiter forgot everything.  This led for her to realize that it is easier to remember everything about an uncompleted task, but once the task is completed the memory will immediately fade. 

That uncompleted task will hold onto our memory, improve the recall and help us remember. We experience intrusive and almost nagging thoughts about a goal or an objective that was left incomplete.  It is built into our psyche to want to finish what we start.

We see the Zeigarnik Effect on the television news and other programs. Right before a commercial break, the newscasters announce some interesting tidbit that will come later in the hour. This piques your interest and, rather than flipping the channel, you stay tuned. Movies and dramas on television also leave you hanging in suspense.

By leaving something uncompleted right before the commercial break, the programs draw our attention, keep us involved, and motivate us to continue watching. We don't feel satisfaction until we receive finality, closure, or resolution to the message, our goals, or any aspect of our life.  Incomplete tasks trigger thoughts. The thoughts of the incomplete task trigger more memory retention.  More memory retention triggers anxiety that triggers more thoughts of the uncompleted business.

You also see the Zeigarnik Effect in the courtroom. We already know that people feel more confident and impressed with information they discover for themselves over time. This dictates that persuaders slowly dispel information, rather than dumping large volumes of information all at once. A good lawyer does not disclose everything he knows about the case or the plaintiff during his opening statement. As the trial progresses, the jury can fill in the blanks for themselves with the additional information they gradually receive.

This works much better than dumping all the information on them in the beginning. It holds the jurors' attention longer and gives the message more validity. The jury discovers the answers for themselves, and is more likely to arrive at the desired conclusion.